True Confessions of a Mature Woman - Life Over 60

It gets pretty real here. 8 In-Depth Questions and answers about the woman over 50 and 60...my answers to these questions shocked even me! I try to be very frank as I talk about how old I feel, dating and marriage, depression, mature content creators on KZbin, and the things they endure. What is our new normal? What is a great piece of advice we have for a woman our age...so many subjects we just never talk about.
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TAG QUESTIONS:
Confessions of A Mature Woman Tag- Life Over 60
1. How old are you. How old do you feel inside?
2. What is the biggest change being over 65 ( insert your age) has brought to your life? Do you have a new normal?
3. Describe the roughest patch you have experienced in the last 5 years?
4. Do you try to look younger than you are? Is that important to you?
5. What is marriage or dating like for the mature woman?
6. Mature Women on KZbin... Are they supported by the public and do they inspire you? How hard is it to handle the hateful comments?
7. What would be your most important piece of advice for a woman who is struggling with aging.
8. Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?
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[@denisadellinger4543]

These questions always bring reflection and a bit of bittersweet feelings about living in the autumn of my life. What is my purpose and why am I here and what do I want to be doing five years from now? Getting older is not for sissies. I feel timeless but I do feel 66. I feel blessed to have grown up in my generation. I visited friends in Florida who moved there to retire in the Villages. We went to rock concert in one of the town squares and i saw people like us. These are our people I told my friend Karen. They are out enjoying rock and roll and dancing and enjoying their life. I said to her, I swear I'm coming back here and staying the winter! I danced that night like I was trying to erase the years since those songs were new. I dance hard and I moved like I moved when I was 20 or tried to. I banged my head and made my hair move. I jumped up and down and screamed and sang along with the songs. Those guys in the band knew the songs but didn't know the times. I'm ok as long as the songs were played with heart and soul like they were new. I'm 66 years old and I'm a rock and roll girl.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you Denisa for this wonderful comment and I loved hearing about your night out on the town! I felt like I was right there with you. It's feelings like this that keep us young and vibrant...it's a fight...but it's a fight worth having! Have a great holiday weekend and rock on! xxoo Sues & Dez

[@deezahm9143]

😍🙏You go, Girl!! I’m 65 and still searching, but you are my hero, giving me the confidence to get there!!!! ❤️🎈🌹

[@Brooklyn1620]

I AM A rock-n- roll girl too! I can never get enough of all the Concerts and bNds I have Loved over the years!

[@julesflores8137]

🙌🏻♥️

[@ritaking8827]

ROCK ON!

[@peggycrowley9534]

I pay NO attention to any rules for older woman. I am blessed to being a healthy 72 year old and will do as I please. I have 4 plus wigs and love the change it affords me. Yes my body is definitely feeling its age....so what.

[@NewYawkahBroad]

Rock on! When I was told I'm too old for hoop earrings I just laugh and put on bigger ones!🤣I'm 60.

[@debbiesittard7979]

You go girl!!! I’m 58 but I’ve earned my right too!

[@betzie2]

@@NewYawkahBroad At 90 my mom asked for large hoops with clip ons! Talk about hard to find! She lived to be 93 and she wore her hoops with style and class.

[@lisam2155]

I love your attitude and courage! I need some of this!

[@Lisabug2659]

Exactly! I wear and do whatever I want...including going to rock concerts, dancing, boating and I love roller coasters....I am 62. I just pace myself and I enjoy extensions, clip ins and makeup. I am being me and I probably will be wearing eyelashes into my casket....🤣

[@patriciaflood506]

I am now 82 and have moved to wonderful senior community. I try to live every day with a positive attitude, even with the arthritis, and still put makeup on every day. Doesn’t hurt to look your best! Keep going gal 💕

[@elizabethconroy7665]

Good for you,Patricia Admire your Spirit

[@terripeach8264]

You go girl! You are my hero!

[@terripeach8264]

You are my hero. I too love my makeup!

[@susanbowen4144]

Thank you for sharing....I can relate...and have decided to continue to be my best and do and wear what I want to do...No rules!

[@claudinedenys5237]

Bravo

[@Mspeahoe]

I too would like to own a little house, a little cottage that I could decorate and have a yard and garden.

[@deezahm9143]

🙏I dream of owning a small home again one day just so I could have a garden. I lost my home in the divorce three years ago and miss it terrible. But my financial situation doesn’t meet bank’s stipulations. I wish the system were easier on retired women in fixed income who are alone and independent. Oh well. I’m 65 - there’s always hope. God bless everyone and Susan, I just admire you so much! 🇺🇸🌹🦋

[@lindafrazier8092]

One day!

[@pierrettemacgregor8594]

I want to be able to buy a little home and be near my daughter and her family.

[@pierrettemacgregor8594]

@@PeachesSkinCare I thank you. I’m taking care of my elderly mother and living in her house so I’m not being allowed my life right now but I will.

[@monam.5923]

@@deezahm9143 I too have hope of owning a small home again.

[@judydahl8297]

I want to be alive and in good health. Each day is a gift.

[@anye76]

I bought a dress a couple weeks ago. I wore to worship service I had so many compliments on it. It was soft peony pink floral and a creamy peachy white background. The hem was tired, with a smocked bodice and puff sleeves with bows. I saw the dress and thought gosh I'd look like a 12 year old. Susan once I put on that dress I laughed and giggled. It was such a joyous moment. It felt so good, like that dress was my happy place. People said to me " that dress suits you. Oh that's your style". My bestie said "omg that is so you." I knew it was for me just the way I felt wearing it. I'm 44 but I listen to you and appreciate your knowledge. In 5 years I want very similar to your goals. A small home with a yard for my garden, plants and herbs. I'm learning about herbs and essential oils. I started collecting pink depression glass, vintage lamps and milk glass. I want a home where I can display the things I love and be surrounded by them. I may never marry and that's ok. I have dreams to heal people with nature and learning to slow down and enjoy life. Hugs to you and Desi💗🌸🌹🤗

[@roseyc.5846]

Forty-four..wow, you're a baby, still.

[@brendaprice2951]

Anye just don't make the mistake that I did I am 65 and don't even have my own home I made a lot of mistakes so do your best to have your home that you can spend the rest of your life in

[@peterlyons8793]

@@brendaprice2951 Owning a house involves alot of expenses and extensive repairs. They don't always increase in value. Sometimes they increase in costs.

[@janetpugliesi3203]

I'm alone and it's fine💜...loving my freedom 🎇to live my life in peace 💕 and on my own terms as I want.. My Grandchildren are my world 🌎!!! 😍😍

[@sabine3769]

Oh Janet I am so happy for you. Im married but in a very stressful one dont have same desires and its so upsetting. We fight and he always wins I fold, dont have the courage to leave. I feel so defeated.

