Back when it was released, it was just a cool rock song. Now, as a dad, I can't listen to it without crying, oh man...
@dramspringfeald3 жыл бұрын
yeah, this song hits a little different now
@michaeldevine10683 жыл бұрын
So true! I ball every time
@flaviobraga87923 жыл бұрын
Feel the same mate
@Blueluise3 жыл бұрын
as Jay z relaeased 99 Problems it was great, too. did anybody notice the marrying jewish couple + the not so amber background..🎈
@michaelpeisler75233 жыл бұрын
I think you don't know this is a Cover XD
@thisorthat7746 Жыл бұрын
I love the choice of words in this line "When are you coming home son I don't know when", because without punctuation, this exchange can be read in two different ways that reflect the stages in the song and the parallel between father and son over the years. The first two times are from the son's perspective, growing up, repeatedly asking his dad when he's coming home so they can spend time together, the line then reads - "When are you coming home?" - "Son, I don't know when." Then when the son is all grown up, in college, at his own house with wife and kids, and doesn't have time to spend with the dad anymore, the line then reads from the dad's perspective as he misses his son - "When are you coming home, son?" - "I don't know when."
@yoshidababies4222 Жыл бұрын
Oof that hit hard.
@santanacruz Жыл бұрын
mindblowing...
@Bluetick-nu1hw7 ай бұрын
Wrong choices
@DennisMcAuliff-j6m7 ай бұрын
Hits alot harder at 46yrs old then it does at 18 yrs old Love you Dad
@JoellenFields7 ай бұрын
Yes I do agree 💯%. It stinks when men put their work first and kids on the back burner.
@jonniep3 жыл бұрын
I heard this song when I was a very young and impressionable young man and I swore to myself that I would always be there for my kids. I am now 50 and took a job working from home so I could wake my kids up in the morning and put them to sleep at night (had kids later in life). Best decision I have ever made in my life...
@marcouiterwijk39683 жыл бұрын
I am a 44 year old man and listened this song when i was young , always busy with my own business but had to quit my job because of a disease and i am now a more happy man and feel so lucky that i can see my 2 sons grow up and be with them most of the day , never thought that this all would be so beautiful , now i realize the dutch proverb work to live and not live to work
@ELLE_37733 жыл бұрын
As the son of a father who had the luck to find and keep a work from home since I was born, I can confirm the benefit goes both ways. Sure sometimes you might feel like stepping on each other's shoes, especially once they grow up and start feeling like they want more independence or autonomy, and to be honest it also depends on the personalities and how they link or clash together (personally this was the only real reason why I ended up moving out, but I sure took my damn time lol). But I assure you that this way the father gets to express all of his love up to the very small things, the ones that they'll have to grow up to realize what they were worth, meanwhile the kids get to have his support and a father figure present basically all day everyday. Again it depends, in my case I have issues because of some ways my father was hurt that in turn made him hurt me, the 'usual' parental cycles sadly, and this is also something that is a bit amplified in small ways when having him always there, but i never stopped noticing how much he loves me and cares for my well-being, even the part of me that hates him, in reality, still wants to give him back the love it deserves. And all of this is helped immensely by him having lived and worked all under the same reliable roof. Quite the long comment but I hope it helps you and others with some insight from the son's perspective. Anyway I love this song too, maybe a bit more the original than this version but I see and feel the lyrics very clearly.
@wjatube2 жыл бұрын
Sold my company and retired young. Was lost. Had two kids. Still unfillfilled. Then this song popped up in my feed. I remembered it as a cutesy kids song. But now I realize the incredible meaning and grateful I still have my kids young in age. I have purpose. Amazing the legacy of music can have on countless generations.
@jonniep2 жыл бұрын
@@wjatube I remember the first time I heard it and immediately thought of my childhood. My dad was there but he was a steelworker and usually wore out so time with him was valuable to me. As I got older I have made it a point to spend as much quality time with my kids as possible and I believe it makes both me and my babies better for it.
@Blueluise2 жыл бұрын
LIL w h o?!
@celinea46029 күн бұрын
One of the most powerful songs ever written with one of the most important messages ever!
@Egalwas426 күн бұрын
Well said
@henkkatimmermark805217 күн бұрын
This version is complete crap if you compare it to Johnny Cash's song.
@Egalwas416 күн бұрын
@@henkkatimmermark8052 Harry Chapin 💪🏼
@virginsim802415 күн бұрын
If you like UKJ, then you'd probably like this version....@@henkkatimmermark8052
@glendafonsecaguillen327115 күн бұрын
Y nadie le presta atención, o no la quieren entender, o no les importa 😞
@jessbrown3073 жыл бұрын
The message is time eternal. My Dad was killed in an auto wreck when I was a 9 year old 4th grader. Now 52 years later I can still shed a tear when I think of things done and time spent with him, and this song in particular can make those tears flow. For most of my entire life Chapin's tune has served as a reminder. When I was a high school freshman, we had a stereo in our Advanced English class so we could listen to commercial-free FM radio while writing. That was a big deal at the time especially for the relatively small town community where I went to school. I remember one afternoon after Cats in the Cradle aired, hard-nosed Irish disciplinarian Mr. Hollahan shut off the stereo receiver and asked the entire class to chime in and talk about what we all had just listened to, the ballad sung, and how one should aspire to live. I don't remember all of my classmates' individual responses, but I was glad I was not called upon. Hearing Cats in the Cradle that day had not brought me to tears, but the lump in my throat would have made it tough to talk and express my own experience and feelings. It had not been that many years prior to that early September 1969 morning I was really looking forward to because I was going to get to ride my bike to school, but not long after awakening knowing I had overslept and that something was wrong when I heard our family friend Shirley McArthur's voice downstairs only to soon learn my Dad had been killed on the Pit 1 Grade the night before driving home. Now, I am a husband and father with a 14 year old son and an 18 year old princess. I endeavor to provide for my bride and family, I work hard, travel too damn much for work, but with the exception of a rare day when I only get to speak with my bride when I am on the road, I make absolutely sure my children hear me say "I love you" each and everyday. Yes, Chapin's song has had a nearly life long impact on me and maybe they don't realize it, but my own children too. Subsequently, fathers young and old, remember to major in the majors. Only we can be our bride's husband, provider, protector, lover, and confidant, and only we can be our childrens' guide, protector, and father. No job, career, profession, or business can ever match what a good man of steel and velvet and a rock solid father can accomplish.
@robinhut53593 жыл бұрын
Okay okay okay, just don't shit your pants.
@stevep36923 жыл бұрын
@@robinhut5359Seriously if this post hasn't touched your heart you must be completely lacking in empathy and compassion as you sit behind a keyboard in your mother's basement trolling with heartless posts like this 👎
@chscelebrity83252 жыл бұрын
It’s a cover.
