Are Some Women Starting To Pander To Men? (Not for sensitive ears)

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

Күн бұрын

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@portia547
@portia547 Жыл бұрын
I’m so scared Tony. A lot of men have been scary in my life since childhood. People always say I’m kind, smart, and beautiful and ask why I’m single. The truth is I’m scared. Going to work, church, and enjoying my artistic hobbies feels so safe. With all that’s going on today - it’s seems so dangerous and scary… God help us all 🙏🏾
@summiedajanae3700
@summiedajanae3700 Жыл бұрын
God will Guide you in the right direction if you ask him. Discernment is very necessary for us though as women. You Got it. Fear isn’t of God. It’s of the enemy. If you’re scared to date then don’t date. Trust how u feel. When you’re ready you won’t be scared. 🩷
@trinigirl7846
@trinigirl7846 Жыл бұрын
We normally see the red flags and ignore them. But out there is really scary because a lot of people never healed from their past hurt and insecurities
@jaquettaallen348
@jaquettaallen348 Жыл бұрын
I have made the decision not to date at this time because of this. God is in control.
@la6136
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
Men are scary your feelings are completely normal and rational. I have learned if a man doesn't make you feel calm and safe from the jump there is something off and you should be looking at him with a side eye.
@pboles5683
@pboles5683 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! You are definitely allowing God to use you! I love to listen to your messages! God bless!
@elizabethhennessey6437
@elizabethhennessey6437 Жыл бұрын
Women are NOT required to submit to their boyfriend or date - You submit to your husband. Too many women are giving wifey benefits that are not deserved - Have some dignity and grace ladies! P.S. Please do not leave your child alone with any man except his papa.
@ciladapoeto.5327
@ciladapoeto.5327 Жыл бұрын
you even have to be careful of some papas too
@livethatlife1830
@livethatlife1830 Жыл бұрын
You shouldn't submit to no living person. You aren't a child or a pet. The word "submissive" means to hand over one's own will to another. How was you living before you were in a relationship? I think a lot of women never had a father so they go into a relationship looking for one.
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
​@@livethatlife1830submitting is what we do when we work a 9 to 5. It isn't volunteering to be a slave. It is just cooperation with the employer or provider's vision and goals.
@ladyc8581
@ladyc8581 Жыл бұрын
You still have to be careful with that, and I thank God I did not have a father like that, and Thanked him before he passed away this March 2023 before he passed away for not being that type of man or father.....Thank you Dad, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DAILY😞!!!!!
@summersday7894
@summersday7894 Жыл бұрын
​​@@livethatlife1830if a Man is submitted to God and to You then why not submit to that Man? You can't cherry pick the Word. You should be already submitted to God and then able to submit to that Man in return. Marriage is an act of service. If You're not ready to serve, You are not ready for marriage. That goes for Male or Female.
@LetsTalkShayDuprís
@LetsTalkShayDuprís 8 ай бұрын
OH MY!!! @Tony Gaskins this is so real & raw! 🙌🏾 Please speak the truth to these women’s and men!!! 🙌🏾
@RedeemFit777
@RedeemFit777 Жыл бұрын
I love this message, a man is not supposed to control a woman. Yes the man is supposed to be the head, but that doesn’t give him the right to control the woman. These red pill guys are miserable.
@lovebug6388
@lovebug6388 Жыл бұрын
A collaboration we need is with you and R.C. Blakes. These grown boys will be hot like fire for sure. And we know that both of y'all get the ladies for being foolish. As I heard said and it applies to you both...you're protecting womanhood and promoting manhood. Love to see it😊
@shayla8623
@shayla8623 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree! That would be so awesome!
@tarijackson9390
@tarijackson9390 Жыл бұрын
Bishop R.C is the truth :)
@tayloralliease8013
@tayloralliease8013 Жыл бұрын
Yes I feel R.C. Blake's is a great man and holds women accountable as well as the men . I don't listen to many male creators when it comes to relationships but I always tune into Tony and R.C. Blakes .
@agees924
@agees924 Жыл бұрын
My 2 favorite relationship coaches on KZbin, the only men I really trust on here!
@becuzmamasaid
@becuzmamasaid Жыл бұрын
Agree!!!
