This is what women find attractive in men - Sadia Khan

#shorts #youtubeshorts #datingadvice #podcast #relationshipadvice

[@daughterofelohim7]

Healthy masculinity and a man in tune with spirituality

[@midknightszn]

What's not healthy masculinity

[@csupor1046]

Wtf

[@Callsignethiopia]

What does that even mean? Women always trying to define what masculinity is but don’t even know what a woman is anymore

[@irfanahmed1627]

@@midknightsznyou’re ill

[@Liz-dragon-street.]

❤ 👌🏼

[@marimac182]

A confident humble man , a man who knows his identity walks with integrity, honesty , and has a relationship with God and must love God.

[@maggief1851]

This 💯

[@user-jd7eq1lv9g]

Purely yes!!! Jesus Christ believer is beautifully heart of Jesus Christ

[@L17Music594]

Lmao - all this god nonsense. If i am the man and i lead and i set the boundaries - I choose the values i live by. Don't need a man made book to dictate that for me.

[@richardhardwick2387]

What's God got to do with it?

[@hoanglinhdao8924]

Amen 🎉❤

[@kasamankuru]

In simple terms, don't be a Simp like Will Smith

[@JahmilBlair]

😂😂

[@jojolisticallyspeaking4266]

Will Simp you mean😂

[@JahmilBlair]

@@jojolisticallyspeaking4266 now THATS fire lol

[@infiniteinspiration1628]

😮

[@istiundcaro]

😂🤣😂

[@jaybarbosa553]

Good men are tolerated and usually not liked by everyone

[@majklknight7455]

Noone is liked by everyone

[@jay8053]

@@majklknight7455true but the men he is talking about are disliked by many

[@A1A2A3L]

So true. These days you have to hide the goodness not to attract others. It's because in 21 century people see it as a weekness. Good hearted person can have a very high charismatic character too. But you can't show weakness

[@HawaiianBrian69]

@@jay8053 that's because most people are weak. the ego can't handle it

[@JohnDoe-gu7ym]

​@@jay8053 good man and a pushover are used incorrectly in the Alpha male internet fantasy. Men who say they are good to a woman are usually very fragile males with no real masculinity and it may not be their fault but it is their responsibility to make changes eventually.

[@abdulahsan3121]

The power of saying "No" will get long way in life

[@marguskiis7711]

It makes you hated.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Those who matter don't mind. Those who mind don't matter. -Dr. Suess

[@dmgdondada]

@@marguskiis7711 Also gets you respected and not stepped on.

[@marguskiis7711]

​@@dmgdondada no, just hated and despised

[@dmgdondada]

@@marguskiis7711 I’ll disagree with that.

[@shae.the.gymini]

this is true. I love a man that can say NO! & is not easily influenced by others & trying to please everyone. A man with boundaries knows what they’ll tolerate & what they won’t. They are the best leaders

[@Eliaskiller4]

And if he says the "NO" word to you ? Don't you have a problem with that ? Just be honest !

[@infiniteinspiration1628]

❤

[@kokenygabor5473]

Welp my girl still broke up with me

[@shakercouple]

A masculine man, care for others.

[@nevrotik91]

No. It cares for their safety, benefits. Most of the times that comes with harsh decision making. Decisions that sometimes arent agreed on even by the people that benefit them.

[@davidvilla4504]

They find attrattive man with muscles

[@OldSchoolL4D-zb2kt]

Balls. Cope. Opposite. Your day to day life masculine men abused and exploits the suffering.

[@venomouspassion5744]

Got nothing to do what she's saying

[@infiniteinspiration1628]

❤

[@skyperg6364]

This is as true as how the sky is blue. I'm often a very direct and straight to the point guy with everyone even my girlfriend. So often times when i say NO to her on certain things, she complains at the moment, but afterwards like days later, she usually tells me she finds it so attractive how I'm a man of my principles. But still again the following days when I say no to something she gets mad. Women act a lot with feelings, and what they say often is just colored with the emotion they are feeling at the moment. So it's your job as a man to lead her with your logical thinking when she's lost in her emotions. She will find that so attractive in the long run, even though she will hate you at the moment.

