Please do a video on how becoming parents have changed your relationship
@latinvanity6 жыл бұрын
This is actually and would actually be a very interesting video!
@vaishnavinatrajan75556 жыл бұрын
Hi Mimi! You are a great speaker...but please let Alex speak please don't interrupt him. He doesn't interrupt you while you speak he gives you time to speak your heart out (literally) but you don't.... 🙏
@sophiaanna88096 жыл бұрын
I’m an only child and that is the reason why I had 2 , I hated being an only child , and when I lost my mum no one understood the pain I felt , I would have loved a sibling .
@BL-tt7gc6 жыл бұрын
Sophia Anna I don’t get why people only have one if they have the option. As much as we fight I could not imagine going through rough patches without them. Especially when it comes to parents and health issues. So sorry you had to go through that alone
@BL-tt7gc6 жыл бұрын
Without my siblings
@sophiaanna88096 жыл бұрын
Brittany W thank you so much for your kind reply ! It is true it’s hard alone , some people think it’s right for them to have one but I don’t think they understand how hard it is on the child , I close friend once said to me (whilst I was pregnant with my second ) that she would never have a second as she loved her son too much .. my reply was I also love my son so much that’s why I’m giving him the gift of a sister ... she literally said she would have an abortion if she had another anyway ... a year on and she’s had a second !
@BL-tt7gc6 жыл бұрын
Sophia Anna people always have such strong and silly ideas about things like that but when it actually happens it’s very different
@rwiebe86106 жыл бұрын
I agree having only one child would be so hard for the child emotionally.
@bettasousa16 жыл бұрын
Yes to a video about how becoming parents changed your relationship. I think it would also be great to do an updated morning or evening routine with a child.
@sotellmedaisy6 жыл бұрын
bettasousa1 pp
@elizagray73366 жыл бұрын
this might be very personal but would love a video on how you have grown as a couple and maybe and example of an argument or a struggle you have overcome and how you communicated to each other in that hard time
@kaylariggs51886 жыл бұрын
Eliza Gray Yes!! Love that idea!!
@leasofie11716 жыл бұрын
I think what Alex says is very real and true to what many fathers experience in the beginning. They don’t connect the same way with the baby because they are not involved in the baby as much as the mothers are. Alex is not afraid to talk about the hard stuff and being true to what he felt, I think he should have a BIG thumbs up!
@LaVidaClara6 жыл бұрын
So, basically, you guys OUTSOURCED every single parenting activity (sleep training, babysitting, etc). You travel, take daily walks, go to the park, have a personal trainer, but COMPLAIN about not having enough freedom anymore. Your experience is the OPPOSITE to a normal parenting experience! Im sure you guys thought the baby would adapt to your lifestyle and when you realised she wouldnt, of course you decided you wouldnt have any more children. Also, this video should be named HOW HAVING A BABY AFFECTED OUR PRECIOUS LIFESTYLE. You dont even talk about your baby, her milestones or things that have changed IN you after having her. Im so THANKFUL you dont wanna have more children!
@raetvnetwork6 жыл бұрын
La Vida Clara so bitter ahhh can’t stand this!
@ronabrookemoore6 жыл бұрын
I totally cried when you said its like watching your heart walk away from you
@cloverstylez6 жыл бұрын
ronabrookemoore me too! I’m pregnant with my second daughter and I feel like my heart will explode. It’s hard to imagine being even happier than I am right now with my first
@wa61846 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you mentioned the fact that it's not fair to the child if you have one and then don't spend time with them. It's a very important aspect in my eyes and personally I think if you're not willing to sacrifice your time for your child, then you shouldn't have one. Which is one (of the many) reasons I made the decision to stay childless. I love children and worked as a nanny several years but I don't want one for myself.
@REBELLOGIC6 жыл бұрын
Definitely make the other video!!!
@TheElsaAlvarado6 жыл бұрын
I am so happy Mimi and Alex were 100% real about their parenting experience. It is refreshing to hear the honest truth. It's also funny because I remember before they had Alexa, they said "Oh yes, our kid will adjust to our lifestyle..." and they say the opposite now, of course. Their own growth as people and parents is apparent! Happy for you!
@TheElsaAlvarado6 жыл бұрын
Please do a relationship video!!
@Thevvaldez6 жыл бұрын
I don’t know if “responsible” is the right word.
@txelizabeth6 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. I would say overprotective not responsible.
@kaylariggs51886 жыл бұрын
Thevvaldez what do you mean by that?
@ayannacrosskill60626 жыл бұрын
I would say controlling
@8sparkle6 жыл бұрын
+Ayanna Crosskill I agree! If I am blessed to have a child I would be controlling as well.
@ulk26786 жыл бұрын
I get where she was coming from, I think it was more like it is her responsibility to be involved in every step. At least that is how I got it :)
@courtneygalleryphoto86496 жыл бұрын
I sense that Alex is trying so incredibly hard to not interrupt Mimi. He always looks like he is going to burst lol
@adastraperaspera34876 жыл бұрын
Courtney Gallery yeah that was painful to watch. Plus she interrupts him a lot. He has to talk over her sometimes or rush his words. That’s consistent in most of their videos. Still haven’t learned to respect that.
