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Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore

Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore

Күн бұрын

📺 Watch the full interview here 👉 • Trauma, Illness, and H... 📺
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All I've been seeing all over social media in recent months are Gabor Maté clips. His latest bestselling book, The Myth of Normal, is breaking records all over the globe, and I can see why. I devoured it in several long reading sessions.
Gabor's content is the only person I never scroll over when I see it. I stop. Turn up the volume. And give him my full attention.
A renowned speaker, and bestselling author, Dr. Gabor Maté is highly sought after for his expertise on various topics, including addiction, stress, and childhood development.
In this interview, we discuss the following:
Why we choose pleasing people over being real.
The cause of ADHD.
ADHD in adults, but ADHD in women in particular.
How being "too nice" can make you sick.
Why you should choose feeling guilty over feeling resentful - every time!
How anger is healthy.
The question to ask yourself, even if you had a "good, happy childhood."
This is NOT an interview to miss!
With love, 💕
Susie
Xo
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• This Is Why You Have A...
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@PriyankaKumari-jg7qh
@PriyankaKumari-jg7qh 4 ай бұрын
Adhd is genetic. When my son was born, i was super happy and excited for him. I was being taken care like some royality during whole pregnancy. Yet when he was born, i could tell that something is there. He was hyperactive and difficult since very begining. He has been very much loved by everyone in family, including grand parents and uncle.. kind of well pampeted.He is 3 now, i dont find anything in the environment to fix. Its just that now i know, i had adhd the whole time and so do my mother. Its annoying to forget important and small things all the time, its overwhelming to say the least and along with my own insecurities its super difficult to raise such a strong willed boy. One more point to add is that i am a psychiatrist as well, so the knowledge adds more fear only when it comes to raising this child. My husband is the biggest support in this but nobody understands that he cant overgrow it in 5-6 yrs. I would wish if he could.
@michaelknapp8961
@michaelknapp8961 Жыл бұрын
I grew up without cousins or uncles or aunts, we had my grandparents from my dads side but they were mean and we didn’t like being around them. So we had no role models. We were never taught how to be a loving family. I just remember everything being stressful when I was a kid. My parents were stressed and they passed this stress on to us kids.
@edwhyte4188
@edwhyte4188 Жыл бұрын
When I was young my parents were going through a nasty divorce. I was being shipped from Ohio to Colorado back and forth. Under extreme stress plus having a hearing problem. I believe this theory to be totally right on. In school at home as a adult I would shut down when I got stressed. I would daydream about something other than what made me stressed. I didn't get a ADHD diagnosis till I was 63. I would mask this with alcohol,or whatever took me away from the problem.
@khadijaaithmid5536
@khadijaaithmid5536 Жыл бұрын
You guys are fixing my pieces ! I can't thank you enough May God bless you
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Love it when you find just what you need to start healing! ❤️
@michelesmith1170
@michelesmith1170 Жыл бұрын
Everything he said resonates with me deeply.💚
@michaelknapp8961
@michaelknapp8961 Жыл бұрын
Me too.
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Love that, Michele! ❤️
@shamim1587
@shamim1587 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your work and encouragement towards our collective healing
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
❤️
@Avacadofrommexicoyeah
@Avacadofrommexicoyeah Жыл бұрын
They say a kid needs at least one person in his corner and I had none. Abuse and neglect were the norm. Today, I am 52, have never had a career, just jobs. My marriage is on its’ last legs. I take medicine because it would be easier to end my life but I have kids so that is not an option. Without that one person, by the time you grow to believe in yourself at all, many opportunities have passed you by and you could end up homeless in a tent if your spouse were to grow too tired after al the chaos you caused due to subconscious damaging belief patterns.
@UniqueGeekFreak
@UniqueGeekFreak Жыл бұрын
Please reach out for help for trauma, or what is bothering you, i am having my first appointment next week for trauma healing. Look into EMDR therapy :) Yin Yoga (restorative yoga/kundalini yoga) & Qigong has helped me very much on a cellular level. You can watch on KZbin and follow. I think i developed C-PTSD and ADHD. I got a diagnosis for ADHD, my life changed from doing nothing, to being able to execute my to do lists and i get better self esteem and self confidence because now i am able to do the things i need to do without feeling like a failure all the time or that i am about to die all the time. Good luck my friend, there's also counselling for couples. But just talking through things is a good idea, without blame games. Just talking share your side and thoughts feelings. 🍀✊🙏☯️
@riabombia909
@riabombia909 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful and important little interview 🙏 SO SO important to distinguish anger from blame, she says as a loving parent. I was told long ago that I was suppressing anger. I didn’t believe it bc I was SO nice. I do now I see the injustice and I’m now able to call a spade a spade. Yahoo!! I am honouring me!
