Suzanne Vega - Luka | The story behind the song | Top 2000 a gogo

[@tmo4330]

I have never been able to listen to this song without crying. I am now 63 years old.

[@myriaddsystems]

There is no time, in the mind

[@Tomangel61]

63 here too yup.

[@Lonewolf1961-s9z]

Same here. And I am the same age! I could easily change the words and title the this song to “The roommate I married”.

[@mindtones770]

My father was a Luka too. He broke the cycle for me. Nothing but respect for my beloved dad. Rest in Peace my idol. I love you.

[@r0dpm]

Break bad cycles & start good ones.

[@michaelbrown7561]

It takes a great man to do that.

[@Reason1717]

Mindtones, To all the Great fathers out there, like yours...a bow of respect.

[@leonaRt7470]

Reason1717 a bow of respect to warmhearted People like you! 👍🏻

[@leonaRt7470]

Your father was a great man! Stopping this vicious cycle takes truly a great human being and by doing this for you, he made the world a better place! Deepest respect!!

[@soupdragonuk]

This song spoke to me as a teenager. I had been physically and emotionally abused by both my father and step-mother. It was so bad I actually went to school one day with blood in my hair and on my face. I never went home that evening. I spent the school day in the staff room while my future was decided upon. Then years later I hear this masterpiece. It broke a piece of my heart as I recalled those awful days. She was right to record this, as it speaks to all those who suffered at the hands of others, so thank you Suzanne, you spoke to millions with a heartbreaking song.

[@libipretty8105]

Big hug to you, David. And if you are a father, I know you treat your kids with plenty of love, consideration and understanding. I love you♥

[@ladybirdbrig]

🧡

[@soozshooz]

🙏🏼🫶🏼

[@soupdragonuk]

@Laila Livsdatter Thank you for your kindness

[@sandrapaisley932]

My Lord I feel your pain I grew up in a violent family when my father buggered off I still continued to be sexually abused by two members of my family you hold on tight because we are stronger than they are

[@KevMac58]

Thank you Suzanne for this song. I was beat by my father with a belt all the time when I was a kid so bad that I couldn't sit at my desk at school because of the black an blues all over my body. I was so relieved that my mother left my father when I was 6. Alcohol played a big part but I got married and we had 3 boys an never did i touch my boys when they broke a window or do something wrong an they grew up just fine.Im so glad I broke the chain because my dad an grandfather used to get the belt from there dads.

[@foreversunrise8749]

I was in the children's home when this song came out. An orphan and victim of so much abuse. It seemed like I was the only person in the world that was going through these troubles. When Suzanne Vega finally decided to let this song be released, it is one of the most pivotal songs of the 80s, in my opinion. Countless numbers of lost souls were found, and made to feel like they would never be alone again. No matter what you suffer from, no matter what you have been through, It can always get better. Music helps us through. Thank you

[@ftgphoto]

Her voice didn't even age a day!

[@pappy451]

@JeremyJo . . . she sounded great for sure .

[@KretinoSantino]

and it's not your business anyway ...

[@bertthebird2341]

Her face did, unfortunately.

[@KretinoSantino]

@@bertthebird2341 You must have been at top of your class. Genius.

[@pappy451]

@@bertthebird2341 . . . rotflmao .

[@nairbsggirb1718]

Hadn't heard this in 30 years, and it hit me like a ton of bricks again today, just like I was still a child cowering in fear from my mother's unrelenting violence and insults. Thank you, Suzanne, for giving a voice to the voiceless.

[@MsSimpleMovies]

Please forgive me, please allow me to be the voice of motherhood for just a second. Child you is beautiful and dreamy and hopeful and funny! I’m so moved by just your smile, and I pray for you all the time. You’re a good boy, and all of us mothers are so grateful we get to be honored with you in our lives. Be yourself, because you’re wonderful!

[@irishcountrygirl78]

I'm with you, l hold hands with you, hiding from my mother too. We got the belt because my father drank. She never wanted us, my mother. I broke the cycle with my children. They will never know what that fear feels like. I'd die for them.

