Top 10 Ways to Love an Enneagram Type Two

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Top 10 Ways to Love and Enneagram type 2
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[@AbbeyHowe]

Any partners of Type 2s who have more tips for us? Please share! 💙

[@jfish032]

Lol, I'm a two and these are great!! I would just emphasize that twos absolutely love love love (I believe) wholehearted attention and when their partner is listening to them with their eyes and ears with love and acceptance (no judgment). That is the greatest gift of all!

[@AbbeyHowe]

@@jfish032 love it!

[@baileybrinker5935]

My partner is an 8 but takes on some 2 characteristics in health. My MIL is a 2 and best friend is a 2 so I’m always trying to learn how to encourage my husband when he’s healthy and how to love my MIL and BFF well! ❤️❤️

[@henryvanweeren7233]

I believe my wife is a "waaay out there" Type 2---to the point where she would never dream of looking up this stuff and consider interactions, etc. of personality types. It took me years of careful observation just to find ONE thing she could do in a "self-indulgent" stress-reducing way. Our current COVID lock-down situations have scuppered most every opportunity that she had 18 months ago to de-stress. :( The research is ongoing.... ;) P.S.: Is it possible to have a number of enneagrams in a very close match?

[@Sacrengard]

We love attention, we love when people listen to us. So if we are talking to someone and they are not paying attention we kinda take it personal, very personal

[@alysegilliam2386]

You know you're a 2 when you watch this and go to send it to your boyfriend to help him out a little, then end up wondering what type he is so you can love him better 😅😂💖

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂 so funny, Alyse. Also, it makes me so unbelievably happy that you sent this to your bf. I hope he uses some of the tips to love you better!!

[@lindsaybullock7611]

Truth

[@courtneysander9381]

Alyse Brate that’s what I did when I found out about enneagram types! I sent the quiz to all of my loved ones to find out how to love them better!

[@Lightlybow]

How dare you call me out like this

[@kerricosmetics13]

I did the same thing!!!!

[@Lightlybow]

As a 2, this video legit made me cry?? That would all be so nice??

[@farihaiqbal7328]

same

[@darkmadder762]

I did too

[@rhea.treece]

same lmao

[@vsmith3]

Me too!! 😩 LOL!

[@emmahintz830]

Can someone please help me figure out if I am a enneagram 2. When listening to all of the 2s core desires and fears and everything I relate a lot to the feeling of wanting to be needed and doing things and hoping in return people will appreciate or do something for me back. When it comes to that I think I am a two but I also feel like I don’t overextended myself to help people. Of course if someone ask for help I’ll do it but I feel like I am not a regally really helpful person. It might be becuase I am only in high school but idk. I also feel like I get into conflicts sometimes. I read somewhere that 2s never say no but I feel like with my family I almost always don’t want to do what they ask like empty the dishwasher or clean my room. I read a few books on all the different types and I don’t really feel like I match any of the other core desires and fears but idk. Anything would help. Also maybe I am a 2w3.

[@ordinarylittlebastard3248]

I will summarize the advices in simple sentences: If you got into a relationship with a Two, it means you love them. So, MAKE THAT CLEAR. We often feel that you are taking pity on us and that we are not worthy of you. We rarely will talk about how we feel because we don't want to overwhelm you with our bad feelings and want to be there for you as a reliable shoulder to cry on when needed. If you don't reassure us that you love us, we might think you're taking us for granted. If we show how sad we are, then be there for us, because it is something you are rarely going to see, and we might think you don't care about us if you can't do that for that one moment.

[@fehaxo8452]

*taking notes for loving my gf better*

[@AbbeyHowe]

Yay! She will blossom fehaxo!

