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@Raverraver9999 Жыл бұрын
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
@avolynfisher Жыл бұрын
Maybe it's not that you showed you cared that scared them, it's the behavior you exhibited when you didn't care that they either decided was the authentic you or don't believe your caring to be genuine now. Men commonly act cold when they don't want a woman to "catch feelings" or they don't want to lead a woman on. Many women are expecting you to be showing them your genuine self and they'll likely conclude you're not serious or taking your own time seriously (it's a waste of your time too if you're not 100% present in situations involving women), they might conclude you don't have intention or know what you want, that you're really an asshole, or that you are not emotionally available. Many men won't care until the woman is clearly exiting the situation and deciding to go separate ways and then suddenly they care. And it usually feels more out of desperation to keep that woman at arms length
@jeffjohnson50538 ай бұрын
Because Americans has TOOOO MUCH MONEY, and tooo much government welfare programs. In Phillippines, No women would ever dare trash talk their husband or treat their parents with disrespect. They be out in the streets with No food, and no money, and no government help what so ever!! American women are the biggest spoiled brats in history!!
@derekazyan9942 Жыл бұрын
I feel like women are very attracted to me until I start to actually care. Then something changes, I don’t get it…
@ramozj6997 Жыл бұрын
In general Yank birds take it for weakness when you care. I can not act the same way I do here at home ..Oz or in Europe like I do when in Nth America . I have to dial up my aggression in the US . If I did the same thing in Oz I would get my head kicked in or disgust women. I've seen many Yanks fail by being loud aggressive Americans in Oz and Europe.Women literally run from them . I'm known as bit of a American whisperer all I do is be honest and call Yank chicks out if I don't agree with them . Yank birds love kunt game as we call it . I made the mistake of treating Canadian women the same as Oz ..Canadian chicks are also a bit like their American sisters. Overseas it's the humble Yank that wins . US servicmen seem to be better at calibrating their behaviour. The bar scene in the US is aggressive ,it looks like dudes are coming in to fight compared to Oz or UK. Just go overseas and see the difference. Also Oz, EU have a better safety net welfare system.In the US you can be homeless in a blink. This makes for chicks going after more aggressive types to look after them.Add in the US school ,sports culture . Cooper is a online dating guy he is not a pick up guy he looks down his nose at guy who go out in the field
@theeel420 Жыл бұрын
Same happens to me.These are the women that end up wondering where all the good men are.
@derekazyan9942 Жыл бұрын
@@theeel420 yeah it doesn’t make any sense
@404NotFoundIDontCare Жыл бұрын
@@derekazyan9942same… stay closer to indifferent work on being detached.
@ohyabuddy12 Жыл бұрын
Best sex i ever had was with a women i didn’t care about and it’s always been that way for me. The min i care the love or attractiveness fades
@joncarbone Жыл бұрын
I was raised in a traditional home by two great parents. They just celebrated their 50th anniversary. Didn't stop my oldest sister from choosing only scumbags, 5 kids from 3 different men. Some people simply make bad decisions.
@DefiFreedomMaxi Жыл бұрын
our souls chose to incarnate here my friend. Don't judge your sister's path.
@gnryushi Жыл бұрын
@@DefiFreedomMaxi Those are nonsense beliefs.
@andyleung913 Жыл бұрын
Life is weird my friend. Im sure she will eventually realize her bad decisions. We all eventually do
@_baller Жыл бұрын
That's cuz she's black
@steveb8269 Жыл бұрын
@@gnryushi truth is we don't know, however we will eventually
@easyeagle3730 Жыл бұрын
The problem CAN NOT be fixed. Society is off the rails. You can only fix yourself and try to make yourself better. That’s it. Be better. Do better. Get better results….
@peoplearecrazy1798 Жыл бұрын
Don’t give up and don’t vote blue.
@jeffjohnson50538 ай бұрын
Because Americans has TOOOO MUCH MONEY, and tooo much government welfare programs. In Phillippines, No women would ever dare trash talk their husband or treat their parents with disrespect. They be out in the streets with No food, and no money, and no government help what so ever!! American women are the biggest spoiled brats in history!!
@dennyhleucka77866 ай бұрын
Don’t give up but depends on weather your in Canada or the states for the other part.
@omerfarukkaratas27422 ай бұрын
It got fixed in Afghanistan
@WTHPOPLАй бұрын
Wtf is "better"? Who decides and who has the right to judge anyone? Who tf is so perfect that they can say they're "better" than you? You are human who ever needs you to be "better" can suck off a cactus buddy.
@resonate9815 Жыл бұрын
*Liars, cheaters, abusers/psychos, junkies and wannabe gangsters, get all the girls.* The loyal, humble types have no chance. The bar is the worst place to find someone.
@satyakammisra Жыл бұрын
Bar is good for smash n dash - one nighters. Easy and plenty of average chics for grabs. Just look good and be seen with other women. Let your wing woman make the cold approach for you indirectly. You will be amazed how many ladies are h0rny and just want to smash. I know a homeless man in NYC who sleeps with 40-60 hot women in a year!