[@marimac182]

You’re worth millions 🙌

[@SS-pg4vd]

How do you deal with her hating you at the moment? Do you explain why you said No? Can you share a specific real-life example for better understanding

[@skyperg6364]

@@SS-pg4vd it's like how do you deal with spending money on your business when it seems like you're losing money.. its because you know it will make you more money in the long run. So it's just being focused in the long run game. Saying YES to her everytime, being afraid you will offended her, you make her like you only at the moment, but it accumulates and piles up in her as someone she can't rely on for advice, guidance, feel safe submitting to, and leading the way. And those things are so so so important to her. So she's gonna find herself resenting you, which comes out as her hating you or finding you unattractive day to day. And they won't even know this is the reason they start finding you unattractive. It's just like a subconscious programming they have in them that helps them find a better male for guidance, coz they intuitively know their emotional decision making is not safe for them in this logical world. Yes, you can tell her why you say NO to something, but just understand at the moment when she's still lost in her emotions nothing makes sense, so she mostly won't even understand you. If you have something to get her out of her current emotional state first, you can do it. But if not, just know she's just hating you at the moment and it will just be fine later on with her even loving you more.

[@randellwhitney9850]

​@skyperg6364 I totally understand,that seems stressful tho...having to experience that constantly I have a question tho,Is she aware that this is one of their weaknesses?

[@user-dq3vw6md6b]

​@@skyperg6364wow youre pathetic😅

[@mylesgray3470]

Absolutely true. I did everything I could to give my first wife anything she wanted to try and make her happy. She became spoiled and disrespectful and we got a divorce. Push back. Stand up for what you believe. She will love you and make an effort to win you over.

[@JessicaSweety-vg5rf]

Kindness with boundaries ✨️

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Yes. Kindness is weakness - but ONLY if you allow it! You can politely say 'no,' and have the spine to stand by your words.

[@Boy_O_Boy]

True.I come from a family with women as majority.Women will say all sorts but deep inside,they want to be led.They respect men who can think and take initiatives.

[@user-nw3ok2wz2w]

Not all all women. I want an equal partner who will not be ashamed to share the immense burden of leading and constant decisions, which often drive a lot of men to their grave. The constant pressure to step up, to take the lead takes a huge toll on a man's psyche, and they are told from the early that they can't ask for help or they'll seem weak and not masculine. This a horrible dynamique we need to break out of. Which is why I only date equally strong men who are not going to lead me and I'm not going to lead him. We'll make decisions together and share the buren both financially and émotionally.

[@Boy_O_Boy]

@@user-nw3ok2wz2w I really like the last line.btw,I'm sharing my story based on how the women at my family view at man.Personally,I would prefer a woman who will be a company with whom i can share everything.

[@ryanaustin2540]

​@@user-nw3ok2wz2wboth you guys have respect for each other.

[@reiniermuntjewerff874]

​@@user-nw3ok2wz2w The more you let HIM lead.. the more you will feel relaxed (absolutely nessessary for a woman) Chose a man who CAN/WILL lead 😊

[@user-ff8tt8ep6t]

@@user-nw3ok2wz2w nonsense

[@musical_0713]

She's absolutely right, If i talk about myself then whenever any guy lacks boundaries and are people pleaser, it's an immediate turn off for me....

[@Navneet07860]

What do you mean by saying lacking boundaries? Elaborate.

[@GeorgeStarkes]

Most of you women are an instant turn off from the get go. So therefore nothing is set. Including boundaries.

[@mihaidbaa7770]

