How to Uncover What's Actually Holding You Back | Gary John Bishop on Impact Theory

Your reality is not what you think it is. Everyday, you move through and see the experiences of life with a filter. This filter? It’s your own perspective. Now is the time for you to recognize and become self-aware of this perspective, rid yourself of it, and actually begin to change your life for good.
On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by New York Times Bestselling Author, speaker, and urban philosopher Gary Bishop to discuss such matters and more as they explore how to finally wake up to the reality you’ve fabricated for yourself, break the chains of your perspective which can hold you back, and start to walk on a path towards the person, life, and reality you want to live.
They discuss how we each create our own reality from our experiences, how to become self-aware so that you can recognize patterns in your life, why we create false narratives for ourselves, how to become reborn and renewed into a new person, why you shouldn’t require others to change for you, and how to deal with the challenging fundamentals of life such as success, grief, and love.
SHOW NOTES:
Reality | Gary reveals how we create our own reality and experiences. [0:18]
Self-Awareness | Gary shares how to be truly aware of and connected to yourself. [2:55]
Realizations | Gary shares his own story and journey to becoming self-aware. [5:33]
Narrative | Gary reveals how to break away from the narrative you built for yourself. [9:09]
Reborn | Gary reveals how to be in control and re-craft your perspective. [12:10]
Renew | Gary shares an incredible story of renewing his relationship with his mother. [16:47]
Change | Gary reveals why you have to live without requiring others to change. [23:01]
Creation | Gary discusses why who you are isn’t just an accident, it’s a creation. [25:10]
Self-Help | Gary shares his journey of writing in a way that actually helps others. [28:43]
Pursuit | Gary peels back the curtain on how our life’s experiences [35:06]
Fundamentals | Gary reveals the fundamentals of life that we get lost and trapped in. [39:04]
Success | Gary reveals how the false idea of success is fed to us our whole lives. [42:00]
Love | Gary reveals how the only type of real love is unconditional love. [44:41]
Connect | Gary shares how you can learn more and continue to hear from him. [52:37]
QUOTES:
“Your perspective is in everything you hear, everything you see, everything you say, everything you experience, every feeling, every emotion, you know, all of it. That’s your perspective and it’s hard to see it because you’re in it. So you can’t really witness it.” [7:28]

“I think what you’re witnessing is this kind of bankruptcy of your persona. Like, who’ve you’ve come to know yourself as no longer works, right? And it’s the same shit and no matter how hard you shake that tree, you’re only ever getting one apple.” [27:28]
“…and part of being a loving human being is, what’s also on the table, is something called disappointment.” [48:13]
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[@barbarafairbanks4578]

OMG! One of the BEST, if not THE BEST, most insightful guests, ever! I'm only 5 mins. in, and his opening statement about...why are we not following what we know is 'good' for us - well then, maybe our 'game' in life is to set up a struggle! Maybe that's our 'game' and we don't even know it! YIKES! That struck a nerve! I have often felt that I shoot myself in the foot and covertly set up challenges, i.e. struggles for myself - exactly like his analogy - about why someone who knows saving $ is good for them, but they don't DO it - Why? Maybe they are creating a struggle for themselves, maybe that's their game. I think I do this - completely unknowingly at the time- just to 'mix things up' and get away from the boredom that is my life. Just this one concept of Gary's has been a real AHA moment for me. Returning to the full interview right now, and already know I'll be gobbling up his books 📚. THANKS, TOM!! :))

[@masseffectist]

I've laughed, cried, got angry, scared while listening to this. And I now my inner monologue has a Scottish accent. Thank you for the video Tom and Gary. This one is going on repeat, minimum a week so I can rewire my thoughts.

[@saratonnan]

One of the best interviews ever. Apology to his mother had me in tears. It takes a certain level of maturity to take responsibility for your own life & attitudes.

[@Angismit]

I’ve literally been uncovering that the world I live in is a set of beliefs that I don’t have to believe. It’s shaken my core and I doubt everything. I’m so thankful this come up in my feed. It confirms that what I’ve been experiencing is real and ok.

[@Razklili]

I connected so much when he said I was so busy judging what mom is doing that I forgot to see what I am doing ❤️

[@rockkindness2021]

Please have Gary back. He is truly great.

[@magdanuri5934]

Tom is the best the attention he gives his guest. The focus in his eyes when he listens to them and the questions he asks. He is really passionate about it

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[@WanderJessica]

This was like a veil on my perspective was lifted.. I am shook. When he said his whole life he was waiting for people to love him. But it was actually his job to love... I got choked up. It’s so true and powerful.