@gerryvandepol7630 Жыл бұрын
The bars, also known as the discount rack, heat rack, flavour of the week
@barrontrump3943 Жыл бұрын
@@resonate9815 lol tilapia and poop
@andyleung913 Жыл бұрын
See it as a favor to your brother. Do you really want a chick that gravitate towards that anyways??
@IwillEndureToTheEnd Жыл бұрын
You have a huge problem. Why do you even want or are complaining about those kinds of women??? If a woman wants a gangster - my attitude is that she is done. Over. Completely. She will forever be in the bin. But YOU start bitching ...
@LABoyko Жыл бұрын
"People don't want freedom anymore, they want free (stuff)." Your last line summed it up perfectly. Here is my soul, now erase my student loan debt.
@colexovitch Жыл бұрын
It's so true! The western world has changed so much since 9/11
@improvisedsurvival5967 Жыл бұрын
Free stuff trumps empty promises
@kurts6741 Жыл бұрын
Pets expect "free" stuff paid for by someone else.
@improvisedsurvival5967 Жыл бұрын
@@kurts6741 women have no shame being parasites on men. They demand and believe they deserve it.
@HyaenaHierarchy Жыл бұрын
And who wants the most free stuff? Donald J Trump. Gimme gimme gimme. Wah wah wah.
@rancosteel9 ай бұрын
“You can’t stop what coming. It ain’t all waiting on you. That’s vanity” -Ellis from No Country For Old Men
@georgevue8175 Жыл бұрын
3/4 of the kids in my son's Cub Scouts came from single mom homes & I can tell you from 1st hand experience the boys were desperate for a father figure in their life.
@BreezeeGreenz Жыл бұрын
Yes. Been there.
@brianlane95349 ай бұрын
Years ago I was a "Big Brother". I was the man in this boy's life. I stayed within the Big Brother rules. Yet this lady, 40-ish, would call me up and ask if I could take her son... She basically wanted a baby sitter so she could go out and 304. It broke my heart.
@andilegumede8639 Жыл бұрын
Another take is Thuggish men, the Gang members or dudes who're bad don't necessarily have that much of an issue with dealing with women if compared to the so called "nice guys", and a rich thug is most definitely winning. I'm not throwing shade on anyone but what I said is a cold reality and if you're a good dude and you're broke too, you're going to get hurt out here and you'll be invisible so if you know you down bad financially, don't be stressing about women
@biditnow8869 Жыл бұрын
No disrespect to my colored friends, but that is an issue mostly isolated to black women. A disproportionate number of black women seem to be drawn to the thug lifestyle, regardless of their own socioeconomic standing. To compound this, black women very rarely date outside their race. I would know as I've dated two black women myself, while living in a majority black city in the Southeastern United States. This absolutely does not apply to white, middleastern and Asian women.
@Dsmooth__X Жыл бұрын
@Bid It Now there's a ghetto in every country my friend,so white and Asian women are in it too. But if you're talking solely about the USA you're correct.
@timothygibney159 Жыл бұрын
Agreed we should be working. Life is unfair and it angers me women have options but I remember they don't want options lol. They want that one guy who hits the checklist and many die childless waiting for him
@timothygibney159 Жыл бұрын
@@biditnow8869 White women too. One of my colleagues is black and women tell him he acts too white and not black enough when they are disappointed. I refuse to date black women because they are rude and nasty and act like men and get confrontational. White girls get wet over that
@lionface1364 Жыл бұрын
Seen plenty of white and Asian girls being slayed by thugs
@JAYY_JAYY Жыл бұрын
Fellas Don’t worry about women Do your own thing Work , hobbies , travel ,live life If you want a traditional, loyal women go abroad It’s simple
@RR-et6zp Жыл бұрын
also, have requirements, standards and put her to work. Thats how she respects you and loves you
@ernestturriziani2489Ай бұрын
100 PERCENT TRUE
@dragonlord1997 Жыл бұрын
“As soon as you care or show love, they’re gone!” No. Wake up men. They never care about you to begin with.
@stefanocioni25872 ай бұрын
Bingo
@Onlyhereforashortwhile10 күн бұрын
Agreed
@WeaponryFitness22 Жыл бұрын
I don't do bars or clubs so meeting single women has been a challenge. They aren't in the gyms that I go to either. It's either cold approach and suffer 100 rejections or meet a good one through social circles. And No one sets each other anymore these days.
@chadredpill8074 Жыл бұрын
You should try dating apps or online
@WeaponryFitness22 Жыл бұрын
@@chadredpill8074 Dating apps are a time waster, just by knowing the numbers and the quality of women who use it. I'm better off meeting a chick at Target than a silly app with so many catfish.
@theerealatm Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing a while back. It's like nobody introduces you to somebody else anymore. They'll see you single and a good man and no chick will put her friend on to you.
@WeaponryFitness22 Жыл бұрын
@@theerealatm Facts, I suspect they do that on purpose to keep options open.