​@@Navneet07860 Seeing your Women talking w another dude in a flirtatious way and you look like an idiot and don't do nothing. I don't mean to go there and to make a scene or be aggressive. Not being able to walk away from her when she disrespects you. Not putting her in her place when she disrespects you, not in an aggressive way. Just to let her know that you know what she does and next time she can go. Still sticking around when she doesn't bring any benefit to your life beside kitty and maybe brings only drama and problems in to your life.Unfortunately these days most Womens are disrespectful towards Men in general. If you are a Men that knows all this and you are a "Real" Masculine Men, you have 2 options. Only use them for segggs and not commit to them and abuse, use them and when they become really a burden just drop them. Or right away don't get involved whit them. If you stay, they will test you and see whit how much they can get away whit and when you eventually will give up the power the downfall will come, is a constant battle between you 2 until 1 wins. Again, if you are that Masculine Man, within 2months you will let her go. I noticed as well if they are single for example and they are in a group made mostly out of Men. They will go to all Men and give a bit of attention to all of them. Most of them Men will start chasing, trie to impress her and even start fighting eachother. I don't mean whit fists but whit drama, jealousy talking bad about eachother to her, even stop beeing friends whit eachother. That's why Women will always chase the guy that sees what's goin on and doesn't play her little game and ignore her and don't chase after her and trie to impress her and so on. For a lot of Womens most Men are pathetic, due to they're weak behaviour. Hopefully next generations of Men that will come will have a better understanding and a better character. Seen male friends breaking the friendship over a stupid h*e and that's so disgusting and bet whit you that the h*e which succed to turn the friends against eachother had a good laugh whit they're h*e friends about these Men. Most Men don't have any bro code. If kitty is involved, they will sell even they're family out to get a grab of it. Seen dudes pursue the Girl like puppy, she made it clear that she doesn't want anything. Actually start disrespecting him and he still pursued and tried to move Mountains to impress her, etc.I've seen dudes to get the girl eventually, but oh boy, they will make ur life a living hell.Is a wast field of things that you as a Man can do. Let alone as well doesn't have to do anything w you. All of it can be wrong w her. Is ur duty as a Man to chose right and don't let urself driven by emotions and hormones to chose poorly.

[@marcoshuayai3995]

Issue ddadies or you like toxic relationship.

[@achmetlachdoch920]

Congratulations, can i call you insecure for that?

[@JoelCMusic]

The man, who doesn't need her to have a great life, we first build one, then invite those ones, deserves to be around our sacrifices - values, God bless! 👑

[@breathair2114]

Moral of the story : Have your own opinions !

[@Ammar.mrm-2002]

Respect!🎉

[@waliddeui6725]

But based on knowledge, science, and wisdom. And then be honorable

[@RickyNana-th6nm]

And boundaries as well

[@user-gc7ds5dp5d]

True bro !woman just don't respect man in general

[@user-gc7ds5dp5d]

I test mu girl about something she actually saying am trying to control her

[@peamoon]

Very true. Plus we actually like being told what to do when we know it's light-hearted and for our own good.

[@saimadisetty5805]

His presence of mind and self control in all kinds of situation.❤

[@marguskiis7711]

Women love drama and do not like calm men.

[@SuperStarUncannyMarvelous]

​@@marguskiis7711 most do

[@estelaa.6737]

Yes that’s sexy !!

[@estelaa.6737]

I think of those old classic movie stars. They all had self control and had presence of mind

[@saimadisetty5805]

@@marguskiis7711 This is so funny lol. Funny but not true.

[@TheAll5555]

This is true, I am a strong woman and I’m attracted to masculine men that have boundaries, know how to be a leader without controlling & is respectful to women. Chivalrous is my word to describe such a man. Thank you for talking about this. 🙏

[@pumkinsocks-ig6jk]

Honestly, I have been very insecure and openly anxious around girls, and they have found be attractive regardless, just from my authenticity and politeness/kindness. There was this one guy where exactly this happened. Some guy suddenly came up to me and started messing with me. though I have social anxiety, I didn’t allow that and I stood my ground and I literally spat on him, setting boundaries and not letting myself get disrespected. I’m telling you, girls just love someone who is authentic, charismatic, kind, who sets boundaries/know their worth. Despite being a nervous wreck, they still found me very attractive due to those qualities

[@jarintasnim347]

It’s true ! A confident masculine man is so attractive!

[@azinoobrando4820]

When I set my boundaries she said I’m trying to control her and she left. And trust me I was not attempting to do do , far from it

[@alhassanetoure3088]

it’s because you’re not that guy….yet

[@marcoshuayai3995]

Every women have different taste, some women are alphas. Some women like quite guys, asshloes,funny,narcist etc. This women that she is talkinf she is muslim, muslims women like to be control and like assholes guys. She is more talking about her culture. Some women like strong personality because they have issues daddy.

[@marcoshuayai3995]

😂😂 is funny i try to control her and she lefy lol sorry it was funny

[@achmetlachdoch920]

Thats what i say. As soon as it is about what a woman wants... We all gonna lose

[@ishy4u]

Man up, lucky she left early that would have happened otherwise. There's thousands of other girls too. Next please

[@copy_writer007]

In my humble opinion, as a woman I really believe if there is universal trait that most women really find hot in men - it’s an emotional maturity. I think it’s the hottest thing ever. You won’t find a girl who says that it’s not hot.

