@@andrearobinson3911❤️❤️ I wish you luck that your child finds her peace whichever direction she goes.
@moonshineblues204 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your story. I'm sorry you are here now and I wish you a brighter journey forward. I feel like the one thing nobody is saying is that all this is really new to modern living and maybe, just maybe, this isn't a one size fits all answer. People range from tomboy to drag queen and trans to gender non conformation and eveything in between--how about we do a lot more research before we offer any permanent fix. 😢
@moonshineblues204 Жыл бұрын
@@andrearobinson3911 outside of just having the actual debate. teach her about how special and magical women are. Teach her about the divine feminine. Have a talk with her and the family album about women in your family. My daughter, 13, was leaning that way and I started having girls only family events and little mysterious moments she and I shared. I pray your daughter will enjoy the bond between you and will revel in being blessed to be the gateway to life.
@Digitalhunny Жыл бұрын
Does KZbin hide your channel? Why TF did it take them _so_ long to recommend you to me? We _need_ to complain! "Um, KZbin? Yeah, get me your manager... NOW!" Think that'll work? Cause, _I_ hear it does wonders for some people? However, I'm not so sure. 🤣🤣 Thanks for the great content. Apparently, I've gotta whole lot of content to ketchup on.
@Mrcleansoclean Жыл бұрын
Hello ma’am. Just so you know the reason your face looks like that is because of big pharma. Men who inject testosterone also develop faces like that. You are appropriating male likeness and being a man is a real experience you will never ever experience. You’re straight up in blackface and it’s disgusting
@emmapeel8163 Жыл бұрын
"at 13, it seemed so magical.. i trusted them, it felt like a miracle all the bad things would change.." Children can NOT consent.
@Iwoasasaned Жыл бұрын
🔥
@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer Жыл бұрын
What doesn't feel magical to 13 year olds?
@teijaflink2226 Жыл бұрын
Just that comment shows that children don't really understand and because of it can't consent.
@pfeenxh Жыл бұрын
Well her mother bought the koolaid and signed on the dotted line. Parents need to make better decisions, 18 is when a child becomes an adult make them wait
@des1510 Жыл бұрын
👍
@amandagrimes4138 Жыл бұрын
When I transitioned 38 years ago the very first thing the doctors said to me at the gender specialist was "We cannot make you a woman, we can make you look like one but that is where it ends". This was something I was fully aware of so it was never a shock. Understanding your condition is the first and most vital step achieving a sense of peace with mental state. When did they start actively lying to patients?
@cyberspace7208 Жыл бұрын
You had real doctors who operated in reality
@БорянаЦенева Жыл бұрын
I hope you're not using female only spaces. It's so offensive when men try to put on womanface.
@Eragarev Жыл бұрын
As soon as it became a political ideology to make sure that transwomen never have to think about their original biology, it became mandatory to lie to them. Being honest with them is considered bigotry, so this is what they think the approach should be now. They think if they can gain enough control over culture, they can make it so that nobody ever has to face the actual damage being done. That's why they are so aggressive. That's why they hate Brianna telling her story.
@khmanuel Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear how badly this went for you.
@Yo.222 Жыл бұрын
It’s the Law makers fault , because people can do million horrible things if you don’t stop them or have restricted 🚫 laws ..
@Dr3Mc3Ninja Жыл бұрын
Asking a child, "Do you feel any discomfort about your gender?" Is insane. What does that even mean? Most females feel alienated from their body as it changes. They don't like being s3xu4lised by grown men. They hate the external pressure placed on them to conform or reject societal expectations of what a woman should do and look like. Discomfort with your body and gender expression is the standard state of being as a female teen. I imagine males go through shame with their body, too.
@emanymton713 Жыл бұрын
Not often to the same extremes as females but of course especially during puberty males also experience conflicting emotions about how their bodies are developing. That’s just a normal part of life.
@kellysouter4381 Жыл бұрын
Grown men need to grow up and leave young girls alone. I remember that and wearing only big baggy clothes for years.
@meganashlea Жыл бұрын
@@kellysouter4381same! At 39 I still prefer baggy clothes for an everyday outfit. I’ll get more dressed up if I have to go somewhere special but HATE the attention it draws 🥴
@tubermind Жыл бұрын
It was the case with me that I hated being leered at by men as a teen. Creepy to say the least. Fortunately MOST males I encountered as a teen were mature, respectful and not interested in having inappropriate feelings and relationships with young teens. But the ones who were that way stand out in my memory as alarming and plain creepy, like the guy in the trenchcoat on the bus that flashed his uncovered genitals; or the creepy minister in our church. These people were about 3% of all the males I encountered in ordinary life, but their impact was unforgettably negative. What they fed their minds produced their actions.
@trixmania Жыл бұрын
Even more asking a 2 yr old. It needs to be stopped. At 2 yrs old, my kid just wanted toys, food and a place to sleep (clothes optional). The boys/girls germs dont start till primary. If u watch drag queens in front of a child, they copy them. Thats how they learn. Its all adult led, not childled.
@angel5423 Жыл бұрын
The doctor telling her to use the dilation as a pleasurable experience after traumatizing her pelvic floor and not even checking on her is soo disturbing to me
@personincognito3989 Жыл бұрын
Deeply disturbing
@jonsmum5552 Жыл бұрын
I agree! After giving birth or any gynae procedure any woman knows how tender it is down there, but it doesn’t last. For these men undergoing major surgery it’s not a few days or week’s discomfort it’s a lifetime of hospital visits and discomfort for life.
@megsley Жыл бұрын
you can't convince me some of these doctors don't have creepy fetishes when it comes to this stuff.
@babbezilla Жыл бұрын
And encouraged to have intercourse! inside a wound! These docs are sick
@SP-rk9ht Жыл бұрын
Can you imagine cutting off penis and testicles, drilling a hole in the pelvis, and then than thinking this will result in a sexually functional male adult. That's just absolutely insane.
@prunabluepepper Жыл бұрын
What bugs me most, is that apparently it's not an option to just have your body as it is and accept it no matter how you live your life socially. Body mutilation should not need to be the answer to be free.
@PossibleBat Жыл бұрын
In my opinion, I think transhumanism is the big culprit here. We are living in a time where stuff like artificial organs are being developed. Artificial limbs, proesthetics, genetic editing…. Soon people will be more "cyborg" (it sounds crazy but this will happen, half organic half machine is real) there will be a divide. Those who want organic humans to be preserved, and those who are transhumanist, who believe organic life will not "hold us back anymore". It’s both scary and hopeful. We can cure cancer, and other terrible conditions, lengthen the lives of sick people and help erase pain. But we will lose ourselves in the process. How long until society is divided by organic people who where born organically, and genetically edited people? Like the two chimera Chinese twins who a doctors ILLEGALLY experimented on to make them IMMUNE to HIV. We will see with time, but, doesn’t look good.
@teddiiursula Жыл бұрын
I noticed that theres alyways comments about "looking better" and theyre coming from older people. Its like theres an element of projection, an "i wish i did this earlier, so you have to do it to pass better than i did at your age"
@kellysouter4381 Жыл бұрын
Mental ailments are healed by psychologists, not surgeons.
@swells911 Жыл бұрын
I agree. It's very sad really.
@DanielleStarry Жыл бұрын
@@teddiiursula and it's never trans men saying it, either :-?
@BuuWaterloo Жыл бұрын
Imagine telling a 13yo about "low livido" when they're not even sexually active, and expecting them to understand what that entails for the rest of their lives. This is absolutely nuts on so many levels.
@UwUImShioАй бұрын
What's wrong with low libido?
@bugkohl3292Ай бұрын
@@UwUImShio If it is naturally low for someone, nothing. If it is low as a result of them being given hormones/puberty blockers while they are a minor, everything. They cannot consent. Children do not understand what low libido fully even means. Are you okay with chemically castrating children?
@michellerogers4877 Жыл бұрын
I saw her on Candace Owens and my heart broke for her and still does. These stories are important because so many “activists” spew ignorance!
@Desaundrea Жыл бұрын
I wanted to invest in her story emotionally but Candace had too many ads! 😑 I’m glad I get to get what I was looking for from Marcus 🥹💯 That said I feel for her. She passes now but will never exper a sexual feeling or experience 😔
@paultoseland9524 Жыл бұрын
I was so worried about Briana after the Candace interview, I'm glad she seems to be doing ok
@champigranja1179 Жыл бұрын
Trans activists prefer to ignore these stories because they debunk their lies.
@nickname2935 Жыл бұрын
@gissellest333 Candace can be nasty, but she did great on Briana. Very professional, very tender, very empathetic...perfect take.
@HadassaMoon144 Жыл бұрын
Candace is too wishy-washy regardless. I’m not supporting someone like that even if they hit right once and a while.
