TikTok Gender Reveals Are Disastrous

[@ljz1988]

At my gender reveal, I'm planning to poison the punch. All guests will have a choice between the pink and blue antidote. The correct choice is the true gender of the baby. There will be casualties.

[@lizzie31]

The ONLY valid gender reveal party

[@margaritapeggyschuylervanr2486]

can i come?

[@salem-01]

Beautiful

[@4trashycouture]

tell me the date pls

[@kieranwhippy4137]

😂😂😂

[@victoria3301]

Lets be real, the only good gender reveal that exists on this hellscape that is the internet is that one where they pop the empty balloon and while everyone is confused one woman goes "y'all done stressed me the fck out" and snatches her own wig to reveal the blue hair underneath. 10/10, best gender reveal.

[@jessicabeckford9391]

loved it!😭

[@breadbread6814]

Dude where can I watch that

[@filui]

@@breadbread6814 look up 'wig gender reveal' :-)

[@marlenezoet]

I know that one! 😂

[@PissyLissy]

LMFAO

[@favbubblegirl]

Why can't we have nice things. The reveals being centered around the men ignoring their significant other makes me wish there was a multi-verse.

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

not a big deal

[@tadmira127dreamuvtadmir2]

What?

[@DarkCelestialConsciousness]

Just makes me want everyone to die and go extinct. Feels hopeless with men.

[@user-id8ih]

the moms are probably annoying asf anyways this child having generation is stupid and deserves anything negative coming their way

[@marvelperson1628]

according to the quantum mechanics many worlds interpretation of the measurement problem of quantum superposition, the multiverse could theoretically exist

[@caidalee1994]

This is why if I ever have kids, I’m finding out the sex the old-fashioned way: When it pops out. Before then, people are *way* too weird about my hypothetical kid’s genitals and what gifts they should get based off of said genitals. Like, “oh no! I can’t buy a tutu until I know it’s a girl!” ??? Then get a toy or something useful? “But should it be pink or blue?!?!” I don’t know, green? Orange? Black? God forbid I put a pink onesie on my infant son. That would just ruin him /s. Who cares, as long as it’s healthy? People are weird.

[@proxyprone]

Just buy presents the parents will enjoy, babies don't care.

[@caidalee1994]

@@proxyprone they never do. They buy things they want to see on your kid. It’s kinda weird, tbh

[@Axqu7227]

Yellow and green onesies with cute cartoon animals are always a win.

[@negligible_reality]

@@Axqu7227 i was with you until i saw "yellow", that's always a lose in my opinion. (yellow hurts my eyes, and is an awful color especially bright yellow!)

[@purplepapos1460]

​@@negligible_realitywell that's just your opinion but I personally find yellow really bright and cute

[@flamingflamingo4021]

I feel sad for the girls born into families where they are clearly unwanted by their fathers.

[@no_peace]

It's not just that. Their dads think they can't do fun stuff with them Meaning, their dads want boys so bad because they think girls can't do a bunch of things, so many or most of the dads won't bother, or will object to it. Their dads don't want them AND they are taught rigid gender roles, even if they rebel against them

[@flamingflamingo4021]

@@no_peace Yeah, I saw tiktoks how they are so 'overprotective' of their daughters having stable relationships treating them like objects to 'protect' or protect their 'purity'/virginity. While at the same time, they are encouraging their sons to be as promiscuous as possible as if they were frat buddies. The hypocrisy and sexism is nauseating.

[@SabbathPriest33]

Why the fuck can’t we just enjoy this channel without it being a gender war?? Chad herself is never saying things like this?? It seems like a bunch of femcels got attracted to this channel recently and have to make everyone of her comment sections an essay on why men are the worst thing to ever exist. It’s really fucking annoying because I genuinely enjoy chad and her commentary, but toxic people always have to ruin good things.

[@scrappyanimations4096]

Shut the fuck up dude they’re not unwanted the fathers just had a preference. Better than being born into a family where your two gay dads try to get you started on estrogen at age 3 cause they wanted a girl

[@sarshrimp1476]

Laughs as a girl who was born a disappointment to a dad who had already picked the name josh and already had two twin daughters. He initially didn't want me at all, but got excited at the idea that I might be a boy :D

[@albabarcenaferreras2049]

It's so heartbreaking to see so many men disappointed by the fact that they're having a baby girl instead of a baby boy. They being born should feel like a blessing no matter what their sex is.

[@Toxihex]

They don't want a child hun, they want a project.

[@adonissabinorio2639]

agreed! men have such a weird obsession with keeping their ‘legacy’ or ‘keeping the family name alive’, never understood that bullshit

[@genericname2747]

there's a TINY HUMAN in someone's stomach. This is insane. Absolutely bonkers. The gender is irrelevant

[@ThexDynastxQueen]

I am reminded of the beautiful fact that my anime daddy, Dragon Ball's Vegeta, when presented with his just born baby he gleefully went and I quote "OOHH IT'S A GIRL!". Absolute highlight of the whole damn manga. A fictional man who used to commit murders and has a myriad of issues is still more of a man than "real" men. Sit on that for a second lol.

[@Ozzie_Mandias]

@@adonissabinorio2639 That's not men... men don't want their sons to be exact copies of them... they want their sons to be bastions of masculinity, straight shooters and non-nonsense types who take no shit from anyone and get things done their own way.

[@graamkraken]

I swear gender reveal parties are just competitions to see who can cause the most environmental damage at this point

[@Error_-ct2vp]

Not really. Many KZbinrs treat them very well

[@GOUdamn]

Next one they will blow up the moon

[@blueboozle774]

Become vegan if you care about the environment, enough with your cognitive dissonance

[@GOUdamn]

@@blueboozle774 what ¿¿¿

[@blueboozle774]

@@GOUdamn the meat industry has serious impact on the environment, yet people don’t care because MeAT TAsTE So GOoD. Did you know the reason the amazon rainforest is being destroyed for the meat industry

[@ittobestguy2254]

the fact that in almost all of the gender reveals where the baby is a girl, the father gets upset about it, is so concerning and childish

[@Niphredyl]

In the fencing club I went to as a teenager, one of the coaches had 6 (or 7?) daughters and an infant son. He couldn’t stop until he had a son. But, he did care for her daughters as well, one of them he trained to be an European champion later in life.

[@theprocat719]

1 year late but its kinda been in humanity for hundreds for years now.

[@louisegood6432]

saw a woman on tiktok from months ago that did a reveal party, was having a girl, and the guy straight up left. checked if there were any updates and she's divorcing him. love to see it lmfao

[@Enriquez2222]

Beautiful

[@joyc.e.7511]

YASS, sis saw that red flag for what it was and said "Nope. My daughter and I are not going through that nonsense."

[@genericname2747]

Lol good for her.

[@bluefox8011]

You answered my comment thanks. XD

[@thevideoofdiariesofagregin9517]

@Trinity M Yes it is. If your husband completely leaves a party just because your child has a vulva instead of a penis than he’s not going to treat that child well and you shouldn’t force the child to interact with their “father”.

[@genericwhiteguy2910]

If a dude doesn't want to have a biological girl, then that tells you all you need to know about how he perceives women in general. Like, who the heck cares what the biological sex of a kid is?? Be grateful that you are even having a kid when others cannot do to some circumstance. I tell you...

[@ivxx7815]

generic white guy you are so right

[@pussydestroyer69285]

I love u so much for saying this generic white guy. Love your name btw lmao

[@MOTHHMAN]

I cannot believe the day has finally come where a generic white guy has made a great point...I didn't think it was possible

[@genericwhiteguy2910]

@@MOTHHMAN Miracles happen every day 😂☠😂

[@g2.a6]

Reminds me of the "all fathers of girls are cucks" incel copypasta. Such a classic.

[@itslina6500]

on top of the danger and stupid gender norms some of the reactions the fathers have when its a girl are... concerning !

[@megansstallion818]

Those same dad's are the ones that say "Not All Men"

[@magk2524]

they peaked in elementary when they had that boys vs girls mentality

[@mikasa4212]

+ the men that literally ignored the pregnant mom...

[@blueboozle774]

Yup, notice how all these are white people, we black people are serious and don’t partake in foolish behaviour

[@pepthebabslasonge2551]

​@@blueboozle774 in this youtube video Chad literally shows a BAME man reacting negatively to its a girl. So you're statement isn't entirely true, but it isn't entirely false. Gender reveal parties is a very upper middle class thing to do and due to the racial class divide caused by historic and societal racism, there are more upper middle class white families.

[@azuill1126]

Imagine being the kid of parents that get arrested for causing a toxic tsunami or something and figuring out you're transgender later in life like holy fuck my parents caused an environmental disaster for the wrong gender

[@genericname2747]

Time for another tsunami!

[@Axqu7227]

All the more reason to transition! Clearly the sex assigned at birth was a disaster so it’s a sign from the universe that you get to do it over.

[@milkywaycafe.]

​@@Axqu7227 Lmaoooo. You gotta at that point

[@thepeasrolledoffthecounter7552]

​@@Axqu7227It all makes sense now...

[@sunnydlite-t8b]

Imagine being given obvious info (there are only 2 genders) and then using the term "figuring out you are transgender", and not realizing you are a complete moron.

[@supersushi2139]

I feel so bad for the lady who invented them. Incase you don't know, that blogger had suffered multiple miscarriages I believe and so she just wanted to make a nice event with her family to celebrate finally having a child.

