Birth Diary ~ Baby 9 at Age 43 ~ Homebirth to Hospital Transfer

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[@glendabyford8074]

That is a husband who not only loves his children but their mother!! Way to go Adam!!! Protection over your wife and the unborn child!

[@annswann1941]

Absolutely!

[@ke3959]

Adam has every right to insist that he is not alone and responsible for the delivery. It cracks me up that people feel they can pass judgement on yours and Adam’s life. My husband had to be set down with the last birth as he was going down fast. At least, Adam was coherent to make the decision. So, live and let live.

[@cynthiatait7708]

LOVE, Love, Love Adam.... concerned about bringing his wife and new baby home in one piece. When Hannah lifted her hands up to Adam to see or to hold her, it made me tear....what a tender, tender moment to see best friends finally unite. Many moving parts and everyone is home and finding a new normal. God has BLESSED you with healthy children, you are a gift to us for letting us watch ....We Love you Jessica. PRECIOUS MEMORIES!!!! ❤

[@pattihendrickson9360]

Congratulations on a healthy beautiful baby. When Adam called the ambulance it was part of your birth plan. When people understand that it was a decision that both of you knew was a possibility they will calm down. Great job mom and dad. ❤

[@thewhitehorsefarm]

You’re alive. Your baby is alive. That is the best news.

[@SauerPatchGardening]

I cried the entire way thru. I can't blame Adam one bit for feeling the way he feels. I'm a mother and a grandmother, I have been present during several hospital births, and I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that I would never want to go solo! Hanah was so sweet, she had her little arms up, like, give me my baby! Blessings to you and your family

[@annswann1941]

Unexpected but BEAUTIFUL story, Jessica, thank you for sharing. From the moment they told you to get on the stretcher, until you said she’s here I was in tears for you. But you always see the wonderful side of things. And I totally understand the joy and the disappointment at the same time. You are a beautiful woman with a beautiful heart And have created a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing all of that with us. 💕

[@marlies7444]

What a beautiful birth story under those unusual circumstances. You were so well prepared, with documents, alternative plans etc. I can't understand how anyone would say anything negative to you or your husband. Blessings to you, and a speedy recovery.

[@Minnehaha64]

Well, for those who complained that Adam "took YOUR bodily autonomy away," I say that when you were married, you became one. He has authority over your body, and vice versa! Sometimes our husbands can be passive, and I don't know Adam, but he did the right thing. I would expect my husband to do that, too. Miss Abigail is beautiful, you are looking beautiful, relieved, and relaxed, and the rest of your children are just in awe! I nearly cried when I saw Hannah raising her hands to hold her sister--oh my goodness! So sweet❤ Praise God from whom ALL blessings flow!

[@Yahuahsword]

I did cry when Miss Hannah wanted to love her new baby🥹🤗

[@glendaroberts5965]

Loved when your husband looked up at the camera and grinned cracking eggs like “we’ve got this!”.

[@TheFabFarmer]

I am so sorry to hear your birth was interrupted and violated in this way. I couldn’t imagine moving like this during transition. I am always blown away when medical staff tell a birthing woman not to push. So impressive to hear how the hospital let you birth your placenta without managing you. Birth is no emergency! You are a strong woman and an inspirational mother. Thank you for sharing with us!

[@terrissaf]

Oh I love LOVED seeing Hannah's reaction, immediately reaching up to hold her new baby sister. 😍 So so Sweet.

[@lisanorris6518]

I think it's a wonderful story. How much your husband loves you. And I loved to see the children meet their sister. So much love. God bless you.

[@melodiewager7909]

Jessica, Forty-six years ago I checked my first born daughter and myself out AMA and went home 6 hours after birth. What you decided with Abigail is positively the right thing, just as I did 46 years ago. May Gods blessings continue to shine and guide you and yours. ❤️

[@pamelapitrone7639]

Great protective leadership Adam!!!!! This is a loving example of strength!

[@chelseafailla9887]

"you can feel multiple things at once" yes!! I wish everyone could come to understand this - such a powerful truth!

[@coastalfarmhouse1820]

I am so happy the hospital staff were so respectful!

