This Wasn't Part Of The Plan | Moving To New Zealand

[@AlexanderAyling]

The coleslaw is on point!!! Your ability to share these moments is such a gift. Thank you for being you ❤️

[@user00616]

LOLLL 🤍

[@heyabbyrey]

awww this is so sweet!

[@maria-pk8zu]

I feel like this is just... living. Taking risks, and going through unexpected things, and still feeling courageous and vulnerable but learning through everything and being able to rely on others to stay on top on things. Thanks for sharing the raw and real, it really helps us go through stuff because in the end, under different circumstances we are all living the same experience. Wow that got so intense haha.

[@CarrieRad]

Wow. I love this comment so much. So. So much.

[@mildreck86]

This reminds me of a quote by the spanish aurthor Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra: “Until death it is all life” . Life means living, and life has a spectrum of elements. Thank you Carrie for showing us this. >3

[@Natalie-ng5wt]

Finding a forever home takes years for some people here in NZ, and isn't always the first home you buy. I had so much resistance to that initially, feeling like I shouldn't have to compromise on buying my forever home on the first go. But we were beginning to be priced out...so we had to compromise, and bought a place that isn't our forever home so that we can get on the property ladder at all, to be able to buy our forever home later. I recommend being flexible rather than rigid about how you go about house buying...getting to your forever home here may be a journey rather than a destination 💜

[@ambermariemarie9704]

This is such a wonderful bit of advice. As homeowners in NZ we were exactly the same, but the journey is exciting too.

[@kirry5497]

Wonderful piece of advice, totally agree on this here in Australia.

[@ambermariemarie9704]

As a kiwi I personally reckon you can replace Bobs your Uncle with “and there you go”. Meaning, it’s sweet, all done, it is what it’s supposed to be.

[@juneterry8487]

Carrie, I have a lifetime behind me and have endured many disappointments while trying to find the 'perfect' home. I learnt very early on that there is no 'perfect home' on the market. I've had to make compromises and I'm now in my ninth property that I've owned over a period of many decades. The biggest lesson I learnt was to be very fixed on the things about a place that you can't change, e.g. location, property and/or house size, weather etc. On the other hand, things that you can change are another thing altogether, e.g. the general aesthetics of a place, trees, gardens, house colour, internal decoration. You can change these to suit your own taste. I found that being willing to compromise on the changeables, reduces the stress enormously, and widens the landscape of choices just a tad. Keep up the search and the right place will yours before you know it.

[@emeraldheartedgirl]

The cinnamon role thing seriously had me cracking up! Thank you for another lovely video Carrie! Also, 'Bob's your uncle' gets used over here in the UK too :) it kind of means 'and there you have it' or 'it's done'. absolutely no clue why we say it though hahaha

[@rttheo7327]

Just binge watching Alex's channel, but thought I should view yours as they experiences are linked. I like the contrast of styles between channels, the NZ Vlog experiences compliment each other.

[@sarahfox3312]

The housing market in New Zealand is crazy! Your frustration and the difficult process is real. Good luck. All good things come to those who wait 👍🏽

[@mdnickless]

It really isn't the best time to be buying in New Zealand. It seems that everyone wants to live here, but there are just not enough homes to go around.

[@marcusjones3573]

😳 really! Don't they buy Alt coins to help ease off housing issues and compound frustrations? It's a pity tho

[@Battleneter]

@@mdnickless With interest rates at all time lows this is a math $$ problem , LOCAL property investors are the main cause of this insane so called "demand" not the all time low tiny volumes of people moving to NZ due to Covid boarder restrictions. Many people realise its entirely pointless having cash in the bank as it sits there getting murdered by inflation with no return, and of course a good portion of these are more comfortable in property rather than the overheated share market. Excessive money printing (mainly the US) is to blame and yes it effects the NZ property market, its a big topic to understand.

[@GTS300Coupe]

Canada real estate is getting really bad too. Most houses around Toronto are over 1 million dollars with some already 2-3M+

[@Battleneter]

@@GTS300Coupe Of course it is, what is the mortgage rates in Canada for local property investors?, what's the interest rate on saving basically zero. Everyone is speculating on residential property and of course the share market.