@easygamingwwiigamingchanne729 Жыл бұрын
Go to places like art clubs or galkeries, movies, join your interest and hobbies clubs. Find someone sharing your interests.
@PREME_MAGAZINE Жыл бұрын
Once you become a good fisherman. You have to throwback a bunch of fish. 😂😂
@cl4417 Жыл бұрын
Ding ding ding 🔔
@giama7618 Жыл бұрын
The problem of dating is that people dont show themselves as They really are . We only get to see an act
@jimbeam7160 Жыл бұрын
Women are a secret sisterhood...their clubhouse is The Hair Salon. They rarely show men who they are....and their girlfriends are the only ones who get the truth. It can become an undeclared war, which is too bad. The culture has promoted sin. This effects men and women. Once can only take communion and confess sins to seek divine grace to sublimate towards a shining light. Shine if you can...purr if you are a cat...wag tails, if you're a dog.
@marionwest36618 ай бұрын
Yup, until it’s too late.
@dannylin59802 ай бұрын
Rich mentioned in a video regarding this. He basically said. You really won’t know someone until you marry that person. Which is bad, cuz once u sign that marriage certificate, ur basically tied down by the government. If divorce happens, it’s gg for the men most of the time 😒
@davem3708 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been divorced 16 months now. Dating as 39 year old male is BRUTAL.
@melaniefyfield7408 Жыл бұрын
In a good or bad way?
@mikethomeas576 Жыл бұрын
Try 51 after a 25 year marriage. It's fng brutal
@davem3708 Жыл бұрын
@@melaniefyfield7408 bad way. Like all thr things women say they want in there profile I feel I am those things and I get very little attention.
@johannesfabender9 Жыл бұрын
I got divorced four years ago.. I am now 65 .. years and try .. to find a serious relationship. I have been rejected by women on seven !! dating sites 300 times ! Dating is very brutal!! That’s why men try to get sex and pay for it. Women.. ignore these brutal facts..!
@Oscarlevy1992 Жыл бұрын
You have my sympathy, it’s the most brutal thing I experienced in my early fifty’s after my first marriage of 31 years ended. I realize you want to find another and feel like you did as a teenager, but life has changed and it’s best to concentrate on your hobbies and not actively look for another(they can sense your eagerness and will run)and eventually when you least expect it someone you can’t resist will come into your life….so they say. 9 years and I’m still waiting…. But not looking.
@andyleung913 Жыл бұрын
Honestly. Thank you rich. If it wasnt for the internet, i would def feel much more alone in this world. Thank you 🙏 2023 is our year gentlemen
@lasiqueiros Жыл бұрын
For me it has been awesome, in a few days will be turning 40 and the attention is to the roof. Do a lot of exercise will you can and let the style help you out. Also do live approaches , not all this tinder and dating apps. You won’t find quality women there. Also be a cool guy, do fun stuff, have fun with life and everything will come together.
@lastcomment2614 Жыл бұрын
Quickest way to fix it is to have a society that doesn't glorify and attach self value to dating and sex. I have traveled to various Asian and European countries, including long extended stays in England and Japan. I think America has a big issue with dating obsession, deluded ideas of what relationships actual are.
@Guidolino1234 Жыл бұрын
Dude, I am from Europe, countries such as the UK are nowadays in no way better than the US in that regard.
@LRS11B11 ай бұрын
I'm 56 and have been married for 33 years. Sad these young men can't find quality women in these times. This is sad. I was talking to my wife last night that our sons, who are in their mid 20s should talk to a coach like you. But, then again, chances are slim they'll find a woman who isn't crazy
@wldwon Жыл бұрын
Not one comment on loving oneself ...the more you love/ like/ accept yourself as a man less you need it from people .....especially women the more you treat yourself with respect and kindness it is easier to see those traits in other people. If your inner dialog is putting yourself down the universe/ your energy will attract the same ........Every decision in life is based on 2 things LOVE or FEAR ...If bad things keep happening to you start being mindful of your thoughts ..what am I thinking and what am I feeling ......I think Gino is living in fear, that he isn't good enough and tries too hard to get love from his wife ....notice how he doesn't say how his wife treats him.....my thoughts ....peace
@troyvan6952 Жыл бұрын
So true... self awareness is very important. Self respect/ love should be the priority.
@shailstube Жыл бұрын
Totally man! I have loved myself and always take care of myself. At 37, I’m dating 22/23 year old chicks. It starts with self-love.
@MrTimjm009 Жыл бұрын
He emphasises How he would die for his wife and kids , He respects his wife etc. Its not what he is saying but that he is overselling and trying to hard to put that out. He is making sure that NO ONE disbelieves that he is a strong man full of honor and respect Does sound like he is sweating
@TDDMS Жыл бұрын
Something that added fuel to American women's narcissism is the fact that many of the traditional male jobs were exported to 3rd world nations. When this happened, many men had to take jobs that were once described as soft-hand jobs. These were the same jobs that had a high female percentage. In this scenario, the females now saw themselves on the same level as the males, which resulted in a distorted female perspective where females now saw themselves as equal to males.