@pboyd83546 жыл бұрын
I was jst now thinking to myself that i need to fast forward to the end because i cannot watch the whole thing for the very issue that you've brought up. To me, it should be the number one rule when vlogging as a couple. Dont interrupt. That and dont disrespect your partner during film and in my observation its mostly the female who has this bad habit. For the viewer it's very off-putting and I wish they'd pay better attention to these comments.
@courtneygalleryphoto86496 жыл бұрын
Zara Hazan I notice it in all their sit down videos or even in vlogs when they are discussing something it’s a shame though because they have such intelligent and insightful things to say but it’s hard to watch
@courtneygalleryphoto86496 жыл бұрын
Pam Boyd they are both such passionate people with a lot of ideas but they only focus on when will it be their chance to speak rather than listening patiently to one another. It’s a hard habit to break though ....
@kaylariggs51886 жыл бұрын
I know I love it they are both so eager to get it all out! I personally love that. He's so full of information ! 😊
@jmontoya846 жыл бұрын
I have a love/hate relationship with these guys. So into being organic and spreading the love, but so business minded at the same time and splurging on material things. Doesn't go hand in hand in my eyes. Always looking to make a profit.
@rachelpredicts6 жыл бұрын
jsparkle84 Every single human needs to make a profit to survive
@m.e.8816 жыл бұрын
jsparkle84 if business owners don't have that mindset, they won't be business owners for long.
@advait81536 жыл бұрын
jsparkle i absolutely agree
@csc16416 жыл бұрын
Their greed is so apprent and is a "living" and "breathing" thing in their world.
@csc16416 жыл бұрын
apparent
@therewillbetearsxo6 жыл бұрын
I think it all depends on what your priorities are. For some parents, having children feels like the missing piece to their lives, but for others it’s not their entire lives, just one part of it. Although we don’t know your lives in detail, the parts you share with us make it seem like you guys had a hard time adjusting since you expected your lifestyle to go back to the way it used to be as quickly and as easily possible, which in reality may never happen.
@jenifercook81006 жыл бұрын
My daughter is now 3 and it's absolute heaven. She's so affectionate to us and fun, parenting is the best thing in the world! We have another one on the way so back to the hard work at the beginning!
@amberleaf76 жыл бұрын
Jenya Cook That sounds like the right kind of perspective to have! Well done, mama.
@NicoleCB6 жыл бұрын
Yes, would like to see video on how your marital relationship has changed.
@bucher0n6 жыл бұрын
You say you have no one around and in the next sentence you say your mum stayed for 5 months, and she or they also always come on your holidays with you ... so...you literally have almost non stop support!
@isaiasjeremy75793 жыл бұрын
Instablaster
@SassyLittleFrassie6 жыл бұрын
Please do the relationship video ad a sleep training video! Just one of the lessons I’ve learned with my two and a half year old is that it’s much easier to set good habits early rather than break bad habits later :) love you guys
@maggybello3566 жыл бұрын
Sleep Training video please loved the video
@lanielenie30576 жыл бұрын
Sleep training video please
@FreckleFinance6 жыл бұрын
Lanie Lenie not them but I have a 7 month old and Ferber worked well for us, from the little bit she said I'd say they were likely similar.
@maggybello3566 жыл бұрын
Whats ferber?
@FreckleFinance6 жыл бұрын
Bellomargarita Maggy512 it's a sleep training method. Robert Ferber. Also sleep wave is good too and very similar. Currently using it to night wean.
@maggybello3566 жыл бұрын
Where can i find it ?
@mayhussein69036 жыл бұрын
Spending too much time growing businesses and making alot of money instead of growing your family and thinking about your baby and what they want and need is sad because shes going to grow up and will question why she doesnt have a sibling and your reason for that isnt a very good one. All you're thinking about is business business business. When it comes to kids you should make time for them. I raised my baby who is 10 months old all by myself with no help from my family and I had him at 20 and I'm 21 now. It's a huge learning experience but it's so worth it.
@madalenadinis98326 жыл бұрын
this video is just what i needed right now!! your energy is everything ✨⭐️
@vucishstrong13856 жыл бұрын
I love how Alex’s head is cut off cause of how tall he is. Love you guys ,
@alexiaeve526 жыл бұрын
Please think long and hard before deciding to only have one child. Think about how much you love your sister leyla. Why would you want to deny Alexa of that? I’m an only child and I was of course very happy as a child but now that I’m older there’s a relationship that’s missing in my life and I feel it. I think about my future children and how they won’t have cousins on my side and I have no sibling in my life that I can always depend on through thick and thin. It’s really breaks my heart so plz reconsider.
@alexamorrison63716 жыл бұрын
Alexia Mars it breaks YOUR heart and THEY have to reconsider?
@alexiaeve526 жыл бұрын
Alexa Morrison I just meant that my situation breaks my heart. They don’t “have” to do anything. I was just sharing my story and asking that they think about it more. They don’t have to do anything. It’s their life.
@SonniesOriginals6 жыл бұрын
I had the same experience as an only child and when I see my friends with siblings, it always makes me feel sad that I will never have that bond with someone. But I think the worst thing to do is to have a child because 'you should', so I totally respect it if a couple only wants one :) In the end, there is never a 'perfect' number of kids to have.
@-Solange-6 жыл бұрын
Agree. I feel similarly.
@alexiaeve526 жыл бұрын
Yes this is true, there could be many other reasons as to why they may not want more children. I guess you never really know the full situation.