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Love this MultiTara!! Thank you for sharing! ❤️
@adaptercrash
@adaptercrash Жыл бұрын
And go read all that again
@redpat8832
@redpat8832 Жыл бұрын
Such a sensitive man! And I love his son Aaron. 🔥
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
YES!!
@cathykilleen2716
@cathykilleen2716 4 ай бұрын
Dr Russell Barkley is the undisputed expert on ADHD
@AllIsWellaus
@AllIsWellaus Жыл бұрын
Thinking back of what I remember of my Father I'm pretty sure he had the genes that had the various neuro differences. He died when he was 44 in 1988, I was 13. Over the last few years learning these things about myself I'm realising, hey Dad I get you now. Its complicated, like all family relationships. All I know, despite his mistakes he was doing his best.
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
That's a beautiful and honest realization! ❤️
@kristofvanhooymissen7785
@kristofvanhooymissen7785 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting this online.
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!!
@jgarciajr82
@jgarciajr82 Жыл бұрын
I can hear my body scream boundaries! Very important here. 🙏❤️💕
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Boundaries are SO important, Sunyata! Thank you for watching!
@susiedalon8263
@susiedalon8263 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Gabor Mate has helped me understand my husband's recent mental breakdown presently in a psyche ward being treated. Its been hard to say the least. I've been watching endless videos here on KZbin attemting to understand his mental condition, learning so much in turn learning about myself. I too have a Hungarian background ( my parents) and l know they both came from difficult backgrounds. I'm one of those super nice people he talks about as a result for acceptance ,fear of rejection. My husband's breakdown has been a blessing in disguise as I'm gaining the wisdom to help him, help us and in turn pay it forward to help humanity when this is over..Thank you from the depths of my heart Dr. Gabor❤. Thank you for shining your light to help humanity. I can't Thank you enough!!!!! You are helping me more than you know !❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@WSmith_1984
@WSmith_1984 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing some of your story, it's really nice to see you using this unfortunate event to learn from so that you can improve not only you and your husbands life but also others....
@No1karez
@No1karez Жыл бұрын
You’re an awesome person Susie and I could only describe what you are doing is being your husband’s everything ☺️ I hope you’re husband comes back stronger than ever and shows you that all your love and dedication was worth it and I truly believe that can happen. I wish you and your husband all the best and a speedy recovery ❤️‍🩹 God bless you both 🙏
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Susie!! ❤️
@AnomalyFoxx
@AnomalyFoxx Жыл бұрын
There is nothing wrong with being ADHD. Nuerodiversity is normal. We do not need to be cured. We are not a disease. It's societies that don't adapt to how humanity is variable, they need fixing. Anyone here living as ADHD adult or child, you are beautiful and deserve a equally creative life for your unique nuerological structure.🖤 ADHD is genetic. ADHD does not affect your intelligence. Misinformation doesn't do anyone service. Abliesm is the problem, not different brain types... what bad taste.
@VivSees
@VivSees Жыл бұрын
Wait until you get older and you’re one of those whose adhd leaves you UNABLE to function, you won’t be so flippant with your Pollyanna wisdom.
@franielmundo
@franielmundo Жыл бұрын
Is genetic?? I think is more from enviroment
@gerryatrix74
@gerryatrix74 5 ай бұрын
Epigenetic. Its a fascinating science
@CryptoArk
@CryptoArk Ай бұрын
You dumb 😂
@TellmewhyIdontlikeMondays
@TellmewhyIdontlikeMondays Жыл бұрын
I mean, it's a theory, but I'm unclear on the evidence for this. My experience is that ADHD often does run in families and you can see both traits and environmental factors - epigenetics perhaps more than solely either environment or genes.
@queengoblin
@queengoblin Жыл бұрын
Are you an expert on this subject?
