You will never chase women again after this video...

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Distinguished Living

Distinguished Living

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@EriPages
@EriPages 6 ай бұрын
Correct. For said relationship to work, the girl must ALWAYS like the guy more than he likes her.
@michaelhopkins3554
@michaelhopkins3554 6 ай бұрын
That’s 100% accurate. It’s basic psychology.
@Baylorbetterthanbrown
@Baylorbetterthanbrown 3 ай бұрын
This has to be this way because man cannot like a woman more than she likes him because the woman is confused the woman is so emotional she may ditch you at any time and here you are the big dummy hanging on to her what's the lady has never seriously serious about a relationship that's just a fantasy world
@brettsepulveda2994
@brettsepulveda2994 5 ай бұрын
As a man these days if you’re “persistent” with a woman it’s considered being creepy.
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson Ай бұрын
Especially in Sweden. One wrong word, and...
@pookatim
@pookatim 6 ай бұрын
I am 70 years old. All I can tell you is that if this girl's story is at all accurate, it is probably what her mom told her as opposed to what actually happened. She states her parents met "in a bar" and he asked her do dance. This immediately suggests some sort of old black and white movie in a 1940's supper club. But that isn't her mom's generation. Her mom and dad most likely met at a disco if he asked her to dance. Discos were the original "hook-up" scene. That era was similar to now only without cell phones or social media. So the "body counts" were not as high.
@natoslayer2907
@natoslayer2907 6 ай бұрын
Im glad older folks like you are around to keep us wise with your experiences. Otherwise, we'd be getting gaslit by media driven BS.
@josephmassaro
@josephmassaro 6 ай бұрын
I sincerely hope you're using the word disco generically for club. I'm in my 50s and disco was dead before I was a teenager.
@wualdo
@wualdo 5 ай бұрын
No way! My dad is 50 and can barely open the KZbin app!
@omnitheus5442
@omnitheus5442 5 ай бұрын
Talking about a high school disco
@666ghxstly
@666ghxstly 5 ай бұрын
@@wualdobruh🗿
@derwoodhamburger
@derwoodhamburger 6 ай бұрын
Every time I have chased in the past, I was ghosted. So I learned my lessons the hard way. Women are the survival creatures, they seek strength. So it's upto them to lock down a relationship with a man. It's in your best interest to focus on yourself and becoming the strongest you possibly can.
@TRAHCAHAYA
@TRAHCAHAYA 6 ай бұрын
You are right.
@poetictriangle1037
@poetictriangle1037 6 ай бұрын
true but you also need to learn social skills and game by dating a lot ,otherwise they will emotionally play you.
@RandomUser25122
@RandomUser25122 5 ай бұрын
Once you let a woman know you’re into her, she’s starts with the games and scheduling you into her monkey branch tree. Most men now respect themselves too much to be just another branch in a high body count loose woman. Once you’ve slept with 3 or 4 men, your wifing days are over because you’ve got too many miles in the clock and a real man doesn’t want a bad boys sloppy seconds. The juice truly ain’t worth the squeeze anymore and no, we’re not playing hard to get - we really don’t want you or the baggage women bring.
@JolPil
@JolPil 2 ай бұрын
Truth!
@DrOlegKulikov
@DrOlegKulikov 6 ай бұрын
I am 67 and was married three times not counting ex girlfriends. I am PhD in physics, btw, and continue to do science. Chasing? I was too busy with my education and research to pay much attention to women. Always girls were chasing me. My problem is that i choose probably not the best ones but those who insisted the most plus good looking. As an example, my third wife is a former beauty queen and 21 years younger than me. I never was cheating on my women but they did! I don't complain. Every marriage was with a honeymoon lasting about ten years. Although with ex girlfriends good times were shorter. Yet, eventually the women got bored and betrayed me. Never they had a better life after the breakout. Yet, they tried. My first ex-wife commited a suicide soon after her next marriage. I never wished her such fate. The second? Something similar but i cannot say for sure. I have a simple rule in my life. As soon as a woman caught red-handed, out of my life she goes. Love is over. I cannot respect a traitor. I may stay neutral or even be friendly but never live together. Some men don't care and live with such women like with roommates. No sex, no love, no respect. I cannot do so. My bad. 😢 I am fine and in good health. Life is great.
@aNYHwatchlist
@aNYHwatchlist 5 ай бұрын
A distinguished gentleman indeed
@carlgonzalez3337
@carlgonzalez3337 4 ай бұрын
You're the kind of man this new generations need to look up to. My respect to you, good sir.
