"Trans People Are Not S*X Objects!!" Reacting To Woke Anti Chasers on TikTok

[@jassorjasmine7092]

Wokists : if you don't date a trans person you're transphobic. Also wokists : if you wanna date a trans person then it's serving your cisgenderism. 🙃 When an ideology's entire motto is based on éternal insatisfaction and self victimization. Thank God for people like Marcus, Blaire and Buck calling out this nonsense ❤

[@Tread1775]

The whole sexuality vs gender dogma is full of posers. It’s ridiculous at this point.✌️

[@mr.vorrnyvorrn2516]

Need I mention allies, such as Odins Men and Brett Cooper, and Misha Petrov…

[@nicholasanderson7316]

Exactly, they’ve whined about wanting to be seen and then they are and now they are pissed… these people need to get off the internet and out the “community” and go seek actual therapy about their insecurities and narcissistic, aggressive, and toxic tendencies.

[@nicholasanderson7316]

@@Tread1775it has been this way since the made-up pronoun crap; it’s just starting to self-destruct in a lot of these attention seekers faces. Cause at the end of the day some people just want to hook up. Not everyone has to worship them: god complex much?

[@NickyM_0]

The trans ideology & day to day rhetoric is a complete walking contradiction!

[@abgeordnete]

They don't like "chasers" because there's supposedly absolutely no difference between men/women and trans-men/women. A preference here suggests that there is a difference.

[@patriciaphillips1449]

And yet the preference to not date them is also offensive.

[@Floratic]

It's about validation for some trans people. If they are dealing with someone who they know specifically wants a trans man or women then it makes them feel they aren't seen as an actual man or woman.

[@PatricenotPatrick]

@@FloraticYeah but that’s only all true for those who actually have it which is 0.1% I think blaire said or something and homosexuality is hard to because many don’t need their business out but it’s estimated 4-5 percent in both genders. How is Gen Z like 35-217% transgenda ghost self?? 😭💀

[@PetitTasdeBoue]

So basically they don't want gay or hetero relationships at all, only pansexuals. Now onder they're never happy lol

[@NickyM_0]

Yesssss!!🎯💯

[@patriciaphillips1449]

Okay...so let me get this straight...they think it's offensive if we don't want to date them and now it's offensive to ONLY be attracted to them. Jeez you cannot win with these people.

[@VeeAlee]

Their logic is they want to be affirmed by having heterosexual men or women date them.(men who only date women and women who only date men. (Sad I had to define that in 2023) They need to realize that they can't police others attractions and as my mama said love the one you are with.

[@lezbyanke777]

The transtrenders/transgenders want to pressure lesbian women into dating or sleeping with them, but if tr@nny chasers want to date the trans people then it's not okay. They can't make up their own minds

[@nicholasanderson7316]

⁠@@VeeAleeexactly and then they want to be affirmed by gay men and lesbians (homosexuals who are only attracted to the same sex: thought that one was obvious too) and get pissed when they don’t want to date them… if there are so many “gender fluid and sexuality fluid” people now… why not seek someone out who is attracted to you and “identifies” that way? They have options, but they keep seeking out heterosexuals and homosexuals to “date” them or “sleep” with them…. What is that all about? It comes off creepy and not respectful of people’s boundaries. Then again they hate anything that doesn’t “include” them. This is the result of the false but popular narrative of “gender is a social construct.”

[@samisparkleheart]

The goal post is always moving with progressives; when a situation or concept reaches the peak of "progress", it tends to begin to regress into a variation of the same behavior they're reportedly pushing back on.

[@NiaLaLa_V]

and it was t hem who suggested they are better than biological males and females so why would they be upset that some might agree with that?

[@larenagotay4867]

"I don't really want to date a trans person..." 'ThAT's tRaNSpHObIc!!!" "I am attracted to trans people" "YoU'Re A chAsEr!!!" WTF DO THESE PEOPLE WANT??! 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

They want to be miserable victims. That is literally all they want. They are succeeding! 🤷🏼‍♀️😬

[@commiesuck]

Mental health is what they need.

[@philosophie8744]

Nothing they say makes sense it’s just constant complaining about how marginalised they are. I liked it when there were no labels and people were just people.

[@tassiodrigues]

Complain. Always. That's what they want.

[@nicholasanderson7316]

@@philosophie8744labels aren’t the issue; it’s the changing and redefining and obsession with labels by the people who “hate” labels yet do the above… that is the problem.

[@Enki1013]

It is about preferences! I had a church friend ages ago who was attracted to Asian women even though he is a white man. He wound up getting married to a Chinese American woman. He was not racist or a fetishist. Same with a white coworker who was attracted to Hispanic men. I had a notorious reputation for quirky tastes that usually began with tall and slender men. Some people like long hair on men; in a lot of Native American cultures it is considered manly like a mane on a stallion or lion. In some countries, women like bald men and consider it very manly. I'm so sick and tired of the double edged swords. If you aren't attracted, it makes you racist or phobic or whatever, but if you are attracted then it makes you fetishist or chaser or something else creepy. Am I ageist for not being attracted to kids or men old enough to be my grandfather, or misogynist if I am not attracted to women? Good effing grief!