@brianjones3543 Жыл бұрын
bullshit......
@TDDMS Жыл бұрын
@@brianjones3543 Lol
@LuisDiaz-vv1ko Жыл бұрын
Interesting
@DavidtheNorseman Жыл бұрын
Not only that but women tend to look to get a guy at least on an earnings and wealth level with their Dad. Given our economic move to reduce all wages so two people work for what one used to that means a very large number of women will *never* find a mate they'd be happy with. I know one quite well and she just didn't have the looks to get a guy in the financial region of her Dad. She stayed single and is now a CFO for some company and, frankly, I think it was for the best since she would have been miserable with anyone she could have gotten and then made his life miserable. Not just a N. American problem. Saudi Arabia has gone through it, too, as wages peaked in the 1970's ish and a lot of women's Dads made a killing but their generation hasn't been able to do the same. We used to call the Maiden Aunts back in my day - women who had enough money to live without a man but would rather be single than with what their marketplace value dictated they could get.
@mikeg2491 Жыл бұрын
Over 20 years ago my great aunt worked in Walmart as a part-time job after she retired, a lot of her other co-workers resembled her, older, female and their work was more relaxed as they stocked the shelves from a full shopping cart and mostly putted around with time to chat with each other, the bosses weren’t so strict or demanding. Now you go there and it’s a lot of beta-looking men in their mid-20s and early 30s frantically stocking shelves and constantly bringing palettes onto the floor that it becomes almost annoying to shop there because you have to constantly dodge and weave them bringing more merchandise out. It’s a symbol for not only how this is the only career option now for young men without an education but also how massive corporations have put every other retail store under that these companies are proverbial hog farms for the retail trough to feed from that shelves have to be stocked HOURLY to keep up with business. It’s the same phenomenon with the Amazon warehouses which treats workers like on-the-go robots for mediocre wages.
@JimBillyRayBob3 ай бұрын
You get what you let, and You always get what you settle for.
@tyeoutcalt2783 Жыл бұрын
A father close to the daughter you want to date is the number one thing to look at, if you ignore this it will be at your own peril, I guarantee you this like the sun is hot!
@AirForceA7x Жыл бұрын
2:42 this guy is spot on. It starts with family dynamic
@gevans54469 ай бұрын
"Women don't care about a man's struggle. They wait at the finish line and bang the winner." ... So f***ing true.
@stefanocioni25872 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@xavierb4328 Жыл бұрын
I think is natural...and yes... being good looking get you futher in life.
@marionwest36618 ай бұрын
Not always. People often look at attractive women and assume they don’t stand a chance with her. It works the other way too. A hugely attractive man, who women flirt with, are a worrying long term proposition!
@vtmegrad98 Жыл бұрын
Gino is pretty pathetic and oblivious. Does he walk through life, and church, with blinders on? He's seriously making the argument that women get the short end of the stick, and the problem is that men don't want to stick around? Women initiating 80% of divorces doesn't really support his argument. I'm guessing he's taught his son all about his duties to women, but not a woman's duty to his son.
@ohStyyy Жыл бұрын
Yes, good point. Gino is essentially ‘lying by omission’, excluding key facts in regard to the sexual marketplace. Typical trad con, only calling men to the mat rather than women. I’m conservative too, but I understand that most problems are due to women changing the rules, and as men, we need to operate in ‘what is’ instead of ‘what was’. (New vs old order thinking, respectively)
@Stassis Жыл бұрын
I knew what he was about as soon as he traditional values... those times are gone and ain't coming back.
@etopsch369 Жыл бұрын
This statitic is bs. First of all, if it proves anything, it just proves that american divorce laws suck. The stats in europe are different and by our standards , and I am not saying they are correct, american women are unbelievably old school, well at least when it comes to their expections. Secondly, when there is domestic violence the victim will be the one fileing for divorce and not the other way around. Then, this duty thing? What the f.... do you mean? If you see a relaitionship as a sum of duties, then you better get a maid and a hooker. Both are better and cheaper with less headache.
@tonydiesel3444 Жыл бұрын
What he is saying is true but not nowadays we live in different times he would be setting up his sons for failure Sons should be warned at a young age how women operate there will be countless men that go through the young ladies young men need to understand that baby I can't be your Superman do not marry do not impregnate do not cohabitate do not sign a document ever no Co ownership of property ever
@DavidtheNorseman Жыл бұрын
Remember he's also been off the market for a long time. Rich is right in other videos and Kevin Samuels nails it to the wall that 'Christian' feminists are just as bad a deal as the other kinds and have the same fundamental issues. Such women do NOT make good wives. The Christian Church is failing badly on holding women to account for their bad behaviours and in helping young men grow into mature ones with their heads screwed on straight and appropriate self respect. It wasn't that way. The men I remember as a boy were MEN. Kind to their women and children. Dangerous. In firm control of their homes without being tyrants. They pursued excellence like they pursued breathing. Without even thinking about it. Culture has drastically changed....
