Just remember. The attractive woman has to find you attractive for that strategy to work. If not she will just find you annoying and cringe that you trying to get her to work for your attention when she never wanted it to begin with.
@andoi92925 ай бұрын
That's true, but achieving attraction can be a gradual process. If she's feeling comfortable and good around you, it opens it up for her to feel more.
@brandontejada42755 ай бұрын
@@andoi9292 and that would be the warm approach strategy. If you only have approximately 10 second to get the women’s attention. If you don’t meet her standards, you have nothing she wants. There is no sentence that you can say that would make a woman who finds you unattractive, attractive
@andoi92925 ай бұрын
@@brandontejada4275 when you approach long enough, you will come across women that will find you more attractive the more you speak. It's not about how good you look but how comfortable you feel with how you look. It's true, there is that layer of work which is being healthy and working out and choosing a style that fits you, a haircut and maybe anice scent. But the chemistry between people should not be understated. I often hear women telling me im not their conventional type. But that's because when you are fully you, you give people the chance to fall in love with you. But you're right, there will always be people that don't like you off the bat, but to only credit attraction to looks is not entirely accurate and only a half truth.
@northharriscollege5 ай бұрын
No bro can’t build attraction with women.i know I delt with thousands of women your wasting your time.
@RCboyzTV5 ай бұрын
Your thumbnails are looking incredible these days my friend
@RCboyzTV5 ай бұрын
Also Todd, do you even age? Looking younger than ever before
@kams_corner5 ай бұрын
Haha it’s the AI generator
@STUNNAG-bj8hf5 ай бұрын
when i get my money right i will donate to this guy
@swaggybaconcheese15665 ай бұрын
Lol just buy a program or go to a bootcamp
@khairt17315 ай бұрын
@@STUNNAG-bj8hf check out Verbal Game academy, best program.
@northharriscollege5 ай бұрын
Bro you don’t need no boot camp. Just ask out a whole bunch of women. It’s a numbers game.
@fuzzypanda16845 ай бұрын
Why? He makes plenty of money.
@easylife63484 ай бұрын
@@northharriscollegenot just ask them out but have actual conversations with them
@tutorjames6665 ай бұрын
If you've followed Todd long enough, you'll remember his OG infield with this hairstyle.
@atharvbhardwaj41674 ай бұрын
which one?
@BackupApi5 ай бұрын
Dude!!! Nevermind the game, you look incredible, like 20 again. How did you do it? Are you using some kind of skin care regiment? You have to teach us that. Looking sharp Todd
@Thelost_Saint5 ай бұрын
He got a haircut cleaned up his diet and works out. Not hard
@BackupApi5 ай бұрын
@@Thelost_Saint Well, if I know Todd, I think there is also something special as well. The guy is competitive and smart. I think he has more in his arsenal.
@derbar43405 ай бұрын
Must be tiege hanley
@vlatkomk5 ай бұрын
Yeah brother you are fcking glowing… first thing i noticed when i played this - looking better then ever
@fuzzypanda16845 ай бұрын
Lighting and filters my man. Look at his videos a couple years ago, he looked terrible. Bags under his eyes, bad skin etc. Maybe he cleaned up his diet and started taking care of his skin, but my money's on filters and lighting.
@HakuCell5 ай бұрын
be careful playing hard to get. a simple girl may think "hmm ok this guy doesn't seem interested (or even says he might hate me) so I'm gonna date someone else in the meantime".
@Kritikanbringer5 ай бұрын
You mean a rare reasonable one, don't you?
@northharriscollege5 ай бұрын
Playing hard to get on a girl not interested is not going to do anything 😂
@easylife63484 ай бұрын
Then you putting yourself in a state of scarcity.He’s not trying to say play hard to get what he’s saying be hard to show interest but the same time act interested by teasing and flirting with and asking her on a date but keep your attention at a minimum until she earns it.
