WEEK IN MY LIFE | I need to get this off my chest, summer clothing haul, mom chats, & pool day!

// In this video, I share some mom chats along with getting some things off my chest, a summer clothing haul from Lulus, bake sourdough, and spend some cozy days at home... I hope you enjoy this vlog! 🦋#luluspartner #lovelulus
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[@elahnasissonhudson6774]

I literally get so emotional watching any/all of your videos. I love who you are. You are doing better than you think you are❤️

[@fatimagrimes]

I second this! ❤

[@michellereedg]

means more than you know… thank you 🥲

[@SavvySmiles11]

I third this! 😂 💕

[@HelloMoto_]

Same here ❤

[@danielleg7291]

This is so nice and social media needs more of this 🥹 completely agree!

[@katiex07]

Lol I’m not sure where the 6 month thing came from with baby sleep! Our pediatrician said no more night feeds and leave her alone to cry at 6 months because she was manipulating us. Needless to say, I never saw that pediatrician again. My little one stopped waking for night feeds when she was ready. She started sleeping through the night when she was ready. I work full time but still continued to soothe my baby overnight every time she woke. So glad you’ve leaned into going with the flow, it’s life changing 🤍

[@Noturbasikbeautyxo]

Reminder to new moms: social media will SELL you things to make you believe that it will “fix” your child or your life as a mother. I wish someone would’ve told me to realize that EVERY BABY IS UNIQUE so it’s ok for them to need whatever from you, to wake, eat, sleep, be fuzzy etc. getting judgement from people is hard, I can’t believe it’s now built in on stuff such as a baby monitor smh. Do your best, that’s all your baby needs ❤❤❤❤❤

[@35sca]

Cash in the background having fun in the backyard is so cute

[@gracekindall558]

I'm watching this as I rock my 13 month old to sleep for his nap. He's my 3rd, and he is by far the one who has needed the most help with sleep. He still wakes up at night, and I still rock him back to sleep. My 5 year old sleeps all night every night, and my 3 year old still ends up in our bed most nights. Every baby is so different, and there is nothing wrong with doing what feels right for each individual child ❤

[@mahloeree]

100000% agree. There’s almost too much information on parenting these days that no wonder new moms get overwhelmed and depressed. I’ve done a hybrid of everything and you know your family and baby best! We have the bebcare monitor cause it doesn’t connect to Wi-Fi at all. It’s “old school” when it comes to monitors and we love it. You’re doing great mama.

[@kittylover4974]

I relate to you so much when you said the whole sleep train topic triggers your PPA. It did for me too. My PPA and PPD was so bad I was suicidal. I’m SO proud of you for talking about normal infant sleep. You normalize their night wakings but with such a gentle confidence. I wish I watched someone like you when I had my first. It would have changed my postpartum life ❤

[@estherestelle7920]

Glad you are here. I hope you feel better.

[@finleymuratova9529]

there's nothing more important than being there for your kid in every unique way they need you! i was one of those "difficult" kids, but my mom never pushed me to be "good" in other people's eyes. she wanted me to be happy - on my own terms. and it worked wonders, if i say so myself! :-) you're doing amazing as Connor's mom. he's a unique little human, no two babies are the same!

[@jessicakennedy7287]

I experienced something so similar with taking my new puppy to the vet! The vet we used to see was so grumpy and judged me because our puppy would be super excited to be at the vet and went on and on about how I needed to "be the alpha" and "show my puppy who's boss". We're working on calming her excitement but she's just a puppy, better she's excited than scared of the vet!! Same thing also I felt super rushed once he finished lecturing us he breezed through the actual examination. I switched vets and it has made all the difference!! So worth it to find vets and doctors who aren't gonna judge you for trying your best and actually take the time with you to explain things and answer questions.

[@raechellrobbins8344]

I love watching your channel because I have been missing this stage of my life as a mommy. Having six children, I can say each one of them are so different. They slept differently and have different needs. Listen to your mommy heart! You know best. Only you will have that mommy bond with him.