@sprezzatura8755 Жыл бұрын
Gino is a good man who is applying the paradigm of his youth to the present day. This is dangerous because a transformation has occurred in the last 30 or 40 years. It is time for Western men to move on to greener pastures.
@mikey_nowo29 Жыл бұрын
men compete, women choose absolutely true.💯
@LidoBombs2 Жыл бұрын
Daughters mother wanted nothing to do with a family.. she got knocked up.. split. left me with my daughter for the first 10 years while she dated heroin addicts , one of them actually died of an overdose after being around my daughter.. she started coming back into my daughters life when she became sufficient enough to feed / bath herself . Then, she started keeping her from me for weeks at a time.. ( meaning my daughter went to her grandmothers house, while her mom did the usual shit ) she went to the courts, got full custody. I left, moved out of state, soon ill be out of the country.. havent seen my daughter in 2 years and now she doesnt care to wanna even talk to me, men are disposable.. the guy rich is interviewing has this narrative that the men are pussified and not stand up fathers .. when in all actuality, everything is set up against the man and in favor of the women
@LePatron475 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for you. Yeah, men are disposable, no one is going to help us when sh*t hits the fan. You got to do all the work and the daughter's mother gets to reap the fruits of your labor, while her mom takes care of the daughter and she continues doing the usual sh!t. As men we are on our own. It's no wonder many men are walking away from a rigged system where you lose if you partake in it.
@LidoBombs2 Жыл бұрын
@@LePatron475 my sister is now even raising a son without a dad.. she scammed a dna test when the guy she was with knocked her up, she used someone elses dna to fake the results to make sure he didnt come back as the father, all because she said the guy was too nice… he was even about to accept her other kid from another guy as well.. and the dude was like a 6ft 2 , physically fit spanish looking guy.. he was just too nice she said . Fucking weird . So now her kid has no dad .. and my dad is paying all her bills.. while she lives with him and her 2 kids in a 2 bedroom one bathroom apartment.. independent women
@Fantasyremix Жыл бұрын
Of course we aren’t hearing if there’s anything wrong on your end, but assuming there isn’t anything major, it’s damning that our system favors a drug addict mother over a regular father.
@LidoBombs2 Жыл бұрын
@@Fantasyremix i dont drink / or do drugs . I work out.. and i work… amongst other productive hobbies.. these women , ARE BAT SHIT FUCKING CRAZY.
@LePatron475 Жыл бұрын
@@LidoBombs2 We can learn a lot about women just by observing our sisters' actions. My sister rejected a tall, handsome hardworking guy for a drug addict dwarf whom she became pregnant to. That relationship didn't last long and my mom had to pay for the abortion. Unfortunately my sister didn't learn her lesson from that incident and continued riding the carousel in her 20's and 30's, which resulted in her having at least 4 abortions. Long story short, now she's a 50-year-old alcoholic living on welfare with her cat. The epitome of a strong independent woman.
@eddiediesel9035 Жыл бұрын
Always enjoy your videos Rich. Thank you.
@RavensCloudEmpath Жыл бұрын
Remember going to a UK seaside pub a few years ago with a mate of mine who was a simp and clumsy with women but was incredibly good looking. Within half an hour, 4 women surrounded him, all smiling like pumpkin in milk, he's behaviour or what he said did not matter ..:)...it was so funny...
@luckyjayakody Жыл бұрын
It all boils down to attraction. If we leave aside long-term dating & marriage, an attractive dude who is broke has far greater chance with women than an average looking dude who makes millions. An average looking dude has to do tons of hard work to attract women. An attractive dude has to do nothing to bare minimum.
@Brent-px4rn5 ай бұрын
Back in the late 90s early 2000s I played bass guitar in an upcoming rock band. I was in my 20s when we started to take off. I've never been pretty and actually had damage from a car accident when I was in high school. Face , body scars , I was average. I couldn't beat the girls off of me when I was playing rock star. Had 4big relationships with 10s. Trick was I didn't care about women ,all I cared about was making it big in music. There was no pressure for the girls ,and we were always giving and playing shows. They like adventure and the excitement
@candidyamskickback5514 Жыл бұрын
5:14 men compete women choose 5:25 struggle, bang winners 5:33 king makers 5:44 thinking they are queens 5:52 lack of supply of strong men 6:07 successful masculine guys 6:25 straddled with a faithful loser 6:33 single guy living in moms basement 6:53 lonely single and poor 4:08 stats from single parent households
@johncreedon784711 ай бұрын
Be nice , but not too nice. Care but don't care tho much. Understand this and your good. And always respect yourself
@Dan-xp5ve Жыл бұрын
I like how personal you've made the end of the video
@RollingThunder808 Жыл бұрын
I used to be jealous of the new generations but now it looks like my generation had the best of times. It's going down hill and it's getting worst.
@davidjohnson787 Жыл бұрын
At 4 mins in. I often wonder when Pro NFL, NBA players freak out on a coach or referee, did they come from a single mom home. I know dudes that freak out like this when things don’t go their way and guys that can take the lumps and grow from it. Often this had been the difference but, I can’t say this as a rule. Just an observation and a thought to throw out there.