[@genzi78514]

Yes, exactly. Also, these people are making impossible to point out actual fetishism. Having preferences is not bad, expecting a certain s3xu4l behavior, is the problem. Funny enough, mostly trans men I know get their ideas of boyhood from boy x boy +18 mangas. They are hypocrites!

[@adelepattonxxx]

💯

[@baz3575]

Anyone else notice pretty much all the Asian girls complaining about "yellow fever" only date white men? So who has the real fever? 😅

[@666kvlt]

no he’s a fetishist lol

[@sia9907]

Um if you're specifically attracted to ONE race above other races that is, by definition, racist.

[@siberianwinds]

If they have a problem being sexualized and fetishized... why is Pride Parade nowadays like that? The cognitive dissonance, I swear.

[@baz3575]

Hence the op-eds talking how they wanna be "f**ked". A gay cross-dressing South Asian poet literally said he wants his "perfectly applied lipstick" to be admired...he don't know the straight men he desires at ALL. 😂😂😂

[@littlemy1773]

Honestly the people in these videos are coming over as women complaining that men are too sexual. It’s like they’ve changed their appearance but not their mindset

[@Fuzz82]

Pride has always been like that.And like Marcus mentioned. Men tend to be rather sexual oriented. And with non straight men you can have double the fun. Which is fine, but I would rather see that as some kind of fetish fest. As a kid I knew that men could love men, and women love women. But I didn't know the word gay yet. And when I saw pride, my definition of gay became half naked clowns dancing in public.

[@ss0890]

Yeh and the one who’s taking about red flags “they’ll bring up explicit conversation straight away” on “his” instagram straight away he’s bringing up ebjng a “total slt” advertising “his” only fans 🙄 so they complain when people bring up explicit convertsaion straight away yet here they are selling p0 r n and taking about being “sl#ts” 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@katehack1677]

So true. Who goes on Grinder only to get offended that people there only want a sexual hook up? 🤦 Hook up culture is so not directed only at trans men.

[@caitlinpowell9010]

Can we go back to not caring about who is attracted to who? Let's mind our business again.

[@ginagdee]

Thank you!

[@amandawilkinsontarot7096]

Agreed

[@ambertico]

So ignore them?

[@xMorganbrittnyx]

"MAMIB" MAKE AMERICA MIND ITS BUSINESS! 🤣🤣♥️♥️

[@caitlinpowell9010]

@@ambertico I didn't say that. I said let people follow their attractions and worry about our own

[@just_passing_through]

“Chasers” of any group is fine. There are chubby chasers, fem chasers, bear chasers…. The list goes on and on and on. Just as there are people who “chase” particular attributes, there are people who are not attracted to chubby people, or feminine guys, or overly hairy guys, or….. hold your breath…. transsexuals. It’s just a preference. Let it go.

[@JenBabyJen]

Like literally! It’s so funny now that you say “chubby chaser” because it was just seen as something as someone was super specific attracted too! And there was no problem at all. If anything it helped friend groups as we we’re all attracted to different kinds of men. Wtf. Now a chaser is a new offensive term?? They want everyone to be PANSEXUAL let’s BFFR. Sorry human I see you and what you look like I’m not attracted to you 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@13zaphikel]

As long as they're not being creepy and stalking or harassing the people they are into I really don't see a problem with it!

[@jeffzeiler346]

Nah, these Trender narcissists can't let anything go. The fact that theirs is not the one and only opinion in the world drives them mad with insecurity and self loathing. Constitutionally incapable of letting it go.

[@soaringraven0]

@@GenXfrom75 gold chasers, those who go for money

[@ericswann1417]

As a bear who is attracted to "twinks", all I can say is "thank god for chasers".

[@VforVictory00]

I always hated the rhetoric of "trans men are men" and "trans women are women". If that was true, then there's no such thing as being trans. If there's no difference, then why use the label? Because there IS a difference. I get not wanting to be seen as different than a biological man/woman, but when did being different become a bad thing?

[@minuishaq631]

Because they all want to believe they "pass"

[@azimuth5620]

they are attempting to legally change the definitions of "man" and "woman" so that they can more easily manipulate and control their way into threatening women’s sex-based rights and the mental health of children.

[@jyyyb]

I thought this since the beginning, it’s so contradictory, this point needs to be made more often

[@jacoblehrer4198]

When the difference is artificial hormones and genital mutilation.

[@RR-on4sk]

We'll yeah, what would they need to transition to if there's no such thing?

[@chrisisisback]

the amount of mental gymnastics they all use to defend hating on cis people i cant

[@anthilz]

I'm applauding your comment. "Mental gymnastics" is the best way to put it when hearing these crazy people talk and trying to reason with them! It literally is that.. and so exhausting.

[@smalltownhomesteadAC]

That’s because it’s about self-loathing projected onto other’s. They hate.

[@annebos4634]

Exactly. One couldn't make up what solution they are gonna make into a problem next time. And there is no limit to the amount of validation they need from "Cis" people. Woke trs despise us but in reality, depend on us heavily.

[@gelflingfay]

These are biological women, responding like biological women. I do not say that to be harsh or to be a jerk in anyway. I am only stating that these people are responding like women, not like men, and its showing. I will call a transman an transman and call him him. But in this instance, I think biology is showing through a little bit.

