“If you want to destroy any nation without war, make nudity or adultery common in the younger generation.” - Salahuddin Ayyubi
@YourBrotherInIslam3 ай бұрын
For those who need context, he wasnt trying to destroy nations by making adultery / nudity common, he was saying it to show this is the most efficient way, and that is what they are doing right now.
@Framecell3 ай бұрын
Fk i always forgot this quote
@munawarkh4n3 ай бұрын
@@YourBrotherInIslam judging with the context of the video it should be straight forward but thanks for explaining it Brother so that there won't be any confusion.
@Unknwnymous3 ай бұрын
Wallahi, at times I just keep having thoughts of why I came during such a generation 😭... AstaghfuriLLah😢
@gsrarmy36163 ай бұрын
You are right
@anima_alex90053 ай бұрын
I am terribly addicted to those kind of things. I am trying to quit this habits, but I can't 😢. may Allah help me .
@maryam_Al-haddad3 ай бұрын
Get married
@hoseinayan9423 ай бұрын
marry me
@Synclon3 ай бұрын
Ameen, you are not alone
@Abdul-badiMuhammad-yw8qn3 ай бұрын
You only can't because you said you can't
@Abdul-badiMuhammad-yw8qn3 ай бұрын
@@hoseinayan942can you stop being inappropriate please
@IbrahimMalik30113 ай бұрын
I was too an addict. But i realise that this is nonsense, thanks to Allah. My method is simple, download some recitations of surahs such as Waqiah, Yasin, Rehman, Anfaal, Kahf, Fath etc. and listen to any surah whenever you feel the urge and due to this, i managed to escape it. Tha ks to Allah
@IbrahimMalik30113 ай бұрын
@@Asimabhat07 yup haven't watched any inappropriate content since November, 2022. But you have to be fully sincere for this. I started this method in January, 2022 by listening to Surah Anfaal, Kahf and Fath daily. Then set a target of specific days in which I won't consume this content. First it was 3 days, then 5 then a week, then 2 weeks then a month than 2 months and so on. But have to understand the Arabic language of course. Otherwise I don't think it will work. You won't understand what Allah is saying to you. Hope this helps
@IbrahimMalik30113 ай бұрын
@@Asimabhat07 My Pleasure
@khairulfaiz73982 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah..at the end it's all about intention..intention to change ourselves because of Allah
@maryamdanial152 ай бұрын
Thanks for the suggestion...!
@TheOnlyZackshadyK982 ай бұрын
Alhamdoullilah man. we all were there at some time in our lives. By the grace of Allah taa´ala we:))) found ourselves:)
@adlad31993 ай бұрын
This was such a beautiful video. This man is absolutely spot on. Porn addiction is the new cigarettes/drugs of this generation and unfortunately, no one talks about it enough. Women dressing half naked on instagram, stuff on twitter, you see it literally everywhere. The only to beat this is like he said in the video, "If you really want to quit, you will be able to quit". Keep yourself busy and find something that you really enjoy to do. Working out and exhausting myself has been the best solution for me.
@Mizori3 ай бұрын
And also try to fast when you have tendencies as said by our prophet Muhammad pb: Abd-Allah ibn Mas’ood (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated, “We were young men with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and we did not have anything (i.e., we could not afford to get married). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to us, ‘O young men, whoever among you can afford to get married, then let him do so, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding chastity. And whoever is not able to do that, then let him fast, for that will be a shield for him.’” (al-Bukhaari, 5066; Muslim, 1400). Fasting reduces the effects that desires have on young people.
@erwinsmith53813 ай бұрын
اللهم صل وسلم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم
@00ammy003 ай бұрын
I hadn't realized this was a problem for some Muslims until my brother told me about people who suffered from it and came to him for advice, and I was shocked. I pray to find someone good to marry one day to protect me from falling to this evil.🤲🏻
@maryam_Al-haddad3 ай бұрын
It's not only Muslim men but also Muslim women.
@ArifToro3 ай бұрын
@@maryam_Al-haddad may Allah make it easy for you and all of us maryam. Have you considered marriage? If so would you like to talk
@Slave_of_the_Most_Merciful3 ай бұрын
@@ArifToroit's not marriage problem it's a tremendous fitna which requires Fear of Allah to quit and you gain fear of Allah through knowing and learning who he is and being sincere in acts of worship. Most importantly keeping in mind that we should strive hard to improve our condition no matter what.
@00ammy003 ай бұрын
@@maryam_Al-haddad Yes, I'm a Muslim woman and I'm also afraid of committing this sin. I never used to be interested in sex but that's changed since I reached my late twenties; I like to read fiction books, and "romantic" scenes affect me differently now than they used to. It is a lot harder for me to skip them now, though I still get turned off from seeing adult scenes in movies and feel no urge to see them, thank God.
@maryam_Al-haddad3 ай бұрын
@@ArifToro I'm happily married
@Shoikot-13 ай бұрын
May Allah help all muslims to get rid of this silent pandemic.
@Asimabhat073 ай бұрын
Ameen
@khpodcast94403 ай бұрын
Ameen ya rabb
@futballpack5597Ай бұрын
What about christians and other religions...may Allah help anyone fighting this battle
@sahzebali431721 күн бұрын
Ameen
@IstigfarTahajjudDarudrMiracle3 ай бұрын
*pray for Bangladeshi students in your Tahajjud😭.we want Justice.please,stay with us,support us*
@Riyaz-74.33 ай бұрын
Brother, now what are sinareo?
