This is Why Marriage is So Hard (And What We’ve Learned)

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@athomewiththebeveres 2 ай бұрын

What other questions do you have about marriage?

@TiffanyPass-1111 2 ай бұрын

Clears Throat: Single people have the BEST type of intimacy!! With our bridegroom King Jesus Christ! It's Eternal Bliss that earthly married people don't know anything about, AND YES we do I do schedule my FIRE APPOINTMENT with My King and they are big rocks 😊😂❤because as the scriptures say. 1 Corinthians 7:32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

@ctgrell3302 2 ай бұрын

Would love to hear your advice for those survival, seasons, or major life transitions.

@disgruntledvet28 2 ай бұрын

How about a situation where stay at home? Mom works as well as the Dad still works to provide. Now there is a power struggle between both parents because new working. Mom becomes an authority position at her job and decides to bring it home and forgot the role of mother and a spouse🤫🤷🧐

@halfwaythereatcampdowning6831 2 ай бұрын

How to love and support your spouse who’s spiritual journey is different then yours . Gracious growth… painful patience.

@sblvd 2 ай бұрын

All the questions!!!!!! This video blessed me , thank you so much 🙏🏻

@m.i.n.d.y 2 ай бұрын

“In a season of survival, you start to operate as an individual as opposed to partners.” Julie is so on point with this

@ctgrell3302 2 ай бұрын

Y'all just became my favorite couple on KZbin. Thank you for your wisdom, humor, & transparency. What a gift. ❤🎉

@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle Ай бұрын

That’s a great key point: over communication is always better.

@marielundstrom7694 2 ай бұрын

WOW. We were just invited to the Bevers very intimite talk. You two will restore so many people❤❤❤❤

@tempesthobson8690 2 ай бұрын

VERY THOROUGH, TRANSPARENT, AND TIMELY TALK! So on point with the stay at home mom dynamic. Thank you for this talk!!!!

@AQIQATZHOL 2 ай бұрын

I so much love your family and everything you guys do. thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!

@LexiGolenya 2 ай бұрын

i have been married 6 years we have 3 young kids, in a sahm and my husband works 60+ hours per week. This podcast was so extremely relatable… thank you guys so much I felt like it was my husband and I literally talking we have the same discussions! haha…. love this episode and the homeschooling episode! 💯

@victorial8764 Ай бұрын

I literally searched for a video with you both to tell me about all this! I’m maybe getting married. It’s soooooo invaluable hearing your testimony and teaching. Especially finding true wisdom on these platforms. Thank you so much for sharing. You helped me. ❤❤😊😊

@TheQuest4Peace 2 ай бұрын

I felt all of this. Thank you both for being open and honest and willing to share your lives with us. What a blessing it is to share the difficulties that you manage knowing others are tackling the same difficulties. I am thankful. God bless you both.

@PrettyTasha-k8q 2 ай бұрын

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

@888KingsDaughter 2 ай бұрын

Mariage is difficult Challenging as life is not easy. Seasons of marriage Life is dynamic and constantly changing .You are changing. No one has it balanced. Different seadons of life

@abiterrafiore 2 ай бұрын

Every episode is a blessing... I had a lot of doubts around these topics. It's been so helpful. You guys are a blessing...

@nwanyibuifeobiako162 2 ай бұрын

Thank you both for this necessary conversation! As a wife and mom, this is so relatable and relevant🤎🤎

@hollymckinlay5703 2 ай бұрын

I really loved this! In particular, you both sharing the hard in your week and talking it out together - it was so relatable! Thank you, from a mum of 3 in New Zealand xx

@anastasyadefretes Ай бұрын

This is full of wisdom. I am blessed by it and hope others are also blessed by it.😇

@jennyc5100 2 ай бұрын

I’m so glad you’re doing this particular show. Thank you. ❤

@abigailjames5208 2 ай бұрын

What a beautifully honest conversation, you guys are amazing!

@elizabethsydnor5247 Ай бұрын

I love your honesty. Thank you for showing us this raw side.

@artarena591 Ай бұрын

In Reality I've learned a lot of things with you guys I really love watching your podcasts And please in the next episode brings You're kids ❤❤❤

@davidfrey5654 Ай бұрын

Marriage is hard because... 1. It's against our nature to be empathetic. We are wired for selfishness. 2. Men and women process information dramatically differently. 3. Men and women express themselves dramatically differently. 4. Humans are generally weak and have very low willpower to change.

@juliamihajlovich 2 ай бұрын

Love these videos! Thank you! They’re a glass of ice water on a hot day! I watch while I do chores! It has been so refreshing and I feel like it has helped me process so many facets of my heart.