@PaperMario64
@PaperMario64 Жыл бұрын
Tony, you said what every one of these men try to ignore: a woman is submissive to a man who is submissive to GOD. That’s the hierarchy. The man is not at the top. The husband is simply a manager. He is not the CEO.
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic Жыл бұрын
My eyes opened when I started listening to him , i had to remove social media because all I see is half naked women and I would read the comments and most of it is men who are married with daughters , i am not in a relationship but that is a non-negotiable for me, i will not date a man who validates women on the internet , i walked away from a man earlier this year because of it. Anyway there are men who thinks AI models are real commenting on a fake women profile. Vet men and stay off your back , i listen to tony in the damn car , when im cooking just everywhere. Thank you sir be blessed
@qings_n_kueens
@qings_n_kueens Жыл бұрын
This was timely. I took social media off of my phone because for 3 weeks now, men have been responding negatively to a comment I made I an IG post. I spoke to the point that men have begun to emasculate themselves, yet they can’t even see it. I don’t even know how many men, particularly black men, I’ve blocked. Not to mention that out of over a thousand replies to my comment, only 1 man understood the context of where I was coming from. It’s sad out here… I feel like men are not safe at all right now.
@la6136
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
Don't bother explaining things like this to men and save yourself the stress. Most of them won't get it and have no desire to change. Only the very evolved men will understand which is literally 1% of men or less as proven by the fact that only 1 man understood your point.
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 Жыл бұрын
Some men are unsafe. The wrong types. Not all men. Be at Peace and know that Yahweh is God
@Arguewityamama
@Arguewityamama Жыл бұрын
What did you say in the comment on IG?
@ladyc8581
@ladyc8581 Жыл бұрын
@@Arguewityamama does it even really matter????
@GildedMirr0r
@GildedMirr0r Жыл бұрын
Wow I was surprised when u said u didn’t deserve your wife based on sexual history. Great conversation. ❤
@kwill644
@kwill644 Жыл бұрын
Been single since 2011 and I don’t regret one moment of it. These men out here can be something else.
@LaNeaheartz
@LaNeaheartz Жыл бұрын
Single ad in you haven’t dated at all or don’t engage men at all ?
@kwill644
@kwill644 Жыл бұрын
@@LaNeaheartz Single and haven’t dated because of the lack of quality options.
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906
@iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906 Жыл бұрын
Awesome message!! 26 years married, a women's influence is real. Most major,productive moves in our marriage came from me. He'll admit that. ❤
@desireehutchings4025
@desireehutchings4025 Жыл бұрын
Facts, some men just don't get it sexually, mentally, or emotionally.
@talenalewis1823
@talenalewis1823 Жыл бұрын
And for most they never will. Pretty sad!
@tashafoster9737
@tashafoster9737 Жыл бұрын
Sadly, they really don’t 🙄
@patwilson1257
@patwilson1257 Жыл бұрын
Mr Tony, I swear I wish there were more MEN like you, that would open their mouths and tell the WHOLE TRUTH. EVERYTHING you’re saying is the truth. It IS sad that there are thousand of GOOD women that know their worth, and CANNOT meet a decent man for a relationship. You are a God send Mr Tony. Gods speed, minister, Gods speed.
@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee Жыл бұрын
THE REALEST VIDEO OUT THERE, WOW!!!!!
@mvpunique
@mvpunique Жыл бұрын
It’s the wild wild west out here. One thing ladies must keep reminding themselves of is slow and steady be very vigilant
@ColleahG
@ColleahG Жыл бұрын
“Everybody talking about ‘get a team, get a community’, but then want to get in a marriage and tell a woman to shut up” - Uncle Tony Gaskins! 🎉
@naturalblackcocoa
@naturalblackcocoa Жыл бұрын
I been saying stop babying men. A woman needs to respect and have boundaries and hold the man accountable
@TheCierra1020
@TheCierra1020 Жыл бұрын
Come on!! Whew!! Lord! They need it! They need it ..ain’t nobody chastening these fools! God speaks through you..thank you man of GOD!! I am waiting for my husband..I’m waiting
@Miltonfam2
@Miltonfam2 Жыл бұрын
He is telling the absolute truth I'm a better woman since following Tony been 3yrs of growth I thank God for using this man to give the world the naked truth💯
@PCF09
@PCF09 Жыл бұрын
My nail tech is 22 and I asked does she have a man she said nope theyre childish even the ones in their 30s. I felt so sad makes me scared for my niece when she comes of age.