@Shadowscribe-j2m3 ай бұрын
@@Riyaz-74.3We got freedom.Alhamdulillah
@CupcakesX3 ай бұрын
May Allah do what is best for us all ameen ya rabbal alameen
@EthicalMomin3 ай бұрын
@@Shadowscribe-j2m brother I am from India and most us indian muslims want bangladesh to rise as one of the strongest muslim country.. as of the recent conditions in India for muslims .. and recently the Indian media has started its work of brainwashing the hindus and spreading hatred against muslims using bangladesh protest fake scenarios. Bangladesh has to succeed ..!!
@Riyaz-74.33 ай бұрын
@@Shadowscribe-j2m What will be the Next move?
@xubairahmad66913 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah 3 long years (this September ) of nof@p. You can quit it like i did. The life before and after this decision is not the same. There's emotions, compassion and sensibility of life and closeness to Allah eventually once you quit this torture to your soul and body. Try for the sake of Allah for the sake of akhirah. May we all stay steadfast ameen.
@Ezio-33-e4d3 ай бұрын
Don't count days if u did it means u can fall back to it again and don't focus on days
@xubairahmad66913 ай бұрын
@@Ezio-33-e4d I jus remember the September 😄
@Ezio-33-e4d3 ай бұрын
@@xubairahmad6691 by the way it's a good progress 👍
@istriver.3 ай бұрын
@nazim-we9yn that's such a lame pessimistic comment. How can you judge to tell whether he focuses so much on counting his days or just mentioning it for making others feel hopeful and motivated? How can you be so sure that he is most likely to fall again? How can you not appreciate the fact that he has abstained for 3 years straight? (not that he needs your appreciation)
@Ezio-33-e4d3 ай бұрын
@@istriver. I didn't judge I advised 😃for better
@YeehawMister3 ай бұрын
Inshallah everyone here can quit this distugusting habit and we all can meet in paradise.
@posterityy3 ай бұрын
Ameen
@MuhammadAnas-nt1gz3 ай бұрын
As a former addict, I think everyone who has been into this and successfully came out should mention their reasons so the ones who are stuck can try different methods and who knows maybe your method might workout for them. The reason I was addicted was mainly because I was bored and had nothing to do. You might think this is weired but if you ask someone who has been addicted, they will tell you going to that this is very common. So please please please don't take your mobile in the toilet and also don't keep it with yourself while you're about to sleep. In both cases you're alone and in both cases you have free time. As weired as it sounds DON'T give yourself free time if you're suffering from this and if you're not suffering from this then NEVER search any funny business when you're bored just out of curiosity. DON'T make that mistake. Curiosity in this case is your biggest enemy.
@NormallUser3 ай бұрын
"Curiosity in this case is your biggest enemy." I agree with it, on the start, i was curious about those things and try it in the experiment reason.
@ibrahimolaitan12182 ай бұрын
Your points are the 100% correct.
@NewtonOnYoutube3 ай бұрын
1. Delete Social Media Apps 2. Learn a skill or get a physical desire 3. Fast often and cut out carbs, 4. Work out daily till exhaustion at night 5. Find a purpose, e.g memories the Quran, voluntary work for orphans etc 6. Take your 5 daily prayers seriously at a stipulated time 7. Never miss tahajud, be very spiritual 8. At the beginning, avoid screens at bed time or lonely time 9. Tell someone that will make you accountable to the day you start you quit journey.. 10. If you break after a week or two, don’t go fully back, cry to Allah and seek forgiveness and start all over again
@Kheirwade2 ай бұрын
Brother the instructions are many and some are very hard like that of tahajjud, so direct people to a more simpler, easier and comfortable way to quit it
@NewtonOnYoutubeАй бұрын
@@Kheirwade there is no easy way out, you have to fight and discipline your mind… find a purpose, stay committed, disciplined, and connect with good people and be very spiritual
@Ghostmaster111Ай бұрын
Guys , i have suffered many many years from this addiction, and now im free from it all alhamdulelah, all you hve to do is try not to stay alone because thats when it usually happens , and when it does happen or about to happen , say dhikr allah , allah Akbar, aoudu billah astakhfir rabi wa atoubo elieh, say these things out loud and you eill immediately stop, and pray and ask allah to guid you to the straight path and help you to stay away from these things , may allah protect us all and help those eho are suffering from this addiction
@kashifshaikh74383 ай бұрын
Our deen is in accordance with human nature. As soon as a person becomes an adult, he should marry instead of waiting for years. This is the best solution to such problems.
@ayau13103 ай бұрын
not everyone can afford it this early nowadays compared to back then
@habeebmusa12163 ай бұрын
Exactly @@ayau1310
@ResZCreator3 ай бұрын
yes, but we live in wrong decade bro for doing something like that. dunya was occupied with yahudi's laws, many of them. We suffering with our life. Except the golden age of islam rise again. We can do that
@zainmahmood90883 ай бұрын
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih Bukhari 5066.. The Main and Best Solution Ameen
@Allosaurus8912 ай бұрын
Who’s gonna feed my wife and children? I do work but it’s not enough to sustain my family. Let’s set aside everything and think about something. This society is designed to make people sin. If you wanna marry someone then their parents will want you to have a decent job. You can’t get a decent job unless you go to college and study for years. If you are born rich then that’s a different story.