[@janetpugliesi3203]

@@sabine3769hello..💐I'm so so sorry you are feeling sad... Although I may not know how you exactly fell at this moment..I have in my life been with a Husband my first,who abused me both physically and emotionally...😳It took a Knight in shinning armour that being my next Husband to help to show me several things..One being I'm am very worthy of 💕 love and so are you!!!. A loving man is one who is there for you when things are good ,bad,scary.. anything!! He accepts you for you!!! So if you do NOT have this in a man.. well I just my opinion.... would find the first door stage right and use it!!!May God bless you🙏

[@bettyweeks9276]

@@sabine3769 I don't know your circumstances. Do you know the Serenity Prayer? I am reminded of it daily, especially when dealing with my husband (& my adult children.) It has been very helpful for me. I cannot change them or their behavior. And it's not my responsibility to. I can only change me by my behaviors & how I respond to them. It takes time. It takes practice. It's worth it! You do have to learn to be selfish & attentive to your own needs, without permission or guilt. Think of what matters to you, what brings you peace ... nature, photography, pets, hobbies, crafts, reading, walking, exercise? What can you do for you on a daily basis? Something small... I love to wear makeup everyday, whether I leave the house or not. Because when I look good it makes me feel so much better & because it reminds me of the youthful girl I once was, and that's a part of me that I don't want to let go of. Be kind to yourself & take care of your health. You are worthwhile! Little steps will lead to bigger steps & more confidence. We all deserve to have our own happiness in this life. "Seek & You Shall Find" & if you don't, Ask for Help

[@lindaheeren6004]

I just turned 66 and I am glad I am where I am. God Bless

[@juligrlee556]

I'm 77 years old and rode my bicycle 30 miles on Thursday and 20 miles on Friday. I just putzing around today. My young neighbor with 4 young children came down in the rain last night and brought me some home made fresh oat and honey bread. I ate it all for supper - I had been fasting for a couple of days. I told my daughter that some days I just want to bury my head under the pillow. She sent me one of the most inspiring messages ever. Most days I don't speak to anyone. But the middle child of this mother mentioned above is turning 10 in a month. I bought the family some fresh asparagus and melons. It was overwhelming to the little girls and she sent me a picture of herself. She is maybe 6 years old and she told me she ate 6 pieces of melon. Just do nice things for others and you will be satisfied.

[@kellyswanson7973]

❤️

[@wildflowerwind6941]

Very wise words. I can't believe you rode that many miles. Good for you.

[@juligrlee556]

@@wildflowerwind6941 25 years ago I realized that my health was deteriorating and I was rapidly declining and totally dependent on medications. I realized I needed to start working to restore my health. I was kicked out of the work world. I tried another field. I was kicked out of that world 5 years later. I decided I would devote my life to taking care of myself, not worrying about earning more, and just go inwardly to discover who I am before I die. I went hungry a few times and waited for my pensions. I finally live to live and wait for the universe to reply to my love of nature, myself, others, my children to the extent they will allow. Lots of disappointments but also lots of life remains. I'm about to head out for a another 20-30 mile bicycle ride this Sunday afternoon. I take everything one step at a time. I am not athletic. I am working to maintain my circulatory system, my weight, my health and minimize the medications I need to live.

[@Harkart59]

In five years, I plan to still be here trying to do my part of keeping mother earth in check. Making my area safe for bees, butterflies, birds and creatures and spreading the knowledge kindly, around me. The stroke in 2019 didn't get me! I'm still here! 😄🤗

[@tweety1152]

My problem is I feel like I look okay, but then see myself in a photo the same day and gasp!!

[@IvyRoad]

haha! Me too! The secret is to be on the other side of the camera, and not look at pictures of yourself. Also, remember that the camera is not accurate. And it's less accurate the closer you are to the lens. And that the camera is not looking at you with love, or with amusement because of the interesting thing you're saying, or at the way your face moves with your thoughts and emotions. It's just staring blankly at one merciless moment. It's not even really you.

[@peggytaylor8333]

I erase more pictures of myself than I keep.lol

[@margaieljohnson1231]

Me too

[@salsarmemimi7292]

Lol I feel the same way. I don’t like looking at pictures of myself. Blessings to you from Texas.

[@BlingyBea]

Me too🥰

[@cherievivian9830]

I follow my own rules now. I have more than earned that freedom.

[@marieleemcgill5011]

Wow I am now just learning that.

[@Laureegi]

Good for you and you’re so right! We all have probably more than earned that freedom but have been hesitant to say so and take the action we genuinely want to so, if not now, when?

[@TheCocker15]

Cataract surgery was an eye opener for me, literally. I think there's a reason we get cataracts at a said age; I now can see things I didn't see as clearly before; bittersweet! "No eye has seen or ear heard what God has waiting for us". The best is yet to come!

[@betzie2]

Good to read, need mine done! 👍🏻

[@dianekelley6559]

💗

[@Texasgirl10]

Amen!

[@MrTobie11]

Close behind. What a struggle but looking forward to seeing as much beauty as possible.

[@carolcaruso6641]

Will get my nearsightedness corrected after wearing vision correction since the age of 7 when my cataracts get done soon! Nice side benefit !

[@janoldani3020]

I think I’m going to ramble. Late 2019 I lost my husband of 52. Years. I want for nothing. Last year my home was hit by the flood in Mi. My home was in much better shape than the surrounding homes. People are moving because we have no lake, but I can’t imagine living anywhere else. I’ve learned I’m stronger than I thought, and I think my children are finding this out too, BUT A BIG BUT, I’m trying to prove to myself I can cut the grass, I can move heavy piles of mulch and dirt, and I do need a Tylenol or two at the end of the day, but why am I trying to prove this to myself, not others to myself. I’m baffled ,Oh, by the way I’m 73. For some reason today I’m feeling a little depressed, don’t know why. The things I miss the most are hugs and smiles from my husband. I will never hear the words from him I’m beautiful. Sine his death and the flood people look at me with surprise and tell me “you really look great or you reall look well”. It took the hard way for me to lose 25 pounds. Then I remember the joke. There are 3 cycles of life, infancy, middle age, AND YOU REALLY LOOK GOOD. keep up your wonderful videos, and thanks for letting me ramble. Hugs

[@barbaradejaynes7612]

Hi Jan I just looked at your comment. Your so brave and honest. I admire that. I'm praying that you have a great surprising Memorial day weekend.

[@ivettenevel7066]

Jan what a gift in words. You will go on and No you are not alone . God Bless you 😊

[@sarahfellowes2390]

Hi Jan, I too lost my husband of 45 years late 2019 he passed very suddenly from a heart attack, and some days I still can’t get my head around it. I am 67 and have now reached the stage that although I am still grieving I have realised that I have to walk alongside that grief to a new life. I know just what you mean when you say you will never hear his voice again telling you how beautiful you are or just hug him, it’s so painful. I don’t yet know whether I will entirely be free of this grief I suspect It will just become part of who I am. I hope as you travel your own grief journey you find joy and peace as I hope to in mine. Much Love Sarah xxx

[@jennyteeter1451]

I just turned 73 but I wouldn’t change it. I focus on being the best I can be.

[@tammyward4532]

Hello friend

[@karenlong4364]

I’m in a little cottage. It is just under 800sq ft, 2 bedrooms and a bath. It’s perfect for me at this time in my life. Built in 1929 at a time when homes were built to last. It has the original wood floors. Keep dreaming and planning and you will get your cottage. I believe that.