@katdog221 Жыл бұрын
It’s not a vagina. It is an open wound prone to infection and malfunction. You are perfect the way you are . Please don’t mutilate your body trying to achieve happiness. Happiness has to come from within .
@decebaltrandafir3 ай бұрын
Is not the same thing with hormons? If i were trans i would not do none of these and woul find a way to make peace with me. Cross gressing and long hair is fine,i guess...but moving foward to hormons is not a good and health way. I am part of lgbt community and i had stuggles of my own but eventualy i made peace with me.
@crystalvulpine23142 ай бұрын
Some people need to feel like they have one, and that's the best we can do for them.
@crystalvulpine23142 ай бұрын
@decebaltrandafir That is not trans, don't listen to all the absurd queer theory and social constructivism. All they do is reinforce sexism. Some people are messed up so bad that they can't function without HRT and often surgeries. This seems to happen prenatally and is a lifelong disorder. We don't have a way to treat it. Transition is not a very good solution, but it's the best we can do for now. Hormones control quite a bit about how you feel and even your thinking and physical senses, so not changing them is just a route to a miserable existence that will likely end with suicide. In some cases, nothing is enough, and many of these people end their lives like people with any other chronic illness. It's a tragic situation and it enrages me to see it celebrated.
@hllyenaylleth95762 ай бұрын
@@crystalvulpine2314 it's not through. They can make peace with what they have
@UwUImShioАй бұрын
So a vagina
@L3ttucePr3y Жыл бұрын
This is gonna sound messed up... but all of these fast-tracked gender affirming surgeries on such young ppl reminds me of the lobotomy craze by the medical industry in the early 1940s. It was also a harmful, irreversible physical procedure that increased dramatically as a way to fix mental illness. Oddly enough, a large number of patients were gay men. There are a lot of parallels here when you really think about it.
@khmanuel Жыл бұрын
Don't forget multiple personality disorder in the 1990s. It truly is junk science.
@Meleena2218 Жыл бұрын
my first thoughts too, but i think more with the Nazi$. they didn't go after Jewish people first, they went after the mentally unwell and homosexuals and they also did a lot of those experiments during their time. a really gross and horrible part of history.
@silaslizzie43 Жыл бұрын
MPD didn't result in body parts being chopped off.@@khmanuel
@ivanaandric570311 ай бұрын
You don't sound mesesed up.. THEY DO!!! Since when did castrating kids became popular again!!!
@PungiFungi11 ай бұрын
@@silaslizzie43 , but circumcision and female genital mutilation does. It is interesting to see how one would rationalize and justify something even though most other people tell them it's wrong. I can see a lot of people object to transitioning because it cuts off body parts but defend circumcision and/or FGM because it is "different". and not the same.
@Valley_Girl Жыл бұрын
All young boys who want to do surgery should listen to this and understand that they will be medicalized for their entire lives.
@starstorm1267 Жыл бұрын
Same for young girls. All young people need to listen to this before making such drastic, life-changing decisions like this.
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
this is something made aware to trans people. thanks for amplifying it.,
@ls-l15184 ай бұрын
@@VioletJewel1729You are being told, you will have no sex lust, be sterile, get no orgasme, have early osteoporosis, have heaps of surgical mishaps, a wound between your legs that wants to close every day? They tell you that?
@tubermind Жыл бұрын
To a child, if they are told a girl can be a boy and a boy can be a girl - they believe it. It's not true. It's a lie. Your sex is your sex and it's not possible to truly transition TO another one. Lying to children is deeply immoral.
@fafnyrslair Жыл бұрын
I also think that we are explaining it completely wrong to children. We're explaining it as if they're both completely mutually equal. Not you can stay your current gender or medically transition, but we're wording it as if you can just magically grow up to be a man or a woman
@tubermind Жыл бұрын
@@fafnyrslair That's a "conversation" children don't need to have as any dysphoria usually resolves itself after puberty. Having that conversation at all is due to activists having gotten control of part of the Department of Education to push and promote theories they embrace.
@thickfitsteph Жыл бұрын
They do not and never will understand the repercussions at that age!!! They can't mentally grasped what they are doing!!! This is medical malpractice 👺👺
@bastardizedcockjockey947 Жыл бұрын
@@tubermind Perfectly said about the immorality of lying to children.
@emmy-kz1pj Жыл бұрын
@@tubermindunfortunately there is some need to now because unfortunately your child comes home from school saying things like "little James might actually be a girl because he acts like a girl" and "Sophie might be a boy because she wears the boys uniform". So then we have to try to undo this strange thinking. I explain to our daughter that I used to like all boy things and that's fine, it's called a tomboy. Some tomboys even say that they wish they were a boy because they like all the boys things so much. I explain that there's girly girls and boyish girls and boyish boys and girly boys
@azilgaard Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very informative video. As a biological (so called cis) woman two things stand out to me here: 1) About trans-women feeling like they can’t get enough surgeries: Part of going through female puberty and becoming a woman is coming to terms with the fact that you’re *not* turning into Barbie. Beauty is especially highly valued in women so of course we all believe we’re going to have big breasts and look like a super model. It does hurt when that doesn’t happen. It seems to me that a lot of trans-women go overboard with their femininity because they keep thinking they’re going to be drop dead gorgeous - the epitome of female beauty. Transitioning from male to female should include learning to accept a more mediocre appearance because that’s what going through female puberty encompasses for the vast majority of us. 2) If the vagina is created taking tissue from the stomach and placing it in a wound in another part of the body how in the world can anybody think you’re ever going to get sexual pleasure out of putting something into that wound? Furthermore, speaking for myself, the clitoris is far more valuable than the vagina when it comes to that kind of pleasure. It just doesn’t make any sense to me.
@kopykat6843 Жыл бұрын
Further proof to me that these butchers wouldn't know a vagina if it was three feet tall and staring them in the face. Virtually every woman I know says the same as you about the clitoris. Hell it's more recent info that the g spot is the clitoris and that the clitoris isn't some tiny nub only. That these "professionals" believe stomach skin, leg skin, colon skin, is the same as the inner walls of the canal is insane. How do they think it will stretch as a vagina would.... Don't even need to go to school to know skin from a arm or chest doesn't just stretch and retract on a whim. How they can't fathom the muscles that during the canal..... They shouldn't have there license simply because they have clearly failed middle school anatomy let alone med school.
@jennavonkramm Жыл бұрын
Exactly! With all of today's medical advances, they cannot create a clitoris. It is impossible. Sure, they can create a neo-vagina from penile tissue but there is no way they can create a neo-clitoris.
@dymondlyfe1603 Жыл бұрын
1) You are not "cis", you are a WOMAN. Don't let anyone label you. 2) What these doctors are creating are SORES, not vaginas!
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
a lot of vaginoplasties are successful (different kinds, though). of course, penile inversion is the one with the best success rate.
@PatriciaAkinyombo11 ай бұрын
Sis me neither. It is the most foolish thing I’ve ever heard of. No clitoris and part of ur intestines formed into a pocket and for what? Just use ur back door
@k.p.5521 Жыл бұрын
When Briana started talking about her vaginoplasty experience, I was absolutely terrified. It’s so sick and twisted that these “doctors” don’t tell their patients about all the complications. I’m a biological woman who had two cosmetic surgeries and some injectable procedures done and I can’t even imagine hot it feels to have such severe complications. My heart goes out to Briana, she is a very beautiful and strong person and I wish her all the best ❤️ Btw, big shout out to Marcus for giving his platform to discuss such important issues
@Ciara-ASMR Жыл бұрын
Yes! I almost couldn't listen. It gave me a visceral feeling of discomfort. I made myself listen because I want to be armed with the facts, but good god, what a nightmare experience for her, and an avoidable one at that.
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
usually they do
@chromosoulmagic4 ай бұрын
Some people get bad doctors. My surgeon is highly competent and told me the truth at all times. My psychologist was the one to help understand that I would be trans forever, rather than"becoming a woman". The psychologist also said surgery was unnecessary; accepting myself was the real comfort. For me it was both together that got me to this place of peace. During dilating, when I choose to masturbate, I get the powerful orgasms I used to only dream of. It's my body and I take care of it. I can also thank all the women that demanded respect in healthcare; their constant activism toward proper medical care for women created the conditions that has made it possible for me to be happier. I am eternally grateful to women.
@justgrowthehellup6598 Жыл бұрын
They need to concentrate on working with the mind to match the physical body, not mutilating the body to match the mind. A real vagina is an intricate self-lubricating, self-cleaning organ, the gateway to the rest of the female reproductive system. The body perceives a surgically created faux vagina as no more than an open wound, which it then diligently sets about trying to heal. The people who are peddling this lie as a solution to these confused people's problems should all be imprisoned. My heart goes out to Briana. I am so sorry for all the pain you have endured. You seem like a really sweet person and I wish you all possible happiness and peace in your future.
