This is Actually what it means to be a Man

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Newel of Knowledge

Newel of Knowledge

Күн бұрын

#masculinity #men #mentalhealth
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No one has ever told me what it means to be a man.
As a teen I thought perhaps losing my virginity, having my first shave or conquering a village would mean I’ve arrived at manhood.
And although some of these things brought me intense joy… I was wrong.
This video is a full written guide to masculinity from me. The exact message I would give to my 19 year old self who was feminine, depressed and lost in life.
May this serve you well.
0:00 Intro
0:39 From boyhood to manhood
3:38 What it means to be a man
(This is actually what it means to be a man)
(What does it mean to be a man?)
(Here's exactly what positive masculinity is)

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@axtuax688
@axtuax688 6 ай бұрын
watching this video made me cry. im a girl trying to understand what healthy masculinity meant (since theres a plethora amount of examples in media that showed what toxic masculinity looked like) and realized that we have almost no role model of a healthy masculine male in media form. thats why its so hard to understand and even visualize and think about because we dont have much of anything modeling that concept for us.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Madam! For sharing this. There are multiple examples of how to be and how not to be a man in today's society. Perhaps this video has provided some clarity. I, and all the brothers here, can say; we hope you find a true man who will support you and provide for you in life. As will you support him. x
@MeandmySara
@MeandmySara 2 ай бұрын
I’m a girl and I just cried watching this too. As soon as it ended I rewound it and rewatched it from the beginning. I feel very conflicted about men, often fearing or hating them, yet I also often feel pity, tenderness and love for them. It feels like such a relief to see a man who can conceive of this kind of masculinity and put it to words so eloquently. I really hope this channel gets more views and traction soon.
@ebob4177
@ebob4177 2 ай бұрын
I haven't watched this yet, but personally I try to model myself on the carefree image of Damon Albarn and Brian Clough lol. I know they are not unflawed examples, but I take from them the lesson to have fun and not be too serious.
@rike4706
@rike4706 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your words. It means a lot! To add my two cents, I would probably look up to Raimi’s Spider-Man or MCU Captain America. There are also positive living role models like Keanu Reeves, Ryan Reynolds, Hugh Jackman. With that being said, a lotta current influencers seem to promote harsh men, which is a little discouraging. While I myself strive to become physically and mentally stronger, what some influencers seem to promise young men is “power,” and they get caught up in it. I suppose a lot of the manosphere is too caught up in power and not in “matters of the heart. They promote being “a man” rather than a GOOD man.
@ryanweible9090
@ryanweible9090 Ай бұрын
see, i disagree about no good male role model, i keep going back to Fred Rogers(mister rogers, of the tv show fame). a man who was caring and compassionate, had tons of skills, but always worked to make the smaller and vulnerable feel better. there are good examples out there, but, as a guy, we kind of get bombarded with the worst, a bunch of violent, greedy and oversexed guys.who treat compassion as a weakness and venality as a virtue. It does make sense though, because following them feels ugly, tainted. whereas fred rogers feels empowering.
@R4KT1M
@R4KT1M 7 ай бұрын
19 here, dad died 5 years ago. Mother raised me in very feminine way, now im battling to find my masculine corr and purpose. Surely this will help.❤
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Hello mate. Battling is the right word. There is also relaxation involved as well because your masculine core is searching after you. Battle your way to it and then relax into it. You are building the foundations for your journey, which is exciting. Keep us posted!
@furiouslx5303
@furiouslx5303 6 ай бұрын
Hey man, I’m also 19 and have no dad, had a father figure tho. My grandfather was the man that raised me and he passed 3 years ago in January. It’s been rough, but people like us will will eventually find our way in this life.
@R4KT1M
@R4KT1M 6 ай бұрын
@@furiouslx5303 Even in the darkest tunnel, we keep going brother. One day we'll see the lights. It gets more dark just before the light. Wish you all the best for the future. May we have a better story to tell our children.
@pauljakeman
@pauljakeman 4 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss mate. No doubt your dad is looking down on you proud of the man you’re becoming.
@pauljakeman
@pauljakeman 4 ай бұрын
@@furiouslx5303 sorry for your loss mate. These things are sent to test us, I’m sure both of them are looking down on you and proud at the man you’re growing in to. If you have kids you have the perfect role models to work from.