[@michellereedg]

you are a seasoned momma! appreciate your wisdom 😇

[@KristinNicoleForever]

I’m not married or a mom but you and your chunky chabbawabba bring me so much joy! I love the mom content! It’s like watching your best friend raise a little human 🤗

[@SofiaAbrantes]

Over the years I’ve learned that when your voice gets deeper when you’re talking about something, you REALLY like it. I first noticed it when you were still in NY, and now with both the baby books and the sandals that happened. It’s my way of knowing whether to look into something or not, it’s one of my favorite things about you!! 🤩 I hope I’m even half as good of a mom as you are one day.

[@kneadysetgrow3220]

Just had my third baby and unfortunately it took me this long to be comfortable and relaxed as a mom. We are bombarded with things we "need" for our children, advice to "fix issues" with eating, sleeping, wake times, clothing, breast-feeding, play time, development etc - it makes for parents that question everything and feel burnt out, instead of relying on our babies and instincts. I now only give advice or feedback to others when they ask for it. I hope you feel encouraged and content as a mom, because you are doing a great job.

[@MarySmith-zn5dz]

Connor is definitely talking! So amazing. I hung a window hummingbird feeder last May. Took five weeks before I had birds visit. They are so fun to watch! Yours looks like a great spot to me!

[@michellereedg]

he’s growing up so fast! & thank you for the tip ☺️

[@sommerpaige9011]

We sleep trained our 5 month old and it has made him a much better sleeper BUT he still wakes up at least twice throughout the night to feed. I have simply come to terms with the fact that he still needs those night feedings and I just can’t take that away from him, even if that means I’m “spoiling” him. The biggest thing I’ve learned in my motherhood journey is that there is so much shame in sleep training, and not sleep training, and all things motherhood. You just have to trust your gut and do what feels right for your baby. Your videos have actually assisted me in shifting my mentality :)

[@sommerpaige9011]

We also use the hello baby monitor and love it! It’s not very high tech or fancy but it gets the job done and doesn’t give unsolicited advice :)

[@torinovosel4005]

Watching this as I feed my 7 week old who woke up for the third time tonight. Thanks for getting us through the night🤍 be proud of yourself!

[@MargieLeigh3]

please do not worry too much about your content becoming more mom-centered. i know this is your job and there is a numbers game but that aside, being a mom is clearly something so important to you. im not a mom nor do i intend to be however, parent convos need to be more normalized! your viewers can either simply skips those parts they don't resonate with or take the time to learn and hear you out. either way, love your content even if i don't get it on a personal level, i enjoy hearing about your life and perspective!

[@iheartmakeup23]

Thank you for the mom chat! Very relatable. I have a 5 month old (and a 7 and 4 year old). They all have/had different sleep patterns/needs. Letting go of the control is hard-we can control a lot but we really can’t control their sleep and that’s ok! It took me a long time to be at peace with that. As I watched your video, my Pampers app popped up a message about sleep training and tips to get my 5 month old to sleep through the night. There’s so much pressure for your baby to meet certain milestones. It is hard to remember/remind ourselves that each baby is unique and marches to the beat of their own drum ❤️

[@Mbaumgartner227]

10000% agree!! ❤ You know what’s best for your baby, and every baby is different! We’ve been blessed that our baby tends to eat around 11pm and then sleeps till about 7am or so, but of course every once in a while she has an off night! I still can’t get over that they’re 6 months old already 🥲 my baby is trying to crawl, and I’m not ready!! Can’t believe Connor is trying to talk so well!! 😍

[@alena4212]

For sure!! My first daughter nursed throughout the night until I weaned her around 14-15 months. And we co slept and it worked fantastic for us. She is now 2 1/2 and sleeps in her own room. It’s your baby and you know what works for your own baby 😊 I have my second baby, now 9 months and we do the same thing.

[@TheHoneycombHome]

Wow, what an annoying baby monitor! Don’t tell me how to mother my baby, monitor! 😂 You’re doing amazing, Michelle!! You’re exactly right, not one size fits all and we are all doing the best we can with the uniqueness of our babies. You go, girl. ❤

[@courtneymorgan4389]

Motherhood is my fav content so far

[@michellereedg]

thank you 🥺

[@bethanybidois4259]

I really appreciate your videos, my baby boy is 4 months old and I feel like the things you say really resonate with me and you say them exactly when I need to hear them, so thank you 💕

[@angezim9136]

Every baby is so different and my daughter didn’t sleep through the night till around a year old ❤️ it’s totally normal and you are the best mama for Conner and know exactly what is best for him! You are doing an amazing job🥰

[@Lovingcarps]

I absolutely love your videos! ❤ so calming and pure! Love it

[@RachelR25]

I love all the baby content/mom talks!😊 thank you for staying true to yourself on what you’re most passionate about in the moment!

