To Anyone Who Has Lost Hope in Life

[@Psych2go]

Oct is mental health awareness month. What are you doing this month to better your mental health? Comment below your tips for others!

[@owens.studios]

Going to force myself out of my comfort zone and try to make new friends

[@1XXL1]

:D

[@ninomusic1492]

I’m trying to pull mysef together honestly it’s a long story but in short doe to events I’m really depressed and suicidal and Iv got own friend who’s helping me trouw it it’s realy rough so far but I might pull something off

[@bubs3674]

Write down ur thoughts. Try to find whats bugging u

[@mooncosmicpower2956]

EGO WORK. Perfecting everything wrong with me is the goal!

[@quantumphantasm6354]

Being told "you're not alone" feels Exactly like gaslighting. I don't like it. It's not true. Yes, there are many other people suffering similarly, but that doesn't make me feel any better, and doesn't mean i'm not alone. There are zero people with whom i can connect; mostly because of everything beyond my control, and my unwillingness and inability to knowingly deceive myself, un-know what i know, or unsee what i've seen. I'm not 'at' my tipping point. I've been past my 'tipping' point for ~25 years. No one, has ever, accepted my painstakingly articulated expression of what exactly is the problem. I am tired of explaining, and tired of people not getting it, or not wanting to get it, and acting like i'm "just being negative." People used to say "it gets better," but it never did, despite my best efforts.

[@mayconlcruz]

Yeah, it's gaslighting, but it's because a lot of people don't want to see someone's life crash and burn. I'm 30 and experienced all of those things about emptiness and despair. In the past, I also wished to be understood, because I wanted to validate my existence someway... But now, after realizing all the good and bad people can make and the eternal indifference of existence, I realise that nothing of this matters... And how all this made me free. Yes, evil and unfairness still exist, but I'm just a human. A lonely human on a lonely planet. If I'm not the one responsible for giving meaning to my life, no one else will. And yes, I know that my answer will probably not bring you any solution, but at least I hope that it will serve as a paradigm to be observed. Because in the end, we feel anguished not because we want an answer, but because we want to be heard...

[@cawtisticoctobear]

wow- same. i resonated with every word

[@cesiperez8789]

I’m actually glad to know that- That I wasn’t the only one who also thought this

[@devinhalim7560]

Exactly what i mean

[@zmord24]

Its just so frustrating people see that im in pain i don't hide it but i don't know how to feel better or how to explain what i feel and im so tired of trying, they ask me what to do to help me but i dont know and when i had power to try working on it they were too busy to help me so now i don't want anything anymore and i don't want to care its just too hard and stressful

[@Snowballbruh]

"so many people will miss you when you're gone" i dont need them to miss me when im gone, i need them to miss me while im still here

[@shaurryabaheti]

that's what I'm thinking all the time bro

[@BenOnBass]

this is the comment that resonates for me

[@commentator12300]

@@liam-hb4kr Matthew 11:28-29

[@areumkim5606]

Exactly

[@EJMM209]

The perfect quote. You deserve these likes

[@gay_sewer_rat7854]

you know you truly don’t care when you look at the small things that used to make you feel alive and just feel numb.

[@eero3516]

@@maysies05 Sure if you think that way. Mindset is everything, stay strong!

[@derplameowza]

@@eero3516 your mindset doesn’t matter when world shatter HORRIBLE things happen to you constantly

[@user-tr9rw7ne8x]

That's depression!

[@Spiral_Out]

Or when you can't even remember what used to make you feel alive anymore...

[@sgtshortstack578]

I know

[@covszn]

I just want to stop. I dont wanna exist anymore, I want to go to sleep and never wake up.

[@LiamGrosse-z4q]

Me too bro. Me too

[@cocoasmr08]

Hi how r u today?

[@fatimachowdhry1654]

you can rise above it. I have faith in you !

[@charlenewagner203]

hey, I just read this and want to say, that whenever I feel this way, I just imagine how my perfect day would look like tomorrow. I imagine it so vividly that it gives me a little glimpse of hope for what life could be like. And this imagination is always better than the alternative. Because really, I then think to myself, how hard could it be to achieve even a smaller version of this dream. These things happen every day, they have happened before and there really is nothing that says it‘s impossible for you to do it now. I don‘t know, it just helps me a lot to get to a different state of mind and puts things in perspective. Especially if you feel like the life you have right now is not what you deserve. Because you have so much potential, and spending your life being sad or angry about where you are now just doesn‘t seem right, it would be wasted potential. And is that really what you want to think, looking back at you life? That you were wasted potential? And if you feel like no one really cares, well, for starters, you have yourself and you should start treating yourself how you have always wanted to be treated, you one it to yourself. And second, I am rooting for you, I really am. Just keep that in mind.

[@Todd-w6u]

You made it this far, go a little farther, then a little more. Your gonna make it

[@_-mochaPlayz_-]

Its like i wanna sleep peacefully and never wake up without anyone knowing ..

[@sannaperkio1469]

Me2

[@chocolatfoncee7528]

Perfect way to describe it. Don't want to kill myself because of the guilt. It feels selfish to permanently end my suffering just because some of the people I know will feel bad. But why should I care? They will eventually move on and I'll be forgotten. But I wish there was a way to just silently leave without affecting anybody or giving anyone the chance to claim that they cared about me when they in fact didn't.

[@el_dud_jaz]

@@chocolatfoncee7528 me too

[@nw7654]

@@chocolatfoncee7528exactly you shouldn’t feel selfish at all. I wish I could just go to sleep and not exist. I’ve constantly asked for help and just get treated worse. But as you say if I died. They would all be say how they tried there best to help me bla bla

[@Ibelieveincharmeleonsupremacy]

YES

[@thedrbat9572]

"You're not alone" people say this too often without understanding that its a helpless phrase, People do need some company in life but knowing that other people are suffering doesn't make you feel any better about your own life.

[@constantinus719]

The worst in this phrase is that the one who are saying it are often the one who doesn’t care about you when you don’t scare them each day. At least from my own experience

[@taynahibanez9952]

Yeeeeah, is s very empty and annoyinh quote if you ask me. It helps nothing and just makes me wanna roll up my eues

[@mmazinchalbcham4673]

while it is good to understand that you are not alone in this feeling, this is not what is meant by the phrase here. YOU are not alone, there are people there for you. DO NOT push them away, let them take care of you. That is what they meant. It is not easy to understand it at first, and even if you do understand it and see it, you will struggle to let those people who love you to take care of you. I just said what it means and I cannot do it...

[@pandaboogus]

Facts

[@hynthai]

LITERALLY OMG. this phrase pisses me off so fucking much. along with "it will get better" or anything in that area. like please stfu istg

[@disboi4692]

“The pain you’re feeling will eventually fade” maybe when I’m dead

[@SuperVladdrakula]

Exactly the same thoughts...

[@ludaro-e1i]

I dont know you, but i hope that you get everything sorted out, and that you dont need to die to see yourself worth, feelings overwhelm us alot of the times, and all of us make mistakes, but life isnt about thinking about these mistakes, its abour building our life, our future our home. and whatever home yours might be, i hope that you have found it and that you can heal your scars from all your battles. inside your home, dont give up okay? you got this! i believe in you, and i hope you do some day too.

[@yovanil666]

You and me both…

[@alexcalibasi7028]

You gotta fight

[@fortune3911]

Brother.. Don't...

[@HackaryDart]

I'm sick of everyone saying "You're not alone, just don't give up", that's just being lazy, YES I know I'm not alone, I WANT to be happy, and I clicked on this video to FEEL happy, all i got was the same exact thing.

[@user-ww1bg7st2h]

I'm very sad quiet often But I just watch memes They make me laugh sometimes and the whole day I'll focus on those memes I've watched warrior cats memes (💀) and it made me laugh a lot Small things like that can cheer someone up little by little I know it won't do a big difference but watching funny stuff helps a bit

[@pareo489]

it’s not life I lost hope in, it’s humanity.

[@shinieEvie]

Damn.. that hit way harder than I thought it would..

[@morvery]

I've always been disappointed at what we've doing to the world

[@cheukyansang9223]

Same...

[@lavenderva2507]

_”If sacred places are spared the ravages of war... then make all places sacred. And if the holy people are to be kept harmless from war... then make all people holy.”_ *-Silver Surfer*

[@rockman0661]

Same dude I agree 100%

[@Mrym__g]

"You're not alone" well its always easy to say but that's a lie. I am alone and so does many other people. Just because someone has the same problem as me doesn't make me feel less lonely...

[@prairjung]

I feel you Still hope it get better overtime bud, both you and me and many others

[@AdamCrossman83]

Same. I’m not getting comfort from others feeling low and depressed like me

[@CrafT-t4q]

Yep

[@CrafT-t4q]

It is @#$_,ed feeling no joy

[@aldxbaran]

Especially when these people that apparently share your pain are people you will likely never meet or never befriend. In truth you are actually alone.

[@isaashley4301]

To tell someone:”Why are you depressed? You have everything.” Is like saying:”Why are you blind? You have eyes.”