[@philosophie8744]

Yes I agree. It’s the same as the aggressive trans women who still behave like a man.

[@Crisjola]

I’d say it’s more socialization influencing their behavior than biology (expecting to be coddled, etc). Similarly to using biology as a scapegoat for _any_ male to be aggressive, trans or not. It’s a socialized thing as well. It’s the same reason (socialization) that gay bio-males will grope women and then go “why do you care, it’s not like I’m interested.” That’s socialization. (Also that is a real problem if not a ‘small’ one: some of the entitlement of gay men can rival that of the woke trans+. You can see it in the Mulvyney [glad I can’t spell his name to save my life so I don’t get flagged] thing where he did the same over the top “girlish” [mockery] behaviors on, I believe, the price is right as as flaming gay guy. He’s now just found a niche he can make a _lot_ of money in.)

[@Talk2WandaVision]

yes

[@BorealHP]

Did you see that video of that trans (biological female) that passed and was distraught they couldn’t make male friendships like how open women friendships are? It was sad as hell but it was exactly how a woman living as a man would respond… as a woman

[@genzi78514]

Mostly "trans men" I know, are very girly. Also, many of them read boy x boy manga and act like the men in those comics (that are written by women to women) , more like regular men. You mix them with wokeism and boom... You have your regular modern "trans man".

[@robertmarshall2502]

You can 100% tell that a lot of these ppl transitioned before dating and going through sexual exploration. They're literally just explaining the modern dating scene.

[@ed81ny]

As a former Grindr user.... it is full of disappointment. It is highly toxic, regardless of gender identity.

[@lins_z2]

If they don’t want people that want to date trans people to date them….. wouldn’t their dating pool be reduced by a lot?

[@sorleytarrys8501]

Nope, they want People who don't want to Date Trans People to Date Trans People. ITS Not about preferences it's about Power.

[@megauser8512]

@@sorleytarrys8501 Sad but true!

[@Youre-Welcome]

I didn't realize we had a whole new vocabulary for kink shaming...it's like they're shocked people just want sex...

[@tarynriver]

I mean chubby chasers have been around forever lol

[@Dinker27]

Bug catchers too, but don't stare into that abyss.

[@nicholasanderson7316]

It really makes you think and just an observation but a lot of these people complaining are rather young or just completely mentally gone… it’s almost like they’ve grown up worrying about superficial made up internet crap that when they are presented with how people act in the real world in these situations… they are confused and don’t understand social cues or read a situation… almost like they haven’t been properly socialized and spent the majority of their youth talking to strangers they don’t know or can’t see…

[@EYES2seeEARS2hear78]

Decades of damage from vaxxes, chemicals like BPA (endocrine disrupter) on all the receipts, plastics, food chemicals, etc has really effed up a lot of people…some more than others. 😳

[@Dinker27]

@@alexr2172 Too late. I've been seeing it in fandoms since 2013.

[@jeffreyallen4211]

I’m a gay man sick to death of all this crap. Keep doing what you’re doing Marcus.

[@rwuthenow]

Same!

[@TheGoodMMADog]

Why do you enable this woman by calling her the name they go by on their channel?

[@ambertico]

Ignore them?

[@wanderingbelle7]

⁠@@TheGoodMMADogCan you genuinely look at Marcus and call him she? Look at people and speak accordingly. If he still looked like a woman, I’d call him she too. But he has done all the work to pass as a man. He was born female, but to look at Marcus and call him she is frankly absurd.

[@Raphaeltheslayer]

@@wanderingbelle7exactly! And they state “I’m a woman” they never denied that but say they have a mental condition

[@Elusive_Pete]

These people are broken.. it's actually a good thing their emotions make them undersirable.

[@ginagdee]

@Elusive-Finally someone said it.

[@ambertico]

@@ginagdee Ignore them?

[@armedstrobbery1934]

That community has a problem with literally everything

[@garmmermibe5397]