[@Jorkier]

I didn't know that. Im glad she finally got what she wanted, but damn. 😢

[@cellyheartheart]

Aw.. but at least hers was sweet.. ig

[@HSvideoSims3]

Didn’t she also mentioned she regret the whole gender-reveal thing because of how it ended up affecting her daughter as she grew up?

[@supersushi2139]

@@HSvideoSims3 Yes that's right

[@solarssolstice]

Which video? Sorry I’m kinda oblivious 😅

[@notmyrrodrick4387]

If anyone wants to defend the dads who are straight up disappointed and upset that they are going to have a girl, let me tell you that my dad is a father of 4 girls, and 5 female grandbabies, and has not complained even once about our gender. He doesn't shame us for anything we wear and he is an educated man. Be like my dad

[@realdragon]

I have 2 older sisters, never saw my dad complaining about that

[@notmyrrodrick4387]

@@realdragon eeexactly

[@Polnaratti]

I'm the only daughter in my family and my dad actually wanted to have me, he treats me like an actual person too and not like some fancy thing to show others.

[@notmyrrodrick4387]

@@Polnaratti See? Here we are, proving that men can be great dads and not treat their daughter like a trophy he needs to preserve. There are fathers that know how to respect their daughters, which I know is a shocker for some. Yes, being a parent means you have to respect your kid, crazy right? And yet there's still people like "no it's mens natural instinct to preserve women and view them as objects" when you and I have first hand experiences that, that decent men absolutely don't think that way. I hope that made sense and i hope our comment resonate with people

[@lugoorstar]

@@notmyrrodrick4387 my dad was weirded the hell out when I was born because I was a guy. like they echoed my mom like 4 times and they didn't found anything that said i wasn't a girl and my mom explained how he was shocked when they called him (it was a c section made the same day as the echo because i had 4 twists of the umbilical cord on my neck, totally not a planned birth) and he saw me. that's all, he didn't say anything when he had my sister before me, or when he thought that he was going to have another daughter, like I am surprised there's people who get pissy when they realize that their offspring isn't going to match what they wanted.

[@CapnCrimson]

We love the casual, cozy misogyny of a dad getting visibly and audibly angry that he's having a girl 💖

[@lu-cthecynical]

Just warms my heart every time I see it

[@seez6963]

Gives me an image of a super healthy relationship 😍🥰

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

Happy future family, future model father if he actually gets a son which now i hope he doesnt.

[@Konata_TheRappa07]

@@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78 yeah, now I wish he gets 100 daughters and they all end up liking *✨bOy tHInGs✨*

[@Konata_TheRappa07]

Omg so hearth-warming and inspirational!!! Such a loving and definitely non-toxic behaviour, influence and relationship!!!1!1!1!1! ✨💖🥺🥹🙄🌈✨

[@victoriaivars3340]

In my family, we have a tradition for this stuff. When a pregnancy is announced, we all try to guess the gender. When the parents find out, we all go out for lunch and the people who guessed wrong pay for everything. Simple and cool I think lol.

[@samevans1289]

That's a cool idea!

[@FALL-LAFF-7477]

Imagine if the Husband got the wrong answer because he didn't get the words from his wife... And their family doing this. It's diabolically chaotic...

[@RandomUser36536]

Another thing is the blogger who made was prone to miscarriages early in her pregnancy. So when she got far along enough to tell the gender she wanted to throw a party to celebrate her making it this far along. The fact it went from a wholesome celebration of her baby's development to some flashy, life-threatening, gender stereotyping, weird ass event is so sad.

[@paadoxal]

i don't think she ever thought it was going to become a bad trend, i hope her and her family are doing good, she doesn't deserve any hate

[@unknown_limes]

That kid is GNC nowadays too, and the mom is super against how far the trend has gone.

[@echoproductions5682]

@@paadoxal yes!! After the forest fire catastrophe she made a public statement pretty much explaining how she was sorry for starting the trend (tho she had no reason to be, she has no control over other peoples stupid actions). I believe she doesn't even like the concept of gender reveal parties anymore, one of her children identifies as genderfluid (to my knowledge). Thankfully I don't think she's gotten too much hate tho :))

[@paadoxal]

@@echoproductions5682 good:) she seems like a good person without bad intentions

[@rains0return]

Damn

[@ald7282]

my sister-in-law wanted to have a gender reveal, she just did it with a confetti air popper thing in her living room, it was cute, and my bitchass brother had the AUDACITY to get upset that his child is female. he's a deadbeat that no one in the family talks to anymore, and my adorable niece is 2 now. if you're gonna be upset about something as trivial as your child's assigned sex, you might as well just never have kids.

[@eileensnow6153]

Imagine what would happen if she had a disability, or came out as trans, or got caught skipping class. Nah I wish her the best and that doesn’t include her father (no offense to you, of course).

[@graceknight1103]

SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEIPLE IN THE BACK

[@pastadeadman4594]

@@graceknight1103 THEY SAID "GRACE KNIGHT OWES PASTA DEADMAN $20"

[@altalterson5984]

@@eileensnow6153 ​Those children don't actually exist. There are children who have been indoctrinated into being confused about their gender though. A parent should not encourage a child to follow that nonsense.

[@Konata_TheRappa07]

Omg was he really upset for THAT long?!?!?!!? Seriously young parents these days 🤦🏽‍♀️ personally since I don’t wanna get married (plus I’m turning 15 in 2 weeks so I’m clearly still too young for a partner anyway lol) I clearly won’t be able to get any kids either even though I absolutely adore children, such adorable cuties 🥺💖✨but anyways if my younger brother who is currently 8 and he grows up and gets married, and when he gets his first kid and making a gender reveal, and if he has the AUDACITY to say any complaint about his kid’s gender once it’s found out, I swear I’d give him the biggest slap in the face you’ll ever see, because in my religion (Jehovah Witness), children are a gift from God and you should love them and raise them with love and support all through their journey, no matter what disability they have or what circumstances they were made in, and lead them toward the right direction until they grow up and are able to do the same with children of their own. In my opinion (and also based on my religious thoughts), If one cannot do those things, it’s best they put the kid for adoption or not have kids at all.

[@JustAHorrorShow]

Anyone who thinks we've already solved sexism just needs to see these gender reveal parties... the misogyny of it all.

[@FruityHachi]

@@sista363 you forgot to mention the misogyny in India concerning acid attacks so while fathers in India maybe aren’t disappointed to have a girl but that isn’t the only way sexism can exist

[@theotherguy9397]

The whole idea of making an entire celebration to reveal someone's gender sounds sexist like why does it even matter if it's a girl or a boy?

[@urgae9125]

@@theotherguy9397 Literally all that matters is that the child to be is in a safe, loving home, and healthy. That’s literally all that matters.

[@soobscake]

@@sista363 parents cannot see the gender of the child while the mother is pregnant (in india) because india has the highest female infanticide rates in the world so idk what u are talking abt.

[@gansz_lol]

i think there the normal guys who don't care...and then there are those who wanna have a BOY cause they have BOY'S night's out and it's me & the BOY'S and MY BOY is gonna do this and will play sports and be gonna build a treehouse and do boy's stuff and when they have a daughter it's like.... darling I wanna have a BOY. They could have 5 daughters but the son is wayyyy more important. And they show it sooooo much. There are mom's who also want to have daughters, but i guess cause they're carrying the child they don't get pressed about the gender. I felt so bad for those ladies with 🤮-partners.... now you have to ask guys if they care about the gender instead of asking, if they want kids.

[@mothictobes]

my mom was told she wouldn't have any kids. but apparently my dad made it happen and he helped make me, and my two siblings. they wanted two girls and one boy. i came out as transgender to them in April of 2020. on Easter too after i had kept them up all night by talking to them. my dad responded with "hi trans, im dad" and since then i have been son to him. im honestly just glad he accepts me and my siblings how we are

[@sherbetthesheep3916]

That’s adorable!

[@Karma-s1d]

Wait that's actually really cute

[@humantoon]

Bruh, peak reply to someone coming out to their parents- “Hi trans, I’m dad” lmfao, I love that 😂

[@DoritoBot9000]

The most wholesome Dad joke ever! Thanks for sharing!

[@pinkmoonofthesky]

the dad joke lmaoo

[@lonelyfroggy5787]

"But he can be disappointed that it's a girl, some people just have preferences." Okay and he can keep that shit to himself or talk about it to his wife in private, making a scene, swearing in front of toddlers like a man child who lost at a video game is entirely unnecessary.

[@damienearl8302]

Hell, even with that comparison, as someone probably half these dudes' individual ages, I wouldn't rage that hard about a game in public *let alone the gender of a god damn living child*

[@jhuizhang]

or maybe he shouldn't have gotten her pregnant at all

[@rainbowdiamond9944]

I literally cannot bathroom how men actually blame their wives for the gender of their baby like

[@mk-ri6nl]

The "preference" itself is sad asf

[@genericname2747]

@@rainbowdiamond9944 Yeah like, my man, you made the gender

[@johnnyneedscash6753]

the amount of men openly angry/disappointed about having a daughter is disgusting. if you already know you don't want to have a girl, don't have a child at all? adopt a boy, maybe? I get that gender disappointment is a thing but those men are doing too much

[@Toxihex]

It's the narcissistic urge to live on forever and to live vicariously through the child whose DNA theirs is a part of. Funny thing is, statistically, your child is more likely to be the exact opposite of you than a copy of you, but people like them rarely care about such foolish details.

[@johnnyneedscash6753]

@@Toxihex it's those same men wanting boys cause they'll "carryon the family name", as if they were still living in the 50s.