[@RaisingThreeMarigolds]

I applaud your husband being brave enough to seek help knowing his limitations in the process. Everything worked out but that doesn’t mean you can’t grieve how it worked out. It’s hard not to feel robbed when things don’t work out how you want. So happy to hear you and baby are happy and healthy, congratulations ❤

[@christiepyle7516]

Jessica, I love everything about you and your family. Adam is in love with you, and his children, and did what he knew was best. I appreciate a man of strength, and one that honors you like he does. I always look forward to your videos, and learn something all the time. I appreciate you so much, and I'm sure there's many women out there that can say the same thing. God bless from North Texas❤

[@Mom2Melody]

Beautiful birth story! Just imagine how you and your husband touched the lives of the medics and the hospital staff. God bless you and yours! 💕

[@dinahquillen9380]

That was beautiful - Adam was right - the naysayers are just envious they don't have a loving husband like him 😂❤

[@carolynmoody9460]

Every husband and father needs to do what is BEST . Proud of you ADAM!!! May you an your family be blessed beyond measure❤

[@commonomics]

Yea that makes sense, as a mother of 9 you have 9 lives to take care of. Your life and health is of utmost importance.

[@falynns.974]

My goodness, what a story!! So intense- I was on the edge of my seat. I’m so glad everything worked out and she came out in one push! That’s amazing. “She’s out!” I cried!!

[@pagirl913.]

Anyone who could ever say anything negative about Adam apparently doesn’t watch this channel very often. Shame on anyone that would ever say anything negative about this family for any reason. ❤️🙏🏼

[@pagirl913.]

We love you Jessica and Adam!

[@lindsaym2547]

Hannah reaching up to her melted my heart 💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@kditty1023]

I would love to hear Adam's narrative of events along side yours. I think it would be a powerful video. but no matter what, so glad for your happy ending! 💗👶💗

[@maryjanew20]

I don’t blame Adam at all! He did what he felt was right for you and his family. I’m so sorry that there was such turmoil during Abagail’s birth but thank God everything turned out well in the end. You have a beautiful family. ❤

[@Echo-WithAFullHeart]

Jess, you are a rock star! Literally the type of strength to become exactly who your baby needed you to be in the moment. Wow, well done!!

[@carolynphillips7443]

I really struggle with people feeling that they should voice their opinions on how your family handles themselves. I love that you share your stories but I would love for you to feel free to share the story without feeling the need to justify yourself to anyone. To be unapologetic can be freeing. We may live our lives differently but all I see when I watch you is a strong interdependent woman that does an amazing job loving and caring her family. Thank you for sharing your stories ❤

[@reality_is_the_key]

People should hold themselves to a higher standard, I agree with you. However, if you are putting your life online, there are natural consequences to that and they should be expected. Its a double edged sword. I'm sure it's been lucrative for this family, but that's not going to come without dealing with people with different opinions and they WILL voice them🤷‍♀️

[@eileenthirling3676]

I've been sitting on the edge of my chair waiting for you to share your birth story ❤

[@saracave2805]

Totally SAME!!!

[@irisoneal2164]

Me too just waiting on edge of chair

[@janis6697]

He did what he felt was best for both you and the baby. I can’t fault him nor should anyone else. You have a beautiful, loving and blessed family.

[@nancycowan6109]

I’m hopping in after that opening just to say in all good marriages, we absolutely know and respect each others boundaries and personal feelings. That’s the way it’s supposed to work. Adam seems like an amazing man. You, Jessica, are a treasure.

[@brandymcdonald260]

I am so proud of Adam for thinking about the whole family. This is the craziest story. A perfect baby to make it all worthwhile

[@susancraig-conger9464]

Beautiful story. Adam did what he felt was necessary for all comfort levels. This was always in God’s hands. 😊❤️🙏🏼

[@ChandiPizl]

I had my 9th baby at 43 too! She’s almost 6 now . Congrats!!

