Re-Parenting - Part 16 - Acceptance

[@armetta99]

I believe through you, Tim, my life will be forever changed

[@catherinewilson1079]

I have known for years that something was damaged in me at a very fundamental level. I was adopted and originally blamed those circumstances. But I understand lately that I definitely was adopted into a very dysfunctional family. Thank you for making your knowledge public and giving me the opportunity to follow your videos. You have given me an incredible gift Mr Fletcher❣️At the age of 70 I am finally able to incorporate some of the ideas that I learned by accident at an earlier time and I can now follow your videos to learn and accept/modify those injured parts of me that have made my life so painful to live. May God bless you and keep you and may his light shine upon you🙏🏾

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

If you weren’t held enough as a baby, you wouldn’t feel enough

[@catherinewilson1079]

@@Clevelandsteamer324 I was left 5 days in the private hospital where I was born. I do NOT believe I was held at all in that time because by the time I left on the 5th day I had Otitis Media (middle ear infection), a key indicator that someone propped a bottle up for me to drink and left me there after as well. To this day I have very poor hearing in that ear. And YES, I was emotionally frozen for a long time.

[@pamelahowellddesigns]

I am also adopted into a dysfunctional home, 57 and only now learning the source of the fear and anxiety

[@pamelahowellddesigns]

Financially trapped by a narc now

[@catherinewilson1079]

@@pamelahowellddesigns Sending you best wishes and courage to learn and heal 💕

[@123isi321]

These Videos are so underrated ! 7000 klicks is nothing for that amount of value!! So grateful for your information you are helping me through a really difficult phase

[@nirajpatel1280]

Indeed life saving...priceless for the deserve ones

[@kimpuchek1956]

Every time I listen to these Friday night videos, I learn something that can help me be a better person in my journey forward. Thank you ‼️

[@LR-yu3mx]

Thank you Dr, I cannot express the emotional and intellectual benifits I get from your lectures

[@alexandrugheorghe5610]

I was a pro at fitting in. Wearing masks and posing as this tough guy in order to blend in with other kids ending up causing myself harm by over drinking and surrounding myself with people who had issues of their own to work on. 😣😶

[@haddadiwanassa]

Dear sir , I am someone somewhere I literally have no one in life after dad died . My mom, sister , and brother are all schizophrenic. One brother is abusive on all levels, another left the house after the abusive one kicked him out. Ive been feeling helpless and hopeless for years. Thanks to content like this I find through my phone I am feeling hopeful again , I have been rejected neglected and abused as a child by my sick mother. I am not here to blame her I am here to free myself from the wounds and forgive and hopefully live a decent life. Thank you sir Tim I am forever grateful to you for what you have done for me

[@mknels1299]

Ditto

[@stefaniakonstantinidou981]

You are heroes,! Hang on, it will get better real soon

[@JT0007]

I had a unique experience. I am the bullied kid Tim talks about, except I was also the best athlete. So weird getting regular payback on bullies as I kicked their ass every time we played sports. It had a way of quieting them. At each new school I attended, they bullied me until they realized I could outdo all of them. Then they just kind of left me alone.

[@ts3858]

I wish you were at my school...I was bullied for 7 years...by one personl .! 😟😡

[@g.s.632]

@@ts3858I scratched the face of the one who bullied me, so he stopped. His two friends were there but useless. The bullying lasted three months instead of four years.

[@jmvwegnerpriest]

@@ts3858 ♥so sorry

[@JPShepard5]

Love the definition of acceptance! It's simply respecting where we are in an ongoing journey, like respecting a kindergartener doesn't yet know their multiplication tables, and knowing they'll get there eventually. I think too many people are scared of the word acceptance because they think maybe you mean agree with someone's choices or morals or something. This better definition allows us to both accept and tolerate other people because it's just a location in a spiritual path, not who they are permanently, and we are always learning and growing, and that's a necessary part of life.

