This Is Why Dating Is HARDER Today for Most Guys | It's NOT Because of Social Media

[@Zion504HD]

He’s spot on with this video . I just went through this . This girl been trying to replace me but da dudes don’t want to settle with her . They try to replace u wit da dude they’re sexually attracted to but he’s busy having options or playing da field. And it blows up in their face so they try to come back

[@Ben256MB]

Don't accept those women even if their trying to through pussy at you . No second chances with women and that my principle because had have realized over the years that if you give women a second chance they will waste your time heavy .

[@zero1188]

harder because they dont get to the point and dont have boundaries. if you go on apps and spam the same 3-4 messages you will get 1 date minimum a week

[@connyslayer4661]

Absolutely correct and spot on. Dudes that have lazy work and aren't honest, direct and straightforward will always have problems. I have seen dudes that can't communicate properly online or irl. No wonder why they are having issues. This is why Game is very important.

[@vincenegra2612]

​@connyslayer4661 is it "game" or lack of communication skills¿

[@connyslayer4661]

@@vincenegra2612 Communication skills are part of The Game, that's the thing. Game is about how you operate in life and communication skills is one of those aspects.

[@connyslayer4661]

Thank you very much for covering this, Mr.Locario. i have actually watched different channels for different insights and saw that guy's channel and his video. He can have interesting videos but unfortunately, He and most dudes are obsessed with overthinking about external things affecting but anyone with common sense knows if you need win , you'll need to focus on yourself internally. This is how you make an affect on the world and make life for yourself. You are responsible for all your results. The game perfectly tells us this.

[@real.mr.morningstar]

24:24 both accurate and hilarious, shoutout to the game king 👑

[@CheyenneBostock]

GREAT analogy! He’s a lion no matter where he goes. Same reaction and response EVERYWHERE!!!! 🙌🏾

[@soulsistar2844]

Where did you get the cheese from😂😢😅

[@Montreals_Finest]

55:38 Locario to caller: "Where is the sexual marketplace? Can I go there and buy shit?" Probably in 2021 or 22 sometime 🤔. Lmfao

[@Ben256MB]

@@Montreals_Finest That talking point seems like women are these objects you have to buy . SMH!!

[@Montreals_Finest]

@@Ben256MB The context that he said that in was ridiculing the idea of the sexual marketplace.

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

This is not the issue I've had. 5 to 10 years ago, getting laid was so easy I could go on an app and do it in my sleep. What the hell happened?

[@dayvonnedawkins580]

Bro, I have no idea. I remember before covid I had plenty of Cat. After, all of a sudden, I wasn’t as desired.

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

@@dayvonnedawkins580 Let's see if Locario has an answer. This question is not for average guys who never geot laid. It's for good looking successful guys who got tons of P before covid and now can't make sense of it at all.

[@okwui04]

​@dayvonnedawkins580 I think its because plenty of women are desperate for a husband and they realized hooking up ain't getting it for them. Same way men stoped being chivalrous and going on dates because they realized doing all that and getting them laid

[@okwui04]

My guess is that womn are desperate for a "husband". They finally realized that casual s3x ain't getting them that at the end of the day. So they pulled back Same way womyn are complaining that men are not chivalrous and taking them out on dates anymore. Men finally realize that all that ain't getting them the cat

[@okwui04]

My theory is, They finally realized that casual is not getting them commitment, which is what they truly want at the end of the day, so they pulled back

[@o_ss3284]

I am so thankful that as a man I can just interact with more women and learn from those situations to become more attractive. Women on the other hand if they're born with a certain look there's not that much they can do to become more attractive. I was only out for 2 hours yesterday but did 11 cold approaches and then went to 2 parties later that day and talked to more women there. My mindset is that I am going to go out there and get what I want no matter what the situation is. Most guys see the obstacles and make excuses for why things aren't happening for them. I don't care what the obstacles are, I am reaching my goals.

[@Olafemi96]

20:29 Lmaooooo 🤣

[@seraphictaunt]

Yo Locario, can you do a show on the topic of real friendship with women if they got no sexual interest in you? I prefer to be in the company of women more than men and purposefully make friendship with girls and from what I noticed if they got no sexual interest in me they'll give resistance to do anything even when both of us acknowledged that it's just friendship. But when they got some degree of sexual interest they're very easy to deal with. Appreciate all the stuff you put out man.

[@Ben256MB]

My personality the only women who get my non-sexual attention is the women in my family and women I work with . I don't give away my non-sexual attention to women I haven't had sex with and I actually enjoy her personality non-sexually. I have this mentality of dealing with women with a purpose.

[@abryepenez124]

​@@Ben256MBThat's how you do it and I'm on the same page. Most guys don't have the balls to create this standard.

[@JumongiReal]

Only fans/ dating apps/ Instagram is where alot of these woman make money and also a more convenient place to meet men and make celebrities more accesible so yea social media is the reason dating has changed

[@TheFreeMannn]

He basically made a video begging for access to the women that he wants.

[@bignephnetwork]

Life goes on. Just stop dating

[@garyhines9880]

lol nobody stoping u from doing that

[@connyslayer4661]

Life will always go on and anyone can stop or keep dating if they want to. Just because people have issues doesn't mean they should quit. That's a Silly mentality lmfao.

