Transgender Questions | Catholic Priest Response

[@Catholicspeaker]

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[@pattiissa9035]

Our public schools are Satan’s playground 😢😭😥

[@johnbluehouse4991]

You will not redefine gender try as you want. There are two genders defined by God: male and female = man and woman. There are some men more feminine than others, and some women more masculine than others. I never claimed to have all the answers, I just know the outcome of living this lifestyle defined n this "transgender" movement - sin and confusion. I know a lesbian couple that lived all their lives together and died together "happy and fulfilled." I have seen it's possible to do so, or at least in appearance. I can't say for sure. Only God knows, I know many who've lived apart from God yet experienced His blessings. "The rain falls on the just and the unjust." I too know that if one decides that they are going to live that life apart from God, God will not force them to live inside His protective Grace, on the contrary we know He will send strong delusions to those who are absolute in their decision to live in their perversion. That's the problem; so many in this world have decided they know better than God. If one's desire is this one precipice they've decided to die on, then God's not going to force them off. If you're heart is truly open, ask God to do whatever it takes (even if it's your very life) to get you right with Him. This country, and this world, is headed for very hard times unless there is a change, a change in the hearts of the people to turn their will and their live over to God. What so many perceive as an attack is just truth telling. So many are so concerned about feelings today they have decided to ignore the truth in exchange for not hurting one's feelings and jeopardizing the health of the deluded (spiritually, mentally and sometimes physically). I'm sorry if your feelings are hurt, but the truth doesn't care about feelings. If you touch fire you will be burned; regardless of how you feel. If you live immorally eventually it will catch up to you, if not in this life, then the next (which is what I fear for my homosexual friends and family). My children have to survive spiritually in a nation so beset with sin I have fear for their immortal soul lest they give heed to the perverse, they die in their sin and all hope is lost forever. So, you see I cannot remain silent and many like myself will not. I do agree with this though; "those seeking the truth need to be treated with love." Love the sinner hate the sin. Can we separate the two? Indeed we can.

[@moistressplz]

So, I am a trans woman, I knew since I was 16, my mom figured it out around that same time I guess. I was home-schooled, raised in a Conservative Christian household, basically all of the stuff that people believe should prevent someone from being trans. Growing up I was probably the most masculine of all of my siblings, yet I was still the one that turned out to be trans. I waited until I was 25 to be sure, and paid for it all myself after HEAVY research. I immediately fell in love with a name that honestly isn't very different from my old name(from Matthew to Mattie, purposefully chose a name that could be considered gender neutral in case I ever found transition wasn't right for me). I am very respectful with my name and pronouns, I am openly trans at this point and at work mooost people use my new name and pronouns, but I am still very understanding that sometimes I will be misgendered and deadnamed. At home, at the request of my parents, I still use my old name and pronouns. Today I was visiting Catholic friends with my family, it was deadnaming all around, and it didn't bother me at all, I understand it is hard especially for a family that still has young kids that they maybe don't want to know that trans people exist yet. At this point in my life I can say I am overall happier than I have ever been, yeah transition didn't cure all my problems, I still struggle with the anxiety that I have had for my entire life, but I am finally happy with who I am. But now I have the question, after leaving churches when I was 17, I am like, very interested in the Catholic faith. I was raised Lutheran and jumped around a bit before deciding to figure myself out first, and during that time the rest of my family converted to Catholicism and became very devout. I am just not sure if I would even be allowed to convert since I am currently on HRT and considering surgery(purely for my own comfort, I am basically celibate as it is, I have never had interest in sex lol). I am hoping to talk to some Catholic friends and my old pastor, and would love to talk to a priest, I am just not sure if the local priest is very well equipped to handle it, and he seems very busy so I don't want to bother him :)

[@user-dt1vi6dl9e]

Is it ok to be trans in Christian?

[@harpervalleypeeteeay9708]

​@@user-dt1vi6dl9e....100% yes

[@joane24]

"I am just not sure if I would even be allowed to convert since I am currently on HRT and considering surgery(purely for my own comfort, I am basically celibate as it is, I have never had interest in sex lol)" I would really urge you _not_ to get the surgery(-ies). From my observation, the complication rate is staggering, and even without any specific complications, there's significant diminishing of many functions (and I'm not even taking about sexual functions, but rather urethra/urinary problems, or other issues that affect that area, not just from the sexual function perspective but urinary and 'digestive' as well, because everything is close there). I don't think taking hormones in itself would be a hindrance into converting. Though you may be met with mixed reactions and opinions, from both laity and the clergy. The Catholic Church isn't 'affirming' per se, but the pastoral prescription is to be empathetic to situations like that, but be mindful that in practice the reactions may be a mixed bag, depending on the person, and if in doubt, try to seek what the actual teaching of the Church says. While it's not often easy, it's freeing. It's best to seek out a trusted priest/spiritual director and consult him. It may also be a confessor - although you don't confess prior to becoming Catholic, you may come to see a priest for the purpose of conversation. But I'd recommend not going to a first random priest in your situation, but sometime who seems trustful and open (by open I don't mean affirmative, because that's actually less relevant, but empathetic and open to the Holy Spirit). You also might inquire about RCIA and attend the preparatory course - the attendance alone isn't an obligation to convert/join the CC, so you may just go in in order to learn more and help you discern better. Which I think you're familiar with that, since you said some of your family have already joined the Church. I would strongly urge you to PRAY regularly. It's most important. Just you and your relationship with God, no one else in between. 📖You might read the Bible (look up the method of Lectio Divina). Catholic methods of reading the Bible/meditation upon it, may be a bit different than what you know from your upbringing (although Lutheran isn't that very far as some other Protestant traditions, so I don't know). 📿Since you're interested in Catholicism, pick up the Rosary and the Divine Mercy Chaplet!🧡 They're great prayers that will bring so much fruit in your life, I'm sure. Many problems or doubts in life we can't solve ourselves, but that's when we need the heavenly assistance! ⛪Last but not least, you may go to the Adoration! It's where the Blessed Sacrament is exposed. You may just come and pray, however you like. The Blessed Sacrament is also present in every tabernacle in the church, so even if not exposed, Jesus is present there in a very special way. If you have any specific questions or observations about celibacy, I may also try to answer. I am discerned celibate and it is part of my vocation - it's relatively rare, and not even most people who are celibate, are necessarily that as a permanent vocation. But I might be able to provide some hints for discernment or about celibacy (or also sexual ethics in the Catholic teaching, to a certain degree), etc., in case you're interested.