[@jayshreerane2182]

True.... Whenever i feel sad or depressed feel like crying my parents say why are you like this you have everything but you still can't be happy.They also say because me always crying bad things happen in house😂but they don't know wht i faced and what i am facing i literally have no friends and the reason are my parents they never let me go out with them never let me talk to them on calls so now thay stopped texting me , calling me and asking me to go out with them😞 and my parents have no time for me ....so as a result i am alone and depressed and can't even express my feelings in my own house...wht a luck😦

[@geri9261]

Well said ❣️

[@Mypetiscute.]

@@jayshreerane2182 Our stories are very similar. I never go out with friends. But I have one best friend, she has the opposite personality to me. I'm taciturn because I'm not good at expressing myself and I don't have confidence. But she is very bright and she is trying to act innocent;-; and she can't give advice ;-; My parents won't let me use Facebook. I mean I can only play games and watch videos but can't post or comment, including KZbin ;-; I can't comment on youtube. and..Since I was born No matter how much my parents make me cry But there was only one time that my mother said sorry, Usually my parents natter or ignored me when they made me cry. ✌🏻I'm not good at English I'm sorry if I used the wrong word. At least I think I've vented and shared my experience :) ❤️Thank you to everyone who read till here. No matter what happens, we will overcome obstacles together. You guys are already good No matter what obstacles come in, you will have to go through it like before! These obstacles will make everyone grow up to be happy and suffering. But will we lose to suffering or will we fight for happiness! Happiness is good :) take care of yourself~!❤️

[@angelayan3447]

Exactly, I told my bsf abt my depression and she goes “why? Your life is perfect” and sometimes she’d make it bat her and say something like “oh I sometimes feel sad too.” Then goes on to brag abt her life and why she’s alive, making me feel worse

[@jayshreerane2182]

@@Mypetiscute. hey...learn to express yourself that is the one thing that can help you to make friends and people will love you... atleast you will not be alone....and if not just learn to be happy with yourself trust me being alone is like addiction it's just very nice feeling atleast for me,being with myself i don't have to fake anything whatever i do is what I love not wht others want😃.....and also lets be friends kind of online friends😊

[@BlackKittyCat99]

All I want is to be at peace, and it seems like the kind of true absolute peace I want is the kind you only get when you’re dead. Sometimes I lie down and pretend that I’m dead because that’s when I feel the most at peace, but then I have to get up and be “alive” again. I want the day to come where I don’t have to get up anymore.

[@corruptiongaming952]

"Depression is being colorblind and constantly told how colorful the world is." -Atticus

[@unknown_emptyHuh]

True

[@impoverishedcalamari9270]

"Dude, think of all the things to live for!" If I were able to do that, I would have never been here in the first place, now, would I?

[@StarstruckChiroMusic]

That hits different

[@purple_jams]

It's like having asthma and being told "but there's so much air around you"

[@callmemandyNL]

Atticus knew his shit.

[@gruberjens4354]

Like Freddy Mercury once sang: "I'm a man of the world and they say that I'm strong, but my heart is heavy and my hope is gone (...) I long for peace, before I die..." It's all I want from life anymore. Just peace of heart and mind...

[@Velistraee]

Before is the key word. I side with you. Not everyone has hope...

[@Nicole-tx5kk]

I feel the same way. I know that at the very least I can also find comfort in the lyrics of people who understand. For what its worth, from a random stranger on the internet, I hope you find that peace of heart and mind.

[@michaelkrull3331]

The show must go on!

[@TheEndless_]

"Oh yes, im the great pretender, pretending that im, doing well"

[@peppyten5037]

Mother Love is an underrated masterpiece

[@GK-ef1ve]

It's honestly so hard to keep going when the odds are against you

[@vanteelife]

deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html

[@marty15879]

Absolutely!

[@aham_Astha]

It will be okay buddy ❤

[@stormasmr5105]

4:05 see that's the thing - improvement can only happen if you keep fighting. I'm done fighting. I choose to stop putting in effort. I decide not to keep trying. This is why I have lost hope, and why I know I will never get it back.

[@nobodyimportant9510]

Thanks we needed this “If you cried while watching this, it’s not because your weak, you’ve just been strong for too long” -some guy in the comments section

[@joshuagabrielcatindig7607]

I can't even cry almost anymore.

[@Inotbread]

❤️

[@Idonotwanttosay]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@joshuagabrielcatindig7607]

@@nobodyimportant9510 Any sadness soon turns into anger once I learn it could have been avoidable

[@karlostjuroukei1802]

@@nobodyimportant9510 Hi nobodyimportant, I wish a good day to you! I really wanna know how to cry! (Last time was maybe in early-2021) I thank you in advance with a virtual-coffee, enjoy!😊 ☕

[@voltia9893]

"Reach out to your friends for support" Ma'am my friends all left me behind because my issues kept me from progressing in life. So I just get to watch my former friends and peers live their lives while I watch from a mental cage

[@Smoldragoncat]

It’ll be okay I hope, that cage will be broken soon, no matter how long

[@crater2277]

Same here…

[@AMAAT3RASU]

Same

[@88Moebius8]

...

[@omnicloud6663]

Felt that, literally stabbed and abandoned from all my friends and now I'm sitting alone for good.

[@andrewskinner8560]

Robin Williams said it best: "I used to think the thought of being alone was the worst, it's not, it's the people that make you feel alone.

[@jgcoverkknot5701]

Robin Williams was a king among men

[@pedrolopes3542]

Which Robin Williams? The actor or the singer?

[@andrewskinner8560]

@@pedrolopes3542 the late actor

[@bethmcnaughton2503]

@@pedrolopes3542 the singer is called Robbie not Robin

[@mredgegaming2811]

😔felt that

[@MiniMaker14]

The reader's voice alone was very soothing and calming. The content was a real boost. For a religious person, not being alone means that God is holding our hands throughout our difficult and challenging journey through life. At the same time we are all surrounded buy friends and neighbours who have a listening ear and we'll give us a shoulder to lean on. The words of hope are powerful and invigorate thank you AZDR 2024 nov

[@PanzerkampfwagenXI]

Well, maybe for you, someone doesn’t have friends or someone to comfort them, think about that, miracles can happen but let’s be real, chance of it happening for an unlucky person is almost 0%

[@BabyDoll_Ps]

her voice is so gentle...it's like hearing a mother comforting us after falling. It may seem like nothing, but it really helps a lot. Thank you for all the affection you put in the videos.

[@enteryourtexthere.6348]

Yeah, i cried while watching this video. Really.... im touched... im having mental issues but no one knew and then i discovered this channel, this channel helped me to restore my original self bit by bit...

[@day_dreamer473]

For some reason I dont feel like crying but most wholesome voice I've ever 👌 Still can't find hope Sry

[@enteryourtexthere.6348]

@@day_dreamer473 someday u will find ur hope, fighting! :)

[@day_dreamer473]

@@enteryourtexthere.6348 tnx :)

[@siegpasta]

and she added a soft piano in the background. brilliant move. people don't know how much muisc affects us emotions. sad music has alot of EMOTIONS and that's good because when you express the EMOTIONS in you you give them an outlet and they don't build up until you feel like you can't breathe. that's also why sad anime romance is good aswell. cause you will feel the emotions that you can't express otherwise and thus they disappear, at least for the MOMENT. :D

[@someone-re7sq]

"you're not alone." no. the problem with my life is that I am very much alone and the fact that other people struggle with the same things doesn't make me feel less alone

[@King_Is_Jesus]

For those still living the depressed life ---->kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJTUqa2Ogrd6pcU

[@ThreadBareHope1234]

I feel the exact same way. For a lot of reasons I am literally alone, aside from my Mom. I'm not trying to talk down to you, state the obvious, or diagnose anything, but there are two things I learned too late that I really needed earlier. 1) media, digital and physical, are fantastic resources for understanding and community (even if it's the illusion of community). Movies, games, books, and music that talk about your feelings are a great way to find a way out. (I'll recommend something if you want) 2) Message my siblings, friends, or grandparents. The worst thing I told myself was that "they're too busy". Anyone you know you can talk to, set a time with them. My brother especially was able to help me feel like there was a way out.

[@F-M-L]

Yo we have the same name :D

[@someone-re7sq]

yay :D

[@darkwai5496]

Yo man i was alone in life for 2 years in my child hood i feel your pain every day you feel emptyness and its just depressing. The only thing i can say to you is hold on and keep fighting there is always light at the end. And im thinking about you today and i will not forget you so technially you're not kind of alone now😅😉

[@agustdee02]

"Always remember, you're not alone." This may be true but I hate myself even more when I talk to my friends about my issues. My family doesn't even have an inkling as to what I'm going through, how I find living in this world a pain and how much I want to end myself. I want to spare them from my burden so I choose to pretend I'm okay, but I am not. For the past 25 years, I am not and I'm so sick of it.

