Ultimate Alpha Male Had "Cry-Free" Tears and Will 'Embrace' Prison | Andrew Tate Interview Analysis

This video answers the question: Can I analyze the interview of Andrew Tate by Piers Morgan, which was released in November 2023?
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[@megleland6320]

Just a personal observation and anecdote from an outside female point of view, but in my experience so far - the most "masculine" men I have known have spent the least amount of time worrying about how masculine they appear to other men. 🤷‍♀

[@K0nt4kt]

yes, he is gay and in denial

[@oregonsnob31]

You absolutely nailed it. You are Succinct and factual unlike lil Andrew.

[@thesimplesaguaro]

Ummmm YES! This is a great personal observation

[@farkasmactavish]

​@@K0nt4ktHomosexuality and masculinity aren't correlated. In fact some of the most masculine men I know are incredibly queer.

[@smittywerbenjagermanjensen9809]

It's like saying what a good person you are; if you say it constantly then you probably aren't one.

[@jacobkoenig5976]

6:52 "That is a paradox. The girlfriend would be with Andrew, but also expected to be happy. There is no logial reason to believe that those two states could coexist." Lol Dr. Grande is fucking savage

[@AcidCasper17]

His deadpan dry delivery makes it all the more better. 😂

[@tinnaa3123]

My favorite part 🤣

[@LD86]

Dr. Grande lays down FACTS!! 😂

[@Lpickars5713]

i know absolutely loved this 🤣🤣 one of the best academic burns i've ever heard. Dr todds a legend!

[@raymondmasullo3386]

I noticed that too. Dr. Grande's sense of humor is awesome. 😂

[@Theresa-Lottodo]

Andrew Tate is NOT an alpha male. An alpha male is self aware, empathic and mentally strong. He can read a room and know whom to avoid and whom not to antagonise. He is respectful, gentle and kind, but fearless when forced to defend his family. Mr Tate is simply a pathetic individual with delusions of grandeur.

[@CarlCoppinger]

Yup. One hundred percent.

[@harshraj9266]

That's literally tate 😅.

[@HM-rz8nv]

You nailed it

[@michaeltorres638]

Thank you for the compliment for men like me born in the 1960's, and as for Tate nothing but a fake.

[@georgemartin4354]

He's a digital pimp. Why anyone would look up to him, is beyond me.

[@stt5v2002]

If you are smart, you don’t have to tell people you are smart. They already know, and smart people aren’t particularly concerned that others know it. The same goes for being rich, tough, or masculine.

[@bobjones4469]

That's such BS of someone who doesn't live in the real world. Yes, too much hubris can be obnoxious but someone who doesn't have confidence, who doesn't know their worth, and who doesn't try to make others aware of their worth, is just destined to be a loser. Yes, sometimes people will see your worth on their own if you're just THAT good but this is not always the case. This is ESPECIALLY true for men since they are judged on their success MUCH more than women are.

[@EN-kr3xt]

@stt5v2002 You said it perfectly.

[@ianmcnally8501]

Ridiculous Bob Jones, I am smart and I don’t have to tell anyone! I am an athlete and I don’t go around bragging about that either, but people know and they appreciate that I don’t rub it In Their faces.

[@gabrielleleclair7254]

He does not have the wisdom paradox that’s for sure

[@jennyd9144]

@@bobjones4469you shouldn’t have to tell people .. they should be able to see you’re smart themself through your actions

[@rainstreet78]

Any man who calls himself an alpha is most definitely a beta. A real man doesn't have to announce these things.

[@zedmann1680]

“Alpha male” is just a positive spin on what we used to call a douche-nozzle.

[@floridagirl386]

​@@zedmann1680you mean the man you could never get? Or be...

[@farkasmactavish]

Alphas and betas aren't even a human thing to begin with lol

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

Well even "betas" are higher on the "food chain" than "deltas", "epsilons", or "zetas"??🙄🤣🤣

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

Me? I'm a "Quebec male" which I suppose could mean the same thing as "Whiskey" male...."Weird".... (Or even "queer" if not "questionable"....Or even "loose cannon"?🙄🤣🤣🤣 It certainly does NOT mean I was born or reside in a fairly large city in Canada😒)

[@sinisterintelligence3568]

31-year-old- male here. I've survived a lot of hardships in my life: sexual assault, homelessness, juvenile hall, a dysfunctional family, lack of friends and the like. I'm the son of a single mother who BUSTED HER ASS to make me the man who I am today. No to mention all the strong women who took me in and made me who I am today.