[@aislinlindsay3950]

they shouldnt be allowed to adopt boys, theyd just be making more misogynists

[@JoelEmmettMcGarrity]

It’s because they fear watching her be used and abused by men in the name of “empowerment”

[@TandaSandaBanda]

Then would they start saying things like “But I want it to be MY child. I don’t want a child that’s gonna have IsSuEs-“

[@abigaillong]

I like the cake gender reveal idea! Its small, less dangerous, and doesn’t use all the plastic and balloons. The cake can be used to celebrate after

[@juliettem13]

i don’t think it’s “less dangerous” it’s not dangerous at all

[@IMPofTHEGASsTATION]

@@juliettem13 there's a chance that the cake could be poisoned

[@blankness8]

@@IMPofTHEGASsTATION It's true. Katie Lynn also did not consider the possibility that the cake cutter might sever their hand from their wrist from the sheer force of their downward swing

[@gauzeeeee]

@@blankness8 lets not forget about potential rust on the knife! we cant rely on people to properly wash their utensils.

[@haniicross]

@@gauzeeeee don’t forget that some people could be deathly allergic!

[@Arkantolas]

when i was born, my sister was upset because she wanted a sister and not a brother. then 15 years later i came out as a transgender woman. so in the end she got her sister!

[@ultimate_yippee]

eggcellent!

[@Iamhere829]

🤩🤩

[@sammylawrence2785]

THAT'S SO SWEET I HAD THE SAME THING!! My brother always said he wanted a brother then BOOM I'm trans and our relationship is a lot better!! Good luck on your transition :]]

[@stop.followingme]

All of the wholesome replies make me so happy

[@DoritoBot9000]

Playing the long game

[@professionalretard2459]

all those men who where genuinely disgusted by the gender of THEIR OWN CHILD being a girl is horrifying. reminds me of the fact that so many dads stop loving and treating their daughters like humans beings after puberty…

[@diglight7804]

or the opposite where the dads over protect the daughter like a personal body guard. Like treat them like anyone else...

[@coolbeans5911]

i am one of 4 daughters and everytime i tell people they ALL react with "oH wOw yOur poOR fATHer, tHE oNLy mAn iN tHE hOusE; gIrls aRe sO emOTIonaL" like fam, out of all of us my dad causes the most drama lmao

[@elliefuller3667]

Testosterone is a hormone that activates the areas of the brain that produce aggression/anger, so if we want to talk about overreacting then those with high testosterone levels, mainly cis men, do it more than anyone else.

[@peeblespebbles5689]

Went to all girls school then worked in male-dominated fields my entire life and men are *just* as likely to be dramatic, bitchy, and emotional as women/girls.

[@Basils_Garden]

*bipolar father has entered the chat*

[@elliefuller3667]

@@protect_trans_lives Call it that if you want, testosterone is the most potent hormone in producing anger/aggression

[@elliefuller3667]

@@protect_trans_lives Testosterone can produce those things as well, but it is the strongest hormone in producing anger and/or aggression. And cis does make a difference specifically in this comment, because I’m not sure if there’s a difference between the hormone levels in trans vs cis men, and if so how different the levels are. And I don’t understand your last question?

[@jasm6935]

I saw a couple do a gender reveal on animal crossing and had their friend make a custom firework. And the couple sat together on the island watching. No litter, no fire. It probably the only gender reveal I actually respect.

[@mudsludge]

W couple

[@ellen3666]

that's honestly so cute

[@i.need.a.new.nickname]

@egoichi what's the harm if the parents are happy either way? Why can't people just have their fun and celebrate the life of their child? I don't get why people have such an issue with it as long as it's all in good fun.

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

Fireworks are explosions and DO cause pollution. Not as much as all the gas guzzling SUVs out there, but it's still pollution.

[@i.need.a.new.nickname]

@@JDMimeTHEFIRST are you replying to me?🤔

[@a-moon-cult]

Why do dads care so much about their baby's genitals? Just love your child ffs. Those poor girls are going to grow up thinking they're a mistake.

[@your.local.goofy.goober]

Yeah, it's sad. Idk why people do tiptoes about it tho, like, if the girl ever gets tictok what if she sees the ticktock and goes into like a depression or smth-

[@emilynicholson128]

I mean, in my family they all kind of tease my husband and I about having a girl because there’s been nothing but boys (save for myself) in my family for the last two generations but it’s more of a family joke. We’re all betting to see who breaks the cycle of boys lol. That all being said, growing up in a household of boys wasn’t an issue in my family because they always treated me the same as them. I hear stories about “the one girl” getting treated differently or even worse and I’m so thankful my family is so loving and supportive of all of us.

[@razorback9999able]

Because they are obsessed with their legacy. History does not remember blood. *It remembers names.*

[@meli9976]

My mother used to tell me and my sisters that she hates having girls. Often screamed at my dad that he is a disappointment cause “he could only make girls”. It caused huge fights in our family. This is probably the reason my youngest sister started struggling with her gender identity from a young age and I have to admit i used to have immense internalised misogyny.

[@randomcat1962]

That is very sad

[@glitchybrawl7012]

your name literally means girl in my language xd

[@Danineko2468]

I'm really sorry you had to deal with that. Hope you are all doing better.

[@vivianrichards1313]

Your mother was a very selfish, abusive person and that's being polite about it. To even go so far as to bash your dad for not giving her any boys while telling you and your sisters that she hated having girls. I think she just hates herself. I hope you, your sisters and your dad all walk away from that miserable woman at some point because SHE DOES NOT DESERVE ANY OF YOU!

[@muzoriichi]

Your mother sounds like a pick me

[@phoenix5719]

Men who express disappointment on having a daughter: Why did you marry someone else's daughter, might have just married a man if you love them so much:') People like these shouldn't have kids at all. Even if he had a son he would bring up his son with same ideas.

[@asterisksspace9865]

Fr!

[@blackadder5346]

100% agree

[@entienti]

I love this 😂😂❤️❤️

[@lxvelyskiies8419]

i would be happy either way girls can do the same as boys and boys can do the same as girls, mostly if ur upset over having a daughter go cry urself back to another man bcuz u married someones daughter, like what is up with dads being upset over girls

[@chante9402]

Bahahahahhahaha

[@blackheartmargo3429]

The idea of parents wanting their kid to be born one way more than another or whatever has always seemed so unhealthy to me… like if your not prepared to love your kid equally regardless of how they’re born then you shouldn’t be a parent

[@_o6629]

Exactly

[@megansstallion818]

It's mostly dad's too 😐

[@violetsparkles5453]

@@megansstallion818 moms are too busy being pregnant, of course the men gotta be picky

[@seal8092]

Absolutely.

[@whoscamiladiogo5652]

omg, Catra

[@Queen_Cnidarian]

If you can’t handle the fact you can’t control every aspect of your child (gender, sexuality orientation, likes, dislikes, etc) you aren’t ready for kids.

[@AnnaKin]

Well, didn't think I'd be spending this evening, crying for baby girls whose fathers don't want them, but here we are. I guess we're doing this.

[@sarshrimp1476]

As one, yeah it blows. In my case at least, my dad never treated me as a disappointment (he wasn't really around much anyway) so I never felt unwanted. However when I found out later what his reaction to my birth was.... Shit hurt. Like the only reason he was excited for me to exist at all, my inherent value to him, was entirely pinned on the hope that I'd be a boy. Ouch.

[@Widdekuu91]

I know a few, the mother got blamed. I used to date someone that, when I mentioned kids (as an optional thing in the future) he immediately went; 'There is nó way that the first isn't a boy. He nééds to be a boy and I don't care how many hospitalvisits we need to make in order to make it a boy. They better filter the sperm and double-check, it needs to be a boy!' I asked him why the second couldn't be a boy and he said; 'The oldest needs to be a boy, because otherwise it doesn't make sense if I call them Luke and Leia.' So I decided to *not* become a easybake-oven for real-life Star Wars Figurines.

[@alicethemad1613]

Holy shit imagine treating your HUMAN CHILDREN like gimmicky tamogachis

[@actually_im_worse_yall]

As an unwanted girl, I am a dissapointment since the gender reveal the doctor made. He just told my parents I had two X chromosomes and my father was in the moodiest of moods. It was the first day of my job as a dissapointment and a disgrace, now it has been almost 15 years since I am doing my job 👍

[@InsecurArties]

see this is a good employee. when i became a disappointment due to my gender 17 years ago this is exactly the future i envisioned for my fellow disappointments ❤️❤️❤️​@actually_im_worse_yall

[@brunetteartist24]

The saddest thing is that the mom who started it originally did it bcs she had multiple issues previously and it had been the first time her baby had developed enough that their genitals could be identified... her child later came out as non binary and she's fully supportive of them too, sucks to see how that has now delved into just straight couple nonsense

[@EVERYWHEREinc]

Yeah at its core it doesn't see like that bad a thing. Having a kid is exciting, and learning the sex is a part of that! But people take it way too far instead of you know, just having a cake or something simple + not environmentally disastrous

[@brunetteartist24]

@@EVERYWHEREinc exactly lol! Also the enraged reaction of fathers when they learn they're having a daughter is just painful to witness

[@bux68]

I don’t know why people just can’t get a cake or something

[@EVERYWHEREinc]

@@brunetteartist24 100% I don't think any of those men should be fathers

[@TheNinjapancake14]

That's such a cool origin story! Gender reveal parties should be fun, not life threatening lol

[@aleynawastaken]

Yeah the misogyny in these gender reveal things are awful and way too normalized

[@mars42cc]

it only makes girls question their own identity and sh1t and it's horrible...I just wish there was less misogyny

[@Error_-ct2vp]

How? Most KZbin gender reveals are wholesome

[@blueboozle774]

And the white supremacy, did you notice how none of these videos had any black people, it’s because we black people are sophisticated

[@stellanewton7656]

that child, years later: hi dad, I'm not sure, if I want to be identified as a girl... the dad: yeah, i also wanted you to... wait a minute, what did you just say to me?