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

Hello how are you doing 😊😊👋

[@kaitlinmeadows6273]

At 75 I am finally free of worry about my looks, my infirmities, and my complicated past. I live in the moment now...feeling lucky not to have wear any masks or hide any aspect of who I am. I am so full of gratitude and I am celebrating a peacefulness of soul I could never have known when I was younger. Blessings to all us beautiful, soul-full , happy elder women!

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

Hello how are you doing 😊👋

[@tammyward4532]

Hi friend

[@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts]

I feel the exact same way I am going over all videos because I just joined this channel. The only make up I wear is lipgloss a good moisturizer and eyebrow pencil. I am all Italian so I can get away with a lot in the summer. Have a blessed day, hope to see you on here again. Your friend from Massachusetts

[@jacquimg2469]

In five years, I don’t have any idea. I respect you very much Susan. Knowing who you are is a gift. I was Door No. 1. I’m 70 and the love of my life passed away 7 months ago. I thought we had 15 more years, you know. I’m fascinated that you date. I cheer you on! I don’t want to date, but I’m happy to know a woman close to my age can and does. A year ago I felt ageless. It didn’t matter how old I was. Today I know how old I am and I feel every year. Five years from now will be a big surprise. Thank you for your videos. You’re beautiful, full of life, carrying on with grace. To me, you’re paying it forward with each video. Maybe that’s what I’ll aspire to in five years. A woman, paying it forward. Some way.

[@myrnaloy3731]

I’m so sorry for your loss. Don’t worry about five years from now. Just get through today and then tomorrow and then the next. The future will take care of itself however it’s supposed to. It’s going to be okay.

[@gwendolynvaliente3539]

I am sorry for your loss. My Mom lost the love of her life 3 years ago and it has taken time for her to heal and see a future. At 80something she now has plans. Something that gave her hope for her future, strangely enough, was choosing a contractor and picking out an automatic garage door to put on the carport. It was a big decision for her and she was so excited about how it changed the look of the house. She called me and said the entire process made her feel hope and a degree of control. It truly is the little things in life that make a difference. Focus on the little things. Watch for sparks of joy. You will feel hopeful again and will make plans for 5 years ahead again. Wishing you peace and that life will sparkle again.

[@hilkkahirvonen4831]

So beautifullly said! I never think where I’ll be in 5 years time, as we can’t plan the future for it never turns out as we plan! 5 years ago my husband was diagnosed with MND & he’s still here but slowly withering away, so in the next 5 years? Who knows if I’ll still have him with me!

[@tammyward4532]

Hi friend

[@deezahm9143]

🌷The past five years .... hmmmmm. I was divorced after 30 years of marriage to a narcissist, so I did escape - but moving in with my son and his family was hard, then an apartment after owning my home for 22 years (I only miss my garden and garage more than the house!). Then my son and grandkids moved out of state and I’m alone and isolated here. But things change and God has a plan for me, so I remain hopeful and faithful. God bless us all - it’s not easy to be a woman alone. ❣️❤️🌹🎈

[@hairdresser1300]

glad you were able to remove the narcissist from your life

[@ireneposti6813]

Dee, I can relate to what you’re going through. I lost my husband 4 years ago this Dec. I had to sell our house, lost money on it, I downsized so I had to get rid of a lot of furniture and stuff. In a way I was lucky that I was able to buy a very small house for myself. My only daughter from my first husband lives 8 hours drive away but I could never live with her we are so different. I get lonely at times but when I do I talk to God to help me . I do a lot of Volunteering and I’m at the church volunteering twice a week. I have a 14 year old Malti Poo and she’s my buddy, so far seems to be in great help. Stay true to your faith and surround yourself with good friends.❤

[@terripeach8264]

I am 65 and totally enjoying living alone. I have friends that I enjoy company with. I have been single 10 years as well. I have learned to lean on Jesus for everything. Life is good.

[@betzie2]

Isn’t that the best feeling at our age to be able to say, “I don’t care!” and mean it! Not to value ourselves by what others think? That is why I love this age. I’m 68 and I look forward to every day. I am never bored. I try not to think of my age. It is just a number and best to enjoy whatever age you are as you’ll never be that age again. Love your goals....I would like to stay healthy and see my grandson and sons a lot more.♥️♥️♥️

[@marieleemcgill5011]

I am still not at the point where I don’t care what others think ,( always had a problem with that ) but I am better

[@kristinaclark8307]

I wish l would have learned that 20 years ago! The flip side glad l finally got there at 61.

[@BR-kk9qu]

Such wise words! Thank you!

[@SSj-xw8cf]

I love your channel. You're a pretty lady and inspire me each time I tune in. Thank you for doing this. I love your home and sweet spirit.

[@mariamcleod4236]

Such wise and relevant words. Live by this creed.

[@diannaclaire3858]

Susan, thank you for another honest and uplifting video. At 74 years old, in five years I hope to be above ground. I am happy to have made it through this past year of COVID-19, but through multiple health issues and isolation to find, to my awe and delight a new me emerging. My hair is growing back after being nearly bald to a beautiful curly and silver style of its own. I have found a wonderful new way to dress that accepts and celebrates my body as is. And in a way that is satisfyingly affordable. My little apartment is decorated in a way that brings me joy. So as I build on strength and stamina and healing I want to connect and contribute and play. Life is grand and I want to celebrate it daily.

[@mkbuser]

Wonderful thoughts @DiannaClaire, I'm 73 and I also want to be above ground in 5 years. LOL

[@tammyward4532]

Hi friend

[@debracurry1423]

Desi makes me smile every time.

[@christieghunt5728]

We have the spending power yet we are ignored! I have long hair and wear what I want!!!

[@oliviaholland6970]

You had me when you said that we all need to be aware of isolation! This is something I need to always be aware of. Sometimes I just don't want to make the effort to smile and get out there! I enjoy spending time with my kitties and doing my own thing. The last year almost turned me into a recluse except, fortunately, I live in a community that pulls me into volunteer activities which have stepped up again here in Texas. I too love KZbin and you are a delight! I must say you are my favorite!!! I may not be the most vocal of your fans but you inspire me!

[@marieleemcgill5011]

Me too, me to

[@prudencecampbell3075]

I’m an only child and I love to be by myself. Especially since my kids are all grown us and have their successful live. I just wanna be me and do me. The hustle and bustle is not for me. I’ve have all my little heart desire, I read, crochet, tend to my house plants and love my life. I’m also grateful for each new day that God lend me breath. And the cycle goes on. Thank God for life.

[@lemondrop8685]

Ditto😊❤

[@donnabowen7318]

I also enjoy being my own company and look forward to each day. I am also in Texas.

[@tammyward4532]

Hi friend

[@michellecostley7878]

I have always aimed for "cute" when considering my beauty. It works for any age. You are super cute.

[@michellecostley7878]

PS Unfortunately I saw the video of your hater this week. The poor woman was nothing short of pathetic! Obviously envious of lovely-in-every-way you.