[@donaldhendrickx3757]

I feel bad for you, I am a survivor as well. I want for you to find peace The power of forgiveness works wonders, Forgiving has nothing to do with the person you are forgiving, it has everything to do with you letting go. most times the person you forgiving could care less. You just need to let it go and LIVE!

[@AmericanFlyOnTheWall]

We are survivors. So many people don't understand that a mom can be far more abusive than a dad, physically and emotionally.

[@markmarsh27]

I was abused as a child and 32 years after its release I still cry every time I hear My Name Is Luka ... I LOVE Susanne Vega for writing it. ...It's not JUST socially important .... it's a Pop Music Masterpiece.

[@TheLULUTOMAS]

I love her too ,I grow up in Brazil listen her songs 👏👏👏👏👏❤❤❤🇺🇸🇧🇷

[@garybaris139]

Mark, you are not alone. This song had special meaning to a lot of us.

[@Glaaki13]

Hugs from Denmark

[@kevinmarmartinez9267]

😭 I feel you.

[@davidtice371]

Thank you for your strength in surviving. I hope you have found wholeness and peace. You are a hero.

[@nowiknow1384]

I was a Luka too. I lived on the other end of the country. Ive always loved this song. I love you Suzanna Vega. Thank you.

[@theonlyredspecial]

What a charming and talented lady. Lovely to see her again after all these years. It’s a song which is part of my childhood. I hope she reads the nice comments here and it makes her feel good.

[@sergs1963]

This was one of the best, if not the best song of 1987. I remember always hearing this song while on my commute to and from my first job after college. God I miss the glorious 80s!

[@DwayndibbVids]

Song is still underrated till this day. Not by the smart people

[@mrmagassi]

Suzanne is a true artist and what a wonderful soul. Luka is forever a haunting song.

[@noticeddamian]

This song is so good that prince gave it a standing ovation on his own at the 88 music awards.

[@gnas3390]

Prince grew up in an abusive home.

[@g.p.d.2220]

I’m an old guy now and survived abuse. This song reminds me of the terror I felt back then. It also makes me proud of how far I’ve come and how much farther I still need to go.

[@topologyrob]

Heroic to face your trauma

[@ColetteHedges-wt1oe]

Me too mental abuse ❤

[@samuelcastagnera847]

My dad was my idol too, I think about him every day. Rest in peace the best dad in the world.

[@ShyeNYC]

Nice documentary! Growning up in the 80s, I thought Suzanne Vega and Tracy Chapman were EVERYTHING!

[@chrismoyers4382]

I'm a Luka. Barely made it out of those years. I'm a survivor along with all the other's who made it. My heart goes out to the one's who didn't😢. Today, those memories are somewhat buried. The Lord is so wonderful. Cast all your anxieties and pain upon Him, for it matters to Him concerning you.

[@aniuskavargas8872]

I survived

[@eyecomeinpeace2707]

Susanne is still very much an incredibly beautiful woman today and her voice sounds just like she did over 30 years ago. I wish she would make more albums. She is a highly underrated artist.

[@Internutt2023]

And, the recording studio can save money by not needing a tech running "Auto Tune" as well 😂

[@PikkaBird]

@@Internutt2023 Oftentimes an artist is actually able to sing the songs way better than what you hear in the recorded versions (and even on stage, because Autotune variants are used live too). It's the labels that insist on "pitch correction" so the artist is made to sing the songs more plainly so as to not throw the software off. It robs the music of any kind of life when a singer isn't allowed to actually put their heart and soul into it. Of course there ARE "artists" who are just faces with a synthetically enhanced voice behind them, but sooo many just aren't allowed to actually show what they're capable of.

[@garydunn3037]

I can identify totally with that song because as a child, I grew up in a home of domestic violence. My father was really an angry man for most of the time. He would regularly abuse my mother, both physically and verbally. Sometimes me, and my three brothers would also get a beating. I always dreaded him coming home from work, because I just never knew what kind of a day he had, and he always took his anger and frustration out on us when he got home. He has since passed away, and although I have found inner peace, and forgiven him for what he did, it has left me scarred mentally and emotionally. I think, towards the end, he tried to make up for those early years in my life by doing things for me, he even drove me to see Suzanne perform "Live" twice. I am now in my early 60's, but as I said, my early years have left scars. Thank you Suzanne for addressing this difficult issue.