[@Error_-ct2vp]

@@blueboozle774 a black KZbinr I watch recently did a gender reveal lmao

[@caidalee1994]

For everyone saying “He shouldn’t be mad. It’s his fault it’s a girl.” It’s nothing to have “fault” for. Fault implies it’s a bad thing. It’s not. He needs to get over the fact that the baby growing inside his wife, his child, has a different set of genitals than the one he was hoping for. He’s basing its entire life and personality on one physical organ. Gross and sad to throw a tantrum.

[@lou9635]

It's a satyric joke...

[@s-idney]

​@@lou9635☝️🤓 um, actually I belive you mean 'satirical'.

[@strxwbxrry_420]

It’s a satirical joke regarding sexual reproduction, my guy. Sperm is what decides the sex of the baby. Saying its “their fault” for the baby being a girl, is saying “your sperm decided the sex, dont know what to tell you” in an exaggeration way. Other way to word this is: Men gives women’s bodies the blueprints to create those sex organs, they just don’t know what the blueprints look like. So while it isn’t inherently their fault, they still are the reason the child is going to be born a girl. Again, saying its “his fault” is an exaggeration displaying the irony of him being upset with having a daughter. There was an entire thread from someone complaining about this in the replies elsewhere. It’s just a joke poking fun at a dads being overly emotional towards and (IMO) pretty disrespectful towards their unborn child

[@thegayestgoth]

It's sti😊ll his fault.

[@JamesStJake]

With the clear disdain for the environnement, the dads ignoring the moms or the dads being openly disappointed to have a baby girl, a lot of people indulging in gender reveals are exactly the type of people I though they were.

[@blueboozle774]

Become vegan if you truly care about the environment, let go of your pleasure for meat and save the world

[@bbew2914]

@@blueboozle774 don't force it on people maybe?

[@blueboozle774]

@@bbew2914 I’m not forcing I’m just pointing hypocrisy

[@DM-nw5lu]

Blueboozle Aa a vegan, this really ain't the place to preach our message. Especially not like this.

[@bbew2914]

@@blueboozle774 you want the world to be a better place but you don't like it when people don't follow your lifestyle, who's the hypocrite now ? there's nothing wrong with being vegan, but there's nothing wrong with meat lovers either.

[@alexrivera5747]

Disappointingly, at every gender reveal party they reveal a gender I already know about.

[@dudenamedlemon8108]

What

[@Error_-ct2vp]

Because there’s only two sexes. So only two possibilities. That’s the one thing a baby can’t choose lmao how do you expect to choose when it’s not born yet? Chill out and have fun

[@juli5945]

@@Error_-ct2vp Do you know what a joke is

[@thatdamnjezebel6858]

i will keep going to every single gender reveal i’m invited to until they reveal a gender i’ve never heard of

[@randomperson-kx6mv]

@@Error_-ct2vp Dude, they were joking. I think you're the one who needs to chill out and have fun lmao

[@Detective_asparagus]

Edit: what the actual hell are these replies 😭😭 The amount of people who are upset about having a daughter is really confusing. Imagine being a girl, going through old family archives, to discover your father straight up CURSED over the reaction of your existence. Personally I don't like the concept of gender reveals as a whole (making a huge deal over genitals sounds kinda useless to me), but getting genuinely upset over what sex your child is sounds a wee bit fucked up, wouldn't you say? Don't have children, if you're not going to accept who your children are. (That applies to almost everything, sex, gender, sexuality, disability, etc). If you chose to take the baby to term and birth them, you "signed up" for whatever and whoever that child will become. Okay rant over

[@StoutCorvus]

My cousin has three girls and his "best men" at his wedding were his sisters. Not that he would have, but I can say for a fact if he cursed at his third daughter's reveal, his mother, sisters, wife, and aunts all would have been down his throat lol. That pissed off guy in the video is an embarrassment, and anyone who stuck by his frustration is enabling him. Guy needs a reality check or a therapist lol.

[@melissaanthonyxb2730]

Wow you literally described my father's reaction when I was born

[@Detective_asparagus]

@@melissaanthonyxb2730 goodness I'm so sorry you were born into a situation like that. I hope you've found people in your life who appreciate your existence, since your father failed to do so.

[@cuccurucucuccurucu3780]

yeahhhh- about that... my father hated the fact that im afab so much that i thought that i shouldve tried looking more masculine to be loved by him (i was like- 5 i think? aHHHHH TRAUMA NICE didnt work btw LMAOAOAOAOAOAOOOOO plz laugh w/ me i swear it's funny)

[@Toxihex]

My dad's reaction to finding out I'm gonna be afab was a sigh of disappointment. My grandma still prides herself with cursing him with it because he wanted a boy to turn into himself in an act of symbolic immortality. He never wanted to take care of a kid, he just wanted someone to praise him and treat him as superior solely because he's older. Guess who never had a gender or any respect for a person like that since they can remember and doesn't want kids under any circumstances as his only child.

[@ttaj.]

Imagine hating women/girls so much that when you find out you're having a boy you jubilantly run and celebrate with ur crusty lil friends instead of your with your wife/ girlfriend or if you find out you're having a girl you tearfully curse while ur family awkwardly stands and makes a mental note to cut that part out of the video they end up posting to Facebook.

[@chibuzor5148]

The baseball one is so sad, the person pregnant was such an afterthought in so many of the videos. These people really want the world to burn for a child they probably won't raise well. So the guys don't want daughters, so much to unpack in this episode.

[@georgieporgie6103]

Exactly my thoughts

[@Toxihex]

I'm actually pleasantly surprised to see so many people in so many comment sections recently agree that people shouldn't be allowed to raise kids without at least a psychological evaluation. You need to go through so much just to adopt a child that would take pretty much any half decent home over the orphanage, and clearly mentally unstable and unfit people can keep their children simply because they're not showing signs they're going to rip body parts off of them.

[@blueboozle774]

Well said that’s the problem with the American country it’s full of idiots. Fun fact none of these people are POC, it really shows the problem how white people put themselves on pedestals

[@OpossumOnTheMoon]

I think the baseball one was cute. It’s nice to see how he excited their friends were. They weren’t trying to exclude the women, they just were blindsighted by their excitement.

[@Ozone946]

@@OpossumOnTheMoon I get that they got a new member for their team, and they are excited, but damn the soon-to-be mom clearly wanted to go hug her partner and just got noped lol

[@mixedfiction]

As someone who's father and grandfather openly expressed how they wished that his first born would've been a boy, I can say that those girls will have a life long struggle with the suppression and/or expression of their femininity (if that is how they feel within their heart to express themselves). Wasn't until 27 years old that I discovered that I developed a hunch in my back because I moved my shoulders forward to hide my breasts all through youth. Now at 30 and thanks to positive, confident feminine role models and 3 years of dedicated yoga as physical therapy for my shoulders, do I now feel comfortable enough to express that inner femininity that I always felt and craved, but told all my life was an utter disappointment. Thanks dad.

[@kumatorahaltmanndreemurr]

Fuck your dad and grandpa, they sound like awful people. I’m sorry you had to go through that ☹️

[@asafupps]

This is really impactful, thank you for sharing!

[@ggundercover3681]

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but fuck your father and grandfather. you don't need to claim them. That man may be biologically your father, but he doesn't need to be what you consider family or someone important. and you don't owe forgiveness. don't make people force something you yourself don't want or need to do. keep thriving and so happy you found good people in your life

[@ohwow7423]

Shoulders do that? As a trans man... fuck 😃

[@mixedfiction]

@@ohwow7423 it was a posture response to shame and embarrassment really. When I’m anxious I find I fall back into that shape. When I decided to break through to foster confidence in myself I learned to roll my shoulders back and down and allow my chest to be out in a relaxed position, not puffed out, just normal in stead of caved in and protected by my shoulders folding in. It was a painful process to undo all that tension but totally worth it.

[@thelanktheist2626]

The fact people are trying to defend them saying “gender disappointment is real but they’ll still love her forever and unconditionally” don’t understand that gender disappointment, while real, is still very sexist as a concept. You should never feel sad if your kid either has a ween or a veen. Edit: oh shit all these comments

[@kenjamarticus]

“A ween or a veen” 😆

[@thelanktheist2626]

@@kenjamarticus I thought it was clever 😊

[@kenjamarticus]

@@thelanktheist2626 it was 😆👍🏼

[@no_peace]

It's a lot of syllables to avoid saying misogyny

[@rookie8615]

@@curse4384 What is it that you can teach to a boy but cannot to a girl exactly? I would argue you can connect to either gender if you are a good father.

[@Deemee-ed]

5:50 I can't even tell what gender that's supposed to be because it starts off pink but then it becomes blue? are...are they having a trans kid?

[@The_lamb_sauce]

The kid was trans before coming out the womb!

[@mynameisntpatrick1476]

I have three kids and we didnt find out the gender for any of them. You would be amazed at how much this bothered some people.

[@tuffy135ify]

I feel like it would annoy people more if you did know and just told them without a party and destruction of property.