@itdoesntmatter93612 жыл бұрын
Your comment was like a novel. Almost eternal. But still. Respect.
@robinhut53592 жыл бұрын
@@stevep3692 What's the matter? Your father also was squeezed to death by a truck or what?
@coolisimox4 жыл бұрын
To all the fathers in the world, and those from heaven continue to care for their children Happy Father's Day 2020 !!!
@pawelstaron57265 күн бұрын
Yes
@longbow64164 жыл бұрын
At 40 my dads still alive, Marine, Vietnam vet, truck driver, policeman. At this age, the most i remember about my childhood is not the things he bought me, its the time we spent together. We talk regularly and know that one day I may pick up the phone he may not be there. Enjoy all the time you get with your parents people.
@WedittsPlaythings3 жыл бұрын
My father was military, Vietnam vet, gone a lot, but I treasure those times when we were together. He's gone now. Only during the last five years of his life did he ever mention obliquely some of his war and service experiences - he spoke a language from a country "we were never in" and spoke of someone named "Muammar" with whom he had to share flightline in Libya in the 60's (only time I ever heard my father use foul language was in reference to this *gentleman.*) I am so glad you are talking regularly to your father, and more than a little envious, too.
@FilipeCzech19863 жыл бұрын
Mate, your father IS the hero. I wish you good luck. So understand your words. My grandpa was in Africa in 2.WW. God bless them.. I know, war, but top lads!
@longbow64163 жыл бұрын
@@FilipeCzech1986 I look at black and white photos of my grandfather when he was in the Army in WW2 pictured in his dress uniform and think: 'they don't build men like that anymore'. He was tough as a $2 steak and wise as an owl.
@erichdgoth84513 жыл бұрын
My dad only talks to me when he wants to scold or belittle me. I'm 43 now, same old shit. 😁😁😁 I promised to myself that I'll be better than he is.
@bluedeval033 жыл бұрын
@@erichdgoth8451 feel ya there man. I’m 50, never been good enough for my dad, or my daughter, damn shame he doesn’t know her. Do to me what you will, but I be damned you do it to my daughter
@Dad_of_War9 ай бұрын
I'm not crying, you're crying!
@larryhicks90763 жыл бұрын
This song should serve as a warning to those who spend all their time at work. You'll miss your children growing up.
@sarahbarnes10413 жыл бұрын
True
@toddjohnson75723 жыл бұрын
Well, they're just by-products.
@sraaju3 жыл бұрын
As if we have a choice ...
@larryhicks90763 жыл бұрын
@Altschauerberger Opferkult-Spiritist Find the right balance. Your children are only children once. Plus nobody on their death bead says "I wish I spent more time at the office."
@ME-od8id3 жыл бұрын
For a lot of men that is a life chosen.
@sethrider66253 жыл бұрын
My dad passed in 2001 when I was 19, never really was sure how he felt about me or if he really genuinely cared about me. Now I'm almost 39 with a 14 year old daughter and a seven year old son, and though I still wonder how my dad felt about me I know my children will never have to wonder the same thing.
@Toffi15103 жыл бұрын
I‘m sure u will let your children know how much u love them, great dad:)
@gillianfaith9203 жыл бұрын
My dads alive and im currently wondering that
@BUDDIgaming3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@benluke76973 жыл бұрын
Im same my dads still alive when my mother passed on my 4th birthday i went to live with my aunt dad's sister and saw him occasionally he had a new woman and she had kids now ive got my own i know they stay with me forever no matter what and for that I cannot forgive my father
@143tomaso1433 жыл бұрын
:)
@marcdc68092 жыл бұрын
What makes this song extra hard is that there's no bad intent, it's just the way it is.
@Tammylee143. Жыл бұрын
2020
@duncan3998 Жыл бұрын
Since 1993 🔥🔥🔥
@erlichsans10 ай бұрын
@@upshiftgo you're wrong. Unfortunatelly not everyone has the same opportunities. I know having good times with your kids not always rely on having money, but having to run after it to try to have conditions in the old age takes a lot from that
@JennaBomb10 ай бұрын
You completely missed the entire point of the song if you think that's just the way things are.
@ScottJB9 ай бұрын
That's the way they think it is until it's too late to change it. And then suddenly it's clear how they could have moved everything around and prioritized each other and they'll never get to now.
@donnalangley80009 ай бұрын
Im 47 years old i remember when i listened to this i was crying ,now im listening to it now and i am crying again
@nygelmiller52933 ай бұрын
To Donna Crying? That's because you have good taste!
@jane5147 Жыл бұрын
Im 51 . My dad is 87 and on palliative care, I've been so blessed . He was so amazing . He always appreciated being a dad
@EduardoFerrazNelore11 ай бұрын
Best comment
@imastered90219 ай бұрын
Im 25 and my dad is 62. I moved in with him 5 months ago because his health was declining. 2 weeks ago was his last hospital visit before speaking with palliative care and deciding on hospice care. Still with hospice…I’m here 7 days a week taking FMLA and my dad screams for me when they try do give him a bath. I get no breaks. On top of that, Palliative care said he would die of kidney failure when we were in the hospital but he has been passing urine on his own. They said kidney failure is a good way to die - painless. But now I think he may be dying of his cancer and not his kidney. I don’t know what to do. I feel so helpless. Is he dying or do I need to bring him to a hospital and save his life? So many questions. Palliative care messed this one up.
@imastered90219 ай бұрын
@@TheFirstAmendment he passed on Easter sadly. Thanks for being a canvas for my rant
@Navanod669 ай бұрын
@@imastered9021condolences for your loss young friend. I randomly decided to come listen to this song and it reminded me of how I lost my Dad at 15 when he was 60. And that's when I came across your comment from just 2hrs ago. 😢 Hope you're managing well.
@donnastrause10308 ай бұрын
Aa @@imastered9021
@marlamorris37212 жыл бұрын
One of the greatest covers around. People still never learn this life lesson.
@annaritaranalli1791 Жыл бұрын
Ditto
@awt1989 Жыл бұрын
a lot of our moms chose shitty guys; or chose good guys, who turned into bums..
@GreatestCornholio Жыл бұрын
It’s one of the rare cases when the cover is better than the original!
@annaritaranalli1791 Жыл бұрын
I like original a lot but this one of those covers beautiful as the originals in my opinion
@apeshitclothing Жыл бұрын
@@awt1989 or the moms were crazy and dad had to leave
@RepublicConstitution6 жыл бұрын
Watching this as a 42 year old dad vs watching it when I was 16 or so is heart-rending. Tears flowing.
@erinmsomers6 жыл бұрын
Exactly..where did the years go?? They passed way too fast...
@crabbyyup85605 жыл бұрын
True that time just flew by .when we were in school we wanted time to fly by now in are 40s we want time to slow down .