@edyytka136 жыл бұрын
Let Alex speak! it is so clear that it annoys him but he is just too kind to admit that...interrupting people while they are in the middle of the sentence is very ignorant and rude. He doesn't interrupt when you speak ! Learn something valuable from you husband! Anyway i love your vlogs and I am a big fan kisses Mimi x
@abbbadri6 жыл бұрын
Its not "third world countries" anymore. Its called developing countries. JUST fyi for your next public talk.
@littleblacklawyergermanbla20086 жыл бұрын
Raluca England They are working hard they are not royals. However they are just not well-informed although they travel a lot....sad
@littleblacklawyergermanbla20086 жыл бұрын
ivi122 ahaaa even shit hole countries who care? the award is the same we all die
@csc16416 жыл бұрын
It makes Mimi and Alex feel superior to others to speak that way.
@amberleaf76 жыл бұрын
It seems to me that Mimi is evolving as an individual in ways that Alex is falling behind in...
@lovelyness056 жыл бұрын
I read a lot of these comments, mimi and Alex I think you guys are genuine to yourselves in your parenting style. You do you! You have a beautiful, happy child, and yes it’s been personal sacrifice, this is what the video was about...what you have learned. It was great. I enjoyed your perspective. Subjects like these are very personal and subjective so we can’t judge, we can just thank you for sharing your experience. It take courage and initiative. Kudos!
@staciemurray5146 жыл бұрын
This video was great! You guys showed a lot of humility on what you thought vs what actually was. 👍🏼 would love to hear the changes for your relationship- my husband and I have 3 kids and every child has changed our relationship and we really have to make sure to carve out time for eachother❤️
@velkamylifecoach6 жыл бұрын
To be responsible is different than being controlling. As your viewers, we knew that you didn't' have a clue what is to be a parent. Everyone passes that stage. It was just annoying to hear your strong opinions and after a while to see that you are doing the opposite (a good example is using the stroller). And some of us also have multiple business and multiple children, but we stay humble.
@LaVidaClara6 жыл бұрын
I loved this comment SO MUCH!!!!!
@violettababenko48475 жыл бұрын
People can have strong opinions and then change their mind. get over yourself
@ximenanava52076 жыл бұрын
Them: we don’t want to go on for an hour Me: no, no, no, please do!
@cynthiarbd07126 жыл бұрын
I'm a mom without being a mom. I have taken care of my 2 yrs. Old baby niece since day 1 she was born; I see her more than my sister sees her. She is basically raising ME. I learn something every day. Totally agree with both of you.
@szederlekvar6 жыл бұрын
One thing I love about your videos is how deep and dense they are. I always find myself pausing them after every few minutes, do some mindless things and process what I just heard, think about it, digest it until I can hit 'play' again and go on with the video. I think it's beacuse by watching you, both my brain and heart and intellect and self-awereness are stimulated. I can't watch them with just half attention. It's like having an hours-long, very meaningful conversation with a best friend or bigger sister/brother. Almost tiring but so fulfilling.
@anamelissaz6 жыл бұрын
I don't really know where to start... 30 mins of my life I'm not getting back. 1) Mimi, when you say you're too responsible you actually mean "controlling". 2) Most parents WORK full time jobs and childcare is not optional, not all parents are running their own businesses from home. Oh, and this does not mean they're "not present". 3) Alex, "third world countries" and "dirty water" = not the best choice of words in the UK (or anywhere) it's just awful that you think that way. 4) CHECK your privilege before speaking if you want to make a favour to the online parenting community, and acknowledge that what you do and have is not the reality of most people and perhaps that will make you connect with other parents in real life. Oh also, check the research on benefits of toddlers interacting with other toddlers, maybe you'll change your mind about childcare.
@LaVidaClara6 жыл бұрын
PREACH IT SISTER!!!!
@mena50906 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment. I love you Mimi but this video was so off. I don't know.
@CamilaFarhat5 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! I am getting thrown off by these two always being so tone deaf and blind to the fact that they actually live in a bubble. Not even going to get to the "third country" thing cause as a person born and raised in a DEVELOPING country that just makes me very hurt. All that travelling and books and people learn nothing!
@qtasabutton215 жыл бұрын
Ana Melissa Zárraga Zamora I think the reason why Mimi is like this is because she once said she grew up in a war torn country with not very much. It is from my experience from watching her videos for so long that she is the way that she is. I think she is trying to overcompensate for something now as an adult and these are things that maybe she didn’t have growing up as a child... everyone has issues and everyone is a little bit broken from something in life.... and it usually projects in our lives in one way or another at one point.. I think that is why Mimi is the way that she is. A perfectionist and tries so hard to create a perfect image on social media I understand her.... it’s weird but I do...but what does bother me is that people who have lived and grown up with not very much as children shouldn’t be talking or acting like pompous high horse elites now that she’s away from all of that.
@violettababenko48475 жыл бұрын
You are the one that is judging her and her lifestyle. She literally every time says that there are different ways to parent. She also said some can't be so hands on out of necessity or by choice.
@amberleaf76 жыл бұрын
Sounds like they had a child too early, if they call her an “inconvenience” and compare her to businesses. Somebody who really appreciates a gift like a child would never utter some of the phrases they said in this somewhat heartless video.
@anamelissaz6 жыл бұрын
Amber Leaf I agree with you 100%!!!