@tamraya23
@tamraya23 Жыл бұрын
There is predisposition and then environmental factors.. ADHD runs in some families and so generational trauma And trauma doesn’t have to be a catastrophic event. It could be as simple as working pregnant woman in a toxic workplace or highly stressful job. Her cortisol is high and so is the fetus. And the rest you can find on google how cortisol affect brain wiring and biological functions
@TellmewhyIdontlikeMondays
@TellmewhyIdontlikeMondays Жыл бұрын
@@queengoblin actually yes. I have ADHD, and am a therapist specialising in it, so work with others with ADHD every day.
@AnomalyFoxx
@AnomalyFoxx Жыл бұрын
@@queengoblin are you?
@r.n.4765
@r.n.4765 Жыл бұрын
​@a f Your comment implies that someone here is, and that couldn't be further from the truth. Having a take on ADHD doesn't automatically make one an expert. To become more that a theory, that theory has to be supported by robust research evidence and this guy has none. He is an expert in trauma, not ADHD. So sit down and get your own crap together. Maybe do some actual research instead of policing the comment threads and trying to silence anyone who asks about evidence or has a different view.
@keithtaylor3347
@keithtaylor3347 Жыл бұрын
My mother wanted a little girl and even though was born with a "string" attached, she tried to point me in that direction. It didn't work, but I never let it bother me. I grew up being less adventurous than the other boys, being regarded as a "sissy", but the difference was that I was much more knowledgeable than they were as I was an inveterate bookworm. By the age of six, I had read more books on more subjects than any of my peers would peruse throughout the next eight years. I don't blame anyone for this: it has turned out to be a blessing, not a curse, because I somehow managed to exercise a measure of control over my ADD by immersing it in the written word.
@notbrendon
@notbrendon Жыл бұрын
I really need to hear this as I have wanted to play the blame game for so many years and the resentment/righteous anger toward my parents has, without a doubt, taken a toll on those around me (never mind the excessive force that I used when I began confronting my parents about the past years ago). That said, I can't completely move past the possible argument one might make that a certain amount of that anger can be useful in the name of service to parents who might need their attention directed to everything from an absence of boundaries to behavior for which they ought to be held accountable. Throwing it out there. Love this interview
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and for watching!!
@asmrambioticfluid9467
@asmrambioticfluid9467 Жыл бұрын
great content...bringing up some sadness but its beautiful
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank YOU! So beautiful! ❤️
@annealbert9490
@annealbert9490 Жыл бұрын
You’re related to my cousins husband Ron Wosk some how . My Fathers family was born in Hungary . Anyway, I have ADHD and so do my Kids . I was stressed in pregnancy but I also believe the traumas from parent and Grandparents are passed down too
@FurtiveSkeptical
@FurtiveSkeptical Жыл бұрын
ADHD is genetically passed to offspring. Childhood trauma can greatly exacerbate the symptoms of it, but like all situational cases , they vary widely from person to person, degree of trauma, and whether the person shows on the autism spectrum or other comorbidity present. It stems from a development problem with the Pre frontal cortex, while in the womb. You can't "catch" it or "aquire" it. I empathize completely with anyone struggling with this condition, But please don't misinform. Be well.✌️
@veilmontTV
@veilmontTV Жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and so does my identical twin brother. This guy is spreading obvious misinformation. Russel Barkley would tear this ignorant man apart.
@soniad.2993
@soniad.2993 Жыл бұрын
If it is genetic, how come ADHD has been diagnosed 500%. more in the last 20 years? It takes generations for something to become genetic- to change our genes. No one has ever identified that gene, because it simply doesn't exist.
@WorldOfEmm
@WorldOfEmm Жыл бұрын
Beautiful, thanks!
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank YOU!!! ❤️
@rogue_luko
@rogue_luko Жыл бұрын
Great content!
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching!!
@oliveludicrous
@oliveludicrous 2 ай бұрын
He is such a disapointment. I was undiagnosed with ADHD all life, I thought everyone were experiencing mental pain, that this was normal. ADHD is not about trauma nor too little play. I have had a safe and good upbringing. I have played a lot all my life because of the constant hunt for dopamine, moreover; to escape chronic depression and a mind exhausted from chronic racing thoughts. ADHD is a mental illness. I have read the research he believes to undermine his popularist opinions. They don't.