@carlborneke8641
@carlborneke8641 2 ай бұрын
I am an autistic man in his mid twenties and I have often wondered if I will ever be strong enough or good enough for anything. I have often struggled with things others find easy, especially sports and social situations, but I always do my best to work hard when others depend on me. I am willing to stand up for myself and those I care about and sacrifice any luxury or comfort if it means helping someone I love. I hope that compensates for my shortcomings but even if it doesn’t I will never stop trying.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
You sir, are an example for us all to follow. I wish you all the strength in the world.
@mrsolodolo1234
@mrsolodolo1234 7 ай бұрын
I NEVER comment on videos, BUT this one right here, came to me at a critical moment in my life. Divine Timing
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thank you sir. 💪🏻⛏
@MiketheNerdRanger
@MiketheNerdRanger Ай бұрын
As weird as it sounds, I don't want to "be a man," I just wanna be me.
@RRo3559
@RRo3559 3 күн бұрын
Are you a male ?
@MiketheNerdRanger
@MiketheNerdRanger 3 күн бұрын
@@RRo3559 yes
@P1shevs
@P1shevs 7 ай бұрын
Man. that was something. the fluency in which you speak, the words you describe things with, its different. you're meant for this. I respect your work. until we meet again, soldier.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thank you sir! For the pleasant words. It’s a pleasure to have you here. LET’S MARCH. 💪🏻
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your time & attention. A like/subscribe really helps the channel. No pressure though ;). You can find the full video notes here: newelofknowledge.ghost.io/
@silv1012
@silv1012 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message, it was truly moving. I’m 18 years old and have started taking things a bit more serious and always wondered what it ACTUALLY means to be a man, and so far i’d say you encapsulated the answer to that question within this video perfectly. This video is great and you are very well spoken, you’re bound to make it on here
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thank you sir! I'd say with a profile photo of Adonis you're on the right path aha! I'm glad you found value here. I am excited for your journey. Keep us posted.
@joedirt2718
@joedirt2718 7 ай бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to here as I currently battle my own battles in my marriage. This video is a foundation of what it truly means to be a man!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thanks Joe. Stay strong 💪🏻
@SirBleu
@SirBleu 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely god tier video. The fact you left such an impression on so many people without any music in the background is even more impressive.
@chiragkatkar
@chiragkatkar 2 ай бұрын
I am 17 and I faced my first rejection after 6 months of talking stage I can say that this video helped me know what it takes to be a man and how lucky am I being a man to provide care and protect thanks a lot.
@octaviosilva5808
@octaviosilva5808 4 күн бұрын
Yesterday i went through a breakup, today i am just weak and utterly broken inside. Yesterday while our final argument, she mentioned a past line she said on a date that, if you were a man, you wouldn't have said that. I am 21 and have a long way to go, it hurts but i am trying my best every single day. And thanks man, i needed this video. I kinda see it, that getting your shit together takes time and pain. Blessings for you brother, have a great day
@12pie3tro21
@12pie3tro21 Ай бұрын
The best video I've ever seen about this topic. Thank you from the depth of my soul for this.
@jadenmgbam
@jadenmgbam 7 ай бұрын
Your living the dream brother, keep this work up!
@carnafillian113
@carnafillian113 2 ай бұрын
Sir, you are correct. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I am astounded by just how deeply what you said has resonated in me.
@chinedumgbemena2328
@chinedumgbemena2328 5 күн бұрын
Amazing video Newel. Truly inspiring👏
@josephhall9457
@josephhall9457 2 ай бұрын
Dude. This was a gem. Truly. Thank you.
@user-qi2wb6be1x
@user-qi2wb6be1x 27 күн бұрын
I really love your videos. I’m 36 and becoming the man I think I should be has been a lifelong struggle. I’m still not there but I’m thankful that I found your channel. Good shit man.