[@moon_01]

Please just don't end it ok? All of us here fell the same. You can always talk here if you want :) You can make a comment here just to let it out and than if you want you can delete it if you feel that it's too personal(I won't read your comment if you don't want but if you do just write it first 😃) Hope you have a good morning/day/night :D

[@devikavnair1573]

l think you are an army too . please don't feel that way .l can feel how painful is your life .lam also struggling throughout my life forpast 20 years .may be it is different from each other but it doesn't mean that our stuggles are invalid.yeah the phrase you are not alone is a bit kind of Gaslighting but you have to remind it is a world with 7 billion people at the end of the day we are alone .so the only one we have is ourself .so don't be hard on you because we know how gentle was our soul .why did tear that gentle cute thing apart .love yourself ( l think it is a bit hard but try with baby steps engage in moments which makes you happy .if don't move away from it .lts not your fault .the struggle now we encounter is not for permanent one day we will find a better way .if you need someone to share you thoughts you can have a touch with me .... I don't know what is happening in your life stay strong don't stumble on struggles . atleast we try .if you feel bad about want to cry cry loud then move on from that .it will fade away little by little .l don't know you should notice this comment if so please give a reply .l think atleast you feel better . From a annonymous person who is struggling with her life 💜

[@jessrister7381]

I know exactly how you feel

[@kolfoster6926]

I am planning on overdosing by Friday

[@moon_01]

@@kolfoster6926 Hey I know I can physically stop you but I can still tell you this. You are loved and even if I don't know you I can fell that we could be good friends. You should try talking to someone about your problems. You could even talk here with me if you want. I won't juge you I promise. Just plz don't do it ok? You are loved.

[@mirceapuran6404]

Here because I gave up on love. Now I realise that we all should form a community, so we all find a reason to stay alive. You’ve got a friend in me.

[@SquRVRV]

I swear this channel posts every single time I'm not feeling well, it's very wholesome. ^^

[@PeterPeter20]

Yeah... I don't know how is that

[@MJ-zt4xc]

Trueeee

[@CasualAxolotl]

I would say “same” but they’re not posting all the time

[@samuellevi7016]

luckily sometimes l fell like dying but this vidoes make me wanna put effort

[@Nanjoe]

IKR!!

[@PippaNiNi]

Me hearing the phrase "You're doing so well, keep going." Is like hearing "Just keep going, no matter how you feel, even if you're tired." Out of all my life, I *have* been trying my best, and I'm just extremely tired. Maybe, sometimes, I just need to hear "Thank you for your efforts, it's okay." Or "You've done enough."

[@Munchkit]

Hearing those Words Make me Cry, I Barely get those comments. My teacher told me these words on the last day of school, I then cried, I felt like they cared. But then it was time to go. I still had my crying face. My mom saw me crying and told me “stop crying you’ll see your teacher again”

[@iluhcatssm]

your doing amazing love, your a really great person, your doing amazing in life, please keep going, thank you for all the things you've done in life, you've helped many people and they want you to stay

[@PippaNiNi]

@@iluhcatssm Tysm

[@iluhcatssm]

ofc, sorry if this doesn't reply to ur new comment, my yt is kinda weird rn, and tysm

[@Munchkit]

@@iluhcatssm You are going to make me cry

[@ayush2977]

A letter to myself: I'm sorry for crushing down your dreams, for not working hard, for wasting time in things which don't really matter, for wasting time on people who don't hold any value in your life. You deserve better. I'll work hard to make you proud. And till then I shall not let the fire within me burn out. I'm sorry once again and I love you.

[@iamezche]

A person should value himself more than loving himselff (i think) What is self-love? I can't find an answer to this it's just like a popular saying But if I value myself sometimes i say out loud to myself i love you, girl :) like value ratio is everything

[@curie1677]

Love you too stranger

[@justanothermortal1373]

I hope you find a path towards healing

[@flakex1160]

LYSM ❤

[@pravashi_382]

I want to say the same to myself, honestly..

[@code-52]

My life isn't worth living. I'm 62, alone and going blind. You young people, your life is wide open. It's up to you to decide who and what makes you happy. Remove the people and things that make you miserable. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AfterthymeGaming]

I can't remove my parents because that's just scummy behaviour and they cared for me since I was a child and they're entitled to it enough to control me (my parents are also the people who make me miserable because they make me face people who has made me miserable through the course of my life. And people brush my mental health off as me being negative minded when I'm just being defensive for myself by being offensive on people because my mental sanity expired).

[@WhiteWhistleBondrewd]

thats not true. youre beautiful. Im sorry for your blindness, but I trust that you can still fight. If not for yourself, for your body, if not for your body, for your family, If not for your family, for your friends, If not for your friends, for the little happy moments of life. Or If youre like me, who has none of those. Fight for the reason that you have only one life. And that you will die anyways at the end of It. At least go to the end and see what awaits you at this journey. Life Is cruel, and we suffer a lot. But honestly, even if I have a lot of suicidal thoughs, I still dont want to die. I consider myself broken beyond repair, a glitch, a failure. But I continue going on. Keep up with me, friend. Lets continue living, and suffer together. In a way, even if It hurts, youre never truly alone. A lot of people are In a very deep hellhole. But we keep going. Lets continue this journey together.

[@Infodumptruck]

I'm sorry. I hope you feel better.

[@SamuelBlack84]

Getting everything that I want at the expense of others and for those same "people" to crawl over broken glass and praise my existence That's what I want

[@hdpiiLhaze]

Bruh I'm only 17 and i already feel like I'm losing my sanity eveyday 💀

[@Miresskaa]

The truth is I haven't lost hope, I have not lost motivation, I have family and friends, I am loved and people care about me. The thing that I lost is a goal in life and to be honest I can't seem to find anything that I could want for myself

[@miriga3927]

I feel this, I try to do well in school because “it matters” but I can’t connect well social or emotional with people or society… I have goals an ideal career, but I don’t “want” that. It sounds more fun than other option of life, but I don’t have an ultimate goal. I feel useless and apathetic, and above all board… nothing strong enough to die, maybe a stray though, but just sheer exhaustion

[@bronwynwolf2867]

I relate to this so much

[@mjftshows5039]

OMG im going through this right now

[@pr1m339]

Same man. Have a year left, hard to stay even tho haven't even reached a quarter of my life yet

[@vyna_mel5726]

exactlyyyy thats how i feel the only reason im ever living on is because of my family and friends

[@hardino4072]

the fact that people are going through the same thing doesnt make me feel better. it makes me feel worse to realize how terrible this world is and that people have to deal with the things i am, and worse. im not sad about my situation. im sad that this world is just horrible and unjust.

[@BeYou-BeAlive]

Very well said. All we can do is put out positivity!

[@cheefqueef6494]

Watch American Psycho edits and realize that Patrick Bateman is literally you

[@jeniiyengar9719]

Just try to see the light at the end of the tunnel, we're all in this together

[@ImEmpath]

Thank you someone finally understands my pain this generation is draining me I hate this generation 😪 the fact my parents don’t care they’re toxic I have no friends no relationship no pets I only have god 💔

[@unknownrealms8452]

They break down because they say that what they have not done for me and raised me to this age only to see me break down and lose hope This feeling is killing me

[@thicccatto3956]

_"You are not alone"_ The most blatant lie people have told me all my life other than "it's gonna be okay."

[@thicccatto3956]

@The Blessed Aspie Don't see the point though. Is being sad in mass supposed to be relieving?

[@inumakitoge4960]

@@thicccatto3956 damn that hit hard

[@FART-REPELLENT]

For most people it will never be okay

[@inumakitoge4960]

@TheSpratMan damnnn what a broken generation and society we are :((

[@ricardocastillo5485]

I agree with you. I don't go to a therapist, but if I did, I wouldn't listen to anything other than "look, life sucks, no one gives a shit about you, you're alone, none of this is going to change, so let's at least start from this base point and proceed". If they DON'T say that, I know they're full of shit, they're just getting paid to go thru the motions and tell you bullshit and run up the clock, and therefore don't trust them.

[@meronamewgamer9449]

"You are not alone" is what people say. My parents ignore me. My friends don't exist. I have nothing left but my cheap-ass guitar and the computer I am writing this on. I AM alone.

[@stormbreaker2526]

Same here homie. Hey you have instagram we can talk if you want

[@mermaid_girly504]

Same...

[@BuluBarman-cl2kg]

​@@stormbreaker2526I want to be your friend

[@stormbreaker2526]

@@BuluBarman-cl2kg you have insta?

[@stormbreaker2526]

@@BuluBarman-cl2kg what's your insta?

[@GL0riouz]

Telling someone "you shouldn't be sad, others have it worse than you." Is like telling someone "you shouldn't be happy, others have it better than you."

[@Candy_Flower]

i honestly keep that in my head, because my parents have said that to me before

[@Hubcool367]

It also implies that only the single person having the single worst life in the world is "allowed" to be sad, which is obviously inane

[@walterwhite5764]

​@@Hubcool367 so like what would that be someone being tortured for days in the most brutal painful way possible cant think of anything much worse then that

[@Hubcool367]

@@walterwhite5764 I personally have no idea, you would have to ask the "stop complaining, other people have it worse" crowd who they consider has the "right" to be sad/unhappy/complaining.

[@thecollector4574]

Not really. If you put it in a good way, it’s telling you to be grateful

[@LastRoseOfWinter]

It's easy to say that you'll bounce back and be stronger for it. But a lot of depression videos act like there's a single thing causing the depression. Not just being so tired of life and unhappy in the unjust world we live in. It's easy to say you're not alone to someone who doesn't remember what human touch feels like

[@ImEmpath]

Exactly 😢

[@my_life_be_like.]

ikr like we cant just magically feel better

[@becjane1281]

😔

[@littlet-rex8839]

I delight in giving forgiveness, understanding, but I don't get much of it. Perfection is the standard,,,, I should have been a hermit 🤔

[@rainspiritflower2385]

Being a hermit ends up turning on you and it’s horrifying and sad

[@soumyasukumaran6066]

It's crazy how many people viewed this. Me myself searched "I don't wanna live anymore" and find this. It's not like I wanna die but iam tired of dealing with past trauma ,forcing myself to make progress and lack of appreciation for my progress but cant blame anyone iam the one who only knows iam struggling mentally. Virtual hugs for everyone who reads this. We can overcome this ❤🤗

[@darkhero2114]

I understand what you mean. Trauma is tough to deal with on a regular basis. All we're left with is coping methods to control that pain. In the end, we must keep fighting, despite how exhausting it may be.

