THIS Is How Women Pursue Men...😏 (Ultimate Signs A Girl Likes You!)

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching! If anything I've shared here has helped you, you'll be OBSESSED with what you discover in my Academy! 🤩 Click here to watch my free masterclass and learn more now! 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass P.S. Which of these secrets surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments!

[@gerhardf8281]

Thanks, Melanie for showing us your wonderful eyes, your smile, these Melanie, es you are! Sorry, that I am in love, otherside I would ask you something;-)))

[@gerhardf8281]

Melannie, lets become a frindship between us both! One in wich we are writing all things from us two only by mail which we are knowing we both, I think, thouse tzhings should ko only we both. Remember: Friendship is not Love for me.

[@nobodyknows3180]

I kept listening and listening and listening, and you never did give any examples of just how women pursue in a feminine way.

[@mr.goodwrench8273]

PURSUING and HOT CHOCOLATE. I like that you mentioned when both the man and lady are pursuing one another. Something they need to do even after getting together in a relationship and during their marriage. Thank you for another good video. I hope everyone in your family is doing well. May God richly bless you 🙏 and have a great Labor Day weekend.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad you enjoyed it! Thank you SO MUCH for your support and kind comments. I always look forward to hearing from you!

[@krishnamurtiism]

Pursuing a lady: Confidently and appropriately show your interest in her, while also appropriately and confidently responding to her interest in you. It's just that simple, so simple. No wonder I'm 53 and still single.

[@supermichaelssecondchannel4342]

Thank you for the videos and your presence is valued.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you! God bless 🙏

[@paulmesler9412]

Thanks! Keep up the great videos Coach Melannie!

[@JorgeandHisVideos]

Thanks! You're amazing! Thank you! PURSUING!

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much! God bless 🙏

[@ninelives19821]

Hey coach, thanks for all the pointers, every video you make is very informative. One thing I learned from this video is it's very obvious when a man approaches a woman, and it is crystal clear to her that the man is pursuing her, but when a woman is pursuing a man, 9 times out of 10 the man has no idea that's what she's doing.. the man is not rejecting her but the man isn't aware that she is interested. Thank you for making this information available! I look forward to getting involved in your master class. I have women come on to me, but I'm completely oblivious, and they end up totally hating my guts and I have no idea why LOL.. because I unknowingly rejected her. Thank you for the vital Information, looking forward to the future. You give me allot of hope.

[@RetroCaptain]

I've had a few young women act all excited smiling flirting etc and I asked them out and "thank you but I'm so busy lately". Another one was flirting and wearing silver rings on her finger so I didn't say anything, and after she was less friendly. Have a lot of decoding to do while you're talking.

[@waltpartymiller6802]

Hi Melanie, guess what, the girl and I found each other. It was at church. She had flurted with me once, then next week sat directly in front of me. The pastor always pauses and asks us to stand up and greet the people near us. Spontaneously we held hands and the smile she showed me was loaded with such joy and happiness that we fell in love, instantly. What an exilarating feeling. She is passionately in love with me and vice versa, she wants a long term relationship and marriage- she is so beautiful, I think she is going to ask me to marry her. We are on a similar spiritual plane, both transending currently. She just broke up with a long term immature, somewhat toxic relationship and wants to get it right in her life. I think she wants to have children, so that is happy with me. You are always so encouraging, Melanie' she is as beautiful as you, though with slightly different features (petite). Life has turned so exciting since we met, can't stop thinking about each other, think we are gonna move in together soon. Love to you, and thanks for all your encouragement.

[@em_phiri9619]

Happy for you brother!!!

[@tamaratrueconnection]

Woo hoo Walt so excited for you! She definitely wanted to interact more with you.

[@Andykinglovestodance88]

I should go to church more really should

[@mjpowell101a]

@@Andykinglovestodance88 Amen!!!

[@11Rogue-Disciple11]

You are very very lucky it happened to you in this way. Instant love really is a thing. It can be the greatest. Or in my case one of the most painful things ever. Because for me it happened with a married woman. It was mutual love, but due to her life circumstances neither of us could advance much further..and neither of us are the type of ppl to be unfaithful or cause infidelity.. But alas. The love I felt changed me forever. And I will always love this woman for what she brought into my life. Count your blessings.

[@faith-manages]

There were two massive Reddit threads on guys who completely missed the clues when girls where flirting/pursuing them. It's great for guys AND girls to read because: GUYS DON'T GET YOUR CLUES, GIRLS. We're not rejecting you, we just never considered the possibility...