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson Ай бұрын
Dr.Kulikov, if I may, the reason they became bored, is that you probably were reliable and predictable as a husband. So, it says something about them, not you. You lucked out that they filtered themselves out of your life. My husband is pretty much like you. Educated, reliable. I'm an MD, he is an Engineer. In my case, this marriage has been working, wonderfully. We are both boring, according to what they would describe our marriage in the modern stupid culture. We have been together for 35 years. We have adult kids and two grandchildren. So it was their loss, not yours.
@DrOlegKulikov
@DrOlegKulikov Ай бұрын
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson Such wives like you are rare. Judging from my experience with GFs and three marriages, women may monkey branch to another man any time, expecting a new and exciting improvement in their life. Instead, they ruin their lives. As for me, i am fine, never fight back, nor try to get them back. Yet, i am sorry about modern women. To be a single in older age is very depressing for women. Men are mostly okay with it.
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson
@RosemarySolveigHåkansson Ай бұрын
@@DrOlegKulikov Thank you for the good words! I absolutely agree with you. men, even at an older age, do much better alone than older women. And I've seen quite a lot of monkey branch behaviors among them, that led them straight into loneliness.
@Sham0n
@Sham0n 6 ай бұрын
Women want what they can’t have. Be expensive brothers 💯
@perfectsniper09
@perfectsniper09 5 ай бұрын
Facts
@snorkus4790
@snorkus4790 6 ай бұрын
At 55, they come to me. The only games I play are golf and PlayStation. Passport and mojitos. Good luck.
@marcusr3795
@marcusr3795 5 ай бұрын
😂👍
@ronmexico8383
@ronmexico8383 6 ай бұрын
There is data out there on how people met in the past. 1940s - met through family, friends, church, high school - marriage worked 1980s - met through family, friends, BARS - marriages more rocky 2020s - met through INTERNET, BARS - dating scene a disaster 80 years ago guys were NOT doing cold approach. They were picking up girls in the friend group, girls that family set them up with, girls they interacted with at Church. Bar pickups were minuscule back then
@Sagefrakrobatik
@Sagefrakrobatik 6 ай бұрын
The lesson i have learned from chasing women is that they will take you for granted while exploring their options. The last two women chases were a complete waste of time. I took the one on about 25 dates, the other i wrote her two heartfelt letters, wrote her a check for her dogs vet bill, gave her a gift card for the Spa, and bought her a book. I kept doing these things, because i figured if she hadnt rejected me yet, it must mean its coming somwhere. Especially we had flirted a bit. I was wrong. I found a shirt at Urban Outfitters that read "Women Dont Owe You Shit" Im going to keep that thought in the back of my head every time i meet a new woman.
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 6 ай бұрын
What we often do as men is place women in the leadership role by emasculating ourselves seeking her APPROVAL when "chasing" Yet it is us who women look to to be protector provider & leader. By default it is them who should be (and do) seek out us. That is why you choose the women who choose/chase you. I only deal with women that are INTO me & like me. If we as men are trying to make a girl like us & trying to buy her affection then again we are seeking her approval and emasculating ourselves.
@mystery_to_history
@mystery_to_history 4 ай бұрын
Women seriously underestimate how much men value purity and thats exactly whats missing these days
@TomHuckACAB
@TomHuckACAB 4 ай бұрын
If I am persistent, the police will be called on me.
@lucasgrey9794
@lucasgrey9794 4 ай бұрын
These women also don't mean all men when they say "men". When women say "men" they're referring to the 10% of men that they're actually attracted to. The rest are practically invisible to them.
@byroncummings2952
@byroncummings2952 6 ай бұрын
Stay single. Zero stress.
@kevingallen1678
@kevingallen1678 5 ай бұрын
It’s so simple!
@DGreatDane
@DGreatDane 6 ай бұрын
Really well articulate and had intelligent, great points. Keep up the content
@cheesebvrgers
@cheesebvrgers 6 ай бұрын
It’s simple. Even if men did chase women throughout history, women today are not worth the effort.
