This Shouldn't Be Normalized

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[@Douglas768]

Shes just describing everyone who donates to her

[@donovan4222]

And why would that be bad?

[@lannyfce4786]

@@donovan4222 echo chamber = good!!

[@nucleric5275]

😂☠️

[@iconicspot6787]

Not just her but anyone who donates to "streamers"

[@donovan4222]

@@pshdxt No people should dress however they want not how you want them to

[@dailydoodles1150]

Normalize men being happy

[@richardabia9735]

Yes but let us be happy wearing clothes that were Literally made for us !

[@flafflewaffle]

Richard, it is a piece of cloth. You don’t have to gender every single object on earth. Just go back to your dads attic and play cs-go instead of being an idiot online

[@angelicberi]

@@richardabia9735heels were originally made for men

[@onlygoodperson]

@@richardabia9735 who said you cant be happy doing that

[@overweight_chungus3307]

​@@richardabia9735 It is significantly harder to be happy in that way. It is also significantly harder to be that way and not look and act in a way that makes you insufferable

[@Silvike21]

Normalize not giving a damn about what other people do to themselves

[@carlsonraywithers3368]

Normalize freedom

[@austinred458]

Normalize the right to say whatever the fuck one wants if they see ridiculousness.

[@richardabia9735]

@@austinred458 Absolutely. Like, men should wear men clothes and women should wear women clothes .

[@s.heikha]

@@austinred458why are you so obsessed with other people’s lives? i mean, i agree that men and women should stick to their own clothes but like, does anyone actually care in the real world? like, it’s their life at the end of the day, and they can do what they like. just focus on your own life instead of obsessing over clothes.

[@austinred458]

@@s.heikha yeah...and it's our life too...we can say whatever we want when we see them. We don't care doesn't mean we can't say anything.

[@godofmath1039]

Normalize guys doing what we want as long as it isn't immoral

[@BlessedBuns]

Men have the right to be gay and to be loved by other men we all deserve to be somebody @godofmath1039 thanks for supporting the LGBTQ group we love the support

[@godofmath1039]

@@BlessedBuns Bruv who are you talking to?

[@BlessedBuns]

@godofmath1039 u duh You don't make sense because Ben Shapiro is trying to normalize men being men. You're saying, let guys do whatever they want. We should have boundaries and restriction. Don't have sex with another man and do bad things BE.GOOD

[@lit_kzh]

i genuinely do not understand them are they okay

[@BlessedBuns]

@@JuvenileFish8 exactly bro

[@hammadkhan1123]

normalize guys wearing clone trooper armour

[@Legomkns]

I’m one of them

[@Jdubdoingshit]

@@Legomknsw

[@cngotham4111]

Hell yes

[@THMstudios]

“For the Republic!!”

[@LieutenantReid]

This is cause I can get behind, for the Republic!!

[@ThoseWhoStayUofM]

Normalize never paying any money to a twitch streamer.

[@Xeno_Solarus]

That's not fair. Not all twitch streamers are like Pokimane.

[@jinx8624]

Or just pokimane

[@bongjovi4928]

Why would you pay anything to watch some nerd play a video game when you can play it yourself

[@DirtyMike967]

@@Xeno_Solarus it’s not a real job. They do nothing to benefit the human race.

[@pyrokatarina]

​@@bongjovi4928 there are some streamers who are very good at what they play, while having likeable personalities. Imo they r the ones who are deserving. And it's not like you are forced to pay them, it's still up to you

[@the_pinkerton]

Isn't going to the gym normalised already?

[@bogartmotomoto8222]

Ikr.

[@domx7zero157]

Ben is way too insecure, like most conservatives.

[@Nameentered]

No. That's why we have an absurdly fat country. Because the vast majority don't go to the gym

[@the_pinkerton]

@@Nameentered obesity is a big problem in the US because Americans are car dependent, unregulated food companies sell people unhealthy and addictive sugary products, many people either can't afford to go to the gym or don't have enough time. literally all the reasons why Americans are so obese is because they live in a neoliberal country, obesity in the states is the fault of the right not the left

[@rpandaplayz]

@@domx7zero157 He hardly even said anything in the video. I'd assume your just a fan of pokimane so your hear to defend her very stupid opinion about a gender she isn't.

[@felder415]

Normalize whatever you want to be regardless how masculine or feminine you are

[@SMCwasTaken]

Sephiroth is so hot 🥵🥵🥵

[@Number1AkechiGlazer]

@@SMCwasTakenreal

[@Instead2]

No dude men be men and women be women I’m tired of people saying do whatever you want oh we’re so “free” with this degenerate declining collapsing society

[@DaBullKill]

No

[@creekfreak]

Based!

[@arkacideow50]

“Normalize men wearing pajamas” who was ever against that ? 😭

[@ConsistentlyInconsistent21]

I just wear basketball shorts and no shirt to bed. My big ass gets too hot. Edit: Spelling

[@GreyBlackWolf]

Like. Im still confused on that one. Most the women i knew were wearing like junk shirts and basket ball shorts as "pajamas". Like most people in general i know wear regular clothes as pajamas. But i forget. Shes a special kind of stupid

[@vincedibona4687]

If you wear pajamas outside of your house, you have problems.

[@arkacideow50]

@@vincedibona4687 oh yeah for sure, i just meant men wearing pajamas on general

[@hj7947]

@@vincedibona4687 I will cease wearing my Batman pajama pants and Harry Potter pajama sets when they no longer fit or are worn to shreds. And not a moment before. Seriously though-ever had a partner dress “night time sexy” to pick you up from the airport? Because… 10/10, highly recommend.

[@zerorequiem42]

Normalize men not taking advice on how to be men from women.

[@liveandlearn4445]

Personally, I agree.

[@andrajurubitamarin5379]

Well...I... I... I can understand what u want to point... but... but ...but tf? Ur mother is a woman! I am myself a woman and a mother of 4 ,3 are boys... what should they do? Not learning from me? At all? For real?.... that is fkd up🤦

[@AitchBee71]

Absolutely. Womansplaining ☕

[@I_M_Pro___]

I agree completely

[@shanecutbirth1835]

Let's try to tell them what's ok to wear and see how that goes.

[@Duskullite]

Normalise people wearing whatever the fuck they want as long as its age appropriate

[@ShroudedByMist]

This

[@domx7zero157]

Don't worry about him. He trying to compensate because he's been called gay his whole childhood.

[@JayJay-ye7ic]

Define age appropriate

[@harrietgrib]

Normalise guys being masculine or feminine whoever they want to be, why make it weird?

[@domx7zero157]

Because Ben is weird and he's trying to compensate.

[@DaBullKill]

No.

[@rpandaplayz]

Make it weird? It is weird. Why on earth should men go around wearing dresses with lip stick and pretending they have a high voice? Are you even a guy? because I only ever see girls saying this bull crap.

[@SpiderWithTime]

Fr

[@DaBullKill]

No. Man fairies are bad for society. Do not normalize that.

[@ourdesertwonderland]

As a woman I absolutely do not agree with her. No real woman wants a feminine man. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Edit: everyone is so busy trying to feminize men, it’s disgusting. Let men be masculine and stop bashing men for being masculine. Make masculinity great again!