@tashafoster9737
@tashafoster9737 Жыл бұрын
Even the ones in their 50s😒
@UndeniableKeziah
@UndeniableKeziah 10 ай бұрын
😢
@jehannedufresne3998
@jehannedufresne3998 Жыл бұрын
Oh, you're talking about the Pickmeshas! The "Pick Me" women; those who pander to men; always take a man's side even though he may be wrongs while putting women down in the process. I think that's the name for it.
@kellykade
@kellykade Жыл бұрын
Exactly you said it!
@talenalewis1823
@talenalewis1823 Жыл бұрын
Yep! Sounds about right to me.
@TomiwaRodia
@TomiwaRodia Жыл бұрын
You absolutely snapped with this one.
@BashaerB-h2c
@BashaerB-h2c Жыл бұрын
What you mentioned around 37:00 about men that don't listen to their wives because of ego will lead the family into a ditch is SO true. Both my parents are educated but my father NEVER listened to my mother's advice. She urged him to invest money, buy home and to do so much that would've set three generations in wealth (he had the opportunity in his hands) but he shot down every idea. Now, he lives alone in an apartment divorced and all of us are struggling financially because we're paying for both our parents separate bills. No one's married despite being grown adults. It's sad.. but if only he put his ego aside and listened to her ALL of our lives would've turned out differently.
@m.amberspivey3472
@m.amberspivey3472 Жыл бұрын
This is real talk. Similar family situation due to pride & ego. “A ditch”. There are consequences for your actions.
@fadeline
@fadeline Жыл бұрын
Why I had to check to see if I wrote this myself. Literally my parent to the T
@Maxymiliaa
@Maxymiliaa Жыл бұрын
It is so not nice to see. My dad has so, so , so much pride. He would have been richer and bette roff if he listened to her.
@blasiankiki7831
@blasiankiki7831 11 ай бұрын
Women need to handle their own finances. You are not required to pour your money down the drain bc your husband says so. Let him pour his down the drain…
@CurvyKeto
@CurvyKeto Жыл бұрын
Hey Tony, I know you're booked and busy, but I thank you for continuing to making these videos. Your videos helps me get through my day at work. I listen to you going to work, during work, coming home from work, and at home.😂😂😂 Might sound crazy, but it has helped me become a better woman. Thank you for being you and teaching things we wish our fathers and family taught us. If I knew about you years ago it would saved me a lot of heartache and pain, but I'm grateful now because my life is beautiful. My relationship is beautiful, my body coming along the way I want and I'm working on my brand and business. You're truly a blessing.
@meebird112
@meebird112 Жыл бұрын
Reads “Not for sensitive ears.” Clicks immediately. Lol, this one is going to be goodT!!!
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack Жыл бұрын
One of THEE nicest guys I went to law school with r*ped one of our classmates. Another of our very charismatic classmates - who was top of the class (and beloved by professors) - was accused of r*pe. Both are lawyers today and graduated from a DC HBCU. Do not be impressed (or moved) by title or personality. As Tony ALWAYS emphasizes, look at the character of the man.
@shereewhite4828
@shereewhite4828 Жыл бұрын
They may have gotten away with it by man law, but I promise God's law is 100x worse! God's vengeance can never compare to jail time! If their payback hasn't happened in some form, their time is coming soon!
@maralinautube
@maralinautube Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢 I can believe it.
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
Wow smh
@chasg8183
@chasg8183 Жыл бұрын
I believe it. I had someone sexually aggressive towards me. He was nerdy media personality and an HBCU graduate as well. The last person I would have ever expected to behave like that towards me
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack
@TheGoodLifeStarterPack Жыл бұрын
@@chasg8183 It can be the first person you think, the last, and everybody in between. Sadly, I'm not surprised by your experience. I'm glad you are ok. 🙏🏾
@jam1369
@jam1369 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony. We cannot be reminded enough of this. There's no need for women to give their bodies to grown boys.