@standardofexcellence
@standardofexcellence 5 ай бұрын
Much disappointment No personal depth
@kpacf
@kpacf 6 ай бұрын
She probably thinks she is extremely high in smv yet doesnt have the confidence to not use cartoonish level face filters
@dontreadmyname4396
@dontreadmyname4396 6 ай бұрын
for some time i was friends with a very attractive woman with tons of guys chasing her, she told me the guys she likes talking with are the ones that dont like her, and that if she is interested in a guy she doesnt chase, she just "puts herself in his presence" hoping he notices her and pursues her, and then she has fun with the guy pursuing her, but it was a guy she was interested in not random guys chasing her, those she dont like, and the guy has to have status or be very smart, her words
@bolt-dbtfg
@bolt-dbtfg 6 ай бұрын
I think we've all l met her
@Clockwork.Lemon854
@Clockwork.Lemon854 6 ай бұрын
Interesting
@Gdhdjejgfsbh
@Gdhdjejgfsbh 6 ай бұрын
These are some of the most stupid things that I have ever heard . Clearly the guys that don't chase her are guys with self respect . No self respecting guy will put up with that bullshit . Relaxation and peace of mind is luxury in this world . My respect for those guys not chasing 📈📈📈📈📈
@StillAwesome21
@StillAwesome21 5 ай бұрын
That is almost every woman ever.
@MrFagedaboudit
@MrFagedaboudit 5 ай бұрын
I only pursued one girl in my life. At the time I was 18. Now I'm 70, married 50 years, and still pursuing her. ❤
@Tim666-o5n
@Tim666-o5n 3 ай бұрын
You said it yourself, 50 years ago. Good day.
@MrFagedaboudit
@MrFagedaboudit 3 ай бұрын
@@Tim666-o5n Times may have changed; people don't. 8 of our 9 kids married before 21, likewise our grandkids, and this is today. No one is fully baked yet at that age, but there's potential to grow together. Think about it.
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001
@sfrealestatedealmaker6001 6 ай бұрын
Attract DO NOT chase
@wadejensen3301
@wadejensen3301 6 ай бұрын
Is her face painted on? She looks like she just finished mime class
@ICOLLECTBASEBALL
@ICOLLECTBASEBALL 5 ай бұрын
Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@deviceinside
@deviceinside 5 ай бұрын
it wasn't mime class, she just finished clown makeup course
@Anleifr
@Anleifr 4 ай бұрын
everything is fake now days, I bet if she washed that makeup off, took those lashes off, stop getting the fillers and botex, didn't have hair extensions and dyed hair, didn't have breast implants or fake nails she would look totally different
@BiiskapsLV
@BiiskapsLV 3 ай бұрын
War paint
@mathewcarpenter-d8g
@mathewcarpenter-d8g 5 ай бұрын
You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both. Now that i understand their motivations the magic is gone.
@joebloggs339
@joebloggs339 5 ай бұрын
It's incredible to me that very few women see the objective factors that explain the collapse of traditional courtship and marriage. Women seem to be allergic to hearing objective truth. They get their information from social media and their group of friends, whose opinion are based on TV shows, women's magazines, TikTok and their experiences with the last 3 guys they were with. Also women don't listen to men unless they are dominant men. An avg non-chad guy might reasonable explanations but bc women don't respect or care about that kind of guy, they don't listen to him. His opinion and his whole existence don't even show up on their radar.
@marcusr3795
@marcusr3795 5 ай бұрын
Men know they have to attract girls and play into women’s desires but they themselves don’t give a solitary f about men’s and wonder why a majority don’t care. They’re literally becoming more & more traditionally unattractive with each passing generation. They have their heads in the sand and continually fail but do everything in their power to not succeed.
@tonyadams8812
@tonyadams8812 6 ай бұрын
Simps will always chase!
@marcusknoll9500
@marcusknoll9500 6 ай бұрын
How do you get something if you don't go for it?
@tgazman77
@tgazman77 5 ай бұрын
​@@marcusknoll9500good question
@marcusr3795
@marcusr3795 5 ай бұрын
@@tgazman77@marcusknoll9500 there’s a difference between propositioning a women and chasing, if she rejects you once or shows little interest and you still try to progress things that’s chasing, this makes zero sense unless your a simp you are demonstrating lower value and it’s a self serving prophesy.
@dale116dot7
@dale116dot7 4 ай бұрын
This is so on-point. I’ve even noticed that women are more interested when they find out I was the one that broke up with my ex. That intrigues them for some reason.