[@Adaptzite]

Amen

[@danimallover01]

Some do! And thats okay! ❤️

[@nicholasjoseph8297]

Ask my girlfriend that

[@isabellamorris4029]

​@@danimallover01 sure. But women and (woke)men today pretty much wanna force men to be feminine and submissive because women get a power trip over it or smth, which is NOT okay

[@Mrs.Apricot]

The only thing I agree with is nail polish and makeup/skin care, you dont have to be wearing bright red lipstick and blue eye-shadow to be wearing makeup, and plus I know those things make me feel better so, you know.

[@tomoore1776]

Guarantee she won’t date any guys that do that kind of stuff.

[@christophermarang.3569]

You’d be shocked. Also, emo guys were laying it back when I was a kid and they wore girl jeans.

[@Zure467]

​@@christophermarang.3569 "They help me skate bro" was what I heard when skinny jeans came around.

[@ritzsebi8420]

​@@christophermarang.3569why do you think no one likes them 🗿

[@GreyBlackWolf]

​@Subtlespeak i tried to wear skinny jeans jn my teen years. I was to skinny for them...

[@Zure467]

@GreyBlackWolf I was too tall for them to look right. So naturally I made fun of them and acted like they were dumb.

[@dreemlite5950]

Normalise men wearing whatever the fuck they want and not listening to a guy who is clearly insecure about himself

[@liaminnit]

this

[@lilblondiebear]

I don't think guys being feminine should be "normalized." Am I insecure too?

[@dreemlite5950]

@@lilblondiebear why isn’t it ok for us to normalise men being feminine?

[@lilblondiebear]

@dreemlite5950 because men being feminine is not, by definition, "normal." A guy can be feminine all he wants, it's none of my business. But to suggest this behavior should be the new normal is a bit much.

[@dreemlite5950]

@@lilblondiebear why? Why is it a bit much?

[@Sharp22CatFish]

Ben shapiro's beard should not be normalized.

[@TAYLORZACHLANA]

Exactly because wtf is that😭

[@mvasqu762]

​@@TAYLORZACHLANAshaved pubes... Not a big fan, I mean that's basically a Dylan Mulvanney

[@Sharp22CatFish]

@@noobwithsomecoffee8700 over exaggeration

[@Sharp22CatFish]

@@noobwithsomecoffee8700 I'm just saying you're over exaggerating what I say.

[@Always.Flourishing.]

I think his beard looks fine 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@rooster3958]

If I see Pokimane in a happy marriage with a guy like that, then I'll believe her.

[@bobcat2840]

Yeah she’s definitely being a hypocrite here

[@basedbroskiworld]

she was a cam girl before twitch this garden tool not marrying in a million years

[@nick-dogg]

She’s part of that twitch crew who are puppets.

[@bob-wo3ir]

All these streamers are sociopaths. It's all an act.

[@80glk5]

Guess what

[@daminam]

Let's just normalize being however you want and not caring what any gamer girl, gym dude, or ben shapiro says.

[@gabrielaruiz4415]

Fr

[@zeusx6479]

When you remove shame from society, that is when it becomes degenerate

[@stevemoore4286]

​@@zeusx6479true literal society shaming people has had some good otherwise being unemployed would be far more common

[@MayberryDaze64]

Normalize following and identifying with Jesus Christ, and not any gender or societal influence.

[@tabbyreed8925]

@@zeusx6479 You just like having an excuse to hurt people.

[@ToriTrak]

Her basically saying "Do whatever the fuck you want" These guys: "DoNt ShOvE yOuR iDeOlOgY dOwN mY tHrOaT"

[@LuisaKlahr]

I know right? And those guys desperately try to explain why all of a sudden freedom is no longer good. After defending it against the "woke" people. It does scream triggered to me.

[@bonifackener8026]

"Normalize xyz" is imperative. She's telling people what they should normalise, and they refuse.

[@carl_anderson9315]

The problem is normalize is used as an imperative. A man can have the freedom using a tutu, but I have the freedom to think he looks like an idi*t

[@lilblondiebear]

"Do whatever you want, its none of my business" and "Let's all normalize, promote and accept it" are 2 very different things though.

[@aniqalam8231]

​@@lilblondiebear her saying normalize means that nobody should tell them that they are doing something wrong or bully them rather everyone mind their own business. She is not saying everyone start doing this.

[@elijah5994]

Normalise guys wearing whatever they want and leave them alone

[@domx7zero157]

Nah Ben can't do that. He has to overcompensate for being bullied his whole childhood.

[@Nameentered]

Ok. So I shall wear a klu kux klan robe and nobody should be allowed to say anything. You can wear whatever you want, but people are allowed to judge you for it. Just because you feel something is right, doesn't make it so

[@Nameentered]

​@@domx7zero157 nope. Guaranteed it was you who was bullied your whole life. Couldn't be more obvious bro. And don't you find it funny that you, a person who is all about accepting people for who they are, is making fun of someone because they got bullied.

[@rpandaplayz]

Actually no because if your going to wear clothing that's specifically not made for a certain gender DO NOT WEAR IT. Why does most of this come from girls btw? most men disagree and just want to be masculine which we were created.

[@Tigre0777]

@@Nameenteredlol it’s obvious ben doesnt accept men wearing whatever they want. You just contradicted yourself. Fuck shapiro and his fragile masculinity, it aint our fault he was bullied and now has to compensate over his fragile little masculine ego

[@MaddoxONeal_]

Normalize Men being the strong, independent beings we were before

[@slavishentity6705]

Back when men still weren't afraid of wearing makeup and high heels ?

[@scottrobinson7360]

@@slavishentity6705 men invented these things for women , not girly men

[@slavishentity6705]

@@scottrobinson7360 people invented these things for kings and emperors. Then it became "girly".

[@scottrobinson7360]

@@slavishentity6705 men invented . what is your problem

[@scottrobinson7360]

@@slavishentity6705 and why can't kings and emperors be girly men , canadas pm australias pm . as an example

[@Calcanthite]

Let’s normalize men wearing whatever the hell they feel like. The most masculine thing you can do is support other men living their best god damned lives

[@Channie99]

Exactly I don't understand why it's so hard for people to just accept people being happy in their own skin 🤦‍♀️

[@starlight4412]

EXACLY so many people in the comment section is talking about how people don’t want feminine guys

[@watashinihayumegaarimasu7609]

​@@starlight4412 yeah, in the grand scheme, femininity just doesn't work out. Only the successful, rich people make the rules of our world, and it takes masculinity to become successful, so that's what you get being idolized worldwide.

[@AlexIsInPeril]

exactly. Live and let live

[@akhilb.n73]

Just like a vegan Dog....🤡

[@ddyert]

Shapiro was called gay too much in grade school and now he has to make up for it

[@NoteFromFamilyGuy]

Gay Mr. Bean 💀 Fella walks into a room and exclaims “Bazinga!”

[@Soulless_adofai]

Lmao fr

[@Soulless_adofai]

@@NoteFromFamilyGuyLMFAOOO DAMN💀

[@accounts128]

This is the best comment I've ever read

[@domx7zero157]

Haha obviously. He spends way too much time criticizing things that just don't matter at all.