@mariomaslik28 күн бұрын
Exactly and that’s how majority of women are
@DoctorPPants5 ай бұрын
Todd is an absolute tactician. I really value the instruction that you incorporate into your videos.
@musicman597533985 ай бұрын
Man, between you and a couple of ladies on KZbin, my texting game has improved soooo much. I can get more dates than I can afford to pay for, and I’m a 48 year old dad bod with full custody of 2 kids after a nasty divorce. I don’t get the “hottest” girls, but I’m meeting and dating a lot of quality women that are attractive to me, non-toxic, and also willing to date a full time dad with a 7 and 14 year old. Thanks for the content and keep empowering men to be their best selves and have game without manipulation and lies.
@redman9584 ай бұрын
Out of curiosity what age of women are you attracting? I'm getting older (late 30s) and it's actually making me feel a bit insecure that younger women would find me too old to date.
@christrigg71714 ай бұрын
True for me too.
@redblackeagle134 ай бұрын
Forget all these videos guys. By the way Todd thank you for all of your advices and your great work. Not trying to oppose what your saying , just giving a more straightforward prespective. IF SHE LIKES YOU , NO NEED TO MAKE ANY EFFORT. JUST SAY HI, AND SHE WILL STICK WITH YOU. THE ONLY THING YOU NEED TO DO IS NOT HURT HER OR DISRESPECT AND THINGS WILL GO FINE. IF YOU’RE UGLY / POOR , NO MATTER WHAT YOU’RE DONE. Todd advices apply after attraction is already there or minimum 50/50 to stick or not to stick with this guy.
@christopherlopez27294 ай бұрын
you can up your chances that she will find you appealing by making adjustments to your confidence, dress, physique, attitude, demeanor, approach, charisma etc..your comment suggests a handsome homeless man can get a hot woman just if "she likes him" LOL..I guess its a done deal.. they will do it in the bushes.
@unatardedelibroscafeyfilosofia5 ай бұрын
Confession: Since I learned from you 6 years ago, I owed you so many great pulls
@corona26405 ай бұрын
Todd looks younger
@ModernDatingMasteryАй бұрын
*Focus on building your self-esteem and always be your best self. Hot girls are attracted to men who are grounded, know what they want, and can lead conversations naturally.*
@13sprintuser5 ай бұрын
Treat ALL women the same. It’s not easy but that’s the fundamental of all of this. Great video.
@Solidsaw5 ай бұрын
all the guys in comment section hitting on Todd when the video is about girls, where am I
@LeviSedlacek5 ай бұрын
Lol
@josesantana7703 ай бұрын
You are in the right place, they are not
@isayawhaat16345 ай бұрын
get your priority's straight and you well be yourself because that's what that is. and then take baby steps towards acting that out to gain experience and with that well come clarity and trust in your beliefs because you well have built trust in your knowledge emotionally
@777skiiii75 ай бұрын
Looking xtra cleannnn Todd new cut is 🔥🔥
@nahumgonzalez50875 ай бұрын
Yeah, but you can't just walk up to a girl and start showing disinterests.At what stage or at what point is it that you can show disinterests?Is it when she starts trying to prove herself to you?When exactly is it that you should start showing disinteres. You walk up and do the opener if she's not hooked , then you can't Show the disinterest or can you?
@prathikpoojary97685 ай бұрын
Nice hairstyle
@ericvanzandt9695 ай бұрын
you have such simple and direct approach followed by reinforcement of genuine (ok) persona, all the while of being natural and comfortable by acting yourself. if i applied such tactics, i could be as dangerous. i need to get over the initial barrier that all of us have, ourselves.
@lionlikemessenger5 ай бұрын
Todd, you are looking way more healthy these days. What did you do?
@redmax93465 ай бұрын
makeup
@TheSongofSaya5 ай бұрын
His girlfriend sucked the negative energy out of him.
@VEE7275 ай бұрын
Haircut
@fuzzypanda16845 ай бұрын
Lighting and filters.