@Gremmy2 Жыл бұрын
So true
@tatinightmare11 ай бұрын
Right a real vagina is a work of art the universe created, it’s got so much going on. Essentially creating a tube is never ever going to be anything close to a real vagina.
@boosqueezy241810 ай бұрын
exactly!!!!
@Mr_user_10007 ай бұрын
For those who are truly trans it may not be possible to change the mind*. In those cases, some sort of transition would be best. Like people with body dysmorphia, most of them improve when they cut out limbs, etc. Whatever works for them. * there's research that indicates morphological differences in the brain, another study found possible genetic causes
@crystalvulpine23142 ай бұрын
But changing the mind in that manner is impossible as of now. I would love to see it become possible, but it is not.
@reynamc8880 Жыл бұрын
There is no way people can tell me this is worth it
@thatrandomproject6652 Жыл бұрын
It’s worth it. I’m an alien
@linusgustafsson2629 Жыл бұрын
I think it may only be worth it if you have gender dysphoria and hate your body. And only if you are like 20+ and still hate it. At younger ages you could grow out of it, and if you don't have it at all then it is just a fad to be transgender.
@ΓιώργοςΔειρμεντζόγλου-σ9ε Жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomproject6652what kind? There are so many species.😂😂😂😂😂
@yungahungatv8049 Жыл бұрын
Of course this isn't 🙄
@queeflover Жыл бұрын
before replying to this comment i wanna clarify that i do not think kids can consent to transition. however, you, as someone who has not experienced gender dysphoria, does not know the mental pain people who have experienced it go through. neither can i, as a biological woman. but i just ask that you try to sympathize with people who have transitioned instead of doubting the severity of their dysphoria and how terrible it can make them feel, causing them to transition. gender dysphoria is serious, and can cause a variety of mental illness, sometimes to the point of SI (su1cIdaI ideation) and/or attempts. if transitioning can ease those feelings for them, then it is definitely worth it. i request that you try to do your research to understand to the best of your ability what trans people are going through, instead of making comments like these.
@nicolecastrogiovanni385 Жыл бұрын
Imagine going through a medical procedure that they say will “ decreased libido” at an age where they barely know anything about sex?! Losing that sensation would be so terrible. 😭
@jeraldinepritchett4727 Жыл бұрын
I thought I was just like an object until my mid to late twenties. And then I found out the hype and what sex was truly about. I could never imagine being that way again, not knowing. Never spoken of that before... They used orgasm for "mania" in woman in past decades, it was a scientific study. And to have that taken away and people saying I "chose this" as a child. Would be awful. I feel so sad for detransitioners, and everyone being lied to for payouts to medical companies. Okay I'm going to end this paper now. Stay well all.
@cindyduncan7049 Жыл бұрын
I'm on meds that takes my libido and ability to "finish" away.😓
@HosCreates Жыл бұрын
better to get them young so they don't know any different .
@rebeccamandabach751711 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, You have a mistake here. It was used for "hysteria" It was described as exhibiting a wide array of symptoms, including anxiety, shortness of breath, fainting, nervousness, sexual desire, insomnia, fluid retention, heaviness in the abdomen, irritability, loss of appetite for food or sex, even sexually forward behavior, and a "tendency to cause trouble for others". I wouldn't really count that as mania.@@jeraldinepritchett4727
@uMaud10 ай бұрын
@@jeraldinepritchett4727 I find your experience interesting, because mine is more of the opposite. I started having sexual desires at a pretty early age (at an age where you don't even know what sex is and can only wonder in confusion what that sensation you feel down there is), and while I'm still a virgin, I WISH I didn't and had never felt any sexual desires. I'm even somewhat happy to have periods, because I know that it's the only five days of the month where I can get a break from my annoyingly high libido constantly distracting me from my daily life. I enjoy, to a certain extent, the pain of cramping, of a headache or of having a slight infection or dryness down there because it finally turns me off. I would love to just be completely asexual.
@dal9893 Жыл бұрын
i would say the main issue is SOCIAL MEDIA. people don’t realize how actually dangerous social media can be!!!!!
@kenmoreSF Жыл бұрын
tell that to Mark Zuckerberg... and he himself has young children. Not just him but greedy people only see dollar signs in each user.
@LB-yg2br Жыл бұрын
It really is the root cause of a lot of nonsense. Sad thing is that we know this. We have studies. We know social media can lead to young kids, especially girls, to discover something that they can use to get clout. There was a minor epidemic of girls having Tourette’s syndrome. They didn’t actually have it though. They convinced themselves they did, convinced their parents, then went to a psychologist who tested them and broke the news that they were fakers. Then magically their symptoms disappeared after they were called out. Teen girls seem to be especially vulnerable to the damages of social media. Look at the massive uptick in depression rates in gen Z since social media has become so ubiquitous. It’s awful.
@a.k.emerson424 Жыл бұрын
Thalates and microplastics are the root cause
@veronikavanquish Жыл бұрын
@a.k.emerson424 what?!
@craftsandstuff3349 Жыл бұрын
It does scream at you.
@itskitty808 Жыл бұрын
Briana, please sue the doctor that did this to you. He not only hurt you, but he gaslit you, lied to you, and then blamed you for the pain and suffering that HE INFLICTED ONTO YOU..
@BiohazardBunney Жыл бұрын
welcome to the new face of doctors in American :/
@thickfitsteph Жыл бұрын
Its time to SUE!!!! This is medical malpractice!!!!
@candideoptimism8775 Жыл бұрын
not like it’s a years old surgery that she agreed and fully consented to. the clause for malpractice has passed by now
@FocusedFighter777 Жыл бұрын
Just like real women get done to.
@thickfitsteph Жыл бұрын
@@candideoptimism8775 You can still sue even years later. All she needs to prove medical malpractice.
@Satanpetx Жыл бұрын
As a gender dysphoric kid(16) i am very happy that I am NOT going through a "gender transition" right now. And that my parents and doctors just let me be. I cant imagine the completions i would have today if i transition a year ago. Although gender dysphoria sucks and i am looking forwards to transition when the time is right. In the mena time, i am just living life as a young man. ( for context since you people are confused, I'm ftm. Not mtf )
@theknightswhosay Жыл бұрын
There are people like you who are happy without surgeries or with just minor cosmetic surgeries. Hopefully you can find yourself. It’s a tough age for a lot of people.
@Satanpetx Жыл бұрын
@theknightswhosay you are right, and I truly do hope that i can make it out without any type of medical intervention. Due to the state of my dysphoria, I fear not. I fear it won't change. We will see or I will.
@PossibleBat Жыл бұрын
I feel like we have given a new name to something that has always existed, which is the period of time in your preteens and early teens of just feeling awkward, out of place, not fitting in with anybody, not having close circle of friends, being uncomfortable with your body… that’s the awful part about puberty. Your hormones are going crazy, developing into what will be your sexual awakening, going from child to "adult". Add that the extreme emphasis on binary gendered norms. And you get a whole lot of confused kids who self-diagnose and believe they will be like that forever. I assure you the 30s change you. You will not be the same person, hopefully you’ll be better, and that’s where most people get stuck, not reaching their maturity and full potential.
@urseeingRED Жыл бұрын
I still suffer from my dysphoria, but I found ways to cope/deal with it. It does get easier. To me, since I've already have current medical issues and been through surgery twice for other issues I have no desire to try to transition, I know how bad it can get when you mess with hormones also since I already have health issues with that. However, if there was a button I could press and magically become a male in the past I DEFINITELY would press it. I learned to accept my body, and actually take better care of it (i would neglect myself since I really hated it.) Won't lie roleplaying, art, and writing was the biggest help.
@sbffsbrarbrr Жыл бұрын
@@PossibleBat And yet there are those who will say the exact opposite.....that gender dysphoria has always existed in large numbers but people just had to live with it. Me, I lean toward the group that claims big pharma and the health care system are making life patients from these deluded children.
@Islandgirl2133 Жыл бұрын
This whole subject is just sad. I was a tomboy growing up. At 63, now. From age 9 on men ogled, people commented… I became self conscious. Didn’t want to show my femininity. Bc, it felt like I was some sort of treat. There are no easy answers. I’m so glad these procedures were not available in my day. I always liked boys, I wasn’t gay. But totally uncomfy with being eye candy. I’m ultra fem now. Really love being a woman. Sometimes things just take a while or lifetime to figure out. Don’t do these surgeries. No, youl never fully be the other sex, it’s impossible.
@fredrickhorn6374 Жыл бұрын
Growing up, I loved to be around Tom Boys. As a guy, the Tom Boys were easy to be around. We both loved sports, etc, Glad everything is going good for you!
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
but you're not trans. some people are. deal with it or don't. no one else in the world cares. trans people exist.