@Bookstorewalla
@Bookstorewalla 6 ай бұрын
You must always realize that when that woman said, “When did MEN choose not to put in any effort?” she means, and EXPECTS you to understand it implicitly, is that any “MEN” worthy of consideration must automatically be a Triple Six. She would no sooner mention this as a qualification than she would say that a Man worthy of consideration must have two arms, two legs and speak English. So just do a simple mental-global-search-and-replace: whenever a she says, “MEN” simply replace the phrase with “Triple Sixes,” i.e. “When did Triple Sixes choose not to put in any effort?” There is no WHEN. Triple Sixes have NEVER had to put in any effort.
@jamesrangelov8774
@jamesrangelov8774 3 ай бұрын
Only truths bro. I know this but your way of saying it literally cracked me up 😂
@robwozniak9912
@robwozniak9912 5 ай бұрын
She forgot to mention that the guys she wants to put in all this effort into wooing her are the guys she’s already attracted to. By definition, they don’t need to put in any effort!
@stanlee2589
@stanlee2589 2 ай бұрын
She is only thinking "why can't it all be about me, like it was between my Father towards my Mother?"
@WW-nk7wg
@WW-nk7wg 6 ай бұрын
I've behaved exactly as this woman wants a few times in my life. Never successfully. Right now I treat one woman like that. So far again no success. When I treat them bad, there is always success. The problem is this. I want to create a family and I don't want to treat the mother of my children in a bad way. So if I consider a woman high-quality to be a long term life partner, I just can't treat her bad. If I treat her bad anyway just to get her, then I will lose respect by the fact she is like all other women. So, it is a catch-22. What to do?
@ttt69420
@ttt69420 6 ай бұрын
Stop caring what women want or think. I promise it's not interesting or deep and you'll never get a straight answer anyway. Either they want you or they don't, trying is pointless at best.
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 6 ай бұрын
You just have to realize that the type of woman you desire is extremely rare. Even in the Bible it says there are more good men than good women and that was written thousands of years ago. Obviously you can see the sh*t show of what today brings. You may be too in love with the idea of love as well. I see many men who fall in love with the IDEA of women instead of the reality of women.
@ttt69420
@ttt69420 6 ай бұрын
@@zayinseven7923 Yes, falling in love with a fantastical ideal is a mistake you'll probably only make once. And your definition of "bad" likely isn't. Treat her almost indifferently. It projects value, for better or worse. Again though, in vast majority of cases, she ether wants you or doesn't, and "trying" makes little to no difference. It's a sad irony of modern dating.
@alonsolaw8380
@alonsolaw8380 5 ай бұрын
Solution celibacy
@k98_zock_tv47
@k98_zock_tv47 5 ай бұрын
DUDE - actually THIS what you wrote. Its fucked up
@dend1
@dend1 Ай бұрын
Why is it the further down the rabbit hole I go, the more disenchanted I get
@distinguishedliving
@distinguishedliving Ай бұрын
I think the main reason is because there is a misalignment of some core ideas you held your entire life.
@nikhil-kulkarni
@nikhil-kulkarni 5 ай бұрын
I am not chasing women because I don't have time. I am extremely busy with work so if a woman wants to spend time with me, she has to adjust according to my schedule.
@Hotpocketmountiandew
@Hotpocketmountiandew 6 ай бұрын
When ever women ask for dating advice. It sounds like a card shark wondering how come counting these cards isnt working.
@NoName-zb1gm
@NoName-zb1gm 6 ай бұрын
The problem with letting girls think they chance is once they get you they act like they own you and treat you like they are your mother. I'd rather chase her initially and then take a step back to see if there's mutual interest. Then at least I can say I saw her first and she won't have that power over me. I chose her therefore I can walk away too.
@FIghtShark
@FIghtShark 4 ай бұрын
Just found your channel. Bruh. What a gold mine, spitting fax💯
@fr_reynolds5002
@fr_reynolds5002 5 ай бұрын
Great analysis
@Rzr543
@Rzr543 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely spot on. We'll analyzed.
@repeatrerun2047
@repeatrerun2047 6 ай бұрын
Great content. Thank you.
@cbleman
@cbleman 5 ай бұрын
Give someone too many choices and they'll never be satisfied with their decision. They'll second guess and continually ponder the, "what ifs". She isn't upset that nobody is pursuing her, but the person(s) she want(s) aren't pursuing her. Assuming she's like the other 99.9% of "modern women", she's pursuing the same guy as everyone else and complaining he's not trying.
@oonojoe
@oonojoe 4 ай бұрын
One of the Best Videos I've Ever Watched. Thanks.
