My father stopped talking to me after I walked out of my toxic marriage | Tuko TV

[@Tuko]

What message do you have for Ann Bilha Wahome? You can reach her through her number 0711314071. To share your story with us, send an email to [e-mail] or [e-mail].

[@bilharwambui2035]

Bilha my namesake your are too beautiful it's well with you gal.

[@joanmiksabel3598]

How do you go on to marry a man with all this!? Sometimes women are too blame. Were you marrying the mother or sisters? It's important to walk out early than later because it will hurt more. You can't manipulate a man into love/marriage. It will never work🤧

[@peterlonyait4101]

@@joanmiksabel3598 Huyu dada alikuwa amependa kweli ..wish Sisi tungepewa Wazuri ka yeye.

[@joanmiksabel3598]

@@peterlonyait4101 boss! One thing I know, men are hunters naturally. When a woman takes that role, he looses interest and goes for others. When they started having problems and she kept running to his mother, that was wrong. No man appreciates that, and none can be forced into loving you. This behaviour pushed him further away.

[@blessedmama5367]

Wow !!! It was way too open that the man had no feelings for this lady , in kikuyu culture a man’s mother can’t call the son’s girlfriend to meet without the son’s introduction .

[@lydiapatrick9902]

The interviewer is a qualified counselor. Good listening skills,and there for for the client

[@mkmedia3006]

The interviewer is doing it right. Giving a listening ear. Keep it up

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thank you so much

[@louisawambui4475]

Yes, without too much interjection.

[@marthakimondo4765]

Very true

[@philismwaura1373]

May God have mercy upon you Anne

[@Dnt4kwtm]

That’s right

[@eunicemusyoki3489]

Darling, be strong and all will be well,I chose the wrong person twice but I left everything to God's hand and I was blessed with the right person and my wedding is next month,take your time and you will be fine...

[@Annie-tb7ix]

Do you have kids pls? If u have then you are twice lucky....all the best in your wedding...u deserve happiness...

[@jobsonisluko5842]

you deserve it swty

[@frashiahwangari2177]

Wish u success after the wedding. From stories all over, it seems all hell breaks loose after the wedding.

[@wanjanjuguna9012]

Very nice

[@margaretkenyatta595]

Parents! Parents! Parents! , welcome your daughters back from broken marriage and advise them that is not the end of life than waiting to see her in a coffin or with wounds and pain. A woman saying one day enough is enough that is the end of her pain as she walks away . Promise you no other day you will never hear and see her again 🔙

[@millymatere]

After kuvumilia sana na kuishiwa na kila kitu.....alileta another woman na kunifukuza....😥🥲😭

[@sarahnyokabisallitah]

Thanks to my parents they welcomed me back... parents please give your children that should to lean on 🙏.. please

[@margaretwacera3428]

The stigma is really i was there once they blame the ladies but I owe nobody an apology for the decisions i made am so proud of myself

[@emmychannel5563]

@@sarahnyokabisallitah lol, good, but that's no license that you shouldn't look well before going into another one. 'Return to sender' is not a good stigma as well.

[@rue258]

@@sarahnyokabisallitah I am thankful my mother welcomed me back home.

[@harrisonwazza3563]

I have a friend who went through a similar situation. Too many red flags, everything just went wrong after wrong after wrong. May God heal her and restore her relationship with her father.

[@leahkabura4271]

Ooh I see😥🙏❤️

[@nyakiomuriithi9959]

Let's cut down this habit of raising broken children in the name of keeping marriages.

[@wanjamungai-AfricanJournalist]

True

[@sharonmbithe74]

I just need to hug this lady for like five minutes. She needs a shoulder to cry on.

[@teddgclafe1431]

If you witness an accident, you'll realize that some victims are screaming for help, ignore them , give priority to the one that is silent, they are the most hurting......your father's love for you is deep

[@eunicemwangi7411]

Hugs from your villagemate. Really loved your mum, my teacher. Thanks for sharing your story. Surely marriage is not a ticket to heaven!

[@kenyshabellen3240]

One red flag is when a mother to a boyfriend really puts you close n pushes you to marry the son. In most cases the mother covers bad behaviour of son and just uses you to tame him.

