Great message. I have been overspending for many months. I feel guilty. They are wants....not needs. Thank you for reminding me of God's word and truth especially now with the holiday season coming soon.
@AngelaPickles192910 ай бұрын
@purpleflowers9 - you need to learn to take responsibility for your actions.
@Chris-fv3pk9 ай бұрын
I am having trouble. My husband cheated on me and left me. Now divorced. Trying to do the best I can now. I need to sell my house to be near my daughter and granddaughter. Please pray for me, to bring someone to buy my house ,I have to move out of state
@marygayquigley96723 ай бұрын
I hope you have sold your house and are now near your daughter. I pray for your inner peace that only the Lord can give as you ho through this traumatic transition. ❤
@lilmisslegal30189 ай бұрын
Very great video! I am a "working" wife, and this video was 100% confirmation of what the Lord placed on my heart. As someone who works in corporate law, I was so close to being devoured into the "keep up with the Jones" lifestyle. Overspending on luxury fashion etc. One day in March of this year, I went into my prayer closet and asked God to take away anything or anyone who was distracting me from getting closer to him and my husband and God's word hit me like a sack of bricks. "Thou shall have no other gods before me," and then i knew the luxury lifestyle, fashion, and soical circles had become my idols. I had to repent and ask for forgiveness from God and my husband. In 2024, I plan on leaving my job and career to become a full-time homemake and housewife.
@New_Heaven_And_A_New_Earth8 ай бұрын
God bless and be with you. God's ways are best. :)
@vintagebeliever50237 ай бұрын
You will not regret this decision. Find like minded women as you will need the encouragement. God bless!❤
@subashnigovender8076 ай бұрын
Super proud of you. Obedience is better than sacrifice.... Because obedience is harder. Will be praying for you. Sending hugs
@tilltheend79025 ай бұрын
That's awesome..praise the Lord for the beautiful work He is doing in your heart!! That is the work of the Holy Spirit.. beautiful!
@thandazamahlangu83234 ай бұрын
Wow, I have been recently thinking of leaving my job and start over again. How is it like to be a homemaker from a working wife ?
@shyannray352410 ай бұрын
I really needed this. I will admit that I buy stuff I don’t need just to get that “shoppers high” feeling. And then it goes away and I need to buy more. I’m so glad God put this on your heart to share! I’m going to work on my shopping habit. God bless you!! ❤️🙏🏻
@traceybiles20617 ай бұрын
Yes emotional high ...not dealing with you feelings..
@biancaaviles159 ай бұрын
this was very encouraging. however, if I may say, I don't believe God wants us to view money as "save up as much as possible", but rather, HOW to manage money. we should try to focus on dispersing it the righteous way. I've personally found myself borderline obsessed with saving as much as I could and the good Lord reminded me that handling it righteously is all it's about. God bless you and your family!
@ThisMamasFaith9 ай бұрын
That’s an excellent point!
@racheg54212 ай бұрын
Yes! ❤
@brendah47019 ай бұрын
If you struggle with shopping on impulse . Something that works for me is taking care of what I have : like cleaning , washing what I already have ! Only buy what you need and make sure it’s something you truly love so you are more encouraged to care for it, don’t buy because it’s cheap ! Also cleaning my home helps me keep my mind busy , as well as learning new cooking recipes :)
@PersistentPam9 ай бұрын
Your video popped up in my feed. I love it. I'm a long time frugal momma and saved up every bit I could. I am so glad I did. My husband lost his job in April and that money has kept us going. Prayers for employment are appreciated. It has been very difficult. Thank you.
@expatmom8272Ай бұрын
Hi. I hope your hubby is again blessed with a job or you both found some small business to keep you going..praying for Gods blessing favor and provision in your lifr
@mrs.hatfield145110 ай бұрын
I don't have enough to have this problem. I am actually really good with money. We're one a one working parent budget. I stay home. There is no money to waste.
@susanmartin8702 ай бұрын
Thats a really great point...if you dont have it to waste, it's not an issue. Since i seem to go through too many seasons wasting the little we have, i am quitting my part time job in a month and wont have any to waste. When i have better control over my finances, i will consider earning money from home and put that in savings. The verse in this video has been recurring for me the last week or so, and ai believe it is from the Lord. This is the first year my 1 raspberry plant at our rental has given fruit, and i thought: How wonderful it would be to have property of our own to plant all the fruits we desire on it and watch them grow over the years. So that is my goal. Always has been, but now it is very certain I must do this for my family.
@shaylasmith39359 ай бұрын
🎉Thanks for this inspirational video! My only concern is mostly about buying quality over quantity. It is far more important to buy quality items, foods, and such, not the cheapest versions.