[@lilypad2714]

Literally it doesn’t matter what a kid’s gender is, honestly it should only matter that the baby is happy and healthy :3

[@ashwalkerthisway7094]

I think the only thing would be if they wanted to get clothing as gifts at like a baby shower, but gendered clothes and toys are kinda useless so still it's dumb to be upset about not knowing

[@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494]

Actually, I wouldn't... people treated me like some kind of aberration in some cases for choosing not to find out with either of mine. I'm sure you heard all the odd, consequent responses, too - from "how will you know what clothes to buy?" all the way through to actual dismay that you wouldn't find out for THEIR (the objector's) sake. WTAF? After 11hr labour with the first and 25 with the second, I just wanted the joy of a surprise! And one of my kids is trans, anyway... "Healthy" was what I was hoping for and we were all lucky to get 🙂

[@mynameisntpatrick1476]

@@ashwalkerthisway7094 grey and yellow clothes are common and work just as well. A newborn just messes up all the clothes so eh who ares about the gendered stuff early on.

[@buzzinbea]

GOD could you imagine being a little girl and seeing your dad start cursing in anger/disappointment at having another girl? The audacity to do that RIGHT IN FRONT of your DAUGHTERS...

[@jki679yt]

It was covered by a news source and it was sad to see so many people defending him in the comments saying that it was understandable because he already gas two girls, some saying he he may get 4 th time lucky and such other bs.

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

no bec my mother wanted a girl and ended up treating me like an object, she had me after 3 boys. then stopped having kids and disreguarded my health for beauty, never trust people like that. Fr

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

i feel like, if i was a kid and i saw that id feel uncomofrtabl then maybe jealous of the boy who was born because i felt like something was wrong with me because im a girl and apparently thats bad?? like its poisonous to think like that maybe hes more special and theyre incorrect bec theyre female its rlly weird-

[@Konata_TheRappa07]

@@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78 if your old enough and your dad doesn’t help, I really suggest you try to get help because that downright favoritism, child neglect and sexism, and since child neglect is illegal, I suggest you really get help. If your mom is going full on bonkers on you, or even if she’s just beating you/ insulting you for no reason, I suggest you call the police. If your being underfed, I suggest you eat some stuff while she’s not looking. If one or some of your brothers are supporting you, I suggest you maybe ask him for help. If not, then if you go to school, try to talk to an educator or responsible adult at school about it.

[@Leader7353]

@Therightopinion tf

[@justinwilliams1127]

Two things about the guy that was let down by a 3rd girl: 1. Just be happy, you jerk. 2. You did this. Sperm decides the gender. Chill out Henry VIII.

[@nikhilchauhan7511]

even though his reaction was dramatic but wouldn't you want your 3rd child to be of different sex than that of your other 2 kids ? i am saying this for both sons and daughters...

[@justinwilliams1127]

@@nikhilchauhan7511 Well, yeah, but I would be so happy to have another child.

[@cwill2127]

@@nikhilchauhan7511 yeah again there’s a difference between being disappointed and being a cunt. The ones in the video weren’t just disappointed, theyre immature and acting like cunts.

[@bargirlbie]

@@nikhilchauhan7511 I mean, there's the perk of diverse experiences by having a child of a different sex, but there's also the perk of feeling like you know what to expect and feeling prepared if you are on your third of the same sex. pros and cons but also not really anything that actually matters at the end of the day cause the experiences of raising each child will be unique, regardless of genitals.

[@TQM]

@@nikhilchauhan7511 One can definitely be disappointed that they have children that are all born of the same gender, but that shouldn't overpower the joy in having a child. This person was upset to the point where he was swearing and showing disappointment to his friends and family. It's recorded and uploaded on social media too, so once the baby grows up, they'll be able see how disappointed their father was. I dunno about you, but I'd feel pretty awful about my life if one of my parents had that reaction to having me. If his joy in having a child is dependent on its assigned gender at birth, then he definitely should not have any kids.

[@xem_ity]

as an agender person, when my mom popped the balloon at my gender reveal party a black hole opened up engulfing half the town before local authorities contained it

[@MethInTweeksCoffee]

realest comment here.

[@cerealdesignationsilly]

real

[@Izporg9]

As an enby, my gender reveal contained a bunch of ones and zeros covered by an error symbol

[@nininyoko13]

congrats

[@pennywiseknowsyouaregae480]

Gender reveals aren't always bad, some of them are quite sweet but the best one I've heard of is from my coworker, but it wasn't even for a baby. Her son came out as trans when he was about 13, and was really nervous about telling family and friends. So my coworker had the idea of doing a meetup with family and close friends to tell them all at once. They ended up making it a gender reveal announcement for him, having all the (non flammable) classics, the colored cake, the balloons, a pinata, even party poppers. It helped him with his nerves and fueled his confidence lots. And they both love telling the story of it.

[@thevoicesinmyhead_]

omg that’s so sweet

[@niteshade2271]

This is such a wholesome read and such an amazing idea.. If I ever meet and befriend someone who's having gender identity issues, I will remember this comment and suggest something like this too if the circumstances allow it. This should be a new tradition. A new norm.

[@ssshark_bait]

This is adorable 🥰

[@Vesperad0]

Yesss We save the gender reveals for the child when they figure out their identity (make the old ones about celebrating birth[s], as it should be), then have a party for them feeling secure in who they are! Gender affirming gifts for every child, trans, nonbinary, or just gender nonconforming 🖤

[@fouraliers]

AW THATS SO SWEET WTF

[@amandaduarte7589]

for all of you saying it's normal to feel disappointed by your children's gender and that there are things dads cant do with their daughters as they would with their sons, this is just bullshit. My father may not be the best father on earth, but during my childhood he was amazing. He would play with me everytime, play football, videogames, we would play with his car toys collection. He would cheer me up on any sport i picked up, judo, volleyball, even if it was ballet (which he also loved my presentations). One of the traits he most liked and still likes to this day about me is my competitiveness, he thinks its a strong personality trait and that its fun I hate losing. There is NOTHING you can't do with your daughter you could with your son, besides maybe having that awkward puberty talk. And that's it.

[@sparxy3487]

Bruh just let people have preferences with they're children because most likely the girl is going to be feminine and some dad's don't like that

[@astrowolvez]

@@sparxy3487 if you have preference for your own child you’re a dirtbag.

[@amandaduarte7589]

@@sparxy3487 theres literally no proof whatsoever the girl is gonna be feminine. plus, you're not gonna like someone, especially your children, because they are feminine???????? why did you get involved with a woman in the first place then lmao. just get married to a guy if you hate femininity so much

[@sparxy3487]

@@amandaduarte7589 no they don't hate feminine people they just want a dad/son relationship

[@amandaduarte7589]

@@sparxy3487 sorry but i cant understand the reaction to their children being a woman being like that just because of a dad/son relationship they could have with their daughters. you dont see women reacting like that when their child turns out to be a man just cuz of a daughter/mom relationship. its clearly ingrained in misogny, sorry.

[@storms9023]

I honestly can't imagine anything worse than being invited to a gender reveal party. Edit: Some people seem a little butt hurt over the fact that I dislike social situations and children in general which is why this would be a nightmare scenario for me. Not everyone likes these ridiculous and unnecessary parties. Respectfully, I’d suggest you get over it. It’s my personal opinion. My preferences don’t effect your life or enjoyment of these types of events. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

[@QwertyRulz2]

Being the demolition/pyrotechnics expert hired to do it? Because then...you'll know you were somewhat responsible.

[@emblight4077]

I’ve been dragged to several. At least they had food and the ones I went to didn’t damage the environment. They’re still very ridiculous tho.

[@livtai3686]

Being the baby that couple is about to have

[@bg6b7bft]

If you insist on calling them "Genital Reveal Parties" then you stop getting invites.

[@Error_-ct2vp]

Family gatherings with political opinions at the table? Viruses? Disease? Death?

[@manymanytacos8082]

Funny story... my parents had a HUGE gender reveal for me and spent a lot of $$ on it. I'm non binary

[@Whatever94-i4u]

Yeah, I thought of it, too. Like what if the kid ends up being trans? Will they do a gender reveal party as well later? Would be fun, ngl.

[@manymanytacos8082]

@@Whatever94-i4u idk lol, my parents are super awkward about it but that would be a really cute way of coming out

[@retroryan838]

Were you born as a boy or girl originally and when did you realize you were non binary? Non binary people make me curious.

[@onlypjm]

​@@retroryan838theyre not obligated to tell u that lmfao

[@manymanytacos8082]

@@retroryan838 I was born as a girl, I started questioning my gender in probably 7th grade?

[@Nyxthebat04]

It's actually so depressing and sickening seeing how men (and even women sometimes) react to having daughters. Like...men really hate AFAB people before we're born :/

[@chaos871]

some men, not all

[@Nyxthebat04]

@@chaos871 yeah

[@rxdlve7142]

@@chaos871 no one said it's all??

[@chaos871]

@@rxdlve7142 "like...men really hate AFAB people before we're born" there wasnt a specification for it to say some men, and the context there seemed like it meant all as a group.

[@rxdlve7142]

@@chaos871 cry about it

[@xr_nrtmstomp5139]

As a person with achromatopsia (aka i can't see colors) and as someone who grew up in a country where gender reveal parties aren't a thing, I got really confused for a few weeks when gender reveal parties became a big thing on social media. Like imagine seeing a bunch of videos of people freaking out over popped baloons and thinking there's some sort of conspiracy going on. Seriously, turn on the black and white filter on your pc and watch some gender reveal videos with the mindset of not knowing what a gender reveal party is and look at how ridiculous it is.