[@minkiproduction]

crop top doesnt have a gender..it is a fucking cloth😭

[@ShroudedByMist]

Exactly clothes don’t equal gender heels and makeup were originally made for men 😭

[@redvelvet9215]

some clothes and makeup enhance feminine and masculine features better, so you’re wrong

[@redvelvet9215]

@@ShroudedByMiststilettos were not made for men, so wasn’t james charles makeup. There’s a difference

[@jeremytan739]

@@redvelvet9215check your history on heels

[@coolskeleton_95_]

Just normalise not being judgemental towards others and treat others respectfully with kindness There, done, fixed.

[@Luvbvgmusic]

Thank you!

[@mushroomkid9666]

si. SII. YES. YES.

[@Niveous23]

Judgmental is such a loaded and abused word. There is the 'execution' style judgement, which is not being displayed here. And then there is the far less intrusive 'opinion you have of something'. And everyone is allowed an opinion. When you conflate the two, you ironically are trying to manipulate and push others to not have an opinion.

[@Darcyu]

@@Niveous23 their saying people should just respect each others opinions unless it’s a really horrible one

[@hassanmohammad1385]

Certain people do not deserve respect and learn by harsher language or force

[@Vic-pg4rg]

I bet that Pokimane wouldn't even date or marry that kind of guy at all. Someone should straight up ask her that.

[@wandelhok8142]

So a man should only wear clothes which can impress women?

[@SubZero-hs9xc]

Thats not the point, you shoudnt date people you dont like

[@The_Kronicus]

@@wandelhok8142 His point went right over your head and crashed against the wall behind you.

[@wandelhok8142]

@@The_Kronicus no it didnt i know what he means. My point is still valid. Have some justification?

[@wandelhok8142]

@@Chaosssbvtch yeah...good luck saying that out loud on a women's forum. The only thing I can expect is 90% women coming after you saying "I CAN WEAR WHATEVER I WANT", " I DRESS FOR MYSELF", "STOP TRYING TO CONTROL MY BODY". And that makes sense right? But the moment a man does it, he is seen as " GAY". Why? Because he is OBVIOUSLY wearing it to get attention. How dare he wear something of his own choice.

[@LostTemplate]

i can smell the fragile masculinity in the air

[@user-wm7jh7uk5t]

Well when you have women like her trying to turn men into anything but masculine lol what do you expect

[@ElifO-pb5ly]

Normalize anyone being comfortable being who they are. 👇

[@robertefremov9380]

This is a girl who would say literally anything if it benefits her financially in any shape or form

[@excusemeliam]

So you don’t believe that people should be allowed to choose what they wear?

[@joellalthanzuala7100]

​@@excusemeliam I'm pretty sure I believe I don't want to see your hairy belly staring at me

[@excusemeliam]

@@joellalthanzuala7100 but it’s fine for men to walk around shirtless and show all their body hair?

[@Four2069IQ]

@@excusemeliam are you wanting people to where swatikas

[@joellalthanzuala7100]

​@@excusemeliam If your town is dominated by shirtless dude..I don't know? Is it your cultural thing?

[@bluerobin7051]

The key is, Pokimane would never date a guy like that. Such toxic advice.

[@Waywind420]

You say that, but there's a small but sizeable amount of women who do actually date effeminate men, even crossdressing men or genderfluid men. The problem is, women are almost all using birth control which interferes with their menstrual cycle and influences mating preferences towards feminine men.

[@Standardgrinching]

They re whole group is sketch.

[@adambilbao2974]

Frfr

[@raindown6702]

I mean, she can still have different preferences. It’s not toxic lmao

[@arugala50]

Should men only dress a certain way to impress women?

[@Bobobo-bo-bo-bobobo]

Ben Shapiro: I love freedom Ben Shapiro when people excercise that freedom:

[@Nameentered]

Hahaha. I'm must have missed the part where he said we must create a law that forces men to only wear masculine things? Sorry buddy, but people are allowed to have an opinion. Just because he says he thinks men shouldn't wear girl things doesn't mean that they can't. He has literally said on many occasions that if you want to dress up like a girl, then go for it. But what he has a problem with is the fact that that you are trying to tell us what we are supposed to think and believe. Your side is literally doing exactly what you are accusing Ben of doing.

[@user-mg5dq6nr7e]

Not what this video implied but okay

[@justaninksearcher]

He once let it slip that he's pro gun grabbing. He said that he believes the second amendment shouldn't apply to transsexuals

[@maheshkrishnanr]

Normalize ignoring what this guy says.

[@Maniac-vp2xw]

Yes, he is the real cancel culture, most of us “liberal sissy boys” don’t cancel people, but on the other hand he is actively trying and actively cancelling people.

[@denis-florian_0.57]

Pokimane is actually a guy?

[@_MECHA_]

Ben or the other guy,cuz I agree with both

[@nunyabusin]

If only you were capable of that, huh?

[@T4llen-T4il]

Never normalize ignoring people like this, they'll keep going until someone gets hurt.

[@bustacap3791]

she sure knows her customer base.

[@leroyrodgers6089]

Beta male soy boys?

[@edinfific2576]

Idiots are not much of a customer. More like a sucker. So, she knows her sucker base.

[@annalogan6241]

​@@controshirtsyshe described the type of guys who pay her bills. She knows what she's doing.

[@annalogan6241]

@@controshirtsy the men that donate to her aren't masculine, they're what are called pu$$ies so she's pretending it's normal for men to wear make up just so they can keep giving her money.

[@alter112]

@@controshirtsy what she said to normalize is what her male audience wears, she wants money

[@calmghosts]

Normalize guys being man enough to wear whatever they want and not let people dictate what’s manly enough for them to wear.

[@calmghosts]

@@R11T16_ if you want to then you don’t have to imagine it, you can do it! 😂

[@MuDkipzCHancelLOr]

@@calmghosts You're on the offender list, aren't you?

[@calmghosts]

@@R11T16_ you were the one imagining it, not me. 😂

[@calmghosts]

@@MuDkipzCHancelLOr Ah yes, people believing people deserve the freedom to dress how they want means you’re an offender. Totally not a mentally ill opinion to have.

[@Muzakr_Halfdan]

​Sure, wear the opposite sex clothing and walk in to their restroom, I'll see you on the offender list soon. ​@@calmghosts

[@nachiketkalbhande4425]

Normalize minding your own business

[@domx7zero157]

Ben doesn't have his own business.

[@ArvindRajAgnosticAtheist]

Normalize debating opponents your age and not kids.

[@liaminnit]

real

[@domx7zero157]

Too hard for Ben, look at his debate with Alex O Connor. He does everything to avoid answering his questions.

[@bianca-ic8yw]

The amount of guys here who dream about wearing armor as daily clothing is the most precious thing i’ve heard of in a while

[@corbinoiscool]

i have plans to join the marines and serve my country

[@icnorgaming]

Question. Based on your name, are you a biological male, not a transgender one.

[@TheTotalGrayArea]

Arrhrhrrhrrhrrhrrhrh give me sword and ale!!

[@worlore1651]

It’s called autism

[@Expret5551]

@Austrian Painter thats good but if as an daily clothing, your not gonna be able to do activities lmao ☠️☠️

[@Riyozsu]

She is acting like a hypocrite. No one would like a man like that.

[@jacquih8804]

Yup! Cause "he" wouldn't BE a MAN!!