@sweetmusical16 жыл бұрын
I agree! Actually after watching this video, I think it's better for them not to have kids because they seem to be too business driven. They never mentioned in the video how Alexa is a blessing to them.
@jojo-cq6qv5 жыл бұрын
What are you guys talking about?! At ten minutes in Mimi is crying taking about how much she loves her daughter! Just because she didnt say the actual word 'blessing',... did you not watch the video? I don't parent in the same way as Mimi and Alex nor do I agree with all their lifestyle choices but I respect their choices and I think its obvious that they love their daughter.
@Plsbringtea5 жыл бұрын
I picked up the same feeling. They seem to be very “ego driven” which is fine if it works for them. But Alex made a comment that made me feel weird. When he spoke about his daughter in the beginning, he made a casual comment - “I love Alexa, she’s awesome” Almost the same way one would about a friend or something they like. An opinion. Not a connection.
@violettababenko48475 жыл бұрын
WTF? he literally said it's an inconvenience to someone who doesn't like routine but it's important to the child. So damn judgemental. I love that they are real about it!! I hate it when parents are like they're such a blessing blah blah blah. Sure but they also take over your life, so be real for goodness sake.
@roxannelima31116 жыл бұрын
I think you mean you like to be in control not responsible. You definitely are, it shows for sure!! But sounds like your having a hard time giving up these experiences with Alexa to others. My sister in law seems to be like that. Love your vids! ❤️
@mahll2226 жыл бұрын
I always remember a quote from Ms Oprah ' parenting was one of the toughest job on earth' .... it was truth but the experience was priceless. Many thanks for sharing yours. Alexa was so blessed to have both of u as parents 👨👩👧💖
@kaylariggs51886 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh, you guys! What an amazing video!!! You guys are both so intelligent, & have such a unique lifestyle i just love hearing your point of view on your parenting experiences. Please don't wait long to make more videos like this, AND LOVE HAVING BOTH OF YOU IN ONE VIDEO!! Love to all of you, Lala & Lydia too!! 🤗
@kirky93476 жыл бұрын
Makes me cry when I think about how much I love my daughter too. It's indescribable how much love you feel!
@shameemahossenbux25416 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you made this video, making the other video would be great too. As parents with a 15-month old baby, we thought that we were the only ones going through the challenges of having our 1st child. I'm glad to see that we're not the only ones, everything you went through, we went through too and managed to get through it too. It's also a great video to prepare couple thinking of having a baby! I wish I had seen this 2 years earlier lol! We've been through sleepless nights, sick baby, breastfeeding difficulties, finding time for our partners, baby tantrums and we've now managed to get a good routine, our baby sleeps through the night (since 11 months old) and we make time for ourselves and each other. Everyday brings a new challenge but as long as we get the right help and the parents join forces, anything is possible. Thank you again for making this video, look forward to the next one :) x
@amandakimberly49956 жыл бұрын
I actually really enjoyed this video. I like how real and honest you both were. Parenting for the Mom and parenting for the Dad are two different experiences. It’s all about adaptation and not every person has the same experience. Not only that, the beautiful thing about having a child is that you get to decide what kind of life you want to give them. So, people, PLEASE. Just because you don’t choose to do something the way they do - doesn’t make their way wrong! Love to you Alex + Mimi! I think you’re both rockstar parents.
@meriemeelorch83116 жыл бұрын
You look gorgeous Mimi for a mama that had struggled with all those difficulties! We are currently facing and learning all those points with our baby princess... wish you all the best guys!
@holisticmaya6 жыл бұрын
Mimi you have such a big heart. Alex too. He expresses it in a different way, which seems to be misconstrued by some commenters here. You’re both amazing parents and a perfect pairing:) Alexa is so blessed!
@kaylariggs51886 жыл бұрын
holisticmaya Yeah I'm already getting annoyed! They're good people with good hearts. They are all about positivity and being optimistic, and yet somehow the negative whiners still find their way here. 🙄
@HP-lx5ih6 жыл бұрын
Misconstrued? Maybe you have misconstrued. We all are allowed to have our own opinions and we all observe things differently, nothing wrong with that. Me, being a parent myself, just found some of the remarks what Alex said just a bit weird/off and sensed some sort of resentment/emotional coldness from his words. They always preach about gratitude but honestly, it didn't sound like he was that grateful.
@m.e.8816 жыл бұрын
He te could it also be that he just isn't as accustomed to opening up to the camera as Mimi is? I'm kind of new here, but isn't she the one who's normally in front of the camera, sharing her personality?
@kaylariggs51886 жыл бұрын
M. E. Well technically yes, but he does have his own channel. Look it up, Alex Ikonn. He's got a bunch of vlogs, and inspirational content. I personally love both their channels! 😊
@m.e.8816 жыл бұрын
Kayla Riggs thanks for the tip! :)
@bettyzak25886 жыл бұрын
I actually like this video. When you were expecting I was like "wtf are they saying. The have no idea hehe". And it's nice that you see how mistaken you were. Being a parent is so damn hard but rewarding at the same time.
@abigail9675 жыл бұрын
Beata Zakrzewska THIS COMMENT! Love it! Haha i was pretty frustrated too with how ignorant they were before baby. Like they knew it all. This is nice to listen to now. Humility. And parenting only gets harder as the kids age. BUT parenting my kids is the best part of my life. I wouldn’t change that for the challenges.