@RyZenii5 жыл бұрын
Agreed dude I now make sure I have time to do stuff with my two boys, I know one day they won't ask me to hang out with them. Dreading that day really
@heloisasantosoliveira50175 жыл бұрын
I Love classic .
@deweykirkland74755 жыл бұрын
The world is a wonderful place ,depends the heart
@byod10 ай бұрын
This song fucks me up every time
@ernestschwink67422 ай бұрын
I Agree, he found ways as it turns out not to be home with his kids. That's not me, not a Chance.
@nightfury8684Ай бұрын
I have four girls, and I thank god I spent every moment I could with them. But yes, this song always fucks me up too.
@Mk15624 күн бұрын
This one hits a homerun, for sure😢
@dannyjackson206220 күн бұрын
Yea hit me hard bio dad. Didn't want nothing to do with me second dad never saw him again last dad was a tad better but had he's regrets....me. I made a Val I'd be the best dad...played games attended he's sporting events. We go to movies.
@shanej.OG-GenXer-11 күн бұрын
@@dannyjackson2062 Strong message, but true. One day you'll see😎
@detroitpolak99042 жыл бұрын
I was 17 at work and told an older customer how much I was working with school and Baseball. He said “Remember…no dying man ever said I wish I spent more time at the office”. Probably the greatest advice I’ve gotten in my entire life. I’m 48 now and still remember that.
@edpearson89732 жыл бұрын
And still in an office.
@detroitpolak99042 жыл бұрын
@@edpearson8973 Let me tell you, I’m 48, work at a Ford auto parts warehouse in Orlando FL, without AC for 8+ hours. I’ll gladly spent more time in an office, especially in July/August LOL!
@derkohgil72622 жыл бұрын
I even remember when i had to put on my own diapers. So this song reminds of me off not ending up like my "dad"
@martharoark40592 жыл бұрын
It's all about a clear conscious.
@chrisloewen2994 Жыл бұрын
@@detroitpolak9904 are you dying? I guess you’ll just have to wait till then to find out. But for me I’ll gladly take a Friday off to spend at the lake. Oh wait I don’t work fridays am thankful. Long weekend at tge lake every weekend.
@Cybergad19782 жыл бұрын
I was 14 when this came out in 92, to me then it was a great song. As I got older and understood the lyrics I apricated my dad a lot more for all he gave us. Now I'm a dad myself, this song reminds me to try, try to spend some time with the kids, no matter how knackered I am, before the cycle goes round again.
@aaronaachen40102 жыл бұрын
never too late tom i'm 56 now and my daughter is 21 and last xmas she makes me a special present a laser ingraved holo block saying "best dad ever" it makes me cry but on the other hand it shows me everything did right
@terrypetersen29702 жыл бұрын
I'm 59 and use to listen to the original in 1974. This song described my father to a tee. Though I never had any children I am a favorite uncle few my sister's and others the kids just seem to adopt me. My nephew was about six and his mom ( my sister) and his dad we're always busy. One night I invited the whole family over for dinner. I happen to play this song and my sister looked at me and I said "remember dad?". My nephew is now a dad twice over and pays attention to those two constantly. Just like his mom and dad did.
@dmbtmk19642 жыл бұрын
Oooo it came out long before that sweety... It was in the 70s
@jeannieab52182 жыл бұрын
@@dmbtmk1964 Nobody can do it like Harry. 👍
@PHlophe2 жыл бұрын
@@dmbtmk1964 you are hilarious *oooo*
@VideoSaySo4 жыл бұрын
I could never listen to this song without tearing up when my dad was alive because he always worked so hard, we rarely saw him. He died almost one year ago (September 26, 2019) and for some reason, I made it through without shedding a tear listening to this version now. He was the best daddy me and my sister could have asked for. She remarked one time how fortunate we were that we won the daddy lotto with him...I miss you more than words can say, daddy...Donald Ray Tibbitts - April 21, 1939 - September 26, 2019) A good man and the BEST daddy that ever lived!
@eddielongoria20384 жыл бұрын
This song reminds me of my son Trevor I'm 2 times divorced a son and a daughter. I'm a recoving alcoholic. I always loved my children n always will . My son is back in my life and my daughter sends pics . My higher power saved me from myself. Thanks God for my sobriety 1 day at a time I love u Trevor boy n Erin love Dad
@VideoSaySo4 жыл бұрын
@Paul C Lalchungnunga Thank you
@silverbanks19864 жыл бұрын
Love 💟 wins. All you ever need is love 💝.
@weeksey494 жыл бұрын
your story is so like mine and probably 100000 others we were the lucky ones who had dads that strove to give us better lives than they had and paid the price of not having the lives they wanted with us
@johnstandford46074 жыл бұрын
Rip
@engelsseele211 ай бұрын
Growing up. My grandfather HATED this song.... because with me growing up it reminded him so much of this song. My father working so hard to support the family. But never having ANY time for the family. He hated his own family because as a native American he hated what his family had become. Reliant on the government. He hated it so much. He hated that the exact opposite was coming true. Where the people no longer could rely on the government for support and were left to suffer. He wanted nothing but the best for he grand children. He wanted his ancestry honored while honoring modern society. He wanted the best for all.
@TheTubD Жыл бұрын
Listened to this song hundreds of times and only today have I realised how much I miss my late father and the life we didn’t have.
@End_Times_Dreams5 ай бұрын
I know exactly how you feel
@Principessa1802 ай бұрын
@@End_Times_Dreams Yes it is so relatable and i thank UKJ for bringing this song to the forefront.
@TheFivepoint19942 жыл бұрын
I saw these guys live in Houston around the time they were hitting the rotation on MTV. They were the headliners but I was into the local opening band. I remember telling my friends that I wasn't really looking forward to the "I hate everything about you" guys. To say that I was blown away by their live performance would be a gross understatement. These guys absolutely brought it. Years later I honestly can't remember the opening band name but I'll never forget Ugly Kid Joe.
@Eric-zz5rj Жыл бұрын
Cat stevens
@thomasalb.310 Жыл бұрын
Three Days Grace?
@KabukeeJo3 жыл бұрын
This is one of those rare songs that hits home, and it it's home hard. Happy Fathers Day to all the dads out there working hard to support their families. May your hard work not cost you your kids as it did to the father in this video.
@BaronNate4 ай бұрын
I've given EVERY second I could to my son as he was growing up, he just got married at 26 now and I couldn't be prouder of him. Lately is the only time I've felt like this song spoke to me cause I feel his hand pulling away and now he's working the same job I did and is busy all the time. Sigh, NO amount of time is ever enough, and especially when you enjoyed every second you had and now its stopped. But I raised an amazing son. I fought hard in the Army to make sure he had an America to grow up to.