[@donovan4222]

Who cares? You don’t have to like how other people dress

[@soonahero]

Hence normalize

[@Shadowmk1023]

My girlfriend does.

[@21area21]

@@donovan4222 Yes. I don't have to. But they should dress non-degenerately out of respect for everything sacred. If you are loud on a train in Japan, it's considered very disrespectful. There's a certain way you should conduct yourself. In the same manner, there's a certain way you should present yourself in America so as to not be disrespectful to humanity itself...

[@JamMonkey11]

It's crazy seeing Ben Shapiro saying to hit the gym, he's built like a popsicle stick lmfao

[@adawong9185]

Fr😂

[@trooperdgb9722]

When did he say that? He said he wasn't a fan of guys filming themselves in the gym...... How do you get "hit the gym" out of that?

[@808hearmannxea2]

​@@trooperdgb9722 when you find his top lip those questions will be answered to you in a shower of clarity.

[@MendelDanzo]

Bros trying to find anything bad to say about Ben 👾

[@Amanita._.Verosa._.]

Reminds me when he used to say rap wasn't real music but he sure joined a rapper for a quick buck.

[@Nonnitot]

Normalize men having the freedom to do what they want with their appearance

[@Mengeneful]

she is definition of what's wrong in this society

[@reiemmerich1800]

I think you should look in the mirror

[@youknowit8713]

@@reiemmerich1800 Holy shit that roast was so fucking good. You get the *I’m a fucking retard middle schooler who sucks at everything* reward good shit mate 👏👏👏👏👏

[@rafachafa1086]

She’s part of the twitch society all phony’s

[@plane2232]

​@reiemmerich1800 how does that have to do with anything?

[@donovan4222]

What’s wrong in society is people not dressing how you want them to? LMFAO imagine being this childish

[@carriemeeks8538]

It should be normalized to accept people being genuine to themselves

[@stevenwebber5998]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@chanila_cake]

Preach! 👏👏👏

[@josislost]

I don’t know what you mean? Do you mean men should be themselves because men are men? Or is it that men should be “themselves” even though they can’t handle themselves being men

[@Fuzzled369]

Lovers of self rather than lovers of God In other words this mindset promotes depopulation disease mental illness heart attacks etc you're all willingly killing your own species to satiate your ego

[@joellalthanzuala7100]

I genuinely think I'm once a ruler in before my reincarnation

[@SpyXFamily668]

Normalize men crying and them having normal dinner instead of girl dinner.

[@Millieimpc]

I love sml

[@SpyXFamily668]

@@Millieimpc cool me too

[@Nameentered]

Hahaha how about no.

[@Millieimpc]

@@Nameentered you’re a very sad person

[@ericgolightly8450]

​@@NameenteredAre you ok?

[@AwesomePikachu808]

As for normalizing men to wear nail polish, I chatted with a grandpa in the grocery store who let his granddaughter paint his nails. Dude was completely chill and praised his granddaughter a lot on her painting skills. The granddaughter was the happiest kid in the block. The grandpa is her favorite participant in her tea party, grandpa is her audience whenever she wants to put up her performance. Anything crazy granddaughter wants to do grandpa is up for it. Now she loves baking and grandpa wants to teach her how to bake that’s why he was in the grocery store. Masculinity is not about having to normalize men to wear nailpolish or having them wear a skirt. It’s about showing love to your loved ones, and if you’re a girl dad it’s about dealing with your kids crazy experiments with love and care. You’re not afraid to show love to your children as a father, that’s masculinity. Masculinity means that you want to be the best version of yourself, you’re comfortable with your emotions and you’re not afraid to stand up for yourself. You know yourself better than anyone and you make your own choices. It’s about being human everyday and showing up as you. If you’re a dad then it’s about showing up for your kids not to play the dad role because you love them from the bottom of your heart. I think we should stop putting ridiculous expectations on men and just let them be them. If you’re content and happy as a man on your own and you want it that way just let it be. Enough of the judgment it’s driving me nuts.

[@TheHigherFury]

She should have just stopped at "normalize guys wearing whatever they want" Because that's correct, and frankly, we have been.

[@razvan4188]

No. People should not wear whatever they want, be them men, women, boys or girls.

[@TheHigherFury]

@@razvan4188 they should though. Because that's how socializing works. If we wear something crazy, people judge us, we decide we don't like that, we stop wanting to wear it. Or, we don't care what people think, we keep wearing crazy things, and most people continue to not take us seriously and our life is hindered because of our choice. We wear suits because we know that if we do, our chances go up because people's opinions go up and that's sometimes crucial to us. Therefore we want to wear a suit. We might dress up because we want to, we might dress down for comfort when we want comfort. We already wear whatever we want, we just don't want to show up to a job interview in comfy underwear because that's an uncomfortable situation. Not because of the underwear but because of people. Fashion is all about wearing something crazy, then it catches on because enough of society decides they approve. And usually that isn't the majority, at first. Wear what you want and face the repercussions, say what you want and face the repercussions. Same idea. You'll find out what you don't want to say or wear, real quick.

[@razvan4188]

@@TheHigherFury I would agree with you, but look how easy it is for all the weirdos to corrupt impressionable kids these days.

[@TheHigherFury]

@@razvan4188 yeah, we should normalize ridiculing people who try to normalize ridiculous things 😁

[@dragerdet]

​@@TheHigherFury if you don't have something nice to say then don't say it

[@Brazillovesmexico]

Normalize men on being honest with themselves and not having to deal with these unrealistic harsh expectations thrown by society and letting them know that they’re human and encouraging/uplifting other men .

[@XCookieEaterX]

YESSS

[@dante_0962]

Their kenough

[@casebased8391]

Her: “normalize guys wearing whatever clothes they want” You: “these are such unrealistic harsh expectations thrown by society!!” 😭

[@TristanWintle]

@@casebased8391 I think OP is throwing shade at Ben Shapiro and the guy who made that compilation not Pokimane.

[@casebased8391]

@@TristanWintle I think you’re wrong.

[@TerryGary-hr6lw]

Normalize men wearing a full samurai outfit while holding a katana

[@SMCwasTaken]

Normalize men dressing up as Sephiroth

[@rpandaplayz]

I like it.

[@SMCwasTaken]

@@rpandaplayz normalize Diamond armor 🥵🥵🥶

[@ItsBearOfficial]

Normalize men being masculine (when they want to be)

[@aratof18]

hell yeah that I can support

[@tanushjaison5972]

Bro thats already normalized

[@aratof18]

@@tanushjaison5972 they're talking about being masculine solely as a choice

[@ItsBearOfficial]

@@aratof18 Nah I'm mainly talking about all the forceful feminization of men by twitter users and other only platforms

[@Burn143]

How about we normalize people being kind instead? I am so tired of this talk. Society puts too much pressure on people like who tf cares? Wear what you want, if it’s not hurting anyone, then it shouldn’t be a problem. Men and women aren’t monolithic.

[@Marrow040]

Sure you’re allowed to do whatever you want as long as you don’t hurt anyone but people are also allowed to judge you as long as it’s not illegal too.