@annalolly98596 жыл бұрын
Would definitely love a video about sleep training, my little girl is due in June and so it would be interesting to know how you’ve done it whilst traveling to so many different countries. This video was great, so glad to see you back more often Mimi💪🏼
@Gen456 жыл бұрын
Many health professionals and phycologists advise against this type of sleep training. Please be careful if you advise your audience of these sleep methods
@AGAMDV6 жыл бұрын
jenni It hurts my heart to hear that they sleep trained. Babies don't learn to self soothe, they just learn that you aren't coming for them. I wish KZbin families would stop sharing this too.
@MsLiz22086 жыл бұрын
Thanks for speaking out ! I was really shocked that they did sleep training 😢
@csc16416 жыл бұрын
Genni: But, but Mimi is perfect and knows all. Her tribe will follow her off a cliff if she says so. Don't pop that illusion for them. Mimi is always right. Wink-wink.
@brooklyntiara6 жыл бұрын
Adriana Guillen This is not how sleep training works.
@jenlovatt18165 жыл бұрын
I'm just watching this for the first time (not sure how I missed it - must not have had that bell on!). My son is six months younger than Alexa so I love watching/reading your parenting videos/posts as a hint at "what's to come". It is so refreshing to see someone with a similar attitude to parenthood to me - Mimi; I also definitely feel like as a mother you have your heart walk around outside your body all day. I am not sure if this intensity fades as the child grows older (I hope it does, or school is going to make me very sad, let alone adulthood) but I too physically and emotionally pine for my son when we're not together. I work normal office hours four days a week - on one of those days my husband and son spend time together (my husband also works four days), and the other three he goes to nursery. This is the best balance we could achieve, so our son spends more time with a parent than in childcare. He LOVES it but I still feel a lump in my throat when I walk back to the car after dropping him off, and he's now 21 months old. I like a lot of your philosophies on parenting but one I can't quite get my head around or understand is the sleep training - as an Attachment Parent I couldn't stand to see my son cry for me, though I'm sure you're right about it being effective as he still likes to breastfeed to sleep or falls asleep in a moving car or pushchair (except at nursery - then it's peer pressure and they all nap together). How did you manage to tolerate the 24 hours with the consultant and sticking to her plan when you do feel such a responsibility and deep love for Alexa? Did you also stop breastfeeding Alexa if she wakes at this time, or did she literally sleep through straight away so "night weaning" was never an issue for you? I don't mean this to sound critical - I am asking for advice. As for my biggest thing I learned since becoming a parent that would be that you really learn who you can count on, and who your true friends are - I'm still surprised to this day about who makes the effort to see me to suit my son's schedule (ie. not after his bedtime!) and who let me drop off the radar when I had him. We have one set of grandparents living locally (a 20 minute drive away) and they are not really involved in his life any more than those who are a 2-hour drive away. So it's just me and husband, and I love how close it makes it, although like I say it has been interesting to see which old friends I still have, what the new ones I've made have been like, and who we can count on if we need help with our son.
@anjapecar94536 жыл бұрын
Really amazing video, and i agree with almost everything. Really realistic. Loved it!
@OlgiHerzchen6 жыл бұрын
I really love and appreciate your reflections on this first year with your baby. You two are so wise!
@carolinagbb6 жыл бұрын
Very cool video about parenthood but I sensed Alex is very cold towards parenthood, almost like it’s a “Mimi’s thing”, my husband and I have a child the same age of Alexa and he’s totally melted by the experience, here it’s almost like Alex is an outsider, detached
@stephanietaylor58986 жыл бұрын
Really like this video. My only other thought would be that I disagree with what you said about being ready to have a child. My first child was born when I was just 24 years old. I was no where near “ready” having just launched my career and having my partner leave me when we found out we were pregnant. I was not ready to become a single mom. But I never resented her for it. I became so attached and in love with her from day 1, there was no room left for resentment of any kind. Just thought I’d give my perspective since I have heard that a lot and it definitely was not my experience. My first daughter is now a happy 7 year old and I have 2 more sweet little ones with my husband of 4 years. Very happy I didn’t wait until I was “ready” even though the learning curve was big being a single mom. It was worth it 100%. 👍🏻☺️
@Annie0808756 жыл бұрын
Even if you have full-time childcare, you have to be fully present in your child's life. Most people are working while their children are in childcare, so they in many respects end up working two jobs and feel the burden of being completely present once they are present with the child. Moreover, Alexa is now at an age when she would seriously benefit from going to daycare part-time. There has been a good amount research showing the benefit of peer-to-peer learning from children especially while they are toddlers. It helps with social skills as well as language and communication skills.
@heloise46526 жыл бұрын
Really great video and something I would love to have seen in the early days of parenthood! I'm sure this will help lots of new parents. I found as my children grew older it moved from being an emphasis on physical challenge and tiredness (you seem to be constantly breastfeeding, changing nappies, bathing, trying to get them to sleep etc) to dealing with mental challenges. Their upset when they get picked on at school or can't understand something or (at the toddler stage) want to do EVERYTHING themselves even when it's dangerous or not possible ;-). And of course with teenagers it's the worry of having to let them have some freedom and to travel to school alone etc...and that feeling when they are late home for some reason or another and have forgotten to warn you. In general - one thing I would add is that it worth remembering the mantra 'this too shall pass'...With parenting just as you've finally figured out something a new challenge rears itself...but you soon start to discover that each one will resolve with time ....so when there is a new sleep issue or your previously perfect eater suddenly refuses every form of vegetable just try not to catastrophise (this was in my case...Mimi and Alex are probably far too sensible to do this) and realise it's not the end of the world and you (and your baby will get through it)...my two are 9 and 15 now so I've gone through quite a few of the stages now!