@belindakennedy582811 ай бұрын
A was a tomboy as well,am also 63, I still like power tools and be able to do things that most women find hard like changing a tyre,bulbs, batteries in smoke detectors,gardening and mowing the lawn ,putting a shelf up,decorating,I also love cooking,and keeping a clean house.i don't like dolls I find them creepy,I do love animals especially dogs.
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
@@belindakennedy5828 what does that have to do with transgender men? you're not a man. congratulations.
@Celisar18 ай бұрын
So basically the way men treated you was the problem. I have read and heard that quite often from transgender people. We should rather fix that instead of helping girls change their gender.
@CMDDK Жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking. These doctors are playing God with emotionally vulnerable people and then dropping them if anything bad happens.
@1tommyday Жыл бұрын
I've heard Briannas story before and it's the worst one. She will never have sex or have anything resembling a normal intimate relation ever. They " lost" all of her medical records I swear because they knew they ruined her and there was going to be a lawsuit. Atrocious malpractice I have never heard of anything worse. I grew up in the 80s. Men wore make up and nailpolish and women wore mens suits and ties. No one cared. They were still men and women. Not labeled incessantly. We were breakimg gemder molds and it was fun and no big deal. Im not sure why its going backward now.
@lexiburrows8127 Жыл бұрын
100% correct. I was a teen/young adult going into the '80's too (Glam Metal scene) and it was a great time. The so-called 'Progressives' today have such weird gender-stereotypes that they make their much and erroneously cited '50's ideology (OMG, stop being like a '50's housewife, OMG, that is such '50's toxic masculinity) look positively forward. In fact, the so-called 'Progressives' are taking us back about 100 years. I sometimes have to think, 'Speaking on a political level, did we actually leave the 1930's?'
@knrdvmmlbkkn Жыл бұрын
"She will never have sex" Well, there are many different sexual acts... or so I've heard.
@knrdvmmlbkkn Жыл бұрын
@@jujutrini8412"Briana hasn’t developed (...) not having puberty." Well, that doesn't preclude sexual activity.
@craftsandstuff3349 Жыл бұрын
@@jujutrini8412 rumors!😆
@knrdvmmlbkkn Жыл бұрын
@@jujutrini8412"Some say that (...) have sexual activity." I don't think I've came across that definition before. It doesn't make sense to me.
@mrsz1988 Жыл бұрын
The "vagina" is an open wound. Naturally the body will try to heal itself. That is common sense.
@summerchild_ Жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart to hear stories like this. This is unethical, they are experimenting on people, they are ruining lives. It's heartbreaking
@mht5875 Жыл бұрын
Mengele would be very proud of these "surgeons"
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
most trans people consult lots of different professionals and do years of research before bottom surgery 👍
@charmingsoul8 ай бұрын
It's criminal tbh. They're coercing minors to "consent" by withholding all the info that would make most people back out. Then they fast track it as much as possible so they can't even stop and comprehend the consequences before its too late. It's not a haircut, it's removing the ability to ever have intimacy, ever, for their whole lives. Absolutely criminal. I wish this beautiful person a life full of blessings :( I feel so bad for her
@LARiotGrrl Жыл бұрын
I’m baffled by the fact that all her doctors pushed surgery because “she’s young and will heal so well”, but her body attempting to close off that newly created opening is in actuality her body working quite hard to heal itself! It’s such an error in logic. She is such a brave person and I hope she finds peace in her journey.
@sjm987610 ай бұрын
Right?? How did literal medical doctors not realize this
@thevideoof87956 ай бұрын
Exactly, the surgery is in natural and should not be done,
@UwUImShioАй бұрын
@@thevideoof8795bro what surgery is natural to begin with?
@LittleLisaMa Жыл бұрын
Hearing what Briana went through after bottom surgery was just gut wrenching 😢 What a horrific ordeal to have to go through. Her story is just so important for especially young people to hear when considering medicalizing themselves.
@MichaelYoder1961 Жыл бұрын
Gender dysphonia aside, I think we have to consider sexual orientation and heterosexism. How many people are transitioning because "it's better to be a woman/man than being LGB". As an old, cis gay man, it's disheartening that we don't embrace being gay, bi or lesbian. I wish Briana well.
@ThePeacePlant Жыл бұрын
They also get confused, because their gay and probably like girl things so they misinterpreted that as they are actually Trans
@deltastones6702 Жыл бұрын
There is a third gender. They shouldn’t be trying to conform to the other 2 genders. This is a western phenomena, because the east accepts the third gender, gays and lesbians…queer and cross dressers have existed for millennia and they are normal. They didn’t historically have rights and opportunities. But now they should focus on being their authentic selfs and accept they are the third gender. Eastern religion - there is a prophecy for Kinnar Raj - and that’s what we are seeing queer community being accepted and in leadership and successful roles in society. They need to not conform to being a man or women or straight people - they are different and recognised and need to embrace that.
@jacquelineess1141 Жыл бұрын
Very well said. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being homosexual ffs, we observe this behaviour in Nature too, it is natural and perfectly fine!! I can't believe people feel shame for being gay in friggin 2023. It's nuts!!
@MK-hh1vo Жыл бұрын
"Cis gay" man? Isn't that contradictory? As an older person I'm not up on these current terms.
@Midlife-Adventures Жыл бұрын
There are also all those who are hetro but a little different especially as a child.
@randomtanjnt9441 Жыл бұрын
Briana's courage is heroic. I hope she inspires others like her to be courageous as well. The activists will screech their hate, no doubt, but it falls to us to show the detransitioners that they have our love and support in telling the truth.
@lasurfette7830 Жыл бұрын
I just went through cancer treatments, and based on my experience, it seems that downplaying side effects has become a medical industry norm for newer medicines and protocols.
@emsyvaf Жыл бұрын
Same, and I agree! Currently considering stopping one of my meds because quality of life is important. They seem surprised when u talk about your side effects.
@xxyes8879 Жыл бұрын
I would consider looking for a new oncologist if you dont think they explained the side effects properly, or speaking to them about it. But if you have a life threatening illness like cancer, its different, as they have to weigh up the risk of you having side effects against the risk of you dying sooner. All licensed drugs have a patient leaflet published online, that all people can freely access. You can even access the doctors leaflet too - its all pubically available. However, for cancer when older or established treatments dont work, the only option then is trying experimental ones that have not been licensed yet. And those drugs have only been given to a few hundred people, so the side effects are not known yet. In fact, the side effects of a drug are only known after it has been marketed for many years and given to tens of thousands of people. Thats when statistically significant side effects start to appear. Thats just the way the process is - not because health care workers are purposefully hiding side effects.
@lasurfette7830 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for that intro to the medical industry. I am currently suffering from a side effect of immunotherapy that I was never warned about and that they said is "rare", but I see people talking about it all over social media. My guess is that it was considered "rare" when it was initially given to patients for a few cancers, but now they've expanded the medicine to many different type of cancers and it's affecting way more people. My condition requires daily dosage of steroids because my adrenals can't function properly. I have to take this medicine for the rest of my life. I had Stage 1, which isn't so life threatening. @@xxyes8879
@w1975b Жыл бұрын
I'm just sharing this in the possibility it can help someone. Final decision is for each person to make, of course. Cancer is a symptom to get your attention, since your body can not speak to you with words. You are supposed to figure out what's causing the cancer, whether exposure to toxic chemicals (even living too close to power lines can cause cancer), damage (think skin cancer from too much sun or tanning beds), nutrient deficiencies, etc. There are some people who help you figure this out, and they may not be "medical doctors". But medical doctors are not the end all be all, they don't know everything. Physical injury such as a car accident or acute poisoning which needs stomach pumping, or a heart which needs being shocked back into working, etc, fine! But so many health issues, allopathic is not a good solution. Stephanie keto Person (she has a youtube channel) helped her mother heal from cancer with the keto diet. Iodine kills cancer cells while leaving healthy cells alone. Most of us have heard the claim that marijuana is a miracle. I wouldn't choose that option, but you can choose differently. Very high dose IV vitamin C (free site doctoryourself for more info) These are *not* the only potential solutions which are safer and effective. DISCLAIMER - I am NOT giving medical advice, just sharing a personal opinion and info if people want to learn more.
@Hollyucinogen Жыл бұрын
I'm on an anti-psychotic for anger caused by severe abuse, and they not only didn't tell me about any potential side-effects, but I also had to figure out for myself what they were; and when I started experiencing them, they straight up denied them. Tardive dyskinesia. Weight gain. Daytime sleepiness. The only reason that I even know that these are side-effects of my medication is because of my *own* research. Medicine is a joke today. 😒
@caterinadc5567 Жыл бұрын
"I thought I was going to go through female puberty." Heartbreaking. This just reinforces how children cannot give informed consent. There was _never_ going to be "female puberty," but adults allowed this child to believe it was possible. They even TOLD this child there would be "female puberty"? Like, no. These mutilative surgeries (even throwing repeated injections of hormones on top) are not capable of changing someone's sex. The medical mutilators should be sued. The liars should be sued. Jail too, sure, all of that -- but sued. Every profit they ever made off of mutilating their victims, should be restored to the victims.