[@joane24]

One more point, which is bit risky for me to write because you may not exactly like to hear it. So, do you think a girl who's anorexic should/would be not allowed to join the Church, because she's anorexic and still dieting? Would she have to stop in order to be received? Similarly, you struggle with gender dysphoria (I assume). The Church isn't for perfect people, it's a hospital for sinners and for wounded people (and many of our wounds aren't because of our sins - that's what is often said - but are inflicted by other or life circumstances, or other reasons, but without our culpability). God is btw the best therapist. So that's why prayer and growing in relationship with Him is most important. I may not know where and how He would like to lead _you_ but whatever His path is, will turn out the best.

[@razy3227]

I'm also trans and I have catholic family but I can't talk to them because they more or less disowned me for being trans. One of my good friends is getting married and his parents (who are catholic) more or less are not showing up because he's not marrying a woman but someone who's non-binary. The church's official stance is more or less to not accept our identity as being real but as being a sin against god. Mostly because we are going against God's intentions for what we should be. Which to them is a straight cis person. There are Catholics who care for our wellbeing but they also see our transness as being not real. Maybe you will find the one or two pastors who will accept that identity as being real but most don't. They are kind, but kindness and recognition are two different things. My friend btw is still catholic but it's hard being at odds with the church and still catholic. There are Christians who accept our identity, an example being the Episcopal church in the US. But it's hard being Christian and trans ngl. Being either driven from your home or having to cut off family members just is the worst. I often wish Christians would be kind and do their research on who we are and what we need. And not ignore the data on the benefits of transitioning for us. I'm not catholic or Christian anymore because of their ignorance and them 'using the word of god' to condemn our existence. But I hope you find accepting, kind, and loving people.

[@mazikode]

Thank you Ken and Father for speaking about this, it lays heavy on many parents hearts. Thank you for Fathers compassion and truth. We need Jesus, Jesus help us. It's encouraging though to know that our priests are trying to keep God's word despite the pressure.

[@stellamariej.s.1664]

Thank you for discussing this difficult topic.. it saddens my heart to hear the struggles of our families. I will remember our kids in my prayers. JMJ pray for us.

[@lluchadden4040]

This is happening on a large scale now. Families are being torn apart. Satan is having a hayday. When children don't believe they are loved and leave the family because of often outside interference, there is an agenda. May God intervene. May parents be wise, loving and give their child the truth and love. Hopefully in time, young people will see the truth. Unfortunately, for many, grave damage has already been done. Bad times.

[@kzbaby2002]

When you don’t affirm them they think you don’t love them and they threaten suicide. I will never give in to the normalization of this because it’s against God. It’s a very no win situation though for our relationships with our kids.

[@seanmarshall8249]

They say the world is overpopulated so they are pushing the gay agendy to keep numbers down. It's not what God wants for us. It will make your children lonely in adulthood as no one wants to sleep with a tranny when they can have a real woman. Coming from a gay man I pnly know to well as I wish my thoughts were different.

[@mick1gallagher]

Why are you blaming satan I thought god made us all.these children are born this way and there's no cure so maybe so should shift the blame back to god

[@kzbaby2002]

@@mick1gallagher Not all are born that way. And anyway, some people are born with diseases or disfigurements. You can’t really say God wanted to make them that way. We all have crosses to bear, maybe homosexuality is a cross to bear and not an excuse to indulge in sin. This is my opinion just like your words are your opinion. And Satan can induce people to fall into all kinds of sins. The cure is always turning your life over to Jesus. When you come to truly surrender to Him, sinning becomes repugnant.

[@Cloud-jz5zx]

What is wrong with all of you, humans have the right to do whatever they want, god is nought other than a mere illusion of misunderstanding and delusion

[@marielalichasalomon6332]

Extremely thoughtful and valuable discussion of a current challenge to children and parents. God bless Father Cristino for his wisdom and love as a Pastor for these times

[@Catholicspeaker]

Thanks for taking the time to watch. God bless

[@Shua01]

Great conversation. I saw that this was going to be the next big push years ago. I told my Wife, “You watch, your television shows will be pushing this stuff.” I have a Niece who now identifies as a boy. She has changed her name twice. My Mom tries to play the game and last Thanksgiving accidentally called her by the wrong pronoun twice. They then cut themselves off from the Family. My Mom was trying so hard. They are not Catholic. In her case, she was raised on YouTub and was influenced at a young age by some of the personalities. She asked her parents to take her to the “Pride” parades and my Brother and his Wife have been taking her and their youngest for years now. So I confirm what your guest said about kids falling into this stuff by their consumption of KZbin.

[@Shua01]

If the Church buys into this, you know there will be some who will say that they should be able to become Priests and if the Church recognizes them as men, then the Church will have opened themselves up to this. If the next letter in the LGBTQ… is “P” (or “MAP”) what will the Church then do? Canonize Priests who’ve been accused of inappropriate relations with children? I’m being hyperbolic, but as you guys mentioned, the Church should have addressed this a long time ago.

[@kzbaby2002]

It’s too bad her parents have affirmed her. They are not doing her any favors.