[@vylianv]

Bro we are literally same :(

[@fuzzypanda1684]

The most ridiculous thing is that this video on "losing hope" is on a channel with over 10 million subs. Nothing like someone who's enjoying more success than we ever will telling us to have hope.

[@huaho9213]

*hugging you back*

[@vampgrrl]

I know how you feel,hope you're ok*hugs*

[@whythingschanel]

It's okay not to be okay. It's okay to cry sometimes. It's okay to change your mind. It's okay to feel alone. great video

[@dontcallmebymyname4592]

"Remember what it's like having a crush?" Yes, the most painful rejection

[@disco_depression]

Having an unhealthy crush on a fictional character and the actor who plays him. The guy will never know I exist. Deep down I know I am searching for escapism. When I'm not obsessing over him I think of how lonely I am and my trauma comes back. I want this vicious cycle to stop

[@coffeetree_]

@@disco_depression hey hey hey coming from a book character and game character simp, I found my guy. Was fucking terrifying telling him since we’ve been friends for 6 years, but apparently he likes me back, yay! Thought the guy of all my expectations never existed, and he was right in front of me. Definitely some downsides and heartache, but at one point (when i was still making fanart and obsessing over fictional characters) i thought i would be alone forever. Well, nope. It’s a fucking miracle, you just gotta look for them. If it happened to me, it will happen to you too. The vicious cycle doesn’t stop, you have to stop it.

[@Uber.spooky]

I actually don't

[@JB52520]

@@coffeetree_ The whole "just gotta look" thing doesn't work for me. There's no one right in front of me to settle for. I never meet anyone ever, because my list of defects is too long to type here. I can't will the impossible to happen. My life is a problem for which the only solution is death, and I can't even get that right.

[@Olliver666]

@@JB52520 life may feel like shit right now, but trust me, it gets better. If you kill yourself now, you might miss out on multiple opportunities. Life might be throwing some shit in your face, but I promise, it has good plans in store for you. You will find that special someone eventually, you just have to wait. And if you’ve already waited, wait a little longer

[@junidaydreams]

To anyone who feels defeated and can't afford to see a mental health professional, you are truly amazing for still being here. This video is not professional help, but definitely pulled up some inspiration for me. Thank you, Psych2Go. ❤

[@snarls3760]

Its not like i cant afford to go see a mental health professional, im not more at what will come to this, how it will affect my life and how will other people think about me, how will i tell my parents who werent ever aware of that it. It scares me to even think of it even tho i know itd the right thing to do.

[@LegendaryXXL]

thanks I guess

[@silverbronzeee]

YOU DARE INSULT THIS WONDERFUL CHANNEL THAT MAKES THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE'S DAYS?!?!?! im not saying its professional or not, im just saying that either way its nice and heartwarming.

[@hameemhalim]

@@snarls3760 couldn't have said it better :‹

[@lawrup]

There is so much Cat too plow and you need to be there so live on kid

[@thatshyguy9573]

“Do you fear death?” “No” “Why is that?” “Because life scares me more then death ever could”

[@MMX17]

@Snomable I don't think he is.

[@Gorgeousz]

Yes.

[@afflictingspirits]

dude. its ok.

[@vyna_mel5726]

This is so true for me but i really hope ur okay *hug*

[@KOU...123]

This is what I say every day

[@uttm_skibidi_toilet2.0]

Other people are not the true reason I feel hopeless. I am. Recently, I’ve been too distracted and not focusing on my homework. Now, I’m forcing myself to do my homework and study hard, even though it’s summer break. I’m going into grade six next year,and if I fail, my parents won’t go easy on me. Ever since I entered fourth grade and started mastering every class and test, I’ve been the pride, the hope of my family. Now, it feels like a job to make my parents proud of me, but I don’t show it. I don’t want to hurt other people by telling them about my problems, my stress. All I do is fake smile and pretend everything is alright. It’s not only studying that makes me hopeless. 2 months ago, I started this channel, gaining only 27 subscribers. All my life, I’ve been dreaming to be successful. At this point, I feel like giving up, on everything, and I feel like it’s my fault. I made terrible decisions in the past, not focusing on studies, school, tests, everything. Now, I want to fix those mistakes and wish I took the opposite paths. Honestly, I regret writing this💀 idk why 4:32

[@aosidfh]

"You're not alone." No ma'am, the problem quite literally is that I am in fact very much alone and have been my whole life.

[@supadupadutty]

@The Blessed Aspie How does that help? Other ppl suffering doesn;t help anyone going through hard times.

[@MrScotty2Hotty28]

@@supadupadutty We can always go out and meet new people, though. Every relationship in your life fell apart? Go find your purpose and make new relationships after that. Wilderness seasons are for learning about yourself

[@abandoned_channel40822]

@@MrScotty2Hotty28 I don’t deserve other people, and no one likes me anyway.

[@fabiansosa3229]

@@MrScotty2Hotty28 That's rubbish advice u have no idea what you're saying its not that easy when you are poor and ppl around you are nothing but assholes🤦‍♂️ they don't even understand us at all and think we just lazy it is a waste of time to be around these kind of ppl.

[@originalcopy1288]

💯

[@braindriftinglmao]

“You’re not alone” The most empty words to somebody considering ending their life.

[@L.K.S.R.]

I hope you’re doing okay since you wrote this…

[@latasha9898]

@@vladcrow4225 some people hurt themselves and wouldn't even think of hurting someone else. Not sure if you were making a bad joke or just completely lacking in empathy for others suffering.

[@petrakristalova6089]

That wasnt pretty mate... Im not gonna fight myself

[@kiko_iqq]

​@@vladcrow4225 you realize nobody is going to listen 2 you right? youre trying so hard to sound edgy that its truly embarassing.

[@jackaldecreep6491]

how about this... "we all gonna die in the future anyway, might as well take everything this life has to offer and then some before going..."

[@senaanazhar4520]

" The only problem with being strong is that no one asks how you're doing." I dont know who said this quote but it hit me very hard.

[@unknown_emptyHuh]

Hits Hard.

[@dewardroy6531]

Because no one really cares except as relates to themselves. When one is strong or (shudder) happy, others are envious. When one is depressed, sad, hopeless, others feel good, except that they don’t really want to help because that would require actual empathy.

[@ytuser4562]

Yeah, that feels real. When you act stoic or put a neutral face forward to hide what’s within or use your pain to succeed, everyone assumes you’re doing great. No one asks how the emotionless or successful person is doing mentally. I like this quote, but only because it’s too real.

[@alejandrop.s.3942]

I swear that a simple "have a nice day" or "how was your day?" is the most uplifting thing if it comes from the right person. Damn, I miss it so much.

[@ahmadtermidzi3778]

No wonder bro even my family doesn't even care and never ask myself what did I feel 😂 u are on ur own in this world

[@Lav140]

Don't worry! I know I'm not alone, but i have a hard time grasping it! I don't wanna commit, I'm a happy person as t home, but what I mean is that when I wanna defend myself or vent IRL i feel like I'm alone. That there's no one out there to help me. In social media i feel like i can be free... I distract myself from the reality i put myself in and afraid to leave like a bird in a cage, I'm a happy person, but I get extremely tired that I have pretty much no friends, there's some people i talk to which I appreciate! But after that... I don't consider them friends... I consider people that i feel comfortable with... I can tell them every thing about me... And i look forward to talking to them as friends...All they meet is talking to them, but that's because I don't wanna be quiet... I never tried talking to people been years like that.. I acted nice and kind so people like me and talked to me because that's the only way I knew to become someone people can talk nice about and talk to me, but If I continue being kind without standing up for myself just being a weak bastard people are going to see me as a tool not a person, I am afraid to be courageous because of the outcome, but honestly... The outcome is better than the situation.. PS: sorry for bad grammar.

[@CozyRomani]

I honestly feel cursed. Every time there’s a shred of good in my life, it’s only temporary. Only to be eclipsed by negativity. And yet for some strange reason I still wake up everyday because a small part of me feels like it’ll all be okay🥲. I’m still figuring it all out, and it hurts like hell, but I’m still fighting 🙏🏾

[@adrianoss.bougas3720]

It will work out my man, keep going

[@ceooffrenchfries]

same but without the small part of me thinks it will be ok

[@King_Is_Jesus]

For those still living the depressed life -->kzbin.info/www/bejne/nJTUqa2Ogrd6pcU

[@kurisuchiinu1206]

I feel like this every damn day, literally. Though I know from this day and age, that doesn't exist. Heck I don't even know why I am still alive when I have to deal with a lot of sh*t the moment I wake up. I always have to question my existence.

[@jaimeprietoelices1488]

All good must come to an end, because if not everything would be oh so monotone

[@Frostify-ws2um]

It's not that I lost hope in life, it's that I feel like im losing myself and that my emotions and my soul is fading away.