[@connyslayer4661]

​@@garyhines9880Exactly, i swear some people want others to do the same things to feel better.

[@Ben256MB]

​@@connyslayer4661 You have to understand how fucking insecure this generation of young people a soft as hell . They desperately want people to validate their bullshit .

[@ReachTeach]

Being exposed for a lame made it harder for dudes. It's not easy for them to lie about their lifestyles like they did back in the day

[@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv]

Caller at 1hr 16 min mark. Talking about checking his boss. "I told her to check with me" lol. This was funny and sad at the same time. U cant be this clueless about life. U need a strong mentor for real bro.

[@dayvonnedawkins580]

Alot of em do be on bs. The flaking is crazy , the entitlement is crazy, etc.Alot of broads make it harder then what it has to be

[@Jhundo614]

When dude was talkin all I heard him say was blah blah blah complain complain smdh man up the game ain't that complicated

[@renaldomariano8612]

Unfamiliar world this unfamiliar world that. Bro though the was saying something. Like hook ups and one night stands weren't happening before people got cell phones 😂 ridiculous.

[@tayfattz2272]

For one there is many ways to skin a cat . For two some guys just want to get what they can get . Other guys go after what they want and others sway between the two . I rather be a consistent top performer . Women are better to guys they can extract the most compound value from .

[@MyAuraMyEraMyMe]

Locario was using the Clark clent analogy to describe women and their flip floppy nature, That doesn’t apply to men, You’re either Superman/Gamed up or Clark Kent, There’s no back n forth, It’s the same person yes, But men don’t switch,

[@shamaroconnor4615]

That guy in that video contradicted everything. Tf you mean take your headphones off to be open to talk to guys. Funny because he was preaching about building a community and striking a conversation.. Okay so go up to the woman with headphones and strike a conversation 😂😂

[@kbernieshoW]

Social media has a lot to do with it too …Covid change a lot bro

[@genovasquez8361]

I was still pulling chicks at the grocery store and gas station during that time. It's so easy

[@Ben256MB]

Covid just made guy who have no game to be more lazy .

[@connyslayer4661]

When people rely on technology too much and situations to get their work done, of course, they'll be affected. People who know how to adapt and think on their own can get things done. Adaptation is necessary for survival.

[@KAWTELENUH]

Onlyfans and simps

[@connyslayer4661]

​@@KAWTELENUH Even if those things never existed, people who are having problems will still have problems. Remember , people had dating problems even before the internet.

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

Locario, please give us your answer. This question is not for average guys who never get laid. It's for good looking successful guys who got tons of P before covid and now it's a million times harder. Please explain that, or better yet, do a show about it.

[@mrlocario]

If it’s a million times harder for those guys it’s because those guys were most likely tricking. They didn’t have game. If they had game they would have the same results before and after covid

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

@@mrlocario I have to respectfully disagree. In the 5 years before covid I hooked up with over 200 girls and 60 to 70% of the girls I wrote to on dating apps were down to meet up. I don't see how that's possible without game. I was always my true, authentic self and I never tricked or deceived anyone. If it was only me, that would be one thing. But I know a lot of attractive, successful guys who did great with girls before covid and are now saying the same thing. I think the issue is actually much deeper and more complex and is worthy of further examination.

[@mrlocario]

@@joshuaafcutler7348call into the show. There ain’t no way you smashing all these women and all of a sudden you having problems. How is it I’m still able to pull chicks online on a consistent basis. Guys who I coached who were virgins are meeting women online in 2024 and smashing. Call up. I got some questions to ask you

[@joshuaafcutler7348]

@@mrlocario It absolutely is true. My friends even joked that I should put a revolving door on my bedroom because I was banging so many girls so effortlessly. I never lied about my intentions, never said I wanted a relationship when I just wanted to bang. This is a real issue that a lot of successful guys are having so I know it's not just me. I'm totally serious - not BSing you. I will call when I have a free moment.

[@bb8328]

I fk with you heavy locario but I have to agree with this. I used to not have any problem at all waltzing into the club every weekend and pulling a chick whos my type (no tricking I didn't even have money back then). Now it feels dam hard for some reason and I am 100x better at approaching women. (I don't live in the west but I don't think the country should matter.)

[@thomasandrewmcgonigal5150]

When the market changes we have to change,men need to GAME UP!

[@eugjoe8248]

In the olden days, do people need games to get women? I guess not. Having a game to get women started with the modern day world. I still do believe that the internet is a factor that affect the dating game

[@connyslayer4661]

He isn't talking about playing games to get women. He is talking about "The Game" which is street slang for life strategies and yes, in the Olden days you did need game to have success with women and life. The greatest kings/figures had the wisest minds and had some of the best women for them because of their mindset. Things like the internet has affected the world but letting it control your results is stupid. You still have control over your life.

[@mrlocario]

Fam the fact that monogamy exist shows that you need game. Monogamy was invented to give men an opportunity to have a woman because the guys with the most resources and sex appeal were taking all the women. Game is and always will be needed

[@LamontDavis-sd5wb]

Look everyone has game but having lil game is the same is having no game cause even if you do have the looks and money you still have to have game