@psychosarenuts Жыл бұрын
No one should have to go through this. So young and so much medical and surgical trauma. Very brave coming forward.
@wendypatton1932 Жыл бұрын
Recently retired RN here..ob/gyn/women’s health/labor and delivery was my specialty. And I am and have always been a friend/comrade of the alternative scene 😁…At about 33:00 it got me! Hearing the “doctor” was patient blaming just hit me. I’ve heard this so much in my practice from some physicians. Ugh. It drives me crazy. I appreciate you sharing your story. ❤ I’m sorry this has happened to you. Sending love.
@d_oneee Жыл бұрын
Oh my god. Unbelievable how people refuse to listen to these stories. My heart breaks for her
@jenrabbit4444 Жыл бұрын
24:48 I paused the video after her explanation here. My heart goes out to her and the suffering she endured. I can only imagine how scary it must have been, too. How could the doctors think that a hole in the body would have a secual response like that? It doesn't have the nerve endings and serves no sexual purpose. I honestly don't understand why anyone would imagine it would automatically be subject to sexual stimulation. Also, women often can't climax from vaginal sex. Do they have a way to create a clitoris? Because without a clitoris or substitute it seems unlikely the person would achieve orgasm even if the vaginal construction went well. Maybe I am misunderstanding the process, though.
@nicolenewsome4863 Жыл бұрын
No you're completely right I'm one of those women.
@helixxia9320 Жыл бұрын
I think they often use tissue from the penis tip for the clitoris but it won’t have the sensitivity of a real clitoris of course
@mewtwomotherfuka Жыл бұрын
The normal inversion percedure as an adult does have sensation because they use the developed tip as the clit/gspot. Since she was a child blocking this development that's why she never gained pleasure. Plus they used her stomach.
@DanielleNicoleMakeup Жыл бұрын
I actually just commented about this above. You're right. Women don't climax from the vaginal canal, they climax from the clitorus. The most sensitive part is on the outside (vulva area) which is why most women don't climax from intercourse, because female bodies don't orgasm the same as males. Who would've thought. Otherwise women would have orgams from tampons and childbirth. Uh no...
@jennh209611 ай бұрын
They attempt to create one using the tissue from the head of the pe nis. Problem is, cutting thru nerves while trying to re-form tissue into something else,those nerves don't always regain proper sensory function and sometimes even develop weird sensations like tingling, numbness, or being hypersensitive to a point that light touch can be painful
@s13cybergal Жыл бұрын
What a hard truth that one cannot truly change their sex. I pray for all the people broken by this falsehood. As a legally blind person, I was told, and believed, that I could do anything in life! How about a blind neurosurgen?, Driver (of any kind of vehicle), or a blind airline pilot. I didn't start recovering from my chronic depression, until I realized that I have profound limits, but can still have a good life - even if the government supports me.
@Sil7531 Жыл бұрын
Briana should write a book. All the world must know what she went through and what they are doing to kids. Your voices are important. Thank you both
@VictoriaMarch13 Жыл бұрын
Briana, I'm only half way through the video but I had to comment and say I'm sorry. I'm sorry for everything you've been through. I'm sorry for all the things you were promised but weren't delivered. And mostly I'm sorry for ALL of the pain you've felt. You're brave for telling your story and I'm proud of you for that. Your story will undoubtedly help so many others. I hope you have a huge support system and that you will find the peace and happiness you've been searching for. ❤❤
@GuavaChiffonTheCosmetix Жыл бұрын
I'm a 55 year old male ( old queen : ) Ive had trans friends my entire adult life . This video/ conversation is the most profound, insightful, honest and important dialogue on this subject I've ever experienced. I was riveted by every word. I've learned so much from your sharing your true life experiences. Your honesty ,grace, legit perspectives and ability to articulate so intelligently on this subject is an amazing gift !! 💖 Wow 💖 Thank you soooo much for sharing. Sincerely. I'm blown away. Everyone needs to see this
@Cathy-kk6lo Жыл бұрын
Bless her heart ❤️ i hope she keeps using her voice to warn young confused kids!🥺
@LHRPG_Official8 ай бұрын
This is a tragic story. Thank you Briana for being brave enough to speak out.
@chappyliz55 Жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for Briana. Their body is ruined forever and nobody cares about that fact. I hope these “kids” don’t become ACTUALLY suicidal from what has been done to them.
@kellysouter4381 Жыл бұрын
I read that 38% to 40% of transitioners self delete afterward anyway. Mental illness isn't cured with surgery.
@WingmanAlpha Жыл бұрын
We probably will never get accurate data for the suicidal effects of gender transition. The ideological interests to hide this data are similar to post vac data.
@BiohazardBunney Жыл бұрын
They do....when they talk about trans suicide they don't mention the detransitioners who make up a hefty chunk of it
@Keepingitwitchy Жыл бұрын
Awh Brianna, I just love you. I’ve watched all of your interviews and you have absolutely opened my eyes and made me feel more compassionate towards parents who allow their children to transition. Thank you for sharing your story. It absolutely needs to be shared. Your story should be shouted from the highest mountain. I know you said that you were sad that you can’t connect sexually with people or have a biological family. But you have impacted and connected with so many people on so many levels that are beyond sexual…… and not a lot of people are capable of that but you are. You are making a difference. And you are human. And you are valid. And some day you absolutely could have your own family. Don’t give up ever because the world needs you and more people like you.
@ivydark9741 Жыл бұрын
Briana is so beautiful, it breaks my heart she has to go through all this pain.
@thatrandomproject6652 Жыл бұрын
Dude should just stopping digging tunnels in em like Hamas
@u.n258 Жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomproject6652no evidence for these tunnels
@puthycat8336 Жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomproject6652illiterate rat
@ivydark9741 Жыл бұрын
@@thatrandomproject6652 a bit too late for that. (
@Missteree87 Жыл бұрын
That "doctor" needs to be put in prison for life. What a monstrous perverted butcher
@trixmania Жыл бұрын
Sadly if dr denied it, they put him in prison. Sick world
@Tina06019 Жыл бұрын
@@trixmania I am a physician (not a surgeon). I agree that there are serious professional repercussions for those of us who have significant reservations about “gender medicine,” but I doubt a surgeon would be jailed for refusing to do gender-transition related surgeries. It may be worse in other jurisdictions than it is here, I cannot say.
@trixmania Жыл бұрын
@Tina06019 the way things are now, they would loose their right to practice their job or jail, this goes to all jobs involved
@ramonafriesinger5652 Жыл бұрын
Dear Marcus, it's so necessary that people like her speak up about what happen to them ! She is so brave and strong to speak about it . Even if others juge her for it .
@clarkkent5442 Жыл бұрын
it's so nice to see Briana making the rounds on all the high traffic channels. starting with buck angel, then Candace Owens, and now you. her voice needs to be heard by as many people as possible. because we all know jazz won't talk because jazz's mom won't let her
@stephjezo647010 ай бұрын
Jazz was on with Viva Frei not that long ago.......
@impossibleagent3663 Жыл бұрын
Your body is going to try to heal this wound. The younger you are the stronger your body will be in closing up the wound.
@troutfisher7182 Жыл бұрын
I live in a small rural town. Back in the 1990's two people in our community decided to transition to female. Both were adults early 30's. Both of them had severe problems right after bottom surgery. Almost dying from complications, and bloodloss. One almost hemorrhaged to death in a hotel room. It sounds like the bottom surgery has not improved at all in the last 30 yrs. Today one is happy with her transition, the other became deeply depressed.
@s13cybergal Жыл бұрын
I'm 70, because of the EXTREME violence of my mother, I wanted to be male. I am thankful it wasn't easy to transition during my teenage years. This is a medical, scientific and ethical scandal. Allso, as the documentary "the untold story..." points out, there are boat loads of money to be made from these proceedures. Once someone begins the medical process, they are on meds for life and usually become repeat surgery patients. At least the Thalidamide problem was a mistake, vs. something done with NO science behind it.
@poetcomic1 Жыл бұрын
They forget to say YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A SEX DRIVE. And this is before you even have a chance to have one.
@maryrye7072 ай бұрын
Yes, the surgery destroys your sexual function, especially if they had been on puberty blockers. They don’t tell the, that.