Nothing can ever satisfy these people. They just wanted attention from the beginning. Like, damn, if I had someone "chasing" me, I probably wouldn't be so eager to get rid of them. On top of that, these people really don't seem to understand what it is to be a man. They're going into men's spaces (gay dating apps) and then not understanding the "unspoken rules" about the conduct and expectations of the men they're surrounded by. I'm not gay myself and don't use gay dating apps, or dating apps in general, but it's not hard for me to imagine what a men's dating app would look like on the inside because, as a man, I know what the expectations would be. What this person is calling "red flags" (a man telling the other man what to expect) is actually men just being transparent and honest with each other. That's what men call a green flag. We don't lie to each other and talk in coded language. The gay men in this situation are being straight up and telling each other what they want from each other during the hookup so there are no misunderstandings and so that both people can have access to "informed consent." Women will be all like "men don't know how to communicate" when really, we're just being plain and transparent with our language. If you're being transparent and you're meeting up for sex, yeah, the start of the conversation is probably going to be explicit and saying "I wanted to do x and y" gives better quality information to the other person than "I kinda wanted to - you know, do some things, you know?" You know? Do you know? What does the other person know? No, they don't know. Just say what you mean. That's what those people are doing. They're being transparent. Like I said, informed consent. Its explicit, but its transparent and is preferable to the alternative of agreeing to what you *think* you know of the other person's expectations. It's like going into a hi-fi headphone shop and then acting disappointed when the headphone shop, specifically for selling high-end headphones, doesn't offer you some gardening pots, a bag of fertilizer, and a packet of seeds. Or alternatively, going into a bookstore and then hoping for a demo room with a super loud seven channel surround sound system. Or going into a gardening store/plant nursery and wondering why they aren't selling the latest Galaxy S23 Ultra. I mean, you can "expect" whatever you want to expect from those shops. But for people with a modicum of societal intelligence, the name of the shoppe should go some way into forming your expectations. And you have only yourself to blame if you expected the makeup/beauty products boutique to be selling you cars like they were a dealership. I don't mean to sound "tr@zph0bic" but their female mindset is really shining through here with how they just fundamentally don't seem to understand men. They'll say they "feel like a man on the inside" but nothing coming from their "inside" is speaking to my "inner man" on a spiritual level or "genderized" level or whatever you want to call it. I detect no masculine camaraderie from these people, only feminine resentment that their expectations are not the world's standards. While they might "look" (passably) like men, they probably shouldn't get on men's dating apps until they start to *act* like men. As a hint, most men aren't using dating apps to find a long term relationship. (I would even hazard a guess that even women aren't doing that either.) Men will usually go out in public and meet people when they want to find a proper romance.

[@jannadark8100]

these rants just show how isolated they are. probably no one sane from LGB can stand them to explain how LGB dating scene works and what are key differences between gays and lesbians (or men and women in general, as we speak about sex drive here). no one uses dating apps to make new friends, if they don't want to hook up with someone then off to the park, or cafe, gym, meet people, talk to them like all humans do.

[@trailertrish2587]

They are a needy bottomless pit

[@SombreroPharoah]

I mean, Ngl. You got this down to a tee. The flipside, if these people weren't ever pessimistic (lbr, nihilistic). Is you can actually meet some of life's best friends, and I'm sure tbf partners too. Explicitly because of this openness/straight to the pointness. Because when you do actually end up having a conversation that flows to others. You know you got a vibe. Whilst I'll admit, Grindr can be SO overwhelming (new meat phenomenon... Jees 😂 if you travel alot, as Scar said. Be prepared). But you just say thank you but nope. Take the compliment. Move on. Met some amazing people via that thing. A couple still some of my closest friends. Legit appreciate the Malenese of it all.

[@nicholasanderson7316]

I’m a gay guy and you my good sir are 100% correct. They do sound like women… cause no offense to them but they are biological women at the end of the day. It’s just the facts. I will respect them and call them he/him, but I am going to question why are they seeking “gay men.” They think for some reason gay men are going to be someone more “gentle” to them??? First of all a bunch of bi and pan guys use the app too, so it’s not really so much a “gay” male dating app anymore after a bunch of biological women (nonbinary) and trans men started coming into that app. There are still tons of biological men there, but now we have to worry about offending trans people on a dating app designed for men seeking men? We are way more upfront and yes a lot aren’t nice about it cause they just want to hook up. I’ve been saying it for a while, a lot of them shouldn’t be using that app and instead go safer spaces designed more to fit their needs if they can’t handle biological men being biological men. They say that’s gatekeeping and yes it is; cause you are coming onto an app not designed for them and then getting pissed it isn’t and wanting to complain and change everything to include them destroying the original purpose of the app in the first place. These people hate anytime they are told no, asked to respect boundaries, or told this isn’t for them… I feel really bad for lesbians cause it’s even worse on their apps with all the men and trans women on them now harassing them for not wanting D**k. It’s just a bunch of crappy insecure people harassing strangers to sleep with them and “validate” them. Go out and touch some grass people and actually meet someone in the real world.

[@mikedowning4869]

All of which goes to show that you can play at looking and acting like the opposite sex but you can never know what it's like. Maybe there is such a thing as biological sex after all😅

[@mikedrop4421]

OK let me get this straight... If I'm not attracted to any trans women I'm phobic but if I was specifically attracted to trans women I'd be a problematic "Chaser"? I think I'm getting dumber and my head is gonna explode

[@bradentripp8141]

"Use you for what they want then throw you away when they are done?" That was my entire "dating experience" before I married....😮

[@thisisdirk]

The absolute, self-victimizing narcissism. I can not 😂

[@ambertico]

Ignore them?

[@thisisdirk]

@@ambertico Bot says what?

[@melissadwiggins]

So if you want to date a trans person, you're a chaser; but if you don't want a date a trans person you're transphobic? ... Okay. When I hear chaser though, I think of someone who fetishize trans people, not wanting to date them because they'll be treated better. That's a reason to date anyone. People want to be treated well and if certain people are known to treat women better then wouldn't you want to date them? I mean, make up your mind people! You can't have it both ways!

[@adelepattonxxx]

Absolutely. "That's a reason for anyone"

[@ferndoggiedogg181]

Sounds like these individuals really have a hard time telling the difference between genuine interest and being played

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

On top of the fact they actually aren't trans nor happy in the identity they are being treated as.