@purposebehindthepen10 ай бұрын
I needed this. I am a wife and also a self published Christian Author. I basically want to invest in my business and not just spend money out of control. I moved back to a country where I can barely buy anything I just want. This month, I denied my flesh of wanting to go out to the mall during Black Friday and when I say I feel good, I really mean it.
@yogininamaste10 ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@wifeoftim10 ай бұрын
I needed this because I really want to be wise in my spending. I was thinking about all these Bible studies I've bought over the past couple of years and I have too many. I've decided I will not buy anymore until all the ones I have are completed. I tell you its not easy because the site I buy from has a sale every.single.week. Anyway, its nice to learn from much younger women. Thank you!
@420C2210 ай бұрын
Thank you, I love Proverbs 31. I was lost for so long, I was baptized as a Catholic yet raised Baptist by my grandma, tried Judaism, Islam, and back to Christianity again. I felt so lost for so long. I've found my heart through Jesus, he has forgiven me. I understand what you mean about the PUSH to promote God and live through his word, I felt the same thing a few months ago, after crying at the crossroads for God to forgive me for forsaking him. Thank you so much. I absolutely love your videos. This reborn life has brought me peace that nothing in the entire world ever has. It is a daily battle to implement and not just say these grand words, especially when money is so so very tight, but it is the most rewarding battle to beat.
@tg360910 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness, I needed this message so much today! Thank you dear Tabitha for reminding me of my spending before the holidays. Celebrate Christ first!
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Amen!! 🙌🏼
@Breannafaith959 ай бұрын
Hey Tabitha. I just wanted to encourage you to continue creating content for this channel! I really enjoy listening to videos that help me on my journey to Godly womanhood. Its inspiring and I appreciate it. The world views things so differently from me and a lot of women do not aspire to live life pleasing God and their husband. I have been married for almost 8 years. We married when he was 19 and I was 20. We definitely have our ups and downs but in more recent years I have tried to be a godlier wife and it pays to do so. God designed things the way he did for a reason, and we just humble ourselves we can see this. I may not have much in the eyes of man, but I have a blessed life.
@elanaspeicher412810 ай бұрын
Thank you for this very thoughtful and tastefully done video. I love your gentle way of challenging sisters in Christ to CONSIDER.
@mrsbethanyelise8 ай бұрын
Great points! Biblical unity between spouses is key when keeping in budget and on track with finances.
@Desiree_Rose10 ай бұрын
I so needed this. I am planning a no spend year next year. I've gone so beyond crazy with spending this year, and it's made me feel terrible. Turning things around now. I need a brain reset and I have PLENTY.
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
I’m doing a no spend too! I have a really big goal to have a bunch saved by the end of next year! We can do this 🙌🏼
@Desiree_Rose10 ай бұрын
Yes we can! ❤️🙌
@bellsbooklover9 ай бұрын
I was just thinking to myself a very low buy for the entire 2024
@ata.1110 ай бұрын
Love how short and simple this video was but very straight to the point. Overspending is something I have been working on for about a month or so and I've cut so much. I keep praying God fulfills me with hobbies I enjoy that don't require spending, but to learn new things. It so easy to fall into the pattern of overspending when there is so much stuff around us wanting our attention. Such as social media when every KZbinr tries to do is sell us something while they get richer. Thank you for doing the contrary and teaching me and other woman how that is not biblical and doesn't align with God word. I look forward to more content like this. Blessings🙏🏻
@jasminegonzalez200710 ай бұрын
Your videos always bless me greatly. This particular verse reminds me that the Proverbs 31 woman is decisive. Its something that I struggle with; so having contemplated this verse earlier this week and seeing a video on it now made me realize I need to be okay being decisive. God bless you and your family ❤
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
I could definitely use more decisiveness! I didn’t think of it that way! Thank you for pointing that out
@poshbyjodygreeneisen51478 ай бұрын
I just started reading Proverbs and we started a budget this month so I know God was confirming our path with this message. Thank you for your encouragement. God just led me to your channel tonight. God bless!
@viewer61710 ай бұрын
This is for me. My husband and I are on a debt free journey and are on track to pay off all debt next year. Furthermore, we want to save money to buy a home and I eventually want to come home to raise my son..but I need to tighten up my spending and stop making excuses for buying things I don’t need. How can God trust me with much and I don’t steward the little? The much would be for me to have the privilege to be home with my son and have him grow up in a home. That’s more important to me than the frivolous things I spend money on. This video reminded me of that and I feel so convicted. Thank you. I’m going to try a no spend month.