@Dhbtg9bs5 ай бұрын
This is such a good video for bring most of the ideas of game together
@christrigg71714 ай бұрын
Todd, thanks for the awesome advice and for sharing real world examples and dialogue. We really appreciate your videos man. Respect
@nicholasb45975 ай бұрын
Very good video. I'm very glad to see an answer for how to show interest without giving away value!
@hansnielsen62805 ай бұрын
Don’t focus on women. Focus on your own projects and goals. Let them come and go …
@flashpeter915 ай бұрын
golden advice as always
@cosymedia22575 ай бұрын
It probably works with "some" pretty/hot girls but, since I get my clues from body language, I interpret games (manipulation tactics) as a weakness. It's repulsive, even coming from a very handsome guy... My advice would be to not jump into trying anything specific towards her or anyone (and that last part is important), but show that you really "observe" her and the others. Interact with any of them when you are comfortable to do so (even just ask or answer a question, tell or react to a story, situation or a joke when you feel comfortable to do so in your most genuine way). That's when she knows you can stay yourself around her and becomes enigmatic because you're not acting like the others who are trying too hard in a way or another. Globally (unless the girl is insecure in some way - and somehow that's not a REAL pretty/hot girl) any rejection tactic will backfire real quick (because you'll come off as a jerk playing games at people's/her expanse - who wants to get closer to someone like that?). Ok now you can shadow-ban this message... but at least you've" got the message and you may think about it and share it your own way.
@chaosido195 ай бұрын
Hey Todd, question, maybe for a separate video. I'm in my twenties and dealing with many neurospicey girls. I have noticed many either autistic or ADHD girls that just do not pick up on flirtation or men to women communication, as so far that I sometimes need to explicitly state: ' no that was me flirting'. They do not pick up on ambiguity or playfullness and reply in a logical manner. What is a good approach to ' break through ' this?
@Kevtron9000Ай бұрын
It’s crazy how much better Todd looks without the greased back hair
@martinzen5 ай бұрын
Todd, my only objection is a Jeff Koons in the background, other than that on point
@kusali115 ай бұрын
To get hot woman, just carry on with your goals. But in the meantime you'll have to be social enough keep the interest alive. Nothing more to it.
@johnhafner10015 ай бұрын
Don’t overcomplicate things. The best way to demonstrate value to a girl you just met, aside from social proof through your friends or other girls, is to present yourself as a successful person with a fulfilling life. The problem many guys face is that they either just pretend to be successful or don’t even try. They approach women dressed poorly and expect success. This approach is flawed. The correct order is not 1) approach girls 2) become successful. Instead, focus on becoming successful first. Then, demonstrate your success and status through your appearance: wear well-fitted, stylish clothes, opt for nice shoes instead of sneakers, and consider adding quality accessories like jewelry or a watch. Pay attention to your body language, facial expressions, eye contact, and the tone and manner of your speech. Once you have these elements in place, approaching girls will become much easier. If you genuinely become a successful man, women will naturally be drawn to you. However, if you’re like many who watch this video-chasing women instead of improving yourself-then it’s no surprise you’re struggling.
@bigball63925 ай бұрын
that's a common thought trap that gets people stuck and depressed. The person becomes better and better and still thinks they are not good enough and don't approach, and then they settle for some low-value girl whonkust approached them first. It's important to avoid perfectionism and just do both things simultaneously. In the long term, this is much healthier and productive strategy and leads to more fulfilling life in my opinion.
@Josafit5 ай бұрын
Damn Todd is Maxxlook rn .. nice haircut
@diegomoreno95575 ай бұрын
Im at this stage .
@ChicagoJ3515 ай бұрын
Todd, I would also compliment your look on the vid 😊. But also appreciate the content. I focus mostly on natural game I learned from your old company, but still like to learn the technical aspects to dial in specifics. And your views are the best for this. Appreciate it!