[@hopes_peak_akademie__6646]

I can see colours but gender reveal parties still confuse me. Imagine burning down a forest or causing an earthquake and your kids turns out to be trans, do you cause another wild fire?

[@sagerupen-dyer1781]

I can imagine the confusion- im absolutely gonna watch some in black and white now lol

[@dreamieramune]

i’m so sorry for laughing

[@elistari1050]

@@hopes_peak_akademie__6646 Gender reveal parties don't HAVE to burn down forests or cause earthquakes. Popping a single balloon or cutting a cake won't kill anyone.

[@ChrissieBear]

There's no black and white filter on my PC. XD

[@electriceel7856]

the baby’s sex* is literally determined by the male side of their chromosomes, so if they so “unfortunately” got a baby girl the father should blame themselves (reality is 50/50 tho

[@fricketyfracktraintrack]

Sex*, but ye. Henry VIII rollin in his grave

[@electriceel7856]

@@fricketyfracktraintrack oh yeah

[@nikhilchauhan7511]

maybe they are disappointed in themselves

[@lemon4087]

this was the most trending project during my school days. Explaining its cuz of the dude, so you should not harrass the lady here. There are laws specifically for this too

[@lost_spacebunny2769]

lmfao

[@_leaf-3525]

fun fact- my parents had four kids. i was the only child that they decided to do a gender reveal for. guess who also ended up being the trans kid?

[@PyroKittensInSuits]

The baseball ones give me such bad vibes of the mother is only considered the incubator for the dad's son. Like maybe I'm just overeading it, but I get uncomfy feelings from it.

[@vegaalphalyrae3573]

No you're exactly on point

[@alekanzus]

That's literally what it feels like. Totally understandable

[@juli5945]

Me too, and I hate the fact that those people don't celebrate the baby, they celebrate the fact that the baby's going to be "one of the boys" or something

[@KreeZafi]

Totally gives a vibe of "I must find a woman to bear me many strong sons"

[@lepancake8193]

Yes, I totally agree

[@Ros3ii]

For some reason, people feel like they need to compete with other people to make the best gender reveal party

[@KingOfGaymes]

Because it’s not about the baby amirite

[@Vesperad0]

@@KingOfGaymes it truly isn't. More so "does this child in my partner's stomach have a dick or not?? Imma leave if it's one of them ahaha, I don't care about anything else other than making sure this kid has a rigid, poor identity due to sex stereotypes That could lead to more sexism!!"

[@lilgrogu1187]

@@KingOfGaymes exxaaaccttlllyyy

[@SuzER08]

The people that do gender reveal parties just take it as another excuse to be the center of attention. A baby shower isn't enough, they have to milk every opportunity they can find to post about on social media and to get people to fawn over them

[@blueboozle774]

It’s the stupidity of the American country, I fear that one day your country’s idiocy will spread around the world and cause a continuous cycle of stupidity

[@Jane-ow7sr]

I thought baby parties were supposed to be about celebrating the baby ..not attention seeking parents who need validation to keep them in temporary denial of their life choices by having a party to drown their sorrows.

[@genericname2747]

Yeah, they were created to celebrate babies. People decided to be stupid and be upset by a unborn baby's gender

[@Jane-ow7sr]

@@genericname2747 I mean aside from the party is get why a parent would be upset....in the older days that is, but not now

[@blueboozle774]

That’s the problem with Americans full self centred fools

[@formes.]

reminds me of when people realise my mum has three daughters they go "so you didnt want a boy ?" LIKE SHE CANT CHOOSEE?!??!??

[@serali_hi]

Imagine how much better the world would be if everyone thought like Chad 😭 damn

[@KingOfGaymes]

@no way holy shit it’s here I’ve waited so long

[@w0rmie5]

@no way I can’t believe it’s here

[@blueboozle774]

Imagine how better the world would be without America

[@Khattab99]

@@blueboozle774 imagine how better the world would be if dinosaurs are back

[@justinwatson1510]

The sad thing is most Americans still sincerely think we are the good guys in the world instead of the biggest state sponsor of terrorism in history.

[@madisonmartinez5928]

What's a bit concerning to me is how that one guy who swore over having a daughter probably would have responded if his wife had a son and that kid didn't match up to his expectation of what maleness should be. What if he had a son who liked dolls or dresses, or who ended up being trans. I get hoping for a specific sex, especially since he already had two daughters, but still, it's a pretty strong reaction. What really sucks though is that the video was recorded and posted online so his kids will be able to look back on that.

[@ghostlyhousehorrors]

Or hell, maybe he's not feminine or trans, maybe the kid doesn't like sports, cars and outdoors stuff. Not all guys follow the popular male interests and hobbies.

[@laurabelacqua9064]

also, one of those girls could like the things he wants in a boy if they at least let them try. i feel bad for these people's kids

[@ironman10181]

Safe to assume these guys are pos

[@anna_banana414]

if i grew up and seen a viral video of my dad CUSSING AND SCREAMING over the fact that i was born a girl i genuinely would be so heartbroken and probably wouldn’t talk to him or look at him the same.

[@JaseekaRawr]

@@anna_banana414 right, I'm the second(middle child) of three girls. My dad didn't have a son. If I saw my dad react like that, I'd honestly cry a bit. 🥺 That's so messed up! 😭 On a wholesome note, our family dog of 20+ years was male, so I always considered him my brother, lol. ❤ RIP, Cookie! He was an Alaskan malamute/husky/wolf dog mix. The goodest boi there ever was.

[@jay_lynnrose]

Both my mom and dad have expressed multiple times how much they wanted a boy…in front of my and my sisters. I get wanting to have a boy but it made me upset and made me feel like they were upset we were girls, so seeing these ‘dads’ get upset that the sex as female angers me

[@antlia2975]

My dad is very mysognistic he hated me for Just being a female and now he left me its sad how men already hate us for Just being a girl:/

[@felicia_uwu4421]

For me, my parents wanted a girl but they got a boy-

[@caitlingill]

If parents want a boy just adopt a boy?

[@chevchevir]

@@caitlingill usually that's the kind of people who are extremely obsessed about their bloodline, so they would never consider adoption

[@Katesiclesthepopsiclegirl]

8:47 "Girls can't play sports!" Me who dropped 15 seconds in one of my recent swim meets on a 100 free: are you sure?

[@christinajackson6309]

That’s genuinely impressive

[@Vivek-sn7oc]

That's the most impressive thing I've heard in a while!

[@cowboybaby]

as a genderfluid person, every time i wake up feeling a new gender i have to clear my schedule to plan a gender reveal party. i am now in $72,000 of debt and have caused 2 category 4 hurricanes off the gulf coast and 3 wildfires ☺

[@PIutøthePlanet]

Don’t forget the wildfires and dying aquatic animals 😋!

[@ashenedrose]

yea same here, it's getting kinda pricy and i think i might of killed some animals in the process but it's fine! /s

[@blobtheblob7975]

me too, when i don't feel like either i just put the two colours together so there's traces of purple-induced earthquakes all around the world.

[@MK-hw2ir]

Genderfluid🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah I identify as an attack helicopter. You know why, because I can swing my genitals so hard in a circle that I actually start to fly.

[@3dstuff654]

😂😂😂🤣

[@Julia-ny3ip]

My sister is 13 years older than me, my dad is a very typical narcissist. My mom for the fun of it went to some psychic for a gender reveal which they found out that I was a girl, that same day my dad beat my mom and claimed that the lady was a crazy liar and when it was verified that I was indeed a girl hell literally broke loose. Misogyny at its finest

[@lauren0313]

That’s so disgusting. I’m so sorry.

[@Tigo625]

That's not exactly misogyny, your dad is just a psycho overall. I mean, he beat your mother...

[@yazminlares6000]

Omg that’s so awful, I hope your sister, mom and you are doing better!

[@EchelonPandora]

Wtf. That is awful. I am sorry. I hope you are loved and appreciated

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

My giosh thats horrific sorry. be well queen

[@tsu4595]

The fact that the lady who started the whole gender reveal thing has been vocal about regretting it because of what it has turned into... ☠

[@peiithos]

it's not even her fault, people just took it so so far from the original concept

[@stopthinkmove]

@@protect_trans_lives The reason the woman who had the first gender reveal party had one in the first place was because she had had several miscarriages prior, and this was the first pregnancy that had developed so far as to identify the gender of the baby. They weren't celebrating the actual gender at all but the fact that there wasn't a miscarriage yet. And said child is gender non-conforming which is another reason she dislikes what gender reveal parties have come to represent.

[@eviezucchinimartini]

@@protect_trans_lives mmmm lol. not all gender reveal parties are a patriarchal move or creepy. what a weird take

[@tidepodpadthai2633]

@@protect_trans_lives can you shut up please

[@HiHello-mm1ff]

@@protect_trans_lives it’s just seeing what the sex will be, most people who do them just want an excuse for a party. If it’s a patriarchal thing, then it still isn’t evil.

[@mizstories9646]

It makes me sad, because the general idea of a gender reveal party is pretty innocent. People are just excited about their child and want to share the experience with their loved ones. Even some of the more unique reveals are cute and creative. Of course, like so many other things, it has been taken so far to the extreme that it has been ruined for all. I know that there are plenty of nice, safe and fun gender reveals but I instantly cringe when I hear the word.

[@AnnaMorgause]

To every dad disappointed at seeing pink at a gender reveal: it’s literally your fault.

[@EternalTheMandarinGoddess]

Wait, how is it their fault??

