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Tiffany TV

Tiffany TV

8 ай бұрын

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a lottt of you had questions about finding your people... takes a little more than showing up to an event. today, we're getting into all the deets. grab your bevvy + join me.
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Therapy for Black Girls podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
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On Purpose w/ Jay Shetty podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Super Soul Sunday: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
The Marie Forleo Podcast podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Therapy for Black Girls podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...
Other: search motivational videos for insert what you're working on on KZbin.
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@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 5 ай бұрын
good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop
@taylorjohnson2251
@taylorjohnson2251 8 ай бұрын
I literally just prayed for god to send me a genuine girlfriend and community.. I was recently called into solitude and been feeling super lonely.. really needed this right now ❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
yes! it was meant for you to see 🙌🏾🙏🏾
@jazbrehaut
@jazbrehaut 8 ай бұрын
SAME! I’m on a new educational journey & have been drifting away from all of my friends. I’m just becoming a different person & want those around me that fit
@ashleyhunter2156
@ashleyhunter2156 8 ай бұрын
WAIT I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS EXACT THING!!!!
@TheAniyaMarie
@TheAniyaMarie 8 ай бұрын
It's inspiring to recognize how many of us can relate to your comment. I'm going through a similar experience.
@user-kf8dt6ev8t
@user-kf8dt6ev8t 8 ай бұрын
Same! God has literally done the same for me. I really almost began to question it but i know that god has a mysterious way of showing me things in the unknown.
@afrykanqwin
@afrykanqwin 6 ай бұрын
Lost alot of friends since the pandemic and I got divorced ...then when I got laid off last year I lost more friends and so I moved to a new city and been lonely and really lost myself. I went from being super connected and personable to being in this little bubble. Happy to watch this praying for genuine friends in this new chapter.
@electricbeing993
@electricbeing993 6 ай бұрын
This is literally my life. I hope u get comfortable with just u and fall in love with yaself again. My motto is 1 day at a time.
@KaiaSiva
@KaiaSiva 8 ай бұрын
I don't even know how to be myself, my family never accepted my personality for what it was, and I've turned into a people-pleaser and just very socially anxious. I hope to one day find my tribe. That's my greatest wish. Love the video!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
hi love... I relate to EVERY word of this. if you haven't already, I hope you have a moment to go through the other videos in this series.. maybe start with this one kzbin.info/www/bejne/e6rGcqOCeNNrgbs ... I pray that they can get you on the road to feeling a little more comfortable in your body.
@bambisananilubuzo8459
@bambisananilubuzo8459 7 ай бұрын
I am like that too😢
@TracysHaven
@TracysHaven 7 ай бұрын
Sis I feel you completely, God will direct the right people to us amen.
@KaiaSiva
@KaiaSiva 7 ай бұрын
@@TracysHaven Amen!!
@KaiaSiva
@KaiaSiva 7 ай бұрын
@@TiffanyTV I will check it out, thank you so much for your kind words!
@Melle_Tanya_
@Melle_Tanya_ 8 ай бұрын
This came at the right time. I am honestly working on releasing myself from people I don’t feel at peace around.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
I love that for you mama 🙌🏾🤎
@electricbeing993
@electricbeing993 6 ай бұрын
Me too sis
@rosecitytheaftershow
@rosecitytheaftershow 5 ай бұрын
🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Marixx707
@Marixx707 26 күн бұрын
I’M WITH YOU ON THIS!!! Blessings to you always on your journey
@loveandhappinesswithsheila
@loveandhappinesswithsheila 8 ай бұрын
Being authentic,Being yourself is the best gift you can give to the world. When I fully understood who I am it became easier for me to attract people and situations that aligns .
@thatgirlbrinna7927
@thatgirlbrinna7927 8 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽
@QueenPoetK7
@QueenPoetK7 8 ай бұрын
On my isolation journey! Thank you for talking about this and how social media can make us think we need 'girl groups' when we really just need good friends.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
that part! 🎯
@Introverted_thug
@Introverted_thug 8 ай бұрын
This so hit home for me. The fear of being seen and not knowing what to do when I actually put myself out there and people try and connect is my difficulty.
