TRANSFORM Your Love Life With This Simple Shift with Matthew Hussey

[@thematthewhussey]

Thank you for having me on Jen! Loved this conversation!

[@jen_gottlieb]

The BEST! Thank you for joining me!!

[@Bradley_Burton]

I hope everyone can read this book before they start dating again. It’s so incredible hard to find anyone who can put in any level of effort these days. Very here today and gone tomorrow and disposable culture. I can only ever attract people who don’t care for themselves and they couldn’t even begin to care for someone else till they can provide the space for their own healing..

[@UnmaskthisPEP]

You're a GOAT in such conversations man, you're changing lives. Thanks a lot

[@Aia-ky7uh]

@@jen_gottlieb why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?

[@williamkeeling2311]

@@UnmaskthisPEP no he's not, he's a credit card scammer and did it to thousands of women even single mothers

[@wordpower2211]

Matthew Hussey is one of the most honest speakers I follow in this space. I feel like sharing every single video that includes him sharing insightful experiences and deriving life lessons from each experience, but I want to admit here that I do not share most of these videos only because the titles of such videos are usually misleading. It's not dating tips, red flags, getting ex back etc. It's much more deeper and meaningful. It's about knowing yourself, shifting perspective, gaining objectivity, and giving yourself and others the gift of building the beautiful soul that you are supposed to be.

[@ladyk2002]

Showing up and being your advocate... Giving people permission to not like you. So freeing🎉

[@juanderuano8969]

Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@juanderuano8969]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@elladonaldson-lh6nc]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@juanderuano8969]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@jalensmall7008]

Hang in there man. You can do it without her, for sure!

[@josun2222]

I’ve loved this conversation. I love that idea of I am my own person to take care of. I’ve shared similar videos of Matt saying this with my kids and friends. I’m in a new version of myself and embracing who I am without apology. Dated guys that wanted to change my likes and who I am. Even though I wasn’t happy with that I still held onto them. Not anymore!

[@lisaariottiart]

Wow Mathew really is revealing himself lately - very vulnerable. Hyper vigilance is a thing- I have that as well - when he mentioned his startle reflex when his wife walks in the bedroom -- that was real. He has a trauma response to life- I hope his beautiful wife adds calm to his soul.

[@podcast885]

matts best interview for this book.

[@ItsMeAnnaMaria]

For me it is the best interview with Matthew i have ever seen!

[@JamesEvans-yn9hh]

​ @jen_gottlieb why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?

[@jen_gottlieb]

yay! Thank you!

[@helenblanchard1555]

Wonderful interview, this is the most real I have ever seen Matthew and it makes me feel better that I have these fears too. ❤

[@adriananeiva87]

Loved, best interview in a while ❤ Thank you so much to you both. Inspiring energy 🌹

[@jen_gottlieb]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@222littlecat]

Really enjoyed the conversation of you two. Thank you 😊

[@jen_gottlieb]

So glad!!

[@enriqueval7092]

he's a scammer, why do you have him on and delete comments about him? check out his credit card scam

[@WilliamSilva-wk2vy]

​@@enriqueval7092 for sure he is, is Jen supporting scammers now? disgraceful

[@mlle_francophile]

What a talk. Wow. I see it and I feel it too. Matthew, you are inspiring to say the very least ❤️🙏🏼

[@jen_gottlieb]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@charliefox9573]

My issue in middle age is meeting people to date full stop. What do you do when your few friends are partnered up, Meetup groups are mostly tragic and full of the people that life left behind, your interests don't put you in the path of single women and you think it's cringe to try and flirt with someone in the street or a supermarket?

[@jessicahitchens6926]

You should be more organic when you are out. Don't be afraid of rejection. It's not the end of the world.

[@fall1152]

@@danielle_ghn_ I think you missed the start of the video where he says: "You are the only person who is charged with taking care of the human that is you." Wonder why you keep making the same mistake.

[@Ahb2121]

@@fall1152this person is allowed to want to find love while still loving themself.

[@helenetran88]

❤ two of my favorite life inspiration and mentors! Absolutely loved the interview (it was an instant click 😁) and looking forward to growing my love life even more!

[@jen_gottlieb]

Glad you enjoyed it!!!!

[@kasiai5437]

I love the advice Matthew gave his 19 year old self 💖🔥Thank you for modeling self-love.

[@jen_gottlieb]

I'm so glad you connected with Matthew's advice! 💖

[@guitarsz]

omgosh the intro brought tears to my eyes

[@Kage195]

Me too! It got me all emo!

[@Supervision61]

The best interview thankyou completely resonated with me

[@jen_gottlieb]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@nickcobos7607]

Wow Jen I love this especially the part about self-love and being your own caretaker!! This is a great explanation! Thanks for this and love the backdrop!! See ya in ATL!!!

[@jen_gottlieb]

Yaaay! See you!

[@JamesEvans-yn9hh]

​@@jen_gottlieb why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?

[@laris7829]

What if you’ve met someone who does treat you right and has all the qualities that do matter but you’re just not physically attracted to them, even after you’ve given things a go and kissed etc but “it’s not there”…

[@Summer25080]

I had the same thing. But soon i noticed all the things i did not like at all in a man. So he was not ony not my type, he also dit not fit the way i am. He has social anxiety, he told me the other way around. He did not like to travel as often as i did. So i felt hold back when i was with him. Had to change my life to fit with him..... Biggg no! So with 4 months i ended it. Felt so good for me. (He blamed me for having another person i was dating at the same time as him. I only did tell him we are not a match, so i wanted to break up 😅 )

[@psykye]

break up dont waste time. I stayed for 6 years

[@Aia-ky7uh]

why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Very simple you are not compatible. People complicate everything. You move on the end.