[@mick1gallagher]

@@Shua01 has the church already told you how sick you are.the church is a totally male organisation that has no interest in woman which is against nature any young man that has no interest in girls is some sort of freak so It appears the ne t best thing is make a priest out of this weirdo

[@Catholicspeaker]

Thank you for sharing and for your encouragement. God bless.

[@jeannetteluttmer5230]

Thank you very, very much for this video on a difficult topic. My 32 year old daughter texted me last week that she is now on hormones to "transition" to a male, that she has a "great team" helping her and that she is finally going to be happy. We continue to surround her with our love, prayers & compassion as well as all those who are confused with their gender. God bless you and your family and all the work you do.

[@Catholicspeaker]

Thank you for sharing. We will keep your daughter in our prayers this evening when we pray as a family. God bless Jeannette.

[@tomcostin6976]

Not me, I would dis own her mental ass

[@johnbluehouse4991]

You will not redefine gender try as you want. There are two genders defined by God: male and female = man and woman. There are some men more feminine than others, and some women more masculine than others. I never claimed to have all the answers, I just know the outcome of living this lifestyle defined n this "transgender" movement - sin and confusion. I know a lesbian couple that lived all their lives together and died together "happy and fulfilled." I have seen it's possible to do so, or at least in appearance. I can't say for sure. Only God knows, I know many who've lived apart from God yet experienced His blessings. "The rain falls on the just and the unjust." I too know that if one decides that they are going to live that life apart from God, God will not force them to live inside His protective Grace, on the contrary we know He will send strong delusions to those who are absolute in their decision to live in their perversion. That's the problem; so many in this world have decided they know better than God. If one's desire is this one precipice they've decided to die on, then God's not going to force them off. If you're heart is truly open, ask God to do whatever it takes (even if it's your very life) to get you right with Him. This country, and this world, is headed for very hard times unless there is a change, a change in the hearts of the people to turn their will and their live over to God. What so many perceive as an attack is just truth telling. So many are so concerned about feelings today they have decided to ignore the truth in exchange for not hurting one's feelings and jeopardizing the health of the deluded (spiritually, mentally and sometimes physically). I'm sorry if your feelings are hurt, but the truth doesn't care about feelings. If you touch fire you will be burned; regardless of how you feel. If you live immorally eventually it will catch up to you, if not in this life, then the next (which is what I fear for my homosexual friends and family). My children have to survive spiritually in a nation so beset with sin I have fear for their immortal soul lest they give heed to the perverse, they die in their sin and all hope is lost forever. So, you see I cannot remain silent and many like myself will not. I do agree with this though; "those seeking the truth need to be treated with love." Love the sinner hate the sin. Can we separate the two? Indeed we can.

[@shaunahawryluk6173]

Again, a brilliant video. I have shared this with friends who are Teachers in the Catholic School System in Alberta. I actually feel like the Catholic School Board has the responsibility to share this with staff in every school.

[@Catholicspeaker]

Thanks for watching, and please share! This message is very relevant for our Canadian Catholic Schools.

[@johannachristinaodriscoll4236]

This Priest is gifted Spiritually and practically. Great video with honest and the very best advice. Viva Cristo Rey

[@Catholicspeaker]

Glad it was helpful!

[@johnbluehouse4991]

26 For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their [i]women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. 27 Likewise also the [j]men, leaving the natural use of the [k]woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men committing what is shameful, and receiving in themselves the penalty of their error which was due. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a debased mind, to do those things which are not fitting; 29 being filled with all unrighteousness, [l]sexual immorality, wickedness, [m]covetousness, [n]maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, 30 backbiters, haters of God, violent, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 [o]undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, [p]unforgiving, unmerciful; 32 who, knowing the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who practice them.

[@katecollins2982]

Thank you for telling teachers to not allow people to tell us we don’t love our students. Thank you!

[@Stevejoohee]

Be a real parent and shut it down

[@suzykirby843]

Thank you so much for this very insightful recording Ken. Great words of wisdom from Fr Cristino. Would love to learn more about how we can have a loving conversation with our colleagues/friends/family who do not share this pov, but also see us as 'bigoted Catholics' who are 'old fashioned'.

[@kzbaby2002]

I have not found a way, sadly. It’s frustrating. I rely on Jesus and give it to Him. Only He can clean up this mess. Keep praying for them to turn around. ❤

[@godsfamily6627]