[@andresf.3472]

“The practical guide to men” by Shawn T Smith PhD. In fact Emotional Maturity forms part of his “Three pillars of a good man” the other two pillars are “Sense of purpose” and “Good Mental Health”. 10/10 would recommend this book 👌🏽

[@skincarerainbow4950]

True

[@shaun5944]

Ask a few women who have been married 30 years plus, not someone who has read it out of a book. With all due respect. Experience counts. 👍♥️🇬🇧

[@thomaszinecker1785]

Well that's probably wrong, why? They'll find attractive that one attribute they have never gotten from their man. SO ask those 3 long timers only ONE word question. Truly attractive to be with.

[@ethosterros9430]

Married women arent talking about masculinity they just talk about loyalty and love

[@skincarerainbow4950]

Same applies to men who do podcasts that aren't married

[@khadija12980]

Ethics kindness compassion and hardwork

[@marguskiis7711]

Bs

[@Sidra_khan00]

That's for real, I find it so attractive when my man say you're not allowed to do this, he own me. It makes me so attractive towards him 😅😍

[@Fromthebeginningtotheending]

A man who does the will of God is the best man you can get.

[@Timmae-vr2ss]

Say full wallet.

[@juliusphiliph1818]

are you this perfect ???

[@vioss]

Unless he explodes

[@HindustaniQueen]

I’ve been with a man who goes to church every Sunday and is involved just so he can be around other women without it coming off like he’s going to a bar to pick up a girl. His eyes and mind were always wandering. He actually cheated behind my back then blamed me and couldn’t actually admit it as cheating (narcissist) and resented me for calling it out how it is. He body shamed me by only following (half) naked women on social media and blocking me. The list goes on. I told a leader at his church something traumatic he did to me, once she heard the information she ghosted me. This is common behavior by church leaders, when you try to hold someone accountable they turn a blind eye. Hence why we have a legal system in place today. Amen

[@Fromthebeginningtotheending]

@@HindustaniQueen do you seriously believe that is a man of God? Doing the will of God and not the will of his own flesh..?

[@sandracastillo3317]

Wow! I was one of those women til I met someone who let me know "what is what" . -not a people pleaser -firm boundaries -DISCIPLINED Very clear about who he is and what he wants. I enjoy him taking the lead. It's so attractive and so refreshing. I am head over heels. 😳😱

[@Rocksteady365mac]

He will have other women on the side

[@user-vi3ri3jo8e]

​@@Rocksteady365mac lol😂 so true.

[@marky-marks]

And even him being like that. I also hope you feel like you are also free and respected at the same time too. Valued and not being ran over. if so then your clearly one of not many. many women say it’s controlling or something. no. It’s him giving blinders. And you also saying yours. Anyway. Fair play and glad you’re both happy

[@javireyes7333]

@@Rocksteady365macunfortunately he did

[@irfanahmed1627]

You’re a real woman who is dialled in well with nature

[@christianrodriguez5346]

I have boundaries for myself and certain limits. I tell you immediately what I want in a relationship: honesty, loyalty, and caring. If you can’t do all 3 then bye. The second bs occurs like her wanting to parties I stuff which is stuff I hate I would let her know I don’t like that stuff. If she says stuff like you can’t control me , then right then and there the relationship ends. If you can’t respect me I won’t respect you simple as that. I am quiet guy I just want peace.

[@terryloveslove]

a kind, caring and loving man.

[@rene-rv6pp]

Playing all these games usually with woman to take and leave fast

[@ELmasDuroChamp]

This new generation money comes first, shout out to all the real independent lady’s all over the world 🌎 we need more of you!

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

True only if he knows how to lead.

[@almanashshi]

😂😂

[@Rihague]

Exactly

[@azinoobrando4820]

When you lead she must also know how to follow.

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

@@azinoobrando4820 language is everything. We did not even speak to each other but his eyes told me exactly what to do. When Moe looked at me or moved in a certain manner. I knew he said get behind him or time to exit. He always scoped the place before he or I entered. We shopped in maybe two arms lengths from each other . It is like I can almost hear him dictating to me what to tell you. He always walked on the outside of me and I walked the inner side.