[@annejordan8686]

@@michellecostley7878 who on earth could hate on Susan? She is such the sweetest loveliest lady, they must be a very sad, bitter person 😢

[@tammyward4532]

Hello friend

[@quadenarhodes4859]

I love watching you. I’m 56 and I am not concerned about finding a man in my life if they come into it then fine. I live in a small one bedroom apartment and I never had kids. As of now I’m fighting uterine Cancer I beat it once and came back but I will beat it again! I love poems I have had several of my poems published and very proud. I still till this day write them. Just wrote one yesterday. I just get that feeling to come over me and I sit down and start writing. Please give Desi a huge hug for me I just love him. I hope you have a great memorial weekend.

[@BR-kk9qu]

I’m sending you a hug and prayers for total healing.

[@quadenarhodes4859]

@@BR-kk9qu thank you I greatly appreciate it

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

@@quadenarhodes4859 Where are you from if i may ask?

[@dianevioletta1408]

I am 56 years old and just love your videos. It’s like having a big sister giving me advice!

[@tammyward4532]

Hi friend

[@meetamaturewoman69]

👍

[@msdhonifanpage3317]

Lol you are pretty 😍❤️ diane

[@leaguiles6482]

In five years, I hope we can afford for my husband to be retired. We found each other at 48 years old and I want to enjoy every minute I have with him. I hope to have a small camper so we can see our 7 grandchildren that live out of state. I hope to have this house filled with grandchildren, the greatest medication is their smile and laughter. I hope in 5 years my lady's Bible study is still in my home on Wednesday for lunch. My other hope is for God to put in my path a woman who is sadly coming out of a 26-year marriage, having been through unspeakable pain. Abused and neglected. And for me to have the privilege to walk with her through her nightmare as many women did for me. My other hope that when it is my time to leave this earth, I've spread as much love as I can. And to hear God say well done come home.

[@suzanne296]

Amen this almost brought tears to my 👀.

[@sandykish9608]

Amen Lea..I am your girl..and I Bless you for your true concern!🙁💕

[@leaguiles6482]

@@sandykish9608, I am guessing you are walking through something hard maybe? If so, I want to encourage you to find a church. Do you have a Bible? If so please go. Read Psalms 139. Read it every day as many times as you need to. That is just the beginning. If you are going through a Divorce, look in your local area for a group titled Divorce Care.. If you are dealing with a death Grief Share is very helpful. You are in my prayers. Remember, you are enough! Feel free to reach out to me anytime.

[@ninajohnson6578]

I love how you express so many things we women are afraid to say❤️

[@soldonhim]

I'm sitting here tonight; also 66 years old, keeping an eye on my adult son laying on his bed. The hospice nurse tells us he has only a couple of days. He has suffered all his life from a neurological condition, but he was doing well until a glioblastoma brain tumor radically changed everything only a few months ago. We have a strong faith in the Lord, and he is ready to go, but of course I can't help thinking that a mother should not have to watch her child wither and leave this world. Where do I see myself 5 years from now? Still healing, still thankful for the time I shared with my precious boy, still standing strong in my faith, still blessed that I have loved ones who share this loss and understand, and still living out my desire to be a blessing and encouragement to others.

[@marielcalder103]

🙏🕊️🙏

[@carriespackman762]

Blessings to you

[@LittlePoet]

I am praying for you....are you Ok? Please let me know if there is something I can do?

[@theblissfullone]

Many blessings and hugs sent your way.🌷

[@sandykish9608]

Please know we will lift your son up with you..I have no words to help you understand any of this..I will pray for your heart and you sons heart to forever be bonded be as "one" forever..I will cry for you both and pray for peace for you~ love is all we have that can do that..And that is what you are doing in caring for your wonderful boy.👣👣🌼❤

[@annetted.6338]

You’ve discovered that aging is just another word for growing…And now you are growing into the person you were always meant to be. You are learning how to live to be you! That is very beautiful and thank you for sharing and know you are so inspirational!💕 May Desi and you have a wonderful weekend.🌼

[@doreenc3223]

Desi is so cute..my dog Toby is such a blessing..so much company and acceptance from him...each day is a "gift" from God .. that's why it's called the "present".. enjoy all of God's blessings.. 💜❤️

[@kittybabymm]

That's so sell said and so very True !! I'm a cat lover and I know how much my fur babies have meant to me !!

[@PaleOpal21]

I'm 51 and I feel old. Lost my job, had a nervous breakdown, filed for bankruptcy and now on welfare. I never thought this is where I would be in my life with two college degrees.

[@sandycallery3660]

Keep looking forward you will get there 😘

[@BR-kk9qu]

This is a lot to deal with. I’ve been through my own struggles the past 5 years. It’s been so hard, but I’m improving. I’m just a few years older than you, but I had your same thought... and things will improve.

[@PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol]

Dear Pale Opal, I had a breakdown at 56, lost my job, lost the life I had, lost a lot of things. Recovery took a long time but I want to tell you it gets better, it gets better. Take care. Carol

[@PaleOpal21]

@@PlainVanillaGrandmaCarol Thank you Carol.

[@PaleOpal21]

@@BR-kk9qu Than you

[@jo-annemurphy2921]

In five years I see myself living down south in a new community, with new friends, a new church and being happy and healthy

[@suzanne296]

Very similar to mine

[@jo-annemurphy2921]

@@suzanne296 maybe we'll be friends! How cool is that?!

[@debc2019]

I'm 65 and love listening to you. You are a joy. I have not dated since my divorce in 2012 and have not desire to take care of anymore men that have come into my life. I enjoy doing my own thing on my own terms. Men don't fulfill me, only I can do that so until I feel the urge to connect I am happy just being with ME.

[@janefriel6895]

Susan i cant imagine ever being in a relationship again. The single life is for me.This has been interesting. Thank you.

[@reesepeacock]

Jane Friel, I completely agree. A few months ago, I had a "phone relationship" with a fellow from high school. Even though we never met up in person, I became insecure about my looks, wanting to lose weight before we met up, and feeling very unhappy with myself. Thankfully, I ended that before we did meet up, and I realize that I don't want to be in a relationship. I am happy in myself and grateful for my independence. My future goal is : Peace of Mind. That's it. I want peace of mind, and right now I have that.

[@janefriel6895]

@@reesepeacock Im so happy for you.I think school friends expect us to be the same and look the same now.In my case 40 years have past.Everything has changed in 40 years. The world has changed.

[@reesepeacock]

I take good care of myself now, I treat myself like I would a friend. I never took very good care of myself when I was married. What a journey the single life is, self discovery, I think. xxoo

[@roseyc.5846]

Jane Friel I totally agree! 🙂

[@Sheila-ru1iu]

Ditto! I am loving the single life and don't want it any other way!!

[@lorrilewis2178]

I can vouch for the fact that getting older makes us way more discerning and careful. No one wants to exchange their hard-won stable life and emotional calm for someone who might bring a lot of drama. I think we guard ourselves more, because by this age we know another person can bring us happiness or misery. Younger people know this intellectually, but not in quite the same way.