[@Burn143]

@@Marrow040 Sure, and it goes both ways as well. You have the right to your opinions and even judge, just don’t go out of your way to harm/bully the person. This is already obvious and apparent. Which brings me back to my whole point of kindness, or just having basic decency and respect (something society lacks often, especially on the internet), even if you may not agree with something. The whole idea of normalizing this and that (especially trivial things) are conversations that often goes nowhere and shouldn’t hold much emphasis or importance in my opinion. We all die anyways.😂😂😂

[@R11T16_]

Then expect to be judged, if you wanna be weird, accept the consequences of it

[@Burn143]

⁠@@R11T16_ I don’t care, the whole point of my comment is to just focus on yourself, be kind, and be a decent human being, that’s quite literally it. No need to force anyone to normalize anything, just do what works for you. Who gives a fuck if Tom wears nail polish? Who gives a fuck if Jerry doesn’t like that Tom wears nail polish? Who gives a flying fuck if Sam goes to the gym for 24 hours a day?😂Different strokes for different folks. People will judge, there will always be a person that dislikes something, there will always be someone with a differing opinion. People that already do/wear what they want are aware of that. We are not put on this earth to please people.😊

[@richardabia9735]

​​@@Burn143But, we are put on this earth to be proud of who we are. Wearing clothes specifically for the opposite sex just to say "F*** you " to society is ridiculous and narcissistic. There is no shortage of comfortable male or comfortable female clothing. So, the targets of each clothing type should adhere to their nature. We are not better than the people of the past We are not above normal things. We are not above norms and traditions. We are not above wearing clothes that fit our characteristics. Yes love people and be kind, but also don't be a damn weirdo.

[@reddeaddude2187]

Brothers unite against the anti-masculinity movement!

[@TedEhioghae]

But then, a masculine woman is okay, right? Ever heard of tomboys? Why the double standards? Both are wrong.

[@Technicallyimright]

Against the Zionists that don’t want Caucasian men to be strong and united*

[@Zero-1]

@@TedEhioghae Being a Tom boy and a guy wearing nail polish are totally different things.

[@GearGuardianGaming]

​@@Zero-1 just report him as spam and move on. he is one of them.

[@troy1776]

@@TedEhioghae God made men masculine and women feminine. Those who claim to be something that they’re not is a mental illness.

[@zHollow]

How about we normalize people choosing to express themselves how they want to, regardless of their gender! No one is saying that women can’t wear a dress or a man can’t wear a suit and tie- the message is that we should let others wear whatever they want! It’s really unkind to judge others for what makes them feel confident. If we all learn not to be judgmental and simply respect other people and their choices, the world would be a much friendlier place.

[@Nameentered]

How about no. It's that kind of thought process that has dudes cutting their genitals off thinking they can be girls. It's that kind of thinking that has people allowing kids to take hormone medication and even have surgeries that will have permanent irreversible affects before they can even experience real life. What's next? Allowing pedophiles to be with children? It's already considered rude and hurtful to call them pedophiles... We are now supposed to call them minor attracted people. Besides, how is it mean to say that certain types of things are meant for girls? It's literally just an opinion. So now you are essentially saying that nobody is allowed to even speak an opinion. In order to have an opinion, you have to risk offending someone else. You will create a society with authoritarian rule. Everyone must think and believe this way. Otherwise, it's gulag and reeducation camp for you. I promise you. That's what's coming. We are having our rights stripped away from us one by one. And it's all under the guise of feelings.

[@ObviouslyPoptart]

I really dont care what anyone does as long as it doesn't affect anyone

[@FleshyMammal430]

That's what I'm saying. we should normalize and legalize weed so everyone could chill tf out

[@plane8356]

Honestly we should normalize letting people do what they want as long as they are not harming anyone

[@lonniecynth]

exactly like there are real issues instead of wasting your time being against men painting their nails

[@Arkus123]

​@@lonniecynth that is a real issue if you believe in objective morality

[@sugetoosty1685]

The harm comes from a future of really confuses kids…who then become adults

[@timharper4246]

If you find yourself saying "normalize", that means it's abnormal.

[@Mimix-o]

Yup! but weirdos who don’t like lgbtq are obsessed with them I don’t like lgbtq but being obsessed really shows how they care about them rent free which is sad and funny 😗

[@ellekiru8513]

She's saying normalize it not that she's attracted to it- she's litterally just saying stop attacking them for doing those certain things

[@Katyesenia835]

I don't think people care what someone else is wearing so long as it'd appropriate for the location or situation.

[@reubenoakley5887]

No, she's saying to make these things normal. She's pushing to change the culture, and we have every right to push back.

[@reubenoakley5887]

@I fought the law It wasn't just men. Many women also pushed against the normalization of women wearing pants. I also never claimed that clothes are inherently linked to sex. Style is entirely arbitrary. Cultural norms still exist though, and we have a right to promote them. That is, however, secondary to the point of my previous comment. My main point is that the OP was clearly lying.

[@reubenoakley5887]

@I fought the law "The entirely true thing that you said is only partially true, because anyone with different ideas from me is brainwashed" ~You Also, note that I never said people don't have the right to push against cultural norms. Also also, actually actually, there is nk distinction between "cultural norms" and "societal norms". You're obviously not a very serious person, so I'm done replying to you. Have a nice day 👋

[@hanamachii_]

​@@reubenoakley5887 crop tops, makeup, heels, dresses... all invented for men 😂

[@KokoalaTheIII]

Her: be happy I don’t care These guys: nOoOoOo mY fRaGiLe MaScUlinIty

[@tayswfties]

Lets normalize men expressing themselves the way they want to. Lets NOT normalize judging men for self expression. In other words, lets not normalize ben shapiro!

[@hellawaits6544]

Normalize not telling men to man up when it’s convenient for you, and criticizing men being men when it isn’t convenient for you. Normalize not telling men how they’re supposed to be, thanks.

[@francesca_mylove]

Yes, thank you! Idc if my boyfriend would wear skirts, dresses, crop tops, make up and nail polish instead of suits or anything. I LOVE HIM FOR WHAT MAKES HIM HIMSELF AND NOT WHAT HE LIKES TO WEAR!❤

[@joellalthanzuala7100]

@@francesca_mylove Good.. You wouldn't care either even if he could improve himself and be his best he could as he is already perfect and he shouldn't put much effort in your relationship either I guess

[@Themeisthereisnotheme]

@@joellalthanzuala7100 dude what

[@Themeisthereisnotheme]

@@francesca_mylove ❤

[@mathurex211]

@Thethemeisthereisnotheme he's saying people aren't perfect. In fact, we change all the time. Sometimes, for the worse, like choosing to be an activist in trying to delineate fundamental lines between men and women. We have people that actually believe men can give birth. That's why this is a problem. It is not innocent choice-making.

[@EnderDBD]

Your job is to be feminine, our job is to be masculine, can we stop trying to blur the lines? One isn't better than the other, they're both essential for society

[@supertrendymoneymaker0722]

Best comment ever!!! Women don’t need to compete against men, because we all have our roles in life to keep the balance. The animals in the wild understand that, so why can’t we?

[@zeked4200]

​@@supertrendymoneymaker0722 Animals aren't on social media chasing clout and virtue signaling...ever met a cat? They'd be all over that sh*t if they had thumbs...all judgey and preachy...

[@tiffles699]

But also don't stigmatize women who are more masculine into thinking one she has to transition and feminine men into transitioning as well. Men are more accepting (and at times seek out) masculine females l, but females are less likely to seek out feminine men, unless one is looking for control over the relationship.