@guevara7E5 ай бұрын
How would you approach a girl at a gym? Would it be like a social circle kind of situation or cold approach? Or is it best to avoid approaching at the gym?
@fuzzypanda16845 ай бұрын
I've been a gym rat for over a decade and my advice is to avoid approaching girls at the gym. Their defenses are as high as they are in the bar, but they're completely sober. It might work out maybe 1% of the time, but the rest of the time it'll become awkward, she'll spread the word about you and now you're the creepy guy, and if you do it enough, you'll probably get kicked out.
@TheHamburgler1234 ай бұрын
@fuzzypanda1684 Ehh... much different than my experience. My advice is not to go straight to asking for a number, to hang out, etc. Just introduce yourself at first and keep the conversion brief and light. I legitimately see some of these women 5 times a week, same time every morning. There's no rush. You can gauge interest pretty easily from that point forward.
@randomanon29994 ай бұрын
You're looking great Todd!
@Jaboukii5 ай бұрын
Broo, Just Stand Out by Being real asf, no needy but I have priorities But, I want you apart of That story I'm Living G. Top sales man pitch
@i_am_thebatman4 ай бұрын
That is a solid hair combo
@jasonrocksvegas5 ай бұрын
Step 1 be good looking and tall. Step 2 don't be boring Step 3 don't be an idiot. Simple 😂
@iMogggYouuu16 күн бұрын
@@jasonrocksvegas but it’s more profitable to gaslight men
@chrissa18965 ай бұрын
Hey Todd, great advice! It's actually applicable and graspable, which is what I value about your videos. One question arose and although I will test it myself, I wanted to hear your opinion: Is the driving factor that she is chasing your approval combined with the uncertainty and ups & downs of it? Or is it the underlying frame of you being the qualifier not needing her approval at all? Or is it even both? If it is just you not needing her approval, would that mean you can skip pretending she didn't qualify yet? I found that, as a beginner, a woman doesn't need to do much for me to be interested in her. It feels a bit off and dishonest towards myself to make up some criteria she has to meet. So, to sum up my question: Can you drop these techniques if you were to be completely non-needy?
@jonyD1435 ай бұрын
Todd is finally using his money to look fresh again!!! Looking better than most 20 year old dudes. Crazy how men hide their potential 😂.
@basedpatriotLT5 ай бұрын
How is he looking fresh and how much does it cost?
@VergeOffical3 ай бұрын
I don’t think most 20 got the money he got at 20💀
@a7eSh5 ай бұрын
I have 2 questions: are your courses subtitled? Or are they readable? Thank you
@SantiDogg98765 ай бұрын
Kinobody is beast! Girls started to like me more because of his advice 👌🔥
@chr1staki5 ай бұрын
Greg the kinda guy to have Todd to make a video about him
@str34mln3r5 ай бұрын
Todd can detail some of the best practices when approaching in public transport? I see tons of hot girls there, but without much room to move away from a failed interaction as easily as in the open where you just part ways it seems extra awkward to approach there.
@guitarthrasher815 ай бұрын
If the interaction failed it indicates perhaps you're moving too fast or aggressively to close or are showing too much interest too fast to where she has to reject you and it becomes awkward. For trains/busses etc. I prefer to have basic small talk with the girl, super friendly throw in maybe a tease or two. Nothing where a flat rejection can happen. Open with a general question perhaps about what stop is next, ask her some questions, tease her or cold read with a charming smile, etc. If you're both leaving the transport in the same direction give her a false time constraint to walk with her a little and perhaps close a number/social media with a seed planted for a future date or insta-date if she's free then or there. Long story short, be more subtle and friendly to start not too aggressive or "pick-upy"
@timreeves89375 ай бұрын
@@guitarthrasher81 This is excellent advice for this guy. Yeah, a simple observation about the weather, how crowded it is, what a pain it is or whatever is what works. If she is not interested, she gives one word answer and you know not to continue it. If she responds or starts talking to you, then make light conversation. If you actually start a conversation, at the end you can ask for her contact info. Or if you know you see her on the subway all the time, I would probably wait for the next time as the ice was broken and you can gauge her reaction when she sees you again. Big smile and very friendly? You can close that. If she pretends not to see you or looks away with little wave, then she probably is not interested.