@ignorant11264 ай бұрын
You're making me tear up now, man. I hope my dad's proud of who I am and what I've accomplished. He ended up with a kid just like him, personality and looks, only without the trauma he experienced as he grew up. He raised my brother and I so we'd never feel like he did. So many sarcrifices
@BaronNate3 ай бұрын
@@ignorant1126 just be yourself and be strong when times feel tough. I'm sure he is already proud of ya man. Rock on with all you got! Thanks for the comment, he sounds like an amazing guy I could be friends with.
@lostthedog2 жыл бұрын
As a father now.. I can't listen to this without crying. This was/is basically the relationship I have with my father.
@shanebriggs10397 ай бұрын
Same as you, i know exactly how you feel
@ed3454 жыл бұрын
One of the best songs ever written and the band does a great remake of it. I listened to this song as a kid and it always brought up mixed feelings. Still does. So glad I spent time with my son - he has grown up to be an awesome man and a great friend. All the time practicing baseball and shooting hoops with him was a joy for me. I wouldn't trade it for all the money in the world.
@Blueluise3 жыл бұрын
Boston Tea Party, heard of, h is to r y...great...
@paulwinski72152 жыл бұрын
Except they screwed up the words. They say "When you comin' home SON i don't know when", in each verse. It's supposed to be DAD in each verse except the last.
@keithhauser2312 Жыл бұрын
Hearing this at 13 and now at 44 hits home. Life goes fast so make the most of it....
@jamief.84068 ай бұрын
Well said
@BuildItTuneItEV8 ай бұрын
RIght here with you man.
@MarkoMakela-kk7qf3 ай бұрын
I was thinking just the same... good grief...
@benjamindavis41302 ай бұрын
Dam…
@lukasakesson2024Ай бұрын
and im 13 now and hearing for the first time🙂
@paulcmillerfilms11 ай бұрын
My father and I always joked about this song. There was no animosity, just an understanding that that's life. There were times when he wasn't around, and there were times he was. He's gone now and I miss him everyday. Though he wasn't the best father at times, I wouldn't trade him for the world.
@koffinkat6667 жыл бұрын
Makes me cry because my Dad died a Pill addict and Alcoholic who couldn't get over the Divorce.....I never realized until listening to this song now how truly our children are a reflection of us.......I have been sober a year but I was a Heroin addict and alcoholic barley made it out alive....My dad has this album he passed on and left me his collection Listened to this song and got really sad......Just now I never understood it till now. I am crying......
@lucybohnet36786 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you. So much brokenness in our world-a frequent subject in my prayers. I pray somehow out Heavenly Father will continue to bring you healing.
@enzobert52866 жыл бұрын
man.. i'm sorry :c
@lucybohnet36786 жыл бұрын
I'm Larry's sister by the way and yes we were blessed to have the parents we had.
@enzobert52866 жыл бұрын
i'm just a brazillian boy, honestly my english is terrible and i don't know how to express my sadness for you guys, i'm really sorry hope you enjoy your parents as i
@wandaburgess94006 жыл бұрын
Koffinkat666... *SENDING YOU HUGS FROM CANADA*
@shadsunderland2586 Жыл бұрын
Watching my dad fade away and my boys fading in..... this song holds much more meaning than when I first heard it when I was little... thank you
@PHlophe Жыл бұрын
aw Shad this is so sad . But did Papa get the chance to meet one of your boys.
@jaddy11mash11 ай бұрын
Your welcome ❤
@bodhi82973 жыл бұрын
Miss my three sons. One of them in particular, if only we could get together for a basketball game. I hope you boys know you’re apart of me and will always be. Until the end
@silver6061810 ай бұрын
Beautiful sad song about the cycle of life. My Parents always had to work to support us, were never around. When I went off to college, I never had time for them. They have both passed now. What I would give to spend a few more mins with them
@irisheyes44167 жыл бұрын
This is one of those moments I am thankful for my dad. Work came 9th place at all times. He told me "You can make money every day, you can't make your childhood again."
@nikolaynemigenchev46706 жыл бұрын
Irish Eyes Wise man, your Dad
@jadejaguarcuontheotherside75516 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a dad ... and one like that!!!
@awarne26 жыл бұрын
what a testament to your pop...cheers, Irish Eyes
@jeremypeele80106 жыл бұрын
Irish Eyes you got lucky. Most dads are gone
@poisonmyrrh64976 жыл бұрын
Your dad is awesome.
@jiggleykrowzer87689 жыл бұрын
I fucking love Ugly Kid Joe. They kicked so much ass back in the early 90s, when I was just a boy... I call it the "Wayne's World" era.
@XXmrxxInsulter9 жыл бұрын
I fucking hate ugly kid joe.They sucked so much ass back in the 90s.I called it the "idiot era". p.s. the original cays in the cradle is better!
+Jon Kline No one could better explain that :D :) The good old days......
@acciokatherine7 жыл бұрын
I think what i love most about this song is how many people could relate to it. It isn't specific. The father's not abusive, negligent, cruel, mean, or absent. This actually happens in almost every family where there is a father, or even mother, that's too busy to get to know their child, and before they know it, they're retired, their kid is married with their own kids, and now THEY dont have time for THEM. It's honestly the circle of life as we know it.
@echinio96 жыл бұрын
Thanks Kat B for the reminder. I will go home tonight and give my sons a huge meaningful hug each... they won't understand it now but it doesn't matter... Cheers
@aryoctaviyanti8566 жыл бұрын
that suck....thats because capitalism, all of us should work until we exceed our limit and the nwe dont have a time for our families....
@iwantit1626 жыл бұрын
Definitely but being one of those forgotten kids I learnt from it!the biggest lesson I learnt before my dad died was to never abandon your family!work is not your life your family is your life and that's where I place my heart and soul :)
@davidcarwile86976 жыл бұрын
Kat B This song completely relates to me. I have stories that would blow your mind
@ericlamotte65816 жыл бұрын
iwantit162 really hope it works out for you. Really do. That the rest of life's pressures never force you to choose between. In all honesty best of luck and may your spouse appreciate your heart/values.
@Seba16Bits9 ай бұрын
One of the best covers 🎸
@thomasroo7834 жыл бұрын
Just to my dad, I'm sorry I became a cocaine addict after your passing. And not being the man You raised me to be. But your boy has beat his demons and 4 years sober and back from deaths door. Living, not just existing, It's not goodbye dad... it's only till next time. Thank you
@maxobino27534 жыл бұрын
Be proud of yourself for having overcome that. I'm sure your father is.
@DastardSilvergun4 жыл бұрын
I'm proud of you dude, and I know your dad would be as well
@bk2active4 жыл бұрын
I know personally how hard it can be to recover from something like that, he would be so proud, just know that
@ianal14294 жыл бұрын
Our dads will be proud whatever 🤞 Peace and love
@artist13034 жыл бұрын
Sounds boring!