@laurenplante978110 ай бұрын
Thank you for a great message. I really needed this I have always been a natural over spender and feel so impatient feeling like I need it now and then I feel guilty but not guilty enough to stop the cycle. I am taking action now and holding myself accountable, one day at a time.
@MichelleJohnson-q6e10 ай бұрын
I use to binge buy and the stuff don't even make sense..all we need is a simple life pray and love each other..
@tonyamcnamara844110 ай бұрын
You really spoke to me ! Especially in these days when prices just keep getting higher and higher I need to set a budget and stick to it no unnecessary things. Focus more on the necessities!!! Thanks for sharing 😊
@ShellyJohnson-xs1mf10 ай бұрын
This was so timely! As it is Black Friday this week & we are bombarded with sales. Thank you so much for this video 💗
@sonitar131010 ай бұрын
Your writing is beautiful. Another gift from the Father
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@johnsonjo845410 ай бұрын
Hai 💋🤎
@DysautonomiaWarrior925 күн бұрын
My husband and I are going to do the no spend challenge to hopefully save some money this month! 😊 Thank you for your videos, I find them very informative and lovely to listen to/watch
@kimberlyzammit67228 ай бұрын
This was greatly needed... what perfect timing. The more I spend, the more out of control and chaotic I feel until I crash. It is not a good feeling. This is a great lesson to slow down and CONSIDER. Thank you so much!
@Jaxxie198110 ай бұрын
This is a very timely video, and I know it didn't come into my algorithm by accident. I recently purchased a quiet luxury handbag online, because it was 50% off and it will be a timeless bag that should last a lifetime. With that said, now my KZbin is blowing up with videos of women showing off their massive luxury goods hauls. I started feeling less than. Thinking I should get some of these items for the status. To feel important. God convicted me, because my status is in Christ and frivolous spending is not honoring the financial provision God has blessed my family with. Thank you for this excellent reminder.
@charline21494 ай бұрын
Thank you for this message. I am guilty of overspending impulsively and not using my purchases wisely
@FaithandFlour10 ай бұрын
Thank you Tabitha for this timely message! I love all of the Christ centered content you have been sharing! God bless you and your sweet family and Happy Thanksgiving! 💛Robin
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching Robin! Hope you all are doing well
@NataliaBenoit-bd6kh9 ай бұрын
I love this oh my gosh! I'm a catholic mom and homemaker this is right and just and speaks towards what's been put on my heart too from God. I realized buying pre-packaged foods and frozen meals were harming our grocery budget. My goal this year is to make all this home made to save. I calculated and found that I would save $120 a month if I just cut the preservative filled packaged foods. Thank you this feels like I'm watching Mother Mary's domestic life and it's like I'm hearing her speak through you!
@charlottetoyne71927 ай бұрын
I have never thought of overspending as a patience problem before. That def puts it in a new perspective on why I might be overspending. Thanks for the calming environment and insight!
@jamiesharpe385610 ай бұрын
I am having a no-spend November. I realized how often I just bought small things from my Amazon app and it was adding up.
@ABeautifulHorizonTV10 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Tabitha! I've recently decided to spend less on groceries in order to meet some financial goals. Thanks for the confirmation! 😁
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
I would love to hear about how you’re going to do that. Groceries are so expensive!
@ABeautifulHorizonTV10 ай бұрын
I just posted an Aldi haul showing what I got on sale this week with a Walmart price comparison. The current Thanksgiving sale ends this Tuesday. I'll be keeping my eyes open for sales and work on stocking my pantry and freezer at rock bottom prices to last until the next sale for that item. I will be posting a video on how I'm creating a price book to track grocery prices in my area. I'm lowering my standards (organic and grassfed, etc) while still focusing mostly on whole foods and scratch cooking. 💖
@lisabartscher2869 ай бұрын
Thank u for the lesson on the Proverbs 31 woman!! I have been convicted on my overspending. I will be considering my purchases from now on. Thank u for sharing what God has given u. ❤
@margarettownsley950010 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this godly wisdom with me
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching
@kimacker85949 ай бұрын
Your videos encourage me to be a more Godly woman.
@RobertaStonequist9 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing openly and honestly with such conviction according to His Word! I’m doing a no spend month in one of the least likely times to not spend. We have plenty, glory to God, and 2 Peter 1:3 is a great reminder for me in that. God bless you and the work of your hands, Tabitha 💗🙏🏼
@hopesmom778 ай бұрын
Hi, are you not posting here anymore? I wait and wait and watch and watch ( I sound pathetic don’t I) sorry I miss you though truly. It’s so rewarding to listen to what the Lord gives you to say…and I have been so touched by all of your videos!