@MohammedAbuyakubu3 ай бұрын
I'm also an addict and it is even making it difficult to pray my 5 daily prayers please pray for me
@Barka7Seqid3 ай бұрын
Due to my experience don't stop praying I was once addicted to both but I always pray my 5 daily prayers and Allah SWT took me out from that Alhamdulillah ,just keep up your prayers and believe you stop it on a very good day, Salam alaikum
@f4ce6403 ай бұрын
5 daily prayers and LOWER YOUR GAZE! Lowering my gaze was the main reason I was able to quit Alhamdulillah :)
@LucaDubois3 ай бұрын
How to pray if you are in a najasa state@@Barka7Seqid
@CrazySha-y1z3 ай бұрын
Try fasting on mondays and thursdays.i think we muslims can stay away from sins when we fast.and don't let anything to interrupt your prayers.try pray on time after adhaan. And ask Allah sicerely for guidence and forgiveness! Allah is Ar-Raheem(most merciful) and Al-Ghafūr(most forgiving)
@arhaanahmad39533 ай бұрын
Brother, pray 5 times a day no matter how much you are addicted. Pray will win over addiction. Tip: Learn the meaning of what is recited during salah.
@IslamPlusOne3 ай бұрын
The best way to quit is to avoid minor sins like looking at non mahram woman in real life, or the internet, or even video games, movies, tv shows, anime, comics etc.
@Monyetmanusia3 ай бұрын
Doesn't porn addict caused by circle of bad friendship?
@f4ce6403 ай бұрын
@@Monyetmanusia Lowering the gaze is the main cure to this addiction
@Monyetmanusia3 ай бұрын
@@f4ce640 i see
@fostellar72993 ай бұрын
It can certainly contribute to your struggles if your friends are all open porn users. Just like if all your friends used cigarettes and you wanted to quit smoking, it doesn't make it easier. Personally, I found that changing my friend group and quitting video games helped me immensely.
@zainmahmood90883 ай бұрын
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih Bukhari 5066.. The Main and Best Solution Ameen
@HalalManFr3 ай бұрын
A person said "(Allahuakbar)" later he said "(Subhanallah)" and after that he said "(Alhamdulillah)'' he again said "(Allahummagfirli)" he also said (la ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin) in this he earned many many good deeds and that person is you 💖
@CaddeCali-ie5pzАй бұрын
I got you bro😊❤
@almone117728 күн бұрын
Aljay
@almone117728 күн бұрын
Alhamdulilah
@staynoobs3 ай бұрын
It took me 3 years to quit it! But thanks to Allah I'm free from it! You should start praying five times a day and also The Middle Night Prayer. It will help you a lot! It helped me too! Start reading the translation of the Quran! Quit social media if you can! May Allah help all of us! Amen!
@muscleboii3 ай бұрын
Ameen, thank you brother
@HiddenPerson773 ай бұрын
3 years to quit as in when you started? Or 3 years since you started to quit?
@staynoobs3 ай бұрын
@@HiddenPerson77 Three years since I started to quit!
@khairulfaiz73982 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah it's a worth journey for sure🙌
@LetsLaugh2gether3 ай бұрын
Thank god. I am not addicted to porn. Every time I think of it I remember Allah is recording what I do. The way I "desexulize" my mind was by lowering my gaze. Every time I see a glimpse of a woman on my phone I scroll down faster. This helps. Try❤❤
@kulitayamcrispy73473 ай бұрын
I lowered my gaze in both internet and real life, but my fantasy before sleep always going wild, even used to see vividly the image like fantasy porn astaghfirullah (now it's just pitch black), even started to do ruqyah, and making assumptions like waswasah, because my first step to taubah is stop P*rn once and all. But this is what I tackle now, do you know the cure?
@Nps-tq8xy3 ай бұрын
@@kulitayamcrispy7347 Read the above story.. In that the person "A" also has a similar experience as you.. "A" overcame it.. u can as well.. Don't lose hope.. May Allah help u.. aameen..
@KashanQureshi-io7ms3 ай бұрын
It's so horrible addiction I wished I never know adult industry😢
@IstigfarTahajjudDarudrMiracle3 ай бұрын
*Praying Tahajjud is a time of miracles when the impossible becomes possible. In the stillness of the night, I have seen countless impossible things unfold through the power of sincere prayer***Wake up for Tahajjud, and witness the miracles unfold, filling your life with happiness, abundant rizk, and unparalleled success. Embrace the serenity of the night and let your sincere prayers transform your destiny.***pray for Bangladeshi students in your Tahajjud😭.we want Justice.please,stay with us,support us*
@v-logging4203 ай бұрын
This Is The Most helpful video for those who really want to get rid of P.M. I knew a few things before when I decided to get rid of it And ALHAMDOLILLAH ALLAH Helped me a lot in this. Sometimes I get feelings of the same due to Shaitaan Mardood but ALHAMDOLILLAH Allah Helps me in that moment too ... Allah Says that If you if you come one step towards me I will come two steps towards You .. ❤❤❤
@Sofea_3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the detailed explanation. There have been people who fall back to this sin after immediately cutting it of from their lives and not able to find solutions. Knowing the cause can definitely help those who are trying their best. May Allah SWT reward you for your generosity in sharing this knowledge. Aamin ❤
@saracentiano3 ай бұрын
Alhumdulillah I am not addicted to porn anymore. But I am to food now. And the same factors play here. Social deprivation, lack of friends and family wants me to turn to food more and more. I am now obese and have been diagnosed with high blood pressure at the age of 36. Make dua for me.