[@michaelp9759]

Yet you have a pic of a 10yo girl as your profile photo 🤣🤣🤣

[@thesilversurfer7136]

You are amazing. Thank you for not giving up.

[@aidanm5578]

@@thesilversurfer7136 Don't go overboard.

[@Willie_Wahzoo]

so stunning...so brave...

[@aw6686]

She busted her ass but you had a crap dysfunctional childhood like any other kid that grows up in CPS. Good parents even single ones wouldn't allow half of that to happen to their kids. Probably wouldn't know a stable good parent if they were right in front of you.

[@leontrotsky7816]

I have also claimed to shed tears without crying, but then I was five years old at the time.

[@michellewitt2071]

😆

[@nigelsenchez]

that's easy try smiling without feeling happy.

[@theriddlerUSA]

Good one!!!

[@pamelapamper]

There's no way u were doing push ups at 5 years old. Good try.

[@darklorddisco]

It's honestly disturbing how many young boys & men look up to this goober

[@FictionHubZA]

My little brother used to look up to that guy in an disturbing way. But now he's fine.

[@DiggableBear]

@@FictionHubZA I'm glad he realized Tate's true nature.

[@animal79thecat]

But...Bugatti! 🤭

[@michaelmyers5782]

blame the women

[@matthewhigson1232]

To be fair as a 28 year old Tate was a little late to the party to develop my views but as a young man it was instilled in me that; By virtue of me being white and male I am handicapped by an evil so great that I have no good value for the earth, only toxic masculinity, at university I had a drag queen come in to teach us how to be "real men" by living of the virtues of Harry Hay from NAMBLA, we were told that we should never approach a woman as that is harrassment. My whole life has been absolute anxiety of breaking out of those defined lines, what Tate does is he shows young men how to break out of that cycle, but to me its fake and exaggerated.

[@geraldineafflick3947]

You know, when I first heard Andrew Tate speak, I thought he was unhinged. The more I listened to him speak in different settings I became convinced he was borderline deranged. You sir have given a true analysis of this man’s behaviour and persona. Thank you.

[@sinistra7450]

When i first heard him, i though he was making parody/satirical content for how blatant he is. Unfortunately i was wrong :/

[@sebastiengoulet360]

Don't forget that we talk about a guy who says that ''only stupid people read books'' this one statement alone is enough to place the guy in the clown category

[@StAlphonsusHasAPosse]

Yep

[@tomsdottir]

I'm no fan of clowns myself, but adding Tate into that category is a step too far. Leave clowns out of it.

[@Lilboozibert]

Joaquin Phoenix has left the chat.

[@LD86]

I’d say he is below dirt level category.

[@Xxrocknrollgod]

He was kidding but Incels do NOT believe in self improvement and believe that looks are EVERYTHING. That is the OPPOSITE of what Tate teaches. Bad faith imbeciles.

[@micahrowe]

Being masculine is getting away from needing the screen, working hard, being kind and respectful, and appreciating what you have and the loves in your life. It’s amazing how character follows.

[@mermaidtails4391]

Well said 🙌

[@MutantsInDisguise]

​@@user-bp9hb6xi6eTate is a looney

[@floridagirl386]

It's also amazing how many men have changed their lives for the best because he posts himself.

[@velvetbees]

Messages like this are what young men need when they grow up. I wish there were organizations dedicated to helping young men who need these messages. Scouting was a wonderful way back in the 1960's. It gave boys something meaningful to do and be proud of. it was good for my brothers, and uncles at that time.

[@floridagirl386]

@@velvetbees boy scouts?

[@BigDaddyButthead123]

I always looked at people like Tate as bullies who never grew up. Pathetic really.

[@messrsandersonco5985]

Glad we got rid of him! We don't tolerate hate, and utter self-centredness well or fake intellectuals. They always remain on the outside of British society and don't last long in the UK. They always go to the US. Go figure!

[@AA-lr6qm]

I think Tate is inspiring all the kids to be real men@@messrsandersonco5985

[@guntguardian3771]

The Tate's aren't bullies per se, but they are abusers. They abuse the women they traffick. They abuse the trust of the men who pay them for "advice". The crazy part to me is, while their behaviour is heinous and destructive for others, they clearly have the capacity to achieve success without this - but their need to abuse others is going to have them sent to prison until they are old and frail. All completely forsee-able and unneeded. Totally wild, and completely deserved.