[@anniereddj]

I subbed after seeing you on Arialle's channel. I appreciate your common sense reactions amid this crazy time. Well done sprinkling of humor as well. I hope your viewership greatly expands because I think you have the capacity to expand understanding and correct misconceptions of what it means to be trans as presented by warped activists. In case it matters, I'm a straight woman.🙂💗

[@Nefermose]

I'm a heavyset guy who has always preferred the company of larger men. This whole conversation is eerily similar to those in communities of size I've been in for decades - as well as lifestyle communities in general. I've heard from similar types of people that having a preference or fetish for size is somehow objectification - by those who constantly complain that nobody will date or have sex with them. I especially hear this from heavier women - many of which are oblivious to just how many guys would gladly date them if they weren't so close-minded. These sorts of people, for all their talk of sex positivity and consent, spend all of their time kink shaming grown adults who don't share their radical views about relationships. It seems the trans community is no different.

[@Theresa-Lottodo]

Let's invent a name for insecure people who are never satisfied, continually move the goal posts and make up words and names for every aspect of behaviour.😂

[@withexpectancy5818]

Tran……….sss…….😂😂😂😂😂

[@I-Luv-Toast]

I don’t get it. It’s not bad to be sexually attracted to someone because they’re trans, it’s the same as anything else. I think the point though is that trans people need to be careful in the dating scene because there are predators, but this is universal and should be something we all need to be careful of when dating. There’s a LOT of evil people out there, including women!

[@corpsdice2910]

exactly!

[@laurendearnley9595]

When it becomes obvious nothing you do will make them happy - you stop trying. They might understand that one day.

[@KittenTheB]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 "THEY ONLY WANT YOU FOR YOUR BODY" .... Yup that's what sex usually is.... The want for another person's body. So is like.... Sex Ed just STOPPING at pronouns and not explaining the birds and the bees?? 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 Oh little kiddos....

[@rebeccacoleman3341]

I'm confused especially about transmen who keep their female reproductive organs, have sex the way females do, and get pregnant in a very female way, without having an absolute dysphoric meltdown.

[@rebeccacoleman3341]

Shouldn't that freak them out???

[@freyja802]

The day I let go of the "chaser" narrative was the beginning of my actual sex life. Being desired not for who I aspire to become but also for who I am right now, that's really important and knowing the difference, I wouldn't take any less anymore m

[@-Suie-]

sounds like how *some* men treat ANY one night stand/booty call...

[@evagilkerson2288]

I am sick of the word cis...they wanna complain because straight people don't want to date them...now they are complaining because there are straight people that want to date them...what's next?

[@MarquisFoxborough2736]

I legit just found out the term “chaser” while watching this video. They’re literally making up terms as they go along. I’ve been following you for a few months now and I really enjoy your content. Until the next one bud.

[@willbrashear]

Marcus is bringing out the truth as usual. Most of the behavior they are describing isn't 'chaser' ... it's just bad people who do that to anyone.

[@danielgillespie7899]

I have a theory. The kind of trans people who say these sorts of things are the same kind of trans people for whom being trans is their whole identity. So you would think that someone being attracted to them specifically because they are trans would be appealing to them. But it's not. And I think it's not because they instinctively know that someone should be attracted to more than what you look like. But at the same time their whole identity is being trans. So there's this cognitive dissonance going on. Which is uncomfortable. Especially when it involves your entire sense of self. And I think they project the source of that discomfort onto the person who is attracted to them. But in doing so they fail to understand something fundamental about relationships. And that is that they have to start somewhere. I'm pretty short. And I've had men tell me they find me attractive because they find short men attractive. I don't go "Ewww! Get away from me." I take the W. Because I understand that attraction has to start with something. Whether that's your height, your body type, your eyes, your laugh - whatever. There has to be something that sets things in motion. But these emotional cripples don't understand that. They don't understand how relationships begin or how they develop. And they don't know those things because they don't know themselves. And they don't know themselves because they have run away from themselves and wrapped their entire identity up in being "trans".

[@kat3217]

Meanwhile Dylan Mulvaney is complaining that he can’t get a bf bc straight dudes don’t want pp 💀

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

nah I think it's bc he's obnoxious lol

[@puppydogs68]

I thought Dylan “came out” as “lesbian” only for him to post a new video about a shirtless guy in trunks talking abt how attractive he was…I’m so lost here.

[@CaddyJim]

Seems like many of these people just like playing a character a woman cutting her hair & dressing boy like but not taking testosterone or doing surgeries is not a trans it's somebody seeking attention one of valify their own internal problems but are not suffering from gender dysphoria

[@DMF121]

I loved the part where you say "if you're on Grinder what do you want". I can't imagine most people on that Site are looking for their Soulmate 😂l. Great Video Thank You.

[@annukkas]

Two things came to mind. First of all there's no pleasing woke people - they don't even agree with each other. Whatever you do, you are always pi**ing some group off. And second... There have always been scumbags in dating world, that's not only a trans thing. I am a woman and I have met a few of them myself. There are always people who are selfish and entitled and seek only their own pleasure. All of us need to recognise who are the good ones and who are the bad ones and stay away from the people that are bad for us. They most propably won't change no matter how much they are complained about. Just avoid them, whether you are a woman, a man or a trans.

