WHEN CAN OUR BABY COME HOME??? | TRENT & ALLIE

[@AnnStricklandinterviews]

Babies know you're there by your smell, touch and looking into your eyes. He will recover sooner when the bonding occurs. Just because he cannot tell you he needs you doesn't mean he doesn't need you as much as a 5 or 6 year old. The house can wait even if you need to go to a hotel. Maybe you could get special release to live in the house if the officials knew your situation you could get a special exemption to live in it for a month or two. When I've been in the hospital and in and out of conciseness it was so so comforting to see my husband sitting beside me even though I couldn't express. At a minimum have your mom stay at the hospital. Even these videos can wait so you can be with your son. Most hospitals have a bed in the room for a parent to stay or hire someone to finish the build and focus on the family.

[@CoffeeCrazy]

😒

[@offairhead]

I completely agree. This is the most important bonding time even without the medical issues. With those it’s even more important that Leo’s brain learns to tether to his parents,…. Who aren’t there.

[@offairhead]

As for the temporary exemption to live in their home,…. They didn’t bother with that, they are already living in their home illegally which is why her mother is able to live in Terry until the furniture for the rent house came.

[@melissast.martin2561]

When Leo smiled that was the cutest thing ever, lol. Don’t beat yourself up, you can be there more for him if you’re taking care of yourself too.

[@kristyhenry7780]

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[@kristyhenry7780]

💓❤💕🧡💋💕❤🤗🙏🤟

[@lauratibbles6598]

❤️❤️so no well stated Melissa we all love this family

[@FM-uk8rs]

@Claudia This is the most sense from this youtube comments i have seen !

[@aslobos]

Very true. 💖💙. Leo looks just like his mommy. 🙏

[@didgemama4890]

The best definition of being a parent: “when you have the feeling you’re heart is walking around outside of your body.” And our kids wonder why we are so protective! All will be well. Rough start for any parent, hugs to the three of you.

[@lcwathome821]

Amen!

[@barbibutton9619]

Beautiful quote 🌺🌸🌷

[@CheleBoxy]

That's EXACTLY the feeling. A huge piece of yourself is missing.

[@judyherman1249]

Thirty nine years ago when I had my 2nd son, even though I was at 9 months and 2 days along he was born with a few health issues. Therefore, at 5 lbs 6 oz he was in an incubator for 10 days. Finally on the the 11 day I got to bring him home. What a blessing and a relief I felt. So stay strong and positive, you will feel that too very soon.

[@chrisbellenger8606]

yes but you would leave him... bullshit

[@geechegal987]

I love when Trent says " This project is basically done-" then says we just have to do " then talks for 5-7 minutes and lists 25 tasks that needs to be done" LOL- love his optimism

[@tonyflores2512]

Two parents can can be alternating to be constantly checking on baby Leo. Both can get rest at different times.

[@reishimama]

My exact thought...

[@ORSkie]

Absolutely

[@katkohler]

Trent and Allie, you can do this! Little Leo will get through this, too! Get a little stuffed animal that plays music. Sleep with it so your scent is on it. Take it to Leo and place it in his crib at the hospital. Tell the nurses what you are doing and instruct them to wind it up each time they care for him and put it near where he can smell it. This will help him know that you haven’t left and you are still “with” him. This will also aid with emotional abandonment issues later. I did this with my infant son when I was 2 hours away from him in the hospital. He is 42 and we will always have a special bond.

[@Jaynes-Path]

My youngest was a preemie and knew my scent! I would leave her with my pillow case or something that I would have my scent on. I also had a something to play music near her so she didn't feel alone. This helped her to stay calm when I had to leave her. It does help!

[@dianapollex3266]

Excellent ideas

[@wapi70]

Good Idea😍

[@toliveischrist950]

Hopefully he’s at home now❤️ Their videos are about 2 weeks in the past.

[@monkeylover645]

@@KayRay1966 I can't understand why shes not there with him still the hospital , I wouldn't leave him if he was mine , I just don't understand.

[@travelamma2779]

My heart is with you. My newborn daughter also was in the hospital for about a week. She is now married and about to have her 4th child next month. Once Leo comes home you will be amazed how quickly this will fade, and joy will be restored. May you have peace in the journey.

[@johninYVR]

"Other than that, it's basically done." Trent, about seven times every video. That is so true with so much in life. "There's not much we can to to help him." Allie, holding a sleeping Leo. Just by holding him you ARE helping him. That is the truth. A bonus: you are also helping yourself.