@ThisMamasFaith8 ай бұрын
I will be back to regular posting no later than February! I miss it so much too. 🥹
@hopesmom777 ай бұрын
I posted again with the same question and then I saw your answer. THANK YOU!!!
@abcdefghi3305 ай бұрын
Your channel is truly blessed sister. I feel so calm and peaceful as I watch all your videos one after the other ❤. ❤ from India
@thandazamahlangu83234 ай бұрын
Thank you, so far I have watched few of your blogs and they are very interesting, glory the Father in all that we are doing, Amen 🙏
@thatkidcooks98 ай бұрын
I love how much truth you share in this! 👏🏼
@rachelwilliams554410 ай бұрын
Great words of wisdom ❤
@m0nt0y12345610 ай бұрын
I needed to see and hear this, because I've been struggling with this for weeks.
@sarahandrade846212 күн бұрын
Wow you are so peaceful to listen to.
@tanahag90699 ай бұрын
I needed this reminder, thank you. May God bless you and your family.
@thesimplifiedsaver70529 ай бұрын
I love this video Tabitha ❤️wonderful message. Thank you for sharing
@thetransformedhomemaker6 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I needed this more than you know.
@chittibabu1920Ай бұрын
praise the Lord Madam wonderful massage God bless your family
@RachelRuiz-p1v9 ай бұрын
GOD BLESS YOU. MY NAME IS RACHEL, I JUST SUBSCRIBED TO YOUR CHANEL. I LOVE ❤️ THAT YOU ARE READING THE BIBLE 👍😉GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING IN OUR LIVES.🙏
@vanessapierce18619 ай бұрын
Thank you such a sweet gentle spirit you have ❤
@dannie498310 ай бұрын
Wow. Great message. So timely. Thank you.
@Raising_Arrowsx510 ай бұрын
Oh that poor Fiddle Leaf :( She needs some plant food and sunlights so bad. Love this message. Ive been struggling with this very thing lately. Ive been grieving the loss of a child so then I catch myself spending money on things that I could do without. I am craving structure in all parts of my life. Especially financially.
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
My toddler has ripped it out of the dirt so many times 😭😭😭 I’m surprised it’s doing as well as it is!! 🤪 I’m going to put some plant food in though! Good idea!!!
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Praying for your peace and comfort during grieving such a hard loss. 🥺🙏🏼💔
@shannonlove278 ай бұрын
This was so helpful and inspiring. Thank you!
@amandazplace566310 ай бұрын
Perfect timing!🙏🇨🇦♥️
@kdwerner8 ай бұрын
This is so encouraging! Thank you ❤
@jodyholland591210 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful message❤
@DaniellaStMartin-ds3om9 ай бұрын
Thank you, Sister. This video blessed me.
@marenkavandenberg73399 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. God has been putting this on my heart for some time and this video was so helpfull 😊
@DewTorres239 ай бұрын
The proper context of this verse is Jesus. Jesus purchased His church (the redeemed) through His precious blood on the cross. No woman, no matter how much we try will never become the woman described on proverbs 31. It is Christ who opens His mouth with wisdom, strength and honor is He, His clothing is fine linen and purple (royalty), He extends His hand to the poor, for all His redeemed are clothed with scarlet ( righteousness), He plants a vineyard. He accomplished it all!
@meybory1710 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I really need it
@BethMJones10 ай бұрын
This was beautifully done. Love your dress.,Thank you. This is an area I struggle with. Love this series!!❤
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you’re enjoying the proverbs 31 series! I got the dress at old navy :)
@duoneswart498910 ай бұрын
Ooh I needed to hear this
@johannaalamo275810 ай бұрын
As a women of God, Mother and a wife I totally agree with what you say ❤ am in the same Page
@natashasbeautystudio77739 ай бұрын
Watching this after i spent all my money on Christmas gifts 🥺😭😭😭😭
@goronpaulpeace8 ай бұрын
Great teaching, God bless
@hannahdyjur59088 ай бұрын
I love this insight!❤️
@darlenebrown39939 ай бұрын
Thank you for your challenge and encouragement
@lisajoybrown8 ай бұрын
Thankyou for sharing on this topic!
@JudahR23810 ай бұрын
So much needed, beautiful. Thank you❤
@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj8 ай бұрын
I got about one year soberity l should be proud of myself l wasn't living right and these set backs are so
@samanthaporter66629 ай бұрын
I have. Just been trying to not go to the store.... Each time it's more and more.... I try to wait longer and longer between....
@first-timemommy10 ай бұрын
I really like your message. Thank you for sharing your thought❤
@michaelad93769 ай бұрын
Glorify God and give Him what belongs to Him... 10% of income 😊
@lamella242 ай бұрын
Great video! Just found your channel! Awesome ❤!!!