[@Huggamugger1]

Calling someone a Chaser isn't just a thing in the Trans community. I know men who are called chasers but they are exclusively interested in larger men and/or women. They also sometimes call themselves Chubby Chasers.

[@andrewb.9815]

Tik-Tok: Lets play "How many septum piercings can you count?"

[@paitynnicolosi8907]

Red flag for sure.

[@Thedarkbunnyrabbit]

I've seen this behavior before. It comes from people who are determined to be victims and determined to be hated/isolated.There's a thing called 'gaijin hunters' which are Japanese people, often women, who really *really* want to date or even marry foreigners. They can also just really be fascinated with some given culture and want to be friends, too. This is notable because Japan as a whole trends toward xenophobic, and it's especially hard to get married to a Japanese person because it's pretty deeply set that 'well we can date but I'd never marry a foreigner'. The only people who really care about and complain about gaijin hunters, though, are the ones who also hyper-fixate on that xenophobic side of Japan. It's always grouchy, upset people who complain about how nobody treats them like a native even though they've lived there for x years, who also rant and rave about how gaijin hunters are only using them, or sweep up every person who wants to learn their language or culture in with 'gaijin hunters'. This is the same thing.The trans community has become so fixated on 'nobody wants to date us, we're rejected and cast out and isolated' that now it triggers cognitive dissonance when people actually _do_ - so their response is to defame and dismiss those people, so they can go back to 'nobody wants me'. Either because they've gotten addicted to being the victim, or because what they're really saying is 'specifically the people I want aren't interested'.

[@pahtosh]

As a gay man, I would love to be chased by men lol

[@GeoffInfield]

The lengths some people go to for that "victim" headrush is extraordinary isn't it? Just develop a drug habit and stop ripping on men 😥 Love your work dude!! 🤗

[@nicholasanderson7316]

These are the people who go on and on about “you should be attracted to my soul and how I feel inside” and are surprised on a hook up app when people just want to screw. And then they think that it must be cause of my “transition” … when it has nothing to do with that. People just wanting to sleep with you and nothing more is prevalent for everyone not just trans people. The levels of narcissism these types have is astounding to me… while working on themselves they seem to miss the part about self-awareness. Then again, they complain about fetishizing “trans” people (really the majority of these people are just non-binary and say that’s the same as trans), yet they have kind of turned the whole thing into a popular over-sexualized trend so of course people will fetishize it like crazy. Not to mention fetishes and kink are celebrated like crazy now at pride events (most of these people probably celebrating and pushing for its public visibility as well) and they’re confused about how the culture that they wanted so badly to be at the forefront has changed the LGBT “community.” These young people are really clueless of any long term effects of what they are pushing for will have and now they are starting to see the negatives of what making trans and non-binary a popularity contest has gotten them. This is exactly why everyone is fed up of the whining these people do 24/7. Honestly, get over it and move on to someone else. Stop your whiny crap on social media for views. Side note: as a gay guy, all I hear is a lot of trans men pissed off that gay men don’t think like they would… cause trans men are biological women at the end of the day. Men and women treat sex and relationships differently; changing your appearance isn’t going to change that. On a gay male dating app and surprised biological men are on it acting like men????? Maybe it’s not the place for you… although the app for GAY MEN should have been the big obvious sign. Also, aren’t trans men being “gay men chasers” which is so laughable to me. The “gay guy” into you is probably pansexual, but rather be perceived as a “gay guy” cause apparently being a homosexual has nothing to do with body parts anymore or someone’s sex… which sounds pretty homophobic and creepy to me. But hey “gender and sexuality” is just so fluid that you need gaslight a whole community of people into wanting to sleep with you and make you feel “special.”

[@baz3575]

Whenever I meet a hot guy who turns out to be gay, I wish him well. How am I gonna be mad an attractive man is gay and not interested in me? Weirdly, I have had gay men chase me in my younger years which shows attraction can make people crazy. 😂

[@fweetfweet6996]

its only bad if they are treating you like an embarrassing fetish

[@PageofLegend]

Now there are people complaining about this?! It's like "date me or you're transphobic!" "Oh, you WANT to date me now?! You dirty trans chaser!"

[@dominicbaltazar5119]

Thanks! Love a voice for us that's truly reasonable like most of us

[@dominiqueschlesnecker5429]

The way he always speaks facts thank you Marcus

[@lucyh4355]

Seriously?! These people are just complaining about normal human interactions that apply to all adults. They're not special...& they haven't mentioned anything that the rest of the world hasn't had to deal with too! 🙄 Thank you, Marcus, for your sensible reactions to their "issues"; your voice is needed.