[@missbrowncookie]

Am in the same boat and dnt know what should I do.

[@rosswardrop465]

I was never any good with women. I am 65 ..my time clock is running out.At my age women would take advantage of me. I am lonely.You learn to live with it.Single 25 years Sorry I don't trust.Never will.I was ripped off once .I has never got over it.Wrecked me.

[@jen_gottlieb]

I'm sorry to hear you've had such tough times, but it’s never too late for new beginnings or making new friends. Maybe take small steps towards connecting with people through hobbies or groups? You never know, the right company might just be around the corner! Keep your chin up! 😊

[@hikkkies]

We all can heal❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@maureenagnes6675]

Where can i get the book?

[@jen_gottlieb]

Feel free to check these links: Website: matthewhussey.com/llc/ Love Life book: matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/

[@linahome1417]

❤

[@rosswardrop465]

Don't date at all.Stay single.A better life.

[@jen_gottlieb]

😅

[@missmadelinesadventures3278]

Extremely alpha men are attracted to me. But i prefer quiet men..how do i approach them

[@izabelazielak8963]

Harts can change 👵🏿

[@ckdots5698]

This!! ❤🔥🔥

[@iricellyperez2677]

I had lots of people tell me to lower my standards or I wouldn't find anyone when I was 19 and I listened and I waisted 16 years of my life with a narcissistic A-hole.

[@jen_gottlieb]

I'm so sorry to hear that! 😔 Sometimes people give advice that isn't right for us. But hey, it's never too late to raise those standards back up and find someone truly amazing! 🌟Stay strong and keep shining! ✨

[@heidijaramillo7350]

Ive had no luck with online dating after being single 5 yrs went online for a year. Guys say they want a relationship but really all they want is hookups. I met 15 guys over a one year period. All jerks. I have no idea where to meet a decent guy

[@jen_gottlieb]

It can be tough. Sometimes shared interests can lead to better connections. Don't lose hope; the right person is out there. ❤️

[@tubesurf17]

Can I ask: WERE U BUSY, AND JUST OFFERED DUDE SUNDAY. ? Or was it a display And indifference to show your now, husband you had some sort of self-control. You were really actually busy on Saturday when he asked you out. Cause then it just doesn't make sense because you say no. Pretty busy. I'll see you Sunday, but you're not really busy. I understand you're building the tension. The sexual tension, but I guess the tension could have been built built up even by meeting up on satur day. That's right. I don't know. I guess. Were you really busy on Saturday?

[@amanasantanna]

Hey! She was not busy for real on that specific Saturday. But that was such a great self empowering move she did for her own self; regardless of what her now husband would have thought of her, at that time. She took great care of her "own person", and made sure she felt extra confident for that date. It was more about herself feeling good about herself, than about "playing games" to conquer the beloved one. I think she did a great job "being busy on Saturday".❤😊 I'll probably be a copy-cat of Jen, when my love invitation comes along!!;)❤🎉😂

[@bengreatorex502]

Is Matthew Hussey the best person on the planet right now?

[@jen_gottlieb]

Matthew Hussey is amazing! His advice has helped so many people with their love lives and relationships. 🌟 What do you love most about his tips?

[@rosswardrop465]

Dont date at all.Stay single.

[@ItsMeAnnaMaria]

That actually makes sense, i would rather say: Make peace with being single. Like truly. And when some a**hole comes along... it should be instantly clear that being single is clearly the better option. Or if you are the a**hole... don't be. Or if you have to be: don't be with people.

[@rosswardrop465]

Solution to this problem .Stay single.You only get ripped off.Have a good car instead.At least they are faithful.

[@carlomagnojamisola4052]

Just noticed about this love guro guy that in all his videos its always the other person is wrong.. what about you as the person, dont you have any flaws?! I know love is not as simple as we think most of the time it is really complicated and hard and painful to some degree. However it takes two people working together to make it happen. Not just one person should be the good one.. both have to take risk,sacrifice, love whole heartedly and respect each other.

[@jen_gottlieb]

Relationships definitely takes two to tango. It's all about teamwork, mutual respect, and yes, embracing our flaws too. Thanks for keeping it real and sharing your thoughts! 😊

[@Asher22222]

Umm, you might want to watch the video again, and listen more closely.

[@rosswardrop465]

I have been single for 25 years.Burnt once by a woman.Married for 5 weeks.Never bothered again.i live a lonely iife.Sorry i dont trust.Never will.My wife these days is my car.At least my car is faithful.To many Goddiggers out there.I will die a loner.

[@jen_gottlieb]

💔

[@4EverGr8ful1]

Really quite sad that you have such a fatalistic attitude. Might I suggest you seek peace in God?! 🙏❤️✝️

[@fionadale1011]

If you have that mind set all you will see is gold diggers. You have a bad mindset. None of the women I know are like this

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Keep being miserable see where it gets you.. You attract what you give out.

[@rosswardrop465]

I know there is Good women out there.But do some have to rip off Good men.God would not want that.There are Golddiggers out there.In 25 years .I have never bothered again.What get used again.

[@wordpower2211]

Matthew Hussey is one of the most honest speakers I follow in this space. I feel like sharing every single video that includes him sharing insightful experiences and deriving life lessons from each experience, but I want to admit here that I do not share most of these videos only because the titles of such videos are usually misleading. It's not dating tips, red flags, getting ex back etc. It's much more deeper and meaningful. It's about knowing yourself, shifting perspective, gaining objectivity, and giving yourself and others the gift of building a beautiful soul that you are supposed to be.