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 Жыл бұрын
AMEN IN JESUS NAME
@mscece1900
@mscece1900 Жыл бұрын
Nothing but respect for this dude, he keeps it real. Much respect brutha ❤💯
@22karatgold34
@22karatgold34 Жыл бұрын
This is the message I needed to hear this week! I get down on myself about dating. I’m 46 and newly divorced… this message encouraged me to slow down and really analyze the man’s true intentions for me and my son. Thank you Tony and thank God for giving you the strength and courage to go against the grain and bring these powerful, life changing messages
@truthseeker3967
@truthseeker3967 Жыл бұрын
Remarriage after divorce if a previous spouse is still living is adultery according to the Bible. You cannot remain a Christian in that adulterous state. I myself was in that situation, and when I found out, I vacated the unlawful relationship. ==> He [Jesus] answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.” (Mark 10:12) ==> By law, a married woman is bound to her husband as long as he is alive; but if her husband dies, she is released from the law of marriage. So then, if she marries another man while her husband is still alive, she is called an adulteress (Romans 7:2-3). ==> A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Corinthians 7:39) (You can live alone, but cannot remarry)
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
This was a great message! One thing I’ve observed is these type of people on both sides usually lack emotional intelligence tbh. It’s like talking to a brick wall. It’s no point in wasting energy on these type of people!! Just keep going ladies and listen to Tony!!
@beverleyrahming3672
@beverleyrahming3672 Жыл бұрын
Father, bless and keep this man and his family. Protect and preserve him as he continues to speak truth that sets people free. God bless you, Tony.
@LeahHannahSpeaks
@LeahHannahSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Tony is so on point! Yasss! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 There are men that will ask you those personal questions because they’re trying to see what they can get away with doing to you. They try to lower your value as a woman.
@mesha0932
@mesha0932 Жыл бұрын
Tony this actually made me cry because this is exactly what I tried to do with my husband and it backfired. You can’t be submissive to a grown boy. Because they will abuse their power and drag you into a ditch. My soon to be ex husband never valued my opinion and wanted to have complete dominion and dictatorship over our family. Thank God my family didn’t give up on me and they didn’t let me fall for the gaslighting spell that my narc had me under. Thank you for taking the time to speak the truth to us women because no one else will.
@blaire4082
@blaire4082 Жыл бұрын
Uncle T put the nail on the head regarding these fathers being narcissist.
@JaySmith.
@JaySmith. Жыл бұрын
Appreciative for this video. It just reaffirmed to me to remain single and keep working on myself. While I’d like to be in a relationship working towards marriage again, I’m cool on these guys these days. I’m literally not missing out on anything. I’m still observing myself and how I respond to the guys who do approach me.
@feminine4thekingdom
@feminine4thekingdom Жыл бұрын
We’ll said and I totally agree.
@C2Different
@C2Different Жыл бұрын
Superb Video❤
@alinas8003
@alinas8003 Жыл бұрын
Tony has the wisdom. It's funny how society doesn't want to submit to God, but then talk about submission. If you don't submit to God, you don't have a foundation for your woman to submit. Those people don't know the Lord, but talking about some kind of submission 😂 Tony speaking wisdom
@beefaye18
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
TG ....you are very wise....Ive learned a lot the hard way....per I didn't have a father in my life or a male figure.....u must be ready whn u out here....these men today will eat u alive if u are NOT equipped with the armor.
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
Iktr
@rhondabrown3550
@rhondabrown3550 Жыл бұрын
AMEN BROTHER TONY!! FATHER GOD BRING CONVICTION TO EVERY MAN THATS USING AND ABUSING WOMEN!!! WE APPRECIATE YOU TONY, KEEP SPEAKING TRUTH!!!!
@Carolina480
@Carolina480 Жыл бұрын
I wish I had found him years ago it would save me from lots of headaches and emotional damage from men this is exactly what I been through thanks tony I hope this reach to millions of women
@ladyboss2944
@ladyboss2944 Жыл бұрын
Spot on Mentor Tony, am praying for young men and women. The people that have the mic on social media are doing serious mental damage with what they say.
@PCF09
@PCF09 Жыл бұрын
You right. Most fathers lift up their daughters bc they know alot of men are not good men. Cuz when a guy broke up with me my daddy said "dont worry about that mf 🤣you good you can do bad all by yoself"
@Kashmir-lt4cx
@Kashmir-lt4cx Жыл бұрын
@PCF quite the contrary, most fathers do Not is ehy there are extremely father wounds! 😭
@TrendyT.