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13
@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13 6 ай бұрын
She wants you to like her more because she’s insecure.
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 6 ай бұрын
Its the fairytale that they all have grown up on. They are programmed to think & view things this way. There are men after her that "yearn" for her as she wants, but just not the guys she desires. Which brings the point, she DESIRES them YET wants them to MAGICALLY desire her for NO APPARENT REASON. In my mind if YOU desire them then YOU should be the one taking action.
@edwardgrzyb8591
@edwardgrzyb8591 6 ай бұрын
That girl (definitelly not a women yet) is a big red flag. Firstly 99% it's not some general insight on her part. It's just yet another story of: "I wanted this guy to chase me, but he didn't, so I'll rant on the internet in a way so that it looks as it's not about me". Secondly that face expressions and the entire reant are of a person who's unable to take any responsibility. If something goes wrong, she'll blame everyone around, but not herself. Finaly she comes up with the example of her parents, while being unable to grasp the fact that reality was totaly different back then and there are many other factors in play now. That's an indicator he's not a very bright person.
@OnderHassan
@OnderHassan 6 ай бұрын
Modern dating doesn’t work and took me until my 40’s to see it for what it really is. As a man, it’s impossible to have control of the relationship and remain attractive if you get emotionally attached. If you want to love and be loved, don’t expect it in modern dating. It doesn’t exist and is doomed for failure.
@RealSameerRaza
@RealSameerRaza 5 ай бұрын
Subscribe man ! You really are helping me out understanding women and how to date them ! I didnt knew what how women thinked ! You have cleared me up ! Thank you !!
@FargoFinal
@FargoFinal Ай бұрын
If a woman really genuinely likes you they'll make it easier for you to be together, no walls, no hinder, no other guys, heck she'll cancel on their friends, lie to their parents etc to be with you.. If a woman doesn't like you, low interest , walls come up, layers upon layers of excuses, being supposedly busy, last min cancelations etc, slow replies to messages, short replies, you get the hint. So it's almost complete bs what she got to say.. As for her mom, she must have had genuine interest in her dad lol!
@happywebster7151
@happywebster7151 4 ай бұрын
women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas it's just biology
@TheUnplugged1
@TheUnplugged1 6 ай бұрын
only insecure women wanna be chased
@JolPil
@JolPil 2 ай бұрын
No. ALL eimen.
@jimh527
@jimh527 5 ай бұрын
Wait.. I can't keep up with this insanity.. What happened to the MeToo movement?
@joebloe4374
@joebloe4374 6 ай бұрын
If you have 10 good solid job offers Why would you keep sending out resumes ?.
@BurninVinyl
@BurninVinyl 6 ай бұрын
0:19 No, when you feel that moment when she is there only because she has nothing better to do. The line
@j-star1
@j-star1 3 ай бұрын
totally agree with you, nailed it!
@JohnSwayne
@JohnSwayne 5 ай бұрын
Another thing to note is that the dating norms progress, in part, due to female boredom with the old norms. The problem with this, though, is that without a traditional, socially reinforced form of courtship, the fantasy of the woman will always be disappointed, as she'll want both the old norm and the new norm to be expressed.
@stern_standard
@stern_standard 5 ай бұрын
also don't forget the divorce rate is 70% over the last 40 years.Another reason men don't care anymore
@standardofexcellence
@standardofexcellence 5 ай бұрын
We don't care anymore we don't care what they say, we never played by the same rules anyway
@healthiswealth6237
@healthiswealth6237 6 ай бұрын
How are women constantly wrong about dating dynamics??? It's amazing. Women, you all date UP. Ask a woman what kind of man she wants. She'll say he has to be taller than her, richer, stronger, funnier, higher social status, in every way he has to be BETTER than her. So, naturally, for the relationship to work long term, she has to like him MORE than he likes her. Women date UP. Men date DOWN. Men OFTEN date and marry women who are shorter, poorer, less experienced, not as accomplished, and so on. It is what it is.
@standardofexcellence
@standardofexcellence 5 ай бұрын
Chicks also manipulate to avoid a guy knowing his higher value and men marry who they want and women marry who they can dupe
@joebloe4374
@joebloe4374 6 ай бұрын
Great analysis Thanks
@alonsolaw8380
@alonsolaw8380 5 ай бұрын
They are always ready to chase chad. No problem. They won't leave him alone
@Wuestenwiesel
@Wuestenwiesel 5 ай бұрын
#5:00 the first move can also to be an inviting smile or trying to maintain eye contact across the room. Anything than more standing just in a room and waiting for the move of the man.