@MahaSnell Ай бұрын

Such a wise man ❤ beautiful couple ❤

@Lings0792 17 күн бұрын

This is edifying!

@macyhornosky862 2 ай бұрын

Loved the video! Thank y’all for being willing to share personal things that you’ve learned with everyone. I related to being someone who compartmentalizes work. Can you talk more about how that affects you and your other close people?

@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle Ай бұрын

Great choice of words: I welcome your perspective

@mitc199 2 ай бұрын

Great episode! Hi julie! Can you talk about your conviction in using social media? Please!! Thank you and Godbless!! 🇵🇭

@kristywelsh8855 2 ай бұрын

Hi from Australia! I absolutely love your podcast, my husband and I are similar ages to you both and our kids are also similar ages so it's extremely relevant to us right now. I'm wondering if you wouldn't mind sharing any other similar podcasts to your own that you know of? Just while I'm waiting for your next episode to drop 🥰🥰

@tushabeann7027 2 ай бұрын

May God bless you the more ❤

@kristinanekrasova3167 Ай бұрын

I love how you guys are working through a conflict on camera 😂

@tushabeann7027 2 ай бұрын

Thank you guys

@asukamurase 2 ай бұрын

Sorry completely unrelated, but can u pls talk about navigating bullies in school for primary school aged children. Thank you

@brendawolf1638 2 ай бұрын

Great podcast!!!

@SKimilku Ай бұрын

Sooooooo goooood!!!!

@kirstenfeather7677 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for relating to our every day conflicts and reminding us as a couple that we need to be considerate of each other. Does not matter if Dad is a stay at home or Mom is the stay at home. Wow all those feelings resonate.

@TiffanyPass-1111 2 ай бұрын

@melissacalderon1515 2 ай бұрын

Marriage is not hard, marraige is what you make it to be if you want it to be hard it will be, that’s why is important dating is because to see where that men future what kind a marriage both want a have

@rickm1993 2 ай бұрын

To say marriage is not hard is crazy. Living a biblical marriage is hard. Just like living a life for Christ is hard. Careful about making people feel guilty about this. They aren’t easy, but thank God we have Jesus to lean on.

@Chasenoir Ай бұрын

Plus dating isn’t biblical, you don’t want to awaken love or spirits you’re not prepared for

@jessyjonas4988 2 ай бұрын

What I hear He believes in the importance of what he is doing stay at home wife and mother- you need to believe in the worth of what you are doing A blow by blow might not happen all the time no matter how many pointers you both set forward The Proverbs 31 woman Thanks for sharing

@thepuppet6621 2 ай бұрын

How do I as a wife make myself together when I don’t have energy for my husband? ( im in the beginning of a pregnancy)

@valw7422 2 ай бұрын

Much of what you're going through most likely could be caused by hormonal imbalances. Look into talking vitamins, minerals and supplements like Vit D, Magnesium and Vitex Berry (amazing for hormone regulation)! Those are just a few of the things that have improved my mind and my life.

@thepuppet6621 2 ай бұрын

@@valw7422❤️ thank you ! And yeah I tried those but i am vomiting now if i take any kind of vitamins 😣

@SJ-fj1cj Ай бұрын

This may be a season when your husband will have an opportunity to love you without getting anything in return. To lay his life down for you. And it’s only a season! This too will pass.

@jonross5899 2 ай бұрын

oh, Im sorry about your dad

@delivered2testify 2 ай бұрын

Amen

@ashleydowns7037 2 ай бұрын

Ps139 examine me. I recite every day

@thesetruths1404 2 ай бұрын

I wish I would have first loved and married an authentic Christian woman. My family would have been able to be and stay whole. What a blessed guy Addison is.

@A_To_The_O 2 ай бұрын

Yup, this podcast confirmed that marriage isn't for me. Not worth the struggle

@workoutmusic4209 2 ай бұрын

Being married has its struggles and being alone has its struggles. The rewards are worth fighting for if marriage is something you're called to 😊

@rcchan7618 2 ай бұрын

I've been with my wife for 40 years since I was 20. There's been some bumps in the road, but overall, it hasn't been hard at all compared to my single friends. I'm the King of the family, and she's the queen, and it works great for us. Find people a person with the same goals/philosophy, good character.... We're as strong as ever with two married sons and two grandsons we see all the time. Religion played no part in our lives and we are very happy. If you're religious, why is marriage so hard? Overall the last 40 years has been pretty easy with my fantastic wife never going to church once. It's all up to you to control your future and relationships and religion can be a complimentary tool but not a necessity.

@rcchan7618 2 ай бұрын

P.S. no pills or therapy ever.😁