[@yagirlskyunmotivatedroadto1834]

Please, call a helpline.

[@void-master9077]

@@yagirlskyunmotivatedroadto1834, problem is u want to talk to someone who actually cares, but no one does.

[@purple_jams]

Same here, I feel apathetic towards everything. I laugh for the sake of a joke, the little things that used to make me feel alive are now just what they are, little things. I don't have any expectations and I don't have any emotional attachments, I feel like I'm floating just above water in the middle of nowhere and not doing anything about it.

[@divyapatil2420]

I can relate to you ,

[@divyapatil2420]

​@@purple_jams same for me

[@justaperson766]

It’s the fact that random people on the internet can understand and help you better then the closest people you know.

[@darkcastle85]

Very true maybe its because facing people in person can be very difficult but its easier to type it in words than explaining it

[@waynepierce7305]

Those randoms hey...

[@ДаниэльХаски]

fr, it’s better to have the internet that inspires you more than anyone around ever could

[@randomanimedude3]

Yeah some pepple in the internet have way more things in comment with me more than my own family...

[@kimbubble]

:( my tears.

[@Detergent_dragon]

Happiness is phisical, but depression is mental, you can't show it like happiness. It's embedded in your mind and you can't get out of it, it's like a trap, if you get stuck, you can't get out of it. it dosent matter what you try, it's permanent.

[@SuperWiiBros08]

3:29 "reach out to your friends for support" yeah when wanting friends is why I'm losing hope on finding some is the issue, idk about that

[@KieransFanboy_Glitchy]

Can relate but hey people online can be helpful when it comes to fighting dark thoughts. I for sure can help by listening if you ever need it :)

[@randomsztakler5035]

@@KieransFanboy_Glitchy my mom always says "Its better to have one friend cause if you have them alot someone will backstab you and when you turn back you will see a group of people and you will have a problem to find who backstabbed you

[@theshadowfromwithin]

Same here

[@karthkalbi]

rip same

[@askmax723]

Y'all have a friend here. I don't know what help I can be, but I at least want to be here for you. :)

[@highaquatic3055]

the worst feeling is feeling alone while surrounded by others

[@bensonsarg3904]

Jesus said in John 14:18 "I will not leave you comfortless: I will come unto you." Jesus loves you more than anyone you know ever could ❤

[@TheAxeter]

​@@bensonsarg3904 Your imaginary friend doesn't help, take action or give your condolences and leave

[@RoseSiren-nq7kr]

As much as I feel similar, it is EXTEREMELY rude to defy or hate on someone's religion. I am not Christian, but it can be disheartening to the person who was trying to help. Next time, please keep these negative thoughts to yourself. I don't want you to feel shame, though. Just learn from your mistakes.

[@TheAxeter]

@@RoseSiren-nq7kr No, pushing your beliefs on someone, claiming a supernatural being will take care of them is very damaging. He also said his imaginary friend loves him more than anyone he knows, that includes his family, which is a disgusting thing to say. I made no mistake here and i stand by every word i wrote. I didn't even insult or hate, i simply put the truth into word.

[@oriongear2499]

So true man!

[@yshihootelle]

I needed this. I fight constant battle of depression. When I thought I'm finally becoming happier, my mind reverts back to the way it was: self sabotaging, critical, hopelessness and s**cidal, because it's how I'm used to. I find it creepy how automatic the negative thoughts becomes during times I genuinely encouraged myself. So, I'll keep this video to remind myself of better things. Thank you :D

[@Psych2go]

We hope this helped!! You got this!!

[@Ace_isstressed]

I feel the same way….I’m trying to hold on, I’m trying to remember good things, but it’s hard. I always only see the negative side of things no matter how hard I try to see the positive side. I’ll start obsessing over it and thinking about it even more. (I’ve been diagnosed with OCD, so that’s probably why) Everytime I feel happy, it just goes back to being negative again. I feel so alone, I know I’m not, but still.

[@romano-britishmedli7407]

I can relate so much to you guys. I'm trying to find the hope to continue living again. Unlike many here, I still have goals and dreams, but they don't really seem worth living right now. They don't make the discourage, pessimism, negativity and sadness go away.

[@D3stroyer634]

i fight depression on the inside but i let people see i’m happy and i go lone wolf and no one seems to know that the reason i’m so violent and mean is because of self defense and because i go lone wolf so i don’t like doing stuff with people,i’m better on my own

[@hans8087]

I feel you istg, yesterday i just motivated myself to work myself into learning something regarding what i want to be, but it's just like you said, i just go back to feeling depressed, sad, self-sabotaging, lonely and suicidal. But to me unfortunately what works once won't work twice.

[@AyushKale-mp5uw]

Thanks , It feels good talking to someone like you .

[@goldenclaw2361]

You’re not alone is the loneliest phrase that’s ever been said to me

[@vladcrow4225]

Well, where I'm from, there's a saying. "Your only friends - are Tambov's wolf and it's fleas".

[@kiryukazuma9102]

True, sadly. ​@@vladcrow4225

[@vanteelife]

deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html

[@joyfaith6216]

Very true

[@IvanE1990]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqjQh3SNjbasj5Y

[@ComicalRealm]

"We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope" - Eustace Bagge

[@mihirmaiden18]

Great quote, never expected old cranky to say such a thing!

[@ythatesfacts]

Even for those who aren't religious it's a good quote.

[@Cicura001]

Um... this is an MLK Jr. quote tho.

[@kemo.s.mabrok5800]

But how...how to accept disappointment and how to never lose hope

[@Cicura001]

@@kemo.s.mabrok5800 Becuz there is always something to be learned from disappointment and time = opportunity so in the future, you're bound to meet better results. Your mindset makes all the difference here so if you have hope in yourself, you should be able to achieve more than you know.

[@ChromaReal]

I don't know why, but these words guide me through each day: *"Never underestimate a person who has nothing to lose."* edit: best comment i ever wrote, 1k likes another edit: man. i wrote this maybe 3-6 months ago, and people are still appreciating this comment. people who are reading this may be suicidal, or is just tired of life. i wish to that anyone who reads this finds their meaning, their peace. people are wondering “what is the meaning of life?” well. we already found it. its what we make of it.

[@thuyluong5925]

If you get underestimated... thank the people who underestimated you because they gave you the energy to KEEP GOING!

[@axolotlgod3676]

@@thuyluong5925 i try but it only gets worse

[@montmartreanimation]

You gave me quite a boost, thanks

[@carmenisiconic]

i needed this

[@zoneduzstuff7326]

I try to think that It often fills me with DETERMINATION Both metaphorically and litterally

[@rblxstories9176]

Clicked on this video and started balling my eyes out. I just feel alone. Like there’s nobody there to talk to. I have some friends but I feel like they wouldn’t understand what I’m going through. I have severe anxiety and because of it nobody ever talks to me and it’s the reason why I hardly have any friends. I feel like everyone thinks I’m weird and out of place. I feel like nobody cares about me. I know my parents do but I just feel like they don’t see how bad this has affected me. I feel like they don’t ever listen to what I have to say. My birthday is in a few hours and they would probably be very upset to know that I’m having a breakdown on the night before my sweet sixteen. Idk. I just feel like I can’t do it anymore. I start 11th grade in a few weeks and it is stressing me out because that’s when everybody starts looking for colleges and they almost certainly know what they’re gonna do the rest of their life. I don’t know what i want to do after high school. I know nobody will talk to me either. My whole family is Christian and I’ve tried turning to God but I just feel like he doesn’t care and I feel like I’m not good enough. I just can’t take this any longer.

[@victoriac7966]

God isn’t real, research free your mind. Find your purpose.

[@marty15879]

I've been a Christian for decades, but not anymore. I have felt too that God didn't care. I have been a faithful Christian, was involved in bunch of ministries & have given my all to Jesus, but there were no interventions in my deep problems. No matter how many times I cried out to Jesus, no help ever came. The Bible is just a book filled with myths & untruths. I'm telling you this to prevent you from having greater disappointments & suffering. Take care.

[@pixywings]

The hard part is that everything feels completely pointless. I don't really have any goals because I can't seem to figure out what I like or even want out of life. Edit: Wow! I have never gotten this many likes on a comment before! It actually helps a lot just knowing that there are other people out there struggling just like me. Hang in there everyone! ❤️

[@alexlindviel8075]

I feel the same way...

[@qhstzk]

Same here... at this point I don't even know what I'm doing everyday

[@raydhd5604]

Same here. I just live day by day. I try to do something to pass the time by playing video games. I also don't know what I want to do or if I even want to be a somebody

[@chipey5227]

Yeah it’s hard

[@chipey5227]

Hope ur ok:)

[@andregiante3940]

'You're not alone" God, I've heard that all my life......I don't even know what it's supposed to mean. As long as I'm alive I'll always be alone. Which is why death is the only thing I've got going for me at this point.

[@Lodosdelavida]

Absolutely Same With me. come here man 🫂

[@Lodosdelavida]

@@alejandroguevara8455 yea bro, true. I think it's something we all lack when it's something we all need

[@hky2k576]

it means that there are other who feel the exact same way you do. it also means there are people out there that will be there and support you. its bullshit to say "youre not alone" when you dont have anyone in your life who's there for you. you just need to reach out. youll be surprised and comforted about what you find. i've gone through very tough things before, i know how it feels. please reach out to anyone you feel comforting, tell them what youre going through.

