THINGS ARE ABOUT TO CHANGE: Life Update with Josh, 2024 Goals + Reset with me | Mennonite Mom Life

[@CRouse-ok5tz]

No fail! The passive-aggressive put downs are not okay. The man has revealed his heart and what he is meant to do so there lies his purpose. Congratulations Josh and best wishes.

[@nancyfarkas3592]

Omg she did not put him down!

[@Catherine-ti5by]

This was so painful to watch. It made me look at how I speak to my husband, my tone and the words I choose. She speaks over him and puts him down and has to control the situation. Saying your husband is a failure on KZbin is appalling. Lesson learned…. I want to do better ❤

[@janicelabuda8540]

I agree with Josh..there are no failures-there are only results. Happy 2024 to the Fox family!

[@denisearonow4921]

Time spent learning is never wasted. Never. I'm guessing Josh learned about working with a boss and a team, working with the public, running a retail business (he mentioned that), and more. He surely learned about himself which is most important. Bravo for trying something new, something out of your comfort zone for a while. I consider that a significant success. Kudos to Megan for supporting Josh in his endeavors.

[@carolyndymond4065]

That's right.

[@ashleym.9682]

I hope this experience teaches him better ways to run a business, tobgrow his business, and employ many employees. ♥️

[@tanyajohnston8262]

Yes

[@anneofhearts]

We own a restaurant and have 45 employees. Our employees always come and go, but the ones who go on to own their own business especially are our jewels in our crowns! We love and support them in advice and direction. They carry a portion of our values wherever they go.

[@denisearonow4921]

@@anneofhearts I love that. Also, Josh left on very good terms which is huge.

[@carolharrison4199]

Good for Josh to not allow the word "failure" to describe his life. He will find his gifts flourishing. May kindness flow in their home.

[@wildfyrefarmlife8638]

I don't think Josh failed. He tried something, learned a lot of lessons, and then decided it wasn't for him. That's a success in my books. It was honestly brave to pivot and be ok with change. He should be proud of himself.

[@janh519]

This is absolutely correct!

[@tanyajohnston8262]

So true

[@amandadavispomeroy]

I wholeheartedly agree!! Trying something new is never a waste

[@heathermacdonald5986]

Please be very careful with your words Megan! Josh is definitely not a failure!

[@rebeccazegstroo6786]

Great to have options!

[@ev7758]

Stop saying he failed Megan. Why do you even put that out there into the universe not to mention into Josh’s head. 🤦‍♀️

[@TMM716]

She is so bitchy. Poor guy

[@cathylowery3478]

Josh did not fail. He had the courage to try something different. You are awesome Josh.

[@jeanstamps1]

I applaud Josh for trying a new career, learning about running a business, deciding that that particular career isn't for him. He can take what he learned, apply it to his construction business and do bigger and better things. He did not fail!

[@donnatorres7145]

Josh didn't fail he just realized where his true passion and skills were. I applaud him for taking the chance and trying something new. Btw last time we were in Lancaster, we ate at September Farm and food was delicious, trailer happened to be there that day and we tried their donuts, they were out of this world delicious. Love to all of you. Have a blessed evening.

[@carolberubee]

Thank you, Josh, for chatting with us! It's not a failure to participate in a mutually beneficial project for a year and then go back to your other work. You learned new skills that you can carry forward into your business and you have an ongoing relationship with your former employer. That's a win-win. A friend of mine has his own remodel/handyman business and he works Tuesday through Friday. He takes Mondays at home; it's his office day to do all the paperwork.

[@sandrakayhayes5776]

Agree, no failure in any way shape or form! Lessons learned are wonderful!

[@myhandsrfullofluv4225]

Josh is so humble and I'm so glad he tried something new for awhile. No man working a job to support a family is a failure. ❤ And my husband is similar in that he grew up in a family business. He got tired of it and branched off for a bit... now he's the sole owner of the family business. Never would have guessed but God's plan and timing is perfect.

[@overeasyacres]

It doesn’t seem *kind* to assign the word “failure” repeatedly to your husband. He took a sabbatical from construction for a year and now he’s back at it. I think trying to make changes to better yourself and your situation shows growth and maturity. I wish you both the best in 2024!