@amani24k
@amani24k 7 ай бұрын
oh MAN what a solid video, learnt some nice concepts from this
@user-yj2mf7uu5k
@user-yj2mf7uu5k 15 күн бұрын
This video is so informative. I am an 18 year old young man and this is exactly what I needed. I will watch this video each and everyday until I become the man described here. Thank you Newel of Knowledge.❤️❤️🙏🏾
@brolliify
@brolliify 7 ай бұрын
Wow! Thank you brother. I really did need that reminder.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
💪🏻🤝⛏
@starstriker8985
@starstriker8985 12 күн бұрын
Great video, keep up the good message
@rubensmiguel5863
@rubensmiguel5863 Ай бұрын
Bro i love you for that, you compact everything in very precise words 3:38 give me goosebumps, i hope everyone got this view now. And i now feel more accompanied in this jorney knowing that people like u exist
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Thank you brother!
@shuvra-kumar-das
@shuvra-kumar-das 2 ай бұрын
Man, this is truly inspiring, I'm your new sub. ❤
@mrxcom
@mrxcom 17 күн бұрын
Beautifully written my friend
@mikechomper420
@mikechomper420 2 ай бұрын
i messed up and now i deeply regret ever starting on the thing i did now for months ive been feeling out of touch with reality and depressed.since i started going to my therapist my mental health became a bit better each time but the emptiness still remains i just want to be better and i try to be each day and it works but my mental keeps dragging me down. im at a point where i wish i could do some of this life over bc i dont know what the future will hold for me but i know i cant.... i just want to feel how i felt as a kid before the horrible stuff that i did to people and that happened to me so instead of that i want to help people because i have a feeling that i owe something to the world and i do so I hope that I can when the time comes and I just can live. thank you for this video it means a lot to me
@shuvra-kumar-das
@shuvra-kumar-das 2 ай бұрын
Heads up man. I'm with you, God is with you, together we'll overcome everything. ❤
@mikechomper420
@mikechomper420 2 ай бұрын
@@shuvra-kumar-das ❤️❤️
@user-yx4wm5hk6h
@user-yx4wm5hk6h 4 күн бұрын
I think being me inside the fortress of man that I created internally and delivering my idea is what makes each man unique and have a healthy fight for the goodness of the society, universe and the family.
@jovanmatic488
@jovanmatic488 7 ай бұрын
I am glad that i found u brother, huge respect!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
As am I my friend. Thank you.
@doomgronthewitcher6514
@doomgronthewitcher6514 2 ай бұрын
17, wondering how I can be like the men I read about in legends. This video has helped me get a little closer. Thank you.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
All the best brother.
@lordmosnar1884
@lordmosnar1884 6 күн бұрын
I’m 17 too, as of writing. I likewise seek to be like those men. CS Lewis once said, “We read to know that we’re not alone.” We pass down those legends because they speak to a desire and a virtue that we all share. We’re in this together, brother. Don’t give up. ⚔️
@doomgronthewitcher6514
@doomgronthewitcher6514 6 күн бұрын
@lordmosnar1884 I read, and indeed I was not alone. Thanks brother. Best of luck.
@tomdiprose4354
@tomdiprose4354 2 күн бұрын
Read, study, train. You will get there in time.
@RyanGoh-vx7bx
@RyanGoh-vx7bx Ай бұрын
Excellent description and very eye opening! I was wondering if there are any books you’d recommend me to pick up on topics such as the “Zanshin/ Mushin/ Fudoshin” ideology and also books where you got your own inspiration from? Nonetheless great content - definitely checking out the rest of your videos!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Take a pick newelofknowledge.ghost.io/every-book-id-ever-recommend/ & Thanks for commenting! :)
@koorosh-qd3ni
@koorosh-qd3ni Ай бұрын
i didn't have a father and my mother was doing her best but she couldn't be both mother and father to me, although im grateful for having her, but im glad i found the good side and the correct use of media, thank you, i really needed this, u might've changed my life in its entirety
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Comrade. All the best on your journey.
@stateofchange6006
@stateofchange6006 2 ай бұрын
Can't believe you got Tom Hardy for the final shot 🤣 Great video, very thought-provoking!
@rautmannalex804
@rautmannalex804 Ай бұрын
crazy good video bro keep it up
@dianalindt3322
@dianalindt3322 6 ай бұрын
What a thoughtful video. Will share with others.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 6 ай бұрын
Thanks Diana :)
@danielk.7615
@danielk.7615 27 күн бұрын
Thank you bro.
@vivekthangamani
@vivekthangamani 7 ай бұрын
Beautifully explained Masculinity and the reason to be theist, The Creator, The Giver, The Destroyer... and a moral man, can do all these function of God..!! beautifully put..!!