[@MrBruh-yb9qi]

it means this kzbin.info/www/bejne/hH_Mc5qXnrmYp5o

[@lordofkeebs8424]

It's a feel good term. But to be honest if you are always alone, you may want to figure out what you may be doing wrong and not blame it on society. Being a one man army sounds cool on paper but in reality it just ends with you on welfare and a crippling alcohol addiction a few years down the line.

[@streamfb]

People always say your not alone. Really sure as hell feels like I'm alone. Nobody talks to me, girls don't even look in my direction unless they want something. People only care when its convenient for themselves so they feel like they helped.

[@Padilla_01]

I feel like I'm living so others don't mourn my death

[@TheNamelessVR]

Same here, i'm not gonna die until everyone who cared about me dies, although I just want to die now

[@your_avarege_otaku]

Im living for my family and because im scared of the pain.everyday i live pleading for god to end it all or kill because i cant take it anymore

[@yahussain1272]

Thats me…i have kids and i cant leave them to suffer…

[@chummleslee351]

At least you have people who'd mourn your death.

[@LonesomeKrow]

This is the only reason I’m alive.

[@eeunoiaa]

I need to show this to that one depressed friend I met in a game, he's really in need of this, thank you so much.

[@Psych2go]

Aww we hope this video helps~

[@eeunoiaa]

@@Psych2go thank you alot

[@zmalone4237]

I’m 31 other than my mother I have no reason to live. I stay up at night and watch videos like this to literally keep myself alive.

[@rebellion7463]

hey man if you want to vent without being judged, i can leave my email address and we can talk, just say yes and ill put it here for you

[@javierpacheco8234]

You don't work or have a job dude?

[@KazamOp_ium]

@@javierpacheco8234 not the time mate, not good timing

[@jm7514]

I feel like that because I am almost 50. Ageism is real. You have about 15 years in which you can change everything. It's too late for me now. I hope you don't squander this time...I did and it is my biggest regret.

[@rebellion7463]

@@jm7514 Its never too late bud

[@anisahayat6844]

you can control so much until you can't.

[@lilY-f1t]

Person with severe depression and anxiety here. It’s just gotten to the point where I’m too embarrassed to even show emotion in front of people. I can’t even walk to the pantry to get a snack by myself.

[@0rhythm_divine0]

Oh, that's sad to know dear! But do you know your exact reason for depression?? Like what makes you so sad about in life, eh??

[@lilY-f1t]

@@0rhythm_divine0 sorry for being late on replying but its severe bullying

[@RayanOmar-fs4be]

If you are bullied severely have a go at them the best defence is offence so make every time they bully sting and even bully THEM if you could exploit anything.

[@lilY-f1t]

@@RayanOmar-fs4be Thanks for the advice.

[@RayanOmar-fs4be]

Any time dude just stay alert.👍

[@bomj-valera]

The feeling of "It is not that I want to die, I just don't see a reason to live" was with me for a long time. Try changing something in your life step by step, it should help. 🙂

[@Shelby-rh8jz]

Ah. That’s the phrase lookin for and feeling. Idk how to say what I feel but thanks random person.

[@lovelynikki_346]

Same that’s how I feel :( Hope ur doing better now 🤍

[@Shelby-rh8jz]

@@lovelynikki_346 nice name c: or delicious name

[@lovelynikki_346]

@@Shelby-rh8jz ty lol ☺️

[@Shelby-rh8jz]

@@lovelynikki_346 Ayy good thing u happy, seeing as ur here watching the same vid, life prolly has no meaning for now, but maybe… just maybe. U’ll find along the way, find a meaning or someone who’ll give u motivation and give u a reason to live life and give u hope. And ur welcome, I just thought about food when I saw ur name

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

"I would like to tell you that things will get better tomorrow. But I have been through so many tomorrow's and nothing has changed."

[@vanteelife]

deeptalkswithme.blogspot.com/2024/04/is-life-worth-it.html

[@Celestine138-x5j]

🫂❤️

[@TSG042]

Way too true.

[@nil981]

They won't for 90% of us.

[@jacobyearout9654]

Yes, it never gets better. I honestly don't remember what it's like to be happy in life

[@jeremy____5747]

"You're not alone". This is what people say when they want to feel like they are helping without actually doing anything.

[@TheRealRiverStox]

Ah, I see you are a man of agonizing bitterness and despair as well.

[@pablose6986]

yeah "You're not alone." is just the stupidest shit to say its almost funny

[@orzAR26]

"My death will affect someone close" is the only reason stopping me.

[@SuperVladdrakula]

Caring about "someone else" more than yourself is not really rational... And doesn't pay off...

[@Zero_the_Sahrk]

Me to. The only season i keep on is my parents i dont think they and there magig could take it the already lost on childe dont ned two things like that in my family. Otherwise i would have kild my self two years ago. Sory for bead riding this is my second languag. have a god day

[@hayvvr]

You need to find another reason to stay because I bet there is a better one. I cant say what since I have also given up but your reason is not very good because you need to put yourself first. It’s not selfish like others say, in the end you are your top priority.

[@aliyahnyc9886]

I know....Me too.

[@vladcrow4225]

Yeah, in my case - they'll be too happy for me to allow it.

[@iceblueaquamarina7389]

To the narrator: I already feel better when I hear your voice. It‘s so soothing. 😌

[@pyrokrys8583]

"it gets better" is the biggest and most consistent lie anyone has told me ever

[@Sukkiyakki]

I feel exactly the same...

[@jacobyearout9654]

Yeah

[@brent-o5j]

i hate how that's so true...

[@durndychris3254]

biggest lie ive ever heard

[@un.argentino.mlp_fan]

Yeh

[@vevegsilva]

My heart is broken. I don't know if it will ever be repaired. I'm in the dark, and I can't see a way out. I don't know how to. This pain never fades. I just don't know how much longer I can endure this. Every day is worse than the last one.

[@MiniMaker14]

treat yourself, try to be more open-minded, and do something that's hard for you, even a little bit. wish you a happy life

[@marty15879]

Life truly is very difficult. I don't see any way out too. I don't know what to do.

[@luc1d356]

I've reached a point where seeking support feels futile because others fail to grasp the depth of what I'm going through, and likely never will. What's the use? They pretend listening and understanding , but in truth, they grow weary of my troubles and eventually distance themselves. I don't wish to burden anyone, so I watch as they enjoy time with friends, build families, and embark on vacations, while I remain isolated and alone. Throughout my life, I held onto hope that things would improve, that somehow I'd find a way to turn my life around. Yet, nothing has changed; I've simply aged, feeling as though my prime years were wasted by this debilitating condition. Despite it all, I can't shut myself down because of my faith in God; it's what sustains me in challenges. Even with apparent blessings-beauty, youth, strength, wealth, and health-none of it matters in the grip of depression, when you feel hollow and dead inside.

[@traffy269]

Hugs 😢 I understand what you feel..

[@ProphetessGloryOladunjoye]

U just spoke out my mind

[@rickbhattacharya2334]

I understand you brother, I feel the exact same. I neither have wealth nor looks. Everyday feels like somehow worse than the last. If you talk it with people they will just run away or ignore you after once or twice. The only thing keeping me going is my faith in God and my parent's faces. But I do sometimes think why God made us suffer like this and wait for a day of when this will end ....

[@shelley1071]

Does it ever end? At one time, I believed it would. Now...not so much. 62 .. divorced, beauty has faded, friends abandoned me for loss of words to say. Ex stole our savings ... no one wants to hire me at my age. Healthy and physically active and completely invisible to the world around me. Dreams crushed and days spent alone. What a wonderful life, right. 🙄 Crock of shit this world is

[@luc1d356]

@@shelley1071 I feel sorry that you feel that way :( It can be hard indeed but Jesus will never abandon you. He is the only One you can turn to , He got through it all... There is still hope...

[@eden5136]

This video literally made me cry. Today wasn't one of my worst days, but I have been struggling with a lot of anxiety, an existential crisis as well as a heartbreak recently, so it all came together. But you're right, I am not alone, I am still overwhelmed by the support my friends and mutuals have shown me. They can't help me deal with my problems for the most part but I would've given up long ago if it wasn't for them. So for anyone out there, you are not alone, there will always be something or someone to keep fighting for

[@mr.mrowmusic8255]

I agree with a lot of this, and it made me cry too today was actually one of my worst days, my last hope for changing a situation I have got denied and I just don't know what to do next, I just feel like as time goes on I'm forced to be less "me" and more "them" thanks for anyone who ends up reading this lol

[@miyaviiin]

yeah but what if the only two people in my life who'd cry after me and miss me only want me because i am useful to them, i perform tasks for them. that's hardly a reason to live for, only to be in service to others. i dont feel positivity from this or any reason to "keep fighting for". they'd be well served to learn to fetch for themselves too. miss me, hah. yeah, cause they'd need to do their stuff on their own.

[@shinratensei8433]

Hi! Me too 😭 I'm facing an existencial crisis and I have to break up with one of my best friends for my own sanity!