[@azinoobrando4820]

@@nadiaconseillant8616 sounds like me. Point for me is the women who would appreciate and understand those things are so far and few between. Society teaches it as a weakness when it’s actually a strength.

[@bensnyder6965]

Leadership! Lead! Lead! Lead! You have to own the hardest decisions

[@reshamp7282]

I too agree with her, I don't know how to not make it sound like a gender discrimination when I say I like when Man actually takes control and knows how to lead This doesn't mean he should be dominating in wrong way, I am all for gender equality, but taking a lead is more of a Man' s role and i would love to see my man taking the charge and I would follow him. But he should definitely respects and prioritise relation. Today's Man are confused at this and they create masculine women bcoz they are behaving weak so women takes masculine role unknowingly.

[@achmetlachdoch920]

What the foook. You say man are confused after writing something like that? Wow. Wow. Crazy. Read your own text again and think again whos confused wtf

[@veer5714]

Well so called emotionally strong person always treats women like trash.... 👍

[@moko6917]

there is fine line between ppl pleaser and selfish…if you genuinely like someone you will know when not to cross either of those lines

[@brandyellenmoore]

He can be firm hand man without trying to be controlling.

[@nobodycares3953]

His firm boundaries will appear controlling to a weak and narcissistic female.

[@Arsen_Y]

Guys remember. Don't ask a fish how to catch it, ask the fisherman

[@Ammar.mrm-2002]

Awesome man!

[@user-iv9er3nr6z]

Fish 🐟 know kind of bait they ❤️,, guys with woman it more about looks& sexy appeal, woman it more blind sex appeal

[@johnbingaman3645]

If she oversteps your boundaries, you have to check her or she'll keep doing it and the more she keeps doing it. You allow it , The more you invite , you'll never get out of it.

[@Mr33_illuminated3]

Divine feminine and divine masculine Balance is key👁🔑 ♥️♥️♥️🖤33333

[@ekagr2007]

Commitment security loyalty and skilled . Damn will power

[@AndrewTannerMusic]

One word that explains how to attract ANY woman…EMOTIONS! You have to know how to tap into and invoke a woman’s EMOTIONS to attract her. Get her mad. It’s passion. Then make her laugh. It’s joy. Then make her miss you. That’s anxiety. Then do it all over again. They are slaves to their own emotions and any man that can invoke and manipulate their emotions at will, is the man that can capture her heart and keep it. Most men(and women) don’t even understand this at its most basic level. That’s why women lose attraction for their man so often. In the beginning he accidentally attracted her…but he didn’t know what he was doing to make that happen so he couldn’t maintain it long term. The woman slowly falls OUT of love, and then she leaves or divorces him because she was “bored” or “just not feeling it” anymore. That’s because he stopped invoking and giving her emotions(the gas for the relationship). People be clueless to this stuff…especially the RP community. How do you attract a woman and make her fall in love??? EMOTIONS Give em to her and don’t give af about upsetting her.

[@nayaknayak4858]

Not all people the same Because my mom is the lead to protect my father and they discuss each other which is good. I think this is what I think true relationship. Not about what women talking.

[@mattdabney4109]

You are a huge help on teaching men how to be a man that a lady can love in such a calming way. Thank you

[@EugeneTilbrook-hr4xk]

Definitely Bro 💯😎👌🏼

[@vanessas2363]

Just dont get LEADING confused with CONTROL.

[@achmetlachdoch920]

Wtf. Such sentence can only come from a woman. Kids these days

[@DeshaunXD]

Having a good leader as your man doesn't matter if you don't know how to follow or you don't trust in your man's lead. People who are incapable of following say what you just said. It shames men for being a leader. You told on yourself.