@myfaverecipes
@myfaverecipes 8 ай бұрын
Same!!
@SelfempowermentComeUNITY
@SelfempowermentComeUNITY 8 ай бұрын
Same , I have so much love and would love to say hi hello to others on the road but most always have a bad look so I just keep to myself and close down. I am happy I found this video the energy is everything because she looks just like myself in a highlight. Is this what it means when it says your find people who look like you
@TammiMorrison
@TammiMorrison 8 ай бұрын
I can relate. I just had to go on a deep journey of connecting to me.
@jesusisking3814
@jesusisking3814 7 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 6 ай бұрын
my suggestion would be working on yourself first. truly start the work of learning + loving yourself deep… figure out why you fear being seen.. do the work get to the root of that before trying to build more connections. I hope you receive this with love 🫂🤎
@sunnni_
@sunnni_ 7 ай бұрын
I realized the other day that I want genuine connection, I want more than sending reels to one another and stuff. So I am working on getting myself together and going to try and put myself out there. I pray to God every night for true community and a genuine best friend and I have faith it'll happen. Needed this reminded ❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 7 ай бұрын
you’re doing the work! it will happen sis 🙌🏾🤎
@khamiam
@khamiam 8 ай бұрын
I'm appreciative of this video. As a man, I'm creating my "chosen family" or "tribe" right now. When meeting others, I saw that I would dilute myself; I told myself that it was just a matter of me having my "guard" up, but in reality, I was afraid of being judged for who I am. Wishing you many blessings sis 🙏🏾.
@JoAnnRichardsGoffe
@JoAnnRichardsGoffe 7 ай бұрын
People may see this issue as being a female thing. Kudos to you for showing up here!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 6 ай бұрын
whew. this! 🎯
@christalleturner
@christalleturner 8 ай бұрын
This video is definitely for me. Being an introvert can be really hard at times and not feeling like you fit in with anyone. Im still taking steps on getting out of my comfort zone and actually putting myself out there connecting with people. I know soon ill find the right people that I’m compatible with.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
not easy at all but keep exactly who you are, (with the exception of the things YOU feel you want to work on + enhance) + find the people that don't need you to be anything more. like the people you can sit quietly with on the couch lol... praying you find your people mama 🤎
@christalleturner
@christalleturner 8 ай бұрын
@@TiffanyTV Thank you so much Tiffany! So glad i came across your channels today! Must been a sign from the holy spirit! New sub! 🫶🏽💕
@00ashantii
@00ashantii 8 ай бұрын
Omg yes! Me too! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@TammiMorrison
@TammiMorrison 8 ай бұрын
I can feel all of this❤ I recently started doing that as well. Introvert as well. I had recently been guided to move through the fear. One way I started to get out there is I started doing marketplaces and talking to people. Which as you know is completely out of my comfort zone.
@jamelajones6054
@jamelajones6054 8 ай бұрын
This was literally my prayer yday! Wow!! To be seen, heard, loved etc, genuine friends! Thank you. Hope the ladies in the chat all find their Tribe!!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
I second this 🙏🏾🤎
@goldenhippie1984
@goldenhippie1984 8 ай бұрын
Introvert extrovert here sis 😂😊 I like to watch people out the window 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
😂 I getttt ittttt because SAME
@swoozie
@swoozie 8 ай бұрын
This video is a breath of fresh air! Great messages. Tysm for putting this on our plates
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you!