[@Tom_McMurtry]

Your videos are some of the calmest on youtube. Thanks for the peace :) Even through discussing difficulty, there is a calm steel and determination there, and talking with it helps us with processing life too.

[@MyraHart1943]

Carrie! I really appreciate you sharing your experience and perspectives on your move because my bf and moved to Idaho from Florida in March and while it has been riddled with disappointments, it has also been very rewarding and WORTH IT. I'm also trying to bring optimism and gratitude into my everyday mindset so hearing you share that you do too reinvigorated me and let me know I'm on the right path. And p.s. we got the 3rd house we offered on and it was the best of the 3 houses... when you finally get your home it will be Glorious!!! Bob's your uncle! :)

[@earth_lover1715]

All the best with your journey. You may feel disappointed, however life can only be understood backwards, but must be lived forwards. The right one will appear.

[@chelsiterry804]

I seriously love watching your videos. You are just so genuine and a breath of fresh air. I want to second the comments you were saying you got on here. I had TONS of heartbreaks in my house hunting journey. Like, tons. However, when the one came around that was the one the finally worked for me, it was FAR more than all the other I thought I loved. It has been completely renovated and had an amazing yard with huge trees and was on a quiet cul-de-sac. I had been looking at fixer uppers and never thought I could have a house as nice as I got. So, I’m sure you will have a story like that once you find YOUR home. It’s a rollercoaster of a journey, that’s for darn sure. I love your positive outlook on it though. Thanks for bringing us along the journey with you. I’m so excited for you all to find the one. ❤️

[@user00616]

Yes!!! I would love an in depth video / series about all that y’all have been through. I know it sucks but it will alllll be worth it when you get your perfect home. Love y’all. 🤍

[@isabelletubes]

You should make a video about how you have made your temporary space feel cozy and like a home when it feels transitional

[@lynette1717]

Thank you Carrie, I love this type of video from you. Even though I’m 65, been there done that. I’m learning from you. I find it extremely interesting listening to your thoughts and point of view, and that goes for Alex too. Haha an old dog can still learn new tricks 💕

[@jamiecarter2192]

Aww guys - I feel for you! I'm glad you guys are staying positive and motivated. It WILL happen for you. You just so happen to have moved here during a major housing crisis, it's tough out there! My partner & I have put off our house hunt in Wellington as it's just crazy. My cousin was searching for a whole year. But, she found her dream house and is so happy now. It will happen guys, and can't wait to hear all about it when it does! Kia kaha xx

[@KyleighJanee9]

Thank you for the reminder that it's always about the journey and not the destination (and that life happens and things don't always go according to plan & THAT'S OK!) Seriously...I needed that.

[@melindaleander4748]

The New Zealand vlogs are my favorite 🖤

[@paranoolvidarte12]

I am so excited for the video when you share your new house. It will be amazing!!

[@leiyaminsoe]

The timing is important. Even we tried so much, if the time is not yet, we can’t proceed ahead. But when the timing comes, you can’t even stop, it will happen so fast. But one thing that’s so sure is that you will get the best for you. Take time, be relaxed and cheer up.

[@noelcarter2100]

I totally agree a house buying process definetly helps you grow as a couple. My husband and I, grew so much when trying to buy our first home . It fell through as we were closing on the house . It was so hard because we were inches away. But, it was humbling and it just means it wasn’t meant to be. God has something bigger and better planned 😀

[@jbhifiq]

I wish you both all the best. The market here in NZ is absolutely crazy right now! We cannot buy here yet as we are not residents. We're currently waiting to get our skilled migrate visas. We've been waiting for a case worker since September 2019. Hopefully soon we'll get it. Then in two years we can become residents. I look forward to that day. Until then, we remain thankful for all we have seen in the past three years. We love living in NZ, raising our sons here. We keep taking leaps of faith; moving from Canada with three sons and a dog to the north island; moving to the south island; changing jobs...and it just keeps getting better. Our future may be cloudy at the moment, but its worth climbing this mountain for. Someday, through faith and hard work, the views will be amazing. It will be for you too. You have the right attitude.

