This is what women think when you put them below yourself

[@Im_Anthonyy]

"Unhealed" And "Insecure" Are the most used and least understood concepts by women

[@sole__doubt]

Yes and followed by another favorite, "intimidated."

[@alienJIZ1990]

The only part she's right about is that you should never, EVER, put them on a pedestal

[@tricky92x]

But, that is the premise of the video... so, she isn't really wrong.

[@alienJIZ1990]

​@@tricky92xright, but the problem is the way she's framing it, like the video states. She can't just be honest and say she hates feeling like she's being worshipped by a dude, which would've been fine, I understand that - but instead, she says men "haven't healed themselves" and infers they're self-loathing just because they maybe shot a bit too high and couldn't keep their composure and made it weird. It doesn't mean he hates himself, maybe he was just excited and goofed it up because of that Plus, it's not the guy who feels like he's reaching who sabotages the relationship like she says, it's the woman, so once again the issue is zero accountability, like always lol

[@dend1]

Either she's willing to follow you or she's not. If she's not(calling you insecure etc), then leave. She takes more from you than she offers

[@paulcooper-n2v]

Boy they are exhausting to listen too.

[@luker1hutcher315]

and watch...........the sheer arrogance ! So many of these women have nothing to offer except makeup and more makeup

[@sole__doubt]

The wildest part is how similar most of them are. Its like they run on a script.

[@GoblinMode369]

0 accountability

[@mudhutproductions]

The power of a camera is an amazing thing. It turns any woman discussing issues regarding men into absolute know it alls.

[@JamesHawkeYouTube]

Gents, note the body language and how they all do the 'pointing thing' as they talk like the mark of false authority.

[@jarodorla6949]

Yea over the last few years women have been doing that & I don't understand where it comes from?

[@Bennyboy1212-f4e]

@@jarodorla6949Arrogance.

[@Motorcycle5667]

​@@jarodorla6949Demons that's where

[@jarodorla6949]

@@Motorcycle5667 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it's just bizarre behavioural mannerisms

[@Motorcycle5667]

@@JamesHawkeKZbin feminism is a false authority

[@wchamp170]

Wow! The projection is strong in this one.... Keep it simple guys. Treat them like the children they are and give them no respect whatsoever. Treat them with absolute indifference. You will be fine

[@saif9amar417]

You put them above , equal or below them women will find fault with men anyway.

[@SuperZekethefreak]

In other words, she feels she is so special that every man she ever dated felt inferior to her and that's why the relationship crashed. She doesn't just gaslight her guys, she engages in psychological warfare. Take the L is good advice brother.

[@daifuco]

I love your Chanel but I think she is actually right in this case. I have deep self esteem issues and when I was with a "toxic" woman all my issues started to show up. She used all sorts of shitty tactics so it was not clear at the time but now in retrospect I'm glad I went through that stage in life. The book "No more Mr nice guy" helped me so much to understand myself. Great work with your channel.

[@gerryk101]

If you see a girl like this ? RUN AWAY !

[@cobra8888]

I think the truth is in the middle between her point and yours. She is right that if the guy has major (that is the key word she mentions) insecurity issues and he is just being all around "oh she will leave me", then yes a woman will seek out better Men given nowadays options. You are right that there are women out there that will call a Man insecure for the slightest of pushback and expects a Man to just accept all of her personality even if some were toxic. Balance is the key and basically for guys, just don't be like what she describes, and don't get a girl that will use you. You can avoid such a girl by simply knowing your value. If you are not the type she is decribing then you won't end up stuck with the toxic ones.

[@WhatIsBacon]

If you take what she at face value, she's basically correct. Men should lead in the relationship. You can't lead if you think you're lower than your partner - insecurity is the death knell for relationships. That being said, many of the points you raise also apply in several circumstances.

[@andreiradu7851]

She is correct, have you ever been in a relationship with a girl that puts you on a pedestal for no reason, that gets obsessed with you within a week or so? That is womens version of the same thing and it is equally as unatractive. She is never talking about absolute value here(as in money, status,etc) she is talking about his perceived value compared to what he perceives her value to be. Nobody wants a simp for a partner, man or woman.

[@Bennyboy1212-f4e]

Whilst there are elements of truth to what she says, it's not altruistic.

[@wayneturner8575]

Girls think?

[@War-Zone349]

on point

[@Troberts8910]

@Wayneturner8575. Touchè. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@290revolver290]

This is the comment 😂😂

[@netosampaio8548]

Not with their brains.