[@annamc8228]

May God protect you Tim and your family❤️Peace and blessings

[@javiergado6514]

So well expressed...

[@drsandhyathumsikumar4479]

Your videos are very helpful and helps me to apply knowledge in a practical way .much appreciated !

[@awakeref]

Thank you for breaking down such a complex theme

[@jillgajarsky1598]

So timely for me. Thank you for an excellent teaching of what’s occurred, accept what must be accepted, change what can be changed…and most of all accept myself.

[@My_House_]

Thank you for the knowledge and therefore acknowledge. I'm on my journey and the last few years are hard realizing what's happened and what the causes were. I have to work hard to change but change can only happen if you know what to change and why. Your re-parenting series does help a lot to understand. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@Chris-yf2zs]

9:00 authentic means pain 19:30 anger about upbringing, acceptance 34:30 shy tendencies and fighting against them while accepting them 35:30 depression acceptance and fighting against

[@tatianagranchi2303]

These videos are a blessings in this moment for me💜 thank you so much

[@taraahammer2334]

You are a genius!!! May God richly bless this ministry 🎉

[@SoothingYou45]

Thanks so much for sharing these videos. They've helped me so much!!! I'm super grateful to run into your videos. 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@ChrisOgunlowo]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@mangobase]

Thank you for this great teaching lots to learn may God bless

[@genevieveraymond8326]

Thank you ❤

[@jackierobinson8785]

I've never seen myself my reflection in someone else's eyes...

[@AhmadElasi]

Amazing

[@nishasankaran]

Huge, massive issue, especially for first generation American children of immigrants, imagine it’s the same for Canadian kids. I don’t mean to generalize but… it’s so common and so not given enough tender space or attention ♥️

[@My_House_]

It's for children all over the world ☺️🙏🏼

[@j_u_ss_y]

I was bullied by my family and school mates for being chubby and I would soothe with food. My addiction to this day is food. I love eating til I'm disgusted and I'm able to fall asleep comfortably. My self esteem is trash. I was in a toxic relationship for almost 14 years. I stuck by the abusive behavior because he loved fat girls and I felt "accepted" except he liked the sexy voluptuous bbws and I was not that and I didn't want to be that big. Deep down I want to be skinny. I notice the social media trend of skinny is coming back...

[@pillow4casestudies]

Cut carbs. Go keto or carnivore. Problem solved.

[@stefaniakonstantinidou981]

More beneficial if u accept yourself for who u are. Find other joys u like, a hobby, drawing, walking by the sea, watch comedies, read good book, pray. Slowly cravings will be weaker

[@GoddessHabits]

💜💜💜💜💜

[@carrie040901]

There's alsp alot of situations as am adult I've run into where I'm the one being wronged and I jave no power or control so I get mad to make my oppressor mad and then the impressed tries to dp spmthing to get rid of me pr they just push me too far and then they relise they don't actuky have that power over me and someone higher sees this and corrects the situation.

[@grandiesgarden175]

❤

[@WalonaDavis1978]

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[@lunarose9042]

What skills did trauma give me that others don't have? From my view they seem to be functioning perfectly fine. 😕

[@stefaniakonstantinidou981]

They r controlling and do n t realise. Most have issues and Don t realise. U see ur issues. Realisation makes u wiser than them

[@zbyszeks3657]

Beautiful feministics remarks.

[@Me-fs5mi]

Mental health /mainstream healthcare , why support ,why accept? Tried that, followed rules never missed an appointment to the best of my abilities and watched them have lives while meeting my needs with poison and directing me to go sign up for a ride to wal-mart (ooooh!) at the very depressing public senior center ( "but it's not that way anymore!)by a therapist 1/2 my age . Ha ha ha ha. Okay no problem. But uhh show me a better incentive than a ride to wal-mart when i can drive.

[@AurelienCarnoy]

We are God's inner children. God's parts 😅❤

[@basiabarbara3365]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️