[@robintatina9819]

Building a house and building a baby! Both have set backs and scheduling issues.

[@irishlovely8867]

I know in real time Leo is probably home by now, however I’m so glad to hear that his medical team is sticking with the protocol guidelines in keeping Leo on GI rest. X 5 full days. I’m a NICU RN and have seen babies fed too early not tolerate their feedings and have to go back on GI rest and stop feeding. Prayers continue as Leo heals and you all are reunited!❤️

[@MOI-qq8zc]

You are sweet!!

[@missingremote4388]

ICU is have the best rooms

[@nadinevonderwehd4349]

Ja der ist wirklich süß

[@clpercy]

Omg - I can’t stop with the tears. My boy had a bowel obstruction and heart murmur. They took him away to Childrens Hospital and I did not see him for 2 days. 12 days in Childrens , he was cleared and we got to go home. Nurses were amazing. 2 weeks of hell, and We now have an amazing 27 year old man. You guys will make it and Leo will be an amazing human

[@kellyk2645]

Just watching Allie's face while Trent was doing the good-bye at the end of the video made me cry. How much this hurts her as a mom was so visible. It's nice to know that by the time this video posted those difficult days are far behind them and Leo is home.

[@rhosedelrosario2169]

I cried too. As a mom, i feel her so much. I perfectly know the feeling because i am a mom of a 6month old premature baby...

[@kathrynkai9264]

Her face brought tears to my eyes. She is the strongest person.

[@marystrenke6299]

@@kathrynkai9264 Same here. Her face said it all. It's a blessing to know this young couple.

[@junehulton8320]

It was heartbreaking. Xx 💗

[@flashflair]

did they post anything about him being home yet?

[@didi5387]

I love how baby-Leo smiled as he heard his Mommy-Allie's voice talk to the camera ( then she glances down to him..and big smile!!!) OMG..my heart! That was so adorable!!! ( about 12:58 into video)

[@jilllangman9343]

Allie, as the mum of a premature baby, my heart aches for you. Whenever you are with or near Leo he knows your energy so your presence is valuable to him. The house is a necessary distraction but it isnt important compared to your precious son. Love to you and Trent and Leo from Australia. 💕💖🐨

[@judyrau5309]

Honey just hang in there l am saying prays for the little guy.

[@judyrau5309]

I think you guys are doing the right thing.

[@missmahem]

Allie stay and let trent go to the house. that bond is so important Leo needs your presence. I wish you the best.

[@zolia.8981]

I completely agree with Jill Langman.

[@aliciareyna4342]

I agree, I think she should be with her baby. He is more important than a house that he can build while Allie is with her baby.

[@sharonpearce1352]

To heal a sick baby the fastest way to help baby is mummy's hugs and kisses do more to speed up recovery more than anything, I am sorry to say this Trent but you tend to make it more about how you feel than Allie and Leo, i know lots of people are saying it but you my friend need to start seeing it. GOD BLESS YOU LEO, ALLIE TRENT.

[@eaglebrink]

Be patient guy's, you still have a whole life to go with Leo!! He looks a lot like his mom!! Thank the Lord for modern medicine and those awesome people who take care of him. All the best to you all, and hopefully Leo is to come home soon!

[@joannedefalco8789]

That smile from Leo was everything.

[@dianesmith7472]

That sweet Leo smile - reassuring mama "every little thing is going to be alright" and it is 💜💜💜🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🇨🇦🤗

[@RachelTScott]

His parents are supposed to reassure the baby!

[@marlokennedy3220]

Sending love ❤️

[@TheOleHermit]

@@RachelTScott Isn't that exactly what Trent and Allie are doing? How could Leo be smiling at them, unless they were there, holding him and having skin to skin contact?

[@cherlgolja5402]

He’s got Allie smile , a smile that light up the room 😁

[@BABYGIRL19538]

@@花野-b7c how disgusting to bring a conversation on some one else’s channel . This about a good family . Your statement is not wanted . Sorry Allie people don’t care . These should be filtered out of your channel .

[@marlowehardy4499]

Leo’s smile was so sweet. My grandson was 2 months premature. He’s in the 83 percentile at 1 year. He started out at 4 1/2 pounds, stayed in the NICO for 36 days. Breaks your heart but Leo will be home soon. God’s blessings!