@kameliasarafska15276 жыл бұрын
Loved that video! Definitely going to try to make everyday routine for myself. Great point! Also please do video about how your relationship has changed and about the sleeping routine! Love you !
@victoriacallocchia73026 жыл бұрын
AMAZING VIDEO!! 💘 Mimi you took the words right out of my mouth when it comes to feeling responsible and “responsibility” I feel the same and I thought it was a control thing but I never felt connected to that because it’s negative and I feel positive about it. I guess this has opened my eyes to realize it’s more of a responsibility thing that I feel for mine 💞Thank you so much for sharing 💕
@noureldandarawi35816 жыл бұрын
i've been following you for over 4 years now i guess, and i cannot express how grateful i am or express the amount of lessons i've learned ... today you taught me again that parenting isn't like how media shows it as a huge boring responsible experience but it is more of dedicating yourself to a small human being and giving him/her an endless love. I'm way younger than having a child but now i can not only accept the fact that one day i will be a parent but also love it ... so thank you very much 😄❤❤❤ keep being yourself ❤❤
@Andrea-zq8cm6 жыл бұрын
In videos related to Bingo Theory you explained how Alex is a feminine energy man and you are a masculine energy woman, but in this video, you are the one who is really emotional and caring, which are the characteristics of,so called,feminine energy, and Alex shows no emotion and talks rationally and logically. Isn't that a little contradictory?
@gaby0614886 жыл бұрын
Andrea S. That is so true
@lillaermy79876 жыл бұрын
I don't think it is contradictory. Mimi is still a woman, even if she has masculine energy. Remember : nothing is all white or all black.
@laura9996 жыл бұрын
if one has more masculine energy it doesn't mean masculine energy is 100% ! it can be only 60% masculine as well.
@csc16416 жыл бұрын
Did you buy that "special" coconut oil for your hair? Same concept "a little contradictory"?
@violettababenko48475 жыл бұрын
You clearly didn't read about the theory or listen to their podcast.
@yamiledh21776 жыл бұрын
This video is sooo good! You guys explain exactly how parenting is and I love it, my baby is 7 months old now and I can relate on everything you said! I love how Mimi gets emotional 😙
@helenaonneby55276 жыл бұрын
For anyone curious about traveling with kids, I truly recommend the Bucket list family here on KZbin - so sweet and inspirational!
@lovemaali6 жыл бұрын
My son just turned one year old... He's finally starting sleeping through the night. It's definitely been a journey. But i agree that the sleep is the MOST important part of raising a child. Sleep=happy baby=happy parent! Loved hearing your journey because from your videos it always seem that you haven't really struggled with these kind of problems. I always like when people are open and honest about parenthood, because a lot of people get so much out of this knowing they are not the only one who has struggles. Love your videos and Alexa is super fun child! All the best!
@JoshyMinecraftt6 жыл бұрын
A very real video with great advice and insight. A lot of just don’t talk about some of the things you touched on. What stuck with me the most was when you talked about being spontaneous vs having a routine with a child. That is so relatable to me. Not only having a routine but with a child you have to be consistent. For instance, if you are working out and you lose a day or two of consistency it’s not a big deal but that’s not the case with kids. Giving someone that consistency every single day is I believe a huge challenge for many and something to really think about before having kids. One thing to add make sure that division of tasks and care are agreed on as much as possible. After having a baby it can be tough when you thought you would receive more help from your partner than you actually do. Maybe something to touch on in your next video regarding your relationship after baby. Thanks guys!
@aliadizzle6 жыл бұрын
This came at a good time, I had my first baby 4 days ago! I am watching this with him on my boob haha. Great video 😊❤
@KellyShuster6 жыл бұрын
Aw congrats!! I found Mimi's channel a few days after I had my first baby :) I spent a good month on the couch nursing, dozing, and watching videos from people like Mimi as they discovered motherhood with me.
@REBELLOGIC6 жыл бұрын
My favorite family on KZbin - great video... thanks for sharing your experience
@beverleyroberts10256 жыл бұрын
Mimi, you're passionate, hardworking, wise and beautiful! Alex you are caring, loving, patient and kind. You make great parents, your lives are so blessed with having such a beautiful child in Alexa, and you have so much to look forward too 💕 x
@MrsLowery896 жыл бұрын
Beverley Roberts yes! Idk why people have so much negativity about both of them, especially Alex! They seem great and real!
@rebeccamartinez46756 жыл бұрын
Mimi I would love to see the video about how your relationship changed with parenthood!
@TWood-bq3jj6 жыл бұрын
Love your family! I really enjoyed this video; I experience baby fever off and on but I’m not in the best place in my life to be a great parent and I like that you encourage waiting Mimi. Y’all should definitely do another video about how the relationship has transitioned between you and Alex. Keep the videos coming!
@artistakay2736 жыл бұрын
Love this but why wouldn’t you have another one? Financially you can afford it, and you both have siblings. You know the bliss of having someone there for you no matter what. I think people spend to much time on there business and not enough time growing a family. Your business won’t be there for you when you age, but god willing you family will be.