[@HelloMoto_]

aweee we are all doing a great job even if it doesn’t feel like it during the hard moments. Thank you for sharing, it makes me feel less alone as well 🩵

[@Catarinaem]

Such a great video! Thank you for being real about all of the areas in your life. I am not a mom yet but I love hearing from moms and their journey and it’s great to learn for when I am in that season of life. Keep doing what you know that God has called you to do and know He is using it to bless others. God bless you and your family! ❤

[@diarydaki]

Thanks for the conversation. 27 weeks pregnant here and love hearing about your experience. I know it's different for every mother and child relationship (even because we live in different countries) but it's so good

[@carmenjanae]

Yes! To just doing what your baby needs. My baby girl, almost four months, also does her own thing. It works for us. I used to obsess as well and felt like I wasn’t being a good mom because I wasn’t doing what the gurus on the Internet were telling me to do 😅 but the sleep tips, schedules, etc just didn’t work. We figured out our own. 🙌🏼 you’re doing great. You know YOUR baby best. 🤍

[@michellereedg]

yes & amen!! ☺️

[@alyssaarmentrout8020]

Your vlogs are always so soothing, Michelle, and you are such an inspiration! As a new mom myself, I’ve been loving your content a little extra lately! You have been so helpful on my postpartum/new mom journey! ❤

[@xtinriver143]

michelle, thanks for sharing your mom stories. i had exactly the same experience with my old pediatrician. i see you. thanks for being open! i feel less alone too

[@FlourishwithTrish]

Oh my goodness yes !! Your chat about baby sleep is so relevant to me atm !! When we were really struggling with sleep regressions etc I had a few really good chats with mums around me and that helped heaps as well ! I found knowing less about the topics actually helped because I was just focused on how my baby is going at the present moment , not what might happen etc Thanks so much for your videos 🙌🏾☺️

[@sarahkistler8705]

Loved this video - you bring a complete sense of peace! I relate to so much that you say and share! I am a 1st time mom to a 7 month old and would try ALL the things to get him to sleep longer and nap better…my whole life revolved around his sleep and it was so stressful. As soon as I let that go, everything had been better. Now we are at a point where sometimes he sleeps through the night, sometimes he doesn’t. Sometimes he wakes once, sometimes is 3 times. I’ve learned to let go of expectations.

[@SavvySmiles11]

Yes every baby is so different! My friend has had two. Her first slept through the night without any training. Her second was the exact opposite! She tried EVERYTHING and nothing worked. It is so so normal for a baby to need soothing in the night 💕

[@michellekumar1]

So excited to be a mother in 6 short months! You’re so inspiring Michelle ❤

[@BreMooneyham]

You are one of my favorites by far and I love your content 🫶🏼 I have 3 kids but take care of 5 total, and my youngest is a little over 5 months so tired is an understatement. I was so discouraged as a mom & down and out until I watched this vlog. I appreciate you always being so raw and real with us but always uplifting ❤ you're doing a great job mama ❤️

[@savannahfryhoff4816]

Yay can’t wait to have another video to watch!!! Love all your videos so much and your voice is so soothing it makes me relax and unwind after a long school day💕 Side note: I love how you’re teaching him sign because I’m currently taking that at my school and I’ve known before but it’s so great! 🫶🏻

[@Sarah-sr8zw]

i’m not a mom and am very single lol but i so appreciate your candid honesty, michelle! i so empathize with the honest mom chat and feel like everyone can relate to the fact that we are all so unique ❤ love it!

[@rebekashockley4615]

Your videos are always so calm and lovely! I love you sharing your mom heart about important things like sleep and normalizing that babies are… normal and need YOU, not a quick “fix”. Keep being amazing!

[@kateallen91]

I feel like your vlogs are literally carrying me thru maternity leave. We have a plain ole Hello Baby monitor! Nothing fancy, but we love it. Also, we ordered me some free weights off Amazon, and it was nice because they did the heavy lifting and brought them all to the front door lol. Y’all are doing great!