@beckywatts50210 ай бұрын
Great message. I needed it.
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@kristielagasse144710 ай бұрын
This was a beautiful message, and a much needed. Can you share the link for your dress? It is so pretty.
@peaceofjunkjournals10 ай бұрын
Loved this thoughtful reflection ❤️
@cocotalbert13825 ай бұрын
Ouch. Thank you for the wound.
@sabymomvlogs5 ай бұрын
👋 New here. And I’m really loving your Videos 🙏 ❤
@abbyshroka401210 ай бұрын
Your best video yet! Thank you
@NikkiSchumacherOfficial10 ай бұрын
Beautifully done Tabitha!
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊 Hope you’re doing well Nikki! Love you!!!
@dianalama159110 ай бұрын
Beautiful Godly thinking video.
@kymhaldeman61017 ай бұрын
Love all of your content!! Where do you get all your dresses from mostly?? I love them :)
@lucygale33610 ай бұрын
Great reminder 😊
@AG-os7uw9 ай бұрын
helpful words.
@rachelbutler7909 ай бұрын
Love this! But question: where are your kids? How are you able to sweep and vacuum with no little hands tugging on your dress? 😂
@ThisMamasFaith9 ай бұрын
Oh they very much do pull on my dress and follow me around. But they are also obedient to me when I ask them to go play so I can get some cleaning done. Don’t forget I also edit these videos and edit my children out as much as possible
@hopesmom777 ай бұрын
I guess you have stopped posting? I pray all is well! I miss you so much!!
@ThisMamasFaith7 ай бұрын
New video tomorrow 😘
@teresaragland28499 ай бұрын
Thank you
@sylviagray35219 ай бұрын
What type of pen do you use in your writings?
@kemigisha33969 ай бұрын
So helpful
@Abbas_Daughters5 ай бұрын
Amazing video ❤❤
@boomdiddyah10 ай бұрын
Love this. Where is the dress from in your thumbnail?
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
Old Navy!
@judya.peeler285910 ай бұрын
Thank you share❤
@maggierocks5417 ай бұрын
I love your videos? Any plans for more in the future ? 😊
@ThisMamasFaith7 ай бұрын
Yes! I will be posting regularly again starting this Sunday
@maggierocks5417 ай бұрын
@@ThisMamasFaithyay! I will have my notifications on
@lizg.71259 ай бұрын
Minute 1:06…. I noticed a skull in the back of your ‘Jesus’ mug. Could you share what it says?
@ThisMamasFaith9 ай бұрын
Memento Mori which means “remember your death” a reminder to live a good life for God NOW because you never know when it’s your last day
@shellysmith36909 ай бұрын
Strange that your making a video on wasting money and overspending while linking products in the description for us to purchase? $500 sheets none the less…
@ThisMamasFaith9 ай бұрын
Practice self control Shelly and you’ll be alright!
@cassidy7459 ай бұрын
For some of us this wouldn’t be frivolous or wasting money, it may be what we’ve been looking for and now have the opportunity to support a dear sister while getting something we’ve needed and saved for. I don’t find it strange at all.
@ElizabethP1239 ай бұрын
Shelly I hear you! I was shocked to see how she linked to a very expensive set of sheets. Cassidy, I’m happy for you that you’re able to spend $500 on a set of sheets. But the question is if we can buy a ‘nice enough’ set for $50 at Marshall’s/Ross or Home goods, could the rest of the $450 have gone to supporting a missionary or helping poor children with their school fees/food guide the month. In America, there is a tendency to increase our lifestyle the more God blesses us financially. I definitely have to always keep this part of my heart checked for this.
@ThisMamasFaith9 ай бұрын
@@ElizabethP123 so I didn’t feel like I owed anyone an explanation as to why I linked anything. But I did it for a very specific reason. I was testing the KZbin algorithm. I decided to link things to see if my video would get more views and it actually got more than double the views I normally get on videos where I didn’t link anything. KZbin is really pushing for creators to use the shop feature and I tested it out. Also, it’s actually the sheet and duvet set that I have and love. Nothing wrong with spending money on quality items if it is within your means. And me spending more money than you would on a bedding set doesn’t mean I don’t donate substantially to charity organizations. A good video for you both to watch might be my video about comparison 😁❤️
@bc170110 ай бұрын
Divine timing for me here 🩵
@gabrielmorales813410 ай бұрын
Hi I’m home made to and cristian just one cuestión are cristian or catolic 🤔I’m confused
@ThisMamasFaith10 ай бұрын
All Catholics are Christians but not all Christians are Catholic. Hope that helps!