[@chihirosen6996]

I can't imagine being the type of person who wakes up every day choosing to be a miserable cow. "If you don't want to date me you're bad" "If you want to date me you're bad". You can't have it both ways!!! These trans men can't figure out dating because they're looking at it through the lens of a woman. Same with manhood in general. Reminds me of the trans man who cried about how hard it is to be a man because women don't approach them the way they did before the transition. This is exactly why I don't believe most of the people claiming to be trans these days are trans. (Aside from the exhibitionists). A few like you and Blaire I can see clear as day ARE real trans people. Some of these other folks are ao deep into cosplaying that they believe their own lies *to an extent. Certain things like accomodations ONLY for trans women but not trans men in bathrooms, sports, locker rooms and other womens spaces are made. But not for trans men. What about trans men who need feminine hygiene trashcans in MENS stalls? Oh wait. They don't believe in their own bs! It's why you don't see trans men in mens spaces. Don't ever see any trans men in blue collar jobs either. Ive seen straight, bi, and lesbians in bkue collar jobs. But never todays trans men.

[@jodieiscool9351]

Great to see you on The Story Box Marcus. Cheers Jodie, Australia.....ps. your message is spreading far and wide ❤

[@Ethentent]

You absolutely hit the nail on the head with this one, Marcus. You have no chill and I love it 😂

[@weswolever7477]

If he wants to be treated like a princess....I’ll marry him off to strengthen my alliance with Spain

[@fairydust9527]

My guess is they're upset because when they encounter someone who exclusively dates trans people, that just proves that trans men n women are actually different from actual men n women. Activists want trans people to be seen as special, different or better but at the same time they want to be treated/seen exactly the same as biological men n women. Ya can't have it both ways 😑

[@Kasia237]

It the entire activist mentality, they make a demand, you give that to them, that is no longer good enough so they make an new demand and so on and so on. Nothing is good enough, they need to always be the victim.

[@pg4662]

Doesn't the term chaser cover all humans? We are all chasing something most of the time??? The kids, the bus, the dog, the next 'big thing, payday!! And I remember the days when a chaser meant a drinks shot with a beer to 'chase' it down.

[@stacyhart8312]

Wait, aren't they pitching because straight ppl aren't interested in them? Now, when they are, they're called chasers!? Am I missing something?

[@rebeccalove9169]

I love ur videos I love ur truth and honesty and calling out all the hypocrisy. You always say what all people who have common sense and morals are thinking whether we are straight, trans, gay etc. Keep making videos and so glad to see u getting the support and subs you deserve! Thnx for speaking up!

[@roots4789]

Thank you for giving a voice to gay people who have questions about everything happening and voicing another side to everything. I just really appreciate that and it actually is helping me with my sanity lolol Like I can't believe certain people will say having a preference for non trans people is transphobic but the same community also preaches consent is important. I'm like... Which one is it?!

[@fallabeaufaebelle]

Another on point video, Marcus! :DDD I always appreciate your insights!

[@scotthix2297]

Regarding Fake Trans People I think Gilda Radner aka Rosanne Rosanadana said it best (perhaps prophetically), “If it’s not one thing, it’s somethin’ else… But it’s ALWAYS SOMETHIN’!

[@valeriavitale1290]

Personally when I like a person I don’t care if they are trans or “cis” . I only have problems with people who make their identity their whole personality

[@JonathanMulderMarston]

People like these woke tik toks are the reason I checked out of anything having to do with the queer community. People like Marcus, Blaire and Buck are helping me to reconnect now that I know I am not alone in realizing that The Emperor isn't wearing any clothes, lol!

[@BuckAngelOfficial]

OMG these clowns! First they say if you dont date a trans person you are transphobic. now its if you are attracted to a trans person you are a “ chaser” 🤡🤡🤡😂😂😂 Love you

[@TwistedTeaRex]

Imagine expecting a relationship from a hook-up app.

[@annamossity8879]

We used to call it preferences. Then there’s fetishes too. But I don’t like the way they’re changing the meanings of words, twisting or making up new ones to be derogatory.

[@coonhound_pharoah]

I love how people come up with new words and labels and then pretend being whatever that label is, is bad. "That makes you a CHASER!" "So what?"

[@disgracious1862]

I never knew u weren't a native English speaker. Your English is amazing. I have always wondered why you talked so formally (your tone) but some people just talk like that. But if anything it's a compliment, you sound very smart and professional.

[@adelepattonxxx]

They yell about people not wanting to date trans people ..... Now they shame people who do ¿? What do these people want? ..... what if people are just allowed to have their own preferences and be attracted to who they're attracted to. These other things like respect and being comfortable with someone who you want to hook up with or date are the same for everyone. A red flag is a red flag - no matter what your gender or sexual orientation is. . Loved your video with Arielle at Pride Marcus !!!

[@martynlaverick3405]

'Surgery is a huge time and cost commitment'. What about the mental aspect? It was interesting that time and money were highlighted rather than the potential long term physical and mental impact.

[@irishcajun85]

Lemme clear this up real quick. It’s a push to seem desirable. That’s why there’s both kinds of videos, the ‘you’re transphobic for not dating us!’ AND ‘chaser’ videos. It’s why they still make ‘here’s why trans men/women are actually better!’ videos. It’s the fake it til you make it mentality to normalize it.

[@slimebunny5700]

I never liked the term "cis" I genuinely appreciate when you say biological man or woman instead of cis man or woman. The term cis is usually used negatively half the time along with it's dubious origins.

[@SteveWray]

supposedly it's from Latin, but then the 'c' should be pronounced hard so it's 'kis'.