@LovinBeingNatural
@LovinBeingNatural 7 ай бұрын
Well put 🙌🏽
@savedthrulove
@savedthrulove 7 ай бұрын
​@@LovinBeingNatural😊😊😊😊
@lynluxx5948
@lynluxx5948 8 ай бұрын
So weird that this popped up on my timeline because i’m having this conversation as i’m typing this, with someone and he asked me if i had any friends and i literally told him “ i’m learning myself and who i want to be surrounded by” in the same breath i popped open youtube and BOMB here’s this video. the universe has its way of speaking to you! 😂
@prettysimpleday9192
@prettysimpleday9192 7 ай бұрын
My husband sent this video to me. I’m definitely on my journey. Definitely an introvert and experience fear and anxiety…I know what I’m called to do… looking for my tribe!!! Thank you!!!
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 7 ай бұрын
you are so welcome! shoutout to hubby 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@foxwitmox
@foxwitmox 7 ай бұрын
I literally came to the video with “girl group” in mind, and left feeling 1000% more grateful for the 3 (separate) close friendships I already have… I’m going to continue becoming myself and finding ways to support and encourage their growth where I can 💎
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 7 ай бұрын
oof this! this made my day… that mindset shift is everything 🤌🏾
@Adoremydyamonds
@Adoremydyamonds 6 ай бұрын
Your spiritual tribe is your actual connection, more than just the physical. And it matters the most. 🌸
@melaniemichalik7354
@melaniemichalik7354 3 ай бұрын
I had such a hard week with my depression cause literally the people who I thought were true is not at all. This video helped me with the realization
@Joy-30
@Joy-30 8 ай бұрын
I’m currently in my season of isolation due to being in a new city. I have also grown apart from old friendships. It’s been hard but now I truly feel free to be myself. I truly resonated with this video so much. Thank you
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
you're so welcome love! keep going. it all eventually starts to make sense 🤎
@Forevermj___
@Forevermj___ 7 ай бұрын
Me too it’s been so hard!
@user-wt9xm6xz6l
@user-wt9xm6xz6l 7 ай бұрын
This video really speaks to the season I’m currently in, I don’t want to be inauthentic to fit in. Instead of searching for better friends I just work on myself and try to become my best self and then maybe, maybe I’ll find my tribe 🤞🏾
@nombulelomaseso6520
@nombulelomaseso6520 8 ай бұрын
You gained a follower indeed. Just a few minutes ago I was venting to a sister about how frustrating it is to have people just not liking you for bo reason and she pointed out what is important is quality over quantity so may the Creator meet us when it gets lonely and help us to embrace our small community .
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
yes yes yes... quality over quantity every time 🙌🏾
@user-cw4ch5gr6e
@user-cw4ch5gr6e 7 ай бұрын
It’s illegal for KZbin to not recommended your channel to me before this. It’s like god was talking to me and told me what I needed to hear in the middle of me making some big changes in life. I got super emotional when you talked vulnerably about how you rejected genuine energies since you weren’t used to it and you’re used to working hard for love. That was a lot to take in and something I needed to hear and realise about myself. Can’t wait to binge watch all your videos. I’ve already taken into account a few tips from this video - I need to move out of from tough situation and make a new life and make some new friends. ❤
@SAkil-oh9hh
@SAkil-oh9hh 7 ай бұрын
A very clear sign to me is , when people are not judging right away and acting with humour and generosity to awkward situations. Usually that’s a good place to be .
@Khyri_WithLove
@Khyri_WithLove 8 ай бұрын
I cannot put into words how this video resonated with me & brought me to tears. Being alone is tough but pouring your genuine positive intentions into the wrong ppl hurts more. I really don’t know myself anymore so I’m accepting this as a sign that I need to pour that love into myself. Thank you thank you thank you for this video 💐🩷 because this world is so discouraging. I hope your blessed beyond your desires 🙏🏾
@s.i.s.manifest6540
@s.i.s.manifest6540 8 ай бұрын
I'm 53 & struggling to find my "tribe" since losing 3 of my closest childhood friends in last 5 yrs...I came across this video shared in a "Girlfriend" Group & so Thankful for the share❤ New subscriber!! Great topic delivered WELL🙌🏾🙌🏾
@TheThundercat718
@TheThundercat718 3 ай бұрын
❤❤
@lynnejasames77
@lynnejasames77 7 ай бұрын
God will send you the messages you need in certain stages of your life 🎲🎲 Thank you 🙏🏾
@neicycarlasquire
@neicycarlasquire 7 ай бұрын
Being true to yourself and letting go of people that are not in alignment with you, opens up opportunities for you to go to a higher level and way of living your life. Great info!