@cinnabeld82843 ай бұрын
Please try going to therapy. Not everything is something we can solve ourselves, sometimes we need some help. I hope you start to feel better and lose the weight
@stefanvermeer32093 ай бұрын
My brother start exercising as this is a huge hasanat earner. Our beloved prophet s.a.w. told us to take good care of ourselves and keeping your body fit is a huge part of that. Now think, do you want to be obese when you face your god or be fit and good looking. May allah help us all ❤
@khaledkhereis87392 ай бұрын
Become more active then so you have a higher maintenance calories
@khowajaasrar45373 ай бұрын
The quote at the end of this video pierced my heart,,May Allah help us,,very well articulated,,m sure this video will help a lot of people to quit this detrimental habit,,Those who are reading this comment I would like to say them that you are capable to get rid of this bad habit,, just believe In yourself...
@prooo12514 күн бұрын
Here’s how I got rid of this addiction: -deactivate/delete your social media. We all know how much nudity one can encounter on social media. And for potent young men this often acts as trigger. -your prayers should be good. On time, focused and repeat asking Allah swt for the strength to overcome this. -be conscious about the fact that Allah swt is watching you. That alone should start to make you feel embarrassed. -be busy: hit the gym, start a side hustle, a new hobby or whatever it is. -watch you circle: don’t surround yourself with people that literally celebrate nudity and this filth. Surround yourself with mu’minoon. Hope this helps.
@safeezrahman88233 ай бұрын
Try to be punctual for tahajjud prayers and do lots of dua in it. It is a fight one has to fight with his own nafs... Reward is jannah in sha Allah. Be steadfast and firm because Jannah is not free and not for undisciplined ones
@safeezrahman88233 ай бұрын
@@Asimabhat07 mainly dicipline, your own efforts of getting out of the loop and above all Allah's help works... So tahajjud is a means of being disciplined and seeking Allah's help. Always try to be fruitful and one thing recently I have found is mostly being in the state of wudu sleeping in state of wudu helps like anything
@zainmahmood90883 ай бұрын
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih Bukhari 5066.. The Main and Best Solution Ameen
@Bintihawa6063 ай бұрын
I think fasting will also help
@anxoidenamikaze15513 ай бұрын
of course and prayer like it is told in surah ankabut because prayer will protect you from fahisha.
@believer-fcaeth3 ай бұрын
For me fasting never helped even when I experience urges while being on fast and then do it eventually, I feel so much regret and remorse coz not only my target isn't achieved but I lost my fast too!
@rinopw42623 ай бұрын
😢@@believer-fcaeth
@zainmahmood90883 ай бұрын
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih Bukhari 5066.. The Main and Best Solution Ameen
@editname80843 ай бұрын
yes inshAllah
@Somebody2943 ай бұрын
May Allah help all those battling with addictions
@siddque26123 ай бұрын
Just think in this way "Your lord is watching you, while you are jerkying off" Allah and his angels are watching you . What will you answer to Allah if he ask you about this on the day of judgement May allah protect us form such things ameen ❤
@Muhamed-oneАй бұрын
Lets all make dua for each other May allah help you quit this because allah sees your heart that you want to quit
@Arlock-m9f2 ай бұрын
yeah, this guy is experienced at this, I respect how he can change his life.
@rakibulhaque34443 ай бұрын
Thank you for the information I fight this now Insha Allah i will win this
@f4ce6403 ай бұрын
May Allah help you Akhiy. I was addicted too. Lowering my gaze was the main reason I was able to quit. Alhamdulillah. Also, make dua to Allah to help you quit.
@zainmahmood90883 ай бұрын
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih Bukhari 5066.. The Main and Best Solution Ameen
@Ihf23102 ай бұрын
Brother believe me and try this Cry in front of Allah and ask Allah to become your protector and take you out of this sin share your feelings and emotions with Allah just like you do it with your close relative and believe that Allah will solve any of your problems think of it as playing your part in helping Palestine and fighting against Israel because most of po*n is Israeli made and targets Young Muslims remember all the blessings of Allah upon you and how Allah the creator of world blesses you and how you pay back remember all these aspects and InshaAllah you will leave the sin Pray for me if you find it useful that Allah forgives my sins
@Gymboy8053 ай бұрын
I told some of my members that i am adult and i have needs. Get me married but even they know everything, they aren't getting me married. I have to control too much to not watch porn like sometimes i open the websites and then turn it off. May Allah make it easy for me coz i will lose my strength and fittness which i achieved in the gym for the last 3 years. Pray that my marriage happens soon.
@walidamaan4099Ай бұрын
I would say the most authentic video on the subject so far. ❤
@AnjumAbesh3 ай бұрын
We all need to talk about the The current Movement in Bangladesh...!! As a Muslim we must help together! 💙
@Stickboi14323 ай бұрын
We're with you
@mahmoodmufallalАй бұрын
"And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah]" (2: 45) "O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient." (2:153)
@Abdu_Samed3 ай бұрын
Brothers and sisters, please don't lose hope. Read this hadith 👇 Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: There are two eyes that the Fire will not touch: an eye that wept out of fear of Allah, and an eye that spent the night guarding in the way of Allah.