[@Genesis-dr8jd]

Ah yes, physical affection and verbal confirmation is my absolute weakness. And #6 is literally me whenever someone tells me they appreciate me or compliments me cause i feel needed lmao

[@ksjirafe]

Hi Abbey, I am a very strong Type 2 personality and would like to share the below: 1. Number 1 thing which we expect or need is "Understanding". It means, that when we have helped you cleaning dishes for 7 days one after other, it doesn't mean that we will help you on 8th day. Maybe we are tired or just don't feel to help on the 8th day, but rather read a newspaper. This time, don't force us, or yell at us for not helping, because then, we will get up and work like a robot (heartlessly) or feel to be treated like a robot. Be thankful and grateful, that we helped you for 7 days. Understand that we are not here to serve you always. 2. When we do so much for everyone, and specially family, can the family do something for us? This is not being selfish, but we have a heart of ourselves too, and want to have good cakes, good shirts, good perfumes. Here, when we are taking care of ourselves, don't punish us by taunting or making jokes, don't shout on us and in my words, don't make us stand in a witness box in a court where you are about to sentence a death to us. 3. Don't try to bind us. If we want to help someone, let us help! If you feel that we should not help, its your choice. We can help you too when it is needed. We find happiness in helping others, and we cannot be your way all the time. 4. Type 2 people need freedom. Freedom of thinking, freedom to sleep at any time, freedom to do whatever we want sometimes. We cannot be your way all the time. So, if you try to bind us with love, forcefulness, or responsibilities. We will only go away from them. 5. If you want us to make dishes at home, never complain that we don't do it. This will only make us not do it anytime. Make us feel good and make us remember - 5 years before, you washed dishes and you really did it well. Listening to this, we will get up and get the dishes washed immediately. So, complains don't work for us. Same for blaming us, scolding us, or resentment to us (giving it a shit) or taking us for granted. 6. Physical touch is very important. Hold our hands when saying Thanks to us. Even an eye contact or giving undivided attention to us will do magic. 7. We want importance by being patient with us. We have difficulty in telling what we feel or need and it takes time to come to the center of the circle. We may go round and round sometimes. So, be present till we come to the center. Don't rush or ask us to tell the main thought behind making the story. 8. We are not saying the world to be our way, but at least you can say that my way of showing love is discussing a problem with you, whereas your way of showing love is shaking hands or hugging. This will make us feel that we are loved and important for you and we will feel happy for it. 9. We are very possessive for friends and partners. Tell us often that you still love us and will be there for us even if you have many friends and family members.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Kushal Jirafe thanks for sharing your valuable insights, Kushal!

[@k2dogg86]

This is the most profound realization of what I’m going through within myself with my wife. The test has me as an even 1 / 4 and 2 is one point off both of them. We need understanding and lots of affection.

[@ghcheong]

@@AbbeyHowe I'd like to add that if we want to help you, don't reject us harshly. It's in our nature to help people. Also, if we care for someone and said someone is in trouble, we would be devastated to know that we were the last ones to find out and or we find it out from other people. We feel a lack of trust, closeness and dependency. All of these are crucial to a 2.

[@Soulbloom1]

There's a great book about a 2. It's called "The Giving Tree."

[@ScripsDylan]

The accuracy HURTS.

[@eartheaterrrbby]

:(

[@itsNinaLeeyo]

The funny thing is, growing up that was my favorite book and the only book I really remember about my childhood. Fast forward to today where I just took a test on Enneagram types and I got a 2. Mind. Blown.

[@baileybrinker5935]

That is the book I use to explain to children in my care that having boundaries is a good thing in relationships because the tree could’ve kept giving apples and branches had she set boundaries. 🤷🏻‍♀️ interesting

[@Soulbloom1]

@@baileybrinker5935 So true! She gave so much of herself, she had no resources left to grow more things for the person she wanted to love.

[@dorianaferrar9352]

And never tell a 2 that their love is inferior. 😭 I had someone tell me that once, and it truly broke my heart in half.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Doriana Ferrar Hi Dorianna! Thanks for watching and commenting. I’m sorry to hear that someone said that to you... sounds like they were not a good partner for you!! You are so worthy of love!

[@AquariumAA69]

Awww, that's so upsetting. My best friend is a 2 and if she told me that someone told her that they'd be good as dead. ( I love her)

[@bbhdd6181]

gosh...that would kill me :( I'm so sorry

[@gaybeansprout]

I started crying at the part about expressing gratitude because I've never been told that before and I didn't realize how much it affected me until hearing it out loud

[@djhallmighty]

As a 2, I once told a friend that I wrote things down about a previous conflict and ways that I felt hurt so we can process things easier. She rolled her eyes at me, and to this day, we haven't talked. But if she saw my intention, perhaps she would've acted differently. It has been half a year and I still feel the pain from that friendship loss. Type 2's want to feel understood for their motif beneath the things they're doing for others. If they don't feel validated for any of that, they will either force validation as an 8 or validate themselves as a 4. If you want to learn how to love a 2, how about this: Let. Them. Talk. Especially if their love language is Quality Time... and ESPECIALLY if they're an extrovert, which they probably are.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Let them talk! What a great piece of advice. Giving space for a two to express their feelings instead of just listening to YOURS!