[@nicholas_a.baxter-herold]

My philosophy is, if she’s interested in you enough she’ll make the first move. (i.e ask you out) I know this from experience.

[@joemorris3165]

Great video like a great sunset!!! Keep up the great work!

[@mercenarywolf3747]

Hi Melannie. Your personality always makes me smile. Thank you for all the support and videos that you do. I know that you're worried about family at the moment so my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you. Sending you and your family best wishes. God bless. ❤ P.S. Hot Chocolate.

[@ericschultz5434]

Great video Melannie! Your videos have helped me tremendously about understanding the way women think in terms of relationships! I was wondering if you could maybe do a video about how introverted/shy girls pursue men! I recently made the mistake of thinking a girl liked me and she was just being shy, but it turns out she was showing that she was not interested.

[@shawnpritchard366]

Thank you for this video. You've deservedly earned yourself another subscriber!!!

[@frankmyer2694]

how do women pursue in a feminine way?

[@talentunburied]

Hot Chocolate because you like it but it's 100 degrees! Enjoying your good humor and encouragement about THAT Special Woman! The Blue door behind you Coach is a mystery...you deserve a laid back feel free set...more room between you and backdrop..Off white Curtains or textured framed material. Love your personality. Thank you!-Adam

[@princearthur4946]

Excellent presentation!

[@Mental1m33]

Your videos are awesome darling!! :)

[@sven_ampleforth]

Hi Coach Melannie!! I really like your concept of pursuing; it make clear what to expect and what to do; it is not like everything goes, or the end justify the means. Thanks for your prspective. ---------- We already are in November, the temperature is lowing down so we can enjoy HOT CHOCOLATE, and it will bettter if we have some cookies or sweet bread.

[@rustyclam238]

How do you know whether a stranger is single or not? A lot of people don’t wear wedding rings. And some wear rings that may be Confused with wedding bands.

[@pavelchetirbok6126]

Liked your talk .... Until I saw the outtakes ....then I LOVED the talk, put me in a great mood .

[@organicmechanic5150]

I cannot get enough of this smiling assassin. Great tips and content.

[@elicantu1939]

Thank you Coach Melanie! I hope you make more videos like this one! I really enjoyed and learned a lot from you! God bless you sweety!

[@dj1unique]

Thank you for your shearing ❤

[@stevemansfield2757]

Hot chocolate. Yeah me too. I’m watching in December so it is the perfect time even in Florida lol

[@leesnow5859]

Ok.widowed. 60 M. I work food concessions. And I am losing weight. A woman comes up orders food. Comment I am looking good. Have lost weight. I have about 15 pounds. I say thank you. I am confused. 1. It seems like she was flirting/complimenting but not sure. 2. I don't date where I work. Good way to not have a job. 3. So was she flirting or just nice? 4. I admit I am thick in these situations.

[@reborn2j]

Nah she is just being nice

[@leesnow5859]

@@reborn2j Thanks man.

[@channingfranklin8234]

I agree she was just being polite but it was a honest polite shall I say keep up the good work in your weight lost journey.

[@richmartin6832]

Hi Melanie, been trying to play catch up on your videos. Love your advice and those crazy bloopers 🔥 . Hot Chocolate

[@rickkillian2378]

For a long time I didn't have a sense of self and didn't know how to pursue women. I have a couple female friends now at work and we hang out often😊

[@ozzyb]

Hot Chocolate 🔥🍫. Another informative and insightful video. Keep the videos coming, Melannie.

[@bobmorgan5636]

So... what is a "feminine way?"

[@amessenger3208]

Great advice! God bless.

[@markharrelson9926]

Now these are things I need to learn! Thanks coach!

[@initiatorhater0688]

women still normally never are the ones to ask a guy out, and why do i get the feeling that will never change, i don't see it ever becoming more common for women to ask a guy out

[@initiatorhater0688]

@Daniel B i never understood, why is the man meant to pursue the woman?, i never got it, i always resented that tradition of the guy having to ask the girl out, it feels like a one-sided injustice

[@initiatorhater0688]

@Daniel B yup, its a reminder that, i like to think and believe that, women are the only gender that are given things in life, well especially in the dating realm, for just existing, but men are not

[@initiatorhater0688]

@Daniel B man i sometimes hate women for being attracted to a mans confidence so damn much

[@initiatorhater0688]

@Daniel B thats why i envy some species of animals, the males role in courtship looks a lot more easier and simple and straight to the point, a lot less steps, than it is in humans

[@BiGChinGSvideos]

I love all your videos

[@alexconsumer5065]

Great points!!!