@TheOnlyZackshadyK982 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this valuable lesson with us, my brother.
@СтранаРоссия053 ай бұрын
Wallahi i can relate so much to what he's saying !!! The only reason i fall into this sin over and over again is because i have alooot of free time i am always home scrolling on social media, eating junk food amd doing nothing beneficial or productive for my future self. As soon as i started working out, dieting, going out to apply for a job, finding new friends and hobbies "getting out of my comfort zone you could say" i never even had the thought of doing it again, because i was always busy and i thank allah SWT that he guided me alhamdullilah i made dua often i pray on time all time which i did not do in the past. So yeah that's basically my POV, i am thankful that i stopped at the age of 19 and not 25 or 30, it has been 1 year almost alhamdullilah i can talk to woman im not shy anymore or introveryed, i don't see woman as a piece of meat anymore but as a human being with feelings, a soul etc... im the past when i would see a woman i immediately thought of us having sex even if i never talked to her
@Localyuzuke2 күн бұрын
Finally I got the real video.... thank you so much
@haseebmalik25703 ай бұрын
I was suffering from this May Allah help me
@Abu550442 ай бұрын
Believe in ALLAH and also believe in your self too you can overcome from it.
@Ihf23102 ай бұрын
Brother Believe me and try this Cry in front of Allah and ask Allah to become your protector and share your feelings and emotions with Allah just like you do it with your close relative and believe that Allah will solve any of your problems think of it as playing your part in helping Palestine and fighting against Israel because most of po*n is Israeli made and targets Young Muslims remember the blessings of Allah upon you and how Allah the creator of world blesses you and how you pay back think of these aspects and InshaAllah you will leave the sin Pray for me if you find it useful that Allah forgives my sins
@MahmoudManneh-t4j22 күн бұрын
Thanks guys for the addressee, may great you guys blessing in this world and the next.
@luciddreamz14463 ай бұрын
I just to say thank you to this channel and this brother for coming forward and putting himself out there. To over come this vile experience that Robs you of your natural life transition. I’ve struggled with this for 3 decades , let that sink in for the young ones in the comments. Stop before you get started I pray for you and all those who’s been robbed by this epidemic. It’s not sex and it is Extremely harmful. May God keep all of you close and protect and forgive us.
@UmahEdu3 ай бұрын
May Allah swt protect all out brother and sisters from this sin
@YUJIROHANMAEA3 ай бұрын
Do not let the sins that appear before your eyes enter your hearts, remember Allah. Indeed, only in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find peace. Qur'an (13:28)
@Iluvdeeneislam3 ай бұрын
Always remember that sab'r and Dua is better than revenge ♡
@Shehbaz.Editz.173 ай бұрын
Stop scrolling and say.. Subhanallah x3 Alhamdulillah x3 La ilaha illallah x3 Allahu Akbar x3 Astagfirullah x3 Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi x3 Subhanallahi 'azeem x3 La hawla wala quwata illa billahx3 Astagfirullah wa atubu ilahi x3 Imagine your reward from Allah when Somone reads it because of you? forward this message to everyone
@shahin80213 ай бұрын
Mashallah tabarak Allah Brother. Thank you for this awesome video and may Allah protect you and your family and bless you from where you wont know.
@HanifaZazai-ml8fg28 күн бұрын
May Allah help all that are suffering from this virus, Islam is great for a reason
@AbdulMukitMahdi3 ай бұрын
Man i am terribly addicted to masterbation even though i pray 5 times daily and added tahajjud with it plz pray for me
@RMXMUSIC-ju2od3 ай бұрын
Bro the best fix is to delete all social media and web browsers
@SoldierArman3 ай бұрын
The way i quit is by smoking then i quit both. I wasnt addicted to smoking but it change my mind. But it better if you without smoking
@RMXMUSIC-ju2od3 ай бұрын
@@SoldierArman you replaced ur dopamine source
@zainmalik4573 ай бұрын
If you listen fully, then you must know marriage is not the solution. , you'll ruin your marriage life if you go with this , so one should stop this before atleast 90 days then go for marriage Inshallah, he'll not only enjoy married life also will never turn into this sin again.
@AlHussainA_liya3 ай бұрын
Absolutely impossible, you pray 5 time+tahajjut and addicted? don't lie bro we are not fools here.
@CarCar-j7i3 ай бұрын
amazing this boardcast changed changed my life alhumdulilah
@f4ce6403 ай бұрын
Lowering the gaze is the main cure to this addiction. I was sooo addicted to the core. When I started lowering my gaze, it was so easy to quit. Alhamdulillah.
@fleetoAllah18614 күн бұрын
AlhamduLLiLAH- I believe u can and be a best Muslim in sha Allah
@muhammadahmadismaila3 ай бұрын
Masha,Allah it was an amazing knowledge about it.keep us in your prayers bro❤❤
@xaestar.20 күн бұрын
this video might've just saved my life, whoever this anonymous man is, i thank you.