[@victorhugotoledocofre1366]

05:09 "Most of us are abused in life in some way or another." Greatest truth ever.

[@davidtice371]

Yes. I am at peace and grateful for my life.

[@Axess-sv8nq]

The trick is surviving it and learning from it.

[@papawiskas]

I was that kid that was being abused when this song came out. This song meant a lot to me then and now. I love her for it. Thank you Suzanne! Much respect! I stood tall.

[@daveh2612]

DexterAugustusMae Hope you are doing well now. Seriously. And I’m sorry

[@mjcamck]

Good day, Dexter. Yes, me too. I, later, moderated (as a volunteer) a survivors of child abuse support group for 10 years (still keep in contact.) I hope you know there ARE others willing to listen & offer empathy. ONLINE chat rooms are available if the are no physical meetings in your area. Maybe you already participate in a support group. If not, as a fellow survivor, I highly recommend it. BEST WISHES TO YOU ALWAYS.

[@itgetter9]

@@mjcamck God bless you for your work. I wish you a Happy New Year, and may you continue to help many.

[@mjcamck]

@@itgetter9 - Thank you and Best Wishes for Health & Joy in the New Year of 2020.

[@itgetter9]

@@mjcamck Thank you!

[@ArcturanMegadonkey]

She's still so very beautiful after all these years. fabulous to hear the story behind the song

[@joe-s5r]

The actual Luka is a girl, and I think she's OK now after spending 25 years in therapy. In 2021 Vega admitted that she was Luka saying “There was abuse in my family, I am actually Luka.” Her father Edgardo Vega abused her. You'll find the full interview in an article from NJarts. It's linked on the wikipedia page on this song, and also on the wikipedia page of her father. He was a renowned novelist. It's no wonder that building still haunts her dreams.

[@nycjohnb]

Same beautiful voice. Same beautiful smile.

[@iosifmariano2310]

I remember being six years-old, it was 1987, me and my mother were in the market buying the groceries and there was this record store in the middle of the street and we entered and I asked for Suzanne Vega's release: Solitude Standing... I was in love with Luka song... My mom bought my first record that day... I was so happy I literally played the cassette over and over again for months... I will never forget that day thanks to my mom my love for music records started... now after more than 30 years I still remember this song with love :))))

[@steverdms]

Amazing how powerful that song remains after all these years. That's the hallmark of a great song.

[@Digrient]

She has such a beautiful handwriting. Remarkable that this song came out perfect with the first draft.

[@lynda78]

This song will never stop being significant. An organic thought-provoking evergreen.

[@tfsheahan2265]

It made a huge impression at the time. One of a kind song. Glad I watched.

[@merson812]

It's timeless.

[@glennfromthebronx]

Hmmm....the 10,000 Maniacs song, "What's The Matter Here?" from their IN MY TRIBE album was also released in 1987....but I think it charted AFTER "Luka"...also talks about child abuse from the perspective of a third person. What I think is most powerful about these types of songs: they don't "beat you over the head"....and instead draw the listener in....with a kind of empathy. We all know that child abuse occurs....and in both songs, there's no 'plan of action'...just an unwritten plea to be more aware...and then, perhaps, to get more involved....as neighbors. I saw Suzanne in concert at NYC's Beacon Theater when her first album came out....terrific performer...impressive songwriter.

[@dwightmcqueen5771]

As a writer myself I must say this is the best song ever wrote so powerful

[@mjcamck]

Christmas Eve, 2019. As a survivor of severe child abuse, THANK YOU SUZANNE VEGA! I endured cruelty even at Christmastime, EXCEPT from my warm, wonderful FRIENDS. My parents both inflicted & enabled physical & emotional violence until I was 18 & moved out. I endured emotional cruelty for a few years after that before cutting them off. My own kind husband & I have given our own children a home filled with GENUINE LOVE. Just an aside: BILL MEDLEY, OF THE RIGHTEOUS BROTHERS, WROTE W/ CANDOR ABOUT THE PAIN HE ENDURED, as an UNWANTED child, in his autobiography: "A Righteous Brother's Memoir." TO ALL: I highly recommend it & if you get the chance, CATCH HIS CONCERT as well as Suzanne's. Peace On Earth to ALL.