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[@madamcjwalker67]

@18:50 the story abt what the guest said to his single mom literally brought me to tears. Golden moment. Thx Tom!!!

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[@MarleneChism]

Profound insight: own your direction. You choose to express love, or not. One of my sayings is “let your choices be based on who you are, not on what others do.” -Marlene Chism

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[@ggrthemostgodless8713]

But for that you must know who you REALLY are... and this guy's MAIN point is that NO ONE knows himself or herself the way they think they do... are you the exception?? Are you Theo one person who really and honestly knows herself??

[@shemslessons2019]

One of the best guests you've had on the show so far. Definetly gonna check out one of his books!

[@frawleyfitness5052]

His books are amazing brother. Check them out!

[@ryanalanmelchione9790]

His book is my favorite of all time

[@karolinaks4192]

It's such a great interview.

[@JimsRobot]

Third time watching this. Amazing

[@BudaMac]

Yea I jus read the second 1 it was pretty good! Now ima check out the first 1!

[@nettyb00p20]

Wow. I wasn’t expecting healing like this this morning.

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100%

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[@gabbrielle5241]

Wow. What a raw, honest, insightful, inspiring treasure of insight. Powerful. Unique. Impactful. He's totally captivating!

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[@chestchirecateyes]

Gary John Bishop is serving it straight, no chasers! Another stellar guest! Thanks, Tom!

[@immabme100]

How is this not getting more views? So much deep insight!

[@gabbrielle5241]

What he is actually putting into practise is Rational Emotive Therapy. The sooner more people can, instead of blaming, say to themselves: "This is them. This is what they do", the sooner we will all heal!! He's spot on. I know myself, coming from a victim mentality, the only thing that has worked for me, saved me, protected me, is taking personal responsibility. Instead of staying stuck in blame, expecting others to change, or stop their behaviour towards me, (dwelling, lamenting, hating it, trying to fix it as he says) it was taking personal responsibility and adopting strategies to uncover and change my impeding beliefs that worked. Doors opened for me and the seemingly impossible was made possible. It seems a cruel twist of fate but victims do need to change the beliefs that are keeping them as victims. This then changes the entire landscape. Then you will be able to look at any one annoying you, hurting you, and say to yourself, "This is them. This is what they do". And better yet, you find these people or behaviours happen less in your life anyway. I've come to the point now where the likes of bullies or even un-loving people, these days, don't even know that I exist. And those who were borderline, and yet still present in my life, are warmer and more respectful.

[@whosdatgirl1]

Thanks for this take on things x

[@ivananelovic3425]

"You are not the receiver, you are the broadcaster" awesome stuff!

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[@hkvery3852]

I attended a 3 day seminar many years ago which Gary was leading and he was fabulous. Funny, compassionate and highly committed to our success.

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[@AEWhite-ud6qp]

Huge fan of Impact Theory. This may be my favorite video yet. The section on the default self & unconditional love really turned on light bulbs in my brain. I remember being in Barnes and Noble and intentionally not buying his book because of the "sensationalized" title. The real truth is that I don't know if I was even ready to receive what was in the book at the time. This video was PERFECT timing. Thank you, Tom & Gary! Great job.

[@kyliemlewis]

Wow. Minute 16:47 in... he said he was waiting for other people to love him, but realized it was his job to love others.

[@mrboobiesrider9212]

Yep. Being loved is too overated.

[@onethreesix]

It doesn't bother when you know where it comes from

[@IggyArssie]

Yes, love all of your brothers and sisters you are sharing this world with..we are one and the law of cause and affect needs to be acknowledged and mastered..

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[@barotumsaillu6614]

Simply very smart, thanks. For reminding don't chess, you can't get it

[@jmdenison]

You are always right in the right place doing the things that you are supposed to be doing stop worrying. And you choose your parents not the other way around and you choose them for particular learning experiences

[@chrismorris2471]

He led a seminar that I attended in 2014. He was an amazing leader and it was one of the most powerful weekends of my life. He told the story about his brother in law and his mother, which is how I made the connection. I've seen his books everywhere over the past few years and didn't make the connection until now. I will be buying his books.

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[@chazwolfson]

Gary said he was waiting for his life to automatically happen one day, the birds would be chirping. I had that same realization for a long time and have realized too that I need to put in the work 100x what I thought I was doing to MAKE it happen. Great interview, thank you, Tom and Impact Theory team!

[@barbarafairbanks4578]

Completely agree - he offered alot of profound insights into our minds and emotions (and our self-deceptions), but that one about expecting our life to just automatically fall into place the way we want it to, was spot on.