[@stephaniecampbell6811]

I agree with Josh. His short term job was not a failure. It was an opportunity that God interjected into his life to learn more business sense. I feel we should never look at these changes at failures. Just redirection and refocus. And I hope that with your kids you keep positive influences rather than a failure mentality.

[@danbowers8346]

Josh it is good to hear you are back to what you enjoy doing most. The time you spent on the other job for the 8 months was a time to rest from construction and now you are reenergized to get back in. My husband is in construction and people are looking for good, hardworking, knowledgeable and full of integrity construction workers. God has gifted you in this area and your skills. God’s plans are never wrong.

[@elzbethmrgn]

I always appreciate the insightful reflections Josh has when he has the space to talk to us. I admire your growth mindset!

[@sheenapadilla4734]

Always remember that the only failure is never trying. Love watching you and your family. Many blessings for your family, and that sweet baby on the way. God Bless

[@emilymorris864]

I agree failure is not the right word :) You needed a change tried something new and still provided for your family! ❤

[@lisagorhaumann5373]

That is so mean !!! Josh did not fail. Seems like he is doing everything for you and your family. NEVER shame anyone for trying something new, this is actually a great learning lesson for you and your family. Do not ever be afraid to try something or be ashamed it did not work out.

[@carolwood4293]

Experiance is never a fail, we are always learning. Good for you Josh

[@ladya3038]

Word for the Year: PEACE, EMPATHY, DECOMPRESS

[@samanthajewel8635]

Josh didn’t fail at all. It was a great opportunity and sounds like he learned a lot. With all respect I think this would have been a great opportunity for Megan to practice “kindness” towards her husband and not keep telling him he failed. Anyway love your family and your videos! They are always so inspiring and encouraging. Happy 2024 Fox family!

[@rosenetgonzales8942]

I agree with Josh. He did NOT FAIL !!! he tried something that he was willing to try. He did it,he accomplished it, at the end he knew it wasn't his calling. He is NOT a FAILURE. when women try something and things don't work out no one calls them failures, we say that Failing would be never trying new things in life. it seems that Josh is a level headed man with ambition, he found that he really lived Construction. And like he said, no one knows what God has for him, maybe one day he will want to be a truck driver... he hasn't FAILED you as a husband, he didn't fail as a Dad. So in my humble opinion he is NOT a Failure. You both are a wonderful couple with a beautiful little family. 🙏🙏

[@kathleenturner51]

I just love Josh. He’s such a gentle soul! You’re a lovely couple.

[@brittanygancarz2475]

I’m a mom of 2 who has a full time job/career outside my house (or I will, when I go back from maternity leave 😅) and I think you are a career woman! I mean that in the best way possible, but you have a shop, a successful KZbin channel, and podcast! That’s a career 🎉! Everyone should find what works for them! Also for anyone “older” (like me 😅), I got married when I was 26, and had my two kids at 31 and 35, and I’m very happy with that, and when I had my first baby I felt super confident about it! I hope to have one more, if God wills it! So just fodder for anyone who is pondering their life.

[@lindasegraves6207]

Yes, Josh has it right, God has opened and he closes doors sometimes when we won't do it for ourselves. We have to trust God because he knows the future and we don't. Prayers for the Fox Family during the year 2024 and forward. Happy New Year! Life is a Learning experience to the end. My Gram taught us that we learn something everyday of our life. ❤

[@cherylbertolini3140]

Megan, Josh didn’t fail her tried something new and fells he is better suited for construction work , he is a hard work and you and your family are blessed to have a good provider.

[@imogenethomas1138]

Josh did not fail! He now has TWO sets of extremely marketable skills. Keep learning and growing!