[@WangechiPenninah]

THIS IS SO TRUE 💯. Been a victim of it but lucky enough I called off the wedding 2weeks before. The mother has tried witchcraft on me and all kind of things but when you trust God and make him the center of it all he wins the battle for you.

[@NazarofGod]

Weh, you're so right🎯🎯! Was almost getting into such a mix. But who is God who revealed his true character and got me out of it

[@WangechiPenninah]

@@NazarofGod If God be on our side who can be against us

[@emilywawira6346]

I second you,my marriage ilikuwa hivyo

[@Dee_the_blessed1]

This is true 💯 percent Coz they know their useless sons will be zombies and wrecks if you leave them. Know it too well.

[@ronniksentertainment]

This lady's story has touched my heart because I also wedded weeks before her and the day she wedded is the I was coming from honeymoon but my marriage ended on 28th September 2020 because of my Ex-wife was cheating on me with a matatu driver, it affected me to a point where I distant myself from God and wanted to revenge but God has a way of ya kurudisha mtoto kwa laini, now I am healed and my relationship with God is do tight than with any human being and I will serve Him till my last breath because He rescued me from the wrong marriage.

[@sharonmbithe74]

Sorry. Glad God saw you through

[@felicityncube1007]

Hugs

[@ronniksentertainment]

@@sharonmbithe74 Thanks.

[@ronniksentertainment]

@@felicityncube1007 Thanks

[@rue258]

My ex husband started abusing me from our honeymoon last year. I left him just after 4 months of marriage because it was too toxic for me. I had to save myself from verbal,emotional and physical abuse.

[@geejaccuzi5762]

I want to believe there's no tear a person will shed because of someone else and go unpunished. Take heart, let God take control.. He won't embarass you

[@auntiepiarants2238]

She's crying because of the dad.

[@nyphermaloba6833]

Wedding can not hold a man.

[@esthermwangangi8956]

@Mrs Inziani Mwambie..sometimes huwa hawakui punished 😂😂😂

[@gwg216]

Very very true

[@lischentjaveondja9236]

Amen

[@carojoy2995]

I know what it feels to be rejected by a father. God is more than a father

[@NataliaMbotinda]

This girl has reminded me sooo much about myself. This has hit so differently

[@queenqui2024]

Thankyou for giving me a platform to encourage someone going through the same

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thanks for coming over to our channel We appreciate you TUKO family let's support this girl's channel too. She super blessed.

[@Viewers_favorite]

Take heart dear. I feel the pain.

[@bettylaban9696]

You are young and beautiful. Love yourself more, cry, let go. Better now than later. God has something greater and better for you. Keep the faith , trust God. You will look back one day and thank God for getting you out.

[@Karol_Lynne]

you're a strong, beautiful woman

[@cellesantraamanda1509]

You're a strong woman.

[@yesbana49]

🤣🤣 looking back I just laugh . I had this toxic X ! weeh . He was asked who is she ? He said "just a friend." Then after 1 year 6 months dating , I called it quits . 3 days later he had gotten another lady pregnant. 🤣Weeh ! Ogopa wanaume ! Years later he still regrets the decisions he made. I am now happily married and outside Kenya .

[@Wilky254]

Waoooooo 👏

[@karykash1624]

Wow that nyc God has a purpose for everone

[@nahyialetomia9284]

My experience with an ex is the funniest; he told his girlfriend I’m his landlord (he lives in my servants quarter)!

[@wambui185]

@@nahyialetomia9284 😅😅hiyo ni kali

[@nahyialetomia9284]

@@wambui185, imagine! He told the gf that I’m married to some man from Nyeri and had two kids. The girl called me, after some time she had a son with him too. We both later struggled as single mothers😛

[@osagyefo4305]

Never put a wedding ahead of a man's personality and character. Most ladies believe a wedding is everything.

[@imeldahmangala1813]

Ever been on her shoes take heart bilha

[@imeldahmangala1813]

Ever been on her shoes take heart bilha

[@joanmiksabel3598]

True because they concentrate more on public image. Friends, neighbours and Family.

[@lindagithaiga1974]

It's due to societal pressure

[@naomymose1866]

We are losing Christianity wedding is good, despite all challenges, problems will never end, more aee coming

[@georgeokudo]

Good intro Yvonne, good work. Let the grind roll

[@Sofia-dl9vw]

I am so sorry for what this lady has gone through. In future it would also be nice to watch positive stories of good marriages so we can also see that it is possible. I am sure Kenya has such couples. These negative stories can be discouraging.