@emu95206 жыл бұрын
No guarantee the siblings will even like each other nevermind look after their parents...
@artistakay2736 жыл бұрын
e mu why Alexa looks just like Mimi
@nisbaneemat29556 жыл бұрын
Artistakay i
@lmt66726 жыл бұрын
e mu if you raise them up right they will
@good_life...6 жыл бұрын
What I learnt becoming a parent is what ever I do I can’t protect baby, because I don’t deserve my baby. I was following Mimi since I was pregnant and I gave birth to my baby the same month as Mimi, I still breast feeding my daughter, I was all the time feeding her organic food and taking care of her. But what happened is that my daughter was diagnosed with a cancer 4 months ago, and she is treated by chimio therapy.. thatis very hard to me, I have a huge pain in my heart, I can’t sleep, I cry everyday, I wish if it is just a nightmare what iam living
@lolaahop6 жыл бұрын
good life.... I'm so sry! I can't even imagine how you must feel. Stay strong❤
@syrum85086 жыл бұрын
good life.... that is not your fault. Even if you feed only organic, get the best things for your baby, breastfeed etc...unfortunate things can happen to anyone. I hope your child pulls through this. And you stay strong. Do not blame yourself!
@Birkinbag096 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear this! Sending you lots of love and support
@JoshyMinecraftt6 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear this. No one deserves that news. I hope things will start to get lighter for you as the days go by.
@Books4breakfast6 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your child. I don’t know you but I desperately hope everything will be ok for you. We do what we can for our children but nothing makes us immune to some horrible diseases. Your child is lucky to have a wonderful mother who cares so deeply for them. I hope you have a good support network around you to lean on. Sending you all my love right now xx
@twinklegurlo6 жыл бұрын
i'm 5 months pregnant and i already can't believe how much I love this baby that's inside of me. Mimi you totally made me teared up...u're so sweet!
@djeanfoley6 жыл бұрын
I love this video..... Thank you for sharing! I have a 2 year old & I can really relate to EVERYTHING you are saying! I love how honest you both are. 💗💗💗
@lucia-cosmina80726 жыл бұрын
Yessss pleaseeeee. Make the video about How your relationship changed/evolved since you had Alexa. We can definitely use some advice! Love you!
@jageejohn72126 жыл бұрын
Mimi.... Please let your poor husband talk comfortably ... Its a request .... He desrves it
@theslowlifestories6 жыл бұрын
Please please make the other video! ❤️ we have two months old daughter and it s the most beautiful and challenging experience I had and have:) Thanks to you guys and your motivational videos I started my own channel and am fulfilling my dream! Love you :) i send you the most positive energy and keep going!
@НаталияА-ъ2п6 жыл бұрын
I just can imagine Alexa smiling while watching this video when she grows up, or for her 18th birthday for example 😊Great video! ❤️
@MissCakeCup6 жыл бұрын
I can relate to EVERY.SINGLE.WORD you said! I'm a new mom and my baby is 5 months old now and I can truly say that this video sums up all these things that are related to be a new parent! What else can I say: keep inspiring us as you always do! Mimi and Alex: you're precious human beings! Lots of love from Italy PS sorry for my english 😙😙
@ellie65306 жыл бұрын
I have a 14 months old boy and I’m a psychologist n I agree with everything you said; the responsibility, sleep training, routine n everything. She is a beautiful happy baby n you are amazing parents n please make the other video too.
@sunisteph6 жыл бұрын
My son broke his "habit" of falling asleep at the breast all by himself, when he was ready... no expensive sleep trainer required. It's just a question of accepting this "habit" as something any baby under one has... so it's not so much a habit as a natural instinct... if most children in the world do it, how can it be something unnatural?
@roskidd6 жыл бұрын
Love the video!! Would love to see more on the sleep training and the routine you implemented for Alexa :)
@mysonruns6 жыл бұрын
Loved this video! Thanks for sharing your struggles & triumphs in raising Alexa.
@kIrIXP6 жыл бұрын
Pleeeeease do more relationship videos! I just love the way you fit together and i think we can learn so much about healthy relationship by you! ❤️❤️❤️
@oumamag88046 жыл бұрын
I am not a parent . But i love how you became more emotional after having alexa i may be wrong but i felt the intensity you were talking about . And it s just crazy how as much as you talk to a man or someone who isnt a parent about the mom emotion and attachment for the child you almost feel like they dont fully get it bcz they dont feel it if that makes sense but yeah ilove you and your little family . Big up . 😍😍😍😍😚😚😚
@mariaritabastos-tigre36916 жыл бұрын
Loved the video! Since I had my kid, and he is the same age as Alexa, I’ve learned that I am much stronger than I though, I’ve learned to be more patience, to judge less other parents, that a routine is fundamental to both the kid and the parent and, last but not least, it made me want to be a better person and professional so that he can look up to me and so that I can provide to him. I’m now pregnant of my second child :) new challenges on the way :)!! Love being a mom! Best gift ever!
@ShayleneReynolds6 жыл бұрын
I love this video! My Dad and Step-mom had 3 kids when I was in High School and it was shocking how much work it was for all of us. And what you said about the first 3 months..lol. I think with each child I blocked out that first 3 months. I was also a full-time nanny to 3 kids when I was in my early/mid-20's. However, I think being an actual parent would be entirely different. I love seeing how much you both are involved in Alexa's childhood. She is such a sweet, cute little lady
@trueglam046 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't mind an hour long video! I love long videos from Mimi ❤️😂 keep them coming!