[@AnnaMorgause]

@@EternalTheMandarinGoddess the sperm decides the “sex” of a child. This is bc the egg provider can only give an X chromosome to the child but the sperm provider can give X or Y. XX = AFAB (traditionally pink), XY = AMAB (traditionally blue)

[@EternalTheMandarinGoddess]

@@AnnaMorgause Still doesn't explain how it's the dad's fault. It's not like he can decide what chromosome he gives.

[@Kiannka]

It was a joke I think...

[@Theprophet-n3m]

@@Kiannka then where’s the punchline

[@ilikecatsoup5345]

I'd love to see a gender reveal party where the colour revealed is outside of the binary pink/blue and watch the confusion on everyone's faces as the couple celebrates their child' a gender being green or black, or even a big note that says "It doesn't fucking matter".

[@wololeiro2364]

Blue bomb and then say its a girl

[@bluflurry]

saving this for the future /j

[@lxvelyskiies8419]

ty for inspiring me for when i have a baby i apprieciate it

[@whatisasandwich]

it's a plant! /j this is definitely something i would do in the future

[@PugandOwn]

@социопат человек ??? babies don't have gendered needs. they're babies. they literally do not care what colour their little feetie pyjamas are, or whether the stuffed animals they're given have eyelashes. you just give them the baby stuff until they're old enough to have a personality.

[@utterlychaotic5814]

I genuinely believed that gender reveal parties were parties where lgbtq+ people would come out to their family and friends.

[@randomcat1962]

And for people without a gender it’s a gender funeral

[@somerandomcube]

@@randomcat1962 why is that so funny-

[@lxvelyskiies8419]

it could be for that too either way its about a gender

[@rouliettapouet9213]

Same xD especially because it's extremly uncommon in my country

[@COMBATANT_LYNX]

we should switch it to this tbh. no more burning down forests because you're gonna have a girl. just a cute little celebration where you come out to your loved ones

[@thewetlaundrythatsstilliny5031]

5:20 i am so mad they're wasting water like that when most theres been a worldwide crisis of fucking water. it's not fair, man

[@hexchexsaygexhexagon]

True

[@themostsleepyperson]

@@hexchexsaygexhexagon that’s mean-

[@breadbird]

fr

[@scruffypatches]

@@themostsleepyperson??? ohh its edited- what did they say?

[@themostsleepyperson]

@@scruffypatches I don’t remember, sorry 😭

[@sonecznikwyborowy6760]

Being upset about a gender of your future child is really baffling to me. Tbh I was pretty upset when I got to know I was going to have a brother instead of a sister. The only difference is that I was six at that moment, not a grown adult like some of these men.

[@galacsinhajto]

Believing in gender roles poisons the brain. Plus the belief that a child is not a person but parental properly and the extension of the parent's self.

[@sonecznikwyborowy6760]

@@galacsinhajto Exactly

[@SabbathPriest33]

Can you please repeat the same thing I’ve already read in 4,000 other fucking comments, I get that you’re 13 and your entire existence is based off attention but we fucking get it okay….the literal top 7 comments on this videos say this exact same thing.

[@carolle9113]

Chad can single handedly save humanity

[@ingebrigtsaevik1384]

Can and will

[@VeerCartel]

Chad has*

[@Empress_Of_The_Void]

But if it can be saved Should it be saved

[@devoutings]

retweet

[@blueboozle774]

No she won’t, the American country is filled to the brim with idiots. Hopefully your country can stop bombing innocent people for once and be one be held accountable for your war crines

[@mathddv]

I remember my grandmother telling my mom it was "too bad she had three daughters" because according to her she should at least have had a boy... so yeah it definetly stings when someone is disappointed by your gender 🤷‍♀️

[@CsySnw]

Dude I'm in the exact same situation. And the fact that father's genes have more control over the sex of the child, yet it's always the mother's "fault" smh...

[@g2.a6]

@@CsySnw my biology teacher back in 7th grade used to joke about that lol

[@CampingforCool41]

Imagine being the kid watching the old video of your gender reveal and seeing your parent disappointed and having a tantrum that you weren’t the gender they wanted

[@탄야-h7g]

genuinely hurts my heart to see people be disappointed when they're gonna be welcoming a beautiful girl in their life. Having a preference is different from having this disappointed mindset. Coming from a country where its taken years for people to change their mindset towards the same it really bothers me people like this still exist :(

[@annekostecki]

I agree. I have a beautiful girl and it breaks my heart if I ever hear of anyone being disappointed with a girl. A healthy child is a blessing.

[@imoutofideas1441]

Yeah. When my mother told the family that I was a girl my grandmother pulled her aside and asked if my father would keep me :| In hindsight, my father actually tells me that he's glad his firstborn was a daughter. He held some sexist views at the time, and when I came along he was able to get rid of those views because he loved me too much to say no when I showed interest in things he would have otherwise designated to boys, or when I asked him to do things he would have thought were a woman's job. I have a good dad, I should call him.

[@SapphireSeahorse494]

They might not even be a girl. they could be trans and the fathers threw tantrums for nothing.

[@jan-ef1fp]

@@SapphireSeahorse494 ig but that's not the point.. that doesn't get rid of the meaning of this comment. the point is, why is it that they're always disappointed when it's a girl? it's just plain sexism. gender doesn't dictate who someone's gonna be like lmao.

[@zetjet9901]

Plus, they don’t even know if the kid is gonna be a girl

[@shotaaizawaslay]

The fact that the creator of gender reveal parties regrets creating them when her child came out as trans and she realised it was putting a lot of pressure on an unborn child to begin with says a lot about this practice lol.

[@blueboozle774]

Yup notice how there weren’t any poc in this video, it’s because we poc are more caring of the planet and have a higher intelligence capacity

[@lordtrigon1733]

What you on about? 8:04

[@rainbowviper6345]

@@blueboozle774 but there are poc in the video-?

[@blueboozle774]

@@rainbowviper6345 lol time stamp please

[@pathetic-traveller06]

@@blueboozle774 bruh they gave you timestamp

[@supposedlymel]

I recently ran into a woman who used to run after-school care when i was a kid. She's one of the sweetest people I've met and was having a gender reveal party with cakes. Nothing life threatening. Just cake. Why could people not just stick with cake.

[@joosoo]

A cake is too small for these people's massive egos

[@ruthie8785]

Cause social media

[@damienearl8302]

It's like that devious lick thing, except for the part about already starting out wrong It starts simple, but then people go on an ego trip and start racing to be the biggest there is, to the point where they completely forget the original objective just to be loud

[@Hessed3712]

Or even that one couple that did the screen thing. It looked super expensive, but no fires! No earth quake. Imagine!

[@DustinEstheim]

well you know what they say... gaslight, gatekeep, girlbomb

[@savannahlyle3821]

9:25 Gaslight, gatekeep, girlbomb✨

[@hexchexsaygexhexagon]

GOO GOO GAA GAA

[@ElMundodeAndi]

Super sweet things like “cállate” y “eres una decepción” I cackled, love your content 💙

[@avril6922]

Pinchi vieja norteña ¿qué haces acá?

[@bubblymilkshake9055]

I love calling my friend sweet words in my lative language too. So cute❤️🥰

[@user-0909]

No sabia que veías su contenido

[@mim_mimm]

ANDI tqm hola

[@moemoii3094]

When did she say that?

[@TheLilacProductions]

Sadly, my second cousin who was a fire fighter, died in one of the forest fires caused by one of those stupid gender reveal parties. If people are gonna have a gender reveal party, at least make one that doesn't end in an explosion/ fire or pollute the environment they're bringing a kid into🤨

[@vanira-01]

I'm sorry for your loss. When did this happen? Is there an article written about it?

[@cocolime6496]

i hope his family sued them

[@dankcaesar4760]

As a step dad to two young girls (their sperm donors fucked off) I couldn't feel more lucky to raise girls. why would someone be upset they have a daughter ffs

[@CarolaTesla]

To be honest, girls can do pretty much everything boys can do, when i was a girl i would watch sports shows with my dad, discuss politics, watch movies about war (his favorites), etc. People get carried away by stereotypes about girls. I'm glad you are such a good dad to them!!

[@fatcat5817]

Hold up, don't diss sperm donors. 🤨 They do a service for women. Call them, deadbeats, milkman, etc...

[@Kim-dl2uk]

If my husband would mope and curse (in front of his own kids no less) because I was carrying a healthy daughter I would speedrun divorcing him. If you love your kid less because it doesn't have a pp you're not a good parent.

[@DM-nw5lu]

Same. I don't want to even know my baby's gender until they're born. And my male partner wholeheartedly cares about the gender of our future childrennas little as I do.

[@Therezumee92]

Not gonna lie, all those dads upset about girls hurts personally. I already had a brother so I know for sure my dad wasn't upset, but come on... Shameless misogyny. It's sad how people yet again ruined something cute. Because the idea of these parties originally was fine. Now it's madness.

[@DieAlteistwiederda]

Our mom once said that our dad was the only one excited on his side of the family when my older sister was born. His three brothers, mom and dad were all extremely weird about him having a daughter. One of the reasons why my mom didn't want to see most of them that much and I can understand why. Like it's a bad thing that the first grandchild was a girl instead of a boy, who care this is the 21st century.

[@loreleiofthemist]

gender reveal parties were never cute and never fine. they have always been a harmful and disgusting glorification of unborn genitals. sincerely, an angry trans person

[@avidehrassouli]

its so weird how all these parties are literally just centered around what genitals their baby is gonna have

[@lizzie31]

Literally, it's like some kind of creepy dystopian fiction idea

[@nicodemo.]