@karl24053 ай бұрын
High risk high reward buddy. Jump into the deep end and either sink or float
@el_txserpico450116 күн бұрын
What stings more is when the less hotter girls turn you down and the hot girls are always in my case taken
@SHOKNI5 ай бұрын
Fresh Todd looking hair
@jonathanbryant1485 ай бұрын
Hairs on point
@renegadezen78415 ай бұрын
To get the hottest women you need to literally pitch a perfect game. Not pitch a no hitter, pitch a perfect game. These days with how many options the hottest girls have since they were all given a smartphone if you make ANY mistakes, it could even be the vocal tone on answering one question wrong, you are out. You are done. Pitching a perfect game also isnt just with the girl herself but involves making sure her friends or group likes you and doesnt pull her away, as well as perfectly handling the logistics of the pull. You HAVE to pull or else you will never see her again.
@MrFpadilla005 ай бұрын
Today I started using what Todd said to do on this video and it worked. Haha
@bertalanhajnal67475 ай бұрын
New haircut cool👍
@bicguy29234 ай бұрын
Just be authentic, and dont give a fuck about getting the hot girl, you will attract what you need and want by being authentic
@Man_of_Renaissance5 ай бұрын
Really good stuff right here 💯
@highlighthilltop54705 ай бұрын
Please do a video on the best drinking games to play on dates
@paulschiopu50295 ай бұрын
Great thumbnail Todd
@mariomolnar31842 ай бұрын
Another banger
@YouKnowWhoIAm1185 ай бұрын
What would you do, if after a cold approach a guy shows up and proclaims that he is the boyfriend?
@diogofurlin80665 ай бұрын
Please more about this. Always followed you , looking for the A+ game to get those gourgeous woman.
@transformezvotrestressenjo4575 ай бұрын
brilliantly explained
@skullkrusher-dx4kg5 ай бұрын
Hey everyone i'm new to game/pick up or whatever you want to call it. Why the last three girls I've talked to I get the "I can't/I'll try to find time but i'm spending time with family"? Anyone with similar experience tell me what I'm doing wrong?
@basicfish10125 ай бұрын
wish i found you when i was in my 20’s
@ered1O1O14 ай бұрын
shoutout Kinobody!
@victorhugoquispemamani89683 ай бұрын
Great haircut
@RadekSzabla5 ай бұрын
i love you todd
@ChrisJaydenBeats5 ай бұрын
Funny seeing Greg here
@marioottaiano4755 ай бұрын
I love Todd, but I understood this concept by following Andrew Tate, in order to get more attractive girls you must put a higher price tag on yourself by simply having stuff to do in your life, you must be genuinely busy, if you try to be aloof, cold, you play gamey moves well women are smart, they understand that you are faking it, instead if you are genuinely busy, having your own business, your work to do, your passion to follow or whatever putting yourself on the pedestal instead of women comes natural and you attract them easily, but if you try to play gamey moves well again women are smart, they understand it, so basically your mindset must be genuinely and naturally focused on something else instead of women, if you play women understand that you are playing
@ShinobiShowdown5 ай бұрын
Sigma game used to work well for me a lot in the past the women would come to me.
@hernandogarcia11645 ай бұрын
Damn You look younger. Good for you 😊
@scottyc93045 ай бұрын
Be kind, confident, but talk to girls like they have the clap lol I started doing that and it works really well
@hughjyip5 ай бұрын
Maybe not the premium gas, but definitely premium air for the tyres 😉
@treystyles98035 ай бұрын
You Da man Todd
@mattlinnemann15 ай бұрын
Gettin lean
@CoachSteveJandS5 ай бұрын
Paretto law of distribution...