[@user-xz4mg1lk8t]

You’re such a sweet mom. I am a first time mom to a 3month old. Your channel has really helped me to trust my instincts and follow my gut on how to care for my baby. Every child is different and you know your child best. Thank you for sharing your ups and downs I find it all so relatable. Also, I love the pink top on you. I’m going to buy one for myself.

[@jenndelbosque9980]

You are doing so great Mama! Who cares if your content doesn’t fit who you used to be - we adore YOU and love watching your life unfold. You’re such a great mom and wife and content creator! Sending all the love and hugs and best wishes your way. Beautiful little family,

[@megancox9549]

So glad to follow around with your life. You really are realistic, thanks for not changing with materialism and always just shopping.

[@donnastfx5087]

Your an awesome mom ,don't worry about other babies...everyone is different and go at there own pace. Take a deep breath and life your life . ❤

[@phoebet2161]

You inspire me. I hope you can remember that on hard days. Youu are doing great 😊

[@justablackgirl]

I loveeee your content after becoming a mom! I want to have kids one day and be more of a stay at home mom. Seeing your vlogs makes me feel like I can actually do this one day😭😭. You are doing so great as a mom. The fact that you can be retrospective says a lot. Follow your gut mamas! The world loves to tell moms what they should and shouldn’t do! Do what you feel is right! 🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@loislaidlaw8666]

That blue dress looks stunning on you! Such a flattering colour 💙

[@michellereedg]

thank you! ☺️

[@willowandh3523]

Yayyy I love pool days!. Hope you have an amazing day!, don’t overwork yourself, and please have a good amount of sleep to you, your friends, and family!! :)) 😄.

[@michellecampuzano1777]

Thank you, thank you, thank you, for sharing what was on your mind regarding the way we navigate all the changes with baby especially feeding and sleeping. Im a 1st time mom and my baby is currently 10 months and still waking at night. I am on the absoulte same page as you and even though some days are hard and some nights I do think "when will you sleep through the night?" I quickly realize this wont be forever and so I cherish every feed and every cuddle. Also I persoanlly find comfort in knowing im not alone ❤ so again, thank you!

[@fosterk45]

I love your chatty vlogs!!!☺️

[@4Devi15]

I love your motherhood talks! It helps me as a new mom and I love reading the comments of support from other mamas ❤️ My son usually wakes up at least once in the night to eat but other times it is 2-3 times to eat or just to cry a bit and be rocked back to sleep. Every baby goes at their own pace. You're doing what is best for Connor and that's all that matters! Also tip I learned the hard way, roll baby's sleeves or keep his outfit off when feeding lol my son also likes to take the spoon and feed himself which gets messy. He has had beechnut purees already and mushed fruit in those silicone pacifier feeder things (which is also messy) I got a free variety pack of cerebelly purees from my enfamil rewards (yay) and also bought serenity kids meat puree pouches with wild caught salmon, chicken, and turkey ones mixed with veggies which is ready for him to try when he turns 6 months on June 1st! Can't wait and can't believe our babies are eating foods already

[@gracemathias2483]

As someone who has watched your videos since your junior prom, I still love and relate to your content. I’m not a mom but I feel like your content will help me when I decide to have kids.

[@chrissiedcohen]

You are killing it, Mama!🤩

[@aliciamitrowitz3122]

You are an amazing mom. I love the mom stuff sprinkled into your vlogs. It's your current stage of life. Also I really love that blue dress from Lulus on you.

[@michellereedg]

thank you so much ❤️

[@AlexaGolden]

Love your mom chats!! I agree with you that finally deciding to stop obsessing about sleep is the best thing to do and takes such a weight off your shoulders. My twins went through a sleep regression a couple months back and I was so frustrated but my fiancé reminded me that they are babies and most babies don’t sleep perfectly! It’s tough though when the first question people always as you is how are they sleeping!!

[@_taylorjk]

You’re doing such a beautiful job, motherhood works beautifully with you ❤ I’ve always loved your content, however now that you’re a mama makes me relate to you more so. I remember after having our first telling my husband I need to unlearn everything I “learned” while I was pregnant and learn OUR baby. As you said we’re all on this journey and doing our best. The best sleep tip I received was to wake my baby up at the same time everyday with wake windows it kinda would help us map our day. We woke up everyday at 6 and it really helped with some structure. xo

[@Nadiacantisani]

Thanks for sharing. Mom of a 7 m old and i think the same as you. I am really anxious with that topic thinking i am doing something wrong. You are a great mom!