@ARAYOFLIFE
@ARAYOFLIFE 7 ай бұрын
Funny how videos with this content just jumps right out when you’re in a space of evolving. Currently in an isolation stage, yes it can get lonely, but worth it when you are devoted to change over your life. Thank you Tiffany I felt this message and proud of myself❤
@TaMonicaR
@TaMonicaR 7 ай бұрын
I prayed to God yesterday to remove ppl in my life that no longer serve me or my purpose. Long story short, My BFF and I got into the pettiest argument a few hours later and she told me to never call her again (I honestly didn’t do or say anything for her to blow up that way). So, I took it as her being one of those people not meant to go with me on my next journey 🤷🏽‍♀️
@spiritualthugg
@spiritualthugg 8 ай бұрын
I been alone since I was born, still alone, lies travel faster than truth. Patience is my virtue
@faithagbossou1882
@faithagbossou1882 8 ай бұрын
Whew, felt the part about being closed because of never had to experience genuine love. It’s real trap because you need grace for « your people » to be patient enough with you in times when you don’t open up to them and show them healthy vulnerability. We’re raised into thinking that vulnerability is being naive or things like that, while it just depends on who you confide to. I’m so happy you shared about it❤
@freebird1784
@freebird1784 8 ай бұрын
People don't have the patience anymore to know anybody. But we are worth enough to not rush anything!
@influenceforpurpose
@influenceforpurpose 8 ай бұрын
This is so good! About to go to my first conference alone in my 40’s 😳 Terrified a little but will do it afraid! Listening up to get all the help I can get. I’m quite introverted, quirky and private for sure! 🙏🏽
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
sending you alll the love + good vibes!! I pray it goes better than you even thought it could 🙏🏾🤎
@influenceforpurpose
@influenceforpurpose 8 ай бұрын
@@TiffanyTV Amen! Tysm! I receive it 🙌 Continued blessings to you 🙏💕
@CoachAhava-0000
@CoachAhava-0000 7 ай бұрын
How did the Conference go?
@influenceforpurpose
@influenceforpurpose 7 ай бұрын
@@CoachAhava-0000 So sweet of you to ask! It’s actually this week coming weekend. I’m mentally preparing myself for it, apply the advice from here, trust the Lord and do it afraid if I must! Thank you again 🤗
@jesusisking3814
@jesusisking3814 7 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
@boniworldwide
@boniworldwide 7 ай бұрын
Omg I needed this video ! My friend was criticizing me yesterday . We were smoking and driving and I said oh snap the police .I prayed I said thank you GOD for letting us get back and forth safely . I kept my eye on the police, they didn’t have on their blinkers so I kept my eye on them they’re petty , I seen them get behind me I said oh shoot they done got behind me behind me lord before I can say anything else she said oooooooo you doubted GOD !!! Im like. .. no I didn’t ? I was just watching there every move she said whatever that’s doubting GOD. & I’m drained everything I say is against god like wow
@Krystalwatchesvideos
@Krystalwatchesvideos 3 ай бұрын
OMG I started laughing when you said that hey, you could befriend the Amazon people. I've been a hermit for years. Got out of an abusive relationship, got into therapy & figured out that I had friendships that were toxic & family....sooooo much. Had to clear house. Thank you SO much for speaking on anxiety! The being comfy at home part really rang true for me. Thank you 🙏
@omschooling
@omschooling 7 ай бұрын
Essential tips "determine wht is not aligned with you and wht you're afraid of" thk you so much for this reminder!! As I'm just starting my KZbin channel, I'll keep that mind 🙏💓
@blessingmamabolo1682
@blessingmamabolo1682 7 ай бұрын
I want to find my people so bad. I have prayed about it but now I want to fast for it. To find a video like this is a breath of fresh air.