@ALFRED1223e5 ай бұрын
Hey Todd, I've built something cool for you and your audience. Can I send over a quick 5-minute Loom video to showcase it. Where is the best place to send it?
@michaelehlert94 ай бұрын
So many compliments only on your looks rather than the content tells me many of these reviews are fake
@endaodonnell5 ай бұрын
A better look
@JC-ly8pz2 ай бұрын
I wished someone would cover where you find hot women. I live in Washington and they are hard to find. Most people here are over weight
@ALFRED1223e5 ай бұрын
Hey todd, I've built something cool for you and your audience. Can I send over a quick 5-minute Loom video to showcase it where is the best place to send it to you?
@davidstears38725 ай бұрын
You should stick to this hairstyle. You look younger and more youthful. If that’s what you want.
@khairt17315 ай бұрын
Hey Todd, your hair combed back looks better on you bro.
@nahumgonzalez50875 ай бұрын
I think so too
@flaviovms5 ай бұрын
Comparing an approach to going to a car lot was odd, todd.
@sharonlima89134 ай бұрын
what do you do in a conservative country or in a country where English is spoken much less? but girls are top notch
@jimh5274 ай бұрын
You need something in common with them. Women are slow. Real slow. You're on a 24 hour cycle. She's on a monthly cycle.
@arterisdewberry94675 ай бұрын
This is such bad advices. A normal women who don't play games around is usually in their 30s. This is more like women who are less than 25 years old love to play mind games. Older women don't have time to play mind games. They are usually more mature. So If you're in your 30s, I don't recommend playing around with women and just be your best version of you. If you're a nice guy, then don't switch and forget what other people say about you.
@prescottlange5 ай бұрын
Don't put women on a pedestal? Lol, workshopping how to even talk to them is the ultimate "putting them on a pedestal". It's pathetic. What underlies all "gamesmanship" is the desire to mask insecurity with a veil of confidence. What men should be focusing on instead is creating true confidence, which only comes with personal achievement. Career, fitness, mental health, etc.
@CoolGobyFish5 ай бұрын
I've rean across some sucessful men with really ugly wives (bad personality as well). So there is clearly something more to that.
@PlayerMindMentality115 күн бұрын
They get bored or jealous
@pabloescobar40295 ай бұрын
12:50 how do you get into a relationship lol
@DamienMuto5 ай бұрын
King Todd, the TRUE artist, loyal to pua, and loyal to us . MUCH THANKS 🙏🏿
@cakeboss17215 ай бұрын
All of us watching this video just to find out how to get with a 6 😂
@enduranceochonogor62915 ай бұрын
Hey Todd. Great content. I consume your content religiously and it's great. But then, i wonder time and again if most of these stuffs wld work for Nigerians. Ours is a setting where the average person is in need of financial freedom, so money tends to do a lot. What fo you think ?
@Crimson_Builder5 ай бұрын
too many games brah just do it naturally its literally what teasing/flirting is
@XxMPKingxX5 ай бұрын
Why does your thumbnail look like a Mr beast thunbnail
@jimh5274 ай бұрын
Leave them alone, and buy a plane ticket overseas instead.
@AndrewFreeman-tn1sn5 ай бұрын
How bout I just go and say hey you look interesting when would be a good time for us to meet up and get to know each other.
@Ricardo.Illades5 ай бұрын
12:55
@sensationaldenny5 ай бұрын
Its hilarious to actually believe that by simply ignoring a woman means she will automatically be intrigued and attracted to you lol. This of course only works if she's already interested in you! if she's attracted to you! If she doesn't like you, she won't notice you're gone...and in fact may be relieved that you went away.
@mohamedmuminx5 ай бұрын
Todd👍🏿
@510wn4 ай бұрын
Using Ai to create a thumbnail of attractive women is not actually the same as getting attractive women.