[@juliaconnell]

Martha sweetie, I am so sorry this happened to you - you didn't deserve this - not one little bit. I'm so happy that you have found the love, support and happiness that you do deserve. sending you much love and

[@mjcamck]

@@juliaconnell - Good morning, Ms. Connell. I appreciate your message. I assure you, I'm a mature adult, w/ a Master's Degree in Counseling Psychology who has been assisting fellow abuse survivors w/ their own recovery for 15 years. The 1st point I emphasize in one of the regular support group meetings I moderate is YOU DID NOT "deserve" it. That DOES help them relax. I make it clear that everyone in the room deserves RESPECT & dignity, not pity, which, also, allows for positive healing. Thank you for your kind statements. PS- I met Bill Medley after a local concert. I thanked him for the comfort his candor about his own history provided for my support group members. He thanked me for donating my time to run survivor support groups. Nice guy!

[@eric79boz]

Hi Martha, isn't it wonderful and mindblowing how much music can make a difference in our lives. With some artists and songs it can often feel like 'coming home' from all the hardships life throws at you. So happy that you found someone who values you and that the two of you can pass that on to your children. Have a great 2020! :)

[@heliaalves9062]

Everyone that was abused as a child dreams of having their own loving home. I'm so glad that dream came true for you

[@juliaconnell]

@@mjcamck I hope you didn't read any pity in my message - simply the intended understanding and compassion - while my path has been different to yours, not as deep or as dark (never physical) - was more mental and emotional - from everyone in my family, my mother, my 4 older siblings - even my uncle at times (all except my dad, who was my rock, but passed 20 years ago) (which is on-going, just spent the last two days crying after my family called me on Christmas, the things that were said to me, the _way_ they were said). as I said, compassion, understanding, respect, never pity. I admire and RESPECT you for taking on your pain and hurt, healing & helping yourself - and going that next step - doing so much good in the world by helping others *respect*

[@Andy-mh8sw]

How amazing that her manager was the one who encouraged her to release a song because it carried an important message, and that he clearly loved music, rather than simply being in it for the $$$

[@creightonjason]

A true artist

[@ItisMoody]

That's exactly what I thought when she said that about him! That'd such a great manager, instead of the monsters who abuse the female artists they manage!

[@demipal]

It made all the difference in the world.

[@NVRAMboi]

Additional respect after this interview. I appreciate her approach and attitude. Salute.

[@sunsetman22]

exactly, she comes across completely unpretentious, just as an incredibly talented and gifted artist with a knack for observational, poetic songwriting.

[@steveb7310]

That’s how great art is created.

[@jeanchardonnay5627]

Very important song for many people. Thank you so much Suzanne...

[@carveylover]

This song was on a compilation CD my mother had. We were listening to it one day in the car I must have been 12 maybe younger and I loved this song; I remember her pausing the song and discussing it, the meaning and the importance of it, she told me if I ever see a kid in my class with bruises they can explain, say something to an adult. It really allowed us to have an open and mature conversation, she told me she had been abused my boyfriend and how she got out from that situation. This song is forever embedded in my mind because of that conversation that day.

[@Ianhaddon]

Prince wrote her a letter telling her how good this song was.

[@muzikxpress]

How cool is that right??

[@Digrient]

@@takayukiishiguro You're so right. Here is a link to the Tweet: twitter.com/suzyv/status/724728422006554624

[@SmithMrCorona]

It's ok - Prince wasn't always right.

[@seanm3226]

I think Prince had ulterior motives.

[@ronaldcammarata3422]

@@SmithMrCorona No one is, including you.

[@stevemorse108]

Great song great singer and very classy and intelligent lady...no pathos or trying to use a cause to boots her career----100% auntentic.

[@lionheartroar3104]

Still a great song in 2018

[@KristineMaitland]

and 2019.

[@Don.Challenger]

And as needed now as then - and sadly probably at any time or place you pick.

[@makers_lab]

and SV is clearly still firing on all cylinders. Loved this when it was released, still love it now.