In the year 2002, we had to make a decision that one parent will leave the job and look after our kids. It was a tough and long thought-out decision. But we finally, made the decision after much prayer, fasting and even arguing that one parent MUST stay at home to look after the kids. I have 3 kids…I had 2 then. Today after 20 years when I look back at that decision, I say I am truly blessed even though the decision was never so easy, and we had to go through some tough times esp. with our finances. But we DO NOT regret that decision today because we can see how strong our kids have become despite the onslaught of the world, media and even at times leaders of the Church misguiding them. So, the answer to this problem that we face in our society is not simple. But we can lay our finger on some important phases in our lives or in the life of the society at large. I believe that parents must take responsibility for what happens to the children. A good tree produces good fruit. And if a tree is bad then make it good. Most of the time, we as parents are largely responsible for the dilemma that our kids are facing because we were never there. We were busy earning money, chasing careers, fixing problems etc. We rarely had time to tell them about God and the teachings of the Church. Now, we find ourselves in a tight spot. Parents are the first teachers of the children. But the media, schools and even the government became their first teachers and so they have been indoctrinated from childhood with certain ideas and philosophies. I remember my kids would often come to me with various questions and ideas and thank God I was at home to answer it. Moreover, I had the opportunity to see what they were doing daily from close quarters. We threw the TV out of the house in 2003. I gave my kids high speed broadband and told them they can watch good Christian stuff and kept them away from the trash and rubbish on the internet. Supervision became the norm. They knew the parent was around to watch what they were watching. And if they did get into something bad then as a parent, I would sit with them and talk. The other problem with us as parents is that we often don’t pray. And we rarely pray together as couples. A family that prays together stay together. That does not mean such families won’t have problem. But God becomes the central part of all their doings and being. Having a family meal together at least once in day should be encouraged. Because it is here that we share our thoughts, and we are best of ourselves. Never allow kids to rule the home. Many parents are afraid of their kids because they know how to bully their parents. In my home even after 20 years…the lights go off at 10.30 pm with exceptions. Set rules for your home right from the beginning. Don’t allow kids to rule the home. Fathers are called to be leaders of their family to lead and guide the family. The Church too has let us down big time…look at the Church hierarchy today. They are afraid to tell you the truth. This priest was firm in what he believed but even he was very careful of what he said. Today if the kids find themselves in such a situation it is not because they are at fault. The first people are the parents…they are at fault…next it is the Church. But we never take responsibility for our failings we try to sugar coat it like the priest did today. Mind you, he is an excellent priest for the time and place he lives in. But more forthcoming is required. Let us call a spade a spade and not an agricultural equipment. We have learnt the art of public speaking but not God speaking so to say. Sorry if I sound rude but that’s not my intention at all. But as a parent I have always turned to God in repentance when my kids have turned away from the truth and did what is wrong. Even to this day I never blame them first…I take full responsibility as a parent and ask God to forgive me. We have pampered our kids with gifts, money, devices etc. and allowed them to do what they want rather then what they need to. Allowing children to have free access to things in the home in the name of privacy and giving space to them has only backfired. Telling our kids that they can leave home after a certain age and do what they want has caused so many heartburns. We have allowed our kids to be fashioned by the norms of the society rather than the norms of God. Do watch a movie called “Remember” It shows the situation of kids in 2050. But the point is how did we reach such a point. It was a slow and gradual change. We allowed society and government to shape our thinking and not the Bible or the teachings of the Church. The only way out is sincere repentance and doing exactly what God wants us to do. That does not mean we do not LOVE our kids. We do and we should. At all times and in all circumstances because that is how God loves us…unconditionally. But we need to be firm and clear too. Otherwise, they will think that we accept whatever they do and they will continue on the destructive path of life. Parenting is never easy. Ask the Father in Heaven, how difficult parenting is! And yet He does not hesitate to tell us the hard things of life and call us back to HIM in repentance. That’s what good parents do…they love unconditionally and yet do not compromise out of FEAR. But rather take a STAND and ask God to intervene and trust me God does SHOW UP. I can tell you from my experience of being home for the last 20 years. TRUST and PATIENCE are the key virtue a parent should ask the good LORD to grant us. Assuring you of my prayers to all the parents who struggle and requesting your prayers for my family. Thanks, and God bless us all. Grace to all who have an undying love for Christ. Ave Maria.

[@rongablue]

Thank you for your wise words. I have copied snippets and hope you don’t object.

[@godsfamily6627]

@@rongablue Hi Ronga. I own nothing. It is the work of the Holy Spirt. Copyright belongs to Him. ☺️ Stay blessed and make a difference. Do pray for me and my family. The joy of the LORD be your strength. Amen.

[@kezzywambui7487]

Thank you I have learnt something from you. God bless you

[@godsfamily6627]

@@kezzywambui7487 Hi Kezzy. Glad to know you that. In fact learning never stops. I am still learning to take care of my kids. God is good and faithful. He never fails to guide us and lead us. May He bless you and all that you do. Amen.

[@rongablue]

@@godsfamily6627 Every day I strive to make a difference. 🙂You and your family have my prayers, please pray for me and mine. 🙏✝️🙏 Thank you.

[@tonysialu]

Thank God for all that you are sharing, trying, and doing for us. We continue to pray and reject all confusion spread by Satan and his minions. Come Holy Spirit. Mary, pray for us. St. Joseph, pray for us. Jesus have mercy on us.

[@guest4888]

We need to offer one decade of the rosary everyday for children, parents, activists involved in and pushing this gender ideology on vulnerable young kids. Only God can change and heal these minds, bodies and souls to turn to Him instead of these demonic forces.

[@mjLes18]

God have Mercy on us!❤

[@day1678]

Parents should be encouraged to preach to their children that this gender inclination is a consequence of Man's fall from Grace. But Jesus did come and availed us with the necessary graces to address this problem. Yes, it's not going to be easy, but Jesus is the Way, Truth and Life.

[@exnihilo415]

If a child wants to transition, you take them to a psychiatrist. Same as any other mental health condition.

[@marysedita7326]

Ty for this video and I think it is so important that we not forget the so very important role of the Parents and Teachers The Parent is the most vital and important role but the impact one Teacher can make is not to be overlooked Yes we must support but we do not support erroneous ideologies I fear for our youth in this world gone mad as we have lost one of our own to this madness. A Parent up against so many influencers is a very hard job… school, videos, educators, peers, movie, music. God bless and we pray for you. Ty Father for these words

[@corazonmorales2202]

The topic is very relevant and was extensively discussed. Thank you, Fr and Ken. The root cause of why this concern accelerated during the pandemic was the influence of social media. I agree with Fr that children are not supervised during the online studies. On top of what Fr advised us parents, on how to handle this very sensitive issue, we should improve our prayer life and add mortifications to our daily prayers. We have a big problem, yes, but we have a much bigger and greater God who will not drop the ball on us. More prayers, open communication and mortifications.....