@CelticCowgirl Жыл бұрын
When she said she questioned her own humanity- I started crying. That just breaks my heart. I hope she finds a way to heal emotionally from that trauma. Much love to you, sweetheart. 💜
@milliewoo337 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Marcus and Briana. Briana, you’re so well-spoken and genuine and informed. Your experience matters, don’t let anyone silence you and thank you for taking up this stance. I hope your voice reaches other young people, they need to know the truth and the doctors are not telling them. Thanks Marcus for all you do
@sseldog Жыл бұрын
Her story is absolutely horrifying 😮😢 I have no words.. much love for being brave enough to share ❤️
@ARC-0606 Жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for her. Those other surgeons had some common sense I'm glad they were there. Thank you Marcus for giving people just like Briana a platform to share her story. Stories like hers need to be shared. Briana if you're reading this I hope you feel better about yourself. You are absolutely brave for sharing your experience even when people are trying to invalidate your experience. You are valued and love so much. I hope you have many better years to come.
@mimismithson5372 Жыл бұрын
I think it’s so important we platform trans people who aren’t detransitioning, who are unhappy with their surgery. It offers a perspective that trans people don’t get enough of, and I think Briana is doing a massive service to spreading awareness to fellow trans people about the potential risks, she could be saving lives!! We need more people like Briana. Not to dissuade people from transition, but to help them understand the full implications of surgery so they can really make the decision on whether it’s right for them or not.
@SugarBunny11911 ай бұрын
This poor guy ruined his childhood, ruined his future, spent tons and tons of his parent's money, and he doesn't even pass as a woman. He still looks and sounds trans. Its absolutely devastating, and I am broken hearted for this young man who was experimented on by doctors who absolutely knew better. They met this kid, met his parents, knew his struggles and they decided to destroy his life anyway. I have a very hard time believing his parents were as helpless in this as he was. How could an adult fall for this and not ask questions?
@felishadelargy61829 ай бұрын
Stop calling her a "man" or a "guy" she is a trans woman and yes she does pass. Get out of here with ur fake ass sympathy for her.
@kristyp25859 ай бұрын
I research a washer and dryer more than some parents research these procedures. Briana found information, when she was an adult, why couldn't her parents? It's frustrating to hear. The surgeries should actually not be allowed...on anyone. They are experiments.
@exoticalvibes Жыл бұрын
briana seems like such a beautiful person, my heart sincerely breaks for her. i truly hope her story blows up & she gets justice served against all the doctors who hurt her. sending love & prayers 🙏❤
@Faith-vg9ox Жыл бұрын
It is more accurate to call it a "wound" or "opening" and not "vagina". Whatever they dilate is a wound, nothing more and nothing less.
@Faith-vg9ox Жыл бұрын
@@Aurora146 Call it what you will, provided it is not called a vagina then we are routed in reality
@bioweapon4425 Жыл бұрын
@@Aurora146when you have to dilate for the rest of your life so that it doesn’t close, that it IS a wound that is not ever allowed to heal.
@TrueCrimeDoula Жыл бұрын
This story is unbelievable!! I can't understand how a physician would sell the idea that a body part could be recreated from another body part. And how incredibly painful it would be to rewire your body in such delicate areas. 😞 We are definitely going to look back at this time period with horror.
@patrickm8894 Жыл бұрын
Not to sound Insensitive but the surgery was done in Indy. Scary.
@personincognito3989 Жыл бұрын
I've worked in the medical field for over thirty years now. I have to tell you that there is always complications. Psychiatrists or psychologists or counselors of some kind need to counsel people about body dysmorphia and stop doing these mutilations. It's not the answer.
@saidahblah Жыл бұрын
I have a feeling these gender clinics are not really qualified to diagnose this. @@personincognito3989
@TrueCrimeDoula Жыл бұрын
@@personincognito3989 You mean there are always complications with all surgery of this kind? I believe that. How could there not be?? You can't create a vagina out of a penis! You can't create a vagina at all! They're just making a hole. 😕
@TrueCrimeDoula Жыл бұрын
@@patrickm8894 In Indy?
@jewel65 Жыл бұрын
What happened to the love yourself movement? Nobody likes their body during puberty. You learn to accept yourself. I feel so sorry for kids today.
@angelmessenger8240 Жыл бұрын
In the UK it used to be that you'd have to have psychological investigations and counselling and you'd have to dress as the sex you wanted to be for 2 years before you'd be considered for surgery. Now they can't wait to get to children.
@xxyes8879 Жыл бұрын
I think that nonsense is coming from the US due to the private health care, big bucks, and marketing so-called treatments directly to patients environment...and infecting the rest of the world due to social media and the internet. No UK doctor I ever knew believed you can change sex or that chopping your healthy dangly bits off is some kind of cure. I remember once a patient ended up on a surgical ward for trying to chop her breasts off herself - the surgeon patched her up but refused to remove her breasts and sent her to psychiatry who then sent her to psychology. These patients need psychological care and therapy first and foremost as it could be due to other conditions such as body dysmorphia or trauma from sexual abuse. And even if gender dysphoria is the reason, psychological treatment and support still should be the first port of call.
@thickfitsteph Жыл бұрын
The younger the better for them. The less they need to explain, they have no studies. Human trials they are doing with Children!!! Claiming hate crime if you don't comply!!!
@VioletJewel172911 ай бұрын
she was like 20 but go off queen
@alicianieto282210 ай бұрын
I see the issues with that process, especially for men, but the alternative we are using now is just insane.
@jenkitching439 ай бұрын
I suspect there is a wider agenda, eg depop and transhumanism.
@TrueEnergizerBunnies Жыл бұрын
Speaking from my own personal experience, feeling like you arent yourself or not liking your body is pretty much guaranteed as part of puberty especially for girls and especially for girls that aren't traditionally girly. I was always a rough and tumble kid. I loved boy things and could keep up with all the boys. When I hit puberty I hated it. I hated how my body was changing and not knowing what to do about it. I felt horribly depressed because I wasn't ready to let go of childish things yet but I felt incredibly pressured to throw away everything I liked. I wasn't sure if it was ok to still be into boy things or if I had to change to be girly. I was never into hair or makeup and was always picked on for it. Then you have all the sexuality feelings. I remember looking at breasts all the time as a teen and then beating myself up for doing that. I thought that I shouldnt be doing that because Im straight (which I am) but later realized I was only doing it because I was curious about my own body and what it could look like. But for awhile I questioned my sexuality alot until I finally came to the conclusion that I am straight. And then you have all the hormones and the feelings of wanting to date and be intimate but also not knowing what that entails or if you are doing it right or what if you dont like it, etc. It is alot to go through and its hell for EVERYONE. It's normal to question your body and sexuality and personality. And it takes years to figure all that out. And if you dont conform to traditional roles, that is fine. You dont have to change and it doesnt mean you are the wrong gender! Look at me. Im 30 now. Im a grown woman with kids. I know im straight, i know im a woman. Yet I am still very manish. I get along with guys so well that they often forget im a girl in my friend group (which is all guys) and i dont relate well to women. I do have women friends but all my close friends are guys. And thats ok! It doesnt mean im a man! Im just me! And there's nothing wrong with me!
@alicianieto282210 ай бұрын
Same. Plus seeing how my female body changed tonbe in the service of continuating tge species more than to be in my service. The fuck? I am in peace with being a woman but I known that a big part of that was feeling that there was no choice. It is what it is, so you accept it and it becomes normal. If I had been told that being a woman was optional though...IDK, my mind would gave developed into a much more turbulent place
@emilycarter24928 ай бұрын
Ditto! I was a 5’9 female athlete who was a late bloomer. I was interested in sports and have a very dominant personality by nature. I was the aggressive player that was not feminine or interested in girly pastimes. After graduating HS, I joined the military and became an active duty Woman Marine in an all male unit. I’ve always been more comfortable around men, because I am more analytical and not as emotional as most women. When I got married and had my 2 sons, marriage and motherhood fit me like a glove and I adore my children. If I would have been born nowadays, they would absolutely encourage me to transition, simply because I don’t fit the current stereotypes of a woman. Being allowed to develop naturally like I did, benefitted me later because those qualities considered “masculine”, helped me be successful in my chosen profession. We need to leave children alone and let them develop naturally at their own pace. Children and their sexuality should be two words that should never be uttered in the same sentence
@mariaf.scaduto4653 Жыл бұрын
Only referring to the title right now: How on earth can any adult tell kids that sex is changable?! How can any physician/md/psychiatrist/therapist tell such insane, blatant lies?! What are they up to? Naive me... It's always all about the money and they are not only willing to throw children and their families under the bus, but also ignite a culture war where the outcome is a lose-lose situation for everyone.
@edwright480 Жыл бұрын
Big Pharma has a hand in this too. Got a condition? we have the drugs for you
@thecook89645 ай бұрын
I also think surgeons are sometimes arrogant & look at surgery as an intellectual challenge. They often are removed from the patient. Looking at a video done in line drawings of male to female, the surgery, the surgery is very ingenious, even elegant, but when a human enters the room, it is very complicated...