@TrendyT. Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best videos I’ve seen all 2023 😢 this spoke to me on so many levels. I feel like everyone really should listen in. God bless tony!
@buttaflygirl05
@buttaflygirl05 Жыл бұрын
Come on now Tony! You preaching today!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Amen!
@j.staxxx3890
@j.staxxx3890 Жыл бұрын
He got time today!!!!
@sspicer85
@sspicer85 Жыл бұрын
Lord have Mercy you snapped and I appreciate it!!! Speak Truth 😊
@talenalewis1823
@talenalewis1823 Жыл бұрын
Lol😅 right! Got real deep.
@hellolucy2074
@hellolucy2074 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching you for years and always just laughed and found it enjoyable but for the first time I felt your words in my soul! So powerful it made me emotional. I wish lost men can find your platform. Wish you and your family always the best!
@Eye_Am_Divine_33
@Eye_Am_Divine_33 Жыл бұрын
This is the realest thing I’ve ever heard from a man! I appreciate your honesty ❤
@real8052
@real8052 Жыл бұрын
Tony is “Gangsta!” with it 😅 when he gets a message across! 💯👏🏽
@Army_Brat1980
@Army_Brat1980 Жыл бұрын
You were BIG MAD AND I LOOOOOOVED IT❤ This was amazing. Men are extremely violent. They scare the f... out of me.
@deja14
@deja14 Жыл бұрын
Agreed. They truly are evil.
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
​@@deja14not evil just naturally aggressive takers. I think it's like fire; good servant, bad master. That's why we need be queens of fire. We gotta know how to make manly fire serve us.
@Kashmir-lt4cx
@Kashmir-lt4cx Жыл бұрын
​@nzingahoney not evil just aggressive takers? 🙄
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
@@Kashmir-lt4cx yeah. Exactly. Aggression doesn't always mean malevolence.
@summersday7894
@summersday7894 Жыл бұрын
​@@nzingahoneyEXACTLY bc My Autistic Son is extremely aggressive out of frustration but not an OUNCE of Him is malevolent.
@journeytojourdan
@journeytojourdan Жыл бұрын
I literally love you in the most honorable way! God is truly using you & this message helped me so much!! Pls never delete so I can show this to my 7 year old son when he’s older lol
@Brooke-e7l
@Brooke-e7l Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same and my son is still in my womb haha 😂 we need all the help out here we can get!
@thart6205
@thart6205 Жыл бұрын
I’ll definitely be listening to this more than once
@lifeventures6651
@lifeventures6651 Жыл бұрын
You’re a good husband. My hubby does these things and the acts of service really demonstrate how much yall value us as wives. This is why we go hard for yall. People who don’t have the bandwidth will never understand. It’s not simping….it’s loving! It’s how our parents and grandparents lasted so long. You HAVE to he selfLESS in marriage in order for it to work. Unfortunately, social media and folks not seeing their mother being loved properly while growing up has caused toxic relationships and viewpoints in our community. P.S. Good girls never tell whether they’re a virgin or have a had partners. Lessons my father taught me. It’s something you keep to yourself as a lady.
@beefaye18
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
"Yo dang-a-lang raw " 😂😂😂😂 Im dead....TG is so comedic!
@tylertaylershine2567
@tylertaylershine2567 Жыл бұрын
This was really a blessing Mr. Gaskins.
@kharyzma4u
@kharyzma4u Жыл бұрын
This is very true and practical info. The older women that I personally have known when I was growing up had the mentality of "treat the man like the king". They were all in abusive relationships. I recently saw a woman on YT who had videos of her abusive husband and how she started living in her car to get away from him. She had the audacity to take down all those videos of her being homeless because she had to flee her abusive husband as she said, in an attempt to revamp her channel. Now she has the audacity to start putting up new videos on "Christian dating, femininity and, being a Godly wife". Meanwhile, she left her abusive husband and she is leading innocent women who don't know any better astray. She had all these videos asking for donations for over 5 years and was struggling. She is looking for a way to make money at other people's expense. Be vigilant to the times we're living in. Know the word of God for yourself and don't trust these random people giving any kind of "relationship advice" 💯 Thanks for this video!