[@danielemechesterduke8804]

Absolutely true

[@lucynjiruh6519]

True. It's become a trauma channel

[@princessann3760]

Hadi mtu anakua private investigator kwa relationship

[@wanjanjuguna9012]

True

[@joycemsiska-chihana9010]

Eish you are so right.

[@charitymulinge1679]

Tuko pls tupatieni story zingine sio broken marriages only, ladies huku nje hata wameogopa kuolewa.

[@KonstantBakora]

😂😂😂kama mm hapa

[@selinawanjuki5098]

You are not forced to watch

[@lucywangu6467]

Tuko always remember to have with you serviettes or wipes for the guests. It doesn't look good when the guest is in tears and you can't provide.

[@marthashimwaka5853]

That's why we love linny

[@okenobukachi5491]

True

[@martinkaranja3116]

True

[@zaiokari1698]

And Lnny always provides

[@Concili]

@@marthashimwaka5853 what do mean this is not Lynn know how to talk on people's platforms

[@ruthmaina8919]

I love weddings but hearing things people go through in the name of weddings gives me chills....

[@evansgitonga3046]

hahaha weddings are overrated

[@faithfavour584]

It gives me chills too

[@mumbikamau3316]

Same wueeh

[@chrismwangi6599]

A parent stands by his/her child no matter what....that father needs to talk to his daughter

[@janetmmbaha7567]

My mother did not speak with me after my divorce. She died in 2020 before she could. I basically lost my mom 2yrs before her death

[@christercheru8328]

It depends with the child some children they dont listen to parents

[@nyamburawanderi8848]

I'm already crying because I'm also that girl's dad despite being married to a man that I love deeply. I really love my dad so so much

[@bburgess6036]

The toxic marriage hurt her but the problem with her dad has devastated her. Keep going my sister. I applaude you for beiing strong and leaving before it got worse. I applaud you for looking out for your Precious Rose. Daddy if you are seeing this Fathers are very important to daughters so please reach out to your daughter.

[@patriciamunayi7706]

As a mother with married daughters I want them to hold onto their marriages and make things work. However, if my daughter or son indicates that they are unhappy with the relationship I will drop everything to give them an ear. And yes, if all indications is that it's not working it's not working! My child's happiness is what matters even when they are sixty!

[@phyllismuthoni1327]

Thank u

[@virgiewmathenge5706]

Am sorry for everything....but on the same these are men of nowadais,you could have not leave the marriage...na kuavoid the phone ya wazee😭they are sons of jezebel...

[@apiobeatrice6134]

True mama

[@Anna-qf6ed]

I'm more angry with the dad ,than the ex-husband.

[@katesamfamily6444]

Me too so sad

[@winfredagetega9494]

Same

[@janetogutu4972]

True

[@fridahoyako9425]

😁

[@lindatsuma8305]

Sure

[@shikohmuriithi5216]

You were a beautiful bride,please dnt cry....Lakini what kind of man was that🥺🥺

[@raindrops1942]

Don’t cry over a fool who doesn’t respect or care about you.

[@carolyneogutu6489]

Crying heals

[@Keenytravels]

Yes... That is what I have learnt with time

[@r.q5194]

The man gave her all the red flags before the wedding but she still went on with it. When will women stop compromising with wrong men all because they want to be married. Marriage is not a life achievement and no man can make you happy if you can't make yourself happy.

[@ceecreole4250]

I know another female like that. They already had 2 kids together. He was having sex with an old classmate of his while engaged and messing with other women. Barely 1 year after their wedding he messing with that old classmate flame and seeking out other lose women. It will destroy her soon. She knew who this man was

[@marilynnisutherland2331]

True.