[@annajoie700]

You have such a calming and positive spirit and energy about you, Carrie and the lessons that you share with us and teach us are always so enlightening and empowering!! Thank you! 👏🏼💛

[@georginawheller7758]

would love to see a vid on all of the phrases youve heard and learnt/things kiwis do or mannerisms youve adopted/picked up while being here!!

[@emmagq]

I love all potatoes, especially in fry form! Thanks for the video, it’s nice to have someone to relate to through these times

[@stephenieriniel9854]

There’s a really architecturally interesting property around the corner from me in Whangarei for sale at the moment, it needs some work but it’s such a cool house with a massive avocado tree which is a bonus. I’m not sure if you’re interested in living in Northland, but it’s there if you want to check it out! All the best with your ongoing house hunting ❤️

[@Tom_McMurtry]

Hope they see this!

[@lizadelph]

The last segment of your video brought me to happy tears🥺🥰 it made me think about all of the wrong things that have happened and plans falling through leading to such a wonderful happy and grateful me. I’m so proud of who I am and I wouldn’t be who I am without all of the muck I had to crawl through. Thank you for these videos💛 they are so inspiring and I feel honored to be a part of your life on the internet!

[@gnomeway2]

The housing market is crazy EVERYWHERE. And when you're a 1st time homebuyer, each decline is hard. You will find a house, that will be perfect for both of you and it will be everything you dreamed about. Just remember to see past the paint and other cosmetic features that can be changed! Good luck!!

[@pippinrocks]

Good on you Carrie! We looked at 23 houses before we got our home. I’m getting new carpet and vinyl out in and it’s great to really make this our own!

[@patriciawoodward9121]

Thank you so much for all your videos! Thank you for being honest about what is really going on in your life. I love you.

[@angelap32]

You will definitely get the house of your dreams it's just not available to you just yet so don't give up hope because when I watch you and your husband's videos always inspire hope. You guys put out the greatest content I love both of you you guys are such gems❤❤

[@CatzMarina]

I love the way you see life and how you follow your gut and embrace challenges. You are really inspiring in that sense and I find it so interesting how you seem to perfectly balance peace and "craziness" (in a good way) 💛

[@francescathomas3502]

I know what you mean about wanting your own space!! And wanting to be settled!! When I was a kid, I lived in 7 different houses and addresses before I was 19 years old. I have been fortunate in my marriage that my husband and I have had a steady home address and my son has lived in the same home for all of his 19 years!!! Children have stability when they dont have to move. I hated it every time we had to move when I was a kid. After I left home, I was moving even more because I had to change flats (apartments) on a somewhat irregular basis. That all stopped after I got married, thank goodness. I have been so blessed to finally have some stability!!

[@hispid1]

"Bob's you Uncle and Fanny's your Aunt" = kinda equals "et voilà!". Its a phrase used in the UK and Oz as well.

[@liljoanne89]

Yes I was going to say too, it’s used in the UK.

[@6DenimShirts]

and Canada!

[@jessicalyon6332]

@@6DenimShirts I'm in Ontario and I grew up hearing my grandparents say it all the time.

[@susanhammond2724]

🤣No cinnamon in the cinnamon rolls. I forgot the bacon in my bacon and egg pie once. I am reminded about this by my family quite often.😁 My dad often used to say "Bob's your uncle. Oh yes and I hope your search for a home brings you the house of your dreams.

[@jazminesflour]

UGH your videos are like comfort food

[@ninadias5811]

We've been looking in SoCal for the last 6 months, and its the same situation. There are so many offers coming in, specifically with over 700K in straight up CASH. The housing market is not doing well and I don't mean that negatively, just that the right one will come through. Just not right now. It's like this all over the U.S. at the moment. Folks sweeping in with millions in cash on the west side (Santa Monica, Mar Vista). It will get better though!!! It's just crazy competitive right now. Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerabilities and hardships, Carrie. Can very much relate but here to let you know that it will work out!!

[@oddcouple8164]

Sometimes in life its better not to have a plan. Thank you for the update Carrie!

[@jonas.zehnder]

Thank you for keeping us posted and sharing the good and the bad situations you’re going through with the house hunting etc... This teaches me a lot of things because I‘m planning on moving abroad in the future (probably NZ because of you lol). You’re such a wonderful person I love listening to your stories and following your journey.