@Fantasyremix Жыл бұрын
There is more immaturity on display in the NBA and NFL than in MLB, which makes sense since more NFL and NBA players had single moms. Of course, the baseball minor leagues also take longer so it might be fairer to compare maturity levels after the 3rd professional season or something like that.
@Raverraver9999 Жыл бұрын
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created..
@SoldierOfGodKJV9 ай бұрын
Amen. He who has ears to hear, let them hear.
@stevegaines-vq3bd4 ай бұрын
your god, isn't real.....don't push fantasy as reality...
@seangoodwin8759 Жыл бұрын
Damn right Gino. It starts with the family.
@The_Real_JerBear Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad that I’ve learned how to embrace the single, child-free life. I’ve dodged a major bullet. It’s true when they say “hard work pays off,” because my hard work of being undesirable to women has been a job, in and of itself. 😂
@yourmom10269 Жыл бұрын
without children you truly have no future... just waiting to die......
@The_Real_JerBear Жыл бұрын
@@yourmom10269 without them, I have everything I want and more.
@Tamar-sz8ox Жыл бұрын
Peoples consciousness has fallen. If we want a better world , we need to become better people , one person at a time . The desire to change , it has to come from the individual, it’s can’t be any other way . / On a positive note, , People are rethinking relationships , families & their communities . That’s a good thing
@eriksitkerАй бұрын
Does pampering your little princess that doesn’t need no man actually create the problem?
@jamestitman1857 Жыл бұрын
I feel and thoroughly believe that if one doesn't have Jehovah God and Jesus Christ in ones life not mainstream religion then once a man or woman become spiritual mature enough Jehovah God and Jesus Christ will bless them with a mate it beats looking for a wife on dating sites bars or anywhere else
@stevegaines-vq3bd4 ай бұрын
your god, isn't real.....neither is the tooth fairy...
@joeygk11 Жыл бұрын
i watch your channel and am not from single parent household. Good content!
@kurtsmith2699 Жыл бұрын
Podcast hosts always think they need to talk in order to keep the conversation going. Jake doesn’t know how to do this well. Jake, please be quiet.
@tonymaurice4157 Жыл бұрын
Jake acts like a teenage girl
@idonjohnson69995 ай бұрын
So much truth and clarity it makes the brain hurt.
@mthebold2 ай бұрын
To be fair to car manufacturers, all economy cars look the same because they're subject to the same physics and regulations. Engineers converged on the same design because there wasn't much choice. I still agree with your point though. Society chooses boring economy cars because we've been pussified.
@jimmyhook48247 ай бұрын
To Rich's point, modern cars look like Epilady electric shavers. Give me the '69 Charger and the '70 Chevelle!
@RandomDude-l5f4 ай бұрын
Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen.
@waynejenner3635 Жыл бұрын
They get bored with the good guy who's got her back who's got his ducks in a row to go chase and sleep with chad the bad boy, then eventually when the penny drops that chad won't ever change as he's going nowhere by then she's wasted years of her life , she then ends up on the scrap heap, avoid these fakes
@vanzammerz Жыл бұрын
The powers that be. Wanted this and pushed this.
@JoeyStarley9 күн бұрын
You made a good point.The Protocols of the Elders of Zion are swiftly having their effects.
@bradmiller7741 Жыл бұрын
You always bring great points 🩵
@MD-xb1qw Жыл бұрын
The trope that men are knuckle draggers needs to end. Men have created civilizations, laws, technology that sends rockets in orbit. Every guy i know has hobbies that challenge them. They tinker, build, fix, repair s multitude of things in our world. I have yet to find a woman that is that curious. Perhaps women, outside of giving birth, are the real knuckle draggers. I have yet to find a woman that is committed to hobbies or building anything that doesn’t serve them first.
@j.rebekah8605 Жыл бұрын
Keep looking, we are out there. A lot of us have turned vapid because most men want, or we think they want stupid silly girls. We've mostly gone into hiding at this point so keep a keen eye out! Media portrayal of white men as stupid knuckle draggers is about as toxic to the human race as it gets but that's too long a subject to get into.
@DanStratocaster1 Жыл бұрын
Excellent. 😅”men compete, women choose “.
@DanStratocaster1 Жыл бұрын
Too funny. I sell hearing aids for a living. I had a female patient in my booth that was about 65 years old? She came in drove in with her brother. She’s overweight and literally had blue hair. I wonder why?
@tonymazz17216 күн бұрын
"Women don't care about a man's struggles, they wait at the finish line and then bang the winner" That's awesome!
@boc413 Жыл бұрын
Ultimately, the meme of equality is in control
@hopeinsf Жыл бұрын
do the work - become a strong virtuous man who is wealthy and fit
@thinkforyourself7262 Жыл бұрын
Amazing stuff, awesome. Thank you so much.