@priscillamills23703 жыл бұрын
This song hurts so much. My husband died when my kids were very little. I think I have missed every important thing that they did because I had to support them. I did good job supporting them. I have never had a chance to just be a mother.
@jayakrishnan262 жыл бұрын
You're an amazing person ❤️
@bernardohenze57002 жыл бұрын
Mierda!
@SheyD78 Жыл бұрын
You do what you can, and when they're old enough to understand, they'll appreciate it. We can't be perfect, we just do the best we can with the hand we're dealt.
@KristinKali Жыл бұрын
When this cover first came out.. I loved it bc it sounded just like a lullaby.. Now that I understand the world, it is a beautiful warning in ways you can interpret. I never knew my father, but many men shaped my life. My children have a good man as a father; this is my life's blessing.
@ronaldherald653010 ай бұрын
I think what i love most about this song is no matter who you are how old you are or where youre from you hear it and you feel like you can open up in the comments
@Robert-t6h6s10 ай бұрын
Yeah... I'd like to hear more of your thoughts... 😂
@thegteam43492 жыл бұрын
Sometimes before I wake my son for school, I will look at him sleeping. And as I do, I imagine myself as an old old man, and he now grown and raising a family of his own somewhere. And I ask myself, what would that old man pay, what would the old me give to be standing here in this quiet moment? The answer is he would pay any amount, he’d give anything to be able to stand there and watch his little boy sleeping. That simple mental exercise grounds me, reminds me these moments are golden and they should be savored for the gifts they truly are!
@g0dsphantom11 ай бұрын
This comment made me tear up and you are truly a good person and if he is being raised by you I know he is gonna be a man one day have a amazing evening. God loves u
@MrDeano-eu9rg11 ай бұрын
Who wouldnt pay the world for the ability to time travel...
@benjamindavis41302 ай бұрын
What a gem IM glad I came across this comment
@katepotts28465 жыл бұрын
For everybody who grew up without a father. beautiful 90s
@robertmaddox21702 жыл бұрын
Man this really hits home. My old man worked his life away and now at 37. I'm doing the same.
@ionelaciortan45042 жыл бұрын
They all do...
@metalsadman2 жыл бұрын
you still have time man, living is not all about working hard, be content with what you have and spend as much time with your kids.
@ReiAyanami17122 жыл бұрын
This is the fate we need to face as men
@vukknezevic4258 Жыл бұрын
Every passing moment is another chance to turn it all around..
@goodisnipr Жыл бұрын
Many jobs have personal days available to employees. Take advantage of them at sporadic and random times during the year. I don't get to have dinner with family at any regular holidays, but the days I take makes it so I see them more days a year than just holidays allows.
@theskincareskinny500611 ай бұрын
This is an incredibly sad song. It makes me think of all the times I told my mom I was busy… she died unexpectedly of cancer in 2016 and if I could go back in time I would do things much differently. 😢
@tobib26492 жыл бұрын
Lyrics: My child arrived just the other day He came to the world in the usual way But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay He learned to walk while I was away And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew He'd say "I'm gonna be like you, dad" "You know I'm gonna be like you" And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then You know we'll have a good time then My son turned ten just the other day He said, thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play Can you teach me to throw, I said-a, not today I got a lot to do, he said, that's okay And he, he walked away, but his smile never dimmed It said, I'm gonna be like him, yeah You know I'm gonna be like him And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then You know we'll have a good time then Well, he came from college just the other day So much like a man I just had to say Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while? He shook his head, and they said with a smile What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys See you later, can I have them please? And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then, dad You know we'll have a good time then I've long since retired, my son's moved away I called him up just the other day I said, I'd like to see you if you don't mind He said, I'd love to, dad, if I can find the time You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kids have the flu But it's sure nice talking to you, dad It's been sure nice talking to you And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me He'd grown up just like me My boy was just like me And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon Little boy blue and the man in the moon "When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when" But we'll get together then, dad We're gonna have a good time then
@かずみん-z9p2 жыл бұрын
lyrics thanks😊my favorite
@tobib26492 жыл бұрын
@@かずみん-z9p no problem.
@jokerisaac41 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@oscaribarra7241 Жыл бұрын
Thanks :)
@lambertotamorada2550 Жыл бұрын
Thanks..
@VirginiaTombstoneRevival4 жыл бұрын
41 years old and this song makes me cry every single time I hear it. Every single time I’ve been too busy to play or cuddle with my son hits me like a brick.
@markeverman9404 Жыл бұрын
This was one of my dad's favorite songs. He'd sing this song often in the car when he'd pick me up. He wasn't in my life as much as most Dads traditionally, but he'd call me often. We'd talk, laugh, and relate with each other. The older I got, the more I realized he was JUST like me! Unfortunately, the last time we spoke on the phone was two weeks before he died suddenly. Talk to your loved ones; you NEVER know when the last conversation with them will be. Enjoy paradise, Dad. ❤
@PemaWangchuk12 Жыл бұрын
My dad was with me every step of my childhood. He was always home for the family. I wasn't all there with him in his final days. Now with my son just walking and learning to talk, my work has me away for most of the week. And this song that I've always loved playing but never identified with my father and myself, seems like it's telling me that it wasn't ever about my father. It was me all along.
@jamescaloren4877 Жыл бұрын
He flies with angels, as does mine.
@Donna-vv5wn8 ай бұрын
Awh bless❤
@Bluetick-nu1hw7 ай бұрын
Want to bad but thresholds boundaries
@tamimislami6 ай бұрын
Hey, I've noticed something about Western societies. They don't treat their elderly parents very well. It's sad to see them in old age homes. It's like when you were a baby and your parents left you with strangers and only checked on you occasionally. In contrast, in Middle Eastern countries, children take care of their parents until they pass away. Our religion teaches us to worship God alone and to be dutiful to our parents. I hope you don't take offense to what I said. It's just my observation. By the way, that song is really great!
@jeffashley551210 ай бұрын
I'm 56 and my children are in there 30's. I made sure i was there for them and did my best to show them what dad means to a family. I've lived a long life and the best accomplishment is being a dad to three amazing children that have given me grandchildren to carry our legacy.
@kieferonline Жыл бұрын
Great song. It's lyrics are so haunting to me even from my teenage years. It captures the tensions of modern career responsibilities and family life. No that I'm in my middle career and have a young boy, I've always tried my best to spend quality time with him even when I'm exhausted from work. The lyrics of this song always pop into my head as a warning to avoid regret. During the pandemic I played catch with my son almost everyday. Today he's a star pitcher in his little league. I'm so proud of how he's turning out, an excellent young man. Funny how this song has encouraged me to become a better parent. It's a gift! Life and family are gifts too.
@laketufu Жыл бұрын
Congrat bro... now is my time to do!!