[@justinegirvan4380]

Wow, x I'm so glad it all worked out x my granddaughter was born Jan 8th by emergency C-Section due to her lying the same way as Abigail but so grateful for the hospital staff x. Happy Belated Birthday Jessica xxx you truly are an amazing Mum. All of your children are a credit to you and Adam. So loving and caring and helpful xx such a blessing xx sending love and hugs from Northern Ireland in the UK xx

[@carlapierle8623]

What an adventure! I sure can't blame Adam for wanting a professional around. I am so thankful everything turned out beautifully and you had a good experience at the hospital. God was always in control. Hannah's reaction was absolutely priceless! 🥰🙏

[@deenamaness6731]

Adam is the best. He loves you and his children 💗

[@traci-lieghcurran4751]

Hannah is so precious❤ She’s thrilled to see her new baby sister.

[@beckyjones4043]

What a great story! My favorite was the "audience of heaven knows who" 😂

[@ItsJess2220]

Congratulations! She is so beautiful ❤️ praise God for a healthy Mama and baby. So many of us can relate to a birth not going as you had planned and having to let go of the sweet things we had hoped to experience. I’m sorry for that. You are right, we can feel multiple things at the same time. I’m also grateful you have such a loving husband who loves you and your children so much. Thank you for taking the time to share your story. 😊

[@abbya1995]

Congratulations!🎉 I love Adam's reaction to finding out Abigail is a girl. That's so sweet. 😊

[@BrandiNNiNi]

Adam is right, and without a medical professional there he'd never be able to handle if something were to go wrong. All of us in a loving relationship give respect to our loved one and we totally understand your situation this time. So grateful that God protected you both.❤

[@frenchysandi]

Adam doesn’t want anything to happen that he couldn’t take care of. It’s ok that he knows what he is comfortable with. Gods blessings on your family.

[@joykleinhenz6118]

Life is a wonderful, sometimes complicated, precious gift. Beautiful Abby has a marvelous birth story to tell ❤️ Love and support to you, Adam & your beautiful children.

[@georgianaaron4986]

I'm sure Abigail will love hearing the story of her birth!

[@LargeFamilyHomestead]

I always love to hear how every birth can be so different. After having 10 children, I know first hand that not all births are the same. 🤗 We've had hospital births, birth center births, home births and even one unassisted. What a blessing every life is. ♥♥♥♥♥

[@lisamr40]

I totally agree with what Adam did. Sometimes, us women, don't want to "be a burden," or we down play the situation. Sometimes we need someone to step in for our best interest. I just went through thinking I was having a heart attack and my husband had to step in and take me to the emergency room because I down played how I was feeling. Happy everything turned out ok. And you both are safe and healthy! Congrats to you and the family!!❤❤❤ she's beautiful!

[@susanfreeman6350]

Well, we were all eagerly awaiting your birth story. You said you didn’t want to cry, but I simply could not stop myself from crying. My first baby was posterior and I totally understand your description of what that feels like. What made my tears come was everyone coming at you in those moments where all your focus is on what your body is doing. I’m so sorry there were moments that conflicted with what you had planned, but happy that you and Abigail are both healthy and safe. Criticism of Adam is completely unwarranted and unhelpful. So happy you are home and able to bask in the love that fills your home. Congratulations on your new baby girl! I loved seeing all the children reacting to her.

[@juliehenderson9539]

I'm so thankful everything went OK. What a little blessing she is! Adam did his best to keep you safe.❤

[@paulinemaclellan8204]

Oh Jessica, what an experience. Women are warriors when it comes to childbirth and motherhood. Tears running down my face. Blessings to you, Adam and your wonderful children xx

[@ROOTS9PLUS]

That story is a great lesson on what marriage is meant to be like. Marriage is work and more work. Beautiful story will great lesson for our young and newly wedd.

[@EE-hi4re]

This is so beautiful. I'm crying. Congratulations, and I'm happy you and baby are healthy.