[@azimuth5620]

@@SteveWray the term "cis" was coined by pedophile-sympathizer Volkmar Sigusch, the same sexologist who coined many of the words currently used by transactivists and who said "There is nothing wrong with pedophilia in the sense of the word, that is, against liking, even loving, children. The sensuality that unfolds between a child and an adult is something wonderful."

[@TwistedTeaRex]

Did I... did I just find another SANE trans man!?

[@tracyaf6084]

Sexual preferences are or at least should be immune from HR department rules. Age, sex, religion, physical appearance, etc. have no place on a job application but they are very important in dating

[@MadeByChinkee]

Reacting on the first video... why do I get this vibe that one MUST date or be with in a relationship with various people (Poly?) in order to not be transphobic. If one wanna be respected wtih their choice of dating preference, at least also learn to respect that other people just want to be monogamous. Your last comment though about them being laid. 😅😅😅 But On the second thought, it goes to show that they are consistent... consistent being inconsistent. 😅 they cannot make up their mind about their gender, their pronouns, of course they can't also make up their mind if they wanna get laid or not.

[@ginagdee]

Lol

[@ellie698]

I'm always super excited when I see you've uploaded. I know it's going to be entertaining, funny and based! And, as a straight woman I think you're a great guy 🤘🏼

[@inkedxbabydoll]

Thats just men in general lol welcome to hook up culture

[@PinkLemonShark]

Why do people complain about people only wanting sex from apps that are mainly used for that?

[@_.moony_]

7:43 apology accepted Marcus. 💀

[@selahr.]

If you don’t know what gay guys or lesbian women expect and how they treat each other on LGB dating apps then you’re going to feel confused and hurt by what their community sees as typical dating app behavior. It’s not great, even for many in the community that app caters too, but your journey is going to be at least as bad as theirs and it’s not just because you’re trans or some other non-stereotypical gender identity.

[@rdvbailey5990]

Whoever is helping you edit your videos deserves credit. Great job! If you are doing it all yourself then double great job. Very entertaining and insightful.❤️

[@charlenebaganzmoore]

"Don't date trans individual!" Me: done and done.

[@hockeymom49721]

That second person isn't describing a chaser, they're describing a narcissist. 🤦🏻‍♀️ They could very well be projecting.

[@emilyjolly793]

Love your content. It’s very educational. I’m very left leaning but I love to listen to moderates and conservatives because tbh… the left is getting a little wild

[@Phoenix_eoww]

“Don’t be embarrassed by that please, it’s embarrassing.” I FELT THAT 😂

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

Bing watching all the videos I have not yet seen an can not get enough of the Sassy breath of fresh air that is Marcus!! Truly adore you Marcus! Thank you for being you!! If only more people would take a page out of your book and find happiness in a healthy way. Whatever that looks like for them. The world sure would be a better place with a little more critical thinking, common sense and kindness. With a bit of Sass thrown in!! Truly appreciate the message being shared. Never been more important in my opinion. Best wishes to you ALL!!

[@wistaban]

This is one of the many reasons I'm single, not dating and not sleeping around for the past 6 years 😂 I'm dating peace and freedom

[@darkblade9745]

That actually makes me happy that some people like trans people exclusively, it gives me hope for dating…

[@DellaStreet123]

Most gay men who use online dating sites will confirm that people registered there don't like to waste too much time when they know what they want. You find somebody, you negotiate what you will be doing and once you have found an agreement, you meet up and do those things. Or you look for somebody else. It's more likely to find someone on a gay dating site who claims not to be gay ("No, straight as an arrow, I just feel like sucking a...") than to find somebody who wants his first date no sooner than a month from today.

[@Geekabibble]

Well the second person brought up many things that truly are red flags. Love bombing which is narcissistic behavior, negging, being controlling and preying on people's insecurities are all red flags. Doesn't matter who is doing them or who they are being done to. So if those behaviors are occurring anyone in that situation should be running away from that person.

[@bethedifference7624]

Everyone needs to see The Sound of Freedom in theaters now. Love your channel ❤

[@Tina06019]

The old saying is that there is a lid for every pot, but oh! the struggle of finding that lid.

[@MakeMakeShift]

These people will only be happy when they have accused every other person in the world of being offensive to them. Not so long ago we were heading in the right direction and fought against labels. These entitled brats have taken us ten steps back.

[@07meiyin]

You really cracked me up with this one. 🤣 I think you're really polishing your comedic skills into gemstones. Always love your input on these issues, Marcus. You're one of my favourite humans. By the way, thank you for saying what you did about not shaming people for who they are attracted to. Sometimes those sexual attractions can be shaped by trauma but that's a valid reason as any. For example, there are certain types of people I stopped being physically attracted to after being abused by a few of them for a while. My brain just switched on me without my input an I couldn't control it. It was very frustrating as it severely limited my dating pool. But it has worked out for the best in the end. I found a fantastic spouse I'm attracted to.

[@darkestgray0]

Its official, they've lost their minds. Snake eating its own tail at this point.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

😂 the funny thing is _men wouldn't respond like this!_ especially in their early 20s! They would be HYPED about chasers and getting laid a lot. These people don't want anything except to be miserable lonely victims. They need therapy, not social media.