[@Alicia-vq8jg]

I think that’s just how life is you can’t put anything on a pedestal and you shouldn’t even be putting celebrities on pedestals when you put people on pedestals you’re really mean to them

[@dontreadmyname4396]

is there any way to make a woman realize that her actions destroyed the relationship? for example women are compulsive liars whenever they feel smothered and it doesnt seem to be any way to tell them that they do wrong by lying and just cause more damage by doing so, whenever i tried to tell a woman she did something wrong and that its not okay to do such thing she gaslighted my ass and said i was the one guilty just to then lie about needing space due to being extremely busy and not having time to keep interacting with me, which is another lie a lot of women commonly say to push men away without being direct about it

[@kyjack3721]

she knows shes not good enough for you. Literally not as good of a person. So you being nice only triggers her more. if you ever want contact again you gotta not give a shit and act like a douchebag because that reflects her . Those types are always fantastical and any reality turns them off. Dont try to be a good guy, just be a guy thats good enough cus doing guy shit is what attracts them, not schooling or mansplaining . Let them be stupid and just reap whatever benefits you want from them. Seriously this is the way. They love to be dominated by coolness, always be cool and never be un cool

[@kyjack3721]

What im getting at is .... dont tell her how dumb she is and how smart you are.... Just be you and she will be her. She knows you are smart you dont have to bully her to feel stupid, thats why their ego lashes out its a self defense mechanism that youuu projected onto her. It pushes them away. it would push anybody away. all you really have to do is hold your frame , she will dance around you as long as you dont make her feel inferior. She chose you at a certain point for a reason, if you know that reason you can then make a choice to keep her for that reason but if its one sided then just move on and know better next time brother

[@kyjack3721]

as a man we are problem solvers so we tend to sit in the misery trying to analyze how to fix it but woman just feel its wrong, or right. All you have to do is know how to turn them on and never leave them feeling off. You want to be the guy she goes to to get away from the problems, not one trying to solve that he created. I know how it sounds you just got to start right now as being nonchalant and simply , fun. no matter what you say, it has to feel like fun

[@dontreadmyname4396]

@@kyjack3721 i just wish i could make her understand that her "defensive lies" destroyed what we had instead of flipping out on me if i try to do that, i literally told a girl "hey u said so but didnt do it and i dont know if i can trust u anymore" and her reaction was defensive as hell and i didnt push it but few days later i asked directly if she lied to me when saying X thing and her reaction was pure rage against me "this is not a relationship bla bla u just care about this topic bla bla u dont care about me just about what u can get from me bla bla this is the end" or something like that, very aggressive and defensive, i apologized for making her feel that way and said i care about her and she said she needed space because she has a very busy life and she promised to return once she is ready and warned me that if i cant accept she needs space its over for good, i said i would wait because what the hell else could i've said and we havent talked in 5 weeks, probably it will be either forever or for a handful of months, i really feel very annoyed at how women lack the ability to solve problems through conversations

[@kyjack3721]

they cant get past gender,,, they literally project their player mentality and say guys are this way... No , the guys that woman want move on. Thats consider playing to them lol while they have a whole yearbook they are signing to everyone thats a "friend" . Swear , every girl sabotages their own relationship because they feel inferior to the next girl and blame the guy who is actually just being nice.

[@Tim666-o5n]

A boyfriend is a status symbol to a woman. And the toxic ones don't know when to stop. You better constantly level up to help her impress her girlfriends. She will then find other girlfriends with even more succesfull boyfriends and leave you for one of them. Just take your L and move on when they show this behavior.

[@Unknownpalo]

In school sometimes they sit me with random people and I come off of girls that I can even feel their delusional destructive behavior I get drained around them because I want nothing to do with them

[@HiddenGodful]

Whats funny in relationships is what you knew from the beginning was always the answer. Just be yourself. Most of the time we spend time trying to be someone we are not because of movies/books/what people tell us what like other people instead of listening to our needs. And i think some youtube content can be damaging also if you try to follow step to "seduce" theres some people who will try to gain money with others misery and i found it pretty heartbreaking that what they just have to do is to put themself first. Its natural to want to be loved by someone, we all do but people have to understand that the same reason you would want someone you love to be with you, someone that loves you will want the same so if someone doesnt reciprocate with you, that person sadly doesn't love you enough to put the effort and some girls like this in the video loves to be put on a pedestal to use it as an excuse to reject the guy that they would have reject anyway, thats just how the game works in dating.

[@maxjohnson1758]

She said "partners." Gag.

[@cobra8888]

Was she supposed to say "Master/slave"? "Daddy Dom/Little girl"?

[@soydansogukcesme470]

not even mentioning that a guy loves his girl.. she feels boring ect. ect.. but its his fault to shove love not hers to recieve it.. hmm.

[@Cossentine]

I think the takeaway, is that relationships and power dynamics are just ugly. I'd also like to thank this woman for making her incompatibility so apparent. We can all tell she isn't the right woman from across the globe. That's a real favor to mankind. She deserves a medal.