@piousislamic3 ай бұрын
Ma sha allah thank u brother for this podcast and the host and specifically the guest Jazakallahukhaira❤ u have opened my mind being a medical student definitely i can assure what u have said about the neurotransmitters in a specified way the (dopamine=pleasure harmone) so we can say its about controlling them and ultimately we are controlling our nafs as well❤ May Allah helps us all Ameen🤲
@MuhammadIkram-sq3my3 ай бұрын
Real value addition video. JazakAllah ❤
@zainmahmood90883 ай бұрын
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Sahih Bukhari 5066.. The Main and Best Solution Ameen
@MrZee33 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah I quit and this is so easy and I noticed so many good changes.
@f4ce6403 ай бұрын
Lowering the gaze is the main cure to this addiction. I was sooo addicted to the core. When I started lowering my gaze, it was so easy to quit. Alhamdulillah.
@ExperimentalKana3 ай бұрын
he just said it transfers into marriage and marriage doesn't solve it. people in comments: get married 🤦♂️
@zoyaahmed24443 ай бұрын
People are telling to get married at right age for not to get* this kind of addiction
@samia68883 ай бұрын
@@zoyaahmed2444 to not get this addiction you have to not start it by not looking at things like that in the first place.
@ExperimentalKana3 ай бұрын
@@zoyaahmed2444 read the comment again bro
@alexmarinakis99883 ай бұрын
Been married for 10 years now. Alhamdulillah. I’m 29. And I don’t disagree with good points the brother has made in the video. But he is not a prophet. And when the prophet muhammad peace and blessings be upon him says to get married and to fast and to lower our gaze and guard our private parts. Then how can anyone say otherwise? Marriage isn’t a solution? Then what is? And the brother may allah give him jannah for his striving and effort. Is not yet married if I heard him correctly, if he is then I am mistaken. You know what nobody will ever mention because of it being taboo? Polygyny as a solution. Men will have more motivation towards marrying than pornography. The prophet peace and blessings be upon him and sahaba used to marry and be loyal to more than one woman. And they were human beings that strived to be near perfect. And we should do the same.
@ExperimentalKana3 ай бұрын
@@alexmarinakis9988 i would say it won't solve it. What will solve it is self control, diligence etc and effort as always. I don't remember our prophet saying that marriage will solve these issues for you (porn addiction in particular), because simply it doesn't. If it would then there would not be so many cases of "my husband is watching porn" and so on and so forth and you are saying "then marry more women" ... bro the underlying issue is not on the outside it is in the inside. The man has an issue not his relationships. It's as if you are saying marriying will solve my heroin addiction because with a wife in my life i will have fun and no need for heroin anymore. I don't buy it and it shows. It show on the countless men with disrespect towards their wife, men who beat their wives, women screwing the man over and so on. If this was gonna happen why did they marry? Thinking marriage will magically solve all issues. I dont disagree with our prophet, but evidence clearly shows otherwise, therefore i assume he meant something else or the hadith is not sahih
@saadbhai24523 ай бұрын
Please also upload this video in urdu because most of my friends are relatives are fell into this addiction.
@JonibekMirboltiyev3 ай бұрын
May Allah himself guide us❗️
@unknownreality28783 ай бұрын
Appreciate you for sharing this!
@zeeshankhalid13453 ай бұрын
It is clear who is the person who is being blacked out. The sound speed and frequency should be changed more. May Allah bless ur efforts
@banone3273Ай бұрын
Who is it, i want to learn from him?
@Za3a33 ай бұрын
Allahoumma barik very informative brother alhamdulilah for everything and i think something that is very important is surrounding urself with the right people + environment. Also the void thing is rlly true
@hassanfaizan58313 ай бұрын
Very accurate, comprehensive, helpful video
@Sebastian_Luncasu3 ай бұрын
I quit it because I couldn't think clear when I was doing it. I quit because i became cringy around my girlfriend. I quit because it was stopping me from pursuing my dreams. I quit because I didn't want my grilfriend to remember me as a PM addict I quit because I don't want to ruin my relationship I quit because I don't want my future marriage to be the worst
@afsahfarooq7103 ай бұрын
I think the main point in recovery is to keep on repenting no matter how many times you fall in the same sin again .
@khaledkhereis87392 ай бұрын
Not for me, it becomes a habit you cant shake off, praying and repenting does help sometimes for maybe a week at most but I do it even without a urge
@Ihf23102 ай бұрын
@@khaledkhereis8739Brother believe me and try this Cry in front of Allah and ask Allah to become your protector and take you out of this sin share your feelings and emotions with Allah just like you do it with your close relative and believe Allah can solve your any problem request Allah to protect you because you can't keep yourself away from this sin without Allah's help always try to remember the blessings of Allah upon you how much Allah continues to reward you and how you are paying back think about people of Palestine they don't have access to basic resources and you continue to enjoy all resources Believe me this porn industry mainly targets Young Muslims to take them away from Allah, to spoil them. In today's era fighting against porn is one of the biggest good deeds and in thrn you are fighting against Israel and playing your part in Palestine war keep all these aspects in mind and pray for me that Allah forgives my sins if you like it
@Anonymous-he3pi3 ай бұрын
This is scary as a single female. You never know who has this addiction and they're marrying you just for the purpose of leaving their addiction and using you as a test subject. Because marriage is NOT a solution for this addiction. Such people have no emotional attachment and they only engage in this activity for a pleasure and after a while they get bored. That's why many people start slow and watch not so serious stuff, but then they slowly slowly get deep into this stuff to the point that they start to watch ra*e. May Allah protect us from this evil and also from men and women who are addicted to this. May Allah heal people who are suffering from this issue. (Aameen!)