[@david.walters]

"They are watching you... but you are stronger, more powerful than you can imagine, they cannot harm you anymore... you are made of light, you are eternal" This came to my mind while meditating with this music... my heart rate was strong, I started to swing softly... like... vibrating? I don't know... just wanted to share... Love to everyone... specially YOU! ❤️

[@DanielL143]

Great interview. Thanks so much. My mother recently passed at the age of 100 and I wish I had been able to fix our connection before it was too late. Moreover, I really appreciate the Existentialist underpinnings of your awakening to the freedom and possibilities of life. I'm working on it. East meets West (Zen and Existentialism) at Awakening. Cheers brother and thanks again for sharing your journey.

[@muanghaisz9955]

"When you are truly in love, you will never be hurt."

[@rameshtmansukhani1893]

@Sara Rai You missed the whole point. It's not until. When you are truly in love, you are your being, love flows through you. There is no question of ever being hurt. Hurt is just a negative emotion. Love is your BEING

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[@ggrthemostgodless8713]

That alone as it is, seems like a complete fantasy.

[@kikiandtiggyshow7573]

This is the best interview for 2020 to me. Really informative concerning why are perspectives are limited to how and who raised us. Also, how to forgive and unjudge them! I love this interview!

[@ashleymackenzie7209]

This Man has spoken some of the most accurate bang on reality I’ve ever heard publicly.

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[@tdarden447]

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear. Wow, so good! This is a therapy session for me. I'm buying his book(s) to study them and take action. He's been through life & he's not bullsh*tting us like a lot of folks that sells us "stuff". Great content once again Tom! Appreciate your work and the guest(s) you bring on!

[@mslgizzle]

Same here😳🥰

[@littleiodine9480]

Sooooo thankful to have the priveledge of listening to this man.

[@SqueamishPuppet]

I feel like this is a life changing podcast. He explains things in such a way I can understand everything he's talking about.

[@JQuality23]

Great, great interview. Absolutely needed this today…

[@BernardoZonattoo]

WOW WOW! I ended up watching everything, one of the best episodes I have seen. I relate so much to his relationship with his mom, I realized I was rejecting who she was and conditioning my love towards her based on the way she treats me like I was a victim. Thank you so much for showing me the right way for us to love each other again! Bernardo Zonatto.

[@DonnieIp]

This couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve known this for a while but sometimes I need a reminder that sometimes it really isn’t about me and that I need to talk responsibility for my decisions, my life and my love. You really don’t have to let anything effect you if you don’t want to.

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[@bibofmahatti9000]

“Expect nothing, accept everything”, so true. Thank you for f*cking around so powerfully eloquent Mr. Bishop 🥳

[@dbarson473]

"Love and relationship is an opportunity to express something, not get something" 🙏🏽

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[@mailorlee2]

Wow, this interview was gold.

[@GabrielaMorales-ib7fb]

This was so beautiful! An amazing reminder of the kind of human I want to be and the “world” I want to live in! Thank you

[@mathtexas968]

Everyone Tom has ever interviewed says 12:50 "That's a great question. No one's ever asked me that."

[@turkeybobjr]

Every single one. That's how you know Tom is on a whole other level of interviewing.

[@robinjones8230]

So true !

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[@junowood5951]

I just love this guy so much

[@mailorderbride]

amazing interview already and i’m about 10 mins in :)

[@indysabby]

This is excellent and so in line with how David Hoffmeister teaches A Course in Miracles. Thank you!

[@barbarafairbanks4578]

David Hoffmeister ??? Oh, I'll have to look him up! I'm kinda lost with reading ACIM and the lessons ever since Marianne Williams badically dropped out of ACIM lectures and dropped into politics. Now she's charging $50 a year for her daily recordings of the lessons in our mailbox...sorta not the same as a lecture. Never heard of DAVID H. - I guess I can Google him to find him. Would be great to connect, once again, with an ACIM teacher. But, yeah, was thinking strongly about how closely related Gary's concepts are to ACIM.

[@jimihendrixx11]

Heard of his book. Will definitely check it out now. He made me realize things only after a few minutes of watching this.

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[@johntaylorsatta8203]

This entire interview offended me in the most beautifully necessary way.

[@kinkajou74]

Eloquently put, I needed this too.

[@johntaylorsatta8203]

@@kinkajou74 I usually listen to podcasts while doing other things. This one demanded my full attention.

[@aleshiadearlove739]

Too right!

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[@yourcreativeleader]

Love this dude. Read his first book, and he's a good man and to the point, but mixed with heart. Happy Holidays!

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[@lilamnbdh967]

Goodmorning Tom Thank you so much for sharing this conversation . That was amazing, Love is eternal , is so powerful🙏❤️!!