[@donovan4222]

“Your job is to be feminine/masculine” is the dumbest statement I ever heard in my life LMAO it’s not anyone’s job” to act masculine or feminine.

[@TedEhioghae]

But then, a masculine woman is okay, right? Ever heard of tomboys? Why the double standards? Both are wrong.

[@marbelezju]

ben shapiro hates pajamas confirmed

[@KokoalaTheIII]

Just admit it, all you want is a big strong man to take care of you

[@connorbaz5980]

Ben's face when Pokimane says "normalize crop tops for guys": *Confused internal screaming*

[@animetoonshd3889]

I can barely stand it on girls let alone guys.

[@the_resa_]

I looked at her the first time and saw his face after reading this comment 😂😂😂

[@amvp8743]

Crop tops are literally men's clothes tho... Ever heard of the 80's-90's?

[@isheetfromaswhole3657]

I don't know what a crop top is.

[@RAYX07]

​@@amvp8743 that was just like a trend and no more than that and I would like to tell all my friends group opinion that no-one out of all that guys liked that

[@kaimuira9912]

Cant believe Ben Shapiro thinks he's the epitome of masculinity 😂

[@voskresenie-]

married the first woman he fell in love with, has a great marriage to an attractive woman who has never slept with anyone but him, is a loving father, is worth millions, is not afraid to speak his mind, and has guys like you seething because you've got a better body than him (maybe) but still won't ever have half the life he has, because you missed the critical window of development. Yeh, I'd say he's pretty masculine.

[@Something125_]

@@voskresenie-masculine? I have a friend, a born female, identifies as female, friend whose voice is deeper than his. I know someone who’s got twice as much facial hair as bench appearo and twice the body mass from working out alone. I know you think something as simple as marrying your first partner is “masculine” but I’ve met tea kettles with more testosterone than Ben shabibo. Btw, he’s got lip fillers. Your oh so masculine man gets lip injections.

[@nickronca1562]

@@voskresenie- Well if he married the first woman he fell in love with good for him, but you need to understand that that is rare and unrealistic to expect of everyone. Most people need to test out different people before settling for one. "Loving father" nice to know his children are straight and cisgender "Worth millions" so? "Not afraid to speak his mind" yeah and neither are many many people who disagree with him who are more feminine Most importantly though, I think doing what you want without caring what other people think is way more manly than only doing "manly" things all the time. If you genuinely only want to do "manly" things all the time, that's fine, but shaming men who don't and do want to do more feminine things is definitely the least manly thing you could do

[@voskresenie-]

@@nickronca1562 "that is rare" agreed. "and unrealistic to expect of everyone." nope. it's not. the key is to avoid even considering falling in love with someone who you haven't screened for marriage material and dropping them as soon as you realize they're not. then you don't fall in love with someone who you wouldn't marry. then you marry the person you fall in love with and commit to staying with them till you die. then you actually put in the work to make that happen. it's not unrealistic or even difficult -- it's literally how marriage worked for nearly all of human history and still how it works in many parts of the world -- it just runs completely counter to the plan mainstream society pushes for finding the 'perfect' someone for you. the tragedy is that the more people you date, the /further/ you get from finding that 'perfect' someone, since you begin to compare each future partner to the best parts of all previous partners and consequently, they will fall short in almost every way. The things you need to make a marriage work are A) attraction (but not necessarily the most attraction you've ever felt), B) shared values, and C) a willingness to stick with the other no matter what. All of these are discoverable within a couple months of dating. Most, I can tell within 5 minutes of a first date. (C) seems to be stating the obvious -- 'of course people who refuse to get divorced don't get divorced' -- but it's reflected in marital satisfaction, too, not just divorce rates. You'd think, all things being equal, that people opposed to marriage would have lower marital satisfaction rates, since they could be stuck married to someone they hate for 60 years whereas a couple not opposed to divorce would divorce after a few years of that, but the opposite is true. Turns out, when you're stuck with someone, you more often than not find a way to make things work.

[@nickronca1562]

@@voskresenie- You are literally contradicting yourself. Do you want people to marry the first person they fall in love with or do you want people to marry who they are attracted to, have shared values with, and a willingness to stick with your partner no matter what? Because that isn't always the first person who you fall in love with. Also what even qualifies as "falling in love" because that is going to mean different things to different people. Does merely being physically attracted count, or does there have to be an emotional attraction? Some people who are merely physically attracted but not emotionally wouldn't say they're in love, while others will. Some people who are merely emotionally attracted wouldn't say they're in love while others will. And what's wrong with falling in love, dating, then afterwards realizing you're too incompatible with each other? That makes no sense why you shouldn't be allowed to do that. Yes, your partner doesn't have to be perfect, but they should at least be compatible. Not to mention you can't control who you fall in love with. There are many many reasons why you either can't or don't want to marry the first person you fall in love with, but you're setting an unrealistic standard where what? You're either not allowed to fall in love until you're engaged, or you're supposed to end up marrying them (eventually) the moment you fall in love even if it's on a first date. Also fuck you for divorce shaming, as if some people aren't better off with it. If it's that bad where the literal only thing preventing two people from getting a divorce is feeling like they "aren't allowed to" then that isn't them making it work, that's them forcing themselves to stay with each other even though it isn't working, you jackass. Sometimes you need to date or even marry multiple people because shit happens. Things don't work out. Some people aren't as nice as you though. Some people have incompatible wants or needs. You might be dating someone who you absolutely can not tolerate the beliefs of. Maybe you can't tolerate them for a different reason. But if someone is dating someone you can't just expect them to not fall in love with the literal person they are dating if not had already been in love, and if they do fall in love with the person they are dating you can't just expect them to 100% guarantee that they get married to them. I guess what I'm trying to say is that that is one of the most gaslighting things I have ever heard.

[@purplekiko8277]

She’s just saying men should dress how they want. she’s not forcing anyone to do anything.

[@ObludaNamelessMonster]

Normalize being who you want to be

[@brandonmalone5758]

That girl is tripping. She does not want a guy like that.

[@Lola_707]

How do you know? Have you met her?

[@vladraduandrei5227]

@@Lola_707 did you meet her ?

[@twachl8039]

@@Lola_707 stop simping bro

[@donovan4222]

So you think we should force people to dress like they are trying to date us? Seems like a weird idea

[@vimal-cliobconsulting]

​@@Lola_707 did you meet her?

[@JamesK-ox7kr]

Normalize mental illness is what she's saying. What a great human being there

[@Leodoll85]

yeah, because coloring your nails is a sign of mental illness. thought WE were sensitive

[@ponypony2905]

Wearing clothes is not a sign of mental illness. Have you seen the fashion men in 18th century pulled off? It was feminine af. Also, K-pop guys wear all of the things she mentioned. I'm pretty sure girls loose their shit at their concerts.

[@Phantomx_Strider]

Ong we shud normalize cancer too like who needs medicine for that? We shud not discriminate against people who have cancer 😂 don't put them in hospitals instead treat them like normal humans who are perfectly healthy 😂...alr guys I'm done with this bs 😂

[@Phantomx_Strider]

Also we both are being sarcastic and if u think otherwise then please get yo self checked 💀

[@rusokana3642]

So women are mentally ill? Got it.