[@djhallmighty]

​@@AbbeyHowe Indeed, one of my greatest pet peeve is when someone is telling me their side of the story but they don't let me share mine.

[@Jaimelaffoon]

My 2 husband is an introvert and it’s like pulling teeth to get him to talk and his love language is Physical Touch.

[@cameronmichael1860]

This comment made me cry just because I relate so hard

[@mikaylaleybovich6202]

Girl I’m a two and this was SCARY accurate. To be specific, wanting someone to force me into doing things I want to do was like healing balm hahaha this weekend I was so hurt because my husband made an off comment about not wanting to hike long but I’d been waiting to go hiking with him for so long! After watching this video he was like oh no!! He totally got it and apologized for the weekend because he finally understood why I was so hurt. (And I finally understood too! I was like why is this hurting me so bad lol??) pretty much everything else to was crazy accurate for me and opened my eyes so much. OH ALSO - feeling other people’s feelings in a fight. LIKE YES. As I’m getting healthier, I can actually say what I’m feeling in a fight which is so great because before I’d just try to empathize and never share how I was hurting. But most of the time I feel such deep hurts in a fight especially if what I’m saying hurts the other person! Knowing that really really helps. 😊 You are the first enneagram video person to actually accurately capture the two even in a funny way, but not in an annoyingly unhelpful way. I was frustrated with other videos (maybe it’s my pride 😆) just because it was always so shallow. But you CAPTURED IT SO WELL!!! You KNOW your enneagram numbers lol!!! Just wanted to say thank you, I sent this to my husband and my dad (my moms a two) and they both love it. Keep being you girl!! This is so helpful!! Can’t wait for your 8 video to come out because my sisters an 8! And 9, my dads a 9. 🥰😆❤️❤️❤️

[@jacklopez8413]

My wife is a 5 and I am a 2. I have to admit that I almost destroyed my marriage by my unhealthy 2 tendencies. Fortunately, she is also interested in learning from the Enneagram and loved your video on the 5. Thank you Abbey!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks for sharing Jack and you're so welcome! Keep up the good growth!

[@Jaylove777]

So on point!! I am a 2w3, and so is a close friend. So you can imagine how that goes, we are always pouring into each other. We also tend to communicate and talk about feelings a lot, as well as issues affecting others. Please be expressive when dealing with 2s! Let us know how much you appreciate us

[@Clone-hi2oi]

Wow this was totally accurate. Especially the needing physical affection and feeling loved without having to do things for people lol

[@lydia_3796]

"Don't let them give the gift card to someone else because I know they will." Lol one of my best friends is a 2. I bought her lunch one time and she wanted to give me a gift card she had received for Christmas to pay me back because she didn't have any cash. smh

[@LeashHolder21]

Really enjoyed this, Im a Type 2 and my wife is a Type 6. I always go above and beyond to do things for her, but I do it just because I love taking care of her and she shows me so much appreciation. Would love to see how to love a type 6!

[@jackhenry5009]

#2 is so right on. I totally take on the emotions of everyone in the room and it doesn’t help me go to crazy 8 when my needs are not being met and everyone is screaming.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Hi Jack! 👋 I'm pleased this resonated with you. I'm not a 2, but it's so helpful to know that 2s experience this so I can tuck that knowledge away for future conflicts!

[@lindsaybullock7611]

I love words of Affermation more then anything. If someone will leave me a note telling me they love me and that I am enough or they will sneak a note in my lunch or something I cherish that. As a 2 that is my love language...and physical touch as well. That is accurate.

[@courtneysander9381]

I’m a 2 and my love language is words of affirmation! Everything you said is right on the nose!