[@sharonbrown5755]

Amen so true,u have spoken facts n thruth🤗

[@kikiannette-]

😪😪true may God help us

[@skelemakuu5135]

She is at peace with her ex husband but for her father thats where her heart is broken in pieces

[@maryannekimani3748]

Hugs girl, just pray for ur dad he might also be going through Alot u know how the society judges but it reaches a time it is just u n ur God when I was in such situation I came to sing " on Christ the solid rock I stand...all the other ground is sinking sand"

[@mousareggae4750]

Dad please listen to your daughter….she loves you

[@stellamuvea9522]

Never beg for love

[@evake4685]

You're strong lady . Don't let anything pull you back. Walking out of the toxic marriage was the best decision you made for you and your girl. Keep on holding onto prayers and your relationship with your Dad will be restored.

[@mildredayuma9749]

It's OK not to be OK.I walked out of a very toxic relationship and am doing just great!! Just cry and for you to heal and also give yourself time💝💝

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

We celebrate your courage to walk out of a toxic marriage Mildred. You are a true hero.

[@khadijahamisi9470]

Soo sorry dr

[@mildredayuma9749]

@@YvonneKawiraTuko thanks mum♥️

[@mildredayuma9749]

@@khadijahamisi9470 am good dear

[@lucianjoroge8930]

Aaaaaw darling!!! I was part of your wedding doing decorations!! You are the most strongest person i know! Hugs love!

[@christinemutiso2163]

I like how you conduct your interviews Ivonne. Doing an amazing job. Keep it up

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your support.

[@consolataogola976]

@@YvonneKawiraTuko Hey great Job.Kindly be carrying or providing Tissues for emotional moments.😊

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

@@consolataogola976 okay I will. Asante

[@catherinejimmy1022]

Nothing hurts than knowing the person you love is cheating on you,this is the reason why i fear getting married or being in a relationship

[@otienossnr.923]

Overcome that fear My Sister

[@blandinadambala6887]

😭painful

[@ruthmungai6318]

Am not alone I fear relationship alot

[@patriciaamongin6662]

Talk to God, He is faithful, He will give you your husband

[@dinahmutie134]

Painful 😭😭

[@vivianchao9421]

hugs mama,sometimes we go through hell to get a testimony, good things a coming your way

[@evelyneprosperofficial6586]

Hugs mummy....this gal is soo cute 🥰🥰she deserves a good person.....all will be well kui...trust God ...it's painful but dad will come back to his senses soon woiye 😭,.....

[@williamgreat.m5728]

I have viewed many of search stories & I have noted something common, "the guy looked handsome" my kind advice to ladies, appearance will never matter if it does not correspond with a right character... Check out for the right virtues & values of the person.... its like choosing a beautiful cup & not minding if its content is poisonous or healthy, the content in the cup is what that matters the most , the beautiful cup should comes as an added advantage … another thing marriage is not a product of society, so never mind what people will say, if you are in a messed up marriage just exit, time is irreversible, the only treasure that you should not let any one waste is your time.... most times after exit you'll find peace, so my dear sisters just move & never look back. God will restore & make you shine...Isaiah 60:1-2

[@maggyngaruiya6649]

Well said brother...

[@annemwangi565]

We are visual creatures and nothing wrong with noticing the outer beauty. You meet the face first before you meet their character. Unless you are on common ground and ovlbserve them all the time. It's upon you to get to know the person beyond the physical appearances. Again we all have our tastes and yes all those her/his smile,his/her body looks good are okay to look out for.

[@sharonmuthoni8179]

Handsome is relative to everyone

[@Shiva-mh2zi]

You seem right👏

[@bethtoox9435]

Their were RED flags,the man said I don't want a wedding,he wanted come we stay,he left the lady plan the wedding all by herself.This guy is a narcissist.God is in control all will be well with u,atleast u left early,1yr not 20 yrs later.

[@verongethe7977]

Good interviewer.....

[@sammbondo762]

i wish you all knew way what you talking off you sooo supportive yes but come to think of her back of the story,,,y all abt the man and not of hers,wacha kumpaka tope kwenye mgongo wa chupa,atupe her blunders as well.

[@EmmaKioko-j9s]

Si naccist is a fornicator and is very dangerous. Men of today for them to keep their morals NI ushamba kwao.

[@risperwambui8369]

If he didn't appreciate your daughter he ain't worth your tears. He's a beast.

[@njeriwachira2408]

I’m only 30 minutes into this but I love this woman! I’m praying for you and your beautiful baby girl❤️

[@Keenytravels]

Same here... I love her for free

[@doreenkanje9839]

The lesson I learned here I will never force relationship weeee huyu aliforce everything had wedding but sory for tht without challenge huez kua strong.