[@Tony-DWK-56]

This was an interesting vid to watch becuz u rarely discuss women who pursue. *Suggestion* maybe in a future segment possibly mention the difference between how a "Toxic" women pursues opposed to a "High Quality" women pursuing. Btw, your bloopers were hilarious!! I was dying🤣so hard, the Hoo Hoo thingy 😅I had to calm down by having a cup of "Hot🍵Chocolate" even though it was very warm out. Keep up the great work! "Melannie Rocks 4ever!!"

[@mattsimpson1351]

Pursue. Hot chocolate. Thank you! Have a great holiday wkd! 🙏

[@guntertorfs6486]

Hi Melannie. Like the hair ! What is recognizable feminin pursuing though ? Women can be very vague and overly subtle. By the time we realize a woman is pursuing she might already have closed the window. And women are not exactly persistent either.

[@Matt-mj2iv]

I wasn't sure if someone was but someone I know a lot of people I know told me she was interested they help me

[@jcman-lp6lg]

you know I thought to myself this is "2022 women should and will probably pursue guys they like." Lemme tell ya some thing guys its 2022 nothing has really changed YOU have to make the move and ask her out don't be like me I did not make any moves or show any interest, it's been a year now and she's moved on. LISTEN GUYS SHOW INTEREST don't be an idiot like me.

[@MikeCrook1980]

Great...its supposed to be 90deg today and now you got me wanting Hot Chocolate haha...another great video, Coach!!

[@sirjustis]

For me, the buzz is killed when i have to ask ALL the questions. No inquisition for me is a bad sign in my opinion. Is this correct logic?

[@jamesbernard6614]

What do you mean by feminine

[@tonygunter8192]

I love your videos super thanks for helping me out

[@ethanmartin239]

Tbh im tired of girls sometimes cus there is this girl who i really vibe with and ik she knows we have a good vibe. And we both would just flirt with eachother. Ill try to make this as short as possible. First of all we work together and eventually we started taking lunches together and i told her i had a thing for her she said she wasn’t looking to date anyone. At one point we had days where we would kiss after work. And it felt great. We never dated and did anything outside of work. Eventually she went cold on me and when i called her out on it she said she never wanted to date and saw me as a friend. And she started dating this other guy. But we still talk and have this seemingly amazing vibe between us and everyone at work sees it and thinks that we are dating. But why does she still want to be friends and talk to me after what happened between us?

[@mcpartridgeboy]

What happened is that you are not good at pick up, its happened to me lots, i lose out on women that really like me to men who she doesnt like but are good at pick up, you need to be a good pick up artist to get a woman that likes youm but heres the kicker, if you are good at pick up you can get the girl wether she likes you or not, so in shiort you need pick up

[@dedkat7]

I'm Melanie's wonderful friend 🥺

[@kimcarey3929]

I'm a big fan of yours

[@BiGChinGSvideos]

I’m going to watch this video a couple more times because I think this is my main problem

[@BiGChinGSvideos]

Like maybe when I’m at the gym and they come up and exercise next to me and I walk off maybe I’m hurting their feelings huh?

[@MsTiger6969]

Asleep

[@MrBlackjack456]

Title: "Unlocking the Secrets of How Women Pursue Men: A Guide to Successful Relationships" Summary: In this insightful KZbin video, Christian dating coach Melannie shares six life-changing secrets about how women pursue men and how understanding these dynamics can lead to successful, lifelong relationships. Melannie emphasizes that women actively pursue men in their own unique, feminine way and that recognizing these pursuit signs is crucial. Some key takeaways from the video include: 1. Women express their interest through body language and words. 2. Flirting is a powerful way for women to pursue men. 3. Women pursue men in a feminine way, so it's essential to allow them to do so. 4. Ignoring a woman's pursuit is like rejecting her, causing her to pull away. 5. Pursuing doesn't mean being needy or playing hard to get but involves confidently showing interest and responding appropriately. 6. In a healthy relationship, both partners continually pursue each other. Melannie emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics for building fulfilling, balanced relationships. Viewers are encouraged to explore her Academy for more in-depth guidance on successful dating and relationships.

[@onlylove-fn3zg]

It's not that I don't know how ...it's just that I'm not in a good space to be in a relationship. Working out at the gym helped me so much with my severe depression. Now she shows up on my path +all these signs to lol. Don't know what to do ?

[@markhedges1194]

Hot Chocolate is always good! Numb feet and pins and needles are not, but isn't it strange that when it's not so funny, we can't help but laugh out loud, because when the feeling is coming back wow, we soon soon know about it! I hope all is well with you my amazing friend? Praying on! God bless! x

[@mcpartridgeboy]

Well i am strong because i lift 6 times a week, but i am not confident or masculine so how do i get get a gf ?