[@breathedeepnow1]

Bingo

[@candydonnelly7543]

I just turned 70, Wow, surprised myself. Love my freedom, have a vintage on line business on Etsy, moved back to the beach a few years ago and am thankful for everything I have. I spoke to my dear friend, college roommate a few days ago, with the traditional like, kids, grandchildren 2 homes and we are just the same kids lying across our beds talking about life and laughing. Getting the best out of yourself, learning more and growing and rising above negative situations and having Fun to me is how I have made it. Thanks for putting yourself out there, we are not alone😁, have a wonderful Memorial Day😁❤️😁

[@karenhill3970]

Hi ! I would LOVE TO SEE YOUR VINTAGE ONLINE SHOP...! Pls let ne know how to excess it . how cool..i love vintage..i hace a 75 yr old house in WTexas..used to gave a antique shop .& love vintage lingerie &/orlingerie ..& new/ old garden furniture...thank s i just love Little Poet Susan

[@candydonnelly7543]

@@karenhill3970 Hi Karen, my vintage Shop is in Etsy, Rt9NJvintageFun, be happy to answer any questions, you can send me a convo through Etsy. Thanks so much for your interest! Have a wonderful Sunday.

[@candacekesting1786]

Something that happened to me recently via my adult children has changed me forever. I am not the same person and never will be again. God's love has made it possible for me to go on but yes life happens and I am reacting with love and forgiveness but at the same time new boundaries. Love your videos susan, they help so much !!

[@lisab2303]

Susan I am 51 years old and you inspire me. You are so authentic in your videos. I think you look fantastic at 66. You do not look a day over 50 so keep doing what you are doing. In 5 years I want to own a 2 bedroom cottage where I can garden like yourself and decorate and make my own. A nice backyard for my doggies to run around. I hope you get yours soon. BTW I love your hair. It always looks so pretty. Have a great Memorial Day weekend!

[@peggypolo3643]

I'm 74 and in the past year I have changed to a whole food plant based way of eating ( vegan). I have lost 50+ lbs, pre diabetes gone!, blood pressure normal. Haven't felt this good since I was a teenager. This lifestyle is literally a lifesaver. Watch the documentary Forks over Knives. Blessings to you and Desi N

[@sabine3769]

Congratulations great job

[@marieleemcgill5011]

I need help , would love to hear what you eat in a day, and advise

[@dagmarouwehand]

Good for you Peggy!! Best thing I ever did was going Vegan a couple of years ago, for my health,the animals and the environment💚!!

[@rs5570]

I am also vegan and I take no medications whatsoever. I now weigh what I did in high school. I roller skate in the street, rescue animals & started an online business. I still have problems but my health and weight are covered. Yoga has been helpful, too.

[@dagmarouwehand]

@@marieleemcgill5011 I left a comment yesterday with suggestions but it got deleted🤔..will try again: look up vegan22 for 22days of free online support a great way to start! Best of luck💚

[@genevievekelly1792]

I can't imagine you receiving any hostility from anyone. You are pure love, joy and kindness. God Bless you... ❤

[@karensmit820]

Amen,I love gentle souls.

[@donnakinsey2053]

That was my thought as well!

[@susanhowell486]

People are so jealous of what you have and your joy! So sad. But, if they would put all that hate into improving their own lives they would be happier.

[@dgooch2003]

Just a couple of days ago. I caught myself worrying about things. And, at that moment I thought "It doesn't matter to me." I can't change it. It just does not matter. So let it go. I have to remind myself a couple times a day. No worries.

[@reesepeacock]

That is so true, Debra. Great comment!

[@BlingyBea]

So true/

[@Mama_298]

Door number three. Widowed. You didn’t pack your bags and walk out. The door opened and shut on you without you getting to choose. I related a lot to this video. I’ve changed so much this past year or two. My husband died eight years ago this month. First couple of years I thought I would move on with my life and find a new normal. I’m 76. I have five children that are wonderful people. I know if I called out they would be there. But I don’t. I really don’t care about a lot of things I use too. There is no normal. I related too so much in this video! I was always kicking and screaming to stay young looking. I look pretty good for my age, I’m finally good with that. Never thought I’d see that day coming. I admire your zest for life, I had it at 66. Something happened, and I don’t care. I just realized how sad that is. I don’t need advice to get out there and do things. I know what I should want to do. I help people when I can. That’s not it. I have friends, I really am not interested in the energy it takes to nurture a relationship in a friendship. Maybe I’m just depressed? Possibly. My life isn’t what I thought it would be five years ago. I don’t see positive changes in the next five years. Sometimes it just is what it is. My only goal is to be kind, to maybe brighten one persons day, everyday. That’s all I got. Thank you Susan. I love your sweet spirit.

[@marieleemcgill5011]

I thought I was the only one with aches and pains. I too feel like I grew this last year. One main thing is to stop asking people for what is good for me, but have my own mind. I think my worst time and happiest time was the same time, hi nine years ago I had my first grandson two weeks later I found out that my husband of 40 years was cheating, so I think I knew for two years before that but couldn’t find out, once I found out the pain was better ,really. Long story ,but I have no no anger you can’t live that way. It has been a journey, at my age ( a couple years older then you ) I never thought I would be here, but it is my life and I make it my best. I don’t want to look 20 again but I don’t want to look 100 I want to look my best so I’m back at Weight watchers and I am back trying to take care of myself. I decided to get a puppy instead of a man, I am excited and nervous, when I get her I will introduce her to you . I learn a lot from you, your great attitude.

[@roseyc.5846]

You're much better off with the puppy, for certain! Stay blessed.

[@stellatranchina9351]

In 5 years I want to be here with you too!

[@cherries1952]

I have so much pain all the time. My life revolves around when I take my Tylenol next. I didn’t realize how hard it is for me to walk till I had to get my Covid shots. I’m so bent over my walker also. I can’t straighten up anymore. I can just about get around my apartment. I don’t sleep much either. I never thought I’d end up like this. I miss just being able to go to a store. I’ll be 69 this October & I feel even older. It’s been even harder by being so isolated because of Covid. I live through people on KZbin as they travel & live their lives. I watch lots of TV. Love British mystery programs. It stinks getting old when you’re not in good health. Your videos are fantastic. Love the sweater coats. They look beautiful on you. Desi looks so handsome with his new haircut. Love you, Lucy

[@wildflowerwind6941]

Sorry to hear that Cherries. I have a brother who is 55 and needs both hips replaced and has other health issues. He can barely walk around his apartment with his walker. He never thought he would end up like that either. We never know what card we are dealt.

[@LittlePoet]

I just love you...you are a wonderful writer....you inspire me...

[@odetterenee8724]

cherries1952... sending you a big hug. ❤

[@jodabney4358]

I'm fortunate that I have my cottage and my front garden is so beautiful and relaxing. I've started an hydranges garden in the back that is starting to grow its personality. In 5 yrs I'll be here still enjoying my garden, my fur babies, my life, and meeting remarkable strangers, and hearing and seeing your videos

[@patriciariley7969]

Well That last question was “ where do I see myself in five years Hopefully living my BEST LIFE Liking new adventures on a day to day basis Enjoying my family and friends Smiling and laughing about silly things Never losing my sense of Humor

[@laurakelly1718]

I LOVE the little Bow Tie!