[@joycemugaki745]

So proud of you for walking out of a marriage that was definitely a non starter. I truly hope your dad talks to you!! He should not allow someone to come between the two of you.

[@naiyanimagdalene1176]

Dad plis talk to your daughter. She needs you today more than never.

[@michegy883]

Toxic marriages have become the norm for most of the involved. And they injure the victim and the children mostly. Getting out is the best option because there’s no rehearsal in life and don’t think about what others think and say. It’s all about you the individual. Perseverance only hurts you and makes you a prisoner.

[@annmwariri8119]

Woiye aki watu hupitia through alot in this life😔😔 sorry mama and if possible just cry cry it out, lia uchungu wote uishe...iknow it's not easy but God's preparing something good for you, from now onwards your life with never be the same again.

[@ethancollins3676]

Yvonne you are growing as an interviewer good job keep it up.

[@namayanjabarbra8518]

Yes she gvs space for the whole story

[@lucyw.ndungu3366]

The HOST is so gracious. I like her❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@estherkanini8933]

I remember when broke up a courtship in 2020 on basis of character defects, I gathered courage and went home in person to explain it to mum and dad that the most anticipated wedding was not coming forth!!! It was hard yes, but my parents understood me!!! I have seen enough bad marriages to sign up for one in the broad daylight!! I am a daughter in that home and not a single day can I be denied access!! Some actions require boldness... Bring them to speed and let them understand why you made that decision

[@elizabethwangui8289]

Hi, it's not the end, keep your head up. You fallen twice, collect yourself, take time to reflect, rise up the future a head looks bright!

[@letstalkkenya2]

The lady is beautiful 😍😍 we all make mistakes

[@silantoi5590]

Men are able to read other men. Your father knew and he knows what you went through and he is hurting...his little gal was hurt. When men hurt, they stay away coz if the anger build up, they might do something they will regret. Give your dad time to calm down.

[@TheCandidTherapist]

I feel your hurt, however I understand your Dad is hurting too because of the outcome of a daughter he treasured, he needs time to heal, just give it time, all gonna be well.

[@marymwendwa5926]

Noooooo...parents shouldn't have such expectations from their children that's why there's alot of suicide

[@trouymanun1302]

I have no words to say let me pray that your father may know what you are passing through ,my dear God will bless you take courage,you are awoman of destiny

[@pamelawanderaofficial6257]

Mow you are wiser. Thank God hukupata mtoi mwingine na ur ex.. wed

[@brendaatieno5106]

Bilha! Be strong and have courage dear, your life and your daughter is very important than the life of that fool. God will lift you up and you'll live a happy life which was planned for you. Take heart.

[@jacquelynekerera1140]

Good show Yvonne but can you kindly invest in tissues/surviettes n even a glass of water perhaps.

[@joanmiksabel3598]

I agree, 💯.

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

This is a very important point. Thank you so much for this. I'll definitely take this into consideration.

[@winniewangui9661]

You are bold that was so nice of you getting out, you will heal with time dad will come around maybe he is still coming to terms with this.i love your strength and you're so hardworking keep going.

[@maryjoseph9894]

I am so proud of you of walking away of this toxic marriage. Good on you girl. Dad where are you for your daughter. You are missing on your granddaughter . Keep your spirit on girl.

[@EmmaKioko-j9s]

Of course without a child from that guy.

[@sarahmuzaki4656]

Gal, I understand your position. I personally was born a mistake!! At least this is what my mother kept communicating to me both in words and actions. That hardened me from childhood where I knew so early that in this world, no-one is there for me. I grew up used to the fact that I am not loved. I have worked so hard to reach where iam. I have never known anything like a father figure in my life!!!!

[@sherylpayne5851]

God calls you previous in His sight. Fearfully and wonderfully made. The Apple of His eye. He loves you with an everlasting love. You are worthy of love and shame on those who didn't see your worth.

[@stacysusan7068]

Say no to toxic relationship. Let God take the wheel of your life gal

[@justinekasimbazi6755]

Thank you for sharing your story it has been a great lesson God bless you more

[@evanmaniac2549]

Go strong mammy, believe that one day those who rejected you ,those who ignored you, will come back for your help. Let love lead in the body of Christ..Pray and leave the rest to God.