[@channelname99192]

Normalize men just..being free.

[@anni-jh3ie]

NORMALIZE MEN WEARING WHATEVER THEY WANT

[@richardabia9735]

@@anni-jh3ie No.

[@anni-jh3ie]

@richardabia9735 my type is masculine men. in my comment i wasnt saying men should dress feminine or that they should dress masculine i said they should do what they want. we need masculine men, yes. but we also need people to push the boundaries. and i will say this again, MY TYPE IS MASCULINE MEN! so idrc what people wear

[@crazyfirebender15]

Let’s normalize men wearing suits more often, so hot 🔥

[@redvelvet9215]

As a woman I agree, also normalize smudgy eyeliner for guys. Thats hot 💖💖

[@homesteadgamer1257]

Hell yeah. With epic beards.

[@homesteadgamer1257]

@@stevexracer4309 LMAO I've heard that. Suits on men are to women like lingerie on women is to men, though. Military Class A's, nicely tailored suits (not really tuxes, but those are okay for weddings), that sort of stuff.

[@homesteadgamer1257]

@@redvelvet9215 Meh. I think the eyeliner should be more for performances, like on stage.

[@donovan4222]

Suits are for elitists that don’t work real jobs

[@Eldritch..Horror]

Bro let's normalize minding our own business and being the kinds of men we want to be 💀

[@thedeed8740]

what I’m saying bruhhh Mfs who spend their whole day critiquing strangers on the internet are hella weird

[@LittleOoozie]

Frrr

[@toodamnrico]

@@thedeed8740 your despicable

[@zndrych]

​@@thedeed8740 not only that, but it's motherfucking Ben Shapiro 💀

[@juliusperseus8612]

Maybe do it yourself first.

[@LouieRamos24]

Normalize not giving all your time to a boring female streamer who literally just wants your money

[@clinically_insane_]

normalize being either nice or apathetic to what people chose to wear

[@majinvegeta9280]

These women say normalize it and then complain cause they can't find a good man or any kind of man for that matter. When she finally does he can't do anything with his hands and folds like a lawn chair at the first glimpse of confrontation. Now that's a man

[@Horzinicla]

many people say what you're saying without living it but I have. My sisters constantly believe that toxic masculinity exists and that men should wear and be as feminine as they want. But when one of them says something along the lines of "real men no longer exist" the other just agrees completely. It's a bit bullshit to provoke something you yourself wouldn't want

[@Yuli_Rose]

Just wait until all these men in crop tops start claiming to be a woman and taking opportunities from these women. They won't be supporting it then 😂

[@BEAUTYnIQ]

l love men! let them be masculine and flawed and giv mono-syllibic grunts as answers! l didnthe cleaning! he built the cabinets! we worked together but complemented the differences and thats how it should be! right now china is building their military and trying to take over the world currency standard.. and we are letting the idiot in the WH hemorrhage monies to the rest of the globe while we need it here! we are all being distracted with "what is a woman" while our tax dollars (YOURS!) are being wasted when we need it here! dont let their agendas distract you!

[@pipthewarrior3738]

@@Horzinicla Women are always confused with this stuff and never stop to actually think about it.

[@NoOneImportant777]

@@Horzinicla woman literally don't know what they want. It's not anything new.

[@NickSandt]

That’s Pokimane. No one cares what she thinks except for simps with no taste

[@wayland513]

Facts

[@GreyBlackWolf]

Yea, pretty much. The only people who defend her are worthless themselves. Its like a giant crowed screaming and yelling and still not really saying anything at all.

[@Lola_707]

@@GreyBlackWolf funny how you say that her crowd is “saying nothing at al” when you yourself are literally saying nothing at all

[@elegantwizard9670]

​@@Lola_707Funny how you proved their point by saying nothing of value.

[@GothboiKenzy]

You guys are simps

[@GodOfTheGeese]

We should normalize people wearing what they are comfortable and happy wearing, and if that includes the things mentioned in the video, so what? It’s not gonna jump off them and attack you

[@FunnCubes]

Ben... She literally just said: "let them wear what they want to wear." If you dont want to wear a skirt, no one will force you to... however if you do want to wear one, no one is stopping you either. Is your understanding of english really that limited? Do i have to talk to the immigration office? Are you secretly from like.... guatemala?

[@justaninksearcher]

The funny thing is, conservatives who are against that shouldn't call themselves conservative. Men wearing things like makeup is freedom of expression, which is protected under the first amendment. Though to be fair, Ben also has a history of being secretly against 2A as well

[@Papayayayayaya]

We should instead normalize giving goodnight kisses to homies

[@Tyndalic]

Ha-ha-ha! 😂

[@Cent51]

We see your cry for help dude, maybe stop standing on that Skelton and come out with that bud, just leave the nouns alone.. 😂

[@callmepainorimg99b]

and no homo included

[@lemonysnicket2222]

That’s Just Homie-Sexual 😂😂

[@Really1cey]

@@Cent51 its a joke but not necessarily a funny one

[@treznorNSFW]

Normalize guys not talking to women like her ever again.

[@TedEhioghae]

But then, a masculine woman is okay, right? Ever heard of tomboys? Why the double standards? Both are wrong..

[@Cyborg_Lenin]

​@@TedEhioghae because they are afraid of their own homosexuality so they react with indignation. My bi ass is laughing.

[@dhans9662]

Normalize freedom.

[@mightynightt]

Normalize being comfortable. Whatever feels right do it.

[@daydreamdog851]

We don’t need to “normalize” anything. Just let people live the way they wanna live, it’s that simple. Oh, the irony

[@YouScareMe1]

So normalize it........

[@chain12bb]

Yeah thats what normalizing means….

[@daydreamdog851]

@@chain12bb yeah and I hate that word. As if we all need to be on board with everything everyone else is doing with their lives. It’s absurd. Nothing needs to be “normalized” because everyone’s idea of “normal” is different.

[@chain12bb]

@@daydreamdog851 “letting people live the way they wanna live” is literally what normalizing something means and your personal opinion on the word is completely and utterly irrelevant. Also you contradict yourself, before you said we should let people live the way they wanna live, and now you dont want to be on board with the way some people wanna live their lives?

[@daydreamdog851]

@@chain12bb lmao who said it has to be relevant to you? It’s my opinion, no one is forcing you to agree. This is a good example of what I mean. You don’t have to completely agree with me here but no one is stopping you from having your own opinion on the subject. Get it?

[@youngstudentloandebts3778]

She’s got a point tho. If a guy wants to dress a certain way then that is his choice and we should mind our own business.

[@ZoupTR]

Men need to be masculine

[@xanira6367]

​​@@ZoupTR men are inherently masculine. Clothes dont determine gender.

[@youngstudentloandebts3778]

@@ZoupTR All I’m saying is that this isn’t a issue if you just mind your business

[@nskdhekahgfd]

​@@ZoupTR why do they "need" to be?

[@theenemy4313]

​@@nskdhekahgfd because otherwise when the world will actually need masculine men, there won't be any left.

[@elenatacooo]

brother literally sounds like the ‘🤓’ emoji

[@metadragon6209]

“Normalize” doesn’t mean “force”

[@serpisgoinginsane3609]

Normalise being respectful.

[@iwouldsprinkle]

yes!