[@alaalfa8839]

Some guy explains the strength and muscles. Over the years men are losing muscle and strength, but there are three types of strength of the muscle. I forgot the names. He did an interview with Andrew Huberman. So it seems people should mostly exercise to live longer but meditation and practicing empathy, love and gratitude increase longevity because it energizes the body and it activates the enzyme called telomeres that make people healthier and live longer. It affects immunity and epigenetics etc.

[@justincasper9792]

Oh my , you are so funny 😂

[@tmac326]

Essentially, Women’s idea of pursuing is to drop hints that are so subtle that any Man who is looking for a sign to take charge and pursue will likely miss it because they don’t actually do anything to make their interest clear to said Men. Gotcha.

[@jatbatman]

Hey Melannie, how is the family health situation? Hoping it's resolved by this point. Story time: That blessed hippopotamus that was painting a picture of his puppies, their boxes, his friend pufferfish, and a 200k banner, went to the store for apples and bananas. As he was leaving the house he discovered the doorknob was loose. When he entered the store, he saw a guitar, he wanted. He stuck that in his shopping cart, and headed to the hardware section. While looking for a replacement knob for his door, he found a green lamp that he decided he really wanted. He let a Navy recruiter go ahead of him in line, then he bought his fruits and these finds and headed home. Upon arriving home he found his friend pufferfish holding a bowl of jellybeans and two cups of hot chocolate, while walking to the couch. His friend pufferfish said "Star Wars is in the DVD player, hit play when you are ready."

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for your kindness! Still working on healing. Great story, you're so creative God bless 🙏

[@jatbatman]

@@CoachMelannie hoping for a speedy recovery for your family. I'm a nurse, so if there's anything I can do to help... I don't know how much I could help surely living far away, but I could offer advice, knowledge, or even just an ear. Thank you. I try to keep my mind sharp, and that definitely helps creativity.

[@rollon2ashu]

Hello Melanie. Wow U are Looking really good... I just Love that Pretty smile of yours .... Whenever I See that smile on your face I feel like I should PURSUE U AND ONLY U... KEEP UP the Good Job and best of luck for All your hard Work that U put on in your work and life. God bless Us... U and Me Both 😘❤️

[@RolandBullock-ej8wl]

she's so gorgeous

[@markrossi5721]

Melannie you are quite the giggle box! For many men that's a strong reason for pursuing (fun loving woman!). I guess you could enjoy some hot chocolate if you're drinking it in an air conditioned space? The weather has cooled down considerably compared to last month here in Texas.

[@blackdawg7361]

Woody Allen: "Fifty percent of life means showing up!"

[@mikefudala1997]

Would her pulling away be a "feminine" action?

[@shannonfahey3467]

PURSING!

[@steledographics]

"Pursuing"

[@zataman]

Ĥow does she pursue in a feminine way?

[@RolandBullock-ej8wl]

You make my knees buckle xo

[@jonathans.9713]

Hello Melannie, Thank you for sharing ideas on how girls, women pursue men. I will appreciate more ideas and actions on how women are pursuing men. The words for this video are hot chocolate. When you talk and express yourself and get giggling it is fun to watch. You have a sweet spirit and are friendly. I really appreciate your help in learning to apply ideas and sharing what good actions us men take in our lives. Have an outstanding day and week. God bless you! In Christ, Jonathan 😀

[@tylerkendricks1504]

I've been embarrassed by shy girls, I decided they didn't like me

[@Sirg17x]

I think saying we approach things from our natural perspectives and that means differently is fine, but to expect men to carry all the burden of reading a language they are not privy to is crazy. Its one thing to pursue naturally, but if it can't be made somewhat obvious or just be spoken like an adult then the "slap in the face of rejection" is much less than that of someone male or female who is willing to speak up and actually put themselves out there. Its hard to be rejected if they don't know you even had any intent to get their attention let alone are attracted to them. Its like a shy guy sitting in the corner dreaming about a girl without actually making a move an then being mad at the girl for not just knowing.

[@johndavis8724]

What if she's asking you to teach her something?

[@corindawestover1275]

As a woman, I would really appreciate if you toned down the self promotion in your video and actually explain what you mean by Feminine pursuit and signaling to men and vice versa instead of leaving room for implication. Thank you.

[@CsabaGamings]

Annoying for you too, right?

[@scu2r]

The video would be better if she just got to the point instead of the unnecessary intro.