[@Don.Challenger]

@Your Favourite Comment - Gosh, you're right.

[@Don.Challenger]

@Your Favourite Comment, How have you been aging - getting better or starting to forget some of the words? I might be slipping now and then myself when I'm singing in the shower.

[@zenpaganwarrior]

Can I just say, God bless you, Ms. Vega, for writing this beautiful, simple song with such a touching, sharp focus and social commentary. I love your work!

[@solarjoel]

Great story. Fascinating to listen to how this classic came together. Kudos to her manager for pushing to get this brilliant number out for the world to hear. Absolutely love this song and the acoustic shorts of Suzanne singing it in the video. Awesome. Beautiful song, beautiful person, beautiful voice.

[@Wildersport]

When this song came out I was a kid who had friends that were getting abused. This song haunts me to this day it's both beautiful and soul wrenching.

[@irishcountrygirl78]

I'd curl up and cry to the lyrics of this in the 80s, my older brother had it on a mix tape and it felt like she was talking to me...it was so lonely back then. We couldn't stop my mother from beating us, a shoe, a belt, over nothing, she just did it daily. The 80's sucked.

[@toddjones6463]

She is still beautiful

[@Nimesay1]

She looks fab!

[@randallmockoskijr4140]

She is still very attractive.. Suzanne Vega is!

[@patricklaureys1249]

35 years after her debut album, and I still have a crush on her. :)

[@robtierney5653]

Life goes on, but pretty eyes and a nice smile last forever.

[@cmwang6091]

And the voice!

[@psyclotronxx3083]

She has simple good looks. Very attractive woman with a wonderful personality.

[@dahawk8574]

A lovely soul.

[@EA-58]

I Agree

[@plusbonus1165]

Had.....

[@psyclotronxx3083]

@@plusbonus1165 she's still good a looking woman

[@Doodlyscott]

I agree 100% i would love to meet her in person.

[@vamps_rock]

This one always gave me chills. Don't know how anyone can mistake the story for anything other than what it is. PS She has beautiful handwriting as per that notebook with the lyrics.

[@themirrorsofmymind]

Well, my abusive, sadistic mother once said she liked this song... because it was about "battered women."

[@artedeluka]

My name is Luka. In Belgium people would ask me, from the 2nd floor? So that is how i got to know the song from a young age. But only at 13years old when I started to understand English better, I realised about what is was. And I felt a bit angry, cause it was as if it was a spell... I haven't been hit physically (a lot), but I have been yelled at every day, even when I came downstairs to get a cuddle, cause I couldn't stop crying from feeling so lonely.. And now 20years later I still have problems falling asleep because of this. But I do like the song, and I will always appreciate it, although it also comes with a bitter taste. My sweetness will always shine through, and that is what it is all about. No matter how dark it gets, the darkness is there, so we can show our light, so the stars can be visible for all of us. The darkness is the space where the light can shine bright. Otherwise we wouldn't see the stars... like the artist of this song..Thank you Suzanne!

[@elenahaldy6525]

At 55 the effects of the brutal physical emotional abuse don't ever fully go away.The person who brought you into this world did this to me.I asked her why and she said it was because I didn't cause her problems and she took out her frustrations on me.This song always made me cry because I am the child in this song.

[@pterafirma]

Wow, I have nearly the exact same two dogs! They're beautiful, and I can tell they're as much an emotional anchor for you as mine are for me.

[@stevieb.5836]

I hope you know it wasn’t your fault and that you are loved.

[@pauline4581]

God bless you

[@kickbam213]

Sorry but its not about that kind of abuse.. In the form and words used in sentence represent a deeper issue from "kick a dog". But still its anti abuse but dont say you are the child in the song if you are a victim of "kick a dog". Still sad that you were that dog

[@manuela.8676]

Me too.

[@gpeddino]

The upbeat arrangement contrasting with the sad lyrics makes this song for me. In my mind, it’s almost as if the arrangement is trying to make up for all the pain in Luka’s life and wishing him a better future.

[@LeopoldoNotarianni-rk9vv]

In some ways Nowhere Man, We Can Work it Out were a little like this in that it was alternating between upbeat and then the sad or more like the deep and meaningful part of the song would come in.