[@jalyassin]

Michelle you look beautiful in everything you tried on 😍The dresses are STUNNING on you ❤

[@poppycalliope]

So happy you posted Michelle 💌💗

[@michellereedg]

so happy you’re here! ❤️

[@clairenovak11]

I loooove the mom chats 🥰

[@morgantullis]

I cannot believe your monitor! That is so gross and alarming for a new mom. You’re doing great, Mama! Watching your videos puts my new mom heart AT EASE. I happy cry every time I watch. Thank you for being so open & transparent! My baby boy is 6 months in a week and I relate to your motherhood journey so much. Truly. Also, we have the Momcozy monitor. No gimmicks, straightforward, no wifi. Easy. I highly recommend it! Sending love! 🫶

[@glacierlillies]

Thank you for being open about your sleep experience. My second is 8 months old and sounds so much like your son! My first was an easy, textbook baby and slept on a great schedule-I even had to cut off her naps and wake her up in the morning because she slept so much. My son however…short naps, multiple night wakings, would love to contact sleep ALWAYS. And we have tried all the sleep training tactics. Each baby really is unique and only you as his mom know what’s best. Other people can have great advice, but you are the only expert on your baby. I keep telling myself that I will sleep again someday 🤪

[@Kayla-kd9hx]

Totally unrelated to this video- but my husband and I started watching Shogun because of your last video and OMG it is soooooo good. So intense. SO interesting. We love. Thank you!

[@estherestelle7920]

Michelle you are doing a great job. The books and tips are suggestions. Something's work something's don't. My daughter would not sleep through the night for two years. And I took read all the books, tried all the things available to me at the time and she simply learned to sleep through the night in her own time. She is now almost 30 with a child of her own and perfectly healthy and happy. It will all work out.

[@victoriacestodio348]

I’ve loved following your journey ♥️

[@shandisfancher8766]

Such a pleasant start to the video. Love the clips you chose. Esp the water 😍

[@michellereedg]

oh thank you so much ☺️

[@harleighwiley493]

We use the infant optics baby monitor! I love it. I wanted it because it was separate from needing my phone and didn’t require wifi. My baby is 6 months old too and some times wakes up, sometimes doesn’t, sometimes goes to bed easily, sometimes doesn’t, sometimes needs fed at 4 am, sometimes doesn’t. I feel ya!

[@earthfairyhomestead]

Just thought I would reassure you that I LOVE your content just as much, if not more since you had Connor. I’m not a mom and it’s unlikely that I ever will be, but your content always puts a smile on my face!

[@jcys90]

Another beautiful video. Keep doing you. I find a lot of mamas on KZbin try to be like other KZbin mama’s or create a particular persona online. I think you, however, have only grown to be even more authentic in motherhood and it’s a joy to witness. Thank you for sharing glimpses of life with us.

[@michellereedg]

this is really kind of you to share, thank you so much! 💛

[@mansoor3159]

Michelle you always makes me smile with your new vlogs😀😀💗

[@michellereedg]

oh thank you ☺️

[@starmstrong]

I typically do not comment but your view on “mother tribes” and how you don’t necessarily fit into one BUT you’re doing the best you can, made me super emotional. I’m only 10 weeks right now (FTM) and learning to cope with 24/7 nausea is a learning curve in itself that I know is going to get a whole lot harder. I’ve watched you for the past year or so and have just been in awe of the person & mother you have become. Preparing for a baby myself, I totally can see your point because up until watching this video, I told myself I was going to follow a routine to the T. My baby is going to be perfect, I’ll figure it out no matter what and that is just not the reality sometimes. Sometimes you have to do what’s best for you. I’ve felt that way before getting pregnant, I told myself I’d eat better, I’d do whatever I could to keep myself healthy and I can’t even keep food down right now yet alone go for a walk. I’ve really had to adjust my expectations the first trimester and I should adjust my expectations from here on out. There is no one size fits all approach, and if there is, great! But I need to be open to the fact that baby’s will do what is best for them and not every method I try will work perfectly everytime. Just hear to say, IM WITH YOU & I hear you. Keep up the good work mama❤

[@homemaker0506]

I have been binge watching your videos while making bread and other things. They are just so relaxing!