[@celeste8389]

I cried along with "Thank you for saying that...😭😭😭😭😭"

[@alanhowe851]

Emotional Rescue by The Rolling Stones is the national anthem of Enneagram 2’s.

[@AbbeyHowe]

hahah love this!

[@EphemeralHumanBeing]

OMG! Yes, yes, and yes!! I am a 2 and this HITS HOME COMPLETELY! Every single one!! My husband and I are learning about the types more and how to support each other.

[@davidcarnevale8885]

I'm a 2 but am single, I've realized these are true for a lot of friendships in my life. But I think part of that is because 2s are such relationship driven that this applies to everyone in our lives!

[@amandabousheley3189]

This is perfect! I'm a 2, aaaaand I'm a physical touch, every single thing resonated with me! Sooooo ready to see my husband's type! #7!! 😬😬😬

[@AbbeyHowe]

Gahhhhh this makes me so unbelievably excited to hear!! Thanks for the encouragement, Amanda. I hope to get #7 up soon.

[@marieb223]

I'm a 2 dating a 5... it's challenging some days because I feel everyone's emotions while he tends to feel more detached emotionally from the people around him. We still struggle everyday to figure out how to make each other feel valued and listened to. I feel like his interests and hobbies are given more attention than mine, and I struggle to keep him interested in the things that I am interested in. I'm getting more and more into reading enneagrams to see if it can help our relationship get better.

[@ikreer9777]

Five here. Yep, sounds right. I will tell you some things that worked for my 1 husband and I. On vacation, we made sure that we included activities that each of us wanted to do. You have no idea how many steam excursions and railroad museums I have been to. He got to go to art museums and hiking. At home, it was more of a struggle, but he redid the basement do my sewing/art room was right next to his train room. So we were close but still able to do our thing. Also, try to find ways to engage his curiosity about a topic. Fives are naturally curious, and finding an intriguing angle to a hobby may engage him. I survived the railroad museum not because I became interested in the workings of the steam engine, but in the stories of the people involved with them. How railroads changed the landscape, the workers, the heroes and villains, etc. Just remember he will probably never show emotions as much as you. The two of you need to find a balance that you both can handle. Tip: my five son and I have our best conversations in the car, because we aren't staring at each other and one of us is focused on the driving.

[@yoshikoromppel7662]

i know what you are talking about, being a 2 married for 30 years to a 5... But if you can work it out, there are also many up sides.

[@yourmum454]

I am an extrovert 2 married to an introvert 5 for 20 years, we only found out about enneagrams a few months ago and could pick each others type straight away.

[@bodhimartina6985]

As a fairly well adjusted two, integrating into 4, I have yet to find any one thoughtful enough who would take the time to listen to all 10. 😂 That’s why I’m now single, a writer learning to enjoy my own company. But there are days I do get lonely and need a warm touch or at least a phone call. NOT a Fing text! Yes it stirs my T8 into a burn. Thank you Abbey for listening ❣️

[@amandabraithwaite2389]

Infj type 2 here, being vulnerable. I saw this video and was like ooh click, got halfway through was not prepared to relate so hard and tear up. Maybe I should take some me time..... if I can squeeze it in. Thanks for the eye opener!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Amanda Braithwaite oh wow!! It definitely sounds like you need to take some time to take care of yourself!!

[@bbhdd6181]

I know this is a hella old comment but, INFJ type 2 here as well!

[@bridgetmartin4269]

My best friend just took an Enneagram quiz and I sent her the links to your videos. She said this video brought her to tears because it was so SPOT ON! I really appreciate your videos and the way you humorously and seriously bring to light the truths of the different Enneagrams! Thank You for your videos!! 😊

[@yourmum454]

I just learned of enneagrams a few months ago, this video is quite accurate. I am an extrovert 2, my main love language is physical touch but words of affirmation are important to me, also acts of service - I noticed one day that I felt really loved when I went to top up the sugar jar and my husband had already filled it up. I have trouble with receiving and asking for what what I need and I know I don't take care of myself like I should, I hardly ever buy anything for myself & I have a huge issue with rejection and not feeling good enough (not hearing back from job applications is a huge trigger for that one, growing up with a narcissistic mother doesn't help either) Last week my daughter asked me why I wanted to work when I already do so much (the wisdom of children) and I said that I need to be needed & involved, to be part of a team doing something & I realized that I really needed to take another look into the enneagram. I also cry at the drop of a hat, feel things deeply, emphasize with others, listen & look to help out where I can. I want to know that my contribution is seen, appreciated and valued.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks for sharing, Effi!!