@gtbike81424 жыл бұрын
I spent a lot of time with my kids, now I’m 55 and they are all grown up, my oldest reminds me of me, don’t know when he is dropping in and never said a word when he moved out, now he is at in age of when I had him. Always reflect those special memories, time does not wait for no one take advantage of the time you have.
@NotRogers4 жыл бұрын
I’m touched by what you’ve said. You should give your oldest a call or at least leave a message. I’m sure he’d be happy to hear that you’re thinking of him during these trying times.
@Metalgearhead938 жыл бұрын
I was born in 93 I feel like Ive missed a lot of good music. I wish the radio was more diverse than just the usual rock hits.
@lindataurua73297 жыл бұрын
Adam Hopkins you have. So much great bloody music in in the 80' & 90's
@amylebron19666 жыл бұрын
yes u did !!!!!!!
@sin1st3r1Ай бұрын
I love the subtle transition from “im going to be like you dad” to “im going to be like him”. Kinda heartbreaking. This is my life. Love this song.
@headsupdisplay21893 жыл бұрын
My father always had time for us...I'm over 60 now...he's been gone since 2003...I miss him every day. In the middle of a large storage room, no one else in the room, I caught myself saying - out loud - I wish I could call my Dad and talk to him...
@joshfuller41083 жыл бұрын
@MattSealy-uj8dx Жыл бұрын
This song fills me with all kinds of emotions. My dad just passed this past November. He was one of my best friends, and we were a lot alike.
@hectormurga3509 Жыл бұрын
That’s something special
@Mickey_Silver Жыл бұрын
I can’t listen to this without crying.. me and my dad had a huge falling out a few years back, I sent him old man by Neal young out of the blue and he replied with this, I tear up anytime I hear either one, I’m glad we worked everything out… I love you dad..
@joecarter4105 Жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that bud. I had a similar experience/relationship with my pops. I'm constantly told nowadays I'm just like him from everybody. I take it as a sideways compliment lol
@micnorton9487 Жыл бұрын
Well you two guys are lucky,, my old man was a prick and the one time I was dealing with him and this song came on,, the guy just laughs and turns it off.. needless to say,, turning my back on the prick was twenty-some years too late but not a day too early... A couple of years ago one of my own sons played this tune for me kind of out of the blue, and I don't mind saying that, yeah I cried, who wouldn't? I wasn't working too much to be away from my kids but they are kind of spread out so,, I'd be with them when I could but anyways just refreshing to see other stories of guys who got along with their dads...
@simonesantos-tn7oz Жыл бұрын
Fico feliz por vocês dois. Um forte abraço 🇧🇷
@donnieblevins Жыл бұрын
I am glad you and your dad are working on things and never stop trying as long as it isn't detrimental to your mental health. I blamed my dad for everything that happened with my mom. By the time I realized I was wrong, it was to late and he was gone. Never stop trying to fix it.
@TheRokkis Жыл бұрын
Nice to hear you did! Time shouldn't be taken for granted. Mine died to cancer before we did, at least I was there on his last moments.
@Chris-f4n5rАй бұрын
This knocked thriller out num. 1 mtv vid after it reigned over 10 yrs.
@honeyboo75493 жыл бұрын
Man, I'm a kid from the early 80's and I grew up with all kinds of music, since my family is so versatile. And in my humble opinion: this song will never ever die! 👏👏👏
@rayannchristmann-wolf8546 Жыл бұрын
As my dad got sick, I played this for him. This was totally our song. When he left this world for a pain free one... this became our song
@purpledreamer9654 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss 😞 Sending some gentle virtual hugs 🫶🫂🫶
@Impaled_Onion-thatsmine11 ай бұрын
My dad left me for job relocating and to help secure the cats then i went psychotic they don't help - the cats - and just made everything worse He wants me to be retarded not genuine and creative. Want me to cover it cover it?
@stevepouillon35629 ай бұрын
Living it myself except the show off shit that's never been us just the work part missed some thing's that can't be recaught not a ton but it matters far far more than money you're always going to make money working you not always going to be there. Love and peace y'all ❤
@Lafter128 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss man. 😢he died happy
@russeli19413 жыл бұрын
Sometimes there are lyrics put together in such a way that they become timeless any always meaningful.
@I_gnatz_9311 ай бұрын
As a child I actually made appointments with my dad to spend time with him and went to his work whenever I could to see him But regardless of that we barely spend time together and therefore barely got to know each other Now I'm working in his company and becoming the following boss of the company We finally spend time together and really get to know each other I'm still crying my heart out whenever I hear this song because it's so relatable The father in the song is like my dad just busy taking care of you and the family which results in barely spending time with them I've always just seen this song from the sons perspective but if you think about it the dad's perspective is much more sad Being in a cycle of working to take care of the family just to never see them
@marvenenolan25084 жыл бұрын
I have totally forgotten how incredibly beautiful Whitfield is, or was, I haven't seen current photos of him. I do know that this video brought about one of my most precious memories of My Mom Donna. She died when I was 24, and though I would love to share my memory w/ the world, I think it is something that you had to be there to really appreciate. I miss these days more than words can express, but I am extremely grateful for the ability to have my Mom as close as when she was alive just by watching this video. She was the most beautiful person who touched so many people, and I am forever grateful for ' UGLY KID JOE ' & this overplayed video that I gave me such a hilarious and beautiful reminder that I was so freaking blessed to have such a wonderful person as my Mom, the very best friend anyone can ask for, and the one who loved unconditionally to a fault!! THANK YOU DONNA LEE, MY BEAUTIFUL MOM FOR GIVING ME SO MUCH TO MISS!!! I LOVE YOU LADY JANE!!
@TheLanthia8 жыл бұрын
Incredible song with very important message ...
@ritaalexacruzzatrain65044 жыл бұрын
Translation: Treat your kids in the way that you'd want your kids to treat your grandkids. Who in 2020? Ive lost my hero when i was 13. now im 32, i still miss you dad more then ever...
@hessejames62504 жыл бұрын
please go on. Do your part. I´m with you
@ladygxo264 жыл бұрын
♥️
@ptstrong34 жыл бұрын
I lost my dad 4 years to suicide. This song really gets to me now that I have a son. RIP Dad SFC US ARMY retired. The best man I ever knew.
@ladygxo264 жыл бұрын
@@ptstrong3 Sorry for your loss😢❤️
@ptstrong34 жыл бұрын
Gena Hutchinson thank you so much.
@angelinebelarmino60008 ай бұрын
such a strong message about a son and a father relationship
@mandychew96113 ай бұрын
Don't forget about daughter & father too. My mum & dad were married, lived in the same house & it was like it was a single parent household (never saw my dad much which was a good thing). To all men, if you want your kids in your life, be in theirs when they're growing up.
@Krimpf8 жыл бұрын
I turn this music on and 40 seconds in im crying like a child. I haven't cried in the last 6 months...