@AtlantaAngel84
@AtlantaAngel84 Жыл бұрын
Pandering to men is very profitable for women, it’s an uptick in so many doing it.
@jeanetteswain1760
@jeanetteswain1760 Жыл бұрын
What do you mean. How is pandering profitable for women? What does it get them?
@quietstorm1050
@quietstorm1050 Жыл бұрын
@@jeanetteswain1760 My guess is the algorithm. More men will tune in. Make comments praising the content creator. Women will catch wind of it. Videos will go viral. Then both get to arguing in the comments equal more views. Then the reactions vidoes pop-up. !!!Voila!!! the cycle continues. And there you have it. The secret sauce to a successful KZbin channel. Be outrageous, be obnoxious and in today's market it may work.
@Kashmir-lt4cx
@Kashmir-lt4cx Жыл бұрын
@Atlantaangel pandering? What is that, never heard it before lol.
@guinealove3744
@guinealove3744 Жыл бұрын
@@jeanetteswain1760 The definition of pandering is " the act of expressing one's views in accordance with the likes of a group to which one is attempting to appeal." Melanie King, Pearl...etc profits by producing content to bash women to a predominate male audience.
@jeanetteswain1760
@jeanetteswain1760 Жыл бұрын
@@guinealove3744 No. Don’t know where you got that definition. Pandering has more than one definition. Please look them up to enlighten yourself. Peace.
@peaceful_and_blessed
@peaceful_and_blessed Жыл бұрын
What a powerful message! Women who want to be controlled are obviously troubled and need therapy. Why would a level headed woman want to put her fate in the hands of man? Makes no sense. I pray women wake up and seek wisdom. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Also, I have chosen not to date for the last 6 years because most men are not impressive to me
@gabj4665
@gabj4665 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know weather to laugh or cry.. this message is powerful. While there’s some humor to it. And my emotions are all over the place because the truth that is spoken in this video.
@MsAimeeS1
@MsAimeeS1 Жыл бұрын
‼️💯. This message going out whether people like it or not! God's will
@eet6067
@eet6067 Жыл бұрын
You spoke a word today. I don't care what the masses say, I appreciate your videos. Of course you had to make me chuckle today. "Reverse pigmentation."
@Kashmir-lt4cx
@Kashmir-lt4cx Жыл бұрын
Reverse pigmentation?
@finally0famous
@finally0famous Жыл бұрын
I feel the spirit is evoked when he speaks because trust me, it’s not easy facilitating this type of content without losing train of thought. I appreciate this brother God has sent to us. Not to praise him but to give gratification and in prayer that the lord brings more people to this awareness and allowing you to provide these messages. Thank you, because it’s been a few years listening and I’ve come across if not all most of the situations you’ve spoken about and I appreciate you, im finally able to Phathom the message. It used to go way over my head.
@ceemialove
@ceemialove Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being the brother I never had.
@EvaVas03
@EvaVas03 Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯
@Tashamacktv
@Tashamacktv Жыл бұрын
The red head he is talking about is Pearl. I don’t agree with her point of view at all!
@TrueMystique
@TrueMystique Жыл бұрын
She's the biggest panderer of them all and it's so obvious
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
Sad
@kittenmayz611
@kittenmayz611 Жыл бұрын
They call them pickmes & it’s sickening
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- Жыл бұрын
💯
@stephaniejoywoodside9942
@stephaniejoywoodside9942 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Tony. The stability part at the end of this video almost had me in tears. Every woman wants it. The fact that you understand this is sooooo valuable. A woman does not necessarily need a bigger house, she needs a stable "home." Imaginary can catch us all up and have us chasing... but God, gratitude and stability can keep us grounded AND growing. I send blessings to you and your family. Your work is making a positive IMPACT in my life and in the lives of many.
