Oh I hear ya. You can buy theobromine powder. That's the chemical in chocolate that makes you feel great. Sprinkle a little of that in your coffee or your food each day, and you get the same feeling MINUS the OXALATES. But I'm assuming you love the taste and I don't blame you. I do NOT wish on you a horrible painful kidney stone experience like I had. Once you get that, you don't care how great chocolate is anymore.