@dziobanes8 жыл бұрын
+Krimpf You simply have the soul :) i have the same
@varshapatel55438 жыл бұрын
It's good to cry
@TheOfficialButthead8 жыл бұрын
BABY
@jeremystandfill89368 жыл бұрын
i always cry in this song
@LexingtonDeville9848 жыл бұрын
Always gets me slightly misty-eyed. There's a sense of melancholy that always hits you.
@cmorrow1325 жыл бұрын
Music during this era just had something magical. It made you feel a certain way, can't explain it. There will never be another time like the 90s.
@gromme-4505 жыл бұрын
Matt M true
@barbara-annperry59415 жыл бұрын
I totally agree, maybe that's why the 90's just feel like 10yrs ago lol
@jorgg.59615 жыл бұрын
World seemed okay in the 90s : Warsaw Pact had disappeared and Central Europe seemed to have a lot of chances...and we were young and always at techno-parties and in love. Now there are more problems than chances...
@dagonming13195 жыл бұрын
it is a 1974 folk rock song written and sung by Harry Chapin
@lydiagalantmotherf5 жыл бұрын
@@dagonming1319 But this cover came out in the 90s, that's what they meant
@darrylwillett83594 жыл бұрын
One of the best ever covers of any song. Well done guys.
@uku822 жыл бұрын
True,very emotional
@JeffreyCogswellАй бұрын
People can say whatever they want about Ugly Kid Joe, but THIS SHOWS what amazing MUSICIANS they are!!
@sycamoreleaves744 жыл бұрын
I don't know what brought me back to this song. I knew it was a cover of course, I was in high school. I'm a 45 year old woman today and I am my father in every way, shape and form today. I'm not a parent, but love you Dad.
@Erika-we6ky3 жыл бұрын
I lost my father this Friday and this made me cry. Love you, dad ❤️
@nicholasadam74103 жыл бұрын
You are loved, missed and appreciated.
@wendyhickshocking90863 жыл бұрын
My heart is going to you my friend! Sad to hear that you have lost your dad😢
@benmenzies52053 жыл бұрын
all the best stranger from australia
@devillesh65933 жыл бұрын
Mine was 20 years ago and I still cry.
@crapaudivre15173 жыл бұрын
My best thoughts to you man. Hang on. No more pain for your father now. Best wishes and regards.
@mkop31824 жыл бұрын
Reading through these comments breaks the heart. 😪 Make family first again.
@BojanDoroslovac7 ай бұрын
My father was "just like him" and I didn't repeat it with my boys. I'm there for them, every day, as long as they need me...
@andymcdonald26202 жыл бұрын
Back in the 1990s, this was used for a PSA in Northern Ireland, aimed at breaking generational cycles of violence (basically "don't let your kids make the same mistakes your generation did"). Powerful stuff.
@worawatli8952 Жыл бұрын
In my country, it is used for "Stop Smoking" campaign, and it is pretty effective, whenever this song came up, my mind is like. "oh, it's no smoking song," Some people called this "dad is dead song." rofl
@AI.industry Жыл бұрын
idgaf
@danielbrown8661 Жыл бұрын
I plan to make the next generation to grow up perfect not to no of the evil sins this earth have
@gemagod Жыл бұрын
@@AI.industry Would you care to elaborate? You seem like an eloquent person...
@BatHunterofDevon Жыл бұрын
Not this specific version-I'm pretty sure they used the original by Harry Chapin.
@benerval72 жыл бұрын
I was a us soldier from 1987 to 2011. My son was born in 1994. I was there i as often as the job would allow. I dont know if i was really though since there was repairs to everything all the time, 24 hour duty shifts and a wide range of stuff. I retired as he entered adulthood. He died in 2014. This song had a whole new meaning after that.
@Jae-b1s11 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sorry for your loss. I know that was hard for you to share. It's a heartbreaking experience and I'm sorry you had to go through this. This makes me think of my niece who also was born in 1994. I didn't get to spend time with her as she grew up. I made excuses when she wanted me to spend time and there were times when I did but now 9 years old has turned into 29 and she's busy with her life she barely calls at all. So, yeah, this song hits home.
@benerval711 ай бұрын
@@Jae-b1s thank you.
@cryptidandparanormalkingdo347 Жыл бұрын
This song always reminded me of my dad. He passed 2 years ago now it makes me cry remembering him. If you have your dad alive still, make sure you go see him because he will be gone before you know it while you’re living life.
@Sillmjolke1g Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss ❤
@litecoinhammer9686 Жыл бұрын
100 percent correct
@rodolforodriguez62307 ай бұрын
So true bro.
@peterhutchings635613 күн бұрын
Listened to this whilst I was at high school in my youth. Now my boy went to the same school and has grown up and at uni. Relistening to this, it’s turned out just like me. How humbling. You guys rock
@KarelusMaximus2 жыл бұрын
When lost my first son I could not listen to this song for years....when i lost my second son i could not stop listening to it for a while. As time has passed, i still listen to it once in a while, but with a smile instead of tears.
@Eljayb3332 жыл бұрын
🥺😢🥰
@annaritaranalli1791 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry karelus...my mom and my mont Lost their gorgeous children too
@AAAisAAA Жыл бұрын
I couldn't care less about your son
@andreaduncan38453 жыл бұрын
There were planes to catch,and bills to pay..there is more to life than jobs or FREAKING money..i love you dad always.
@gasmmusic2 ай бұрын
If you don't have jobs, you don't have money. If you don't have money you cannot PROVIDE for your children.
@gordonwilliams85832 жыл бұрын
Even after nearly 30 years,this is still the best cover of all time
@annaritaranalli1791 Жыл бұрын
Sure
@duncan3998 Жыл бұрын
30 now since 1993
@bobmartin40217 ай бұрын
I say without apology, this is one of the best cover songs of Generation X.
@rodolforodriguez62307 ай бұрын
Absolutely bro.
@mihajlodimovski68215 жыл бұрын
Ive lost my hero when i was 13. now im 32, i still miss you dad more then ever...
@EzRida045 жыл бұрын
I love this song. And my Dad.
@tommywills48913 жыл бұрын
My dad passed away in 2020 from a stroke, my mother has passed away from cancer in 2021, they both worked their lives away. I can never say how much I appreciate and learned from them
@akeel_17013 жыл бұрын
sorry for your loss, Tommy
@tommywills48913 жыл бұрын
@Dan Lowton I appreciate it. I've learned that in life for every loss we gain something from it ultimately, usually lessons that we carry with us through our lives.
@tommywills48913 жыл бұрын
@@akeel_1701 thank you. Through loses in life we gin lessons that will help us in life.
@kalinageorgieva49403 жыл бұрын
My mom heard me listing to this song the other day. She told me that she used to play this song in the car all the time when I was younger, no wonder why it sounded so familiar.