[@Alex-xn8pq]

My ex loved this song, until I told her it was about child abuse. She is the daughter of two alcoholics, one active, one "recovered".

[@geraldodonnell2595]

I survived a violent childhood & much more. Thank you for writing and singing that song not only for a recording but also live on SNL. ❤

[@Midlandsgoat]

From the first time I heard her, Suzanne Vega has been one of my favourite female artists. Fantastic diverse songwriting.

[@thisismonitor4099]

It was a very powerful song, but I have to also say that the entire instrumental is a work of genius. Just exceptional.

[@hoyageorge]

Absolutely. It's what brings me back to the song time and time again in spite of the fact the lyrics invariably bring me to tears (which is never a good look at the gym when this song pops up on my playlist).

[@michaelgreen7941]

I have been listening to Suzanne since approx 1987. I feel in love with her first album. I noted at the time that rarely anyone produces a second album as good as the first. Suzanne's second album was even better than the first. She has been on my playlist for over thirty years. How fortunate am I. Thanks Suzanne.

[@hazimahmedmurad]

Listen to Del Amitri - Twisted

[@kennethmaese4622]

Me too

[@TheHumbuckerboy]

I have to say that I love her first album more than her more commercial sounding second album .

[@traxions]

I saw a performance of her 2 years ago. It was verg good and great voice stil.

[@519forestmonk9]

Solitude standing is a nearly perfect album. I love it all these years later

[@firewaterbydesign]

I remember this song all too well. Being a survivor of child abuse, this song touched my heart in a way that I cannot explain, because until I heard this song, I thought that I was alone. Thank you for letting me know that I was not alone back then.

[@waynemasters]

I'm so thankful that somebody took the time to meet with this timeless artist... And to talk about a song that exposed a societal wrong and helped so many people through difficult times, knowing that they are not alone ❤️

[@skystann]

A hugely underrated singer songwriter. Luka is an anthem for awareness of child abuse. Beautiful voice and intelligent narrative. 😢

[@joeyspider]

I love you....Suzzz thanks for wrote this song you.... was my best company in child teens time and makes me strong in my sad-bad life..... thanks

[@edwinisaac3802]

Her voice doesn't change....She's still beautiful.

[@ikeesses5488]

Great song, timeless classic!!!!

[@galford76]

Your manager was right! Timeless and beautiful song.

[@renabrown2946]

Such a beautiful song, but so sad. Makes me cry. So fortunate to have had a happy childhood. 😢

[@MylotheMask]

This song reaches my soul every time even 30 years later, a lot of sadness but this song was very uplifting in a time of darkness❤

[@TheStuport]

The Best Christmas Present I got for 2018 was seeing this video....... Cheers Everyone

[@markn.roberts1168]

I was 16 years old when this came out. Having been abused I cry every time. Not because of bad memories. But because there are still thousands of children in the US that are still abused.

[@alukuhito]

That's only increasing during the Trump Administration. A bunch of careless, sexist, money-hungry losers on top, and it all trickles down. If the president of the free world can grab her by the pussy, then why can't I? He's successful by being arrogant, so why shouldn't I be arrogant as well?

[@cappystrano1]

@@alukuhito maybe because you’re also a total idiot.

[@seanmcneill8899]

This lady is an angel on earth, happy new year Suzanne. Greetings from Ireland 😉

[@marconoahu2]

Wow, she sings it with the same beautiful voice all these years later.

[@danielnewton2821]

Such an awesome song and your voice is still so beautiful 🤩

[@eric79boz]

So I was eight when this song came out and I loved it, but I'm from Holland. So, my English wasn't good enough to grasp what the song was about really. So then a few years later I was riding my bike to school and the song came on the radio on my walkman. And it just stopped me in my tracks. It hit me like a brick. Probably because the instrumentation is quite upbeat the difference is so stark. This song is etched in my soul. Thanks Suzanne! :) her looks and voice haven't aged btw....

[@johanvangelderen289]

I noticed that the subtitles in this video are in Nederlands.