Very very agree! It is very well formulated, it has to sound as disturbing as it is, no matter how much they present it as innocent super catholic apostolic mega cool family friendly first world partys. Shockingly wrong in many ways, sexist, anachronistic, outdated (or should). Disgusting to know the importance that these parents give to the genitals that their baby will have, on top of associating it with shitty gender stereotypes that will condition their entire lives.

[@nicodemo.]

@@lizzie31 Jajajajajaj Totally!!

[@glitchybrawl7012]

yup, not even their gender lmao

[@SorcerorNobody]

I for one find it very interesting that gender reveal parties were seized upon and became a big thing during a time when trans people are becoming more visible and recognised. Obviously, correlation does not indicate causation... but it's certainly _interesting._

[@CrimsonWolfStudios]

Damn, they managed to make gender reveal parties for all 4 elements: fire, water, earth, and air. I'm impressed, if a little mortified

[@1Hariboz]

I feel so bad for the future daughter of these dads. My dad was literally excited and jumping with joy when he found out I was a girl. Those dads shouldn't become parents if they're going to love their children differently based on gender.

[@juliabrown39]

I know. I shouldn’t have to feel lucky that my dad actually wanted me. Poor girls…

[@Greenify_]

And sometimes boys not just girls only

[@leviosaaa9005]

@@Greenify_mostly girls tho

[@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf]

​@@Greenify_Please shut it

[@Greenify_]

@@ElizabethGeiger-ye1sf nah we gotta strive for equality

[@hycree9373]

I hated how my dad was disappointed when my little sister was revealed a girl. His disappointment made me wonder why it matters so much to wish for a boy. Who cares? YOU HAVE A BABY >:( Not to mention I was raised my whole life as a tomboy bc of this and whenever I started wearing girly clothes I'd be made fun of. I have problems with my femininity. I'm trying to overcome the fact that my dad and gpa also made fun of me for having tiny lips, and this was a joke they started a decade ago. I can't smile without thinking about it every time. Thanks :o)

[@wololeiro2364]

He doea not deserve to produce human life

[@PrazLeo]

If your a girl, and want to be a girl, be a girl. Ignore them. Don’t let them control who you want to be.

[@lxvelyskiies8419]

choose any style u want we are here do not listen to them they are trying to bring u down. be a girl be a boy be a river duck whatever u want we are here and do not forget u have people for u if u need help theres people if u need to talk theres people do not worry about their opinion you are worth every little thing

[@ruthie8785]

Wow they sound like garbage!

[@ProfessionalBugLover]

@@lxvelyskiies8419 ty i am a river duck

[@ashleymorrison3984]

would love to do a gender reveal party and confuse everyone by using an ambiguous colour . Would have my wife in on it so we both act like it's obvious and we're both happy about it and everyone else is just there like , yeaaah.... green...

[@DeathWolf88888]

That’s literally kinda what happened in Brooklyn 99 lmfao

[@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78]

no orange not green or red. never bec then if its green its a guy automatically

[@cherubblu]

@@helpmegetto1k4channelnotab78 wdym girls can like green

[@rraveboy9431]

@@cherubblu a lot of ppl seem to think green is a “guy color” , because idk hunting and nature and all that. which is kinda weird because my stepsister is like 4x as athletic as i am and has eaten deer heart before

[@cherubblu]

@@inactivechannel6365 we can only hope

[@Phob-wu9wx]

It’s horrible when men are disappointed about a little girl but it’s just as crazy when the mum is sad about a boy!! I went to my fiancés cousins gender reveal - she was set she was having a girl and had bought a pink pram and everything…, the canon popped blue and she burst into tears screaming “nooooo” 🤣 she didnt stop talking all day about how disappointment she was and then said “ill have to try again for my girl i guess” like how fucking sad?

[@Anniemarie20]

Wow that's disgusting. I will never understand how some parents can be so disappointed about their babies gender they truly don't deserve children, having preferences is ok but being mad and crying and acting like it's end of the world is another level of madness.🤦🏻‍♀️

[@rishloouppy]

8:49 "Gender reveal parties can apparently not only cause marital drifts, but also tectonic ones." I swear this video is full of amazing quotes, LMAO

[@mochike]

environmental damage, gender stereotyping, men ignoring their pregnant s/o, men being disappointed that they're having an afab child... i have no issues with gender reveal parties if it's just a small family gathering to celebrate the pregnancy with more meaning on the significance rather than the actual party or sex of the baby, but so many gender reveals tick at least one of the above boxes.

[@Kai-eb1fv]

It should be noted that the first ever gender reveal party was done because the mother had had previous miscarriages, and she was celebrating the fact that this baby survived long enough to find out the gender. She’s spoken out about feeling guilty about starting the trend that has snowballed into something so destructive.

[@wandergals]

It's so awful she feels so much responsibility, especially considering the Internet snowballs literally everything good into something destructive anyway 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@Kai-eb1fv]

@@wandergals exactly :/

[@ItwasntmeIswear.]

This is true! The dad always runs off screen! I'm still waiting for my dad to run back on screen.

[@xryxix]

The hyperxation of gender reveals is honestly so concerning to me. It's a emphasis on someone's privates before they even know what they are and telling them and our society how they're expected to be. It's sad how dangerous these have gotten on top of all this. For views or whatever.

[@Clownbunnycosplay]

I don’t think their bad necessarily- but again this is coming from someone if they had kids would raise them to be neutral and not ‘you’re a boy so you gotta like BLUE

[@Angel5557]

Taylor swift 😩😩

[@KingOfGaymes]

Legit I find it so creepy how the whole party is basically WILL MY CHILD HAVE PP OR VAGABA ITS A BABY The only valid gender reveal was the first one. Everything after is 👎

[@KingOfGaymes]

@@Clownbunnycosplay I mean one started a whole wildfire, one killed the future child’s grandmother (so that child won’t meet her because they had to know the baby’s privates.. think about telling the kid that..) and others have done damage too.. they’re just unnecessary.. baby showers are perfectly fine and do the same thing

[@evilc.reations]

hyperxation isnt a word just fyi

[@Kim-dl2uk]

My sister did a gender reveal (I know, ew) and my brother in law was out of his mind with happiness when the blue color in the cake was revealed. A little bit too happy if you ask me. Especially because it turned out that the bakery made a mistake and my sister was actually having a girl. My niece is 4 now and somewhere out there, there's a video of her dad celebrating not having a girl. I hope she never finds it.

[@BUCCIMAIN]

That is a weird way of looking at things, maybe he was just happy about the whole thing in general? I don't know him personally but saying he was celebrating because it wasn't a girl is pretty weird, unless you left out a chunk of text from your comment explaining how he hates women.

[@rsantana389]

Lol that would be a nice plot twist, saying that thats the gender and then saying that is the opposite

[@SpiderCat420]

so how was his reaction when he learned the truth?

[@Kim-dl2uk]

@@SpiderCat420 he was pissed at the bakery and he stayed angry long after everyone had stopped caring. My sister asked him why he couldn't just let go of it and be happy about their baby girl and they got in a huge fight about it. He claims that he was just angry that the bakery ruined their special moment but I'm not buying it. He never once expressed even a fraction of the excitement that he had for the idea of having a boy. I'm not a fan of him to say the least.

[@Kim-dl2uk]

@@BUCCIMAIN I do know him. And he's a human turd. I'll be celebrating their inevitable divorce the same way he celebrated the opposite of his child's privates.

[@ticrific]

I’ve said this a million times and I will not stop saying it, DONT HAVE KIDS IF YOU ARENT PREPARED TO LOVE THEM FOR WHO THEY ARE. If you don’t want a child who is gay, trans, disabled, mentally ill, or a specific gender then YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE A PARENT. When you have kids you are signing up to unconditionally love them for who they are. If you can’t support and love your kid through whatever/whoever they turn out to be, you are a failure as both a parent and a human being. Don’t want a girl? Adopt a boy, but keep in mind that sex is not the same as gender and they could end up coming out as trans. You can’t ensure your child will be a girl or a boy. Don’t want a disabled kid? Don’t have kids at all, because that can happen to anyone at any time. Even you reading this. Don’t want an lgbtq kid? Again, don’t have kids at all or grow tf up because all of these are things out of your control. Part of being a good parent is not only about being supportive, but adapting to changes you did not expect to keep that same energy of support and love.

[@isaak1748]

Perfectly said 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@juice3287]

can i ask how to get the plushy in ur pfp yellow is my favourite colour and i love plushies

[@Konata_TheRappa07]

Well yes but let’s not forget we need to raise *them* the right way so that they can be equally good parents to *their* kids once they grow up. And if we have a religion, make sure they respect all the norms of this religion as much as possible :)

[@ticrific]

@Therightopinion yikes. Idk what you mean because these kids ARE normal. You can’t change them and if you do that you are traumatizing them and being an awful parent. I hope you never have kids

[@Romanticoutlaw]

wish my parents had a grasp on that concept. My sister coming out as trans has been... tumultuous at best. Very big "I love trans people I just wouldn't want my child to be one" energy. And they're obsessed with whether or not she keeps her genitalia 💀 like. Why??? You're not planning to look at it or interact with it, right guys? Right...? So why do you care.....?

[@mushroom_dance5219]

1:48 those two ended up getting divorced (shocker) and now shes got another baby with her new partner

[@margaritamishina887]

Oh 😲…. That’s kind of sad (but I’m happy that she found another partner)