[@reneeshelly6519]

I usually enjoy watching your videos, but this one was very disappointing. First of all, why would you say that Josh "failed"? That is something I would NEVER say about my husband . . . even if he did, and Josh definitely did not fail. In fact, he seems to have done an amazing job of getting the donut cart up and running and successful. And you actually said that you were "embarrassed" by Josh's job changes and choices. I think my mouth dropped open when you said that. There was nothing embarrassing about Josh's decisions. Also, calling your home a "fixer upper" is absolutely ridiculous. Your house is beautiful and perfectly liveable just as it is. In fact, I would give anything to have a gorgeous kitchen like yours. Just because it's not your style, doesn't make it a fixer upper. My husband and I bought a true fixer upper when we got married. It needed all new wiring, plumbing, and a complete makeover. You seem like a nice person, but as a Mennonite, I would expect you to be a bit more humble and a lot more grateful. Those are two traits I admire most in my Mennonite friends. You have so much compared to a lot of women your age, and you don't seem to appreciate it or have gratitude for it. Please go back and watch this video and realize how your comments must have felt to Josh. I hope that these comments were not a reflection of how you really feel. I wish your family a very happy new year and continued success!

[@janefromthecountry1820]

Josh went on a new adventure and learned new skills in food service…I always thought Josh should get back to construction because its where his skills are. Your skills from age 15 are so valuable. We have a shortage of construction workers in Wisconsin. Josh, you are also an amazing father with all your children including your baby. Wishing you the best Josh in everything you do. I enjoyed you coming on the live today. Thank you! God has a plan for you.

[@tanyajohnston8262]

Agreed

[@ellenchapman9981]

I agree with Josh - it’s never failure when you see lessons learned. He’s a keeper for sure!

[@p3mamma381]

Not starting being "kind" off very well by telling your husband he "failed". I don't think ANYONE would think or believe his taking a huge jump and change in his career is a "fail". Good luck in 2024. Way to be Josh! sp

[@kindnessmatters4068]

I don't think she was telling him he was a failure at all... she was not sure of the proper term to use that's why she looked to him when she said that and he helped her out by explaining how they truly felt about it... and she was in total agreement❤

[@susansmith493]

She's a horribly abusive spouse.

[@rebeccafalkner2876]

Super interesting comment section. I love when we/our partners try new things. The trying is the success I think. It’s so easy to stay in a comfort zone and never make any changes ❤

[@mrsj5890]

Happy for Josh going back into construction. Seems like there’s always plenty of work in that line these days! Truck driving is the best fit for my husband. He tried another occupation for a couple years, but came back to trucking as it’s ‘in his blood.’:) Hope the pregnancy is going well and the baby arrives safe and healthy!

[@NAP1983]

It's great to try new things, jobs, and all the people you met can hire you in your next adventure. Definitely get the word failure out of the discussion. My kids have been out of the house almost as long as I had them home. Lovely successful people, and the grandkids are pure joy. So much more fun energy when we have them around. Happy New Year! Set goals, but sometimes God has his own ideas.

[@mahadewiiii]

I’m with all the other commenters… I don’t see what Josh did as failure at all! Life is all about experiences and doing what is right for you at specific times in your life. They say very few people stay in one job or career for their whole life these days and it’s definitely true for me and most of my peers (I’m 40).

[@ElenaT-j2o]

Please work on not interrupting, refrain from belittling your husband, and spend much more time with your children.

[@QuiteQuietASMR]

I was actually a little shocked to hear you guys went on only two dates, and then when you specified it was a coffee shop and a lunch date after an OB appointment, I was even more shocked because those are rather casual “dates”. Not quite wearing your favorite dress and going out for a steak dinner! I’m so glad to see that your love for each other is thriving nonetheless!! I hope you’ll get a FEW more romantic dates together this year, but it’s all about balance and what you and your family have time for. 💕 Warm wishes and a happy new year to you Megan.

[@jannier9766]

I’m so happy for Josh. I remember at the time he left construction, his brother had quit and it was during the supply shortages and was extremely stressful. God provided a different job opportunity for income and learning new things and now he can return to construction refreshed and excited. I would NOT call your home a “fixer upper”- but, a changing to my style. Josh is not failing, he’s a hard working man, doing what he needs to provide for his family. He is such a well grounded man. I greatly respect him.

[@janiceyoder621]

You are so brave to put your life goals out in public. I'm in the mom of teens stage now and it's a whole different category. I used to think i would miss the little cuddles stage but the tween/teens stage is so busy that I forget about the little stage. Plus, you get partners to help you with all your hair brained ideas!