@ajfox2015
@ajfox2015 7 ай бұрын
Might be the greatest video I have ever seen in my life.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Aj, my man. I thank you.
@Joythealchemist
@Joythealchemist 2 ай бұрын
poetic and charming love this video incredibly vulnerable and honest .
@MohammadAli-yc8yi
@MohammadAli-yc8yi Ай бұрын
Great video!
@0fficer47
@0fficer47 Ай бұрын
Appreciate you bud. Carry on!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Likewise brother! :)
@fquiroz6592
@fquiroz6592 2 ай бұрын
i sure know what my passage rite its. ive been through a lot in the last years, but for some reason i crave for a specific moment and place in the world that i know its harsh to conquer, but when i do, i know it will be it.
@edkaran5346
@edkaran5346 2 ай бұрын
I really hope you never stop what you're doing..stay blessed ❤
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
Thank you brother.
@pauljakeman
@pauljakeman 4 ай бұрын
This was an awesome video mate, be proud of yourself for this! Great work mate. Inspiring.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 4 ай бұрын
Thanks Paul :)
@pauljakeman
@pauljakeman 4 ай бұрын
@@NewelOfKnowledge pleasure mate. I'll be sure to check out more of your videos!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 4 ай бұрын
@@pauljakeman 💪🏻🫶🏻👑
@chrisdart4919
@chrisdart4919 Ай бұрын
Great video, as always! What movie are the clips with the kind of Nordic-looking knight guy from?
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Thank you sir! And king arthur the return of the sword :)
@sentinelshoshin4632
@sentinelshoshin4632 Ай бұрын
Wow, this was based. Little of what you said was _completely new_ to me, but to hear it all in one place so succinctly and clearly was like puzzle pieces falling into place. Where did you pull your ideas from? I'd love to read the book(s) that inspired you. If you told me it was all off the dome, I wouldn't believe you at first, but if convinced would be heavily impressed.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Thank you :) here are some books which might help: newelofknowledge.ghost.io/every-book-id-ever-recommend/
@floridaboy6357
@floridaboy6357 2 ай бұрын
It’s telling of our culture when we need a video like this, but the effort is justified.
@Kurie
@Kurie 7 ай бұрын
A man MUST become burdened by the things around him. The loss of his parents, especially his dad, will only help to add tremendous burden on his life. And the life of his new family with the woman he must love and protect. Without a family, without kids, a man has yet to feel the burden of providing and caring for the lives of not only just himself and his lover. And through stress, through difficulty, and burden will a boy become a man. A real man takes the full burden of providing which has only gotten harder in this economic environment we find ourselves in, but it can be achieved if put through enough hardship, struggle, and growth. And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;" Understand that we must go through our entire lives burdened and thus incredibly stressed. This is the law of nature that GOD intended. Welcome it and grow from it.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Kurie, may we carry our burdens with a cunning grin. 🧙🏼‍♂️🐺
@ryancelsley
@ryancelsley 7 ай бұрын
This was moving, thank you.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thank you Ryan.
@timwo1f
@timwo1f 7 ай бұрын
amazing video!
@jordanclayton4593
@jordanclayton4593 2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much
@lachlanve8939
@lachlanve8939 2 ай бұрын
This. Is. Brilliant.
@luiszafra3389
@luiszafra3389 7 ай бұрын
Great video as per usual!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Gracias amigoooo!!!
@Selfimprove_Man
@Selfimprove_Man 7 ай бұрын
This video is really good, man. You earned a sub! Lucky you, you had your rite of passage as a backpacker--I had my rite of passage in an ICU bed!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
Thanks mate, when I first read your message I thought ICU was a university, then I realised 😬😂 hopefully it was worth it!
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
It’s seems like you had quite an intense experience. Care to share it with us?
@Selfimprove_Man
@Selfimprove_Man 7 ай бұрын
Aggg bru... 21 years old [was studying Actuarial Science, so I know that is the most dangerous years of a man's life until
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
@@Selfimprove_ManJesus. Thanks for sharing. I’ll keep note to learn from your mistake, or perhaps, blessing in disguise.