@salaweysage3060 Жыл бұрын
A woman would rather share a high-value man than be straddled with a faithful loser.....mic drop
@stefanocioni25872 ай бұрын
I start to see random people, strangers, very differently; confidence and success is very apparent in some people (or lack of it); so as men we must attain a self confidence in order to be attractive; looks are not enough; women are attracted to wealth no doubt, but confidence is critical also
@cl4417 Жыл бұрын
It’s a numbers game and may the best men win, that’s nature for ya, we are nature , not above it!
@zorngottes1778 Жыл бұрын
I come from a traditional family and I am.watching Your channel
@theYguy300 Жыл бұрын
I actually like a girl who goes to my church. Comes from a 2 parent household, is the baby of the family (I’m the oldest in mine), and dresses modestly. She’s got pouty full lips, an hourglass figure, sports a DD-Cup with a popping booty. She’s also around 5’0 tall. She has a very small friend group from what I can tell, and never posts provocative pics on Social Media (she’s on TikTok, FB, YT, & IG). In fact the one she’s most active on, she just posts fandom crap or Simps for boy bands whereas with the rest, have hardly any pics of her. The times she has gone to concerts, she was still more covered up than a nun lol (I check her live feed anonymously to get a better idea of who she is and to see if she’s putting on a conservative front or not). So far the only questionable things about her that aren’t necessarily red flags but draws questions is she changes hair color often, something I’ve noticed her mom got her into since a ridiculously young age (mom and older sis dyes their hair too), she’s Goth (worships Billie Eilish and tries to mimic the 1000 C*ck stare but fails miserably at it and just looks awkward), from what I can tell never had a BF, and she does girl trips with her mom, sister, bestie, and sister in laws but they don’t drink, go to any clubs, nor travel to big cities or out of country (either goes to parks, museums, catches chick flics at theater or home, and once in awhile go see boy bands). Anyways I’ve kept my options open the entire time since I’ve laid eyes on her BUT it’s hard to not want to develop oneitis for her since most of the girls/women I’ve dated thus far have been considerably broken and flawed. She’s got horrible approach anxiety and only attends church if her bestie tags along. I have tried saying hi in the past but she always turns beat red and we’ve had 2 encounters where I could tell she was a nervous wreck (her voice breaks). I’ve caught her looking but the fact she’s gonna be 20 and I’m gonna be 32 has me constantly hesitating. Anyways sorry for long comment but wanting to get people’s idea on what I should do.
@oooooooooooo2332 Жыл бұрын
Dude, go for it! Remember that your mindset is what its holding you back, there is nothing wrong with that age gap, in fact... its perfect. Go get the girl and reply back homs:
@caterinadelgalles8783 Жыл бұрын
The hair thing is a hobby. I sm 41, almost sexless life good looking woman. I am very shy and anxious with men. So much so, I am always alone. Try to befriend her 1st. ...and keep us posted! Good luck! Sounds like she could have a crush ;)
@Southernguitar745 ай бұрын
You have to lead. Be a man she can look up to, and that starts with being ballsy. Chat her up and don’t hesitate. Attitude is everything. If you are not 110% confident her intuition will smell it a mile away. Be a man. Also, don’t consider her a candidate for “oneitus”. It sounds as though you barely know her. Good luck
@frommycoldhands4 ай бұрын
Real Talk: I view these links mucho and I enjoy them, occasionally I may learn a thing or two.. I had a new thought while listening to this one this time. I am now interpreting these links as the viewers(myself etc) are hearing these mens’ opinions and suggestions speaking as if their attempting to guide men how to change by using words that on the surface come across as men being independent but are actually encouraging men to change subliminally.. 🤷🏽♂️ How I’m currently interpreting these voices. I could be wrong of course.. I don’t believe I am though.
@Onlyhereforashortwhile10 күн бұрын
No solution. Just learn, understand how this works and act accordingly
@n3rdpl0w Жыл бұрын
What about what happens to kids with 1 single parent and the other with a step parent?
@BLKBETE11 Жыл бұрын
Chase excellence not women… Eventually, quality women will appear.
@markseawell26842 ай бұрын
Wow! The last couple of minutes of this clip!!
@Dsmooth__X Жыл бұрын
.....so being friendly and nice to a woman is seen as weak and it doesn't lead to a beautiful relationship anymore....Got it,this world is finished.
@tonycrouse6544 Жыл бұрын
Women are drama addicts. You have to surprise sometimes - keep them guessing. Being overly nice is too predictable. Be the sweet guy occasionally. Not too often.
@Dsmooth__X Жыл бұрын
@Tony Crouse not overly nice,but being a shit head isn't great either lol. Is what it is.
@LEGOAgenda Жыл бұрын
I personally think it’s AI and fake news being spread around by idiots around that being nice /good is weak. So people are believing the lie. Why would anyone want to have a family with a Loser who is not good/nice. They whole point of a family is to be kind and love lol
@LEGOAgenda Жыл бұрын
I will never change for anyone. If there are no nice men left then what will society be left with ? Animals
@LEGOAgenda Жыл бұрын
This is coming from a 24 old who is very fit and do weight lifting and above average looks yet single lol . I included that in case someone comments saying incel or something 😂
@dwtees Жыл бұрын
A tesla model S will blow your McClarin away Rich sad but true. Maybe electric is the way of the future but they will start charging us a much for battery charges as much as fuel cost. Great video as always. Keep em coming. Young men need to be educated.