@MalaneYoung
@MalaneYoung 6 ай бұрын
We’re out here sis! Reach out!❤️🥰
@goldenhippie1984
@goldenhippie1984 8 ай бұрын
Supporters are always better than helpers.
@Shanellereena
@Shanellereena 8 ай бұрын
This just made me think, how many people in my life am I completely myself around? Other than my spouse, I can not think of anyone. I've isolated myself from everyone this year because I was tired of not being my full self around people. It was so draining. Now it is time for me to acknowledge that I do want beautiful and healthy relationships. I do want to connect, be seen, and have a fuller life with my people.
@ProdByMallDidIt
@ProdByMallDidIt 5 ай бұрын
It’s crazy that I JUUUUST had the thought of totally being myself, and not waiting for people to reveal things about them for me to be like “yea me too”, seeming as if I’m a copy cat lol
@Shadavik
@Shadavik 8 ай бұрын
See, I can not stand fake support and fake women empowerment. My friends don't have to have a specific look. They do have to be confident and confidence has no specific look ✨️
@spiriteddoll2166
@spiriteddoll2166 7 ай бұрын
Hello! Older woman can definitely learn from younger women. Thanks for this video. I am a vibrant Gemini and I have yet to find my tribe. I spend a lot of time to myself. Others don't understand it, but I spend my time with God in solitude until I find my tribe. I was not taught to embrace my divine feminine. I was taught to take care of family first instead of taking care of myself. Thank God that I am now enlightened. Thank you Queen!
@arnibah
@arnibah 7 ай бұрын
I found out through experience that your tribe will gravitate towards you without you even trying to find them.All you have to do is get and stay on your purpose for being on the planet.
@pulseforpurposebyrachelburrell
@pulseforpurposebyrachelburrell 6 ай бұрын
Showing up and showing up authentically. I’m still growing and still learning
@justrandom01049
@justrandom01049 3 ай бұрын
Hey girl, going into my 30s in 2 months. My emotions are conflicting. My 6 yrs relationship ended, healing from depression, and I realized my savings are not enough. I am in so much pain but I guess my job right now was my blessing for keeping me busy because I am always burned out in my last job but this job right now is one of the things that keep me going aside from my family, my greatest supporter. I am right here learning from the examples of people searching on youtube how's their life in their 30s and I realized that whenever/whoever you are, everyone is doing their best to live their best life.I really love what you mentioned to be the person in your head as much as you can .. I will too.. thank you
@SeeShavonnCreate
@SeeShavonnCreate 6 ай бұрын
I was looking for videos for black women with ADHD, saw the title of your video and this is exactly where I was meant to be. Felt like you were talking directly to me.
@Lupusanadhd
@Lupusanadhd 7 ай бұрын
Thank you I am a 52 year old Christian woman who battle Lupus and adhd and God saved me from emotional dysfunction and I haven't been letting myself shine by just being true to myself. Now I get it. I gotta stop keeping whose I am a secret. I will be showing up and start my youtube channel. Thank you. I'm gonna need y'all lol. @tiffanytv
@LadyTreble
@LadyTreble 7 ай бұрын
It's so difficult being as extraverted as they come, yet never truly fitting in anywhere and in any space. I'm not shy at all, have no problem attending events and putting myself out there, yet I still just can't seem to make new and healthy connections. It's like the world genuinely hates me. Just when I think I've met someone loving, caring, and genuine, they end up majorly switching up on me and stabbing me in the back. I've been betrayed by some of my longest standing and closest friendships and I just don't know what to do anymore. I've low-key lost trust in humanity. As someone who literally gets their energy from people, genuine connections, and being social, this has legit been my worst nightmare! I wouldn't wish this life on a soul!! How in the world is it possible to be an extrovert, yet be one of the loneliest people in the entire world?! I'm sure I'm the only one cuz not a single extrovert I know has ever in their entire existence had to face what I've had to face since freaking childhood! Literally NO ONE!!! Being alone def has it's places, but being completely isolated from humanity is genuinely draining AF! I wanna find my "people" so bad, but now I'm starting to wonder based on my whole life experience is there actually any people in this entire world for me? Could there ever be even one that's genuinely for me and won't betray me smh? This ish really is for the birds and at this point, I'm wondering if someone put something on me as a young child so that my life would be this way smh! 💔😩😭
@AWholeVibe96
@AWholeVibe96 7 ай бұрын
Wow. Maybe try being your own friend first?