@blake3656
@blake3656 Ай бұрын
Just found your channel, and watched 3 videos. I absolutely love your work my friend. You are very talented. As a young man battling against myself most of my life, having an abusive childhood, I too, thought, maybe if I lose my virginity, or do this or that, I will finally be a man. The problem was for so long I wanted to be a man, but having no idea what I man is. I would watch TV shows and movies, and want to be the characters so badly. But, things are going to change, I will no longer have this thought of being a man, I will become it, and do whatever it takes. I found Jesus last August, but would still sin every day. My relationship with him has grown within the last 2 weeks, and I actually have a very strong desire now to stop sinning, I know I may trip and fall from time to time, but I will try my absolute best. No idea if you'll see this comment, but, thank you. God bless you brother 🙏🏻.
@bjornindahouse9931
@bjornindahouse9931 6 ай бұрын
Love it!
@Mohamed123-osama.
@Mohamed123-osama. Ай бұрын
I was amazed when I heard that because that's exactly what I'm doing without knowing it
@aselweerasekara377
@aselweerasekara377 2 ай бұрын
Regarding number 3, can you please explain what would someone who does not believe in theism, (such as a buddhist) , face the tough path when all hope seems to be lost? Thank you.
@j1110c
@j1110c Ай бұрын
started great fckd it up after "what it means to be a man" part
@darshandev1754
@darshandev1754 2 ай бұрын
This is something I have struggled with, maybe it is just my nature maybe some part of it is my upbringing I am making a conscious effort to add more fun to my life to counteract the monotony of software development
@jamesl1806
@jamesl1806 6 ай бұрын
Well put young man.
@enricorossi5996
@enricorossi5996 7 ай бұрын
thx man
@MR-og2nh
@MR-og2nh Ай бұрын
Perfect. Thank you for this. Shirt but very efficient video. Almost everything in one place. Love it. Need tocsee more videos on your channel. I am called to help kids in teenagers to become better men and women (my wife is helping with girls and women). This summer we have long like through slovenian alps. Two men and four 14-16 years old teenagers. It will be a great advanture. I cam here to find some ideas and man God send me to right place.
@matthijswalhout
@matthijswalhout 2 ай бұрын
This video deserves more views. I mean it.
@samuelleask1132
@samuelleask1132 2 ай бұрын
3:48 my man is a man of culture too
@ranlit78
@ranlit78 7 ай бұрын
0:38 Wow I felt that guys pain straight through the screen
@tommy_s
@tommy_s 2 ай бұрын
Man, I wish I had a friend like you
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
Consider it done.
@tommy_s
@tommy_s 2 ай бұрын
@@NewelOfKnowledge Alright, let's go riding horses along seashore one day
@DoubtfulDoughnut
@DoubtfulDoughnut 2 ай бұрын
​@NewelOfKnowledge can we be friends too?
@Lukas-Kaiser-LK
@Lukas-Kaiser-LK 25 күн бұрын
could a movie expert pls tell me the movie titles of all these clips?
@wp1005
@wp1005 Ай бұрын
Inspiring, that is the least I can say.
@Duplicate01174
@Duplicate01174 Ай бұрын
Magnificent 🍷...
@RowansQuests
@RowansQuests 7 ай бұрын
This video is fucking brilliant. Well said cuz 💚
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
💪🏻🔥❤️
@vonluffy7641
@vonluffy7641 Ай бұрын
Bro I wrote down EVERY WORD you said so I can reflect and embody these qualities as I grow and progress into my future of changing history for the better. Can you give me recommendations of shows, movies, books and actrs of GREAT men. The misspell is on purpose to have a lil fun with you, sorry I myself can recommend a show called The Mentalist. The main character has the highest charisma I've ever witnessed, an unparalleled genius in reading people and their actions. The antagonist is JUST as good in terms of skill. He appears a few times in the show for you to keep your eyes peeled. But the rest of the categories of the show are all 8 or 9/10. My kind mom just shared delicious vanilla pastry with me, this day is beautiful edit: If you're curious about my age, just ask me, I'm young so anyone reading this can do this. In fact i'll pray for you
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
My brother. May we share this blessed day together in harmony. Thank you for commenting! Here's every book I'd ever recommend (for now): newelofknowledge.ghost.io/every-book-id-ever-recommend/ Thanks for the film recommendation. I'll check it out :)
@vonluffy7641
@vonluffy7641 Күн бұрын
@@NewelOfKnowledge I love you
@vonluffy7641
@vonluffy7641 Күн бұрын
Wow you've read alot of books, this information is so valuable to me, thanks king
@Badland1.0
@Badland1.0 Ай бұрын
According to this video I'm more of a man than i thought, but I must get some things straightened out. I'll come back to this video every day and add a new comment to track my progress. Goodbye for now. I did not come back to this video but since the comment action has been taken mentally. I have been meditating every day and processing my values
@debjitchandra7416
@debjitchandra7416 2 ай бұрын
MY MAN 👑
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
My brother.