[@melindabeyers6394]

My first grandchild was born six weeks premature and spent about two weeks in NICU before her body systems had developed enough for her to go home. As much as it is NOT what you want for Leo or yourselves, you could think of this time as the final weeks of gestation for him. He's just doing it in NICU instead of in uterine, and it is nerve wracking and heart rending for you. Keep acknowledging those silver linings! My granddaughter is now 13 years old, healthy, strong, brilliant and beautiful. Leo just needs this time to finish developing.

[@barbaraness4507]

I truly hope he gets to doing better, and can come home soon. Nurses can’t be with him all the time, and he really needs his mom or dad. He spent the past nine months hearing your voices, and now he’s all alone. I know that people cannot understand that I do care about you all. If I didn’t I wouldn’t say anything. I just know that things can happen when no one is watching, and it only takes seconds for things to turn very badly. Even with the best of medical centers.

[@Swellstew]

That smile when you said he might start eating again was priceless!

[@iandale5646]

that smile was perfect timing im happy hes doing so well

[@SFoureman]

This brings back so many memories with my firstborn. He was a preemie, 31-years ago. ---the long commutes back and forth ---trying to focus enough to work ---the feelings of helplessness ---the gratitude for the NICU Specialists ---sleep deprivation ---the inner unrest ---the expense of gas ---the expense of eating meals on the run ---the stress ---wash, rinse, repeat Hang in There!!!

[@Flowergurl2000]

Experienced Mom helping out so much to reassure the new ones. Thank you.

[@thealee3157]

OMG when Leo opened his eyes and smiled when Allie was talking about him coming home was the most adorable thing ever. Love to you guys

[@hollydecker9581]

Leo's smile is a ray of sunshine that reflects in his mama's eyes

[@ramonaanderson2343]

That little cute smile, the angels were playing with him, that tells me the little guy is being taken cared of and he’s going to be fine, just keep praying and loving him up, believe it, he’s feeling the love and go see him every day, maybe get a hotel or even stay in his room if you can, he’s feeding off of you two and your love mom and pops.

[@hollykellon8331]

Didn't that little smile just melt your heart! We grow and heal when we sleep. So even though he looks like he is just sleeping when your with him he is actually working really hard to come home to you as well. Love radiates off you guys and its never more present then when you guys are all together. Thank you for your videos. I was looking forward to it all weekend.

[@chillinwithdylan636]

Holly Kellon when *you're with him 😇✌

[@NCM1945]

Love and strength to Trent, Allie & Leo! GOD BLESS YOU!

[@sherrywisler3718]

Your pornography on this blog is disgusting. Their baby is struggling to survive and you post this garbage here. May you be punished by God to the fullest.

[@christywileywest8046]

A great big hug to you two! Leo’s smile let you know he’s ok and knows your voices and touch. I do remember when Jackie Kennedy walked out of the hospital with no baby, little Patrick’s lungs just wouldn’t sustain his little body. I’m so happy that you guys are blessed with great Doctors and you can call at anytime. Keeping yourselves busy is the best therapy. You are in my prayers.

[@TraumaSurvivorCynthia]

@@sherrywisler3718 Agreed!! 💯 I report these comments that are inappropriate also!!🙈 #davesandersstepdaughter

[@BABYGIRL19538]

@@TraumaSurvivorCynthia I just report , I just send it to there channel told them there disgusting people who post a porn link onto Trent and Allie’s channel how rude . People don’t care 🤷‍♀️.

[@divahc1]

@@sherrywisler3718 It is disgusting. also report it every time. These people have no shame nor conscience. They don't care who's channel it is, as long as it has a high viewership number. As fast as we report it, they comment more. How many times do they need to post their rubbish? They need to find an honest way of making a living.

[@astzfat3319]

I was told years ago, that when a newborn or infant smiles...it's talking with the angels! 🥰🤗🥰

[@_TheDudeAbides_]

..or farting :-)

[@mariandoktor3028]

I heard that as well, and just heard his mommy and daddy's voice😉

[@CornerLotHomestead]

Little Leo's smile when you talked about re-introducing milk...adorable!!

[@kimbrundige6320]

I noticed his smile also.

[@akau1340]

Good to see that Gloria had a speaking part in this episode! I've always found her to be one of the most authentic actors on this channel. 👋

[@deborahwhitt4363]

I am so grateful Leo will never remember this when he is older. That’s one positive through all this.