@alesiadyakovych8549
@alesiadyakovych8549 5 ай бұрын
Where do u live
@jmeezy2362
@jmeezy2362 8 ай бұрын
You’re the big sister I need this time of year. I’m going through this now and taking a whole break from social media because I’m tired of seeing people who don’t truly like me or support me. It’s time for a shift.
@MRSDAVID1
@MRSDAVID1 6 ай бұрын
yep, my unhealthy space is literally me believing that i don't deserve any kindness from people and keep feeling guilty about it.
@drebugsita
@drebugsita 7 ай бұрын
Ok that intro first line right there is truly a life lesson worth meditating on!
@goldenhippie1984
@goldenhippie1984 8 ай бұрын
Learning the people that you don't want to be around is important, just remember that that can change and it may have more to do with you than them 😊
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
bingo 🎯
@SupShortie
@SupShortie 4 ай бұрын
I'm turning 30 this year and let me tell you how refreshing it feels to let go of relationships (platonic and romantic) from my late teens to early 20s. Just like Tiffany described, I was showing people the version of me that allowed them to take advantage or treat me some type of way. After breaking off those relationships I did feel lonely. I took time to reevaluate my life and what it is that I want from it including WHO I want in it. Now I vow to live each day as my authentic self and I'm attracting a different crowd that is more aligned with my mindset and lifestyle. I mean it's still a work in progress don't get me wrong but this video was such a great reminder to keep pushing.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 4 ай бұрын
this is beautiful! congrats love, because not a lot of people take this path. it’s so much “easier” in the short term to just stay planted in what you’ve always known. soooo excited for you on this part of your journey. it’s up from here 🥂
@janet1924
@janet1924 7 ай бұрын
Please don’t ever stop making these videos! I love your authenticity and transparency. I’ve never heard anyone say be yourself. While it may seem like an obvious thing to do, so many people struggle and it’s rarely said. Thank you 🙏🏽
@nothileshezi8806
@nothileshezi8806 7 ай бұрын
Isolation during growth phase is the hard because sometimes you need someone to grow with. My biggest struggle .
@caterpillar_properties
@caterpillar_properties 8 ай бұрын
OMG...I don't know (outside of divine intervention) how I came across your channel, but I resonate with so much of what you are saying. I've always been a believer in being my authentic self. I am in a place of uncomfortably solitude and just couldn't understand why I was loosing so many people in my life. Hearing this, I now recognize it's part of the process/my journey. This inspires me to go out and do exactly what has been in my spirit and what brings me the most joy. Thank you sooo much.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
you said it girl. divine intervention 🙏🏾 breathe through this uncomfortable part + keep making moves true to your authenticity. let it unfold better than you thought it could 🤎
@caterpillar_properties
@caterpillar_properties 8 ай бұрын
🥰
@stephenweems1st
@stephenweems1st 7 ай бұрын
Isolation at first was so bad and I cried to GOD for it stop. Eventually he let go back to my family who in turned began to drain me more. Until finally I couldn’t take anymore. Back to solitary I go except I’m happy to be here, I’m free here. Now I’m grow leaps and bonds my vision is clear and my tribe is growing❤
@HoneyBunRoad
@HoneyBunRoad 7 ай бұрын
I find that with my friends, I'm expected to act as the therapist because I'm always about that deep work, inner healing, positivy etc in my own life...but I got to the point where I don't even want to comment on anything because I realised people love to talk about their situations more than they want to change it. I could not do it anymore.