@Slena558 ай бұрын
Briana first I would like to say im sorry you had to experience all that pain. I also want to thank you for being very open to tell your story. Very good information. Ty
@justylex Жыл бұрын
Briana’s story is absolutely heartbreaking😔
@brandymckee3589 Жыл бұрын
Briana is so strong and amazing..thank you Marcus for having her on to share her story ❤
@upnorth2421 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry and it makes me sad to think what was done to you Brianna! You are so brave to share your experience so that others will be spared from this. Thank you❤
@cestmoi453211 ай бұрын
What a great interview. Marcus, you are a good listener and a direct, clear interviewer. Thank you Briana and Marcus for sharing this difficult story. ❤
@luckydevil1601 Жыл бұрын
Briana is a hero for speaking the whole truth ❤ this is going to prevent many personal tragedies
@Ciara-ASMR Жыл бұрын
This was an empathetic and beautiful discussion. The questions were thoughtful and Briana is really a supreme spokesperson to add much needed nuance to this terrible movement that is occurring.
@Ciara-ASMR Жыл бұрын
And Marcus, this was wonderfully edited! You really made it all about Briana's voice. I appreciate your decision to do that.
@ajisenramen888 Жыл бұрын
14 years old Taking drugs No real understanding by either the Drs or the patient About their permanent effect Thanks for sharing your experience
@erinawilson7977 Жыл бұрын
I want to really thank Briana for being so open and forthcoming about her transition and the complications she experienced. I hope Briana can continue to work though her experiences and get where she is as happy with herself as possible.
@genaarou Жыл бұрын
Excellent interviewe. Thank you for giving space to people who "do not have the perfect story", the one trans activist tell you. They want us to believe that transitioning is always beautiful and is for everyone at any age, the younger the better. All the love to Briana! she's amazing
@Megan.eco-Instinct Жыл бұрын
This was a really great interview. I have just recently found you and have been binging a lot of your videos. I have gotten very interested in this issue over the past year or so and certainly through the rise of some fairly shocking trans activism. Just a bit about me (only because I think it plays into my thoughts on this) I am a 60 year old lesbian who has always been very involved in activism for the gay community. What trans activism has become is truly shocking. It's been difficult for someone like me who has existed in a space of LGBT solidarity and, well... the T activism surely looks very different. *The idea of transitioning children is madness* This never ever would have even been thought about _back in the day_ . I know that there are needed improvements in how the medical establishment treats gender dysphoric people *however* there were very smart guardrails in place. It used to be that any adult considering medical transition had to socially "live" as the gender they identified as for a year *and* during that year they had to undergo deep therapy so that the team of doctors working with the patient completely understood the patient's condition and to determine that medical transition was the appropriate treatment. During that time, the patient was completely educated on *everything* involved with these procedures. If you didn't like a doctor's determination, you were free of course to seek second opinions, but most people who met those requirements during that year were approved for medical transition. *But then* ... That same *medical establishment* being the soulless monsters they are, eventually said *_hold on here...this whole situation has CASH COW written all over it_* So once they saw they money in transitioning, they were *all in* and the guardrails fell - guardrails are obstacles to obscene profits. This naturally was like catnip to an increasingly radicalized group of so called activists with a powerful hunger for attention as well as more and more labels designed to make them feel singularly unique. Being trans and the legitimate medical and mental conditions coinciding with transitioning became more and more meaningless.
@Revert2017 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Briana's story.
@LP-km7gj Жыл бұрын
I saw her on Buck’s channel and Candace’s and I so hope she continues her mission and also gets compensated for her work. Hope she eventually gets the family and life she deserves as she gets older.
@tubermind Жыл бұрын
The body fights to be what sex it IS - not what someone thinks it SHOULD be.
@maryrye7072 ай бұрын
Its like putting a round peg in a square hole. It just won’t ever fit.
@tubermind2 ай бұрын
@@maryrye707 a circle will fit in a square and vice versa, as long as they don't have the same width. But I get your point. The body will always follow its pattern to be of either sex, very rare instances of intersex at birth notwithstanding. So fighting one's own body's biological imperatives is clearly not a healthy strategy. Best to reconcile and love one's body. I suggest for all, including me, a closer relationship with our Creator, who has the power to heal.We all have something we need healing for!
@marciacraft2819 Жыл бұрын
Great interview. Brenna needs to be on national public television so people could learn about this experimental madness. God bless you both
@HeidiCussons Жыл бұрын
Thank you Briana for sharing your experiences. I’m so sorry that these charlatans have caused you so much pain. I’m so proud of you for your bravery in speaking out, it’s so important to help others understand the truth. Keep shining your beautiful light 🌟
@winstonwolf6791 Жыл бұрын
My heart breaks that there were no adults in her life that really understood that you need to treat the mental aspect and then later on the physical. Doing irrevocable physical things after a 30 minute consult is reprehensible. What stood out the most was early on her saying, "I am doing things that I don't fully understand". That resonated because of course she was. No 13/14 yr old should be making decisions that will alter their physical makeup for life, as their brain hasn't come close to fully developing.
@chelseainman4285 Жыл бұрын
I just want to hug Briana so much. Thank you for sharing your story.
@alwaystrustinthelordone Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry this happened to you. The truth of the matter is that many of us go through awkwardness more than once while growing up. Starting at about 7 boys and girls bodies begin going through many changes that will lead us into puberty. I watched an excellent documentary on A&E back in the 90's that compared the changes that each were going through simultaneously as we grow. Our bodies are quite amazing. There were times I felt I didn't fit in because I was a tomboy. I had 5 older brothers around and I looked up to them. I wasn't as girly as other girls, but I didn't want to be a boy either. We all go through puberty at different times and some of us take longer to mature is all. At some point I started to care how my hair looked, how my pants fit, etc. It's sad you didn't have somebody to help you through these difficulties and explain to you that those feelings would pass; that you would grow and mature into a fine young man. The fact the Dr. lied to you, to all of you that put yourselves through this mutilation is unfathomable and deceitful. He (and any others who practice this) should have his license pulled as he does not value or uphold the Hippocratic Oath he swore to. I pray you find Christ Jesus and realize only He can heal you. All you have to do is ask Him for forgiveness, mercy, and grace and accept Him into your heart with love. He knows you're hurting and wants to rescue you into His loving arms. John 3:16 For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have life everlasting. God bless you. I pray you hear His call.
@paulfrels3590 Жыл бұрын
SUCH an Interesting, Bright, Well Spoken person. Briana’s journey was/is Really a Lot!!! Best wishes and God Bless
@saskia9720 Жыл бұрын
I think a good majority of the new wave "trans" kids are people who have suffered from some form of negative attention/trauma towards their appearance or sexuality. The fix for these issues is often therapy, not lifelong medicalisation, and it saddens me that people are being pushed down the medical route without even trying the psychological route first.
@sbffsbrarbrr Жыл бұрын
I agree, especially young women that transition. So many comments about how heartbroken people are for Briana and I am sure there are and will be many, many others. I am not heartbroken. I am furious at a system that finds "transition" to be a solution rather than therapy for childhood trauma. The healthcare system is creating lifelong patients.
@vidamariaixchel4962 Жыл бұрын
( It is ALL part of a covert Satanic Agenda, just like Covid was ). Their ultimate goal is: depopulation/slavery ( when you swap your sex you won’t procreate no more! ) Always follow the money: look who profits from all this crazyness most. As long as people keep believing ‘Big Pharma’… they will be duped!!!!! I for myself don’t believe in ‘transgenderism’ at all. In my opinion ‘Gender Dysphoria’ is a result of early childhood TRAUMA… which should be treated with intensive psychotherapy, not with mutilation of a young, vibrant, and perfectly healthy body.
@Ciara-ASMR Жыл бұрын
A question for liberals, by which I mean moderate liberals, ones with sense: do you feel comfortable sharing these types of videos on facebook, for example, or speaking about this with friends? I am genuinely scared to share this video on my facebook. It's not that I feel that someone will come after me, it's not that kind of fear, but there are plenty of people who I'm friends with who are woke and I don't know if I'm ready for the deluge of delusion! The 'you're a transphobe! You're a terf!' comments! And that's what they WILL do because they have no actual grounds of logic for debate, all they have is name-calling. These aren't people I am close with, more like co-worker level of closeness. How ridiculous is that! I know I WILL share these kinds of videos soon, because I don't see that I have a choice. But because I don't see regular people sharing moderate opinions on this, because they're all scared, it means the fear continues to have a hold on moderates. Look at what happened to Roisin Murphy and JK Rowling, the backlash for the VERY moderate things they said! I think the answer IS for moderates like me to start speaking up, but we all have to do it together. But it's hard!
