The 7 PRINCIPLES You Need To Live By To Get EVERYTHING You Want In Life! | Tom Bilyeu

On Today's Episode:
If you’ve ever felt depressed over where you are in life, experienced the embarrassment of getting fired, been frustrated over student loan debts and bills you can’t afford to pay, then you’re in the right place for a reality check.
Your circumstances are a direct reflection of the decisions you’ve made until this point. It doesn’t matter that things never go your way. It doesn’t matter that every time you try to step up you get overlooked. The only thing that matters is that you’re willing to be honest with yourself about where you are and that you’re ready to turn your life around and take total ownership of your life. Every success and every failure is 100% yours if you get unstuck and become unstoppable.
Tom Bilyeu went from being broken, scared, and insecure to becoming confident enough to develop his leadership skills and earn massive respect. The lesson for you right now is to stop giving your control away and start owning your sh*t!
Check out Jocko Willink’s video, #Good: • Jocko Willink "GOOD" (...
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Becoming Unstoppable
8:16 | Steps to Start Owning Your Life Now!
37:20 | How to Get Unstuck
42:48 | How to Move On
44:45 | Is Failure Worth It
53:29 | How to Deal With Family
1:00:26 | How to Be Motivated
1:19:12 | The Secret to Motivation
1:39:24 | Overcome Any Failure
1:46:56 | Embracing Imperfection
QUOTES:
“Weak people are bitter people because they feel like they’re being taken advantage of, they’re not taken ownership in their life, they’re putting the blame on other people…” [3:53]
“I earned their respect by working harder than anybody else, by having a deeper set of skills, and by empowering them and lifting them up.: [8:03]
“If you’re blaming other people for the state of your life, you are f*cked my friend.” [8:38]
“Whatever your uncomfortable is, you want to be able to live in that space and be chill about it.” [29:10]
“You should only ever do and believe that which moves you towards your goal.” [42:52]
“You need to be decisive in life. You made a decision, it didn’t work out, such is life! It goes like it goes.” [43:40]
“When we are young we can become anything, but as we age we become something specific.” [44:53]
“You’ve got to get so hardcore that people would sooner believe that it’s magic than that you just worked that hard.” [49:48]
“The only way to really have mind blowing success in life is to set the bar ridiculously high and then surpass all expectations.” [53:12]
“Whether your mom believes in you or not, whether anybody believe in you or not, if you get good enough you will win.” [1:00:19]
Failure, moving in the wrong direction, is the most information rich datastream you will ever encounter, meaning you’re going to learn a lot.” [1:16:56]
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[@TomBilyeu]

Which principle was your favorite? Drop a comment below!

[@jojoj3056]

Resilience, toughen the f* up.

[@FaishalNrRhmn]

💓💝

[@alexishawkins8195]

Growth mindset! Guess I'm on the right path. After watching your videos, I've been accumulating knowledge-concepts-certificates in the Child Development and Business field. I feel so much more confident and prepared reopening my home daycare. I'm in the process of now finding a remote job so I could fund this dream as I raise my 3 and 4 yr old. Enjoying the journey, finally! Thanks for assisting me in realizing my daily fulfilment and success! ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

[@ddfelder2]

Toughen tf up! I recently had a moment of weakness but I am bouncing back

[@dicta2974]

Adaptability. This is brilliant. This is at Tony Robbins level motivational performance. Thanks

[@Lizziezmm]

Tom Bileyu is such an awesome person. Thank you for bringing content to help us live life to it's fullest

[@cozmoG]

Tom is direct, practical, relatable, knowledgeable and brilliant in his delivery. This is incredibly valuable and useful information.

[@oscar-lagrosen]

Realized that all of these principles can be boiled down to one thing: Self-awareness By fully embracing this moment, everything else follows naturally

[@visionvixxen]

What if you’re autistic, ADD, mood disordered and raised in an Eastern culture but living in Western. I’m trying to discover the manual to myself and reconcile it with being there with and for others. It’s exhausting and I’ve been in circles w counselors, books, others. This is easy to say, but try it w someone w neurodegenerative disease or other issues where you need the practice to get to the level WHWERE you MU be able to practice new things. Inability to prioritize and feel oneself and decide… subconscious Stuff, developmental and brain stuff… where are the programs like this for THOSE people?!?

[@visionvixxen]

Brain chemistry is what I’ve been chasing all my life. All other factors influence THAT and THAT influences other stuff.