[@kingtash9699]

love your videos carrie! they’re so inviting and real. your soul is wonderful. ❤️

[@theroyalclaire]

Instincts/Gut feelings are so wonderful aren't they? I am a kiwi and found yours and Alex' channels through your caravan vlogs! Instantly started following on Insta and watching both y'alls vlogs. You are both so inspiring and I am so pleased to have found you. Your perfect NZ home will make itself available to you soon enough x

[@meredithclement5381]

Feel for you! We have been trying to buy something in Wellington NZ for 18 months now. It’s rough out there!

[@selinamrz3600]

I just enjoy watching your videos sooo much & your positive radiant energy! Sending love to New Zealand :)

[@Moira1309]

moving to another country is for sure not easy and it will take time to adjust. I moved in 2011 to New Zealand and it took me 1 year to feel at home. I was very much homesick. I just moved back to The Netherlands were I am originally from and I already miss New Zealand a lot after living in New Zealand for 10 years. We are going to life here for 2 years and than we will be moving back to New Zealand.

[@trloveslife8132]

Both of you have such a beautiful outlook and it’s inspirational. Keep your spirits up and remember.. All in good time 💗👍👍

[@rollyrolly7729]

Keep at it Carrie. Don't become despondent or dejected it will happen. The housing market is wild at the moment. Don't forget whatever you end up paying the price won't go down. Arohanui

[@kawtaramrani9507]

Carrie i love your outfits! Please consider making fashion videos they’ll be a treat 💕

[@michaelheliotis5279]

For context on how competitive the NZ housing market is at the moment, the number of houses on the market is the lowest it's been since the 60's. It's partly because of demand outstripping supply but also because, until a few months ago, the Reserve Bank's interest rates allowed for easy financing that was supposed to stimulate the economy in the wake of COVID but ended up stimulating the housing market instead, so tons of houses got bought up.

[@LauraGonzalez-ef9je]

I was having a very hard time today. Thinking about leaving home for the first time as I’m moving to another country and this video and your advice and words really helped Thank u ☺️

[@nannajaysadventures]

I love normal chips but also love some kumara chips. There is a little fish and chip shop in Muriwai Auckland that makes the best Kumara chips

[@Mikeyorself]

"Bob's your uncle" you're all set, all done, you're sweet!

[@parkertiger9545]

Awesome watching you and Alex's journey = Without struggle - there is no progress - Kia Kaha to you both

[@gsrekem]

Hi Carrie! It’s very interesting for me to watch your story because my husband and I have coincidentally have a similar story. He is kiwi and I’m American, he’s been living with me in America for seven years. I also want to add that our wedding was also canceled due to Covid. We decided to finally move to his home and we arrived in December of 2020. We came here with the intention of buying a house and just as we arrived the housing market went nuts. We also have been living in temporary places for six months now. We live in Auckland for work, which was not the plan. My husband is from Wellington and we thought we’d be living there where all the family and friends live. It has been extremely challenging and has tested our relationship. Unfortunately because we can’t live the idyllic lifestyle we thought we would be living mixed in with no longer being able to afford a house here, we’ve decided to go back to America. Thank you for sharing your story, struggles, and hopes. I enjoy your videos and it’s been helpful being able to relate to someone with a similar story to my own. Good luck and I hope you find your dream home!

[@jennabonnichsen]

Hey, do you want to buy a house in USA then? What about going to Wellington? Can you stay with some friends or family there just to try?

[@kaylaknorowski8427]

i can't choose i love both sweet potato and regular ! thank you for sharing all of these moments

[@queens6583]

I love both kinds of fries. I'm so excited for every adventure you and Alex bring us along on and I'm looking forward to seeing the house you'll pick. Lanka is so cute!

[@MsWickham]

Naw, the seller of the last house told me about your KZbin. I hope you find something you love, it’ll happen when the time is right. It took us 5 years to find the home we love. We also had freedom to choose anywhere, and when the house was right, everything fell in place. Kia kaha

[@lyndafitzgibbon6393]

Hi Carrie just got to watch ur video now was working very early ..i think ur very brave ...positive person ..something gud will turn up for ye ..take care Carrie 💞❣

[@maryellendillon4469]

Thanks for sharing your journey with us. You will find the right place.