[@hallaisvanessa5863]

Maybe you should do a video on the odd first date. That would make an interesting video.

[@debbiem6406]

There’s a door #3. I was suddenly thrown into widowhood at age 55, after 35 yrs. of marriage, with 10 & 12 yr. old daughters. That was over thirteen years ago & I my girls & I miss him beyond words. As Christians, I know that he’s in the arms of his beloved Jesus, but I miss our discussing everything together & his incredible wisdom. And, he’d be so proud of his girls, now 24 & 26.

[@lionheart830]

I have gone through the same. t leaves us feeling so hollow and alone. I believe no one understands until they have been through this kind of rude awakening. Your husband is proud!

[@carolweston8056]

I would love to have a rescue for dogs and cats. I’m an animal lover and my greatest joy would be to provide all the love and care I can to make their lives better and to make sure they know they are loved and happy!

[@pollymorriss3001]

I am 64 I feel old and ugly.i am on social security (proverty).i was in a beautiful 17year marriage.i loved him so he was my heart in fact a minister. He then had an affair with a 17/18 year old.then for 3 more years we struggled ending at 20 years.i was doing great for 3years.then I became homeless. Because of Covid I lost my job and haven't been able to find another job.A friend has allowed me to live with them. All my beautiful stuff in storage now 3years. I dont go anywhere but grocery store every other week. No friends after divorce. I have cut ties with family. My life has no meaning or purpose anymore. I try to stay positive but it is so very hard. Attempts at dating is crazy.they want sex immediately and you to move in with no commitment. They are like boys going through puberty again. Anyway thank you for listening.Thank you and Desi for making my days. Love seeing your beautiful smile and hearing your sweet comforting voice. Be blessed always.

[@ravenraven966]

Polly, my heart aches with yours. Life has proved to be so unfair to the pure of heart. I too have come to the point of hopelessness. I'm 65 and all alone as well.

[@davebenz8271]

Polly, “I have cut ties with family.” Why would you do that at a time like this when you need them most?

[@pollymorriss3001]

@@davebenz8271 I only have son and a daughter . Parents gone 50 and 42 years...all 5 siblings and aunt and uncles gone also. So you see your opinion is of no questionably. At 65 and well educated I understand signs of time and importance of not being alone. Your opinion appreciated

[@pollymorriss3001]

@@davebenz8271 BTW family is referring to nieces and nephews in northern states. children too

[@artiglesias9317]

~Polly~ Please consider what I have written. There may be no easy courses, but each nay find the course best course for themselves. Thank you for considering my perspective, ~ Art ~ Art Iglesias Perhaps finding the passions for which are a reflection of your gifts is a challenge, nevertheless doing so can be a compass to joy and happiness. I always say a person should be in a space they are about, and the most blessed are those who are with the person they belong with'; for they too belong in the same space. Yes, in five years I hope to be right where I am in the Texas wide open spaces, dreams of being in this space with an unknown lady may yet come true; where the stars at night are big and bright!

[@judyfaul9186]

I'm 66 also, and wild and free!I love having a group that I feel simpatico with....very comforting. Mentally,I'm still that young girl from 1969 who wanted to run away to Woodstock!🚖

[@puppy-love705]

Love the nurse or purse saying, I have to remember that one . Love you & Desi

[@patriciaeisert8483]

This comment may be coming out of left field, but I just wanted to mention the fact that most of us in this beautiful community grew up during a time when we were children there was no sun screen and we loved the sun and getting tan. Well, I am 77 years on and this past Tuesday I was diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma. Caught it early and I go for mohs surgery on the 14th of this month. SCC is not as dangerous as melanoma but it can spread to other organs so therefore can be life threatening if not taken care of early. So to all you ladies loving to garden, just a word to the wise, go get checked yearly and be sure to put sunblock and especially on your hands (that’s where it showed up) especially if you do a lot of driving. Be on the lookout for small, flakey , pinkish and possibly itchy spots and anything spots that don’t heal or start to change, ie get bigger or start to hurt. Just a heads up to everyone. Be safe and be well. Love to you all🥰

[@hollytaylor3242]

Actually, YOU helped me figure out what I wanted now that I am 76. I had lost touch with my femininity and you have recommended so many products (I love the IPSY bags and look forward to them). And the lockdowns that meant I couldn't get my hair cut into its normal "helmet" style made me grow it out and now I am feeling more and more like a woman again (an old one, one with aches, but one that still likes to put on something pretty and go out among people.) Once again, I want to look my best and feel like I made an effort And I like my longer hairstyle and I don't care if no one else does. I watch KZbin videos of what you can do with longer hair and I can't wait to try it. I love being retired now and I love my house and I try to keep it always looking good because I never know when I am going to wake up and just feel like not dealing with the weather. So I put on a pretty robe and give the dog a new toy (a bribe not to nag for walks in cold rain) and snuggle up with a book and ponder how very lucky I am to have this life.

[@Brooklyn1620]

Me too!

[@belvadalidowich5314]

Five years is a lot to ponder when you are old and I am a lot older then you. I listen you you saying 66 and wish I could be that young again. I'm pushing toward 80 and I can't find that young inner me that used to be there. This world is taking a darker turn lately. I read my bible and see prophecy coming true right before my eyes and with sadness I realize most are blind to it. I hope to someday be in the arms of Jesus and enjoying touring the vast wonders of Heaven. If I am still here in five years I hope that I am as close to My Lord as it is possible to be.

[@cyberninja76a]

Bravo well said. Im a 64 married female and going through so many emotional changes that sometimes I dont even care to acknowledge myself lol then I get up the next day and I'm okay(for the day). So I pray and thank God he still loves me. Laugh a little cry a little and just live.

[@welcomwelcom9882]

Thrilled to see strong masculine hands lovingly on your shoulders. Thank u Susan for your outstanding videos week after week. I so appreciate your wonderful personality intelligence and honesty. May all your dreams come come true. With much luv to u and precious Desi

[@lizwalker791]

I hear you, at 73 my new normal isn’t the same as it was but that won’t stop me either. In the Summer I spend part of every day in the garden..sore knees and all. I take more breaks now but get the jobs done...Every day is an adventure that I’m glad to go on...I love all my lovely lady friends on youtube..thanks Susan for being one of them❤️..sending you much love..Liz❤️❤️

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

Hello how are you doing 😊😊

[@msdhonifanpage3317]

You are beautiful 😍 Liz

[@balmbeachbeauty]

Like us all, I have had a number of rough patches. 3 years ago a man I had cared about for 10 years said he wanted to be my sweetheart and then he ran away again. I met a wonderful man shortly after who seemed to be the answer to my dreams. He was kind and generous and helped me alot around my home. I have so much gratitude towards him. He left too. A month later, I found out I had uterine cancer which thankfully was healed with surgery. So here I am 3 years later happy to be alive and healthy. I am 70 years old and inside I feel more calm and peaceful than ever before. I am opening up to the flow of my life. I feel such gratitude to each of those men who couldn't stay because they have taught me to be open to the one who chooses to stay with me. Will I meet him soon? Who knows my life isn't about him. It is about me ....loving myself everyday and being a kind person of high intentions towards my family friends and world.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Brenda! This made me cry....but at the end...there is that amazing lesson we women understand...!

