5 Insecurities That Turn Women Off

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[@silverancient7840]

I agree with every point except the self deprecation one. You usually state that making fun of yourself is a good thing. I agree that putting yourself down in a complete negative way looks bad but poking fun of yourself in general can be funny in most interactions with people.

[@JohnM...]

Exactly. Engage in 'self-amusement' purely for yourself, rather than taking the piss out of yourself to hope someone else likes you.

[@kamelkani4051]

Maybe with someone u already know and already feeling comfortable with Not when u trying to know them specially in a date 😏

[@timjohnson2186]

Build self esteem. Find your purpose in life and make the world a better place.

[@spanglishasmr4328]

Bro accomplishing step by step your goals and not needing someone's validation to get your shit together and do them it's just Powerful🔥🔥💯

[@TheTengior]

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[@edb7742]

I enjoy your calm and supportive demeanor. You're like a cool big brother giving advice to his younger brother.

[@crystalshorter353]

Right on point Tripp! The only time I've used self depreciating humor is when I did a stand up show. George Clooney is the only one who can get away with it.

[@NickNotas]

The great thing is that if you often embrace your insecurities, people will see them as strengths or no big deal. If you're a virgin, you can say, "Yeah I've focused on my career for a while but now I'm excited to date around more." If you don't have a great job, you can tell her, "I'm loving exploring my new passions and finding out what really fulfills me."

[@scottbrown5587]

Yeah right what world do you live in ?

[@NickNotas]

@@scottbrown5587 The real one with 13 years of personal and coaching experience with thousands of interactions. What other choice do you have? People will always see your truth eventually so might as well find a way to express it in a more confident, attractive manner.

[@scottbrown5587]

@@NickNotas that sounds like a bunch of psychobabble crap. I'm 52 years old and I've had a lot of experience with a lot of different women and if you show any kind of vulnerability she will see you as a wimp. Trust me I've seen it proven time and time again.

[@scottbrown5587]

They want an alpha male who shows no vulnerability, only women should show vulnerability. A man can't get away with it. Trust me I've seen it proven time and time again she will see you as a weak.

[@nobodysperfect06]

Does this video talk about guys being insecure over being a virgin?

[@Ol_Ben]

I feel the same turned off way, when the first thing women talk about is their ex or last whoever. It's not that I'm trying to be petty, but after a while it gets so insecure and ANNOYING both. I understand that it hurts, but it's just as insecure as any shyness.

[@uli767]

Congratulations, Tripp! I follow you since then. Hello from Brazil! 👊🏻

[@clesser87]

Great advice Tripp thanks!!!😁

[@carljacobs2901]

I highly disagree that funny self deprecation is unattractive. In fact I used it very effectively in my routines. It can make you real, vulnerable, and not a big talker.

[@jkepic25]

Obviously you are training hard to be self deprecating, while most people don't train that and come off as losers. that is how it is.

[@Haze0320]

Happy 11th Anniversary Tripp, wise talk 👍

[@scottbrown5587]

Why would British humor have anything to do with dating in America ?

[@Stewdawg4]

5 insecurities that turn guys off: 1. Lying 2. Lying 3. Lying 4. Lie 5. Bye 👋

[@prithvi7752]

😂💯💯 agree

[@persianfoo]

Happy anniversary Tripp!

[@talkingpictures9107]

U da man. Any insecurity turns them off. They. Can be emotinL babies we need to seem all together. Not. Bad thing. They know they got the GOODS

[@billihawk368]

Be a chill real guy.

[@laniukyevhen6714]

Great channel and very good advices! Thank you!

[@anderstermansen130]

Be rich And good looking. Its what litterally All women want in men.

[@titra694]

Women indeed are attracted to wealthy and good-looking guys but it's not because of the money or the appearance. They admire the man's dedication to earn his success. You only see the tip of the iceberg my dude

[@anderstermansen130]

@@titra694 litterally. What. All. Women. Want. In. Men.