[@peterhopkins7505]

My Son had a hole in his heart, back in 1978, and spent his first 3 months in hospital. Fortunately he had one of the worlds best heart surgeons as his specialist. All the radical treatments we came familiar with, nothing was too much. But it is a struggle being a parent for sure.

[@lisaeveleigh658]

Hearing Trent vulnerable was heartbreaking. I can understand your disappointment, not feeding your baby is one of the hardest things. Sending you all much love.

[@thexxit]

Look at baby Leo! That smile when Allie said the word milk... super cute! I hope you don't feel the need to justify your decision to go home - it's really no one's business. Everyone's parenting style is different and there is no right or wrong. You need to be in top form for Leo when he comes home. I did laugh a bit when Trent said that warming pad makes Leo sleep like a baby - he is a baby! My heart goes out to you, I know this is a difficult time but it will pass and Leo will be home with you soon enough. When my daughter was a baby she had surgery and I gave the nurses a tshirt that I had slept in that had my scent on it so that when she work from anesthesia she would think I was closeby. It made me feel better at least, whether or not she noticed!

[@marilynlautner2454]

Isn’t it great that God has you in his hands? Many blessings to Trent, Allie, and Leo!

[@lynnecahill2859]

This text was not supposed to end up in the reply of a woman who wonders if you guys pray Ugh! SMH 🤦‍♀️ I hope you two even find my message! Sorry it was my bad 🥰🥰🥰

[@aliciareyna4342]

Dear Allie: you have been amazing as a new mom. I applaud you. Leo is at the right place. Back 52 years ago I gave birth to a preemie who had to stay for 3 1/2 months. She is a healthy adult with a teenage daughter of her own who weighed 9.1 lbs. I know how hard it is, but you don't want to rush Leo. I truly admire you and again, CONGRATULATIONS. 🙏🤔❤

[@lizbif0315]

The fact that u have stuff to do at the house I think is probably a blessing as it can be a bit of a distraction for u when u can't be at the hospital 24/7 with Leo. Hope he's home safe and happy soo

[@Banagal]

When bad times arise I tell myself, “this too shall pass”, and it does. Two constants are time and the another one is change. We know Leo will be back home and doing well at the right time for him. Meanwhile he’s on the mend and even able to show his cute little smile.

[@kathysowers]

So darling that Leo smiled at you, Allie - I'm talking to him too when you're talking to him and holding him. I know it is so hard to have to wait to get Leo home with you. But he's in the best place for 100% recovery. This too shall pass. Love to all.

[@MOI-qq8zc]

He’s allie’s mini me 🥰

[@aliciareyna4342]

MOI - I think so too.

[@sandysmith6182]

@@MOI-qq8zc 😆 LOL yes yes It seems so😊👍

[@arleenwhittier356]

U

[@shannonohling7794]

I am an RN. I used to work in the newborn nursery and I cannot commend you enough for taking care of yourselves when you can get the sleep that you your body so desperately needs, while very very competent people take care of your son. When you take him home he may have his days and nights mixed up because of the constant monitoring. That makes it even more important that you get the rest you need now so you guys can spell each other when he does come home.

[@stacynissley7336]

Leo is so adorable! To see him react and smile to your voice was so heart warming. It must be gut wrenching for you to leave him. Continue to take care of yourselves so that when he comes home you have the energy to give him all the feels!! Still praying for you all!!

[@ilovelucy7073]

So sweet to see him smiling ☺️ he knows his mommy.

[@Howler28]

Just in case your worried about him being hungry, I had the IV NPO for a few days when they were waiting to see if I’d need surgery. As weird as it seems what ever was in there I wasn’t hungry. I got bored but not hungry so he isn’t uncomfortable. All the best for your family

[@klnkat6600]

Agreed - I've been NPO for 3 weeks before and was never hungry until the obstruction resolved. That is how we knew it was getting better.

[@SusanAllen-sn3mx]

Hey y’all! I’m so in awe of you in the way you handle life’s challenges! I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel at a rare point when I had time to binge-watch your videos!! As a physician, you are so right to be taking care of yourselves because baby Leo has a great team devoted to his medical needs. So impressed by you building a house by yourselves and staying married!! If Leo needs a fit and active 58 year old grandma in Texas, put me down for that!

[@americangal49]

Allie must be exhausted after childbirth and she hasn’t seemed to have rested at all. Maybe Allie staying at hospital with Leo the last couple nights would allow her to rest and enjoy her baby at the same time.

