Are you in self denial? Are you not Christian? Do you not "tithe"? Tithing is very important to all the Christian churches I had attended. Money donation is a sure way to get you to fast track to become a beacon. Christian churches always have activities to fill up your schedule making sure members do not have time to meet people outside of their own church. I had known lovers have to break up because they belong to different denomination of Christian churches .They cannot stand the pressure they received from their own fellow members . Very sad, but true.