@zimshah
@zimshah 4 ай бұрын
Over the past couple of years I have come to realize that I have A.D.D. (I don't seem the have the "hyperactivity" aspect of the malady. But I didn't always have this. My brain was normal functioning until I had gallbladder surgery in 1990, and immediately experienced memory loss and confusion. I've boiled it down to one of two things, or a combination... the first suspected cause would be Post Operative Cognitive Dysfunction from a reaction to Anesthesia, and the other would be that I was extremely jaundiced due to liver infection from gall bladder disease. Both are known to cause Brain Damage. From that point on increasingly, I developed symptoms of ADD, but didn't know it had a name. I am very relieved to know because now I am trying coping strategies and tips and trips which are becoming more readily available online.
@Heidi123
@Heidi123 Жыл бұрын
If it's environmental stress that causes it why is there not a disproportionate number of Jewish people with ADHD with the huge and numerous traumas these people have been though over many generations.
@mousa_hamad
@mousa_hamad 4 ай бұрын
Sometimes trauma manifests itself as infliction of pain on others. As a hypothetical, a father who is abused typically then inflicts that abuse on his children. The Jewish people suffered unspeakable horrors. And yet instead of being empathetic and recognizing an opportunity to break the generational trauma they’re simply injecting trauma into another group of people. Get off the idea of ADHD, and consider the infliction of pain occurs because of pain that was endured. ADHD is simply ONE symptom of trauma. Not the only one.
@fadista7063
@fadista7063 4 күн бұрын
Stress chemicals affect the child in utero. I was born 2 weeks after JFK was killed and I know my mom was in turmoil, like everyone. Plus the cold war stress etc. I was a "problem" child and diagnosed with autism but I am pretty sure I have ADD too
@julialaynemcclain1562
@julialaynemcclain1562 Ай бұрын
Not a brain disease - a neuro developmental difference - trauma can make a hyperactive threat response worse. Traumatic dysregulation and disregulation due to audhd sensory linguistic interoceptive hyperactivity/overwhelm feel similar and respond to similar interventions. You can heal trauma responses but there is no cure for exec function sensory etc overwhelm. There is also no story to add to the overwhelm - just the what is of overstimulation/under stimulation and skillful means to intervene and shift the nervous system. Much more empowering to work with with the system I have instead of attributing neuro overwhelm to past traumas that in fact did respond to healing work and are in fact resolved and resolvable in my case. People w autistic neuro developmental differences are (I forget stat but I think it was 70% compared to 12%) much more likely to develop ptsd after a trauma due to the already hyperactive limbic response and overall neuro developmental anomalies in audhd brain. I think it would simplify matters a lot if the psychiatrists would look at these aspects as brain functions w hyper or hypo functionality vs the perspective of conditions. No one I have ever heard of w ptsd reports relief from their ptsd vis a vis adhd meds but many people I know report significant relief and shift in functionality from working w meds (I don’t tolerate them myself) so I’m wondering what the benefit of lumping these together is and I wonder what the apparent attachment to trauma being the only possible reason for exec function/dopamine deficit/time blindness etc that is a very frequently reported and assessed set of factors in the case of adhd Might be. The adhd system is impaired in filing/completing the learning loop of surviving trauma - but it is not the exact cause/effect. The distinction is valuable for many of us who manage the conditions concurrently. Respect and love and thank you for speaking out regarding Palestine. We have been taking a stand daily for the entire year. It’s really important to the audhd community that Dr’s in this field truly understand our experience and the neurophysiology involved and not invalidate the frameworks we have found to understand and work around/adapt to our neuro differences. Please take care to respect that and take care about your own bias/loved experience getting mapped into that. You are a valuable voice in this conversation to many of us and it hurts to hear what sounds like advocacy against our ways of adapting and coping from you.
@coomdoon
@coomdoon Жыл бұрын
This gonna be a great podcast
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@alisaa3999
@alisaa3999 Жыл бұрын
I’m confused about healthy anger. A therapist recommended to not cut out negative people and find ways to better deal with them, (certain clients) so they don’t affect my energy. However, when they are in my space wouldn’t it be healthier to just cut them out so they don’t affect my health? s that considered healthy anger?