[@AllYouNeedIsLove601]

Awww, Leo is so gorgeous, what a beautiful baby boy. He looks good. Hope he will be able to come home with you very soon! 🥰

[@candacemeifert-polk7383]

What a blessing for Leslie to have a son in law who knows how to do everything and does it so well. Praying for Leo💕

[@davidrife6191]

It’s like you said, he’s in good hands with the capabilities he needs. Meanwhile your using your hands to prepare him coming home. He’s got a lot of love and support with prayers.

[@buddyduncan2095]

That smile Leo gave just melted my heart when Allie said food

[@maricogan2903]

I'm so happy to see your post on Leo's progress. I'm sure that thousands of people are praying for and thinking about your family.

[@barbibutton9619]

Yep, thousands. Gives me chills

[@maureenblutekraus3561]

Absolutely. Thousands of people who fly in and out of JFK airport in Queen's NY are seeing my PRAY 4 LEO sign I drew in the sand on Rockaway beach.

[@maureenblutekraus3561]

I was walking along the beach when I got a notification that a new video went up so I sat down in the dunes and watched the video as soon as she said bloody diapers I knew immediately what was happening to baby ginger snap. I literally yelled out loud I FREAKING KNEW IT! when she said NEC. so when the video ended I got a stick and wrote PRAY 4 LEO in the sand.

[@alicial6072]

Leo is so precious, loved that smile. He's in good hands at the hospital by using your time to get things done at the house everything will be ready when he does come home and you can spend all your time holding him, kissing him and just adoring him. Sending virtual hugs and prayers to you both, soon Leo will be home happy and healthy.

[@kimbo500]

Exactly Alicia L! 💜

[@mariamarti8987]

Allie: Potentially we may be able to start reintroducing milk to Leo tomorrow. Leo: Smiles right on point as if on que. Us: The tender joy felt from this shared simple yet tender interaction between mom and child. Just know our continued prayers are with you three 💗

[@victorialee1239]

This just makes me amazed at how strong Leo is. My grandfather was a premie and never went to a hospital. His mom’s ring could go all the way up his arm. How he survived after seeing what Leo went through I’ll never know. Prayers for you and your family

[@mickeymouse6894]

Amen!

[@outofthemudministry6683]

It’s crazy these are behind and I so want to know all is well!!!!!! Y’all are loved and prayed for!!!!!! ALL the family and friends!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜

[@dawn8746]

You all are so loved . I have no idea how you remain so strong. Please know that you are always in our prayers, my church is praying for all of you . Love to you all . Dawn

[@jsgsfnm]

Good morning. Another video to watch from such an awesome couple! Watching Leo fighting through this is so hard to see. Hugs to you both. Have a great day everyone.

[@flutecf]

Oh my goodness my heart melted when Leo smiled as you talked about him getting milk. He knows his Mommy is there!

[@mlm7598]

Leo knows your voice I do believe already. He opened his eyes and smiled almost like a "I know you're here mom"........so sweet and so much what we mommies need at times as such. He's doing well and you I pray are getting extra rest and gearing up for his homecoming as then you can hold, snuggle, cuddle and talk to him endlessly. Sweet little pumpkin.......... I know you both are exhausted in every way.......I am tired for you. Hopefully you can get the time you need to finish up and relax a minute or two and then he will be ready to come home..........house inspected and time to chill for a bit and try to catch up to life a bit! So sweet of the moms and lunch and of course JELLO. Cutest ever! God bless......hang in there!

[@brendabamsey9516]

So wonderful to see Leo give a smile when you spoke to him Allie. Your health...mind, body, and soul + Rest is so important, as you wait for Leo to come home. So wonderful that you could hold him, skin to skin. Keep strong, knowing everyone is sending you, and your family many prayers. Leo is such a little champ!

[@tonip9844]

Trent and Allie, have been praying for all of you all week. God Bless you all.

[@lizphillips2283]

I am a doctor with multiple specialist experience and my wee one was in ITU. Taking time away from the hospital is exactly what you should be doing 💔❤️❤️

[@bettablue2660]

Yes, they needed to go home and sleep in order to be good parents. The both of them staying away all day long telling themselves he doesn’t know is BS. One of them should be there to comfort him when you all do blood work, x-rays, etc. Infants are traumatized by being strapped down for an x-ray. Nurses and doctors don’t love these babies, and that’s what they need.

[@jackiebryant5808]

I disagree, the baby needs the mother and fathers touch.