[@vanessas2363]

@@DeshaunXD no, not at all. I've just sadly only met men that have been incapable of leading, there is nothing more admirable and a turn on than having a man where you can completely be in your feminine energy. It's a wonderful feeling. It takes a strong man who is secure within himself. These men are fantastic. Top quality 😊

[@brandonscott7793]

They are two completely different things…

[@ivye1826]

@@achmetlachdoch920 funny how you know the difference between leading and control when it’s your boss, but then you pretend not to know when you talk about relationships 🙄

[@poojakumari-ci8cx]

It's quite simple if we get something easily we don't value it. But if it was way too hard to get that people naturally value it.💯

[@5thDimentionChannelingandOracl]

Sobriety,Masculinity, and Boundries

[@PlayStationElation00]

Interesting you bring up "sobriety" because when a man tries to curb *his* girls drinking/party habits - she dumps him. Every women I've met who has a drinking habit had rather choose alcohol than a sober relationship. Every. Single. Time.

[@5thDimentionChannelingandOracl]

The best relationships are 100 percent sober relationships. If you have to medicate, it is not a quality relationship because your low vibrational sober people are on a naturally higher frequency in a higher dimention and are naturaly at a hi vibration.people who medicate are only in the 3rd dimention sober people are 4th and 5th dimention a sober person not gona be dealing with the nonsense a 3rd dimentional person is doing because they are not on the same frequency or dimention therfore they would not be compatible or a match

[@GOVEGAN269]

It depends, as everyone has their own talents. Let your partner do what they're better at and allow them to shine, vice-versa.

[@Xavi_LX]

Ladies & Gentlemen, we got em

[@psychology.tips.daily.]

Masculinity is leadership 🎉

[@continentalcustoms6949]

MONEY. Money is what they find attractive.

[@javireyes7333]

Depends on how you earned it.

[@user-qe7bt9dz1l]

No just the shallow gold digger ones.

[@joelm4847]

Can’t believe I had to scroll this far

[@rocketman7471]

Well imagine that😅😅😅

[@4real4real-cf1ii]

No no. Your money will not do shit in the long run. All she will be doing is pretending to you while banging your house boy, pool boy or your friend as she never even likes you. Women like an authoritarian man that take no nonsense and he always stands on his word. His Yes is always his Yes and No his No with boundaries to everything

[@Nobody-mc5ij]

As long as he's good-looking, tall and makes six figures.

[@Diamondtvgh]

Women doesn't know what they want..period...their are emotional switch..and it can happen anytime...it's dangerous to love a woman....with all ...love yourself first before a woman..

[@arewahaircaretv8718]

This lack of discipline is what she’s talking about. Work on yourself instead of whining and complaining brother

[@Milo-Mike]

​@@arewahaircaretv8718Rigth, you cant state criticism or point out a fallacy because its always the mans fault... Nice logic man

[@javireyes7333]

@@arewahaircaretv8718thank you

[@punksoab]

​@@Milo-Mikecry more

[@punksoab]

​@@Milo-Mikecry more

[@adrikamudi3218]

The biggest problem is that one women doesn't represent the entire community.When you ask one person it's her opinion it doesn't bound others.Likes and dislikes varies for individual

[@veer5714]

👍 So true ....

[@LukeSly91]

In general its true tho

[@marguskiis7711]

​@@LukeSly91 sadly, no

[@wealthukandu3854]

No woman will follow the lead of a 'people pleaser' because by default, he's not leading... He's following her...

[@zpfriejd6105]

Some people got to stop looking for relationships and start working on themselves because if you arent prepared and where you need to be, it will become attachments rather than a mutual relationship.

[@2OD94]

I’m a man that set my boundaries I get misunderstood and they say I have anger issues my girl left me not too long ago..

[@nzingahoney]

Then don't shout or stonewall You can be firm without shouting or giving the cold shoulder

[@user-hu9xz6lw9x]

Leadership doesn't work without obedience,something modern women are really struggling with.

[@ezra8545]

Ebodience ? Women aren’t dogs …. Weirdo

[@fkscopes]

Better off going to southeast asia 😁

[@javireyes7333]

@@fkscopeseven there it does not work anymore

[@girlmeetsglam381]

The only issue is that women are not a monolith each person needs different things and finds different things attractive. And that's good.

[@A-Dubs398]

Yeah, but when it comes to nature human biology of sex and dating, 99% of us are all the same, males and females. 99% of women want a masculine man who can take the lead, even the women who say they don't are lying to themselves deep down and just want to feel different and special. Just like 99% of men like feminine women and boobies. We are not as special as some of us think. Biology has wired the vast majority of us the same for a reason.