[@kadingtonmusic]

Your positivity to your situation is so damn inspiring, Kia haha.

[@jenniferspoor2402]

Bob’s your uncle is also said in Canada

[@meerarajasooriar8342]

And the UK!

[@Torsee]

Love hearing about your adventure! Keep after it!

[@annatattersall249]

Figuring out house buying in NZ is a process! It’s so different than I’m used to in Canada. I went to a house auction the other week and that was wild! It’ll all work out though!

[@itsgivingbougie]

Older people say and bobs your uncle in Canada too. I think it might be from the UK. Just means and you’re good to go/all sorted.

[@itsgivingbougie]

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob%27s_your_uncle

[@kaylawilliamsmusic]

Yep that's a phrase in Canada too, you guys are so cute 💓

[@capturedbyannamarie]

The house hunting thing is so crazy in a lot of places apparently. Here in the US it’s nuts. I have heard the same in Australia as well.

[@starsdaisuki]

Hi Carrie❤️ I love all these updates. Fan you do more food recipes when things settle down?

[@shalanejones3892]

Welcome to the frustrating world of house hunting in NZ and Australia! It’s such a crazy market in both these countries... we are on our 18th month of house hunting and we don’t even have a tight budget, it’s super competitive and a very different scene to the states. Sending good vibes and hope you find your next home really soon! 🤞🏽

[@mariatomlinson2551]

Hope you both find your dream home soon, Love your meals

[@Chandra_allen_R]

We are going through the same thing I’m not willing to settle you’ll find it when it’s right.

[@Natalie-ng5wt]

Also, have you heard "and Fanny's your aunt"? Because that is an addition to the statement "Bob's your uncle" that is sometimes said also in NZ (but less commonly!).

[@anjalibhat14]

I adored this video and applaud you on your ability to navigate that balance between being vulnerable and honest with your audience and keeping some of your challenges in finding a house offline so you can tackle it with your full attention. And I’m not Kiwi, but I do know many Brits and people from various Commonwealth countries in my life who use “Bob’s your uncle!” to mean something close to “et voila!”, “and there you go”, or the American phrase “piece of cake!” Like, if you were showing someone how to make grilled cheese, for example, you’d say, “Just place some cheese between two slices of bread, place in a pan with some butter, let the cheese melt and Bob’s your uncle, you’ve got a grilled cheese sandwich!” 😊🥪

[@flangekiwi]

Just understand that the housing market in Aotearoa is tight. As you are a new buyer into the market, not an existing home owner looking for a change, you are adding more pressure on that market. 🤷‍♂️

[@erinblythe7497]

You seem so close, we are staying in Kuratau😊 yes the housing market is a bit crazy at the moment. It will happen!

[@gozwal]

I really enjoyed this video... Listening to you is amazing!

[@noormousa11]

🤣 it's ok baking is not easy ! Being present as well !♥️😜 Lol ! sending u love C and hope u will find ur home soon ,i can't wait when u do and start ur creative process.i just love ur vibes i wish one-day I find a friend like u.

[@Kat-dw5xk]

Bobs your uncle is a Canadian saying too!! Love your vlog xx

[@laurapullin8912]

We say ‘Bob’s your Uncle’ in Australia, kind of meaning ‘voila’ or ‘perfect’.

[@mirandaavila1231]

this video was absolutely beautiful 💛:)

[@beatorrespereda]

New Zealand is so beautiful!! Love your videos so much 🙂

[@Lovesongcalls]

Hoping all the best for you! ❤️

[@11montmont]

Thing's don't always work out out as they were supposed to. Look at the Cinnamon Rolls. Apparently they tasted ok and they made an interesting blog story. The next Cinnamon Rolls will be perfect...just as you wanted them.

[@ImpulseKombucha]

"bob's your uncle" is deeeeefffffiinitely british. Lot's of stuff like that (not all) in NZ comes from the uk

[@SweetHeavensSunshine]

I know the feeling of disappointment. I put on offers on three homes that fell through, plus looked for the right home over the span of several years. But, I finally found a beautiful home, that is so much better than the other homes I had looked at, and it was so worth the wait! I’m glad the other ones didn’t work out, because then I wouldn’t be in this one. I ended up doing a new build. That might be something for you guys to think about? You don’t have as much upkeep and maintenance to do upfront, and you can design exactly how you want. Often times older homes have a lot of repair and maintenance, and history that may not always be exciting. You’ll be able to pick out your own beautiful plot of land exactly where you want it- and hire a designer.