[@solangeamos7172]

@@visionvixxen look into Dr Joe Dispenza and be willing to take in new information regarding what you think of neurobiology and all that brain stuff ❤️ heart math too! Have fun on your journey! 😃

[@mariangrimsdell1112]

@@visionvixxen I have similar problems and questions, I have found Dr Berg’s nutrition advice especially with diet and vitamin supplements very helpful, I am 68 and he has helped me gain mental energy and physical energy through an overhaul of my diet , especially the gut biome and it’s relationship to ADHD and mental health.

[@oscar-lagrosen]

@@visionvixxen Good question Chloe. I've been autistic through my childhood but what set me free to a non-autistic life in high school was a consistent practice of transcendental meditation twice a day. In other words, rather than engaging with the thoughts per se, just let them be. Like the current moment as is and it will get better (at least it was for me).

[@ladeedy]

Best 1 hr of my life. I'll be rewatching this everyday for this month until I've reprogrammed my mind. Thank you so much for your wonderful content. 💗

[@MissLamzaoui]

Will do the same 😊

[@faraj3159]

Hi Clarissa, having a same thought right now. I conspected and re-watched today second time. I missed a lot from the first attempt. Recommend doing the same. Cant say it was a best hour of my life, as it is 2 best hours of my life now turned 4 :D Keep grinding, let see where all of us will get. Like I actually wonder.

[@nikosdellaportas7007]

Tom this must be your best video so far!!It's like you put all the conclusions in one video.So inspiring...thank you👍

[@brothersintruth]

10 seconds of this is worth 10 years of reading all self help book. Tom adds real value not just hype.

[@malgorzataguz5947]

Hi Tom. Never believed in these things. Around a year ago started to dream of a new house in a place we always loved, but had no money nor idea I could reach for it. Started to follow your advoces, one by one. Today Im writing from my new home in that new place, the one we didnt dear to dream of. We did it. You are responisbñe for this. People watched me go, they stayed observing as I broke through one one by to reach the impossible. Thank you for all you do. Im living my dream and this is not the end, we have just started. You changed my family life and I will be eternally grateful. Please never stop helping us all. THANK YOU

[@aliceschorbach]

Moving forward 😊😊🎉😂❤❤🎨🎨🏦♾👫🌞🌛🦋🎾🤽‍♀️🪘⛩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🧶🫂🤩❤️

[@aliceschorbach]

Love q in life ♾

[@joannerossi8941]

I haven’t watched this yet but I watch TB all of the time. You must See him with LH, JS, JP and other thought leaders. If you follow him he doesn’t preach he’s just passionate. And I bet he would work in a factory and find a way to apply these principles. In fact I believe he works harder and longer. I cant wait to curl up in the couch with this today. Thanks for your continued content. Any hateful replies will be ignored. Happy to engage in productive exchange of ideas.

[@vyacheslavpotapov4766]

who is LH JS JP?

[@joannerossi8941]

Jordan Peterson. Jay Shetty. Lewis Howes.

[@Touchguitar]

I really needed this kick in the seat today, thanks!

[@collectiveunconscious3d]

If you stair 7 years at a wall. You learn a lot about your shit, it’s damm hard. I met a guy in tiruvanamalai who did just that. I think the difference is in how you do anything. With or without intention and with or without awareness. This video is greaaaat and eventhough your so sober about it it hits on some deep spiritual essential stuff

[@eonryan8491]

17:31 18:50 20:19 21:04 23:16 - get control of your emotion/emotion stability 31:35 - pushing oneself physically 42:43 - you should only do & believe that which moves you towards your goal

[@lainabeninati6816]

God, this is so awesome ❤️❤️❤️❤️and I so needed this today. Thanks Tom!!

[@Vivi-vg9lx]

Tom, I don't know you but I just love you. I discovered this channel through another youtube channel and I'm surprised this channel has less views and likes. What I like about Tom is his authenticity, it so obvious that he really cares about helping other people with his knowledge and advice. I definitely believe in the power of mind. It helped me achieve something I was not supposed to achieve, that was many years ago. I know for a fact that my mind is super powerful. When I think negatively I immediately receive negative response from the universe, when I am positive, anything is possible. But. I think one crucial element in all of that is focus. If energy is not spread out but concentrated and it has a clear direction/goal, manifestation happens faster. Bigger goals means more energy and more focus. As someone with focus problems, this is what I am working on to improve at the moment.