[@jackiebryant5808]

@@bettablue2660 amen 100%, I'm so confused why one of them especially the mother is not with him. So 😥 sad

[@stevenrossgoldstein1693]

I’m sure the drs recommended them to go home. They need to stay healthy and strong for themselves too. I do t think any of y’all should speak the negative comments unless you have some personal experience such as the dr up top here and the ones actually working on Leo

[@melissamccarty2612]

Please keep all negative comments to yourselves. They have enough to deal with.

[@11medicman]

Again I will say Leo has some of the best doctors. He will grow past this, this is just a bump in the road of life. Stay positive lean on one another. I'm glad Trent and Allie show the world that they are just normal people living life. Leo has two great parents. As I stated in the last video I work in the pediatric field, I've seen first hand how many kids are in a children's hospital that has no one to visit them or heck even have a home to go home to. Leo is in great hands with his loving parents. God Bless.

[@sanlo613]

So glad Leo is doing better.. i don't know how you do it not being by his side.. I could never leave him, I'd be there all the time and definitely in close proximity to the hospital. You are all in my prayers!

[@cathymorrisoncranor7595]

I started watching last week, now I can't stop! You two are superstars! Leo is a little superstar! I have prayed for you guys and know God's love will bring Leo home! You are beautiful examples of committment and loving parents! God bless you and baby Leo!

[@christinajohnson6543]

Trent and Allie are the salt of the earth. This rough start for Leo will hopefully make him stronger.

[@barbibutton9619]

No matter what's going on in Trent and Allies life, they are always dedicated to their viewers by posting consistent videos. I'm in awe. Prayers to them and baby Leo

[@onlyJesusbride]

@@エリカちゃん-v7b shame on you for using their YT channel for scum submit yourself to JESUS and stop working for the devil

[@Rubicon1954]

@@onlyJesusbride , Unfortunately, they have no shame. And it seems like Trent and Allie's channel has been unusually targeted. I keep reporting them but YT does absolutely nothing. They are always showing up again the next day. I even clicked through to some of these porn channels to see if I can block them but YT doesn't even give people the option of blocking this offensive content.

[@barbibutton9619]

@@エリカちゃん-v7b knock it off. This is a family channel. Reporting you

[@barbibutton9619]

@@onlyJesusbride I reported them

[@barbibutton9619]

@@Rubicon1954 keep hitting report if you see it and have time. The three little dots in right hand corner on your reply I believe

[@wspeeckaert]

Take care, you have a great medical team. Our daughter was also premature (2lbs 11oz), today she is the parent of 2 children.

[@barbibutton9619]

These hospitals today with neonatal care are awesome. My daughter was born at 2.5 lbs and about to have her own. Glad we have these professionals available in case something goes away. Glad your daughter was able to receive the neonatal care she needed. Life is good! 🌺🌸🌷

[@sarahfrancis8635]

You already know that primary children's is one of THE BEST hospitals in the country, but just to reassure, my sister had open heart surgery at primary children's when she was only 12 months old and I also went to primary children's when I was in my early teens. We are from Idaho. I watch your videos religiously and I know that Leo is in the best care he could possibly have. My sister is 28 and I am 25. We owe our lives to that hospital and the care they gave us. I can't imagine what you are going through without your baby at home but he will be there shortly and im so happy that you are in driving proximity to primary. Sending you all the good thought. Thank you for bringing light into my life over the years.

[@Lina49391]

Leo is so adorable. I can’t believe the timing of him opening his eyes and giving you a wind smile when you were talking about home and food lol. You guys a incredible!

[@tamaragrottker7677]

Leo wants you guys to finish the house and get it inspected so that when he comes home you don't have that hanging over your head. It really is good that he is in a great hospital. It also gives you a great rest because the first month with baby waking up every 2 hours is exhausting. It is all working out the way it should. Hug.

[@margecampbell4667]

Having to leave our son in the hospital was so hard, and when the doctors started talking, I cried because I knew what was coming. Prayers for you all, and it will get better! Our son is 48 now.

[@gigigigi9479]

The hospital allows parents to stay 24/7- it is a choice

[@jackiebryant5808]

@@gigigigi9479 exactly, I don't understand staying away from him all the time. I've been in their situation, the baby is helpless and needs the mom. She can sleep on the bed in his room. Parents suffer it comes with parenting along with joy. Being a parent is selfless!!! You can take care of yourself and stay with the baby.