[@johnnycampbell7691]

You should see what they think about no hymen no diamond 😂😂😂

[@RobbytheRobot56]

I always hated myself because of women. Not anymore.

[@caucasianafrican1435]

I don't need to worry about this, because I'm better than every women I've ever net in the United States.

[@jo69123]

can you please talk about how would you navigate the situation on a 2 year dry spell? where do you recommend meeting "open" women? or how can you make dating easier as a guy, on this fucked up "0.01% percent men only" environment? I do a lot of self-improvement, exercise, yoga and meditation .. I'm 29 yo, very fit and with enough money to consider myself in the middle class, and I still find myself surprised by fat women even demanding me to be better before demonstrating any interest in dating me

[@hassanalzaher3893]

I think she is right and spot on. She is talking about the core reason, and you are arguing about the process itself of ending the relationship. Women being the ones that initiate the separation doesn't mean that the real reason wasn't indeed that the guy's feeling below her. Yeah, she will be the one destroying the relationship for sure, but that is a result of her immediate (healthy, natural) turn off because the guy felt that she is above him. He placed her in her autopilot of hypergamy, and he is the real reason a 100%. I think that hypothetical dude never deserved to be in a relationship with her. I am not simping here for women, I really think she is likely not that quality anyway. My overall view has been [and still is] that I do think most women are low class, low quality, but so are most guys are even of lower class and value, and the one guy she describes is definitely low class loser. I just don't believe in putting a magnifying glass on women's absolute trashy reality should ever remove the lens from how low quality and unmanly, unwise, and unworthy most guys are. We can chew and walk in the same time. At least I have always done.

[@rainerminusunfug]

_"Women being the ones that initiate the separation doesn't mean that the real reason wasn't indeed that the guy's feeling below her."_ Since 70-80% of all separations are initiated by women, it would mean that women are generally, naturally and in vast numbers above men. Which is a quite bold statment if you ask me. People are idiots in general and contrary to popular belief, women are no exception. Also keep in mind that we only have her perspective on the situation. *We don't know* if the hypothetical partner felt insecure about her and put her on a pedestal. Women love projecting their bs on others to make them take the blame. Imho it's more likely that she is the one who felt above him and is now rationalizing backwards to have a socially acceptable reason for her behaviour. Also consider that feeling above/below someone is purely subjective and emotionally driven. Making decisions emotionally is a women thing rather than a men thing. The whole situation still makes sense: women don't feel safe with a partner who is below them, mostly even being eye level is not enough to satisfy her hypergamy. But let's not sugar coat this: it's far more likely that she was the driving factor behind this, not him. Women can smell insecurities 10 miles against the wind. If her assessment was true. she wouldn't even have entered a relationsship with someone like that. It's far more likely that she misjudged his social standing / potential and left him the moment she realized he isn't the big catch that she hoped for.

[@hassanalzaher3893]

@@rainerminusunfug My man, you made a strange mistake of actually thinking that me or that girl implied that the 'guy feeling below her' is the main reason for breakups statistically. Nope, no one implied that. The main statistical reason for breakups might easily be that she feels she is above him. Or just found a man above him. You kinda misunderstood what is meant. What is meant my friend is that whenever a guy feels below the girl, she will leave him. That is a factual statement that is very realistic. That might only represent a 10 percent of breakups, but among all those who felt inferior to their girl, maybe 99 percent ended in breakups. You know what I am saying? Again that doesn't mean that more separations are because the guy is with inferiority complex. I would assume the most common reason is that the girl finds him replaceable by another better dude, while still the first dude isn't seen as bad at all. We aren't talking statistics here, the girl discusses a certain type of guys and certain reason for breakup. She might as well never meant a guy in her own life, she seems to imply knowing about these breakups. The bottomline, what she said is a hundred percent true, a guy with inferiority complex is a guarantee separation. That has nothing to do with the separations that happen due to women own reasons which are the majority of the cases. It seems to me from most comments of most guys is that they only project their own experiences onto whatever a woman online is saying. Nope. She is speaking about a specific romantic dynamic. There is really no need to bring in the more common reason and pattern of breakups and make her indirectly just meant to twist reality. There must be a bunch of insecure dudes for sure, and there must be a set of breakups that specifically happened due to that reason. If a guy can't even entertain a hypothetical and immediately twist it to why his own girl left him, that speaks volumes of his own low quality, on top of low intelligence as a man, and I don't mean you because you spoke about numbers and statistics. That is more of a misunderstanding than projection.

[@Lohkee2]

Both

[@Motorcycle5667]

There was about 190 day time slot...Where women were acting crazy over here it seems to come to a stop for the most part I guess they learned their lesson Or got beat up.... They seem like they were looking for a fight And I think they got what they asked for

[@sirg-had8821]

Awful bold to assume that they even think at all.