[@ps6572]

It feels great to learn from someone , who has been through the hard times and grit and come out the other end. .It gives me that hope that goals are attainable despite obstacles and challenges in life. I don't compare myself with others, as much as i used to. Realised life and time are too precious to be wasting on comparatitis. Sure enough, it meant i have lost people in this journey, but the end result will make it all worth it. And the ones who matter, will be there !!

[@andytalk.1781]

I feel like "framing" this video and hanging it up in my living room!

[@johnsridaoduan2368]

You have leveled up so much Tom from your previous video of "If you don't get your goals is because you don't want it bad enough!". Even though it was true, I felt like my past and resentments kept me from going, and the first five minutes of this video shook me out of it. I know human beings are complicated, and there are so many reasons we are stopped, but so glad you took a different approach in this video!

[@Sidetracked81]

Everything you said in this episode is my new Mantra 🙏 Thank you for your time and effort that you put into this 👌

[@alexgeorge9485]

HMU📩📩☝☝

[@govindadawangepatil6654]

Tom you know that your one advice literally Chang my life , i lost in my life many time but i get up every time i follow you since i was 18 year old thank you so much

[@ashwinrebbapragada7626]

Good luck and best wishes to everyone watching this video. Success is a journey which takes time, effort, and patience. For some people success comes later in life. Try not to do anything counterproductive or self-destructive. Don't beat yourself and move in the positive direction. Eventually you will reach your destination.

[@randomryguy8453]

Once again , love you Tom and thanks for your amazing videos ! Everyone I’ve watched so far has absolute meaning ! And uplifting encouragement. Now that said ! Getting off my ass to kick ass woooooooot

[@alexishawkins8195]

Impact Theory University! Enhance my awareness today!!! Excited to learn and apply these skills you have to offer. About to jump into the video! Wooohooo! Great start to my weekend! Thanks Tom!

[@jemueldionson5954]

Loving these tips so much. Now I have templates to look up to since some of the things were chaotic in my life as someone who just started to develop myself. I am your mentee. Follow you every day, one of my favorite Podcasts! Thank you!

[@siyandankundla-mgudlwa1888]

Very good episode. Thank you Tom.

[@vichianbiz1789]

Best motivational video ever Tom. Thanks

[@naturechaser4632]

Thank you Tom

[@DrKondrup]

Awesome as always. Thanks so much

[@joanielindquist]

Thanks Tom! This video really spoke to me. ❤

[@ursulaarvand1471]

OMG..gr8 👍 tips...Thank U Tom..

[@azzalchotani5451]

Thankyou Tom 🙏 I have you everyday in my life

[@haregaman2129]

Thank you, Tom!

[@AlamoCityCello]

Good stuff Tom!

[@jessisbell9067]

Dude! THANK YOU!!!!!! I love you, Brother.

[@mim33033]

You! And Lisa! Amazing people. Thank you! Thank you guys!

[@InitiateChangeSparkPeace]

This was amazing. I love the secret to motivation. Great video.

[@LovePhoenix96]

Tom, I genuinely appreciate you and all that you, Lisa and your team have done for us. Whenever I listen to your videos, you give me the heart to fight this life! Thank you for setting and being the example for us who are struggling, but know we can do it! 🥰 You are the best!

[@charlien1286]

This is so valuable!!

[@AlexGomez-ur5eb]

Thank you for this Tom, legend, greetings from Sydney!

[@deborafleischmann]

Very impressive! Best regards from Nuremberg, Germany and stay healthy 🙌🤗

[@Zias121]

I respect you a lot tom Thank you for this shortcut

[@TheFlydevine]

This is seriously the best information all put together so perfectly I've ever seen in one video. Thank you so much Tom

[@gregfeth1203]

Self reliance. Because your value is only in your head. The value other people put on you is, you are easy to use.

[@RobinMelinaKinsman]

Such terrific material, helping kids #embark on a life of satisfaction and significance ! BTW "embarrassment" (I used to be a spelling bee queen).😊

[@kingSnipe989]

Thanks Tom! You da Man! This is straight sauce and gems! And every last bit is exactly what i needed to hear today in my life. Much respect for such a humble soul sharing experiences trying to enrich the world through powerful life changing knowledge. God bless you

[@andreac4319]

Amazing! Sharing with my son who is in a bad place, doesn't believe in himself. Thanks for sharing and helping changing peoples lives.