@tommykempo8962
@tommykempo8962 6 ай бұрын
What make me laugh is these woman actually believe this nonsense 😂
@arphod
@arphod 6 ай бұрын
Begone, garden implements!
@anonymissed3611
@anonymissed3611 6 ай бұрын
Maybe it changed when men were labeled "toxic masculinity" and the "male gaze" was lanbasted and HR became the career police for any undesired advance,
@budoshi-f2l
@budoshi-f2l 5 ай бұрын
When a women is interested she will put obvious signs, that's when you chase, if she does nothing do not do anything. It is what ive learned so far. The shy obes that gives zero signs.. well too bad .
@dontreadmyname4396
@dontreadmyname4396 6 ай бұрын
yea but if we cant chase that means we are limited to the women chasing us, and women ignore completely 90% of men, u need to be handsome as fuck and having status is a huge plus, most men are somewhat hansome and have no status at all (if u want a very attractive woman)
@ViperXMambo
@ViperXMambo 6 ай бұрын
As men, we don't get to decide who chooses us. We can only decide to accept or reject the girls who chose us.
@dontreadmyname4396
@dontreadmyname4396 6 ай бұрын
@@ViperXMambo yea and isnt that sad as fuck? i'd rather pay sex workers that i feel a lot of attraction towards than this bullshit
@ricaudypaula1570
@ricaudypaula1570 6 ай бұрын
Time to grind and develop ourselves
@ttt69420
@ttt69420 6 ай бұрын
being decent looking as a man is pretty easy these days. be fit, lean, and buy a hairline.
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 6 ай бұрын
@@ViperXMambo Thats true for the women too. They don't get to decide who chooses them. Its just they have more to choose from in general.
@DoriansPortrait
@DoriansPortrait 4 ай бұрын
Tired of liking women and they never seem to like me back but the ones that don't like like me and I'm always told oh well you need to date down but I know for a fact that I'm an average looking guy so it's not like I'm super ugly or anything and I don't have the worst person in the world but yeah I need help guys have no clue what I'm doing.
@jayphive2468
@jayphive2468 2 ай бұрын
My motorcycle loves me and that’s all that matters. 😂
@ArthurH11
@ArthurH11 6 ай бұрын
Lol but they would label you as toxic and run away before you even get a chance to reply lol they sure hate the truth dosage haha
@EliteMatrixSentinel
@EliteMatrixSentinel 5 ай бұрын
Thank you. I subbed
@ois-jy9kl
@ois-jy9kl 6 ай бұрын
I add 2 ltr.. 5 years and 10 years .the 2 times the girl selected me .
@kebman
@kebman 6 ай бұрын
I think I'm exactly at some mid section. Like some Lagrange point in attractiveness. I know I can get the hottest women, bcos I've _been_ with the hottest women. But the girls who chase me are all girls I don't want anything to do with lol. The last one at the dance club was so annoying I had to physically move away from her, and start ignoring her texts just to gently put her off. I know, it's girl tactics. What I really should do is act really desperate with her, but... that's just not my style.
@Anleifr
@Anleifr 4 ай бұрын
back then all women said no at first to not appear easy.
@skatecado2897
@skatecado2897 6 ай бұрын
thank you sir
@paulcolin9926
@paulcolin9926 5 ай бұрын
I never chase a woman
@Wuestenwiesel
@Wuestenwiesel 5 ай бұрын
Question: are you chasing liabilities without few or nothing in return? No? Excellent! Question answered!
@doublebass1985
@doublebass1985 2 ай бұрын
face the facts the internet has totally changed the way dating is for the wrong
@kebman
@kebman 6 ай бұрын
The "this selects that" is a bit eh.. If I get with a girl, she chose me to get with her. But I've been in situations where she presented her p to me obviously for me to impregnate her. When I didn't, she dumped me. Sometimes girls will "select" me, but I have absolutely no inclination of selecting them back. I've also been in situations where it felt really nice to escalate on her, obviously bcos she let me and was available - tho it still remains very unclear who selected who, and in the end I'm the one who truly moved on from most of the women I ran into trouble with. They always came back, but I thought f this and moved on.