[@eric79boz]

@@johanvangelderen289 Hi Johan, I guess because Top 2000 a gogo is a Dutch production. Funny enough I hadn;t even noticed it hahaha

[@phoebexxlouise]

Even when I speak the language, sometimes the true meaning of a song hits you many years later when you know every word but you never saw it that way

[@nirfz]

i was 7 when it came out and i can relate to what you wrote, it took me years too to realize what it is about. Just not while listening in a Walkman, but laying on the couch all alone listening to the radio. The song is still often played in the radio here in Austria, and i am pretty sure that the majority of people listening have absolutely no clue. (Not just because less people are able to speak english than in the Netherlands. Also because it is easier to just listen to the meldoy and not the lyrics if it is in a scond/foreign language)

[@wearemilesfromnowhere4630]

I was 26 and in my first year of marriage when this came out. When I heard it, I fell apart and landed in to therapy for years to come to terms with the rape, beatings and molestations my siblings and I grew up with. I didn't like it but until then, I thought it was normal. Thank you Susan...

[@bootes53]

Hope you are doing OK...

[@michaelandrews4403]

2:49 - That voice is still off the scale. I am now 58 and both my parents are deceased and I shed not one tear for either of them. There is not a single occasion, that I can recall in my 58 years, where I ever felt a desire to hug either of my parents: not from 0 to 58. The load loses its impact but you wonder, for ever, if there could have been so much more to this journey.

[@claucemicro1080]

Michael Andrews 🥺 I hope that you heal.

[@rommelerwin6810]

Healing for you bro :)

[@estherrenee55]

I am 64. Verbal, physical and sexual abuse is all I ever got from mother, stepfather and father. Never kissed, hugged or told that I was loved. It makes for a complicated and painful life. Never got therapy because it was so ingrained in me that no one cared, so who would listen? How I wish that no child ever had to endure abuse.

[@rommelerwin6810]

Esther Renee Rodriguez-Gueits may healing be upon you. You are a brave soul and God loves you very much. Nobody can take that love away from you. Smile always, I care. 😀

[@beller8501]

@@estherrenee55 my heart goes out to you its possible to heal and break free just ask and the right pepole will help you

[@beckwil0852]

I never knew much about this lovely lady. Watching this video made me just adore her. Great song by a beautiful and brilliant artist.

[@joncampos5551]

I’ll never figure out what was worse: the abuse I endured as a child or the inability to get people to believe that my parent “would do something like that”. They could always put on quite a show when they needed to.

[@maddymud]

my sisters had a teacher like this who was like a gothic horror novel -- torturing the stutterers, slamming kids fingers in desks -- making them wear actual dunce caps. When the parents came in it was -- my trip to Europe in slides! I'm teaching your kids far away culture!

[@marciaannedonahue463]

Yes, I can relate - My mother's extended family, with the exceptions of her brother and sister, were quite adept at putting on a show and all the while arranging for me to be trafficked and serial-raped as a young girl, but that wasn't the worst part - The WORST part was telling everyone I was crazy and didn't know what I was doing/saying, thus totally discrediting me whenever I tried to seek help from anyone/anywhere. I was, however, lucky to have had my father, who tried to protect me up to a point.

[@doctordootch]

You, too? Same here.

[@AnnaLVajda]

Yeah and kids are taught they are not allowed to talk about it it's private so then society even shames them for testifying disgusting the willful ignorance that enables it. Victim shaming and so forth or advocates for victims silenced also.

[@Kenaroni]

Great song from a great album, “Solitude Standing”. When this song came out, it was everywhere. At first, you might have thought it was a nice jangly tune. But then you heard it again, actually listening to the lyrics, and you realized what it was about. Then comes that line, “They only hit until you cry”. Sung from the perspective of a child who is being hit and doesn’t understand why. It still gives me goosebumps when I hear it today.

[@peggyfranzen6159]

"...Backs are always free..." Wow.

[@themirrorsofmymind]

@@peggyfranzen6159 I'm sorry, what?

[@robertfowler238]

Without this song I I would not be here today. I would have been just another sad statistic and victim of child abuse. Thank you for this song Miss Vega. It has purpose and meaning to me. May you have the good karma that goes with the positive energy in this universe. This song is one of a small few out there that can stop me dead in my trax and bring a grown man to tears everytime I hear it being played. Again, thank you for Luka!