@matthiasormarsson3135
@matthiasormarsson3135 27 күн бұрын
For Frodo
@qed100
@qed100 Ай бұрын
This sounds like a recipe for manliness. Recipes are for the ones who still don't know that their options are wide open. Why fret ceaselessly about masculinity when you have the option of simply being _humane?_
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
fair point
@connormorrison8976
@connormorrison8976 2 ай бұрын
Where can I find this "essay" in writing?
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
newelofknowledge.ghost.io/what-does-it-actually-mean-to-be-a-man/
@jeager_07
@jeager_07 Ай бұрын
those who dont give up are men , those who are not loved are men , those who provide are men, those who fight are men.
@HiddenExp
@HiddenExp Ай бұрын
Doesn't this set of values also apply to women or basically to anyone regardless of gender?
@thanglengoc2820
@thanglengoc2820 Ай бұрын
Great hypothesis
@MrRocksW
@MrRocksW 2 ай бұрын
Im 31 and I feel like an overgrown boy for a lot of reasons. I was surprised (and a bit disheartened) that you are only 23.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
Take my word for it mate, it's a lot easier to talk about all of these things in a video than to actually put these things into practice. But no matter how old we are, we can all start where we are with whatever momentum we have. I wish you all the best my brother. We're on this journey together.
@Aesahaetr
@Aesahaetr 8 күн бұрын
Become G.O.D. Generator, Operator, Destroyer.
@shibramchannel9371
@shibramchannel9371 6 ай бұрын
3k views 16k likes how....nice video bte
@samfitton1278
@samfitton1278 Ай бұрын
When you talk about God, what do you mean?
@nesphra1094
@nesphra1094 Ай бұрын
You lost me at “god”. Religion is not what makes a man. I am humbled and guided through my own beliefs, and I offer myself to the world because I believe in life, kindness and love. One does not have to follow god in order to guide him, he simply has to stay humble and believe in his own book of values. Religion teaches great values, such as humility, compassion and courage, I agree, but it is not a requirement to becoming a man.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Fair enough. All the best brother!
@ThePaintedQilin
@ThePaintedQilin Ай бұрын
I think you neatly typed down what I've been feeling but never really knew how to put into words, thanks!
@drz616
@drz616 Ай бұрын
Completely agree, I stopped watching after the "God" part.
@njan6160
@njan6160 6 ай бұрын
I’m 26 but I don’t feel my age .. is it something wrong with me.. I’m not that masculine guy I’m just a ordinary person
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 6 ай бұрын
It's up to you my friend. If you want to develop yourself that's a choice that you make. No one can answer that for you. If you are content, strong, grateful, progressing in things that are worthwhile then continue! If not, change course.
@DailyQuizVideos
@DailyQuizVideos 7 ай бұрын
My brother.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 7 ай бұрын
My king.
@aanghel
@aanghel 2 ай бұрын
There’s 1 man in history that embodied all these traits and even more. The prophet Muhammed pbuh. You can find his narrations (referred to as the Hadiths ) which serve as the ultimate example for us in our journey to becoming a Man.
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 2 ай бұрын
Thanks Aanghel. It's timely you commented because I was talking to a friend about you the other day. You were the first self-improvement youtuber I ever watched around 5-6 years ago. And it sounds cliche, but without your videos, I have no idea where I'd be. It's great to see you've made a comeback.
@christophertaylor952
@christophertaylor952 2 ай бұрын
Hate Speach 🤬🤬🤬
@Mosbyvlg
@Mosbyvlg 2 ай бұрын
I'm sorry i don't wanna sound rude. But at first i thought the god in this was just a metaphor for mens purpose but then i watched it again and again. Are you implying that in order to be the best man you can be you need to believe in god ? Don't get me wrong i love theology and i used to be religious my self but i don't believe that believe in god is necessarily needed in order to be a good man.