[@christo930]

If all you know about him comes from this video, you really don't know anything about him. I have a bunch of criticisms (but they are VERY different) about him, but mine are actually true. Everything in this video was greatly exaggerated or a mischaracterization of what he says and does. Also, I don't think "incels" even know who he is. That is just not the demographic that likes him.

[@peztopher7297]

@@christo930 If it's exaggerated it's because Tate exaggerates. It's follows what he said in the interview. He shouts angrily all the time, even when he's not discussing something particularly annoying or important. He thinks it's impressive somehow.

[@brianpratt3224]

One of the great things about being in my 50s is that I never heard about Tate until I started to run into KZbin videos talking about his crimes.

[@williamsherman1089]

Same here brother, too old to care about what young niconpoops have to say about anything and glad to be out of the loop

[@kevinspacey5325]

I'm in my 30s and barely heard of him.

[@peterliebezeit5636]

It’s nice being old enough to know a shitferbrains when I see one

[@Hhe448]

Which don’t exist and that’s why he’s a free man. Lol

[@WoodyWard]

​@@Hhe448he is awaiting trial and could get 8 years of prison. 😐

[@caymanchristopher7014]

Several years ago my then 17 year old son started using words and phrases he had never used before. I asked him where he received his information. He directed me to an Andrew Tate video. We had a long, long talk about standing guard at the door of your mind and questioning things people say with great emphasis and passion.

[@michellewitt2071]

Did it work? Did your kid de-radicalize?

[@caymanchristopher7014]

@@michellewitt2071 Yes. We had several discussion over a period of several weeks. I didn’t want it to be a lecture and actually drive him towards it. I let him tell me why he thought the things he heard were right. It was almost as if hearing it said out loud was all it took. His mom and I have a great relationship and I pointed to how we treat each other, him and his brothers and sisters. He is a great guy.

[@richardwitherow5289]

@@caymanchristopher7014 You sound like a great father.

[@michellewitt2071]

@@caymanchristopher7014 oh good! I’m glad to hear it!

[@caymanchristopher7014]

@@richardwitherow5289 Thanks. He’s my youngest of 4 and they are all out now. I try but it seems like mistakes are inevitable and I am no saint. Their mom is the saint.

[@XenoverseComics]

Any man that has to say “I am King” is No True King. - Tywin Lannister | GOT

[@KnicksNYanks84]

I agree, the Lich King is no King to me!

[@goddessvibes08]

Ultimate scam artist exploiting his fan base AND victims

[@pri.sci.lla.]

Anyone who gives him their parents money (because it’s kids not adults) needs to be more closely supervised. They’re dangerous.

[@HWG-wm8ld]

Similar to black rifle coffee company.

[@LuisSierra42]

Ultimate Sigma

[@portapotty69]

​@@pri.sci.lla.ok psycho

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

He must be good at targeting the vulnerable to somehow hook them in being the loser that he is.

[@stantheman9209]

Imagine the misery of living as a so called "alpha male". The constant worry and insecurity of wandering if the guy next to you is tougher,has a better car, more money, slept with more women and has a larger member

[@beaulieuc8910]

haha yes

[@maddiekain7728]

And all just to make his narcissistic wife-beating Daddy proud. I saw an interview where he talked about his father and his childhood, and it made me very sad for the child he used to be. Such a waste of intellect and tenacity. I suspect he would have turned out differently if he'd had a decent role model. I can only imagine what this guy could accomplish if he used his powers for good.

[@peteMickeal33]

still way more respectable than willfully embracing being an omega male. just saying...

[@peztopher7297]

@@maddiekain7728 Make his father proud? The guy died eight years ago.

[@richardwitherow5289]

@@peztopher7297 That doesn't matter. A person can through his/her entire life trying to make up for the love and acceptance they didn't receive in childhood, until they work through all of the early traumas.

[@MissBlueEyeliner]

The fact that Pierce Morgan can come out of any conversation looking like the rational person is scary.

[@helenvann3506]

Came here to say just that

[@bachopinbee5991]

I don't think Piers is irrational. He's rather greatly opinionated and bluntly disagrees with anything that doesn't subscribe to him as sane. There's a huge difference between the two. Piers is an educated, sophisticated, responsible father with a thriving career. Andrew is not anything of the above.

[@pamelapamper]

I despise Andrew Tate but he absolutely demolished Piers Morgan in that interview.

[@dyawr]

​@@bachopinbee5991 Exactly

[@user-kb8qw7dy4t]

@@bachopinbee5991I have no idea about Piers Morgan's personal life, but his public persona seems quite far-right. If he were American, he'd fit right in among Trump supporters.