@kopykat6843 Жыл бұрын
Ok well..to start I've never considered myself liberal or conservative. I've basically always been "an anarchist that understands humans are too mentally stunted so I settle for libertarian) But friends often mistook (and mistake) me for a liberal (hence giving me two cents) I started posting vids and articles years ago and ya I got backlash. I posted expecting hate so to me it's wasn't some big ordeal. I braced myself before I started lol. They yelled at me, I retorted, called them liars, corrected with facts. I did get snarky/bitchy and some accusations I remember responding with "so?" And I remember how that seemed to stun them into silence. Small mercy's it's no one close to you. I had it out with people I had previously thought of as siblings. Needless to say I don't talk to them anymore. But what's right is right and no one will force me to pretend horrors are good or pretend the bad guys are good. Especially when it comes to kids. I don't post anymore cause I quickly started noticing less and no responses so I did a check and low and behold my posts about "problematic" topics were shadow banned and no one could see it. So, if you do post, don't be surprised if it's shortlived before your stuff just gets shadow banned. In a way it was rather refreshing? I got to see who was too narrow-minded, selfish, and hateful to keep around me and life's been far calmer since then. I didn't have coworkers tho so consider the odds of them being able to get you fired before you start posting. Just my two cents on what happened to me. Hope it helps.
@mistressofstones11 ай бұрын
I'm Australian and I think Americans have politicised EVERYTHING and always want to fight about things and be tribal. That's where these problems come from. You all need to calm the hell down.
@Ciara-ASMR11 ай бұрын
I'm Irish and live in Scotland. I agree with you about the tribalism, and alas it's here too.@@mistressofstones
@gothgirlglam248611 ай бұрын
I'm very late to the conversation. But generally left leaning. To answer your question - Facebook no. Talking with friends yes. Facebook unfortunately just tends to start fights without spawning meaningful conversation. I think the way you approach the topic is most important. Unfortunately most conservatives have had so much vitriol towards trans people, so people often think if you voice concerns about transition then you're anti-trans. I think there is a reasonable middle ground on this topic. We cannot outright ban gender affirming care, because it is a free country, and adults should be able to make medical decisions about their own bodies. And because for many of them transition was the right decision. But we do need to put in some safeguards to prevent what happened to Briana. Things like no surgery or hormones until adulthood. No surgery or hormones without therapy first to determine if there are any other underlying conditions causing dysphoria (e.g. depression, anxiety, SA, or other childhood trauma). Mandatory clear communication by doctors to patients of side effects and risks of procedures and medications. People need to be able to make informed decisions when they are actually old enough to fully understand the extent of and impact of those decisions. Things like that I think liberals and conservatives would agree on.
@redredmane55448 ай бұрын
As a spiritualist and psychic person, I ALWAYS have sensed that this is not at all healthy or normal. And once they cut it off, nothing can be done to sew a new one on ( at least not one that is in any way “functional!!!” )
@cmlacour5414 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for providing a platform for honest discussion. I deeply appreciate Briana for sharing such a deeply personal and challenging experience. Those with agendas seem not to care about the real effects of their actions. Briana is a real person, deceived by greedy ideologues. Others should be warned.
@AndreaAth8 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry about what happened to her. Such a brave soul.
@jenrabbit4444 Жыл бұрын
I would love to see you host a panel of those who have come forward with stories like this - Briana, Shape Shifter, Chloe Cole. It would be interesting to hear about common aspects of their experiences and differences, and to hear their thoughts as a group on reforms to the process to make it safer for young people. They may not agree on everything but those things on which they do agree would highlight important areas of focus. Also, to hear about the harms to their mental health from their experience and how we can best support someone carrying that sort of trauma. Also, they could highlight the responses they receive from TRAs. Briana is so clear and open, and you ask very good questions to structure her account.
@kellysouter4381 Жыл бұрын
I think there has been a gathering like that last year.
@jenrabbit4444 Жыл бұрын
@kellysouter4381 Thanks for the tip on that! I really appreciate it! After I wake up I will go on Duck Duck Go and see if I can pull anything on that. My work involves the area where mental health and the law interact, although not with this specific area of practice. I'm no one important, but I am thinking about putting something together to see if I can get approval to do a pro bono project within this area of focus. I need to get some information together first to see if there is a perceived need and what that actual area of need is. So the info is super helpful. ♡ Thank you!
@streganona818510 ай бұрын
Immense gratitude to Briana for coming forward on this important topic. As a Mother and Grandmother, I am of the firm belief that if we do not teach our children to love and accept themselves for who they are, what else can be expected except that our children will desire to be someone else. I also cannot help but wonder if the desire to change our bodies comes from who we were in a past life. I believe that the vessel we arrive in is to teach us valuable lessons to further our spiritual evolution, which is why it is so important to learn how to love ourselves exactly as we are. Much love to you All. 💜🌎💜
@daniab6334 Жыл бұрын
I wanted to add some info as a cis female, most women don’t orgasm from penetration, they mostly orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Besides from the doctor sounding very creepy and misogynistic with no comprehension of female pleasure whatsoever, she was hurting. Why would she want to have sex when she was in this much pain, i can relate to the pain she felt as also women with endometriosis experience pain similar to contractions during period, what she experienced was medical neglect.
@DanielleNicoleMakeup Жыл бұрын
Exactly. You said it perfectly. I'm so sad for Briana
@ivanaandric570311 ай бұрын
Not most - ALL women. Even during penetrative sex, women orgasm through clitoral stimulation, whether it's a by-product of vaginal sex or just clitoral stimulation without penetration.
@winonahdemars57911 ай бұрын
Adding to what you said about clitoral stimulus, the clit isn't just some little nub that can be fashioned out of a little piece of the penis tip. The clitoris has long "arms" that go from the little nub, down and around the vagina, internally. Thats what would give the vaginal orgasm. That's not easily reproduced medically, if at all.
@joeyk5 Жыл бұрын
This is heartbreaking. Thank you Marcus for bringing this to us and making us aware. Your compassion shines.
@Feliciab67 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for a great interview, Marcus. Briana's story was so sad. I hope she gets her story out even more. Its so important!!! We need to love ourselves and accept ourselves!
@sorbabaric1 Жыл бұрын
Sad that this boy thought all the other boys felt they were accepted and approved of. During a period of phases and flux. When did being a normal child become a diagnosis of gender dysphoria. He never had a chance to grow up and figure life out.
@christian.f.zimmermann Жыл бұрын
To hear Briana's story is wrecking me... It is truly unimaginable to me what a tragedy all of this is. The confusion, the careless "care" and the mental and existential pain on top of the physical pain. It is a shame that such a thing was ever done. What a service to humanity Briana is doing to humanity and so many children and families. May this horrible malpractice cease for good.
@metz1213 Жыл бұрын
Great interview. Love your interview style…you let your guest do most of the talking without interrupting. Love you for that ❤
@lucky1800 Жыл бұрын
My best friend is a transman. I love him but I dont feel I can talk with him about genre really because I know for a fact he is not going to fully understand my point of view without thinking I hate someone when I do not. Its just I do not see genre as he does. So there are some stuff I do not fully understand. For example. I grew up as a tomboy. fully tomboy. Short hair. male clothes. I am no lesbian, never liked girls. I was just a tomboy. My uncle is a straight man, no bisexual, no gay. But he was a very succesfull ballet dancer, he have used the most crazy hair colors and trunks for the beach I have ever seen. For me I grew up thinking everyone could dress up as they wanted that it didnt change who they were. You like to dress with gothic dresses as a man? go for it. You are still a man and there is nothing worng in being femenine and liking gothic dresses. The same way it was ok for me to be a tomboy as a girl. But being different have always been harder and when you are different you hace to accept there are some stuff you will have to deal with by being different. So now my best friend its around nonbinary people, demigirls, demiboys, trans. All that jazz. I am part of the lgbt community too but its different. When I try to understand how being nonbinary for example is different that having a personal style, what is genre to you and why its different of being a tomboy, or a femenine boy, or even a trap I get so many bad looks when in reality I just do not get it. But I do not get it like not trying to hurt others. I stil think "you do you babe" but mentally its... its hard because of how I have internaliced genre and genre expression. as i understand to a transexual person the need to be called with a certain pronoun because its not only something about their expression but how they want to be seen on society. I do not get exactly how do you want to be seen when refered as them, as it, with neo pronouns, changing between she and he depending on your mood. that just makes me feel like its... more how you want to dress than how you want to be percieved. I do not know... Sometimes I just feel bad because I know if I try to really say this. say "look i respect you and what you do with your life, it is not my place to say anything but personally I do not get it" they are just going to jump at me because even my best friend did it one time I tried to talk about it. Since then? yeah no more. it is just not worth it losing a friend of more than 10 years because of this.
@freedomcanada83979 ай бұрын
If a boy feels like a girl doesn't mean he's a girl. U are not a feeling. If I feel sad, is that who I am, sad? If I feel happy, is that who I am, happy? No its a feeling. It's that simple. You are not a feeling. You are you
@annabelp Жыл бұрын
Briana, you are beautiful, clearly inside and out. Be proud that you're standing up for what you believe in and sharing your story to prevent others from going through the painful journey you went through. Thank you.