[@caitlinhoward0903]

When Hannah reached for her baby sister, my momma heart swelled❤ we have four children and hopefully more to come. Seeing siblings greet baby siblings for the first time is the best❤️❤️

[@virginiaallisonpeck2517]

I’m 70 and I’m really glad you went to the hospital. Our prayers have been answered. You all have a beautiful daughter.Blessings and love ❤❤❤

[@makensipitt]

What a beautiful birth story despite it not going how you planned! We cannot escape the will of God even if we don’t understand it. I definitely teared up many times. You are a strong woman! I’m so glad your hospital stay was a redemptive ending to Abigail’s birth. And praise to you for honoring your husband during and after this hard experience. Our husbands do feel a heavy weight of protecting us and our babies. Thank you for sharing♥️♥️

[@karenjohns8859]

I don’t usually comment but I wanted to say how wonderful it is for you to share your story and your precious family with us! God is so good!

[@nancycowan6109]

And here at the end, what an amazing birth story. Not what you planned indeed, but that ending experience in the hospital to your homecoming was so sweet and loving. Thank you for sharing your joy. ❤️

[@karlissafletcher6672]

Hannah's reaction to her baby sister was so precious!

[@lizziefrances]

Thank you for sharing your experience, Jessica! Your wisdom and grace are so valuable for others to learn from. It was heartwarming to hear the nurses recognised what a gift it is to learn from their patients.

[@janpetersen750]

Thank you so much for this wonderful story! Sorry for the small disappointments and rejoice at the safe and joyous addition to your family!

[@LibraryLizard]

You are such a pro! Congratulations you, Adam, and the whole family! ❤

[@racmonbrown]

How wonderful. Thank you Jessica. Loved seeing the family meeting and loving Abigail 🖤

[@revguess9546]

Precious delivery. Illustrates improved hospital care since our 1st deliveries were not so good. Jesus has a plan and Abby has a special purpose. God's bless ya'll. Love, rev.

[@willieboswell1682]

I only have on child, a daughter now 56 years old! I cannot imagine being comfortable with a home birth, yet each mother and dad have to make the best choice for them. I’m so happy all is well with you and baby.

[@gwenroireau6203]

What a whirlwind entry for Abigail! ❤

[@TamingTheWild12]

So ironic I had #9 on Jan 26th and I'm 43 (will be 44 in March). Congrats! Been waiting to see this. I can't you got backlash from IG I have no idea why or what anyone would say!

[@michelinecrouch8682]

It’s a beautiful birth story designed by God….. Hanna was so precious meeting her. I am actually a retired Registered Nurse who worked in the Operating room my entire career. In our small hospital we did the c - sections in the OR so I have assisted with many, we also did all twin deliveries in the OR in case there was a problem. I have delivered vaginal births “ on accident “ , with no doctor present because of these situations and I can say that I wholeheartedly support Adam and his position! It’s scary sometimes! Thankful you are both well and back home with your beautiful family! Thx for sharing your story.

[@lindsaym2547]

Amazing job Mama!! YOU are a superhero!! Praise God!! Congratulations!!❤

[@hannahfourtner2624]

I certainly feel you on having prodromal labor for weeks beforehand and learning to just cope with contractions. Four of my six were like that - but still worth it all, of course! What a sweet family you and Adam have. Blessings to all of you and praise the Lord for sweet Abigail's safe (if eventful) arrival!

[@JennaGoforth]

Cannot wait to watch the rest of this Jessica ❤❤❤ I’ve been checking YT for this post!! See you Sunday 🙌🏻

[@nickieellison190]

If anyone has a problem with you sharing your birth story of Baby Abigail then they could just not watch. She is a blessing as well as the other children you have. I love your channel and everything you do for your family. In my opinion I don't like for others to tell others parents how to parent their children.

[@erinb.5103]

God has truly blessed you Jessica and I am glad you found a better experience at the hospital this time . I am also grateful for Adam loving your family so much that he wanted extra care there for the birth.

[@srsapb1]

Congratulations to a sweet family. There are those who would appreciate a husband like Adam...

[@katescaringcorner6765]

It’s always good to have a plan B and sometimes even a plan C. Kudos to Adam expressing what his boundaries are and to you for doing all the hard work. God’s plan is always better than ours. May He bless you all with many blessings and memories to make. ❤🙏🏼

[@cynthiahumphrey1718]

It’s a great story. Each baby and birth is unique. This is her, your story. You have a beautiful baby and both of you are healthy. What a blessing! Loved the story.