[@lauriemorales999]

I think that your word of the year for 2024 should be ADAPT!!

[@ericagoehring1089]

I just had baby #6 at almost 44 years old! 😂 Our kids are also spaced out. If we had started sooner, we probably would have had more! I can't imagine a sweeter life.

[@wilmawagler5058]

I’m excited for Josh! It’s so good too to have your own sons work for you, my husband said our sons were the best workers he ever had when they joined him in construction. We now have a different business construction related but selling the product, still a joint venture with our sons. My husband gets calls too from former customers from years ago and it’s always kind of hard to pass them on to someone else. It’s really hard to work for someone else when you’ve been your own boss and such a need for workers skilled in building/remodeling. Blessings to you!

[@CassieDeJarnett]

So interesting to hear about your 1000 hours outside journey! We’re starting it this year and I’m being super flexible with it as well! Excited to see how many hours we end up with!

[@swirlygirly12345]

Change is not failure. It takes courage to try one thing new and greater courage to change again if something isn't working. Continue to trust God Josh and he will always make a way. God bless you all and I'm looking forward to seeing all that God has in store for you in 2024 🙏❤️

[@lisaruttenberg5886]

Failing would be not trying. He tried. That's a huge win and success. Go Josh.

[@ellejane7910]

I cringed when she told Josh he failed. Megan did it at least twice.

[@ozarkview928]

I’m sure you’ll be a better construction worker and a better boss because of your experience doing another job for a year Josh You had such great advice. Enjoyed this chat .

[@joannoble500]

I am praying you, Josh and the kids have a beautiful and healthy new year. And God bless the new baby.

[@lorastepss1503]

Poor guy doesn't look like she respects him much..constantly interrupting him😢 dont let your spouse put you down and order you around! Thats toxicity. She treats him like a mother whos annoyed of her little kid

[@jlperz77]

My children are very spaced out. I have twin 26 year olds, a 19 year old and an 11 year old. After this, I've met so many people who've had their children spaced far apart, too.

[@baf814]

She just cant keep quiet and let Josh speak!! 🙄

[@momoflittleladies]

She hardly said anything when he was talking!

[@miguelinabnasr3719]

Always great to set up a plan for the New Year! So exciting for 2023 to move along. can agree with Josh, it has been filled with learning and realigning values to God's path and will; being patient is part of that because things can seem unclear while finding a new rhythm for life. Wish you all a blessed and happy 2024!

[@reginawagler-pirogowicz4317]

Josh didn't fail!!! I'm proud of him for trying something different but also recognizing it wasn't a good fit for him!!

[@jukes243]

If you don't try you will never know. You have a good head on your shoulders, Josh. Best wishes for 2024.

[@ozarkview928]

I’m in my second planner , I had ordered 7 to give out as gifts but the people in my life have there own favorite planners so I’m keeping all of them for myself ❤

[@rebekah3483]

Not a "FAIL" at all! Learning and experiencing new things is NEVER a fail!

[@Proudmom9091]

Yes keep in mind each time you are around the dinner table together with your beautiful family. You are making memories together.

[@vickicole9505]

I truly enjoy seeing Megan’s updates. But not sure saying Josh failed is very supportive. I think she’s too hard on Josh publicly.

[@susansmith493]

If the genders were reversed, we'd call it abuse.

[@christineabercrombie5257]

Please don’t say fail to Josh in relation to what he tried to do. All power to him for trying something new. Things aren’t always as suitable as they maybe seemed but not a fail at all.

[@chickenlady8768]

Megan be more positive!thats the godly happy life! I know its not always easy.

[@MichelleConterato]

Wonderful that Josh has rediscovered his passion

[@dianedavis8161]

Never liked the word failure great guy Josh

[@amberkeever8565]

The time at the Farm was not a fail, it was his refreshing time. Elijah needed a nap and a snack when he grew weary in his work 😄 My husband ventured into owning a business in 2023 while continuing to hold down his full-time + job. It has been hard and very growing for our relationship. Many prayers for a wonderful 2024 for you both and your children!