[@NelCooper]

Hi Susan! I loved the video where you were sitting and reflecting with someone's hands on your shoulders. We are never truly alone. We have each other in this community thanks to people who pay it forward. In five years I want to be living in a healing place with lots of nature, connected to friends and being creative. I'm SO glad for you and the other women that comment here. Thank you!!! 🙏 ❤️

[@cherieallen9508]

Yeah..and what about that man with his hands on your shoulder..by the way????.🤭who was that??? A friend? Lover??? Or was that the Milkman.???😅🥛🥛🥛🥛🚚👤

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Was it your son?

[@karenlong4364]

I will soon be 66 this summer. You look beautiful I. This video! The blue and white is your color and you makeup looks glorious! Thank you for your words of wisdom. This video was all inspiring.

[@mariannedressler6784]

I loved this video so much. One of your finest! ❤️. I had not dated for 10 years. I met a man who I thought was great ... but come to find out he was very attracted to me because I am a nurse and I have a purse! Didn’t take me long to figure it out. I was very disappointed. So now I’m back to enjoying my life solo.

[@turragorman59]

You are beautiful 66. Susan welcome her, love her, embrace her- she will take you on a new journey. Our younger self needs to be thanked for bringing us this far but we always need to let her go so we can walk the new path ahead with open hearts. Beautiful videos and so unique feminine. Happy Memorial Day to you and Desi.

[@turragorman59]

@@PeachesSkinCare absolutely, please use the message.

[@turragorman59]

@@PeachesSkinCare thank you too for spreading good messages to our YT community.

[@tishe5935]

Rules should not apply to any woman of any age! I miss your shopping and favorite products videos. 😘🙋🏻‍♀️ Btw, that blue dress is beautiful on you. Perfect color! Have a safe and happy Memorial Day.🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Yes, that blue print is lovely on Susan!! I wish I could be blond as I love the colors blonds look good in.

[@divarose2017]

Whoa Whoa, back up back up, whos hands were those on your shoulders?? strong hands I might say:-))) That was a very sweet moment:-)))))))))))))))))))

[@mkbuser]

I want to know too! Had to rewind to make sure I saw what I thought I saw when those hands showed up. LOL

[@kathysutter6968]

@Carol-catzmom61 Maybe Hal?

[@Dizzylizzyscreations]

@@kathysutter6968 She does seem to be glowing in this video ;) Come on Susan spill the beans!

[@sheilacirioni4676]

We all have changed,I'm 73 in july. Adjusting to the fact that I am 73, not 30. The 70's was & 80's was the best times of my life. So I sometimes crank up the rock& roll& have a cocktail. Lost alot of good friends,so grateful I'm still alive. Live your best life to the fullest.♥️🙏✌🍷🌻🦋🌴🥰

[@susan5301]

Since the pandemic I still don't want to venture out of the house. I go to the store only when needed. Hopefully this feeling will leave very soon! You are just so beautiful and kind and so enjoyable to watch! You also have the best attitude and personality! Thanks Susan and Desi!

[@dorothearagsdale2664]

I retired at 69 and am fortunate enough to be able to enjoy it without any real financial worry. I have 3 beautiful show dogs and they are my family. I talk to them like they understand and you know they do. I enjoy the youtube channels and it touches on so many issues that people are afraid to discuss. Keep up the "good" channel.

[@trudy7016]

I have a little two bedroom house with a flower garden and a nice fenced-in backyard that's just perfect for me and my little dog. Thank you for reminding me to be grateful. I pray your dream home will come true 🙏❤

[@debbebranciforte3731]

In 5 years I’d like to have a one bedroom apartment, I now have a 2 room place. I would also love to have a 4 legged companion. Last year I lost my beloved Pomeranian that I had shared life with for 14 years. It’s very lonely without a little furry friend. I also just want to be happy in five years. I do for see that goal because I love to look at life like the glass is half full. Watching your videos has added such joy. Thank you for being you and sharing you with us.

[@mollyj409]

Please rescue a senior fur baby. So many are looking for furever homes.❤🐕❤

[@gailtester8749]

Susan, I am also 66 and you are so spot on with how I feel about aging and feeling 'young'. I too feel a big change after the quarantine year. I was divorced and single 16 years and remarried 13 years ago. Sadly my husband, the love of my life, developed Parkinson's. He's failing fast and I'm his full time caregiver. Honored to be so. We had 8 healthy active years together. Now it's tragic and beautiful. Sweet and sorrowful. Joyful and devastating. I Love gardening too and it's my savior. I appreciate you very much. You inspire me EVERY. SINGLE. WEEK!

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

How are you doing 😊😊

[@odetterenee8724]

Gail Tester...sending you a big hug. ❤

[@CH-vf5ys]

I am 64, and still feel like 35! Love your channel and cannot imagine why anyone would be unkind to you; you are such a gentle soul. I’ve been retired three years and am loving life. Hope to scale down to a smaller home closer to the coast in the next five years.

[@sabine3769]

So my spouse is 78 very dependent on me 53 for everything. I find it very upsetting, resentful and depressed a lot. Big mistake. I often want to leave but dont have the courage. A lot of you here are single, truthfully I long for that a lot. I love this channel we can be honest and learn from each other.

[@junepage1276]

Sending love and hugs your way.xxx

[@jbellbird9050]

I hope you find happiness and peace whatever you choose to do 🕊️🌼

[@rs5570]

I’m your age. In your place I might get some good help in the house and get my own place nearby, make gradual but definitive moves to be less tied down to unhappiness while making sure he’s ok. First I would go to a good therapist or life coach who is super supportive & smart to help me through. You’re so young! You can meet reasonable obligations to this man without abandoning him or you. Think outside of the box. Forgive me for jumping in but I hear such despair in your comment. I just wanted to reach out, really. I know of a good coach...

[@janetyamashige9573]

@@rs5570 this sounds like excellent advice!

[@bettypecoraro8104]

People like you on KZbin have saved my sanity over the last 18 months. I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had surgery and chemo and radiation......and then the pandemic. I was basically quarantined in my house by my doctor because the chemo caused my white blood cell count to be very low and very open to a possible life threatening infections. I only left the house for medical appts. I watch so many different age groups on KZbin....women my age...young women with children...skin care....cleaning ....decluttering...homesteading...you name it and I watched it, and all of you helped me keep my sanity. And so I say thank you to all of you on KZbin who helped me keep my life together.

[@bettypecoraro8104]

@Debbie Thank You so much.

[@adamiranda19]

Susan you look extra beautiful, your glowing. Your self assurance, self confidence shows. I’m 60 years old and divorced for 6 years now from a 28 year marriage . I found your KZbin video one night before I was trying to go to bed feeling down on myself and found you inspiring, relatable, very claiming and so sweet. I look forward every week to watch your new video. You never disappoint and love Desi 🤗. Haven’t dated since my divorce working on myself, self love . Continue doing what you do your a warrior! 🙏❤️

[@reesepeacock]

Stay strong, it gets better!