[@alexgeorge9485]

Thanks for watching... Hit me up there☝☝

[@poeticinspirations]

Great stuff Tom.. Thank you! Off to find this comedian Mitch you mentioned..

[@efoua14]

Ohhhh! Gosh you are good!!!! Yes YES!!!! You make me think of Lisa Nichols. Everytime I listen to you I get off my fu...k.g a..s to work toward my goal! Gosh you empower me!!!!

[@HMzTheGreatest]

Thanks Tom!

[@alexgeorge9485]

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[@jongundrum1076]

My favourite was your professional, restrained presentation language. Eloquence personified.

[@swaminathankalimuthu620]

Thank you Sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@lucyallerton8476]

I love the part about developing your values. 3 values I’m going to focus on cultivating are authenticity, boldness and leadership. I haven’t previously held these values for myself.

[@monicaw.5426]

Thank you so much for this.

[@coachnazir]

Identity + Core Values indeed my favorite.

[@sbhm1108]

Amazing!!!

[@edwinhowdoifindthisproduct478]

When you verbally tell yourself audibly “I don’t do overwhelm”, I’m thinking of what someone attributed to the power of words!

[@jillwagner7118]

Soooo good!!!!!

[@nabilbousabir4019]

Thank you 😌

[@Kopfootball9]

Take a chance! All life is a chance. The man who goes farthest is generally the one, who is willing to do and dare.

[@motiask]

Good job bro! The goggins mine!

[@antonides-official]

I swear to god this is your BEST video

[@antoniodossantos5960]

Thanks Tom 🌎 Greetings from Colombia. The Venezuelan immigrant writer 🇻🇪

[@gensmithjeremy5450]

I have learned in recent months is to remain calm, especially when it comes to investments in cryptocurrencies. Learn not to sell in a panic when everything goes down and not to buy in euphoria when everything goes up. I advise y'all to forget predictions and start making a good profit now because future valuations are all speculations and guesses. The market is very unstable and you can not tell if it's going bearish or bullish. While myself and others are trading without fear of making a loss others are being patient for the price to skyrocket, I would say trading has been going smoothly for me, i started with 7 BTC and i have accumulated over 19 BTC in just three weeks, with the trading strategy given to me by expert trader Andrew Martins.

[@shinsekierik4318]

Wow great motivational and this is a good time to make some investment in our lives that'll earn us a better tomorrow!. Investing in Crypto is lucrative and a big chance to money online

[@kelvinjeff9915]

Yeah that's right I think the best way is to invest with a professional, at least it saves the trauma of too much losses, This just surprised me because I also invest with Andrew .

[@isabellaandrew364]

I'm so happy for taking the bold step in working and investing $20,000 with Mr Andrew Martins after a 3 weeks i received $92,000

[@silver2zilver]

17:00 rewire your values. Tom... this might be the most powerful thing I've heard in a looooong time.

[@deaglefly4338]

God bless you Tom, amazing stuff

[@alexgeorge9485]

Thanks for watching⬆📩☝

[@linaizhere]

I’m always practicing my skills

[@silversagapatterns]

This 🙏🏻🔥

[@jcspaziano]

Thank you Tom!

[@alexgeorge9485]

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[@motiask]

Boom!!! Boom!! And boom!

[@HealthyLife4Me]

Exactly!

[@paksau1]

Thank You

[@denisebagley2342]

Strength doesn’t come from the F bomb

[@redpat8832]

Fantastic! 🌈👏🌈👏🌈

[@sethschmucker4238]

Build an Armada!!!

[@Y.E.S.ArtinInvestment]

Yes, but you do mention that we have talents. Those talents are what we need to play up! Hire and surround yourself with what you are missing. I agree education is just a good idea, so that you can be aware of what is needed but in the end. It is just smart to play up your talents. I think talent is your nature what drives you. You know that there are athletes, they are born with literally special muscles, that is a FACT! It is why they are athletes. Some of us could spend a lifetime in a gym and get nowhere! Go towards your talent and find bliss. Yes, always challenge yourself to find hidden talents but in the end capitalize on what you have! No?

[@livpizzano3044]

Just curious.. what r those special muscles called in these “athletes”??

[@red2blackprofits]

as a Business Coach I meet owners that don't realize there is a different way over traditional thinking and actions to take their business to the next level. I plan to use this in my Focus groups and one on one DeMartint has a great Value exercise on his website.