[@dianenoll9126]

Such a tough subject...you've handled this very well. Many good thoughts and guidence. It's very scary and confusing. The animal vs human is the most ridiculous part of this confusion. I saw this agenda pressure starting a long time ago and feared what was to come. It's worse than I thought ever could happen. God help us and have mercy on us. Thank you for this discussion. God bless you both. 🙏

[@susanellis2897]

Consider the possibility that gender dysphoria is not really understood scientifically or psychologically. I wonder why we can accept all kinds of “disabilities” and find that people with disabilities can find a place in the world but a “two spirited” person cannot? This is actually valued in some cultures I am a Catholic mom of a trans gender grown woman. I am troubled by the way in which spokespersons for our Church tend to speak about this issue as a choice. I did not see that with my child. There was strong evidence of prenatal hormone issues and physiological evidence that she was born this way. That does not constitute a choice. She experienced “discomfort “ all her life. I hold with Church teaching on all these matters. (Gay “marriage” etc.) ,But I don’t find any actual helpful advice in these discussions because of the assumptions that are made about what it is to be trans. I have NO DOUBT that some are choosing. But in my experience it is not always a choice. I agree wholeheartedly that families are being undermined in their children’s lives in school. It all began when the state began to teach our children sex ed Comically called “family life education”. Which our family fought against. We eventually homeschooled. It is a complicated and emotionally charged issue that requires compassion and understanding. I am learning to live with some ambiguity in my life. I know That God created my child and holds her In His heart. And seeks her every day.

[@howardcurtis9138]

Before retirement, I was a therapist and I remember interviewing a young "M to F" transgender person who, during the interview said, "Gee, maybe I should have remained a boy." So, I do think it is wise not to let a young person rush into a decision that is irreversible. But at the same time, I deplore the fact that the whole transgender issue has been politicized. The Christ of Catholicism is certainly more compassionate than the career ecclesiastical bureaucrats who claim to represent Him. These people who feel they are "non-binary" or "transgender" are suffering because they are marginalized by society. I don't really think it is "Christian" to kick them while they are down!

[@sharongogan5318]

I have a dear friend who is a beautiful strong woman who said she was a "tomboy all her life" . She is a beautiful mother of 3 boys . She is a boy scott leader, school teacher, still a beautiful woman, with her "Tom boy" qualities

[@seanmarshall8249]

Coming from a gay man I can honestly say that being gay, transgender is a lonely road to walk down, God doesn't want this for us so if someone transitions then no one will want to be with that person in a relationship, it just doesn't happen a d being gay is hard also as men want a release then they move on. Where is the love? The family? Its not there. Don't let your kid transition, they will regret it one day.

[@FinnishEmpire]

If your Catholic, why are you gay?

[@moistressplz]

Maybe I have just been very lucky? I have a lot of very close friends, my very devout parents are still relatively close to me, and I have had romantic interests who have full on admitted they would date me if I had pursued them further(I just haven't because I don't really have an interest at the moment).

[@firangele8094]

Only God is the way the truth and the life. When we pull away from God we go pleasing the world and then we are in huge trouble. 😢 may God bless you all and your families. 🙏🙏🙏

[@sandan778]

If a child comes to you and asked to be transitioned, just be honest to your child(good and evil in the world)and pray pray and pray for your child. Only God can change the child's mind and as a parent it is our responsibility to pray the Rosary every day for our children. They were placed in our care as parents so we need to be honest and start at toddler to talk to them about God so that when they grow to go to school they know already about God.

[@joan5856]

This is not a new problem. When I was a student nurse over 60 years ago I had to accompany a patient to theatre who's sex change surgery had infection, and it had to be attended to surgically. The problem is not physical but a mental problem. This surgery is only the beginning of the process, it requires hormone treatment for life.

[@bryanbenoit9096]

I think the presentation is wonderful. Although I do agree with all of the answers, I do think in humility it would have been helpful to also have someone on the program who is actually experiencing gender dysphoria, or who is thinking of possibly transitioning. What I have been hearing so far, is answers from Catholic theologians and ministers, who are not experiencing gender dysphoria. Perhaps an offer to a Catholic psychiatrist to be a guest speaker I just think there needs to be more people included in the discussion as answers are discovered, realized, and explained.

[@mjLes18]

Thank you so much for this ❤ This is excellent.

[@misscamay]

It is an easy topic to discuss and talk about philosophically but an excruciating painful life and experience for the transgender person….

[@peace1108]

Parents must homeschool if it's at all possible. Parents can use the computer to school the child. There are a lot of resources to help parents educate their children.

[@davehill584]

Agreed. Keep them free of religion, politics and this queer sh1t. Allow the children the freedom to explore the world without the above bs.

[@dorothyswol6979]

This is so sad. Unbelievable. Is there any way to go back to the way things were in the 1960s? The Virtues we had years ago.

[@fram1111]

Great video, You work well with guests interview and sharing the word. He is so right and evidence proves that point.

[@misscamay]

I love that when you talk to some Catholic priests in the USA or Australia in private about this topic they are compassionate and non judgemental than when they are interviewed or speaking in public.

[@madeline_parks]

I transitioned in my late teens and now am depressed because I sterilized myself at such a young age and society supported me sterilizing myself. I was too young to consume alcohol at the time and yet I was allowed to consent to a medical process that permanently sterilized me.

[@georgecauchi5940]

Ken this meeting was certainly reflecting what Our Holy Virgin Mother tells us about her adversary, the red dragon. More than ever all parents are in my personal prayers to face such confusion and I have no doubt about the real existence of satan within this act of confusion to only challenge the love we have for our children. Do we fight against our own flesh and blood? Martial arts have many lessons in philosophy and I am no genius, however, we need to join the power coming toward us with total concentration to join the punch that is coming straight into our face and join it from the side to embrace its force and find a way to re-direct that attack. It makes a lot of sense to pray the Rosary, Divine Mercy, and the chaplet with the 14 stations of the cross that you and Jenelle present so well with such devotion. We need to challenge the red dragon with the most powerful weapon we have "The Holy Rosary" to encourage and help our Holy Virgin Mother in showing us HER powers that SHE obtains from Our Formidable Creator. "God is The King Of Kings" and as Fr. John Riccardo explains in his presentation of "Hope" when as funny as he says it, when John and Peter the apostles are on the boat in a tempest, scared to death, they ask Jesus who was asleep to save them from drowning. Fr. John Riccardo is so accurate in revealing clearly, to state that Jesus is listening, Jesus is with us and all we need to do is 'TRUST' and "ASK" or "BEG" if we must for immediate change. This is beyond our control. demons are powerful beings and we need the Supernatural LAW of GOD to intervene. We have no solution or the capacity to do this on our own. Please do a presentation on the MUST of the prayers of the "Holy Rosary" and "Divine Mercy" prayers in the family and by individuals or in cenacles. Two people become a cenacle in prayers. Let us join together and do this, please. Our Holy Ever-Virgin Mother tells us that with prayers of the Holy Rosary, we can even stop and prevent wars. This is an ongoing Atomic war. Thank you.