@TrishaBurris
@TrishaBurris Жыл бұрын
You’re so Right Tony!!, Let’s all go over and report Red Head page, we all should know who he’s talking about. This need to End. She selling shirts that say(Women should not be allowed to Vote)
@TrueMystique
@TrueMystique Жыл бұрын
Meanwhile, this is the same chick who openly said that you wanted to run for office. 😑😑😑
@TrishaBurris
@TrishaBurris Жыл бұрын
@@TrueMystiqueSmh she needs to be stop
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
Um. Voting? Nah man she need to go
@sarahkercheval8964
@sarahkercheval8964 Жыл бұрын
This was the most real thing ever 😊 ty for speaking the truth to us women. We need to hear it especially if we’ve been abused by men before bcs we are pretty and naturally nice and trusting
@ladyd5871
@ladyd5871 Жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, I am on older woman who truly appreciate you and the work God has called you to. I’m am planning on sharing this video with my 16 year old granddaughter and wish I knew this when I was her age. Anyhow, may God continue to keep and bless you abundantly for the millions of women you are saving from manipulating men. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Army_Brat1980
@Army_Brat1980 Жыл бұрын
You said "fishin for booty." Im SCREAMING!😂
@mauriw226
@mauriw226 Жыл бұрын
TONY is PREACHING TODAY!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@cmechell4702
@cmechell4702 Жыл бұрын
Brother Tony I appreciate you so much. You have no idea. You’re doing the Lord’s work. Thank you so much!
@JoannA-sweetly
@JoannA-sweetly Жыл бұрын
Tony you have given me a 65 year old woman the best advice on men!! Praise God, I will never forget your lessons on the nature of women and men. When you said lions are snacking on giselles. I never online date, but this brings so much clarity that the “hunted game” does not hunt the lion! Solid instruction, we would be foolish not to pay attention. We must KNOW that we are queens & NEVER settle! 🎉🎉💕
@akilahbatyah6505
@akilahbatyah6505 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Patriarchy has been in place for thousands of years. Men don’t need no help to keep the system going.
@shawnchrystafur
@shawnchrystafur Жыл бұрын
The system today is a Matriarchy tho.
@hymnodyhands
@hymnodyhands Жыл бұрын
​@@shawnchrystafurNo, sir... men still make the majority of rules and decisions we live by daily... and THOSE MEN are not going to budge to just "give" BM a spot... so there is a failure of BM to get the work done to become respected patriarchs in the system. My father is a highly respected family patriarch; he got the work done! My grandfather: still respected, got his work done!
@patriciamiddleton5145
@patriciamiddleton5145 Жыл бұрын
Your openness and honesty is greatly appreciated
@gianelogan9841
@gianelogan9841 Жыл бұрын
There it is… truth with no chaser. The nature of men.. 101. Thanks Brother Tony for the reminder.
@kristinaherrejon7181
@kristinaherrejon7181 Жыл бұрын
I cried when Tony talked about massaging his wife’s feet as she fell asleep.
@trinigirl7846
@trinigirl7846 Жыл бұрын
It's the simple things that matter the most❤
@LetThereBeLight1111
@LetThereBeLight1111 Жыл бұрын
That’s true love right there, Godly love
@BashaerB-h2c
@BashaerB-h2c Жыл бұрын
God bless!
@nzingahoney
@nzingahoney Жыл бұрын
What we wouldn't give for that, right?
@talenalewis1823
@talenalewis1823 Жыл бұрын
Some things money just can't buy!
@Sandra.-.
@Sandra.-. Жыл бұрын
Omg this was a word! Glory to God. I get so disappointed at black women constantly defending these men against paying child support, cheating allegations, competing against women with this sissy behavior! It is very deplorable!! But thank God for men like you uncle Tony. May God continue to use you
@chanda3x
@chanda3x Жыл бұрын
This is great for both men and women to listen to. Thank you, Tony, for keeping it real and being direct.
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 Жыл бұрын
“I say no, that ain’t my goal. My goal is to give women the truth.” TG
@missj5564
@missj5564 Жыл бұрын
Yep, men are takers. Thanks for the wisdom.
@TreasureTeresa
@TreasureTeresa 29 күн бұрын
To these type of Women PLEASE wake up…PLEASE❤🙏🏽
@mya2450
@mya2450 Жыл бұрын
Tony you are so smart and anointed I pray god sends me a man with your wisdom.