[@jordanisjordankifle6592]

This conversation blew my mind. Some real revelations about myself. Thank you so much

[@robynbrennan8558]

Absolutely enjoyed this phenomenal interview...💯🙌🏼

[@karenlanteigne]

10minutes in, shared!! Amazing wake up call!

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[@cathyhuffman7611]

I love this person. I mean the this world has gone and the stuff that has happened in my passed has given me a difference way of my future and I am 65 yr old..

[@MrAnthonyKennedy1]

Food for both the mind and soul! Thank you Mr. Bishop and Mr. Bilieu! :)

[@Blueskies7775]

Probably one of the most "practical" self-development authors out there today. I love GJB's candor, his sense of humour, honesty, on top of everything, the beatufiul Scot accent...:) A golden nugget I took away was that "self-growth" or "self-help" is not necessarily done by you sitting by yourself away in the mountains, unscathed by society or "triggers", it's about using what you've learned and practicing it in everyday life, that's the true test.

[@katarinajelisavcic2028]

45:10 "so there is only unconditional love" - on point 👐

[@drelenashirleydvmcvama8517]

I like this guys approach. And I like his courage to be true to the way he talks. The way he talks is the way some other people in the air stock, and no one‘s been talking to them in their vernacular until him. It’s like a good pastor, they break down the word of God into a usable every day experience tool

[@BFNLEO]

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you’ll call it fate.” ~Carl Jung Thanks for another great interview Tom, funny I had just started listening to his book unfuck yourself last week. His speech and accent makes the audiobook as entertaining as it is enlightening it’s the best! He is so relatable and genuine, his work can definitely change your perspective.

[@kevinabrar6444]

Great

[@ggrthemostgodless8713]

Agree... all the BAD issues in your life come from the age before ten or so... and until you deal with it, you don't know yourself and cannot really say yes or no, all of it is following those early lessons. Darwin and Freud RULE!! Carl Jung came late, and mostly wrong, I think. Though people who like him and HAVE READ him are also very interesting.

[@jimorgain63]

I’m over intelligent polymath, the world is fucked, believe me there is no hope, sorry, just find something to do and don’t hurt anyone if possible, no body really cares

[@BFNLEO]

@@jimorgain63 I hope things get better for you. These days it’s easy to get lost in the shitstorm that is reality but unfortunately we can only change ourselves. I speak from experience when I say that most of my negative thoughts were programmed into me from an early age, and once I realized that my battle got so much easier. The things we say to ourselves and to other people have power.

[@andrewking3680]

Probably one of the BEST Impact Theory interviews I've heard in a long time! And I've listened to a lot. Thanks Tom and Gary. Very Powerful!

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[@azinaamar4633]

Tom this is one the best interviews it has set me free from a few illusions.

[@koroglurustem1722]

I loved this interview. He is quite good at expressing what he had gone through. Especially the story with his mom at the door, and the following discussion is gold. Exactly, with a single heartfelt conversation doesn't change the whole thing for the other person. Change happens to you. And Tom's summary of "she doesn't have the power over you that you don't let" was dead on point. Confidence and being comfortable in your own skin is the perception game that only you control, nobody has a definitive say in that.

[@takingcareofbusiness7477]

I am blown away. THANK YOU TOM! I watched this 2X, I changed after watching this and more importantly, you changed too!

[@DendaAcademyofMartialArtsSandy]

@Tom Bilyeu Seeing that Impact Black Belt on your shelf Tom is amazing, and an honor for me. You are truly a Master of Impact for me and our students! That belt has great meaning for many. Glad you kept it...humbled.

[@rachelpointer4828]

Made me tear up several times! So powerful!!! Thank you for sharing your journey and your wisdom!

[@divinebeginnings3741]

Absolutely amazing Orlando Florida

[@fulfillingliveschannel2623]

"Creating your own reality is the richest gift you received at birth."

[@drelenashirleydvmcvama8517]

There are no conditions for your love. There are conditions for your standards in your boundaries. But there are no conditions for your love

[@adm58]

Excellent discussion. Thank you Tom for this introduction to Gary. Thank you both for your work on this. Very insightful and helpful.

[@samanthasoria5761]

bruv, this conversation made me cry.profound indeed!

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[@aimunaboicel-mattheij6933]

Just a great interview 🙌

[@dakshimanshu4361]

I just discovered his book. Unfu*k Yourself. I am actually blow away. I even cried. Thanks so much for this.

[@alvinadesir5801]

Original truth, knowledge,.... learned a lot... fresh, and taking pieces from this talk today that ignited me... thankyou...❤

[@hellolau]

This guy has such a great personality!