@ritagordon9859
@ritagordon9859 Жыл бұрын
In my humble opinion, what this means is that we cannot put cotton wool around ourselves to keep those people away but we can learn how to deal with it by not taking their negative energy on board. Have you heard of energy clearing meditation? Expressing how you feel about said person is healthy instead of suppressing it by thinking it’s “not nice” to say eg that person is crossing my boundary. Expressing it is healthy. Blaming that person that they “made you feel this way” isn’t necessarily healthy as you’re blaming them for how you feel A simple example would be using a feather on your arm. The feeling can be “good or bad”. The person using the feather on you cannot be blamed for how the feather makes you feel You can express that the FEELING that you are experiencing is good/bad Does this make sense? Hope this helps 🙏
@AshleighJane-nd2qx
@AshleighJane-nd2qx 9 ай бұрын
Did my mother choose to be stressed? She met my father when she was 16. She was born in 1954, come to 2024 and they are still happily married... but as a mother.. they both decided not to have children when they got married. My father was never given a chance to revisit the idea. From age18 till 32, my mother took contraception. Her younger sister came to stay in the same country, worth her two daughter, and from being an aunt? She made that leap. Alone. She stopped the contraception, in secret.. and when I was conceived, my father was furious. To me, she had to have anticipated stress?
@volkerd714
@volkerd714 Жыл бұрын
Hard to see Mate engage in black and white thinking here (its either the mother is responsible "blame" or she is not). It can be both. Though I understand the deep psychological need to preserve the attachment security, we do all kinds of things to defend our parents. To admit that they also have responsibility is not disrespectful to them, but NOT validating it is disrespectful to us, and constitutes a disruption in the foundation for the boundaries we have with EVERYONE. Including at the deepest level, ourselves. It represents a self-neglect, a self-dissociation. THAT's where addiction comes from.
@volkerd714
@volkerd714 Жыл бұрын
I have compassion for Mate, but I think his stance is dangerous.
@BA-ef4pr
@BA-ef4pr Жыл бұрын
The very end, Gabor was talking about attachment and our struggle if we did not have it at birth. What book of his continues to explore that topic?
@robynhope219
@robynhope219 Жыл бұрын
The Myth of Normal.
@tamraya23
@tamraya23 Жыл бұрын
I love his work 💜
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
YES! Thank you for watching, Tamara! ❤️
@dennisjackers8306
@dennisjackers8306 Жыл бұрын
Love it!! 👍🏻❤️
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
Glad you loved it!!
@_Lazare
@_Lazare 8 ай бұрын
I agree
@lookingfortherightflux
@lookingfortherightflux Жыл бұрын
Why this title ??? "This is why You Have ADHD" ? Totally off...in my view.
@audreymlean-roberts1394
@audreymlean-roberts1394 Жыл бұрын
ADHD is not a brain disfunction and or that there is not a genetic inheritance . THIS POSITION IS PURELY SPECULATIVE. Yes if course trauma and or high levels of stress may produce a child that zones out. However zoning out is not the only symptom of ADHD. Yes sugar is problematic for some children but, this does NOT account for the hyperactivity of children with ADHD. There are a number of symptoms that define ADHD not just a couple.
@veilmontTV
@veilmontTV Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely wrong. ADHD is the most well understood and treatable mental health disorder we know of. It is more genetic than your height or intelligence. ADHD is well understood to be an executive function development disorder and purely in our brains. It is a disability and almost exclusively genetic
@matthewbarrett8859
@matthewbarrett8859 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely no proper science supports his theory. In fact, I think its widely accepted that 70-80% of ADHD is genetic. Perhaps they can link to multiple studies that support his views?
@kamigordon489
@kamigordon489 Жыл бұрын
What an agreeable interviewer😂
@christinav.6719
@christinav.6719 Жыл бұрын
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
❤️
@charlottebuck6907
@charlottebuck6907 Ай бұрын
Personally I think it's to do with external toxins that are put into our bodies... that's my opinion, and that some people are more resilient to it than others, but yes genetics can obviously play a part...but this is just my opinion
@sarahbaker4030
@sarahbaker4030 Жыл бұрын
Is it safe to blame Nazis? Also, I think we should absolutely blame this toxic culture we’re all trapped in. And help eachother dismantle it.
@user-rj5ld9gk6u
@user-rj5ld9gk6u Жыл бұрын
❤️
@christopherdiddy6982
@christopherdiddy6982 Жыл бұрын
Is Asian parents considered bad parents bcoz as i remember when i was a child, i can't express my emotion.