[@evelinholmes6401]

@@gigigigi9479 hospitals can be depressing. I believe Trent and Alli doing the right thing. If you live within driving distance it’s good for your mental state to to leave the hospital.

[@katkohler]

@Margie we are kindred mammas! My son did not have a working colon (didn’t develop as a continuous organ) when born. A military adult surgeon put him back together because they didn’t have a pediatric surgeon. Afterward we were given the diagnosis of Cystic Fibrosis and a prognosis of less than 2 years old. He is now a thriving 43 year old who lives life on his terms.

[@Flowergurl2000]

@@jackiebryant5808 judge much, Judy?

[@danaferguson462]

Thank God, the Doctors are keeping Him/Leo monitored! You guys are doing amazingly!

[@victoriaegan6476]

My great-grandson was born prematurely weighing 2 lbs 11 oz. He was in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) for 74 days. He turned 2 years old in July of this year and is the healthiest, most beautiful little boy. You little Leo will be getting the best care ever so have faith in the experts. They will keep Leo for as long as it takes for him to get healthy enough to go home.

[@judyherman1249]

Thirty-nine years ago when I had my second son, even though I was at 9 months and 2 days he was born with a few health issues. So he ended up being in an incubator for 10 days. When I finally go to bring him home on the 11 day I felt so happy and relieved. Stay strong and positive, you will feel that too very soon.

[@asterischuchmann686]

i really admire your mental attitude. I know a parents in similar situations and they weren't able to do anything. I understand that returning to work and completing the house is distracting but it also takes a LOT of strength to do so. Thank god you both are such a perfect team, supporting each other. My thoughts are with you and I wish you and LL (little Leo) all the best for a soon return home.

[@barbibutton9619]

YES!!

[@stoneyvanwie6042]

Leo's smile was so precious ! He's letting you know he's feeling much better.

[@d.martinez-rodriguez333]

I need just a moment to escape the news of the devastation in Kentucky and elsewhere from the tornados. Praying for those families and it seems for the world and for tiny Leo. May God bless all.🙏🙏🙏

[@cecilscarbrough2224]

Yo bro I feel yall in your openness, your content is hella cool, however a great number of us would never question your family business . Thank you for sharing & you never have to explain to us. Family first.

[@dorothywinslet-lutes3278]

Allie please rest and take care of yourself. You haven’t even had time to recover. It’s been go go go! Try to rest your mind and body. Prayers continue to flow your way.

[@marjoriedybec3450]

Hang in there, T & A. All of us are sending healing vibes to Leo, too. That's a lot of love.

[@kamihall7452]

How is Allie’s physical recovery after birth? She seems to be doing great!! Moving around and working like a rock star!! Hope she’s not over doing it.

[@americangal49]

I was wondering the same. Hormones and even the physical recovery takes time. She never got the chance to rest.

[@HannahJ]

It’s often sleep that helps to repair/recover so if she’s been able to have proper/close to proper nights sleep that has got to have been helping (as much as it can as she might have had sleepless nights too)

[@kimbo500]

​@@HannahJ So true! I am not Catholic, but went to a Catholic Nursing School. There was a nun there that would frequently say that 'the body heals best at rest'. Rest certainly is SO important. The same will be true once they get Leo home!! It can be exhausting for any new mom with a newborn! All the best being sent their way!

[@karylm23]

I hope Allie is treating herself gently. Sometimes positivity can be toxic and not allow healing to happen.

[@lindafisher6171]

When your son smiled, I was like awww mom and dad really needed that. Sending you big hugs

[@sunshinegirl423677]

I wouldn’t have been able to leave little Leo. Not sure how you do He’s precious!!

[@maryhupf4915]

I can't begin to imagine how hard it is for you, Allie. It's going to be over soon and he'll be back home where he belongs but he'll be better. It's almost behind you, you got this! Prayers!

[@brylenebutler]

Your family has been in my thoughts and I hope everything is alright.

[@catpurrson3651]

I can't imagine how you feel to hold Leo skin to skin for a time and then have to leave him behind. Your joy in bringing him home will be that much greater. Love seeing the Moms. The jello is beautiful. On,y 1 wrong thing tho...servings are tiny. It looks so yummy!

[@glennarussell4682]

Praying little Leo comes home real soon. He looks so good. You are blessed having your mothers there. Stay strong. Much love to you all.