[@eden5136]

@@shinratensei8433 Someone has also cut me off for an utterly unnecessary reason recently, and then they were trying to gaslight me and pretended that I didn't care at all like wtf man. Humanity sucks sometimes, but I hope you will make better friends that you deserve

[@jellypaws9560]

Decades of progress living your life. Caring for those around you, trying to the 'best you' and pushing yourself every day. All it took for me was a few bad days, horrible situations, and they crumbled those years to ash and began wondering, what it is all worth for?.... Weeks passed after, but still, sometimes the heavy dread of wanting to peice myself back together feels ever so more daunting. One day, I know I'll get back on my feet. But the pain of leaving a piece of myself behind, learning to cope with not being whole and feeling happy about it seems so far away

[@BlackKittyCat99]

You can do it, I believe in you ❤

[@Holy-Spirit-33]

So many people are depressed. Try to reach out when you know they are. Just let them know you care. 🙏💕🙌🙌♥️♥️♥️

[@spiritguardianwildcraft6881]

^^ I Hope Your Doing Good!

[@Holy-Spirit-33]

^^ Thank You 😊! Likewise😊🧚🏿🧚🏿🧚🏿

[@-SoonerorLater]

No one cares a wink about me man. I swear I’m a ghost to people nowadays

[@Balls2334]

No one can be depressed if I commit genocide.

[@Holy-Spirit-33]

@@-SoonerorLater Reach out and make it known you are not invisible. We all feel like that at times. Please know this feeling will go away. When I feel like that, I always make sure I go out and do something for someone else. I volunteer quite often. It does make you feel so much better. I wish you would start feeling better soon.

[@OTHno3TLA]

I think the hardest part for me is living in a toxic house. I’m actually super happy and bubbly around my friends and when I’m doing things outside of the house,but whenever I’m home I honestly feel so so depressed. My dad has anger issues and constantly shouts at me,insults me and makes me feel worthless a lot of the time.I know I am loved but reminding myself of this every time I feel hurt at home has become so exhausting and isn’t enough.I’m tired of ‘pushing through’ and being ‘strong’ everyday.I don’t want to use all my energy everyday to avoid and ignore all the pain,I want to just live freely with a clear and peaceful mind. Without yelling and screaming....it’s getting so hard 🥺🥺

[@バラタァンズ]

Yo man, we may be tired sometimes pushing through and using energy to ignore the pain, but if we look at the bigger picture, everything happens for a reason. May it be your parents having anger issues, or other negative experiences we all have. This all happens for a reason, after all, what is life without a story? I hope you find your purpose in life! I have already found my purpose already at a young age. I hope you find yours too, it will make you happy , regardless of your situation. You will have peace of mind, as long as you search for it. Try reading more books and articles about this topic, you will find the secret. Have a great day!

[@JB52520]

My dad destroyed me. The brain damage lasts for life. Please get out of there as soon as you can.

[@jaipanesar6027]

Yes you need to leave. Leave with love, but leave

[@tessgm9566]

I feel the same we have to keep fighting 💜✨ we will be happy i'm sure about that

[@Lauren-nn5mh]

Honestly, same. My dad has destroyed me because of anger issues and still does, but sometimes I forget how much he has helped me and provided for me, when he isn't angry he's not too bad. Everyone who us angry is angry for a reason whether you know that reason or not. I don't know it, but I know it isn't because of alcohol or anything. If it isn't the same for you, that's ok, it will get better. It's up to you whether you want to keep fighting or find new happiness. Whatever you do, God will be by your side. I'm still here fighting for as long as I can. If I leave one day, whether it's because of my dad or college, I know that I can call myself a warrior for coming that far, and to anyone who's been fighting, yall can too! We are all warriors and we are strong. I've thought about leaving, but I tried to remind myself that I should stay. That's what I choose, but even if you stay, God will still be with you. If you think you failed, you haven't. You've held on as long as you could, you just need to heal, which I understand is not possible for everyone, but at least give yourself a break. If you can fight no longer, that's OK. Just move on and go find your happy beginning, God will still be with you. I hope if you leave you at least have a plan, because I see the streets are no place for a deserving person such as you. I pray for you all and God bless you all❤

[@MaskedViolinist07]

While stressing that you are not ‘alone’ and bringing up the role of friends and family in most videos, understand not all of us have those healthy relationships, if any at all. I’ve yet to find an informative video that doesn’t make me feel worse for all the things I don’t have. The people who are the very definition of alone, who are consumed by solitude and the loud silence that being your own companion brings, are not understood in the big picture. Maybe because no one knows us to document the struggle.

[@Smoldragoncat]

You can always find people online, who truly want to help and care. Most of the time, it’s worth it to move forward. I hope you’re alright

[@brie2993]

I am alone on this. Nobody lives my life, nobody has lived in my body and what its been through. Nobody will have my brain, no one will have my downfalls or praised events. Because no one is me. I am me and I can be proud for myself but I am still alone. No one can relate to me, no one I can confide in. No one I can share my feelings and thoughts. Used by passer people in my life who stay and leave after my presence improved their life. I exist and people take my spirit and leave. I relate to the dead more than I do the living. So yes I am alone but I am learning to okay with that. That maybe im so unique I havent met or maybe even will meet people like me. Who I can confide and relate to. I cant think about it all the time because ill waste it away worrying. I suggest others do the same life is too short to stress. Enjoy what you have before its gone even if youre alone for it. Its your life its your expierence

[@JamalGardner1]

As someone who has spent countless years dealing with constant failures and daily struggles, and therefore feeling like I've lost hope in pretty much lots of things, including my life, I can seriously relate to this.

[@s_xm1z]

this isn't my first time visiting this video. every time I visit, the less I take away from this video. I feel like the words of "encouragement" that are given to me are nothing anymore, and any hope of getting better is no longer something I consider. it's been so many long, torturous, lonely years to the point where it's making me a worse person, and I hate to see myself unrecognisable. In all my moments of nearly leaving this planet, I never thought i could feel worse, till I do feel worse, and the cycle repeats. the amount I would do to go into a permanent state of sleep, remove any trace of my existence, so the world could progress as if I had never existed, the amount I would do is alarming.

[@yumenikko]

if it makes you feel a little better, you're not alone in this feeling and someone else out there feels exactly how you are. i understand u completely man. i hope things get better for you, and it gets better for me as well and maybe in time we both never have to feel so much sadness again.

[@ilyitsruiningmylife]

i saw ur other comment and i really am so sorry am here if u need a friend :)

[@IvoryHere115]

God is with you, by your side, he'll heal up all that hurt because I was there, too, and I know because I've been at that point, too. I tied a rope high up because kids wouldn't stop bullying me, I was standing on that chair until somebody actually came to stop me. God sent that man that I wouldn't kill myself. I've had whole mobs of kids who just chased me around, verbally abused, stole things from me, threw hard objects, kicked me in the snow, and just hurt me. Jesus healed all that, man. I have such a will of Iron because JESUS CHANGED ME.

[@haileycarroll2937]

hey I get it and the fact that I have autism just makes it even worse because I don't really express myself well verbally and i'm the don't you fucking touch my bitch ass type (I very much value my personal space)😔

[@Devin64589]

Damn dude that's rough I hope things get better for you

[@oliveoil709]

The only reason I'm still here is to not disappoint my friends and family by leaving them :/

[@davidk8619]

yup, same

[@MikaMationsTV]

Same

[@justpelumii9986]

Exactly

[@fishman5]

Mine is my religion it forbids suicide so I won't do it but that doesn't help me from feeling any better in myself

[@Fightzpike]

i recommend you guys listen to a song called On Gp by Death Grips. the lyrics are very relatable and it has helped me get a better comfort in how i feel about myself

[@weirdtraveler809]

Thank you. I needed this. For everyone suffering here, I hope that the universe gives you a break and things ease up for you.

[@PanzerkampfwagenXI]

There is nothing that can be called hope. Hope is an illusion to comfort someone but in the end when defeat comes, hope won’t turn it into victory

[@riffmagos]

I'm 52 years old. It hasn't faded. I'm tired . . . So fooking tired, on all levels.

[@RedaReda-vl9ff]

Dont give up,have a really nice day🙂

[@kaythebored8163]

I don’t really know your situation but what I can say is…if you have a family you need to take care of, try to connect with them. If you’re just tired of the whole race of life, i think you should stop taking it too seriously…often everything starts to feel negative is because you start to give them too much importance. Again, I don’t know what is troubling you… but maybe keep looking for small positive things to focus on?

[@dooblom]

for some reason this reminded me of jacksepticeye "I'm going to have to put on my double-seeing glasses, because I can't even _begin_ to see-"

[@monicacarolina6480]

"you are not alone?"" Some people are alone. I am alone. Deal with thee thoughts alone. Please be honest in your content, because I love what you do.

[@omnimercurial5169]

We are ALL alone. We live alone surrounded by others that only see what they want to see. We will die alone too, but at least that will be an end and suffering will cease.

[@Asgeration]

Accurate. There are many people who are alone.

[@lucidmemories3348]

I think she means ur not the only one who feels that way

[@bharatmatakaladla4214]

forever is a lie..people exist to say hi and good bye...even ur parents said u hi once and they will say goodbye too...nothing is permanent bro...we are always alone. forever is a lie

[@rusty_yk]

Being alone isnt your only option though. Theres already going to be someone out there, its up to you to reach out. Dont wait on them taking a chance

[@Entei9000]

I'm at a weird point in my life where I'm almost not even concerned with succeeding anymore and am more or less just staying alive to have fun. I don't know if I'll ever find a good career, and I'll probably never find a relationship, and trying to find them has honestly done more harm than good, especially for my self worth. Plus even if I did find them they're not gonna matter once I'm dead, so the way I see it the best way to make my life worthwhile is to stop worrying about hypotheticals and just try to have as much fun as I can, while I can(within reason of course).