[@tryphosarungoi1588]

My daughter is my strength too , through going out of toxic marriage,finally am at peace ✌

[@PeloB]

...some situations are just soo painful. But i am glad u walked out that drama. U are such a strong lady.

[@alexthuku2638]

😮Can we get the Dad here to hear his side. So he can bless this Girl

[@bikoflavious2903]

😭😭😭😭😭 I found myself in tears 😭 aki watu are so heartless....Bilha don't worry your future is great don't worry about that ex husband .

[@winskitchen.602]

The mother in law was caring .

[@terryray3147]

They Normaly care when they know their son is useless. Ukipendwa na inlaws think twice. Ujue that son is a problem u will live with. They will do anything to ensure u stay with him juu no one else will.

[@faithraso269]

@@terryray3147 sad truth 😭😭😭😭😭

[@pamelawanderaofficial6257]

Marry for happiness n not desparation

[@georginamakena1660]

Kabisa.the man was not in love frm the word go

[@jedidahmuthui3168]

Parents break hearts too but nobody's ready for this conversation....This is hurting😭😭😭😭watching this with wet eyes

[@geese.with.knives]

Toxic marriages, toxic relationships.. marriage seems to be a scary institution...

[@stellamuvea9522]

It's cheaters who complicate it it's supposed to be a sweet thing

[@SansM-g2r]

great message.

[@marienjuguna-kimani6800]

Notice Although this story she has not cried only when talking about her dad? That is where the trauma is

[@Jabepoma]

yes, she's hurt because of her dad's rejection

[@josiahroyes9467]

MAIN WORD NI "LEAVE" HAPA....AS IN CHOREA MAPARO, Ndio dad ameondokea. Wisdom hio... Matthew 19:4-5 4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ ?6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”

[@sedch]

Marie Njuguna - Kimani her only pillar has crumbled.....so 😢

[@iraneza5316]

Somewhere she said she has always been dad's girl. He was the first to learn about her pregnancy after her boyfriend. She hoped for a different outcome but got something else.... It hurts

[@lifeinreality2011]

Ooh we trending like alot lately tuko... killing it💞💞💞

[@patriciaojiambo3011]

Red flags all over. You forced yourself on this man! May God bless your mom inlove!

[@mwangililian7157]

Maybe she feared the dads doctrines..... She wanted a family

[@sheilahmwash7353]

For sure she forced... Soooo many red flags 💔💔

[@Supervisor-k7d]

You're a strong seeking approval from a weak man (your father) that's a toxic move. Don't chase him, he will return when he needs you.. Live your life you have your own family but never seek approval from weakness, you will leave in shame and stress.

[@nickiey7530]

The lady is hurting, not because of moving out of her marriage but because of the dad... How I wish tuko mngeweza kuintervrne, you've aired/ heard her story, follow up and hear from the dad and probably know what's happening. If the dad is comfortable. You can reconcile the two... In such interviews, let it not stop here..try to provide a solution.

[@rosekiende237]

I second you

[@neeblessed2027]

I third you

[@stellamulisa8336]

It's such an emotional story,this girl has gone through so much. Yaani I can imagine what she feels aki

[@auntiepiarants2238]

Toxic ,insecure,my wedding, my honeymoon, my my planning wedding alone the guy was not ready even for kids.TUKO BRING THE BOYCHILD PLEASE.

[@gracesankei5313]

Yes... I know the guy.. I need the guy here

[@halimahhajarah972]

Sorry my dear

[@mbogawalter3819]

I too share your thoughts...unless you here from the other party, judgement and condemnation isn't right

[@gracesankei5313]

@@mbogawalter3819 thankyou

[@jacquelinenjambi]

@ Grace Sankei...tell us more

[@loisegitau4897]

I say a lot that love yourself first and know that life is short, be happy and live your life. Nobody knows how you feel but yourself.

[@katendungu572]

A woman's heart is an ocean of deep secret! Ann you're beautiful, Blessed and Highly favoured by God..One day you'll look back and thank the Lord after reuniting with your dad..Give God a little more time and everything will be fine! BLESSINGS GIRL!