[@mariettastadulislehman]

2023 was also a learning year for me- Josh got that right

[@susanmiles679]

You are both so incredibly talented and God has his hand in all the changes. Everything in his time. I’m a Grandmom and I have learned so much from you. Thanks for sharing your sweet family with us.

[@sallycroft2191]

Thanks Megan for all the wonderful content you have put out this year. Your correct Josh, nothing, is ever wasted in life, if God has guided us through it. Looking forward to watching the year of change for the Fox family in 2024. God bless you both and your precious family.

[@onthedottedline1]

My kids are all grown and my husband and I finally have date nights. Hang in there and trust God in everything. He will lead you. God bless you and your family.

[@danileevarner234]

I agree with there is no failure with trying new things and finding what works best for you. Josh did not fail!

[@lanaking6286]

We love your beautiful family So need that you talking open together, praying for your family

[@Ajsupermonkey]

Thanks for the update. Hope things are more stable with your pregnancy now and you can have a smooth final few weeks before you meet your little one. ❤

[@GiGi-f9o]

My word for the new year is growth! Growth in myself, family,faith,and life.

[@Kimonwatersedge]

My word is ‘contentment’ . Lovely chat Megan. You and Josh make a great team. God bless you both. Happy New Year from across the pond. 🇬🇧🤓🌟

[@gerriebell2128]

Thank you for sharing your experiences and ideas. It’s a breath of fresh air to listen to you, and to Josh, too. The best part is you knowing to trust God as your provider instead of thinking it all depends on you, or “luck”, or chasing money. God bless you throughout the new year. Imam a grandmother, and when I was your age I didn’t have even nearly as much wisdom like I see in you. And I love that you just share and don’t sound like you have all the answers. We are all in this together, and nobody (but God) really has all the answers for everything. Love from California.

[@suehoffman4707]

Last year when you told us Josh was changing jobs, I was a little shocked. Thats awesome that you are restarting your construction business! One time this fall I was driving on Rt. 23 and there was the donut/pretzel trailer across from Yoder's Market! I didn't think to check the schedule of where it would be that day, so I was so happy I came upon the trailer. I stopped to buy a pretzel and a donut to take home and I was excited cause I was hoping to say Hi to Josh. Unfortunately he was not there and in watching your video or instagram I found out he was at a Dr. appointment with you! So once again congratulations to Josh and to both of you on your fourth little bundle of joy! Love your videos Megan!

[@dionysiapalmer3945]

Nice to see you both chatting...Enjoy back to construction job....we are in our 70's and MANY house jobs only got done when my man retired!! So you two are doing amazing. It makes a diff when wife is home & not working outside the home..i worked( still do) part time..enjoy your young children..now we enjoy grandchildren & hardly remember when ours were little!!! Time does fly past so so quickly

[@tanyajohnston8262]

I love how Josh explains his thoughts about the work he did over the last year and all his learning opportunities, as well as his reasoning for returning to construction. Josh is a wise man, father and husband. I enjoyed listening to his thoughts as he, not once, stared anything negative about either career choice or his past boss, family and colleagues. I agree that the word failure should never enter the conversation. There is no failure, sounds to me like a huge learning growth opportunity that benefited both the folks Josh worked with and himself. Megan, you are fortunate, the Lord must have been working, when he broughtJosh into your life. Josh has such a calming presence. I’m 2 years old and would be proud t have Josh as a son. Take care and trust in God. God bless this new era you both are going into with more family to care for and life business 😊.

[@aprilschellman2472]

"Date nights" can be overrated. People put that out there as a "must" for a healthy marriage, and it's not. As long as your partner & relationship are prioritized and you're connecting, "dates" are not necessary.

[@oneblessedmommy4024]

I agree 100%! Communication is the key, not date nights.

[@WS-by5cl]

Megan I love you, but I hope you gain some perspective for your husband’s sake - Josh’s change is not a failure. If that were so, you would hate to see my life and the changes my husband and I have made, and often have been forced to make. In my opinion we are just fine and where God wants us. I am happy with my life! But in the world’s eyes, we are certainly failures. However, I don’t concern myself any longer with what the world thinks of me. In reality, all life-learning comes from trials, testing, and change. That is how God grows us! ❤️ I say all of this in love.