[@OverlandOne]

Wonderful song. I loved it back then and I still love it now.

[@RETROTV1394]

Even though I'm mainly a country music listener. I've always loved this song . What a great melody . Sounds great acoustic as well. Always one of my favorites .

[@lawrencetaylor4101]

Merci to Suzanne for writing this song, and Bon Courage to all the Lukas out there.

[@wdavidgulesian6105]

loved hearing her perform it live! beautiful beautiful

[@iball310369]

I am soooo glad this song didnt just dissappear. It is still one of my favourite songs. Very powerful and also easy to sing along to. Genius

[@greeko25]

Vega is just so talented and articulate

[@janiceflores2468]

I love this song.. I'm 54 years old and I still enjoy it :)

[@Philip-zp8fx]

When I need to cry, I listen to this song. Works every time!😘

[@blackbird5634]

'we can get better or we can get bitter, the choice is ours.'

[@765respect]

this is worth a requote

[@ulalaFrugilega]

Who are you quoting, please? That's brilliant!

[@blackbird5634]

@@ulalaFrugilega I can't recall, but i know I didn't say it first.

[@humbertogatica6420]

Sometimes the abuse can destroy the person, worse when the abused knows that the abuser was never punished or kept on abusing others

[@themaggattack]

I can never listen to this song without crying.

[@TET2005]

Her singing voice just sounds like yesteryear...

[@Performak_YT]

totally!! I'm amazed!

[@foggyozarkgal348]

yah it doesn't have that fake-voice reverb box that is overdone on all pop music from 2010 up.. did that start with Glee? ugh!

[@TET2005]

@@foggyozarkgal348 autotune u mean?

[@eadc2158]

True! I thought the second part where she sang was the recording again. 😊😊😊

[@vinzanity68]

Had no idea this song spoke about the things that many of you went through as children... great song :)

[@removalman7963]

This song is part of my childhood. Not that I was abused....much. it just reminds me of hearing something beautiful, sad and different wen I was young.

[@HazelGreenGuy]

I was a Luka and the first time I heard your song I knew exactly what it was about and I have loved it all my life. It touches my heart. When I saw and heard you sing this in this video I still think you sing it great. I wish I had a recording of you singing it even at this time of your life because it is still beautiful. Thank you. :-)

[@toiano]

This song is definitely a Masterpiece! It never will die!! Thank u Suzanne!

[@barryklus]

This is how the best, most magical songs are conceived. They just materialize into existence without a lot of pressure or premeditation.

[@carbress6345]

En Argentina cuando alguien hace algo maravilloso le decimos GRACIAS TOTALES!!! Pues bien, GRACIAS TOTALES SUZANNE!

[@marciazapata8031]

Loveeeee this song, missing my days in 1987....how important was your song for the society......you are fantastic......

[@trayc8573]

This song has always haunted me. For so many reasons. Still hits home even now as an adult. So grateful that they brought awareness to child abuse back then. Suzanne still sounds great too 🎶🎶❤

[@StuBache]

An amazing song with a powerful message that bought the conversation into the mainstream, the album is one of my favorites even now many years later

[@RogueWJL]

Insanely talented and intelligent. The song itself resonates on so many levels.

[@BushmansAdventures]

2022. I was never subject to any abuse, my parents loved me , I grew up with loving parents and family. But this song is beautiful.

[@jaimesaladrigascussons3070]

I love this woman! ... And her way of going through the history of this beatiful song... So lovely!

[@8bitkid408]

After all these years she hasn't changed one bit. Still an incredible artist.

[@mashakalinkina7207]

Her voice is still so astoundingly beautiful.

[@heliaalves9062]

Her manager was right. This is was one of my favorite songs growing up.

[@dans1454]

Millennial here, just heard this song on the TV (mum and dad were listening to it). I couldn’t hear the words at first but just the tone and 80’s nature made me pay close attention to it. I googled the lyrics and here I am. Beautiful (sad) song.

[@joesmith7348]

wow, what an artist, what talent. one try, song done !!! where are artists like this today?