[@michellereedg]

wait I love this 🥲🥖

[@homemaker0506]

@@michellereedg I have a playlist of your videos for watching while baking, my favorite KZbinr!

[@hannahlawrence8973]

Yes totally just go with the flow that you feel is right xx every baby is different, & I have found my 1st was a very different baby to my 2nd, although I’ve done nothing different sleep-wise!

[@aly7409]

I really appreciated the talk about the baby monitor and not putting so much pressure on yourself and your baby. Would love to see your “must haves” for baby registry now that you actually know what you’ve loved!

[@michellereedg]

that video is coming on Thursday - what we love and what we regret buying! ☺️

[@aly7409]

@@michellereedgoh perfect! Can’t wait 💕

[@rubyroca5642]

I’m someone who is child free (both that I don’t have kids and am not sure if I ever will) and I just want to say that despite how I feel about that your content is so so refreshing and honest and real. It’s sort of grounding? I really appreciate your content and was afraid I wouldn’t because I thought it would be too baby-focused (which is obviously totally okay!!!) but you’re still relatable and just the way you speak about it is comforting. Many blessings to you and your family and I’ll still be here along the way!! 🤍🤍🥰

[@alexandragblessing]

That’s so relieving about switching your ped 😭 we are in the same process rn switching and really hoping it’s a better experience!

[@amandamiller-xy2pb]

We are all just trying to survive. The most important thing we can do is have kindness in our hearts for each other. Prior to being a Mom I thought my child would sleep all night in his crib. He's 3 now and still sleeps with us. 😂

[@dadrianabh26]

I’m not a mom but I’m in my fiancé era so marriage and baby are coming soon so it’s so great to see this shift in your content because you provide such great tips! Awesome as always Michelle!

[@Mia-hc9uw]

❤❤❤love your voice very much. Watching your videos makes me feel calm 😊

[@edenmarie9392]

I know I’m a little late to the video but I just wanted to say that I enjoyed your mom talk. I have a 7 month old who still doesn’t sleep through the night. In fact, she won’t sleep without being held at all. We have had to resort to cosleeping in order for me to get any sleep whatsoever. All babies are different and some just need more than others. I’ve also felt like I’ve tried everything (except cry it out because I’m not about that) Our situation may not be ideal but it’s what we have to do. You’re doing great and your baby is doing great ❤

[@theti5]

Thank you for sharing your vulnerable thoughts about pressure to do things a certain way and fit into a box. Maybe it's because I'm having my first child at 30 (currently pregnant, 12+5!)... or maybe it's because I don't scroll social media much at all anymore. But I feel very little pressure to do things a certain way, read lots of books, etc. But your whole job is social media, your entire life is spent under the scrutiny of random people who don't always see you as a real person, so it makes sense if you feel extra sensitive to all the different tribes and worry whether you're doing things right. And that's aside from the fact that (these days at least) you're a younger mum. But mama, from where I'm sitting (with 0 experience of kids haha) you're doing so great. 💖 The only resources I'm going to look at are the practicalities of how to do stuff (e.g. feed/swaddle), how to set myself up for postpartum (THANK YOU for being so honest about your experiences), and I'm also gonna dip my toes into elimination communication/baby-led weaning stuff too and see if it works for us. If people judge or don't like what I do, they can get stuffed, tbh. Parenting looks to be mostly vibes-based anyway - that's what we have instincts for. You noted that there are SO MANY different ways of doing things, and yet pretty much all the ways result in a healthy well-adjusted child. So there's a lot of margin for error, we won't always get things right. We just try our very best, and that will be enough

[@janejones1797]

I just love your videos! They are so relaxing and beautifully made. I’ll tell you my method for getting my babies to sleep through the night. To preface, I’m old enough to be your grandmother, and when I had my first baby (1974), the common practice was to give them baby cereal at bedtime. And believe it or not, pediatricians recommended starting this at 2-4 weeks! I was 19 years old, and that’s what everyone did, so I did, too! I did this with all 4 of my babies. Probably not what I’d do now if I had it to do over, but they did sleep through the night! 😂 I think you’re a great mommy, and Connor looks happy and healthy. You’re doing a wonderful job!