[@sonnysideup570]

Okay now this kitty litter box being put in schools and bathroom cause children felt like they was cats was a story that was put out on a Q Anon website and there was no cat litter boxes placed in any schools at any time so that is a big lie that was being repeated so please correct this statement smh

[@juditthkilach4724]

The devil is actively attacking the family. The Rosary is what we need to overcome.

[@middaymoms8882]

Remarkably courageous topic to tackle. Thank you!

[@danielfedele]

Children are children. They do not have any concept of these kinds of things. Children pretend to be superheroes and other fictional characters all the time. They are just expressing their imagination. As parents we need to loving affirm who they Really are.... They are God's children. God created them Male and God created them Female. When God created them he numbered every hair on their head. He designed them perfectly. God does not make mistakes. If you have a boy who comes to you and says that he feels anything other than Himself, you need to ask Why he has come to this conclusion? Most of the time it is a funny reason like he just wants to play with a toy or something. And then you can reaffirm that he is a boy made in the image of God. And that God designed him with perfect intentionality. And just because he wants to play with the toy that doesn't change that. Boy are boys and Girls are girls this is a scientific and biological proven fact. And this is the way that God made it. Because God is good. The question that is the question God's goodness. And it shows a lack of trust in God. Suicide rate amongst Transgender people goes up in communities that support these harmful ideologies. And over a 10-year period between 70% to 90% of people that transition regret it. And they want to reverse something that cannot be reversed in alot of cases. Truly loving someone involves affirming who they are in reality, That they are who God created them to be, not going along with a lie that will cause them harm. God bless you and know that God loves you.

[@misscamay]

when matters where the bible and cathechism are quiet, choose compassion….

[@joannebywaters4154]

This is phenomenal, thank you!!!!❤️🙏❤️

[@Catholicspeaker]

You are so welcome!

[@joolz5747]

Actually most normal sensible people in my opinion would absolutely say no! Just say no. They said that about drugs in the past. Just say no there is no discussion!. It’s crazy. When children are 18 they leave the house go do their thing if they want. But how in heavens name can’t you lead and direct a young child in the right direction? It’s the parents who must be crazy in my opinion. They must have no moral background or teachings…How can you not know how to respond? That’s ridiculous! It’s either right or wrong end of discussion! Good grief!

[@kzbaby2002]

My daughter is almost 21 and I still can’t accept this indoctrination she is victim to. Doesn’t really matter how old they are. It hurts.

[@kimo1960]

Wow, this is so beautifully done.

[@renkomon.8312]

I was thinking that your children were going to do this when reading the title...

[@joolz5747]

There will be no horror if you are close to Jesus. Go back and read the acts of the apostles the early church fathers and noticed the persecution. We are in it now slowly moving forward. Stay attached to Jesus. Minimal focus on evil. Focus on Jesus and all his goodness and trust him. Amen amen!

[@kzbaby2002]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@delacruzgr1]

If I were a parent, I will tell my child to accept what God has given you. When you reach the age of consent, you can go to transition and pay for it yourself. At the moment whether you are a lesbian or gay, I accept you as my child, I love you and I thank God for giving you to me... Lots of talk Fr...not helpful at all...for me. Peace.

[@kim.yandere.]

Joan of Arc: A Revolutionary Figure in Gender Norms and a Symbol for Transgender Inclusivity Joan of Arc, a peasant girl who led French troops to pivotal victories during the Hundred Years' War, remains one of history's most enigmatic and revolutionary figures. Her life and actions defied the traditional gender norms of her time, presenting a unique case for understanding how gender roles can be transcended. This essay argues that Joan of Arc's defiance of societal expectations and her embodiment of roles traditionally reserved for men position her as a significant figure in challenging gender norms. Furthermore, by examining her life through a contemporary lens, it becomes evident that Joan of Arc's legacy can be seen as an ally for transgender individuals, advocating for the fluidity and self-determination of gender identity. Joan of Arc and Gender Norms in Her Time Joan of Arc's life in the early 15th century was characterized by stark gender expectations. Women were expected to remain in domestic roles, contributing little to public or military spheres. Joan’s extraordinary rise to military leadership directly challenged these norms. As a young woman, she claimed divine guidance and took on the mantle of a military leader, donning male attire and participating in battles-roles traditionally reserved for men. Her actions were not merely symbolic; they had a tangible impact on the course of the Hundred Years' War. By stepping into a male-dominated arena, Joan redefined what was possible for women in her era, making her a revolutionary figure in the context of gender norms. Joan of Arc and Contemporary Gender Perspectives From a contemporary perspective, Joan of Arc’s story can be seen through a lens of gender fluidity and self-determination. While she did not explicitly identify as transgender, her life and actions reflect themes that resonate with modern discussions about gender identity. Joan's choice to wear male clothing and lead troops can be interpreted as a rejection of the rigid gender binary that constrained her. Her ability to navigate and redefine gender roles highlights the possibility of transcending traditional categories. Furthermore, Joan of Arc's insistence on her divine mission and refusal to conform to societal expectations exemplifies a form of gender expression that challenges normative constructs. In this light, her story can be viewed as an early example of someone resisting imposed gender norms and asserting a personal identity that did not conform to societal expectations. This resonates with the experiences of many transgender individuals today, who often face similar struggles in asserting their identities in a world that rigidly enforces gender binaries. Joan of Arc as an Ally for Transgender Individuals Joan of Arc's defiance of gender norms and her embodiment of roles traditionally reserved for men can be seen as an early form of allyship for those challenging gender expectations. Her legacy provides a historical precedent for understanding and embracing gender fluidity. By asserting her place in the military and public sphere despite societal resistance, Joan demonstrated that gender should not limit one's opportunities or roles in society. In modern times, Joan of Arc's story can be a source of inspiration for transgender individuals and advocates. Her life exemplifies the courage to challenge and redefine gender expectations, aligning with contemporary values of gender inclusivity and self-determination. Joan’s legacy encourages the recognition and acceptance of diverse gender identities, reflecting a broader understanding of gender as a spectrum rather than a fixed binary. Conclusion Joan of Arc's challenge to the gender norms of her time and her revolutionary role as a military leader have cemented her status as a historical figure who defied expectations. When viewed through a contemporary lens, her life and actions resonate with the principles of gender fluidity and self-determination, making her an important figure in the discussion of transgender inclusivity. Joan of Arc’s legacy offers a powerful example of how breaking free from traditional gender roles can inspire and support broader movements for gender equality and acceptance. Her story remains a testament to the enduring struggle for gender justice and the possibility of transcending societal constraints.