@Yatsacreations
@Yatsacreations Жыл бұрын
Keep teaching! Your breaking chains!Were grateful for Raw teaching like this💪🏾
@moonlightmamacita6636
@moonlightmamacita6636 Жыл бұрын
THIS IS PURE GOLD!! Alhamdulilah for my religion and the standards it has taught me!!! ❤❤❤❤
@kathierobinson506
@kathierobinson506 Жыл бұрын
MY BROTHER ❤️ This is my favorite video. BROTHER TONY you are a great blessings, I appreciate you uplifting women and telling the truth, I just experienced a young lady saying women don't respect men and women don't do anything , she said the men do it all I said HOLD ON WOMEN BIRTH NATIONS WOMEN RAISE FAMILIES 🙏🏾, she said she doesn't say anything to her husband she doesn't say anything about the trash she doesn't ask for money I said A HUSBAND SHOULD KNOW WHAT TO DO AND SHOULD KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF HIS FAMILY
@LadyAngela678
@LadyAngela678 Жыл бұрын
Tony you was the Father most of these men need today. They should be praising you and welcoming your knowledge.
@mariahsmith9283
@mariahsmith9283 Жыл бұрын
My friend is working 12+ a day while her Baby daddy not married not working & calling all the shots I’m literally forcing myself to leave cause a situation happen & by her words that let me know that she sees he do no wrong & holding on to what she did in the past & don’t love her self & turned against her family & friends
@j.staxxx3890
@j.staxxx3890 Жыл бұрын
All we can do is pray for her🙏🏾🙏🏾
@mirandadavis8877
@mirandadavis8877 Жыл бұрын
Man, you have told nothing but the truth today! Keep up the good work! 🙏🏾💪🏾
@patwilson1257
@patwilson1257 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@TaWandaJoyner
@TaWandaJoyner Жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥Alright Now! It Shonuff ain't nothing but the Truth❣️ 💐🙏🦋
@jeaninerichardson7179
@jeaninerichardson7179 Жыл бұрын
Toni you're definitely correct in your assessment. Unfortunately, that particular women who made such toxic erroneous replies obviously experienced major trauma. Just listening to it was truly concerning because obviously she's been compromised, gaslighted, & mishandled because her reaction is a tell-tale of her being brainwashed.
@sweetie932
@sweetie932 Жыл бұрын
The greatest non pandering truth telling reality facing video. Respectfully 👍🏾
@christellen3077
@christellen3077 Жыл бұрын
👩‍🏫 That is a great aid for abstinent believers. Glory to God.
@Ty.611
@Ty.611 Жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskin Won 🥇 this message! *New Subscriber/ Pray & Say no to pandering: to please other people by doing or saying what you think they want you to do or say😢 dang near seems slavish, ?☝️not good to control a women or a lady, (substance) got men over their head’s with bad habits… 🤔 lord. Gottem Coach/🫡 Tony Gaskin
@HerminaShabazz
@HerminaShabazz Жыл бұрын
This hit the nail on the head.🙌🏾 Great WORD Brother❤
@Heal.grow.elevate
@Heal.grow.elevate Жыл бұрын
You are on point with this. Especially the narcissist part. My ex husband manipulated our daughter into hating me so bad that she was willing to kill me and her brothers just because her dad hated me so much. It’s sad but it’s happening.
@lenamoon.xoxoxo
@lenamoon.xoxoxo Жыл бұрын
What a mouthful of truth you are sharing with us! Sounds like you know men & women better than they know themselves 😂 It’s rare to find a God-led, disciplined man with common sense to date or consider building with. It’s ego insanity out here & you touched on so much in this video.
@Trendolyn78
@Trendolyn78 Жыл бұрын
My counsel doesn’t come from the unGodly nor the seat of the scornful. ❤
@shariahp3321
@shariahp3321 Жыл бұрын
amen
@tashafoster9737
@tashafoster9737 Жыл бұрын
Everything you’ve said about men, the beast, the true nature, everything has been true. I find myself saying many times, that’s exactly what Tony was talking about. Thank you so much for this. We needed this video. Ur so right-I meet mostly grown boys.
@vonyettawebb2400
@vonyettawebb2400 Жыл бұрын
Thank u, Thank u and may God continue to have u as one of his mouth pieces and example for our men and boys!
@1racethehumanrace946
@1racethehumanrace946 Жыл бұрын
This message was a powerful and good one. Thank you Tony G for preaching and teaching the truth!🙏🙏🙏
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