@jablum776 жыл бұрын
I respect you guys for being honest is important. The judgement is real on social media. You are no different from other working parents who juggle. I would only say don’t make Alexa an only child , but that’s obviously not my decision. Ok at Mimi being super maternal.. remember the stoic .. raise a child in the wild mentality you guys had before.. nice to see how real life changes things
@PriyankaUppal6 жыл бұрын
Execellent video Mimi and Alex! You guys nailed it. Thanks so much for sharing! You guys are my fav “KZbin couple” ❤️ keep doing what you guys are doing and inspiring us every single day! Cheers
@katiakompot6 жыл бұрын
Sasha, your manners are exactly like your dad's. Pretty awesome how things pass through geny.
@yn34816 жыл бұрын
I would like to see the next video about how it has changed your relationship! please make that video too!
@MuniKatt6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this advice. I’d also like to see more of your lookbook videos!
@LizKcer6 жыл бұрын
Yes, please make the relationship video. I am very interested in how a couple adjusts to having a child.
@emmaducat93906 жыл бұрын
Such a great video. since you had Alexa I've been looking forward to a video about your experiences as parents and also how your relationship has changed. I have a one year old son and its so great to hear from both of you your experiences and also your struggles and how you have overcome them. PLEASE make a video on how your relationship has changed. I love Alexa videos and videos on parenting.
@lovelifementoring53996 жыл бұрын
Fantastic idea for the new video...my youngest is 20 but all applies, plus new parents need this! ❤️❤️
@Nina-dp3gx6 жыл бұрын
If OK with you, could you share why you decide to have only 1 child? It is impressive how decided and clearly in agreement you are on that point.
@marianaguberti94196 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mimi and Alex for sharing your experiences and for always being an inspiration. My baby girl is arriving in june and your knowledge will surely help my husband and I. Love you guys!
@suenavivedisfruta5586 жыл бұрын
Yes ,having a child is a lot of work. But it is the most rewarding feeling ever. Every milestone they go through is different and cherish each moment I spent with them. Specially from newborn to two. This age is the cutest. I am just like you Mimi. I am a stay home mom.👍😊😍I have four kids. 19,10,5,2.I have all the stages. hahaha!!!😊
@angelito4us6 жыл бұрын
Sueña Vive Disfruta no
@maryamabdulkhadir30146 жыл бұрын
I will definitely love to watch that video on how your relationship changed after having Alexa. You're inspiring and beautiful people. Much love xx
@railiadoson6 жыл бұрын
I love seeing this video. Not because I agree with or learn from it, just because you are present with your lifestyle. What I would say, is not every minute and hour of the day has to be hard work and analysed throughout. To be a good parent is very much instinctive too, and not only by mother, also by father (for example my second child has so close relationship with his father, they click from birth somehow and he made all his milestones with his support, not mine..and I really tried). I had my first after we were together almost 6 years with my partner, second child came 7 years later. Mostly because my first pregnancy was hard, stressful, our growing with child was somehow chaotic, sleep training and developing etc. First time I was control freak and stressed over my child not acting as predicted after huge amount of analysing and planning, cutting of my plans, friends..a lot. I think every parent knows those moments. So one day I realised, the key is to give in and look at her and be more support and suggesting-directing, not commanding. My second baby was easier pregnancy, very dificult childbirth... also sleeping-eating and his developing schedule was not as we expected. Still we had decided to make third child sooner (22months apart). Oh boy this was tough year, we were expecting it to be hard..but as you know the highs and lows come and go. Now I truly see what close sibling really means. Having someone daily to play with, learn and grow with is giving them a massive amount of joy I could never fulfil. Being 7 years with only child was so much more work, planning and stress, than with more kids. Don't get me wrong..I had playdates for my firstborn, schedule and plans, trips etc, every single time someone hinted me to make sooner another child for her to play with, I was about to scream. Yesterday we talked about our children with my partner and we both agreed that we wish we had second child sooner, because we see every day what she actually missed. My daughter told me the other day she did not realise what love grows really means, but after having brothers she actually sees it herself :) I think still planning a family is every families decision and should be respected in every way. Please do not see my comment as disrespectful, I just hope someone like me sees this and dares to jump into this chaotic, but amazing decision :)
@SXH.6 жыл бұрын
Amazing video thank you for creating this for us team Ikonn! A side note... I literally LOVE Alex's laugh 😂💛
@myview68526 жыл бұрын
These adjustments and discussions you spoke about after having Alexa, is very normal in every new parents’ relationship. The key is to talk about them and figure out your style of parenting and your expectations of your relationship as a couple and as parents ( two totally different things). Before becoming parents, my husband and I could finish the other one’s sentence and knew each other’s values, likes and dislikes, and tolerance levels. Shortly after the birth of my first baby, I realized and alien had over taken my husbands body! It was as if he was competing with the baby in some respects and yet his love was obvious! It took months of arguing and insisting on talking about every aspect of child rearing and what kind of a person we were hoping to raise and how our relationship would have to look that we found peace. Spend as much time with her as you can without forgetting to feed your own souls. Time flys and they really do grow up in a blink of an eye.
@christinacipriano61416 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Definitely make the other relationship video, Mimi & Alex! Love you both so much!