[@alexgeorge9485]

Thanks for watching... Hit me up there☝☝

[@lessemo]

I like that you say "bad words" naturaly lol

[@teresaclemente5631]

I didn't even check the rest of the video, the first principle says it all "if you blame others for the state of your life, you are f***d" life is tough for everyone, s**t happens to everyone.. sickness, death, break ups, dramas, lockdowns, economical falls, political falls, natural disasters, random abuse, accidents.. whatever.. life is plenty of those, whether you like it or not, and nobody is spared.. if your reaction to events is destructive, then you choose to destroy.. if your reaction to events is to feel your emotions, learn and build up from there, then you choose to grow.. it's as simple as that.

[@michelealexander9900]

"The more you know, the more you realize what you don't know," you know?😉

[@KhoiNguyens]

💯💯💯

[@m7k187]

Top G👑

[@jillwagner7118]

You are so amazing!!! 🙌🏻 A great reminder that we have the ability to develop our skills. NTS: Stop making excuses! Take action.

[@freedomdagr6830]

Mitch Hedberg was hilarious!!

[@3dChris]

that shirt is awesome

[@Abijahtv]

Up up

[@motiask]

🤗🤗so much ❤️ we love

[@logantauson789]

Love this... what about tribe? Mastering 90% of this can be done alone but the fucking 10% that we need others or what’s the point of creating value?

[@logantauson789]

Thank you certainly most appreciated. Just hoping this isn’t one more sales pitch and I do not mean that in an insulting way

[@visionvixxen]

Also, it’s easy to talk about weakness, but if you do things and you get carried away I don’t know how to explain it this is fine if you’re a normal person but if you have serious issues like say you had a traumatic brain injury or not that you’re unable like people don’t understand it unable to prioritize or sift one thing or filter out it’s literally crazy when you start doing something and no one can teach you and no one‘s in your head and it’s either you drive yourself crazy or don’t do it well eventually people teach you to under perform which leads to nothing because if you perform Elissa over like I don’t know how to explain there’s no control mechanism and no save no filtering process imagine if you want mushrooms or something like people like that do you know what I’m talking about

[@visionvixxen]

Here’s another thing though what kind of beer I mean if you’ve had businesses fall deli on there and you still don’t know how to help but what am I wrong course you’re gonna be afraid of investing ha for all your money again and you need a new system so yeah

[@YarMobile]

"Be strong!" does not help much if you have a bad program in your subconcious mind.

[@faraj3159]

why is this not a lecture in every major university

[@alexgeorge9485]

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[@eonryan8491]

37:20

[@visionvixxen]

Also, what is your goal you need to know if it’s really your goal or society or someone else’s because what if your goal is something that was home your health and then it certainly you’ve been avoiding it

[@alexgeorge9485]

HMU📩📩☝☝

[@ketonesnotglucose4978]

Bitcoin SV is the only one that scales and increases performance at scale! The microtransactions and low fees are essential for the internet of things and the metaverse. There is no need for the "lightning network" when BSV outperforms it without a layer 2 middle man... BSV is the only one that has fast microtransactions that is the lowest power usage on the planet!!

[@kindalikeu.....5948]

Yes,, yes,, STAND- UP FOR YUR SELF......😋🙄

[@petermalindzak6886]

Finally the only thing in live what matters how many of your biological children will survive till aduldhood.

[@rohanbapat8840]

thank you tom

[@SoloMotivation]

*Stop wasting your time complaining* “People visit a wise man complaining about the same problems over and over again. One day, he decided to tell them a joke and they all roared with laughter. After a few minutes, he told them the same joke and only a few of them smiled. Then he told the same joke for a third time, but no one laughed or smiled anymore. The wise man smiled and said: ‘You can’t laugh at the same joke over and over. So why are you always crying about the same problem?'” Instead of complaining, seek solution May Your Day Be Blessed!

[@markb.8460]

#Good :D

[@visionvixxen]

Let’s talk about how we do these things let’s say someone with ADHD and autism and other issues like four or five of them and they set which ones they face first like maybe it’s addiction and then take circumstances which are the most salient and work with them and train them because just talking about it’s great and fun but it doesn’t make any change thanks

[@alexgeorge9485]

HMU📩📩☝☝

[@kindalikeu.....5948]

GET STRONG!!!!!!😳🙃🙄

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[@MikeEnRegalia]

I wish he knew about past perfect now.