[@HideorEscape]

Don't focus too much on "finding a relationship or never gonna find" instead just keep being open and let others find you. Relationship is not what it seems, yes, we all want it but try to see it this way: the reason why we feel so much pain and suffering is because we put too much "importance" on relationship and suffer until we get it, try to not put too much importance and don't take it too seriously. We tend to take a relationship way too seriously. There is something much better than a relationship, it is true best friendship. Nothing can break a true best friendship where you feel understood, accepted while a relationship can break easily.

[@manboss52gaming30]

im going thru the same thing, only thing thats worse is i have a crush who hates me

[@manboss52gaming30]

never mind, i just gotten rejected by her, she doesn’t even want to talk to me

[@niniluvr4066]

@@manboss52gaming30 I'm sincerely sorry. But in the end, it's all going to be alright. Because, well, this will pass in just a matter of time. (like it always had)

[@idreamindarknessandsleepto1475]

Well I can't find anything fun to do and I don't even know what I want.

[@coreymay918]

“Everyone is alone. Everyone is empty. People no longer have need of others. You can always find a spare for any replacement. Any relationship can be replaced” ― Makishima Shougo

[@apersonwhoexists888]

I genuinely have been losing hope in life in general lately this video is so beautiful thank you💜🌻

[@snakesrule7067]

Same ❤️

[@TheyLuvMachia]

Same 🖤

[@Jasturtle]

Hahaha why lose hope in life when u are alrd dead hahahaha

[@danika7470]

You will rise

[@bc8724]

I genuinely don't want to leave my life like this. I've still got so many things to do...even if it's very hard sometimes. I want to prove them wrong, I want to get a life,i want to meet my friends...! It's very difficult,but i genuinely don't want to leave. I needed this,thank you

[@storebought_nezuko8777]

i believe in you bubs, you got this :)

[@Moonlight-on8vz]

Please keep fighting

[@spiritguardianwildcraft6881]

You Keep It Up! I hope It Gets Better!

[@LittleFrostyPrincess]

Can I be your friend....?

[@misty-ym9ht]

BC, I just spent yet another week in the hospital because my life is that hard for me right now. +/- 20 years worth!! Just wanted you to know that you are not the only person who's struggling and please Never Forget That! Try to "Keep your Eyes on the Prize." All those things that you still want to accomplish...Screams Hope! Hold on to that thought, for yourself! Sending you a virtual hug!

[@undeadmonkey683]

This video is probably helpful for people who actually want something. But when you’re almost a decade into aimlessness with no desired outcome whatsoever, it’s what I imagine hearing a motivational speech is like with shattered legs in Yellowstone park on your fifth day with no food.

[@88Moebius8]

Yep... and infortunately motivation is gone for everyone who is watching this vif

[@lovelymill]

true.....

[@Wheatifyy]

This only has 7 dislikes, Humanity still exists

[@Wheatifyy]

Petition to remove the dislikes on this video smh

[@blackfootindian8258]

Yea I stand right with this comment. It’s not bad that I would like to just die. It’s not like watching motivational videos is gonna help me. Been there too. But I just can’t really live like this and I have my reasons, too. So yes. I will welcome death with open arms.

[@Ale-bv3vd]

I've got this video recommended. Must have been a sign. I just lost a 10 year friendship with some friends. And right now my biggest support on my mother is in the hospital, because of her liver condition. She has to go there rarely because of it and I am worried sick each time. I felt very hopeless today. It's like life itself is trying its hardest to take me down. I don't wanna do anything nor that I have the strength to. Yes, I am not alone, my family's still supporting me, but I currently feel there's no useful future for me. I hate my life, and how punishing it's being when I didn't do anything. And to know there's people that have it worse with abusive families only makes me feel like a horrible person being like this when they have more the right to feel how they feel. I don't even deserve to be hopeless when I have it easier than others. I just don't know what to do anymore. I hate it here.

[@BlackKittyCat99]

Don’t compare yourself to others, you’re allowed to feel the way you feel.

[@froggy9284]

im gonna send this to my friend who is having a really hard time. this will really help the both of us, thank you for making this video

[@My_cat_sykunno]

You have friends lucky

[@Ashba_myself]

No give her or him she/he get cired I know the feeling that why I am saying

[@Ashba_myself]

@@My_cat_sykunno I think you don't have friend to like me

[@idksomething45]

Hope you encourage your friend to get help :)

[@badunius_code]

Hardly, but feel free to try. I hope I'm wrong.

[@uxtalzon]

_"You're not alone", "Try again", "Your spark will eventually return", "Reach out to your friends for support"_ Videos like this just make me angry because I've heard it all before. Incorrectly assuming we have safety nets, resources, and friends/family to bounce back only makes me sink deeper.

[@uknown5727]

Hi! If that its not the way to ask or talk, What can I do or ask if that doesn't help? I don't mean to start a fight or sound rude, I'm actually curious and it will be so helpful to know, I have to many friends with this type of problems and I want to help them, Can I do it or I can't make anything?

[@energy9270]

Finally. Somebody gets it.

[@ayelojaibrahim2610]

Exactly what I always think , may be the world is different out there.

[@kujo62]

The clichés are so eye roll inducing. Makes me want to just yank them out.

[@aquanas]

Real

[@Luka-yd7ip]

literally crying like crazy and the notification for this popped up LMAOO

[@xd4isy]

hope ur ok

[@moonie6]

same

[@whales.__.arecool]

I hope youre okkkkk

[@Diluted_Insanity]

sad gang, though it's ok, shiet happens and we'll be able to overcome whatever is bothering us!

[@R_i_t_s_u]

i hope your okey, if you not, then thats fine

[@Jhona3304]

Im 31 years old, single my entire life but always happens to find myself the third party. It is sickening, but the loneliness is crippling. The person I really liked at my previous work messaged me yesterday and it is clear she is still looking for someone else and never to me. I am burden with so much debt left and right while I am seeing other people doing well around me and its papa's first death anniversary tomorrow. Been crying all day. No one to talk to. I have been thingking of ending things.God, It's so tough right now. That crying character at the beginning felt so humanized and your voice is comforting. Thank you 😢

[@binta4046]

Being able to get away from toxic people in my life would make me happier than anything right now. I’d be grateful having my own space to think without having to be around other people all the time. Being alone is my greatest desire right now, I never thought I’d say that.

[@Lianna_Is_Me]

True

[@hellopeeps495]

Same. I'm only 13 but I want to move out so bad and get my own apartment.

[@diogopereira1475]

Worst thing is being dependent on someone while that someone is toxic and keeps pulling you down mentally and then they punish you and point fingers to you for it

[@niniluvr4066]

I hope you get to have that someday :]

[@binta4046]

@@diogopereira1475 This is exactly what’s happening :(

[@rapxbattle3582]

Every day I feel empty inside.

[@illyrian3057]

Same bro same.

[@nielszwering2414]

Yea know that feeling

[@goofball2228]

Me too

[@Josh-bs3ey]

I’ve felt like that for 2 years straight now bro I get u

[@micahmorales-torres9170]

I feel the same way

[@I_am_GKM]

OMG!! This beautiful video just saved me from crying myself to sleep. Thank God I stumbled upon this

[@Ingram6580]

Regardless of what anyone says, through my life experience, I'm 100% alone and feel like I'm nearing the end. I have honestly tried to reach out and seek help but I've learned the hard and painful way that for me absolutely no one cares. I'm seriously doing everything I can to stay grounded and preserve my own life. At the moment, I'm exercising & meditating in a attempt to heal and find positivity but I just can't find a path forward out of my depression. It's like I'm in a pitch black cave in the bottom of the ocean with no light at the end of the tunnel and is slowly suffocating.

[@Oyjsf]

How old are you bro what country do you live in and what do you do? I can try help you by giving some advice

[@Oliver919]

Good luck with everything, I hope things get at least a little bit better for you.

[@Behr_Streamin]

I know I may just be a person on the internet but I’ve been having a rough time myself and I’ve learned the same thing you have that not many people care but that fact that even anyone else brings this issue up it shows me that there are some people. I dont know you at all but I still want you to know that even if I’m a stranger if feel you and I hope things get better all we can do is try and hope though I hope things get better for both of us.

[@Smoldragoncat]

I have the same thing as the person above me, they explained it well. I hope everyone else has a good life, and keeps going. It’ll be alright, if you just try, or reach out to whoever or whatever. It’ll be okay.

[@lunalee6775]

I hope you get better. You are clearly doing a lot to try and recover… it’s so hard. But it’s amazing you’re still trying. I know it might not mean much but I care about you. You have suffered a lot but you deserve good in life.

[@f1reflam3]

Imagine this woman and the Kurzgesagt voice actor telling a story together, they'd be the most relaxing couple ever

[@lailoutherand]

I agree with this comment.

[@koteswarris8949]

Sooo true! I wish they could collab!

[@Kazoo_the_Kaze]

@@koteswarris8949 i agree

[@Ovotun]

yooo