[@user-us4uj8zx1b]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@alphap9007]

I know we all say don’t listen to women giving men advice but this chick I have agreed with and disagreed with, she’s on point here. I done both the people pleaser and the boundary setter. 1000 % setting boundaries and giving a woman direction wins.

[@guzelfetkulina9599]

Exactly. And masculinity it is not beard and muscles, it is an inner core, inner strength. When man seems to be unbreakable from inside. Nowadays men cry when they see fever above 37C on thermometer🤮 like little girls. Thanks God, there still real men who can undergo the most difficult situations in life and come out even stronger than before. This is what attracts women.

[@brendaavila7655]

She’s 💯 percent right 🐝

[@SabrineDjibouti1606]

Ya so true,when he please everyone he became hypocrite and with alot of faces. Better when he have his own boundaries.

[@danieldavis1558]

Just say money.

[@SantiagoVeraLoor]

She says masculinity and yet the feminist attack men for being masculine

[@Yungzhef]

Brainwashing

[@dharma6525]

Feminist not women 😊

[@user-og1os2xc6i]

Misogynist need to be stopped first

[@dharma6525]

@@user-og1os2xc6i not stopped, learnt or eyes opened

[@eboyeman8457]

​@@user-og1os2xc6ifound the feminist

[@MichaelAngeloMedrano]

I don't know I've seen women be head over heels for some really whimpy Men.

[@javireyes7333]

When young

[@chinllanos6392]

i can't deny this either...

[@Dardania07]

A woman will never know what masculinity is.

[@capitalt348]

"You can allow him to lead"...lol which mean she still is the ultimate leader

[@artandcraft403]

A confident man that has only got eyes for me and loves me because of me.

[@alterego157]

Only you? Why be so selfish?

[@joslin7tj]

My partner does not lead me. I decide most of the time and when I can't take any decisions at times, he steps in and handles situations... And we are totally in love. Dear all, masculinity is a social construct!

[@timshaq520]

"Social construct", it's nature. We are primates.

[@LuisCeja-bn7uu]

And the truth will set you free! Amen🙏

[@scottmccain1537]

So honesty or expressing their mind without boundaries

[@jaimereyes28]

Love her

[@kickrocks93]

Kindness, compassion, and patience

[@marguskiis7711]

So sad, it is not true actually. Women love weak men.

[@JoeKelly-xg1xr]

For a time they humour weak men 😂 overall they want a strong man , until they don,t 😂 unless you are an arsehole, be yourself and you will have all you want 😊

[@shivaninath8146]

She's so right

[@vhayashi7369]

Respect, kindness and confidence. Yes respect our boundaries

[@PujaSharma-mm6eg]

This woman talks utter BS at times.

[@tonyadams8812]

💯

[@user-gj8nl6hu3n]

Agree....❤

[@user-hv9hm3ig5y]

She didn’t like that, she called me controlling cause I wouldn’t let her walk around with her boobs out. She called me mean cause I tried to protect her from this dude that was gonna stab her with a fork. Whether I was masculine or not she’d still leave. Can’t trust most the women these days

[@jocelynviloria21]

Absolutely right ...Boundaries that a man can respect is very attractive 💯 Thank you for this video Ma'am/sir...

[@lexaryion2794]

Dont let a fish tell you what a fish likes. Ask a fisherman. She been fkd to much brothers. Stay on the mission

[@TheClassicalKids]

You speak like a rat.

[@larryputra3692]

they find you attractive when you have money

[@tonyadams8812]

💯

[@ss9329]

Not a generalization but good work ethics and discipline often lead to money. And those qualities are essential for a good husband and father.

[@user-bu6yz6wk9z]

It's all in the category of making her feel safe. She wants to follow your leadership. If you can't take care of yourself, she loses attraction.

[@iyounghuang5433]

​@@ss9329I agree.

[@iyounghuang5433]

​@@user-bu6yz6wk9zyes. Like that. 🥰

[@currentoutrage36]

She makes sense.

[@novaf86]

Absolutely true!

[@rubentello9792]

You know what guys find attractive? A faithful girl. Not a sl*t...

[@MasterpieceMadeByGodAlmighty]

She is actually correct

[@Indira_purnima]

Yessss she is SO right omg 👏👏👏

[@brandiconley3800]

100% true!

[@norbertabone9157]

Yep , then they end up with those that treat them like trash .