@yaarisacredvibrations
@yaarisacredvibrations 2 ай бұрын
High value men don’t chase low rent women… too many women these days think that superficial physical attractiveness also equals emotional quality, depth of character and virtue, which are qualities that men really value in a woman they would want a deep meaningful relationship with.
@valencetanahan7799
@valencetanahan7799 5 ай бұрын
Red flag when she mentioned bare minimum.
@nycevolved8833
@nycevolved8833 4 ай бұрын
They want you completely obsessed with nothing to offer 🤦‍♂️
@UseTheSupeRsonic
@UseTheSupeRsonic 4 ай бұрын
What happened to men pursuing women? Well, the men women actually WANT never chased them to begin with. It was women dropping the handkerchief. Men chasing women only happens in Rom-Coms and with SIMPs. Successful, attractive, valuable men don't pursue a goddamn thing unless it's their career ambitions.
@asdfxcvbn746
@asdfxcvbn746 6 ай бұрын
so nobody's gonna talk about that very obvious ig/tiktok app beauty filter that she has on her face? ok then lmao
@emmanuelsonny7354
@emmanuelsonny7354 4 ай бұрын
Me and this girl had an argument and she Hasn't spoken to me since. should I go and talk to her or should I wait for her??
@SnookisInfant-gt8xu
@SnookisInfant-gt8xu 6 ай бұрын
Your comment on experience by attraction MY GOD WHY DONT MORE PEOPLE TALK ABOUT THIS You can’t be confident of women don’t deem you attractive to give you confidence!!!
@magellanicspaceclouds
@magellanicspaceclouds 5 ай бұрын
Hah! Try being "persistent" these days. 🤣
@peterpeter1829
@peterpeter1829 2 ай бұрын
When I go running I smile at everyone, the smiles back only come from the best looking women, and women that have a glow.
@bernieeod57
@bernieeod57 5 ай бұрын
Perdue excellence not women
@mailpool7825
@mailpool7825 3 ай бұрын
She looks like the missing 3rd in the white chicks movie
@shakespear90
@shakespear90 6 ай бұрын
10:40 No means yes Women remain the same generation to generation Saying the opposite of what they think So as her daughter in this video
@dariostabletopminatures
@dariostabletopminatures 21 күн бұрын
Epic She wants Chad.... But he has already a better one.
@Sandwich14-e9c
@Sandwich14-e9c 4 ай бұрын
Based and blackpilled
@ianverite9028
@ianverite9028 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes I want to write something of a longer story as an explanation but then I think better of it. I'll say that if something is to blame its Romantism as a movement financed by the wealthy Fairytales, Charming Princes riding white horses sweeping little Cinderellas. Those were thesis switches of the folktales which were horror stories. In that time worst possible thing which could happen to miller's daughter is to catch an interest from some noble. They held pretty much absolute power over subjects, and they did not merry from common folk stock ...but other noble ladies from noble families. So poor miller's daughter 16-year-old virgin could only provide a bit of pleasure to the noble, after which her life would be completely ruined. Spoiled, perhaps even with bastard child, her marrying prospects fell to the basement even with substantial dowry. In some cultures, and societies in the past pretty women of common stock would even intentionally ruin their faces so that they wouldn't be pretty and targeted by some noble or the other. So called "nobility" in any time and in any culture was never "noble",
@lucasgrey9794
@lucasgrey9794 4 ай бұрын
Which cultures specifically and how would they ruin their own faces?
@ianverite9028
@ianverite9028 4 ай бұрын
@@lucasgrey9794 You have to dig into the lore of the various folks. For example Balkan during Ottoman occupation. Scarification was very common in the past in africa and other places but most of the time it was a form of beautification, like piercings. On the other hand if you are under occupation by a foreign power? With plenty of lustful men? We speak about the time when marriage contract was held sacred and if a woman would allow some man to have his way with her, it would completely ruin her prospects for marriage. Ruin Face as in self-inflicting facial scars.
@ianverite9028
@ianverite9028 4 ай бұрын
@@lucasgrey9794 one small datapoint about "nobility" en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simonida
@lucasgrey9794
@lucasgrey9794 4 ай бұрын
@@ianverite9028 Thanks.
@ianverite9028
@ianverite9028 4 ай бұрын
@@lucasgrey9794 yrw People rarely can even imagine let alone comprehend how harsh and cruel the past was how horrible and atrocious. History books cover perhaps 1% of what common folk had to endure on a daily basis. I wish that I have tony Stark's time machine to send back in the past to live for a week there everyone who has any romantic notion about the past.