[@joannebywaters4154]

Praying especially for courage & fear of the Lord( love & fear God , more than fearing others) 🙏🙏🙏

[@elizabethyan1105]

People will wake up and find out Robots have taken over, Humanity will extinct 🙃

[@dawnmireles2912]

What is happening to this world? A child wanting to identify as a cat? My parents would have ignored or redirected this. Why is it now that parents are acting on this child request and conforming instead of redirecting? November 16, 2022

[@SkyeTerrier2017]

Gender dysphoria is miserable. I lived as a woman for most of my life. I hate everything feminine: women’s, clothing, affectations, pink-collar jobs. Women were uncomfortable around me and I was uncomfortable in their company. I’ve finally decided to transition.

[@milwaukeetraveler]

"I make for myself, whatever existence I want". Having just watched a discussion on the 7 deadly sins, would this not suggest that the insistence that people be allowed to change who and what they are can be regarded as the sin of "pride"? God granting one the gift of life, as a male or female, is not good enough? God didn't know what he was doing and/or made a mistake?

[@nestlynarciso6812]

pray the holy rosary daily as family and dedicate your prayer. Let no evil forces intervene a Christian and holy family life

[@TransGurl.VrilX.1488]

I just don't understand the focus and I session of condemnation. That is something only the "elect" few in the Bible give attention to. Even Jesus himself spoke of it only in a few instances. We are living in a world of condemnation obsession and I don't know why. Also, the history of the west over the last 150 years has been in condemnation of such matters. Supposedly this concern rests in "subjective" self definement that here is declared to go back to the formulations of the "civil contract" and yet, that view has done nothing but condemn those inward experiences. Somehow the review of it recalls that this is to blame. Why did this "subjectivity" over the last 500 years result in condemnation of sex and gender variance?

[@misscamay]

It is not a new thing we are just more open in discussing it because it is shown in social media. It has been going on in Asia decades and decades ago…..

[@harpervalleypeeteeay9708]

This priest was already wrong when he opened his mouth. Parents are NOT "co-creators" of their children with God. God is the SOLE creator.

[@RG-iw7py]

'Sweden's U-Turn on Trans Kids: The Trans Train' That's excellent documentary on this subject, serious, damaging side effects. Lobotomy and Tuskeege/Venezuela experiment comes to mind.

[@user-dt1vi6dl9e]

is it ok to be trans and Christian?

[@maryricketts7337]

Christians have strayed from the Word of God and accepted worldly doctrine. The scripture says we are to cast down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the Word of God. The battle is in the mind and these thoughts and subsequent feelings are from the enemy. Satan goes about like a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. Equip your children to resist the devil and he will flee from them.

[@DeadmanDave]

"Women must not pretend to be men, and men must not pretend to be women. The Lord your God is disgusted with people who do that." Deuteronomy 22 : 5 Besides, your true gender depends entirely on which chromosome you inherit from your father.

[@krystynafejzoski9612]

Please, don't be afraid to name a sin by its name

[@sharongogan5318]

The only circumstance is undefended Testicles.

[@sharongogan5318]

Undesended

[@colajax]

1/2 way through... and that priest has NOT mentioned OUR LORD ...is he CATHOLIC???

[@anneangel3297]

Fr Cristo??? (Sp) is a fine priest. I have met him as a semarian Taught me lots in his homilies He was Chaplain to U of Calgary

[@maryannmcrae5392]

Becareful what they are teaching your children in school

[@gildasladeh8279]

❤

[@marybeetaperera2823]

I am sorry to say that this person is not mentioning about God's creation.

[@christopherpaul6062]

Wow

[@harvestingnow1571]

I disagree Completely. Jesus said he came to make revolution. He warned Mother against daughter and Sons against fathers. Why??? Because sin is in great Abundance. We’re seeing it full-on now!! 😭🙏

[@janejarve]

Hmm, Father says some interesting things. So, if God brings me into this world, and chooses who I am, and how I am, it certainly lends it a blessing to be someone affected by mental illness, rather than being "cursed" or as Ken might say, denied God's "love". My mental illness affects my faith as I struggle to be more than the Lord's fair weather friend. It is good to have it affirmed that really, viewing mental illness as a particular blessing from the Lord, as a share in His suffering, in faithful hope of one day being able to share in His resurrection. I know this was a video about Gender Transitioning, but that was my personal takeaway from this video. I personally think that transitioning should not be available to anyone under 18. The mind is not fully developed, so making an irreversible choice at a too young age doesn't make logical sense, apart from any Church's teaching. As Father says, a child suffering, not knowing who they are, what they are, should be met with love first of all. Love one another as I have loved you. That is our instruction from God.