[@RosieK1698]

I think you need to also highlight someone who is humble and kind to others, men see this and think they can do what they want when they want and can be rude is disrespectful and forget others feelings because you’re missing out the part I’m saying but the good highlights aswell, they’re just taking in don’t be a people pleaser and be disrespectful to everyone including their women and not caring about her emotions

[@jdclec7877]

Sounds about right ! So why act as if it’s a turnoff then ,but will speak of boundaries like everyone needs to have them

[@rockinrollin8306]

I think women like to know a man is capable of taking the lead, but she doesn't want or need a leader or someone to lead her all the time. There's a big difference! Maybe better worded, would be to take the initiative. It's not about domination or power. A humble man who is mature and knows how to take the initiative at the appropriate times is very attractive.

[@ramk1071]

What about the other way, what do masculine men find attractive

[@achmetlachdoch920]

Not women like this for sure

[@rachitbhati1]

Disclaimer: Works for good looking guys!

[@achmetlachdoch920]

Hehe

[@rachitbhati1]

@@achmetlachdoch920 😂 believe it or not man. But there are people coping so hard in the comment section!

[@achmetlachdoch920]

@@rachitbhati1 I dont know bro. I don't get it how one can take anything seriously that woman says. She talking about some princess Alice Disney World every time and people discussing about her delusion. That woman is a perfect example why women actually should just shut up and make food and support. Sorry

[@javireyes7333]

No the man I met who made me feel this way was not handsome. I would not have turned my head on him, In thé first place. But he did have discipline and leadership. And I was seduced by that.

[@javireyes7333]

If you have discipline you adopt healthy lifestyle it will will change your looks: eating training sleeping properly will improve your genetics

[@4real4real-cf1ii]

Hear that boys and learn. If you let your woman control you all the damn time and disrespecting you. That will never end well. Your Yes must be your Yes and your No must be your No of you want her to respect you. You definitely need to have boundaries or else. She will not be serious about what you say or want. Period

[@ashsharma2155]

Agreed 💯 percentage

[@freespirit4809]

i don’t want to lead u to top of mountain, i want we keep our feet on the ground, i don’t want her to lead me to heaven , i just want we master the moment , i don’t want your body , it’s all yours , i don’t want your soul , it’s all yours , i just want the pleasure of such moments that belong to no one but time 😉 ⬇️ what i mean is that there are no boundaries, no calculations, no expectations… when love happens , there no rules , ‘ we cannot create love to our image , as the great philosopher of love said : “ Love is the sea where intellect drowns .” bu Rumi

[@MsDulcinee]

No love is inconditionnal only for your children. When you have a wife you expect loyalty from her, respect, etc ... Then you have expectatives towards her then things is naturally more complexe that what you say.

[@freespirit4809]

@@MsDulcinee what i said is a metaphor of what u say … so we both agree … about unconditional love : i love my mother be cause she is Love , i love my sister because i respect her , i love my wife because i enjoy her . it looks to me there 3 women that got unconditional Love beside the children 😉

[@freespirit4809]

@@Rileyed is that means that love is a bee 🐝 that sucks the sweetness out of roses ?

[@freespirit4809]

@@Rileyed 🤙 🤙

[@marandalynn6611]

This woman is attracted to a man that can tell the truth. I can accept and work with any man or woman any race religious background or ethnicity as long as they show up in transparency and authentic mindset. We all fucked in one way or another but if you lie about where you are we cannot create a road map to where we are going .

[@rekialaribi141]

As a woman I totally agree

[@tehseennaz5420]

I couldn't agree more 👍

[@user-mi2pk3rb7g]

Women find wealth attractive

[@vishaljee6041]

Women loves money that is it

[@JaySchmittyTheProphet]

Depends on how you spend that money. If your goal is to buy someone's affection you will always be broken.

[@murphsviews]

How to tell us women aren’t attracted to you without telling us women aren’t attracted to you.

[@anid7777]

Not all woman! Only the golddiggers! 😊

[@belalmalik5928]

My boy Vishal onto something, he got to be a chick magnet to have figured this out.

[@tonyadams8812]

💯

[@Causeitriedit]

I agree.

[@Honestandtruth]

I DO Agree 💯👍...... But but when We are get old We must lose that Echo and be Wise 😅😂