@Self-love-mastery
@Self-love-mastery 8 ай бұрын
Damn man, how does this woman always come up with videos that’s so aligned with my life?❤
@tiffanybyars3939
@tiffanybyars3939 5 ай бұрын
This is the path I'm on. This actually gave me a push
@JayAyers
@JayAyers 8 ай бұрын
8:22 "Would you rather stay in this Un-comfortability or would you rather see 'what is it like if I fully show up as myself'?" It's easier said than done, but I like this quote.
@livinginlasvegasnevada6469
@livinginlasvegasnevada6469 7 ай бұрын
I have loving people around me but I feel lonely in my path as if no one understands or sees my vision, no one is as driven as I am. I’ve started to realize that loneliness is part of my path so that I may be one with God. (You don’t have to be a believer to know that a higher power has placed a higher calling on you and that’s why you feel different. I am happy to know I am in the correct path. I’m for anyone that wants to connect.
@tjsnaturalliving5148
@tjsnaturalliving5148 7 ай бұрын
I truly see myself in you, and I was having a panic attack about my entrepreneurial journey and feeling alone dejected rejected kind of thing, and I felt like it’s been too long and it’s been too lonely and I was just contemplating what I need to do next and I couldn’t think of anything positive and then I bumped into this video which I have never seen before wasn’t subscribed to and it was just at the right time. I don’t believe in coincidences like this this video was so lovely it is me in you and, you in me ❤❤❤ I feel totally normal and ready to find my tribe and my tribe to find me feel amazing. Thank you so much.❤❤
@kajaljain7447
@kajaljain7447 8 ай бұрын
This is was what I needed to hear. I hope everyone in this section finds their people
@melwest1407
@melwest1407 5 ай бұрын
yourselve an dont change and your people will find you❤
@nikuzenatalie
@nikuzenatalie 8 ай бұрын
been only a week since i know Tiffany but hell, you're already my favorite KZbinr i love you. Nat
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
🥹 this warms my heart girl
@drinkswithdrea
@drinkswithdrea 8 ай бұрын
Tiffany👀👀 you been spying on me 😭😭 this is so spot on
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
😂 we’re all the same girl
@phumlaportiakunene4473
@phumlaportiakunene4473 5 ай бұрын
It's funny how you can think you are the only one going through something and to find there are so many other women going through the same thing around the world
@LoveAndSnapple
@LoveAndSnapple 7 ай бұрын
And yes, the Women's Empowerment Movement is the new MLM.
@wadduphotthing
@wadduphotthing 7 ай бұрын
This is my current journey! I spend time with my grandparents n don’t really spend time with people my age. It’s time to pray and see things differently!
@elisseamaranthine2916
@elisseamaranthine2916 8 ай бұрын
*Attracting beautiful souls... Subscribed✔️
@deboragittens3363
@deboragittens3363 8 ай бұрын
That's it right there I want good women, real honest, non judgemental. I realize that unwelcoming feeling as well. So i just stay to myself. The let down is real. Im not a people pleaser and I've never really like hang with a big group of people. Small intimate friendship are good for me.
@everythingtaylored9223
@everythingtaylored9223 7 ай бұрын
when you said "the thought of small talk" I felt it in my SOULLLLL
@wildewildestrawberries
@wildewildestrawberries 7 ай бұрын
Finally an honest video about loneliness, isolation and finding your tribe. Thank you.
@1amSaada
@1amSaada 8 ай бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed this girl. You are truly an internet older sis😭🥺❤️.