@LittleImpaler
@LittleImpaler 2 ай бұрын
That sucks.
@dsoule4902
@dsoule4902 Жыл бұрын
Sugar in the diet. Everyone knew this in the 60's & 70's. Stop feeding kids captain crunch for breakfast ... society is sick.
@veilmontTV
@veilmontTV Жыл бұрын
Do you believe every wives tale you're told?
@dsoule4902
@dsoule4902 Жыл бұрын
@@veilmontTV are you simply rude, and malnourished ?
@tanjaaufdermaur9468
@tanjaaufdermaur9468 Жыл бұрын
💖💖💖💖💖💖
@letitbeeasy
@letitbeeasy Жыл бұрын
❤️ Thank you for watching, Tanja!
@weltraumaffe4155
@weltraumaffe4155 Ай бұрын
But he also says that trauma can be inherited from parents. Sounds like parent blaming to me.
@BellyLaugher
@BellyLaugher 7 ай бұрын
Found repetitious "reminder" for podcast pop-up too distracting to continue watching. I don't like that it occurred even once, let alone the multiple times it popped-up & distracted my my attention➡is there a way for me to turn it off? Is it intentional, or is is an unusual, error/glitch? Too bad for me, looks like a helpful video.
@MrTristyler
@MrTristyler Жыл бұрын
I am confused why the dying woman's love and concern for her husband's support is being talked about as if it is a pathological repression and not a beautiful gesture of love for her partner? My first thoughts would absolutely be about my wife and family being taken care of and I don't see that as an unhealthy reaction at all.
@queengoblin
@queengoblin Жыл бұрын
women are not men. of course your first thoughts are for your woman and family, you are a man, that is your purpose. please, PLEASE learn the difference between caring for someone elses' life and COMPLETELY discarding yourself for the well being of others. Breast cancer is caused by giving too much of yourself away and not nurturing the self enough. the fact that you don't see or get that shows that you are normalizing women's servile attitudes towards their families, and cannot see the difference between healthy care for others and discarding the self's needs in favor of others. NO ONE is benefitted by someone "self sacrificing" to the extent that they get cancer. we need healthy people putting themselves FIRST, in fact you can only truly care for others when YOUR needs are met first above all. women cannot fill from empty cups. if her cup is not being replenished she will become unhealthy and get "woman diseases" because she is not caring for herself and her feminine energy - and likely her man is not supporting her well enough in this. it is a woman's job to pick a man who will make her radiance a priority, not make her scrounge and struggle for survival and then call her "selfless" for that stress. women are not meant to be living the stressful lives we live today, almost everything you worship about women is complete slave programming. stop putting self sacrificing women on a pedestal and begin to understand that healthy women GLOW, and RADIATE beautiful energy and care for themselves first.
@aninsidestory
@aninsidestory Жыл бұрын
I think the doctor had more information on which to base his remarks. Learning that we even have needs beyond food, water, air and shelter is new for very many of us. I look forward to the day when Dr. Mate discovers the work of Dr. Marshall Rosenberg so that maybe, just maybe we can teach children about their emotional/relational needs and their agency in getting them met in instead of this self/other blame game we’ve got going. ❤⭐️💜
@MrTristyler
@MrTristyler Жыл бұрын
@@queengoblin My wife and I are stunned by how sexist your comment is and how many people, including the channel creator, are supporting such a perspective on gender dynamics and health. You have no right to tell men what their purpose is and while I happen to agree with some of your assessments, the fact that you have taken it upon yourself to lecture me about sacrifice and man/woman dynamics is disrespectful and uncalled for. It is also important to note that breast cancer is a complex disease that can have multiple causes, including genetic factors and environmental influences. While self-care and stress reduction may be helpful in preventing certain health issues, they are not the sole determining factors in the development of breast cancer. Thank you for illuminating the culture of this channel to me, I will waste no more energy here, but hope you enjoy spending time with like-minded people.
@MrTristyler
@MrTristyler Жыл бұрын
@@aninsidestory I am not familiar with Dr. Marshall Rosenberg but will be looking into him thanks to this comment. IMHO There is nothing more important in the world today than getting people to understand their emotional and relational needs. That simple piece of education would save countless families and prevent so much child (and therefore adult) suffering, especially post-Covid. The amount of mental health crises in children is escalating at an alarming rate and no one is talking about it...