[@emilymartin1757]

I'm canadian and we use the phrase bob's your uncle! I had no idea it was a thing in NZ too haha also I do actually have an uncle bob so that's fun

[@punchpineapple]

We say "Bob's your uncle" in Australia, too; I think we have a few shared phrases. And yeah, it means what your husband said.

[@thomaspscanlan]

'Bobs your uncle' is also said in Ireland. And followed up by saying 'Fanny's your aunt'

[@pandawannabe]

The belated cinnamon roll realization 🤣🤣🤣 so relatable!

[@ianh2674]

It is all character building! Plans need to be flexible to be able to succeed with them.

[@mattmoir1567]

Bobs your uncle means Done and dusted enjoying the vids from both of you currently living in Gizzy so the last vid came as a recommended video from you tube

[@angelaknipe1728]

Good luck with the house hunt! As a brit, I know "Bob's your uncle" as a very UK saying meaning generally "there you have it!" Such as giving instructions like a recipe - add this, add that, mix it, bake it and "bob's your uncle." Of course Bob's not your uncle if you forget the cinnamon in your cinnamon rolls :)! Personally, I think you probably improved the recipe by making sugar rolls instead though.

[@Emma181297]

I'm Northern Irish and we also say "Bobs your uncle" when a jobs done or something's been fixed/sorted But sometimes I've also heard "and Fanny's your aunt!" In reply if it's a two person job. Could be a UK thing?

[@TFYMnot_avaliable]

Well new Zealand history is like 80% made by the UK

[@triplestrokesurivor5862]

I have a few friends looking at mini houses in nz as the market is madness. And one up the north island has a bus

[@CD-vw3vg]

😂😂😂 had to pause the video and comment on the cinnamon❌ correction, on the rolls.. too funny

[@pepta]

Really enjoyed this video! It looks like the North Island is your chosen region? You haven't thought of the South Island at all? Or maybe the warmer climate up north is more your thing?

[@joannewinter7879]

Love all your posts Carrie. Coleslaw looks delicious 😊👏🙋‍♀️

[@xjessicamaryx]

‘Bob’s your uncle’ is also very British!

[@Melissa-px9jq]

and used in Australia!

[@xjessicamaryx]

@@Melissa-px9jq There are so many parallels with the UK and AUS though it’s wild!

[@kadiyahsjournal]

Continuing to send positive vibes as you both search for your home. Regular fries please!

[@cutiizzy]

I feel such a pull to move to NZ, I’ve never visited a country where I feel so at peace and at home and just truly where I belong (for context I was born in the UK but moved to Aus when I was a teenager). But it would mean ending an almost 4 year relationship as my partner runs his own business where we live and he can’t and doesn’t want to just up and move. So it’s so so scary to me, but yet I can’t get rid of that little voice that keeps telling me to do it anyway. Lucky enough to be doing a 3 week road trip by myself on the South Island in a couple of months and I feel like it might be the final push I need to move. Love love love your videos Carrie, your rawness and vulnerability is everything so thank you ❤️

[@اعقلهاوتوكل-س1ح]

Just follow your heart :)

[@NZKiwi87]

I live in Nelson, I’d be more than happy to meet for a coffee when you’re here ☺️

[@cutiizzy]

@@NZKiwi87 hey! Would love to! Where can I get in touch with you?

[@geecee1288]

I'll swap you, I live in NZ born here, but I have a huge pull to Australia 😊

[@NZKiwi87]

@@geecee1288 one for one, seems fair - straight swapsies? 😅

[@jessicavalarie]

Bobs your uncle goes both ways in my opinion! I'm a kiwi and I use it both ways like everything is all good and in the context of something being correct.

[@jessicavalarie]

Yeah nah, sweet as, she'll be right, no worries, and can't be bothered are some other classic kiwi phrases 😆

[@CarrieRad]

She’ll be right is a favorite of mine 🥰