[@Quita615]

This is eerily accurate to me-a 2. Thank you for this making this video! I’m learning to better recognize what I need to feel loved.

[@KeyHeir]

Thank you Abby! I'm a type 8 male. My woman is a type 2.

[@yoshikoromppel7662]

Thank you very much for all the work and effort you have put in this work! This series has finally helped me to really see - and feel - the difference between a 2 and a 4 and to (gladly) accept that I am a 2.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Glad I could help Yoshiko!

[@Faeriefungus]

I cried before you did in the video. Omg 🥺

[@sonyamallett6402]

Please finish 6-9😊 I’m desperate to show love to my teenage 8 daughter! It’s so hard!!

[@AbbeyHowe]

I'm working on the rest Sonya! Hang tight!

[@donnaparsons4371]

I'm so glad I found this channel. I'm a 2 trying to get healthy and it is so much easier to hear about my fears and weaknesses the way you present them. thank you.

[@heritage.home.crochet]

Another way to show love to a 2 is to help them complete their to-do list. This will make them feel like they are seen and all of the hard work they do is acknowledged. And then they will not have any excuse to take that much needed break! When I come home and my husband has started washing clothes I instantly feel so loved and appreciated because he knows it was on my mind and I needed help but wouldn't ask 🥰.

[@sydneyrosser8714]

This was really well done and detailed! How long does it take you to make your videos (because it definitely seems like you put a lot of work into them!)? Thank you for making this; my sister's a 2 and this'll be very helpful. I've subbed now and I look forward to the rest of the series! (Type 6 here)

[@sezztooley]

I am a two and I long for this type of love. all I want is for someone to be intentional with me and not overwhelm those in my life. I hate physical touch but the rest of this is me af. I don't have a partner right now and I don't want one for a while but i'm struggling with expressing my needs in my close friendships. I would love if you could do a video on friendships if possible! I'm soaking up all of this knowledge ❤

[@jameskennedy6797]

Can you do one that puts a focus on the male two. There aren't many of us but we could use the help.

[@theintrovertedchick6757]

I like this new series! Basically the type 2 tips would be great for all types haha be a good human!

[@AbbeyHowe]

agreed!! 🙌🏽

[@janiedecastro20]

It’s funny because I already know about these things but hearing someone else say the right ways to love me (Type 2) made me cry on the spot LOOOL

[@rmarli17]

I'm an 8 married to a 2. We are learning lots about each other everyday.

[@khusheekriti4256]

This resonated with me so much 😭🥺

[@bobbafett7790]

married to a Two, these are great. so true

[@mirracabote7192]

perfect. this perfectly describes what i need. it actually made me cry bc i feel actually seen and understood…which is a very 2 response i guess. Thank you so much

[@amberkauffman2770]

Yes Yes Yes! I am a 2 and will be showing this to my husband! However, for me, my love language is not physical touch but words of affirmation!

[@robertdjohnson8698]

This is very hard for a 7 to figure out. Just tell us! We need help on this- the 2 doesn't easily express what they want directly at all, and they "hate to have to say it". Also, Going to an 8 under stress makes it totally confusing for the 7.

[@ammarkhalil34v]

I'm a type 8. Thank you so much for this video!

[@gabrielrodriguez5043]

You have just gained a new subscriber! 🙏 Keep up the great work

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thank you so much! Glad to have you here!

[@JenniferJiang2013]

Abbey, I feel called out as the Type 2

[@KendrixTermina]

this video series is an excellent ressource

[@seekinghappy]

Type 2 here and I loved this list! Accurate. New subscriber here.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Welcome!

[@stressedsimone483]

3 is so me lmao. I got really burnt out a couple months ago, so my friends forced me to take a break for a week.

[@cecepho]

Watching this video to improve my self love

[@haleycraft5948]

When are you going to post about the other numbers? 5,6,7,8,&9? Dying to see 6 & 8! :)

[@catherinele949]

omg. straight to my heart. I can't.