[@BiGChinGSvideos]

Besides not being able to read them, these girls can’t seem to read me

[@arkang3l80]

im at the point that i really dont care any more i just go through the motions of life

[@larrylentz6678]

The biggest mistake I made twice with the same woman, is having her drive. I had reasons, it was the lesser evil the first time. The second time, it was more rational. I was tired and we were in an area she was more familiar.

[@alaalfa8839]

Well woman can not fulfill the expectations of her parents, of being a certain way and doing things a certain way while fulfilling the expectations of her future partner.

[@krustysurfer]

My now ex-wife after we first met called and left a message asking me out to coffee. If they're interested in you they will let you know women are hunters most know what they want and how to get it. If she's interested she'll be getting ahold of you... otherwise you're probably wasting your time.

[@emanuelmakonnen72]

Pursuing!!!!

[@BiGChinGSvideos]

We’re like in different solar systems

[@AbiatricsTV]

Her voice is calming tho

[@bryanmccallum4614]

I get confused about pursuing the push and pull!

[@OhEthel85]

even i am not real man i am a gay. but i want someone who is on her Top personality. but i want to purse with her. she's a unique person. her family background is ideal thats what i want too

[@leeostendorf4696]

Pursuing!

[@gerhardf8281]

You know "the birth dealer" Part. 7 ? Ther is singing my home country.

[@andrewgrace4127]

Ok but I had that happen and I wasn't aware of that was going on

[@BiGChinGSvideos]

The reasoning of how we’re all supposed to understand each other is not reasoning it’s Mayham it’s complete anarchy the balance is absolutely broken when it comes to this all is fair in love and war

[@erikcuen4722]

PURSUING!

[@stephenatkinson2333]

If a man expects a woman to 'man up', he ought to check his own sexualising orientation.

[@NPSvideo678]

(Peppermint) hot chocolate sounds good.

[@OhEthel85]

pursuing

[@theghost6412]

I am curious. What does it mean exactly when you get on quite well with many women and they all seem to congregate around you and most of the them you know really hate your partner, yet she is the first person they all ask about whenever you catch up and she is not around?

[@tamaratrueconnection]

That is an interesting problem to have! Likely they are wondering where you two stand to see if you are separating because they think you are so spectacular. Feel free to change the subject to other things, your relationship is no one else's business.

[@Angelbonilla1982]

So we're is the strong and independent women? If she's gonna sacrifice there femenity to get the men she wants? That means she's desperate due to her age or feeling lonely cause women of today wants to enjoy life incertain ways like studying, sleeping around while they finished their carrer, starting new job when they opened there eyes she passed and the clock 🕒 ticking so she start looking desperate a Men with high value!! 6 figures not the one that works at McDonald's, one with Mercedes Benz, nice bug house not in a tiny apartment, gotta be tall maybe 6 feet tall, gotta be strong not a wimp!! Buy her expensive things so she save her money. That's reality.

[@juanmoran9509]

Persuing

[@Rylynnoct17]

All these points .makes sense. I wanted this older women and she wanted me. She was married. That's besides the point. But I was 2 scared to actually take her like a man. Like she wanted me 2 . Now I'm always regretting it. I prolly could have married her too

[@tmac326]

Sounds like it’s a good thing it didn’t work out cause it would have painted you in a scumbag homewrecker light and probably would have created endless drama in everyone’s lives involved.

[@Rylynnoct17]

@@tmac326 I think I'm saying this is modern women. Using there sexuallity, to feel good there getting men to give her attention. Making men fall in love with them not worrying about the man's. Psyckey (yes idk how 2 spell Psyckey)

[@scottgregory7683]

There's nothing quite like a good cup of Hot Chocolate on a cool winters day.

[@italianirishman5570]

I was at a Christian college in upstate NY. I was walking back to my dorm on the road/walkway when I heard a car behind me. I turned and the girl who would eventually become my wife/ex-wife was sharking me in her friends car. At the time it was strange because I had no interest, but she simply kept inserting herself in the most subtle ways and that was what changed my heart. I miss her, but I always find peace in those memories. I'm a Christian counselor now so my leg falls asleep often, especially when the guys get chatty. Hot chocolate!

[@ctaigwoolsey3471]

No you have to be goodlooking which I'm obviously not

[@hissendaoud1373]

Melann just yo 👸my favorite Woman and ❤

[@RCatanach]

Sunset

[@gregscott9170]

Does hot chocolate cure the giggles? 😊 Good tips on pursuing and recognizing being pursued.

[@firebald2915]

The Osmonds sang a song about this, Like A Yo-Yo !

[@xionix4]

I thought someone liked me. Nope.