[@robertdalton6821]

@@titra694 So if a guy inherits money she don't like him? They don't care how he got his money, just the fact that he has it to spend on her is all that matters

[@By.daniieel]

Fr, that's a honest signal of how good your genes are

[@crystalshorter353]

Hey Tripp, question for you...Are you saying posting an Instagram picture of the New Porsche you bought is a sign of insecurity and would turn women off? I'm single and women are hypergamous by nature so wouldn't that actually attract women? I would think it's like marketing. You can have a great lifestyle and be a high value man but nobody knows that if they don't see it.

[@JonathanBaltzly]

Happy anniversary!

[@georgekurgansky5986]

That 10 minutes went by fast!

[@silviopalumbo9878]

Tripp, can you do a video with the opposites? What turns her on according to our "securities"?

[@csch8152]

In all Videos like this one, i hear, women are insecure so you have to be confident. And men have to be emotionally strong, because women aint. Also i hear, dont doubt yourself , dont depricate yourself, dont be unsatisfied with your job or life, dont complain, dont cry , she doesnt like that and by the way, earn more money than your girl, because she doesnt want to provide. The Man has to. Just be strong and never weak, girls dont like that. What do women expect men to be. A robot? And what do the women do?

[@trakamtv5398]

Self-deprecation is what makes British humour so funny. It's a different humour than in America.

[@oqlapsldim]

not when your on a date

[@Rich.3015]

@@oqlapsldim depends on the delivery. All humour does.

[@abz7509]

Was thinking the same. It’s built in our culture and be a force of habit .

[@trakamtv5398]

@@Rich.3015 Boris self-deprecates a lot whereas Trump would never do that, embodies the difference between UK and US.

[@billihawk368]

I was gaming a girl in daygame and she was laughing and interested. Then i asked her "do i have a chance with you?" Bc she was vague. Then she looked at me surprisingly turned on and intense. For a tenth of a second i blinked but kept looking at her chill. She said "for now im good" F*ck lol i knew it was bc of the eye contact

[@15HMedia]

Commenting to fuel to algorithm.

[@JohnSmith-wf6fp]

What about sarcasm

[@PAOLA-v5z]

N.1 not true, I like when a guy shows his insecurities, I like sweet and sensitive guys beacause I Think that he will treat me right. I don't like when a man is too confifent expecially if he tries to discard me. 2. Self deprecation is british humour, that is different from american humour and I find it funny 3. Agree 4. Totally agree I hate men who only can talk about their money their car and everything they got If I have to be in a relationship with a man he has to be a good guy, not an asshole. I don't care if he is an alpha or not

[@patnafs]

damn it, i wish i was more cognizant before i fucked things up with that one :-/

[@dougackerman4182]

Tripp what’s going on

[@monchichipower6334]

Self deprecating humour is sign you don’t care

[@oqlapsldim]

and it also shows that you don't take yourself seriously, so you think she will?

[@Rich.3015]

@@oqlapsldim women are emotional. If it's funny and you're being natural/unexpected it's a win. If you're doing it all the time it's being submissive. It all depends on your charm really in the moment.

[@jkepic25]

there is no humour in "I can be really stupid sometimes".

[@monchichipower6334]

@@jkepic25 laughing at your faults and owning it Lot can’t do it as they got ego attached to outcome

[@DatBoyBebo]

Im made you didnt post this last week

[@scottbrown5587]

Certified really ? Why because you say so ?

[@infinitesunlight9973]

joehoee

[@H92-v6w]

i dont agree with selfdeprecating humor being unattractive

[@josesantana770]

That means it is attractive in woman in what way?

[@stephen811]

Sarcasm might work ok but negging yourself is bad form

[@scottbrown5587]

Matter of fact I'm just going to come out and say it, if you want a life coach try turning to Jesus !!!! Little book called The Bible does anybody remember it ?

[@merttuzun9754]

Everyone to themselves 🤷‍♂️

[@HunterVaughanMusic]

My girlfriend tells me all the time she prefers to be smothered with attention & attention.

[@Musas.Brother_]

You must be a good bf😂