[@kraukliuu]

Love your work Tom! :)

[@ejnyakoon4896]

Love his books! Great guest Tom!

[@jon8367]

This goes deep, I hope Tom learned the wisdom in this conversation.

[@michelledz5392]

Mindblown! 🤩 I’d never heard someone explain ownership better. So practical. I’ll begin my journey to live by it & love the process.

[@AlwaysManifesting]

Wow awesome interview. It’s nice to find inspiration like this and genuinely hear some new ideas. 👍🏻

[@therichbuddha3277]

Seeing Gary live a few years ago at an Archangel conference was a huge highlight!! His book Unf*ck Your life is amazing also. Thanks Tom.

[@Vanjuska0212]

what a man!!!!!!! oh man, how open and authentic he is. And the accent??!! his accent is a discovery for me.

[@SpiritLives]

This is such a beneficial conversation. I am grateful. Thank you! Love that he kept his titles!

[@Metaphizico]

You're Creating Your Own Reality- your perspective is your point of attraction- good interview

[@jckeddy]

Thanks Gary and Tom for a great conversation In a difficult confusing time in my life right now and this was challenging to hear but yet so insightful in helping me move forward. Favourite quote was at 51:55 “Love in a relationship is the opportunity to express something not get something.”

[@ashleylewis6464]

Wow. Epic conversation.

[@LisaMarie-rh5yn]

The first 3 minutes captured me re: our patterns & processes we subconsciously put on repeat & how critical it is to break-free if we want to take our lives next level. Unfortunately.. I didn’t find the guys really looped back to that in terms of actionable steps/take-aways. 😕 Love Gary & Tom + great stories just.. for me missing a little.

[@suktsk986]

I believe his first step was connection and communication: reaching out and relating to others his second step was accountability: addressing where his patterns and traits were in the wrong step 3 was realization of the things he wanted to change and tackling how to do it step 4 taking action and engaging in his life, at this point he just began making the changes in his relationships, in his career whatever he identified he began working on , he may not say it exactly on how to do it but if you listen to his timeliness on how he realized he was unhappy and see how he started working to happiness you can pick up on how he began to change.

[@suktsk986]

You can pick up on the progression from 18:15 onwards.

[@MotivationNationLife]

Great episode! So happy the show is still going on! I do miss the awesome bio introductions.... they really clue me in to the speaker, when I’m unfamiliar with them, and I end up always learning something new if I do recognize the speaker. I don’t know, that backstory is the icing.

[@bang103tunedin3]

Loved the talk. Definitely a realized soul. Thanks Tom!

[@melanie1799]

This was an amazing interview ! I loved your books and your workbook is changing my life. I love you Gary !

[@imsahil24]

Finally @Tom Bilyeu.. GARY JOHN BISHOP IS HERE

[@Kzombie]

The contrasting backgrounds makes it seem like they are communicating from different time periods

[@agtwolf6030]

Yea 2020 and 1990’s

[@Davidsworldtravels]

And the different camera quality

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The

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[@yvonnehigginson3154]

Congratulations Tom...the guest spoke and we got to listen..

[@MsCaterific]

I feel we can unconditionally love people, but whether or not we participate in each other's lives is conditional. If people you love behave abusively, then the healthiest thing for you to do is love them from a great distance. I will always love those who have done me wrong, its just that my love has been altered and is now different. Love is always kind but not to the extent that you disrespect yourself. Forgiveness and love does not mean you have to trust. Not trusting someone you love = altered love.

[@Joshua_Lee_]

One of the most eye opening episodes ever.

[@danathain481]

Love this guy and his books.

[@TiffanyHallmark]

This was amazing! I will definitely be finding the books and the podcast. This is just what I needed today. Thank you!

[@bodymechanixshanemckay7780]

this was so amazing for me....brought me further down the road...Change yourself not try to change others!

[@petejones5016]

This changed the way I think about things in a profound way. GREAT interview...it ended WAY too soon.

[@justtiinkin994]

Been thinking about how to put this topic into words in my own life prior to watching this, and I just want to take a second right now, to experience gratefulness that I found your channel Tom, and that you care about these topics as well, because I’m leaning towards this world is brain chemistry too and o how beautiful it can be if we choose to see it that way, thankyou so very much for this talk, I was there with you guys

[@SethGavriel111]

This really phenomenal! Thank you!

[@45whitedragon]

I love his books! This is awesome!

[@judymcfarlen8142]

I really love this. Well put!

[@georgebonilla8685]

Love this guys' books!!!

[@jdavidrhea]

Nice. Gary used to be my roommate back in the day. Nice work! Congrats!