@emircagman16353 ай бұрын
Research, there are ways to know of a man is good or bad. You ask his parents about his character, you can ask directly if he has any addictions, you have to watch if he wants you just for your beauty or your character and faith.
@emircagman16353 ай бұрын
May Allah give you the husband you want.
@umarjanbhat38193 ай бұрын
Even drug addiction is hard to find let alone this.
@BosniannMuslimАй бұрын
Marriage is definitely a solution what are you on about
@Anonymous-he3piАй бұрын
@@BosniannMuslim marriage is not a solution for an addict because he will be bored of his wife in few months just like they get bored of watching same content, and after a while they need something more extreme. I watched a documentary once where they explain this phenomenon. People are so sick and so addicted that they even begin to watch r*pe to satisfy their desires because normal p*rn is no longer sufficient. Someone with these type of addictions are ill and they need therapy. Marriage would be a solution for someone who has high desires, and they're afraid that they would fall into sin if they wouldn't marry. But someone who is already deep into this sin isn't going to heal from marriage.
@cheesydrippinАй бұрын
Well, brothers, it's time for me to embark on this journey as well. I will come back every week and update on my progress.
@AhmadKhan-cp4ou3 ай бұрын
Guys sometimes when black magic is done on you jins tries to make you sin so they can attack you. They first lower your guard then attack. Do Ruqya on yourself everyday and try to not open the door for jins to attack you.
@teststream35343 ай бұрын
mashallah brother very informative video to help our brothers
@Gtwannabe3 ай бұрын
This is a huge sickness but there is a cure. First, fast everyday, once you make the intention you will follow through because you fear Allah SWT. it will also do your body alot of good. Second, try not to spend any time alone and go to bed early and get up early for Fajr. Last, exercise if you are unable to work. Give it time, (it will take time) and you will become a most disciplined person and life will change for the better guaranteed!
@saifhasan.1Ай бұрын
THANK YOU FROM THE CORE OF MY HEART... ❤
@frogguytomgaming3 ай бұрын
Everything he said in this video is true by my experience it destroyed my health my way of thinking the way of looking a woman please guys if you are young don't do masturbation and don't watch porn(i am stuck in this cage). Slowly masturbation and porn will become a need for your body it destroys your digestive system also. Don't do this please. It's very hard to leave it i hope i will also leave it one day, please pray for me.
@dizhan.743 ай бұрын
i was addicted to it, now i've quit and have a clear mind. 👍🏻 alhamdulillah, my sholat taubat (prayer of repentance) is accepted (insya'Allah)
@AquibManzoor-fb2mc3 ай бұрын
How do you know ur salat tawbah is Accepted
@dizhan.743 ай бұрын
@@AquibManzoor-fb2mc i said "insya'Allah" i believe that my repentance will be accepted because Allah is the most merciful.
@AquibManzoor-fb2mc3 ай бұрын
@@dizhan.74 I also make tawbah but I still fall in this sin will Allah accepted my repentence
@AquibManzoor-fb2mc3 ай бұрын
@@dizhan.74 I was abused as child I was bullied religion ocd porn addict I donot feel any emotions will it recover soon
@dizhan.743 ай бұрын
@@AquibManzoor-fb2mc as long as you repent with all your heart and try to not doing any sins, Allah will accept your tawbah, just for your information, never Allah got tired to forgive his creation.
@Brucewayne-z7x2 ай бұрын
I Alhamdullillah ditched this addiction by 1. Hating the porn industry/objectification of women 2. Through forcing myself to do hard uncomfortable tasks for a long time. Until i build self discipline in myself
@Mr.Protagonist3 ай бұрын
My personal experience: After 1 month of NoFap, I joined a gym. I am not a sports guy and only did indoor activities so the first day was hard but I kept going for maybe 2 weeks while doing NoFap and alas! I relapsed and watched p*rn when I was home for a few days and now I went to Gym again. I knew that I would experience difficulty while lifting but the difficulty was more than the 1st day of Gym when I joined. When I started Gym, I was level 1 close to level 2 but now, I am in level 0 right now.
@AliiG-ft6rj3 ай бұрын
Gym and salah and lower gaze you'll be fine
@Mr.Protagonist3 ай бұрын
@@AliiG-ft6rj thanks, now I have experienced the practical benefits of retention.
@khadarmohamed25303 ай бұрын
Alxamdulillaah first of all and then my two teachers, Omar inshaar and Andrew Tate it was a dark era for me but now Noor came to my life it's like I was born the day I quit with the help of Allah s.w.t a new life begun for me alxamdulillaah, I tried a lot of time to quit but I couldn't I always motivated my self that one day I will stop I regretted a lot the biggest inspiration that made me quit is I said to my self when will u live as a Muslim should live and memorize the holy Quran alxamdulillaah right now I have a peace of mind I pray every person suffering addiction
@AquibManzoor-fb2mc3 ай бұрын
I have quit this addiction will Allah give me peace of mind
@khadarmohamed25303 ай бұрын
@@AquibManzoor-fb2mc for sure
@usamanasir5347Ай бұрын
I would like to add one thing ... When you really feel the urge just postponed it, Tell yourself that you are definitely gonna watch but next week. After doing it a couple of times you will feel a sense of winning and will be able to continue it till you are out of it.