@Geebs2161
@Geebs2161 Жыл бұрын
@@queengoblin THANK YOU 🎯
@jetstream3528
@jetstream3528 9 ай бұрын
Military families has a direct correlation.......I'm sure law enforcement as well.....definitely firefighters...... But of course a failed government identity as a capitalist system causes it all.....unless you are brutal or a heir to a fortune
@markevananiel
@markevananiel Жыл бұрын
This is good but a life without stress is impossible. His tryng to be too ideal.
@Ami-LoneWolf
@Ami-LoneWolf 10 ай бұрын
TEARS IN MY EYES 😢 EYES WHO ARE OPENING TEARS OF ... HOME COMING 🥲 😘 Thank you ❤ SO MUCH 🙏🏽
@anikawestwood
@anikawestwood 5 ай бұрын
Please read some science. Trauma increases adhd
@zovalentine7305
@zovalentine7305 9 ай бұрын
❤ Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤
@fernandodeavila6926
@fernandodeavila6926 Жыл бұрын
indigenous art love aho.
@Bi0m3ga
@Bi0m3ga Жыл бұрын
This is not why or how people have ADHD. This is how he speculates and assumes are the reasons for ADHD.
@lesilluminations1
@lesilluminations1 Жыл бұрын
If it's not genetic why do so many members of my extended family, all living in different environments all over North America, have adhd?
@queengoblin
@queengoblin Жыл бұрын
Because family thinking patterns are passed down. Family stress patterns are passed down. Family trauma responses are passed down. My goodness, were y'all born yesterday?
@tamraya23
@tamraya23 Жыл бұрын
@@queengoblin💯
@lesilluminations1
@lesilluminations1 Жыл бұрын
@@queengoblin Genes are also passed down, y'all.
@AnomalyFoxx
@AnomalyFoxx Жыл бұрын
@a f Actual scholars know what they are talking about. You have no right to be demeaning. The fact that the content creator of this episode liked your asinine and uncessary comment is telling. ADHD has been studied since the 1800s. Maybe trust people that actually know what they are talking about.
@lesilluminations1
@lesilluminations1 Жыл бұрын
@@AnomalyFoxx Are you sure other scholars agree with him? Do you equate questioning a scholar with demeaning him?
@Leukemia.survivor
@Leukemia.survivor Жыл бұрын
He figured out a ton of really interesting stuff, but I really wish you and him didn’t put this up. As someone with ADHD, this isn’t helpful. Trauma causes lots of problems, but ADHD isn’t one of them.
@veilmontTV
@veilmontTV Жыл бұрын
It has been completely debunked that trauma causes ADHD and it's almost purely genetic
@DeeDee-nk6bo
@DeeDee-nk6bo Жыл бұрын
It actually does cause ADHD. But there's different reasons for ADHD.
@rosemallia5252
@rosemallia5252 11 ай бұрын
ADHD diagnosis is not a fit for all. It's a combination of either trauma, sensitivity, predisposition to anxiety disorders OR predisposition to physiological disorders where there are food sensitivities and mental/anxiety disorders/autism. It's not a clear cut proven set of factors that cause it. This is what Mate is saying.
@sanamsi
@sanamsi 8 ай бұрын
Please read/listen to the book. I was blown away. If reading is difficult, it’s on audible and here on KZbin! It is as simple as downloading it and listening to it as you are driving or doing chores. I promise you will be just as blown away as me. He mentions genetic factors and much much more. His videos do not do just
@thecontrarianman
@thecontrarianman 7 ай бұрын
You’re wrong. Once I worked on my underlying problems, my “adhd” symptoms have disappeared. I no longer take meds, go to therapists etc.
@fernandodeavila6926
@fernandodeavila6926 Жыл бұрын
she smiles 14 min...
@gomey70
@gomey70 Күн бұрын
This is utter nonsense. ADHD is primarily genetic. There's been countless research done on this area and the results are irrefutable, and backed by hundreds of medical experts in this field. But hey... it's good to be different if you want to sell a book or two, right? Unfortunately being wrong can have adverse effects on the multitudes of people who are seeking help. Shameful clickbait title also. Please do better.
@yasin10yasin
@yasin10yasin 7 ай бұрын
He don't give practice advice
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