@thehealthyhappynanny
@thehealthyhappynanny 5 ай бұрын
Thank you!! 🙏🏻 💓
@AlternativeApproachCoaching
@AlternativeApproachCoaching 5 ай бұрын
Love this!
@faithmartina4144
@faithmartina4144 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this ❤
@PatriceButler49
@PatriceButler49 5 ай бұрын
Thank u I needed this ❤
@josephguardalabeneiii8680
@josephguardalabeneiii8680 8 ай бұрын
Channel resonates 💯 percent ❤
@onogwumabel1659
@onogwumabel1659 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this😊
@fegiluxelifeadvisor22
@fegiluxelifeadvisor22 8 ай бұрын
Soo true had to be on!!!😮
@IamUnstoppabe
@IamUnstoppabe 5 ай бұрын
I love this❤You're gorgeous ❤Keep shining!!! 🎯🎯🎯
@tolly2005
@tolly2005 7 ай бұрын
I’ve been praying for this 🙏🏾, thank you for sharing 🫶🏾
@trinhle603
@trinhle603 8 ай бұрын
Just exactly what my mind and heart need to hear. Thank You :)
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
🙌🏾😌🤎
@myfaverecipes
@myfaverecipes 8 ай бұрын
This really hit home and is how I’ve been feeling all of my life. I really don’t fit in with alot of people at all. I’ve always had a handful of friends in my life and some times even our paths don’t always mix. Would love to meet new friends who get it and can relate on a deeper level. ❤
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
and also... different friends for different parts of your life. I've grown apart from my friends and we've come back together after some time. get yourself in spaces with more people who relate to where you currently 🤎
@JuThaTruth
@JuThaTruth 5 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this
@Danitapg
@Danitapg 7 ай бұрын
Love your energy ❤
@NariahSpeaks31
@NariahSpeaks31 8 ай бұрын
This really made my heart smile. Thank you.
@spiritualthugg
@spiritualthugg 8 ай бұрын
Excellent advice thanks!!!!
@dekochea
@dekochea 5 ай бұрын
Thank you I really needed to hear that .
@tiisetsotalane
@tiisetsotalane 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful video🧡
@SMaRtnSexi
@SMaRtnSexi 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤍🤍🤍✨
@boneshakauhaahaa
@boneshakauhaahaa 8 ай бұрын
This video has truly blessed me, thank you. ❤
@emilym6214
@emilym6214 8 ай бұрын
So good!!!!!!
@staceys173
@staceys173 8 ай бұрын
Its amazing that out of this world of billions of people, people have trouble finding people that click with them. I ran a meet up group that was popular in my city. Over 3000 members. However, over 15 years I made a lot of acquaintances, and not many friends. I even experienced many frenemies. They wanted what I could give them, and treated me like crap. Fake. I am so relieved not to do that any more. I can breath again. Love going out, love meeting people, but I also love time to myself. I treasure real friendships. They are rare gems. Thank you for your words of support and guidance.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
yes… rare gems! a lot of people have been through a lot of things… and unfortunately, most don’t do the work or even know how to begin to unpack + heal that trauma. it makes it really hard to form healthy bonds from that space. I just pray that some of the things I share can help people to start taking the reigns on what they actually can control to heal + live the lives they desire… thank you for watching 🙏🏾
@karensimpson1399
@karensimpson1399 8 ай бұрын
This was excellent!!! Keep up the great work!!! Thanks!!!
@ShaniTheBurningTree
@ShaniTheBurningTree 8 ай бұрын
The beauty and top got me here, the voice got me listening, the wisdom got me thinking. Love when young and beautiful women are spiritually inclined. Keep it up sister.
@TiffanyTV
@TiffanyTV 8 ай бұрын
received! thank you love 🤎🤎
@lunamagic8
@lunamagic8 8 ай бұрын
Thank you girl! This video just show up on time!!
@ms.tiarrajay3527
@ms.tiarrajay3527 8 ай бұрын
I really needed to this right now 💜
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