[@nargisserafik4475]

You made me cry 💗I'm in awe of you. I find you are such a magnificent woman and mother 🙏 Thank you for sharing your story. True courage. Thank you for your precious gift. I wish you and your beautiful family the most sacred blessings

[@flograce8210]

She’s perfect and obviously loved so much ❤️❤️ Adam is wonderful to love his wife so much ♥️ Welcome baby Abigail!!

[@paulaelves5160]

i watched my daughter go through this, 3 days of intense contractions and bad back pain, not being able to help much, he came out finally but backwards, and she tore really bad, it was like a large L shape and needed a lot of stiches, it was her first and last baby, she said she could never do that again.....i would of loved more grandchildren but i would never see her suffer in that way again, thank you for sharing your story and thank the lord every thing turned out ok, you have 9 beautiful and blessed children xxxx

[@lorrainelake2771]

Such a beautiful story and miracle! Thankful you're all happy and healthy! Thank you for sharing! God bless! 🙌💝💞

[@cpalmer7686]

Awww congratulations to you and your family. The first moments with the kids😊 I teared up. So precious. It all worked out the way it was supposed to.

[@AuntieD.]

Your story and experience are uniquely yours. Anyone else's criticism has no place here. Congrats❤

[@brianawhittington5608]

When Hannah met her baby sister it brought tears to my eyes. It reminded me of my older daughter meeting her baby sister. ❤ blessings to all of you and thank you for sharing your story.

[@ljslittle]

Adam made the right choice taking you to the hospital. Glad you’re all doing good! I had 9 kids too and that’s no small thing. So happy for you and your family.❤

[@beckysteinmiller338]

What a beautiful story! Adam is a fine loving man. His concerns were for his family and I find that a great sign of a loving husband and father. Jessica you are amazing and beautiful woman!

[@virginiawimer8064]

That was one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen!

[@BamaRollOn]

Adam is a rockstar hubby and dad!

[@ChristineWeaver-h3h]

I am feeling so many different emotions for you! First of all, joy at a safe birth! My baby is 5 months. He was born by C-section. I can relate to the deep disappointment of a planned beautiful homebirth turned into a scary ambulance ride. My 12 year-old daughter was going to witness this miracle of birth, as my older daughters had in the past... but a cord prolapse quickly changed everything! I know what it feels like to be flooded with gratitude for a healthy baby and also the longing we had for one more peaceful birth at home.

[@Seoulmom60]

Thank you for sharing such an intimate story with us. Hannah is so precious and now has a best friend. ❤

[@williej3831]

what a story to tell Abby when she is grown up. so happy all is well. now your family can be complet.

[@jazzbeaux6154]

In the lobby! That's the greatest story. Thanks, Jessica. ❤️

[@GrandmatoRVSGCM]

Beautiful story! So happy for you all! Sweet Hannah wanting to hold her baby sister just melted my heart!❤

[@angelabull7173]

Your husband is the sweetest. I'm glad it turned out well ❤

[@eileenthirling3676]

You have a awesome birth story congratulations ❤

[@lizharrison4241]

What a beautiful story, Adam did the best for you and Abigail. He truly loves his family. Thank you for sharing. X❤

[@bumblebee7922]

Awwww... how precious.... I LOVED your story and Abigail is just gorgeous! I had tears through most of it. Thank you for sharing and giving us all the details. I also adore birth stories. Births are just so sprecial. I had only one child and remember it well. Most precious thing ever. Adam is one in a million and I love the way he adores his children, and you. That is PRICELESS! Little Hannah reaching up to the baby was just too sweet!! Sounds like Abigail came right on time and was perfect all the way around, not early, not late... But, I'm so sorry for all your pain for so long... God Bless each of you.

[@karenmorris2949]

Thank you for sharing. I remember praying so much for you.

[@threerivershomestead]

Thank you so much!

[@tammyfrazier8720]

Congratulations, not your normal story but definitely not boring. I’m glad it all turned out well in the end. And you have a beautiful family

[@brecruz4832]

Jessica! I’m happy for you but also cried as you told this story for the challenges you had to face! Sending love and prayers!