@amypagekaviani56613 жыл бұрын
The original is by Harry Chapin. In 1976 I saw him in a small concert hall and he was excellent and full of blue humor. I was saddened by his passing.
@vivveq4 ай бұрын
Aug 2024, used to love this song when i was younger and still do when i'm turning 50 !
@robnovellinauthor3 жыл бұрын
This song is my life… I work from 5am till 6pm Monday through Friday and by the time I’m home I have maybe 2-3 hours with my daughter before it’s time for her to go to bed. She’s always asking her mom “where’s daddy?” Shit depresses me. My dad used to work from sun up to sun down too and I remember I barely saw him besides weekends
@DAS-Videos3 жыл бұрын
Make more time. Before you know it you will be retired and she will be married with kids living in the state she went to college at :-)
@richardhertz90113 жыл бұрын
You're a step ahead of the game. You've recognised where the pattern is. That is a big step funnily enough. It gives you the perspective to choose whether you want to continue on this path.
@CivilisedCats2 жыл бұрын
Being aware of it is a precursor to change so hang in there. Say a few loving words as you go to work or phone home at lunch.
@elfikwzbozu45562 жыл бұрын
If you're not there for you kid when he/she needs you, don't be supprised that he/she doesn't want to hang out with you when you need to later on....
@itsTheGshow2 жыл бұрын
You’re a legend bro. She’ll appreciate it when she’s older, that you worked so hard for her to have a good life.
@sandrahudson96793 жыл бұрын
This song hits home im 58. My 2 girls are great young women i was so busy when they were going up now my girls have left home love those girls with everything i have they take good care of there momma.love you girls..
@gloriaborger67753 жыл бұрын
what a nice comment hope you have a nice day
@mrade53215 жыл бұрын
22 years later, 44 year old me started talking to my Dad again. He's 83. My advice people, fly the nest by all means, but never cut the apron strings. Time is something you can never get back. Don't waste it. Family is everything and everything else is nothing.
@michelengo324 жыл бұрын
Family is everything, and everything else is nothing. Wow, nice words
@tonylonsdale60494 жыл бұрын
Not to everyone
@EveTheRaviolo4 жыл бұрын
My dad was the one to cut the strings...didnt care enough i guess
@jguticon4 жыл бұрын
Tony Lonsdale yeah, unfortunately..
@saifulzainal31764 жыл бұрын
peace b upon em
@jollystabs364811 ай бұрын
I hear this song and I cry every damn time like a baby, my dad has NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder for those that don't know) , and he's always working but I've enjoyed every time we have together, even if his narcissism interferes alot with it. It's one of those things where it hurts the people around you and you wish they would get therapy to help themselves out. I love him despite all that though, apart from the NPD he has been a great father and very exemplary as a father. At one point I thought he was almost going to die because he had a heart attack, thats when I realized when I was 17, I have to work my ass off incase he ever gets another heart attack, I want to be able to pay his bills, my own, and my families, y'know like have emergency funds just in case. Thank you for attending my TED Talk.
@ASpecialKindOfMan4 жыл бұрын
I have been an alcoholic and an occasional user of the white reaper. Now i am clean and an great earner for my kid, this song makes me cry everytime for the person i've been the first 2 years of my kids life
@IanThecrackerstacker Жыл бұрын
I played this at my dads funeral. Always reminded me of him
@lilianap7083 Жыл бұрын
A good son he had ❤
@dapacman772 Жыл бұрын
Having tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face while hearing it. Trying to be a different dad for my daughter than my dad was for me.
@Jayda12377 Жыл бұрын
Damn this comment hit home
@awakenedrevolutionary16018 ай бұрын
Miss my dad alot hope he is looking down happy with the progress I've been making. He passed before I could truly make him proud.
@Skateforlifelad Жыл бұрын
growing up is understanding all factors and events that occurred. We must honor our parents regardless of circumstances as they gave us life.
@CatyeBia3 жыл бұрын
This song makes me cry everytime.
@joolzprovost20573 жыл бұрын
Right there with ya. I'm sorry.
@loydconner14853 жыл бұрын
Ditto
@jimthomas7773 жыл бұрын
You should listen to the original writer and singer of this song Harry Chapin
@scotthall12313 жыл бұрын
Me too
@loydconner14853 жыл бұрын
I WAS THERE 13 OR 14 IT MADE ME CRY WAY BACK THEN. THAT WAS MY DOOR WAY INTO ROCK.
@NostalgiaBrit4 жыл бұрын
My dad disowned me when I came out! 💔 I will NEVER disown my son, no matter who he turns into or who he loves! ❤️
@thefurycommander18434 жыл бұрын
He shouldn't have disowned you, but you shouldn't give into evil lust.
@iiamromika4 жыл бұрын
The Fury Commander excuse you??
@wardjunior14504 жыл бұрын
The Fury Commander oof
@thefurycommander18434 жыл бұрын
@@wardjunior1450 How is that an oof?
@thefurycommander18434 жыл бұрын
@@iiamromika Yes?
@christophedel2642 Жыл бұрын
Incredible song
@guitarguru.35723 жыл бұрын
I never really got into the whole folk rock thing, but I have to say, the best songwriters of all time came from that scene. Such unbelievably powerful and relatable lyrics just flowed from those musicians. Honestly, I can’t even hear James Taylor’s voice without tearing up. This is one of many beautiful songs that Harry Chapin wrote. Another masterpiece from that era is “Time in a Bottle”, by Jim Croce.
@donkeyshow72353 жыл бұрын
Do yourself a favor and listen to Bummer by Harry Chapin. His words will make you see a movie with that song
@guitarguru.35723 жыл бұрын
@@donkeyshow7235 love that song, my friend!
@ViktorJaneba3 жыл бұрын
Yes, indeed. Another prime example is "Turn the page" (Bob Seger, awesome cover by Metallica).
@jamesgoins87928 жыл бұрын
my dad use to play this song for me growing up and now that hes gone i keep it close to my heart this is great song R.I.P dad i love and miss you
@scottydu813 жыл бұрын
Lost my Dad right when I got out of the military. We were just beginning to share war stories together when he died of a freak heart attack at 56.
@nicoleviper40903 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry man that’s rough, I’m hope your doing well in yourself and keep your head up
@rikardhaugstad85753 жыл бұрын
condoleses man
@rainnnnnn3723 жыл бұрын
Life's funny that way eh. Sry man..
@hamishcox47143 жыл бұрын
You will see him again in Valhalla
@angelanddeath12933 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your lost..
@jagdeeprandhawa436111 ай бұрын
Back as a kid, I just loved the melody on this song and used to hear it again and again. Now 25 years later and with 2 kids, when I truly 'listened' to this one again, I just cant stop wondering with teary eyes about what I'd want my kids to grow up to. Thank you Harry Chapin for this masterpiece and Ugly Kid Joe for the amazing rock cover!!!