@ruuoxi3 ай бұрын
"Sexuality is a need, only after marriage" This is gold! And came from a man! And it's true, you married not because you just want a halal sex. Marriage is not that cheap!
@mohdafnan82783 ай бұрын
Sexuality is a part of our natural instinct otherwise human specie won't survive.And these desires force us to get married or make relationship with opp gender.
@hehepatan3 ай бұрын
🛑How to leave it? When the negative thought comes. Deatroy it in the 1st second and remember death and start Doing Zikr(remembering Allah) say yourself Allah is watching how you gonna do it Some more tips Start fasting make your salah perfect Read more about Allah and Quran one of the biggest reasons why you don’t have fear that he is watching because mostly don’t Read About Allah and understand Quran Busy yourself your are too free that’s one of the most reasons
@pearleunjoo54393 ай бұрын
Those who think only males suffer from this, let me remind you that we females also suffer from this. 😥
@fevad12463 ай бұрын
Are you being modest? Probably not most of the time
@Slave_of_the_Most_Merciful3 ай бұрын
We all realise it's a problem and fitna so let's strive our best to eradictae this. Remember our youngsters will have it way worse than us so we have to strengthen ourselves to prepare them . I would suggest statt by truly understanding what it means that Allah is All seeing and All Aware yet he's Most Gracious and Merciful than your own mother when you repent and seek forgiveness. Don't deprive yourself of his mercy by disobeying him he truly wants you in jannah or else he wouldn't have made you a Muslim who has Allah's name in their hearts.
@ResZCreator3 ай бұрын
I never expect that
@f4ce6403 ай бұрын
Lowering the gaze is the main cure to this addiction. I was sooo addicted to the core. When I started lowering my gaze, it was so easy to quit. Alhamdulillah.
@Asimabhat073 ай бұрын
Exactly I just cry for it😭😭😭😭
@Mizori3 ай бұрын
A solution to this is to fast when you have urges as said by our Prophet Muhammed PB: Abd-Allah ibn Mas’ood (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated, “We were young men with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and we did not have anything (i.e., we could not afford to get married). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to us, ‘O young men, whoever among you can afford to get married, then let him do so, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and guarding chastity. And whoever is not able to do that, then let him fast, for that will be a shield for him.’” (al-Bukhaari, 5066; Muslim, 1400). Fasting reduces the effects that desires have on young people.
@LoveAllah50215 күн бұрын
I am trying to quit this habit from an year and Alhamdulillah i now have reduced it by almost 70% but it always everyday there's something that i see or hear ( offline, because i've limited phone activity too, no ig nothing) that trigger the lust but not always it triggers but sometimes it's hard to get over. May Allah ﷻ help me and everyone who is struggling to quit.
@neutralinfinit47093 ай бұрын
That "need theory" was outstanding🔥
@daniallegacyАй бұрын
my answers: 1) Not being Grateful to God's blessing & life's easy comforts 2) Reason: To Find a better comfort & familiarity in something we don't own immediately 3) Why: To pursue God's pleasure & spend my time more into life and not into inexistant things 4) How: By applying Tawheed & full awareness of God's witness to my actions & accountability, even when I feel "drowsy/drunk/emotionally aroused"... I don't want to piss-off God Almighty
@CyberTonian3 ай бұрын
Great video, and great motivation for my nofap journey....
@Nps-tq8xy3 ай бұрын
One more important tip : Don't count the days.. once u have decided to quit it, then that's it, khalas..
@CyberTonian3 ай бұрын
@@Nps-tq8xy that's the point bro... thanks 😊
@TheAnimeMiMi3 ай бұрын
Spending time with people you love, not family. Family can be the reason behind masturbation.
@YeehawMister3 ай бұрын
How can family be a reason behind it
@Spiderman-9t92 ай бұрын
Thanks that is very information video Thank you Towards Eternity ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@mamadoudrammeh84483 ай бұрын
Masha allah,thanks for your wonderful video
@MahmoudManneh-t4j22 күн бұрын
May Allah make it easy
@Lv_multi21 күн бұрын
I quit this habit last year,,I can help
@TopG200733 ай бұрын
There is one main thing I realized. Anyone who was addicted to those kind of stuff stops when they find true love and affection, it is mostly never about sexual satisfaction but about mental health.
@isma92323 ай бұрын
Jazak Allahu khayran
@HuzaifaKhan-mt4ntАй бұрын
man this is just perfect
@AbubakarSaddiq-o2w3 ай бұрын
i have left it i am so happy .my reason for quitting was that I WANT TO BE CLOSER TO ALLAH NOT TO BE CLOSER TO SHAITAN and ALHAMDULLILAH
@popkb3 ай бұрын
Finally. A Muslim speaking about it. I consider this addiction as one of the- no, as the top number 1 hardest addiction to quit. BUT if you do your research enough, you'll find out that it is still hard but not as hard as before, you can definitely quit it in a year and reap it's benefits witching the time period. From there onwards, forget about the addiction and live with your new self. The key is that you just gotta find out what makes YOU lazy and what do you want to achieve and start working on it ASAP.
@zk31283 ай бұрын
Read Qur'an..this is best solution brothers and sisters ❤
@objectiveincision39703 ай бұрын
I was reading that getting married is only a solution when the Man is attracted to his prospective wife .. the reason people go to prn is because women they find attractive are beyond reach, and what's available is what no other man is chasiong.. so it becomes a tragic vicious circle.