@Ajax2696
@Ajax2696 5 ай бұрын
Bro if you havent start learning a a new language ASAP, I worked out got in shape, have a good job, live by myself and make decent money remain indifferent and still got rejected I'm decent height 5'10 and ripped and women still want something from their own imagination. Then I went to Vietnam and South America and I was getting invited to womens houses to eat. Like the fact that family and community was so strong at pressuring women to not fuck it up seemed to me what was missing. Get a passport and learn another language it will make you wonders.
@JolPil
@JolPil 2 ай бұрын
Wow wake up call brothers!
@SnookisInfant-gt8xu
@SnookisInfant-gt8xu 6 ай бұрын
Dude be calling women “blondies” like Warren Beatty or something 😂😂😂
@mufcmusic8514
@mufcmusic8514 5 ай бұрын
5:06 POWWWWW
@steeven23
@steeven23 2 күн бұрын
wait what? you would want to chase virgins?
@sorearm
@sorearm 5 ай бұрын
They deminstr their worth
@fromterra9136
@fromterra9136 6 ай бұрын
Yes!
@kebman
@kebman 6 ай бұрын
There was no welfare back in the day. Only men with work ethics got women. Ask me how I know.
@dattrax7
@dattrax7 3 ай бұрын
Just do the opposite of what your programming tells you and you'll keep women longer and attract more women. When I'm indifferent, women like me. Once I treat them special, they're gone.
@dansaid5950
@dansaid5950 2 ай бұрын
maybe because they know that they are not special.
@dattrax7
@dattrax7 2 ай бұрын
@dansaid5950 when you treat them special, it's like the usual. 9 out of 10 guys are going to simp. It's the one that is different than what they're used to daily. It's freaking weird. I know.
@luciddr3ams436
@luciddr3ams436 6 ай бұрын
Her haemoglobin is low😅
@Robbielazar
@Robbielazar 6 ай бұрын
Hilarious
@fatzrabbits4081
@fatzrabbits4081 6 ай бұрын
5minutes in the guy is still repeating himself
@standardofexcellence
@standardofexcellence 5 ай бұрын
I think all these channels are like the same universal modern info repeated over and over with a commen sense understanding psychological if you have had any interest and experience with women and then after that adverse stuff to keep the material coming out of a need' for it. When really it's the more you know anyways and the less you need repeated by then
@talharizvi4075
@talharizvi4075 6 ай бұрын
I’m writing poetry for the girl I’m pursuing, but she’s a young widow with exactly one body count (her previous husband) - some kind of rare girls deserve poetry, most do not
@iwill5810
@iwill5810 6 ай бұрын
Just don’t bro
@LifelsGreat
@LifelsGreat 6 ай бұрын
Lmao she ain’t yours and you writing her poetry 😂 Got some self reflecting to do. Or maybe I’m just a judgmental asshole. Regardless, I used to be like you. Did NOT work in my favor long term..
@godspeedredeicieli4384
@godspeedredeicieli4384 6 ай бұрын
Unless you guys are already dating then you should save that poem. Don’t do it if she herself is still grieving
@jamesrangelov8774
@jamesrangelov8774 3 ай бұрын
@@godspeedredeicieli4384can’t agree more..I did this mistake because for the 1st time in my life I fell really hard for a woman and got wrecked at the end nevertheless… The irony is she liked me at first because I was indifferent to her. Reality is truly fucked up sometimes. Don’t think women can really appreciate true love from a man even if it hits them in the face with a hammer. I’d say he should experience it himself, but rather than be naive be aware it mostly will not work and she will pull back and leave. Then we need to learn and move on. I knew these things before my heartbreak and I still did them… some things need to be experienced and felt to really make an impact. Maybe I was stupid but .. at least I know what I felt was real because she had so many red flags and yet It made no difference. But I wont let this happen again. Never again.
@jamesrangelov8774
@jamesrangelov8774 3 ай бұрын
How are things bro? Mind sharing an update. Curious what’s the situation now
@dennishernandez1991
@dennishernandez1991 5 ай бұрын
Dude I don't want a virgin lol
@dansaid5950
@dansaid5950 2 ай бұрын
there are plenty of 304s. Enjoy the STDs if that's what you want.
@nitrom8891
@nitrom8891 4 ай бұрын
Dude excellent content. Your IQ is some of the best on “mating” selection on KZbin. Glad the algorithm brought your video up! God bless
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