[@AbandonedCanada-333]

I think you are both doing the right thing by not always being there. My daughter at 3 months old was in the hospital and almost died. So I know what you are feeling. Plus, 1) you need your rest to be able to be there for Leo emotionally and physically. 2) A lot of parents just get in the way of treatment and in the way of the Dr's and nurses doing their job making baby healthy. 3) like you said, you have a lot left to do on your home and you need to get as much done before Leo comes home so when he does you can focus on him and not worry to much about what needs to get done. You are both amazing people and are making the best decisions possible for your family. ❤️

[@kermitchico]

Yes

[@dream2be611]

Life's roller coaster. Highs eventually out number the lows. So impressed with you all.

[@thevintagegemini]

You guys are already such amazing parents. Before you know it little Leo will be crawling around that beautiful new house and all will be right with the world. Thank you as always for bringing us along on your journey. Sending you love.

[@tjo6860]

I love how the 2 of you can work together through anything...It shows that God had put you 2 together and that all of your struggles will be over soon and baby Leo will have a wonderful non tummy problem life

[@gailgibson6351]

Soooo glad that the dr (Phillips) sent you the post of encouragement!!! You two are making the best of a bad situation but you are also learning a great lesson…you are holding tight to each other!!!! I love Leo name and I do think he is the cutest baby…especially when he smiles. Prayers for a quick recovery!!!!

[@Sue_the_Sock_Lady]

Leo ABSOLUTELY knows how very much you help him. He just doesn’t have the skills to tell you that yet.

[@candicedixon7310]

I must say, if anyone is wondering why you aren't their with him, it's because you two are an amazing power couple. Seriously y'all are so annointed by God it is incredible to witness. Leo is safe and you caught it in perfect time because y'all are so in tune. What better way than to finish working on your new, beautiful, family home!! I am totally in prayer that y'all finish before Leo gets back!! Have only been following you for a month and from the first video I watched I was inspired!!! My fiancee and I are looking for land now, as well as planning to travel with our children. Cleaning our debt because it's never to late!! Thank you for allowing us to be apart of your life.

[@CITAP1]

Has anyone given thought to whether Altitude at the cabin may be effecting Leo? Thinner air, under developed lungs! Best wishes for you all and May God Bless!

[@ccpperrett7522]

God bless Trent, Allie and Leo. Much love and prayers for health, healing and peace.

[@ralphreilly2434]

Leo is so cute he looks like a happy little glowworm all swaddled up

[@samd.2207]

Stunned. You took your baby’s health for granted. No way in hell I’d not be there with my newborn. Husband and I would take turns

[@sprtplt]

As would all parents of an ill newborn, but not these two.

[@melaniecobble3610]

I agree! I could not leave my baby alone!

[@sjp6341]

The doctors and nurses probably convinced them to go home and rest, they obviously would die for little Leo.

[@melaniecobble3610]

@@sjp6341 I'm sure most nurses ask/tell the parents to go home but I could not and would not leave my newborn alone!

[@auralitemoon5597]

just because you wouldn’t have been able to leave your baby, does not mean she is wrong for doing so. i personally wouldn’t have, although she doesn’t need this judgement.

[@janadachingwa9234]

The smile that Leo gave to Allie when you were talking to him. Leo is so cute. Stay safe. Walk in Peace.

[@donnadonahoe9044]

I loved Leo's smile. You guys are doing the best you can. Working on the house will keep you from going completely crazy while your baby is healing. My thoughts and prayers are with you two, Leo and your whole family. Brighter days ahead !!!

[@Aaron-P]

Having gone through a similar experience when my oldest was a baby, I can empathize with the feelings of helplessness of seeing your child in the hospital. These episodes have been absolutely heartwrenching, but you two have met the situation with such strength and resolve. I feel you have done a great job availing yourselves to your support system and remembering to care for yourselves mentally & physically through this whole ordeal. Much love from Seattle. ❤❤😎👍

[@T_Barb]

Besides having a baby in the hospital, I can’t imagine your discomfort, Allie. The pump is never the same. Sending prayers and light your way.

[@JMSocialMediaService]

My wife and I we prayed for your little Leo to be completely healed and for you both to be well too and to know the Lord Jesus. All will be well Halelujah! Amen.

[@stevefoos9257]

Leo is in the best place possible,NICU nurses are the best you could not have anyone ,other than yourselves caring for him .The NICU nurses are moms too and take care of the children as you would .Prayers for Leo to come home soon and be at his own home and his own furbaby siblings.