@redmoonspider Жыл бұрын
Down the rabbit hole we go.
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
Down the rabbi hole we go ( o.o)
@robertbowen5457 Жыл бұрын
The guy talking over Rich every time he gives a response gave me an aneurysm. Couldnt even watch the vid. Annoying.
@diaryofacarny4 ай бұрын
58, never married, no kids. I work out, I'm still strong and get women, I don't let them get me.
@alexanderlane6007 Жыл бұрын
Really great show
@Robusquet4 ай бұрын
"I'm assisting, helplessly, at the race toward the spiritual death of all Mankind. No gift on my behalf, no godsend, no recall, no chastisement could prevent this spontaneous capsizing, into Satan, of Humanity saved by me." - Jesus to Maria Valtorta, 9 April 1944.
@advocatewalia4316 Жыл бұрын
Where do I see the whole episode?
@natureloverbangladesh Жыл бұрын
To the lonely and single man! Hey when you meeta girl will you accept that she has a pining for the chads,giga chads? You are good and peace in single life..do you want to be the second option? Believe me the very good women with no visible BF would still will be talking or pining for something. It is a sorrow man!believe me it hurts more...embrace singleness and find your purpose and meaning of life..Take women an option..be ready to be dumped anytime any situation..You have nothing to loose or gain..they are just temporary
@Kurio71 Жыл бұрын
technology has made the world a lot easier except dating for men
@TheSunBlaster Жыл бұрын
The Jake guy should learn how to listen and stop interrupting. I cant listen to this podcast for more than 5 min because of lack of basic respect in conversions.
@edward19022 ай бұрын
Don’t be anti-Semitic now Rich, we know who’s in control
@althunder42699 ай бұрын
1:20 "Young men struggle to make a connection with women, we ..." so this middle aged guy that should be married and have teen aged kids thinks he's a young man? These dating "expert" guys who are single themselves just crack me up.
@mp8310 Жыл бұрын
Imo it was the mid 2000s is when the tide changed for men. Look at movies like Knocked Up, 40 Year Old Virgin as an example.
@williamj4538 Жыл бұрын
Rich with the mic drop 🎤 💥
@tonymaurice4157 Жыл бұрын
Jake is annoying
@Cas_anova Жыл бұрын
Why are these other two dudes providing chaotic noise in this clip?
@rarecockneyguvnor49452 ай бұрын
Rich is DA man.
@bigmig7877 Жыл бұрын
Great teachable moment! Appreciate the knowledge and insight.
@amywoodbury86386 ай бұрын
I agree with the father of the daughters he spot on as a woman my father was wonderful love me unconditionally stand-up, classy man. That’s what I look for in a guy. I don’t have those trades. I’m not interested. I don’t even give them time a day besides maybe a friendship. He is completely right and if you guys don’t back up, then you are giving the wrong information.
@BMXyamabushi Жыл бұрын
Ye knows who's pulling the strings
@flobba1235 ай бұрын
im gonna be a man that ---> work hard ---> become disciplined ---> get the things i want
@paulosilva557 Жыл бұрын
Excellent debate
@givanniredpill Жыл бұрын
Adapt and become this man
@fsmoura Жыл бұрын
10:05 _"...and so they pushed society into weakness and degeneracy-"_ _"Who's 'they'?!?"_ _"Whoa whoa whoa! Let's cool it with the anti-semitic remarks! I need to keep this channel!"_ ( oДo)
@ulrohermit1369 Жыл бұрын
The first modern dictator of Iran offered iranins free shet over their freedom 40 years ago , and now we have neither freedom nor free stuff in fact we are starving . so take it as you will
@matthewsetzer362 Жыл бұрын
Saw a girl at my job today that was absolutely gorgeous. She is a foreign girl. She had a sweatshirt on that simply said queen. On the front of the shirt in cursive writing.
@matthewsetzer362 Жыл бұрын
It was definitely not the band we all know what that was referring to sadly.
@barryc9115 Жыл бұрын
Don’t waste your time, at least she’s advertising and saving you time
@SebastianKunysz Жыл бұрын
Good video.
@ciaranmac8689 Жыл бұрын
I'm 46 5-8 fit always kept fit don't have much money I work been with the same woman 20 years we have 4 girls I was never scared what people thought I was always confident in my self so what he saying here is not a 100% I'm not scared of what happens I deal with it.
@KayZenShoGün Жыл бұрын
The link to the full podcast isn't showing. It's just a blank space.
@flyovrcntry6425 Жыл бұрын
Read "The Psychology of Totalitarianism" by Mattias Desmet . It answers many of your questions. It's also MUCH more than the title suggest.