[@phantom0-9]

Amen

[@lopezmaya]

FR

[@Mochofungus]

​@Johnson Howard hence the reason I don't respect you.

[@blademonarch9775]

Respect is earned not given

[@Charbar87]

Why don't we just normalize people minding their own business and caring about themselves?

[@kyleunplugged417]

💯

[@themelancholia]

There's this thing called a reactionary. They don't like minding their business.

[@IkesPimpHand]

How's that been working out so far?

[@Charbar87]

@@IkesPimpHand welp....not so well

[@jmca_power]

​@@IkesPimpHand it has not really been put in practice

[@kobaltmyst8074]

ok but men lookin hella fine comfortable in their own bodies

[@NolanBrown-xc1eb]

Normalize men wearing medieval armor

[@SMCwasTaken]

Normalize men wearing diamond and netherite armor 🥵🥵🥵🤯🤯🤯

[@kadenyt6623]

agreed

[@SpoonedCranium]

Can we just normalize doing whatever the fuck we want? Wanna wear a crop top? I don’t give a shit, so you do you.

[@adawong9185]

I absolutely agree. Thank you for this.

[@CarlosMartinez-vk4nd]

cringe

[@richardabia9735]

That is rubbish. Wear the clothes that were made for your sex !!! Simple as ABC for goodness sakes.

[@SpoonedCranium]

@@Chin-su I was trying not to do it, actually. You’re the one getting pressed.

[@lowzies7317]

@@Chin-suidentify politics says fuck that we all need to be angry lol

[@brvhtxxbxk]

God,if men wanna wear nail polish,wanna hit the gym,wear pink, drive sports cars etc... just let them live life,its their life ong

[@sleepykawa09]

Based

[@kuez-ws6kh]

Well aren’t there roles in life? Men are masculine, woman are feminine. Nail polish was made to decorate your nails and make them look better, men don’t need that because their just gonna do heavy work and chip their nails anyway

[@armingleiner5292]

Society needs boundries.

[@sleepykawa09]

@@armingleiner5292 there’s nothing morally wrong with it it doesn’t harm or effect you

[@sleepykawa09]

a standard society should have is to worry about your self

[@thatguydan5867]

Pokimane will just say anything to please her woke audience and then call them broke boys for not buying expensive cookies

[@alexanderwinn7446]

Give me ONE JUST ONE good reason other than “That’s just how it should be” for why men can’t wear makeup, nail polish, pajamas, crop tops. There literally is no reason other than bullshit social standards and expectations that we arbitrarily decided.

[@kadenyt6623]

its been this way for 100s of years stop trying to change things loser

[@plasmakatana8291]

Plus, the standards change all the time. Manly men wore crop tops in the 80s, even in media (He-Man & Liono ) Men wore tights in centuries past. The passing of time doesn't make a style right or wrong. Feeling as though something is wrong based solely on a gut feeling or what you've been taught may be what's wrong.

[@alexanderwinn7446]

@@plasmakatana8291 precisely. It’s all bullshit. There is no “way things ought to be”, it’s just how it is. But that doesn’t mean that is the way is has to be

[@tanushjaison5972]

EXACTLY!!😊

[@TAYLORZACHLANA]

Exactly, makeup was for men first. And not letting them wear pajamas is so stupid

[@scoopishere7881]

“Stop shoving your ideology down our throats” *shoves ideology that people shouldn’t wear what they want down people’s throats* What she was saying was the opposite of shoving an ideology, she’s saying that people should have more clothing options than what society currently thinks is acceptable. Also she’s not saying men wearing feminine clothing should be the new standard, but that it should be just as acceptable as men wearing masculine clothing.

[@narenxdr]

LITERALLYYYYY. I can't get why we can't have both. It's as if we HAVE to choose a side lmfao

[@owl8185]

Yeah they don’t see the norms pushed by current day society as an ideology but they see any change to that structure as being ideological. They completely ignore the fact as you stated that people like Pokimane are advocating for freedom and expression and not any oppressive ideology

[@R11T16_]

She’s basically saying to normalize fem boys/« guys » who want to wear girl’s clothes, which is just stupid

[@DunkYTP]

Exactly. Sick of conservatives saying the left shouldn't shove their ideology down others' throats, when for one, the so-called ideology they're referring to is "do what makes you happy and society shouldn't discriminate against you for it", and two, conservatives are the ones who actually do have an ideology and guess what? They're the ones SHOVING IT DOWN OUR THROATS!

[@wet0wl]

@@narenxdrthe internet can only have two extremes. It’s ridiculous.

[@RevanCanEditTwo]

Pokimane is the kind of girl to get a great boyfriend and then break up with him because she wasn’t feeling like having one

[@herx6339]

Whats the issue with that?

[@Hairlessraisin]

@@herx6339 I don’t think you understand

[@2A_ROCKS_]

@@herx6339 bros just begging at this point

[@tomk8350]

Revannnnnn

[@dbio305]

@@herx6339 Duuude. Girls have said that to my face so many times, and it’s almost never sincere. Most of the time I see them at school the next day getting all close with another dude. It hurts but young dating is mostly to get to know potential options for marriage. I just wish there was honesty.

[@mlau323]

I don't she's not forcing anyone, she's just saying that it should be normal normalize ≠impose, nobody should say "no, you shouldn't wear this bc if u do u aren't a good man or a good lady" If it doesn't hurt you don't have reasons to say its bad. To be fair I would never wear what she says should be normalized, but its true. Also you can't normalize going to the gym, because, if you aren't a bad type of feminist, is already normalized

[@liaminnit]

exactly its not saying "you shouldn't be masculine you must be feminine" its just saying it should be normal and people should feel comfortable wearing whatever they want and we shouldnt judge them

[@lovecraftianwalrus4490]

Let them wear it if they want. It’s not hurting anybody.

[@linda6987]

Nobody wants ANY of this.... thank you Ben!

[@soonahero]

That’s because you’re sexist

[@ajay_b]

don't say 'nobody' because you are one person. you can't speak for everybody in the world.

[@lizardvr9413]

I want it. Nothings wrong with me painting my nails. I’m still the same person, I’m not trying to paint myself more masculine or feminine. I’m still me, just with painted nails.

[@jakelockley4693]

.. No?

[@VD_HPPR]

'Nobody wants this!' I do!!! I want to see more men like this (Not the loud mouth, I mean more men in skirts and nail polish), they're hot as fuck. Love me any kind of person who's confident in wearing what they wanna wear!

[@wolfpackhustler]

“normalize my tier 3 simps and whatever they do so that they’ll keep sending me money”

[@mitchy5994]

Yup, couldn't of said it better myself.

[@ThatShitGood]

Exactly💯sure she don’t wanna lose his army of beta males😂

[@RJ-rp8yd]

Who really cares?

[@sofiaprimera1172]

And she has more money than you too 😂😂😂

[@a_coloradan8689]

And how much u got sofia?

[@jaffajack101]

Normalise men living their life however the fuck they want to and others living their life however they want. Normalise freedom.

[@richardabia9735]

They can live how they want. Wear what they want, But if you put the word "normalize" aka "we can all stick it to the man", that is trying to brainwash other men into dressing ridiculously as well. Which I will always fight against.

[@yipyapfritfrat5028]

How about just letting people do whatever they want? i thought this was the land of the free