[@janejarve]

I meant "as Ken might say some people seem to view it, being denied God's "love". My apologies. No offence intended.

[@casimirgrochowski9583]

Remember this flows from the new ecumenism of the V2 church/sect (no, no, no, don't try to convince the other of your faith, it is a grave sin against ecumenism: Francis has stated many times). Which is a direct contradiction to Christ's final teaching at the ascension. If you believe that non-Catholics can be saved outside the Catholic Church, as the V2 church/sect states, you are only a thought away from believing that all will be saved, universal salvation! If so, why worry about your children? They will be saved too, right? But in truth, you know in your heart, in your soul, in your mind, they will not be saved. So it is, the antichrists of the V2 sect will always mock the Catholic Church and will always push Satan's agenda.

[@eXileLies]

'Transgender Question' is probably the worst, historically loaded 'title' you could've used. Just saying.

[@Catholicspeaker]

The tile is "Transgender Questions", with an "s". What are your concerns with this title?

[@DSTH323]

Shun and rebuke pornography like the devilish plague that it is. And then such obsessions will in time recede into spiritual sanity. Refuse all bad television shows and movies. And watch who you make friends with. Avoid bad friendships as one must avoid fire.

[@elizabethcasas7268]

In the name of the Father the Son the Holy Spirit Sacred heart ❤️of Jesus one in the lmmaculate heart of Mary l concencrate our children to your most Holy Sacred and immaculate heart ❤️ the devil is out to confuse our children The power of Almighty God the Father Son Holy Ghost binding rebuke Satan In the Holy Name of Jesus in the Holy Name of Jesus in the Holy Name of Jesus in the Holy Name of Jesus in the Holy Name of Jesus in the Holy Name i of Jesus Saint Archangels Michael Gabriel Rafael celestial choirs of Angels and Saints intercede for children's many situations that are occurring sadly to our children online gaming is becoming dangerous for children's I know for a fact when a child goes unloved they get curious that's why I'm saying again and again Be very diligent observant non-stop praying for our children In the name of the Father and Son the holy spirit amen 🙏❤️

[@cloggingdad]

Satan is jealous of God and wants to be like God in a sense of Power and adoration, but not identical such that he would be "good". We are made in the image and likeness of God, and we have gender. Satan and all angels (at the beginning) were created all at once, they don't need gender as they don't reproduce. Satan wanting adorers like himself, as God has creatures made in his image and likeness, wants genderless beings taken from God, and that is what this gender dysphoria does. Sex transition surgery and the misuse of hormones destroys the ability to be fruitful and multiply, but then applies cosmetic surgery to allow a lie to be convincingly portrayed to the world. A person is still XX or XY but has twisted themselves as created to be merely an image (without the substance) of what they think they desire. Satan gets neutered people not following the will of God, but following his will to destroy the intent and works of God. Make no mistake, it is at its root demonic. A good tree produces good fruit as scripture says, and God tell us to be fruitful (even the Hail Mary talks of the Fruit of her Womb), but this causes bad fruit, in fact sterility (no good fruit) is the result when it is fully carried out.

[@rsmith7589]

Jesus is Lord Radio. Listen: “PROPHECY ON THE HORRIBLE STATE OF SEXUAL SIN ON THE EARTH & THE DREADFUL WRATH OF GOD UNLEASHED“ on Repent & Prepare the way. Amen

[@anneangel3297]

An evil

[@colajax]

ANNE ,,, it is satan in his finest hour .. LORD HAVE MERCY

[@mick1gallagher]

I asked a Catholic last year what would he do if his son was like this. His reply shocked me, I'd take him to an exorcist to have him cured. Doesn't this reply prove how sick and dangerous the Catholic Church is.

[@melk6720]

If a child wants to transition then the demons have got in. These attacks really are from Satan.

[@flip-phone_becky4655]

I would love to go to a Catholic church and experience it but I am a transsexual so I have no idea how it would be, but people seem to not know and I've been like this for about 7 years now. I don't buy the crazy doctrine metaphysics stuff these days that's going around everything with 'us people'. I'm from a Church of England sort of circle (it feels extremely normal to me): - I wake up. - I go to my room - I open the Book of Common Prayer - I read the collect of the week - I pray the rosary before or after reading (but seem split on the 4th and 5th glorious mysteries; so typical) - I read the Trinity parts at the start of the Liturgy - I might read the Psalm for the morning or not (before or after the rosary) - I read a morning reading (before or after the rosary) - I read the collect of the week - Then I start my day ~ Evening - I read the collect of the week - I read the evening reading that matches and follows on from the morning one - I might pray the rosary if I won't fall asleep - I might read the Psalm for the evening or not (before or after the rosary) - I read the collect of the week I just wouldn't want to be disrespectful or to cause any sort of scandal, or cause tension or anger within people or anything.

[@davehill584]

Could you expect anything better from an old mad guy in a frock? Why people look up to his sort baffles me.

[@MsMsmak]

You might as well ask the Church to answer the question about wearing glasses, or having a nose job.

[@mskathy8134]

You don’t need to take hormones to change the way your body presents to wear glasses or get a nose job.

[@mskathy8134]

And in Genesis :27 And God created man to his own image; to the image of God he created him; male and female , he created them.

[@MsMsmak]

@@mskathy8134 Interesting. In other words, the body is sacred and you shouldn't do anything to it that god didn't intend. So no Statins, or Chemo, or don't take tylenol. No one asks the churchs "opinion" on that. How about a child with a hear defect? Can't fix that either. Or is it just because the church is judgemental as to what is fixable and what isn't? You catholics are so full of your bullshit. God damn hypocrits.