[@salomekinuthia2742]

Bilha take heart. You don't have to stay in a toxic marriage to please anyone. Irrespective of what he was told, he will eventually know the truth. You do not have to pressure him.

[@barbrabarbra6208]

Sorry mummy, just know God saved you from that toxic marriage for a better one. May the almighty heal you and strengthen your heart.

[@veronicahnyambura1696]

There were many Red Flags from the beginning but you choose to Ignore all of them??? It's a high time to listen to Benjamin Zulu classes and stop acting Desperate for love.

[@alexthuku2638]

Life is spiritual. This Girl needs the Father to forgive her. And then utter blessings over her Life. She is beautiful. And she will be restored

[@lucysekete8923]

God choose the right husband for me and a dad to my daughter

[@catherinepeter108]

Amen

[@mercymudara7431]

Really????????????

[@catherinepeter108]

@@mercymudara7431 yeah really put your n God he will never fail you you will testify one day I'll pray for u..

[@agnesmwanzia7795]

Amen

[@miria659]

Amen

[@engineerk1741]

It's so heartbreaking but please TUKO bring the boy child also and even the father so that we get full and deeper truth

[@timothykinyuru6006]

I feel the same let's be fair to boychild

[@banksshahid316]

Sometimes stories get emotional. Always have some tissue atleast. Otherwise this was deep. Thanks

[@annnekesawerimo8757]

True ...

[@thesangsfamille]

Sorry for what you went through, may God journey with you and give you the best out of the worst you may have gone through.

[@scolla81]

I feel you,but according to ur story there where red flags but u ignored, Am wishing u happiness and heal ur wounds first be4 allowing someone in yourlife .Am lucky Benjamin zulu had real open eyes for many who watch and following his channels ,He's just an inspirational to our society.

[@LillysConner]

Ye women always ignore the red flags and when you tell them, they turn on u saying you are just jealous of the relationship

[@scolla81]

Very true,let people learn from others mistakes

[@nakamijunic5844]

When it comes to Benjamin Zulu I feel like recording

[@scolla81]

@@nakamijunic5844 Benjamin his just a vibe to our so called society

[@cuteyforever7238]

Praying for healing from above..this lady is still in pains jehovah heal you my sister. It is well girl. People go through pain to grow stronger you'll overcome all these and emerge victorious. I love you and praying for you.

[@fridahoyako9425]

Marriage marriage ! Wenye wako ndani wanataka kutoka wenye wako nje wanataka kuingia😂😂😂but why🤲?

[@rhodawavinya7371]

Talking sense,, but y???

[@fridahoyako9425]

@@rhodawavinya7371 its very funny 🤣

[@teresiakinuthia8449]

Complicated

[@everlyneakaki7619]

Haaaaaaaaaaa

[@Diaries_with_Monna]

Experience is the best teacher 😂😂😂

[@pheladinare2876]

This is so painful how can a father allow the word of someone he new through her daughter to separate him from her daughter. Please dad talk to your daughter. No appearance or even so called divorce must separate both of you. Your daughter needs you now more than ever

[@imaniekahie2224]

lakini ladies,,,,, ukianza kudate na mtu it's obvious mtakuja kuhave sex,, so make sure mko na protection,,, eg implant ku avoid hizi mambo mingi,,,,, untill siku mtakuja kuelewana mambo na kuhave children,, thank me later

[@HardlyTalk]

It's easier said than done plus kids change people kids change people. Theory is always great until real life happens. Good advice though

[@lifting599]

Napia anaeza kukupea ukwimwi

[@bethbandika]

​@@lifting599True

[@winnieall-round703]

This is so heartbreaking...I hope one day my story will be ready for sharing

[@YvonneKawiraTuko]

Hello Winfred. I would be honored to host you. Please reach out through the email on the pinned comment and I will get back to you.

[@judywambui5074]

Plz share

[@gatwirikinyua5694]

I would love to hear a story where a gentleman suffered in a woman's hands

[@njokiwainaina761]

Sure same

[@cynthiatwali2156]

Me too

[@faithraso269]

Waaah😂😂😂😂

[@sharonmuthoni8407]

Precious is a real blessing in your life ,,,, you are a strong woman and you deserve a happy life,,,with time God will work it for you,,,and He is preparing you for something great,,,,,,I speak life and peace of mind in you life darling......God bless