[@ruralsmile2667]

In high school I was mis-typed as a 9. All the tests I took there after were a tie for 2 or 9. Your videos are the first to break the tie. I believe I’m a 2

[@nicholeisaacs2480]

This is so spot on!!!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks for watching and commenting, Nichole! 💜

[@saragracebbbmorrison7261]

Yes!! I love this!! I need this

[@xladyvalkyriex]

Does this count for friends as well? I have several type 2 friends that I'm trying to be intentional with. 😊 I'm a 9 and can relate to 2s a lot, so I can understand and sympathize with them.

[@collective1515]

I feel like these "How to love a x" videos are basically telling you to act as the other person would. The two is thoughtful, therefore they likewise appreciate thoughtfulness, so thus be thoughtful.

[@love4360]

Yyyeeeesss ❤️💕 I’m a type 2 and this is so true

[@alucardduh2456]

I am type 5 and this helped me a lot about my boyfriend. Thank you!

[@AbbeyHowe]

I'm so glad!

[@teresaott6274]

wow. female 8 and male 2...It's only the Grace of God that we stayed together long enough to discover the enneagram. I appreciate this video, but some of those little things don't apply ( no way is he going for a massage or spa day. LOL) However, I heard you and I know where I am missing the mark.

[@ladyvignette]

Thanks. My dad is a 2 and yeah, needed to see this.

[@AbbeyHowe]

So glad it helped! Thanks for watching, Charity. 💜

[@alex_dragon]

2 here and oof...I felt point #6. Y'all don't know what it means to hear you're lovable without doing anything at all. Like salve to the wound. Another tip-really really try to refrain being critical. 2's work incredibly hard to make their partners happy, so be sure to take extra care when bringing an issue to the table.

[@mattblissett1966]

Will you please do one for type 5s?

[@mikewren9986]

YOU are Brilliant!! Thanks, Have you seen the work of Richard Rohr - He had been my mentor years ago!!

[@jacklopez8413]

Wow! This was spot on. This is so me. 🤣😊😳

[@AbbeyHowe]

🤣😊😳

[@FuntimeDelilah]

I'm a two and number 2 hit me hard. It is true atheist for me.

[@margaretjudice8944]

I am a 2. This was good!

[@baileybrinker5935]

I feel like a lot of this applies to anybody in a true relationship.

[@rakhichakraborty5164]

im a 2 and this made me cry xd

[@SwatiSingh-is5kc]

Seeing this for myself

[@SwatiSingh-is5kc]

So happy to made this.. Especially being thoughtful point

[@SwatiSingh-is5kc]

Also point about need for cooling time by Type 2 was spot on

[@Kayraeraeokay_official]

As a 2 these are great!!

[@hausofjulian]

As a 2, i kinda wanna give this to my person ,,, but i don't wanna be appear too needy or demanding :< HELP

[@olaosman2062]

Which ennegram type is the best partner to type 2?

[@jfish032]

I am a two and this is all true.. just listen to us and don't make a fuss 😁 k thx bye 👋

[@Adventurer4JC]

*2 Um....you aren't supposed to give gift cards away :)????

[@innanninna]

omggg ❤️ true

[@Undisputedkingdom24]

thumbs up

[@AbbeyHowe]

thanks Jozabad!

[@hspolomo18]

I feel so seen. Ha!

[@kinsleyperkins9511]

They don't want to be seen as TWO much work??

[@AbbeyHowe]

HA I see what you did there 😉

[@farihaiqbal7328]

I'm a type 2 watching this

[@AbbeyHowe]

hello 👋

[@ScripsDylan]

I feel SEEN. Is it common to only have one 2 in a friend group? Because I can think of literally only one other person who might be a 2 who I'm very close to but we're not part of the same circle, it's just the two of us who spend a lot of time together and sometimes with my 5 wife. She plays video games and chimes in once in a while while he and I talk about deep emotions 😂

[@helentf7055]

Wow! Abbey this was brilliant. I am a 2 and I love when people remember the small details about what I like e.g. if my husband does the groceries and buys fruits I like that he doesn't like I feel valued. I also NEED cool off time if we disagree.

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I cried while she pretend cried during the skit, yikes