[@rebeccavanrooyen2735]

Also as a baby I only slept through the night from 2 years old, my brother slept through at 10 weeks. Each baby is different and each baby does things at different times of their lives. You are doing an a amazing job as a mom🥰 each baby is different and you grow and learn with your baby

[@rachellenale]

I’m not a parent but I love your mom videos! Also, in my experience, it takes birds 1 to 2 weeks to start visiting your new bird feeder.

[@emilyroseellis]

Oh, AND 2 of the 3 had some terrible sleeping habits, now they all conk out like the best of us. Every one of them falls asleep fast with some kisses and snuggles- out like twinkle lights. I am so glad you are taking things the way you are, everything you are saying is absolutely correct. ^-^

[@EstrellaAnais]

Ok I love ALL the dresses! They are gorg on you!

[@hannahperkoengel]

Love the chatty ft style vlog!

[@debrafirestone861]

Cash is so sweet it is cute Cash will keep the bs y safe ❤

[@laurendelgenio]

Michelle even though your content has changed I love it! I want to be a mom one day but I don't know anyone my age who is so I really don't know a ton about having a baby. I've always loved your content & I still do 💗 I feel like I'm learning more in a way

[@TheEmpressgoth]

I am glad you are following your own heart and instincts when it comes to Conor❤❤❤😊

[@keahnmackenzie6684]

I’m so with you about baby’s and the way they sleep. My daughter is 2 years old and I still have to go in some night and put her back to sleep. I truly feel like you just have to do what works for you

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

A very beautiful job, Michelle!❤

[@mariamangion21]

So excited to watch ❤

[@laura0576]

I just had a baby too, so I'm loving the mum content. I loved your comment about people trying to sell things! I don't know why, but it honestly hadn't even entered my mind that this is the main reason for the billions of reels etc that are being pushed into my feed from sleep coaches etc. My 4 month old actually does sleep through the night most nights and he has done that totally on his own, but he cat naps something chronic in the day and I'm a lucky Aussie who gets 12 months maternity leave, so it really doesn't phase me, but every now and then all this content makes me stress that maybe I should be putting him on a schedule and trying xyz to get him to nap better. I worry that I'm somehow harming him long term, but he's a super happy, chilled, healthy boy who always seems totally refreshed after his 30-40 minute naps. Sure, sometimes it'd be nice to have a bit longer to do the housework, but I try to remind myself that I'm literally here (home from work) to be his mother and 4 months has already gone so fast already. This is the last day he will ever be this little and need me this much. Every day he is growing and changing and developing and that's exciting but it also makes me feel a little sad that it's going to pass me by so fast. Thank you for reminding me that all these people have a vested interest because they want to make money as sleep coaches and on plans and guides. I truly had forgotten!! ❤

[@rosamondhazell2149]

Michelle I forgot about the dresses. I love all of them. However the lilac is beautiful ❤️

[@morganjobst1082]

None of my babies slept through the night until close to a year. It’s totally normal! Now they’re 10, 7 and 4 and at least one of them still wakes up in the night multiple times per week. Just like you said they have bad dreams, or they start feeling sick in the night, or they need help with their fan, or maybe they wet the bed. Sometimes my 10 year old comes out of his room late at night to talk to us about things hes been wrestling over and they’re such special times. Having your child sleep through the night is not the end all be all. You’re doing a good job!

[@Lovechic4361]

Yess! I’m also a FTM your age, my son is 5 months and I’ve tried it all for sleep and some nights he sleeps great and others not and I’m always like obsessing over what I did differently the nights he slept great. I think it’s just up to the baby! Also, same! I hated our pediatrician I would get major anxiety and stomach aches before because every experience was terrible. He has his 6mo appt with a new one, who seems to be more individual with her patients and more warm and cozy in the office. Hoping it goes well!

[@AbigailDelano]

I'm in New England and it always takes about a month to a month and a half for birds to discover our feeders when we put them out (we take them down in the spring and summer because of bears). Also, can't believe that Connor is already starting to sign and try to say words!

[@christinefortier1766]

Be your own tribe! You are doing great. Don’t let anybody tell you otherwise. Listen to your heart. ♥️