[@mmmmlllljohn]

It is never a “fail” when you try something new … as Josh said he learned about the business and he seems re-energized to start back at construction. I wonder if it is as hard for guys to say “no” (to a new construction job) as it is for women to say “no” to people when over-extended. Don’t let yourself take on too much, Josh, especially when you have a new baby and less sleep! All the best in 2024! ❤️🇨🇦🙏

[@selinaburke7645]

My word this year is 'surrender'. As in the song 🎵I surrender all 🎵

[@eversosophi9653]

Takeaway: set a goal • you'll accomplish something versus nothing 🥰 so much wisdom between you two ❤️

[@wandagordon6453]

Best Wishes to Josh going back into construction. It’s amazing to see how God works things out exactly when we need it. Praying for upcoming doctor’s appointments. God bless your sweet and precious family! Happy New Year. 😀❤️

[@marybethbagin4565]

Congrats Josh! Having your own business is hard but rewarding work. The word failure was used several times and I totally agree with Josh that it should never be used in conjunction with the change that you are making.

[@tanyajohnston8262]

And Josh helping your channel by editing, helping with kids or being on with you is such a bonus. Good for you, Josh. .

[@khristinayates3577]

My husband and I like to stop and have a cocktail at so little hole in the way. Whenever are a lone driving together. I know you probably don't drink cocktails, but something delicious and quick. We count those as date nights. Our kids are older, so they don't always have to be with us, but when you get those moments, it's nice to take 15- 20 minutes treating ourselves and enjoying our moments a lone.

[@marthareedy]

Wow, another baby Congratulations !! I have not been here for a long time !! It's all new and fresh I have been watching so many different sites I got lost !!

[@TheCripeCrew]

Megan at the beginning of the video says she’s going to be kinder to her family. Megan at the end of the video saying she’s embarrassed and her husband is a failure. Is that a speed record for breaking a resolution?

[@sheridolbow6687]

Those pictures from Arizona were breathtaking. It's on my bucket list.

[@sonyaslifesjourney3879]

I'm planning to start a prayer answered/ miricals book for 2024 and beyond. Just to have a place to write down all the amazing things God dose in the life of my family. So when we go through hard time's when we need to trust him we'll have a reminder that he's listening and cares. Also I just think it will be fun to see in years to come. Anyways I think it's a fun little thing to do.

[@desertdweller8374]

My word always chooses me around Oct./No. and then I have or see little confirmations the following months. This year 2024 will be CONSISTENCY. I want to make a few changes to my health, my schedule, and just overall well being and I believe rather than looking at the overwhelming task of creating new habits - I'm looking at starting small and building through consistency!

[@Nancy-hf1ep]

Good for you trying something new, Josh-you’ve got a new set of skills to always fall back on. And you recognize your passion which sometimes takes years!👍🏻

[@orthodoxandwildflowers5404]

Intentional is my word this year

[@Dana-mb1hd]

Pregnancy is beautiful on you, Megan. I hope the new year brings you so much joy and peace.💖🙏

[@mightykingjesus6731]

His a good man...I would say be kinder to him ❤

[@eversosophi9653]

thank you for sharing about kindness • I think that should be my word for 2024 - especially with my family ❤️

[@lindasmith5190]

At one point in our marriage, my husband quit his job and started his own business. It did not work out but it was a wonderful learning experience and gave us a lot more time to do church duties. I don't think most things that don't work out should ever be considered a failure.

[@juliejackman2649]

Calling it goals makes it seem too overwhelming to me so I just call it things I want to get done. I don't even think of it as things I need to do. Wants apply to whatever it is that I'm doing. 😀 Also I want to say that you never know when something like a brain tumor can change everything about your life. So just being able to walk and think straight is such a great blessing. I always love being a Mom though💕

[@cindywaldrop4287]

Josh, I’m so proud of you. You love your family and strive to do your very best for them. You’ve shown a lot of courage and strength in the last year. Prayers for God’s blessings on the Foxes for 2024. Love to you all. ❤

[@oneblessedmommy4024]

My word for the new year is intentional ❤