[@LittlePoet]

I love you Ada!

[@colleenhendley9602]

I have the same issue with high standards for another man. I've been widowed for 13 years and don't want to do dating sites. If it's meant to be it will happen.

[@wildflowerwind6941]

Me too. Widowed 10 year.

[@tammyward4532]

Hello friend

[@imahick5723]

My retirement years have been the happiest of my life. I am enjoying discovering me. So much of my energy, talents and time was spent earning a living, Now I am comfortable and can pursue self care, interests and exploring. Happy, so happy.

[@Bellavintagenotebook]

I just turned 61 . Even being in the medical profession and designing world . I’m still having a hard time realizing that I can’t get off the floor of the way I used to and getting out of bed is rolling now not just sitting up! I’m taking a nap , you have to what it is ,,it is what it is. I look at life every day as a present and it’s a gift and I run with it. Coloring my own hair and putting on my make up makes me feel like a brand new woman. What everybody else is saying that’s their business not mine ,,,thank you for your KZbin channel I just ran into you today. 💕

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

Hello how are you doing 😊😊😊😊

[@janonthelam3418]

I am glad you are not Canadian as It has been hell here in Ontario since mid March 2020. No stores to go into, no travel and no way to meet people; almost complete isolation, So, to be perfectly frank, sometimes I am angry, sometimes I am jealous but mostly I am happy that you still have a life and, of course, that you have Desi 👍🏼💖🐶

[@IvyRoad]

I'm also in Ontario. In Toronto, actually. These restrictions have kept us alive. It's been a trial, for sure, but we live to live another day. No small compensation ;0)

[@sabine3769]

Hi Jan Im Canadian living in US, planning on crossing border next week. I hear its really bad so Im not looking forward to the trip my husband insists we go to our summer house there, north ON, he can only get in because of me. Thats causing me great stress. Life is challenging. I love this channnel we can support each other.

[@janonthelam3418]

Sabine, the numbers are really just bad around the major cities. An hour north of Toronto, life is much calmer although all but essential stores are closed. Just get a good haircut before you come and I hope you and your husband will have a great time at your summer home. 👍🏼🇨🇦🙏🏻

[@tracyeast3397]

I also live in Ontario, and while I am truly fed up of the lockdown and restrictions I feel lucky to live were I do and to be healthy. I have lost friends this year and one to Covid so I will do what I have to to keep friends and family safe

[@user-tt4ow2tf7s]

Also in Ontario and can't wait for June to come so we can get out of this crazy province and head to New Brunswick Canada, looking sooo forward to living on 34 acres of pure bliss, peacefulness and quietness.

[@user-nd6en3qf7r]

Ι ve never had issue with getting older.Iam old but i am for ever young at heart.Growing older it s a privilege denied to many!!! God bless you!!!Finia Moraiti from Greece.

[@jillengel4124]

I relate to what you’re saying about feeling your age after this past year. I feel my 66 years now but felt much younger prior to 2020. I did a video for Instagram this week and I thought man do I look old. I’m going back to using my expensive face cream! Desi looks dapper in his polka dot tie!

[@TheMissann6]

I am retiring from my 9-5 in 2 weeks. My husband and I are moving to a town we’ve loved for a long time. I’m excited about all the possibilities that lay ahead. I was having some anxiety about doing this “right” but have slowly realized that’s my 9-5 mentality. I’m just gonna keep myself open and enjoy the journey. Btw, you and your videos are an inspiration!

[@janetyamashige9573]

@TheMissann6 Congratulations on your retirement and enjoy it!!! You have earned it!

[@yvonnefitts5229]

You just know I have to put in my two cents worth...haha......I agree with you about dressing...There is a difference in looking old and looking frumpy.....Most older women , not in the work force., do not care how they look, they just want to feel comfortable....not me, I have been out of the working world for years but I still like to" dress up"...I wear my prettiest to the grocery store....and please, I have to like my hair to look cared for.....No matter your size or your age, a woman can look pretty......It all comes down to how I feel about myself, not how someone else thinks I should look or feel....and you are a perfect example!! I love you just how you are, Susan.....

[@conniespellman4405]

This is one of your best video's! Spot on Susan! Rock on ~~~

[@debrastimson5952]

Your great. The people making the mean comments have the problem. Keep being you!

[@normaotts2260]

My husband and I love your shows.I just turned 78 and husband 81. We are very involved in spiritual things and like you I thank God for every day we have.

[@sjp4u338]

I’ve changed too....and I loved it when you said....”I don’t care!!” That’s wonderful. I don’t care either!! 😂🤣😂🌷💕🌷💖

[@cindyrogers2589]

I identify with all of your comments tonight. Pain makes it difficult to be happy and enjoy life. I have isolated for the past few years due to many factors. I want to get out and explore and make a couple of great friends who enjoy what I enjoy. You inspire me! Thank you so much for your you tube. Your an amazing influence for women.

[@marielcalder103]

Indeed you are making a difference in this world sweet Susan. Halfway into watching this week's chat I mustered up enough energy to get in the shower and wash my hair. That may not seem much but as I'm dizzy when upright it takes an effort to put myself through it and somehow just listening to you I managed to do it. Thank you! ☺️🌷💕

[@jameskittrell6486]

Mariel: Amazon has a three-legged lightweight cane with a folding bicycle-type seat. Only $40! I couldn't possibly stand up in the shower, so this thing is my shower chair. Be sure to have a normal anti-slip mat or such. Stand it on it's head to drain water from the legs. Yes, a chair-cane or "chain". As well, I can't say how many times it's saved me in a long line. 😺

[@deborraholiveri6202]

I don't often comment but I want you to know how much I value your videos..you get to my heart with this one. I'm 69 and right now in a very challenging transitional stage of my life. Trying to find myself again after a abusive relationship. Trying to relocate on very little finance is extremely difficult...it's hard to focus on all my intimate personal changes knowing who I am..BUT you help remind me and for that I thank you . Much love, respect and admiration...

[@marylynnrybak2777]

Is that Hal with his hands hugging you?😊

[@marilynmontgomery4579]

I have watched you from the very beginning and you have inspired me. I am 66 as well and feel every year of it. I live with chronic pain and other health issues. Sometimes the hardest thing I do is get out of bed in the morning. Watching you raises my spirits. You are always so positive. People say I look good. Amazing what a little makeup and a smile can do. Sometimes I have to fake it til I make it!

[@jodabney4358]

My hubby was the best and when you've had the best there is none left. Still socialize and still go places sometimes with friends and sometimes on my own...if you have a great smile...you just make some great conversation with strangers

[@marciamellow1211]

I am 69, in a few days... lost my husband resently,and have learned how blessed and grateful I am to have the life I do... I am happy alone, and look forward everyday with the things in life I enjoy... It all comes from within.❤

[@charlielanguellholt3877]

How are you doing 😊😊😊

[@z.norton3326]

I am in my early 60's and I totally relate to what you are talking about! I have always loved your videos..... And by the way....YOU inspire ME!!!