@retain24x7
@retain24x7 Ай бұрын
First what is the concept of God and his morals is he evil or good, Obviously all the positive and good comes under God so believing in him and his morals will automatically make you a good human being how can a person be good human if he don't believe in God and his morals before these Religion and concepts of God came people were wild having no morals, dignity, judgement, purity different religions having different concepts some telling to stay virgin till marriage and look other women as your sisters and mothers stopping numbers of rape and thus giving the need to protect and respect women , some telling us to don't eat meat thus stopping majority of killing of innocent animals, not holding a grudge against enemy but live in harmony stopping majority of murdering and etc but because of overseeing concepts of God we have came with our own morals even if it's not written in God's scriptures We will all die some day and at the day of judgement of our soul atheist or theist will know that how far we are from God
@Simp_Police_
@Simp_Police_ 6 ай бұрын
Bro had that only guy working in a hostel full of hot European women rizz
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge 6 ай бұрын
Hahaha, let’s get some W RIZZ spammed in the comments
@Viperzin
@Viperzin 7 ай бұрын
Ah i love being a man
@sakulefkada7010
@sakulefkada7010 Ай бұрын
All these videos about "how to be man, etc.." that internet is full of nowadays, are bullshit, praying on young men's ignorance......There's no such thing such as a rule on "how to be a man".... Just, be yourself, stand your ground and don't let anyone tell you what's your worth, especially a woman......you owe nothing to noone, but to yourself.....
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
True
@michaelh1511
@michaelh1511 2 ай бұрын
Where can you go and talk to other masculine man about females is hard to find
@hamzakhiar3636
@hamzakhiar3636 2 ай бұрын
What's a purpose, what's my purpose, that's what this generation struggle to answer
@TheVaccineIsthe666
@TheVaccineIsthe666 2 ай бұрын
God gives you your purpose. But first, you must give your life to Him. His name is Jesus Christ.
@iancampbell1494
@iancampbell1494 2 ай бұрын
It’s a silly question, that implies there is some universal standard for purpose of which there cannot be. The universe doesn’t owe you a purpose, you must create it yourself.
@moviestarrr796
@moviestarrr796 2 ай бұрын
Buy a better mike, beginning was boring, the middle part was gold, work on that.
@orefzki
@orefzki 2 ай бұрын
Step one becoming a man is probably watching the movie Apocalypto, of which there were a few clips in this video.
@EarlTruitt
@EarlTruitt Ай бұрын
Don't let the world tell what a man is the world is ass backwards get all the girls all the money no the truth is to be a man is🧐 to be authentic to self duty commitment to ur wife I like to look into the Mahabharata to understanding the dharma and karma atman 😮it's to much to say I just say be u authentic commitment to something like stoicism zen
@I_am_a_human_not_a_commodity
@I_am_a_human_not_a_commodity Ай бұрын
I have no friends, no family or god. I guess I'm not a man, right? 🤦‍♂
@sakulefkada7010
@sakulefkada7010 Ай бұрын
Kid, you are 23 y.o. growing up in the 21st century in a western country.......How many hardships have you faced? Because a man's character is build on hardships, and you grew up with youtube and fb, in front of a cellphone........watching comic superhero movies and Netflix.......All these role models you have from the past are delusional, knights and kings, are fake, you know that right? I don't think you are in any position to dictate anyone "how to be a man"......
@NewelOfKnowledge
@NewelOfKnowledge Ай бұрын
Fair enough
@EmbraceYourMasculinity
@EmbraceYourMasculinity Ай бұрын
Great Content. I appreciate it very much. I unfortunately was brainwashed by Andrew Tate for a time with many of his radical beliefs and statements. Luckily God ✝️ has opened my eyes and brought me back to the truth. I am happier now and more productive. Being a Man is doing the things you don’t want to do but doing them because you know it’s right and you know it will benefit you and the people around you.
@blake3656
@blake3656 Ай бұрын
Same for me brother. Jesus changed my life. God bless you.
@freemanojeikere
@freemanojeikere Ай бұрын
Important that you had to mention God. Without a relationship with God, life is empty...
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