[@farkasmactavish]

andrew taint

[@theresekirkpatrick3337]

😂 good one

[@whorechatta]

This made me laugh from the depth of my soul 😂😂😂 it was the sound of a cackling witch!

[@STR82DVD]

I completely agree. Andrew's a total A hole.

[@briarrose29]

😂😂😂

[@all8273]

I appreciate that you didn't capitalize his first or last name. It makes it even more special. Assuming you used your phone to make that comment, it means you likely had to go out of your way to make at least the "a" lowercase, which I respect.

[@christophergarza9118]

Your cadence, delivery and pronouncing of “TikTok” kills me every time 😂

[@eyesofdisarray9967]

Was looking for this comment 😂

[@maryschlueter8521]

Tick-TOCK is my favorite Dr Grande -ism!

[@farkasmactavish]

I KNOW RIGHT! It sounds like he's having a hard time pronouncing it lmao

[@gogreen7794]

Dr. Grande is showing his contempt for most of the content on "TikTok." I think he also is making fun of the name.

[@missme1794]

😂😂 It's great isn't it?

[@YuToobVideos]

When he became popular, I asked my 18-year-old son, "Do you listen to Andrew Tate?". He started laughing and replied, "No, I'm not a Tater Tot, I was raised by a real father "😂

[@KellyfromMemphis]

Top comment!

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

Tater tot...you're making me hungry.

[@BrightestLight5]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@theriddlerUSA]

Your son has a great sense of humor. 😂

[@alisonmercer5946]

😂 omg can't imagine having an uncle or Tate fan as a child

[@cujokila]

“If one Andrew Tate can cause all this destruction, a world full of Andrew Tates would be the apocalypse” 😂

[@LuisSierra42]

Dr Grande never misses

[@AnnaAnnieAnneofGreenGables]

Boom!

[@LD86]

Mic drop!! 😂

[@AshleySpeaks4U]

I KNOW! 😂😂😂😂

[@Xxrocknrollgod]

Incels do NOT believe in self improvement and believe that looks are EVERYTHING. That is the OPPOSITE of what Tate teaches. Bad faith imbeciles.

[@roringusanda2837]

He was always a grifter, everything he has ever done was a grift, his whole life, even his "look" is fake, chosen to suit the grift.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

I know right! Somehow many young boys don't see that he's actually a loser.

[@LD86]

@@It-is-me...Melsie Way too many young men, and men in general, really idol worship Andrew and it’s not only sad, tragic and pathetic…it’s dangerous. He is teaching them all it’s ok to be a total asshole to get what you want and look down on women as inferior. Merely pretty objects to own, abuse and exploit.

[@jimmylight4866]

Hahaha, damn did I write that? Perfect.

[@roberthopkins3621]

It sounds just like trump .

[@jimmylight4866]

@@roberthopkins3621 Why does everything have to be about politics?

[@mushroommagic1697]

The most respectable and high value men I have ever met are calm and composed, empathetic, understanding, moral, self secure, independent. They never scream or shout or punch their way through things.

[@Tetradepodmelontea]

In a fights, you need certain emotional oatterbs. As a former fighter, he has that. Many fighters tend to be wife beaters.

[@traildoggy]

It's weird that "I can't get the hot girls I want" has become a political orientation.

[@kennyg1358]

It was inevitable that radical feminism would have repercussions. Some are manifesting others are still to come.

[@Princessbubblegum567]

And that they genuinely believe not getting laid is women stripping men's rights 😂 please God send help to this place called earth

[@chrisjones6496]

In my opinion Andrew Tate is the definition of a Narcissist and a terrible role model for young men, and is not honest in any way. Anyone “embracing” prison is either mentally disturbed or is lying. Excellent video as always Dr. Grande, I appreciate and always enjoy your content and your unique commentary laced with wit. Cheers from Toronto, 🇨🇦

[@frakismaximus3052]

You could be right, but if so, it's an especially sad commentary on feminism and its negative effects on men.

[@wintercame]

@@frakismaximus3052 The negative effects of women attaining legal, social, and financial equity with men? The removal of patriarchy is harmful to men? Careful, your position of privilege is being exposed.

[@esteemedmortal5917]

@@frakismaximus3052is that on feminism or patriarchy? Feminism is about equal treatment regardless of gender. Patriarchy is mostly about elevating men above women but occasionally elevating women above men when it comes to things like children. So is the issue feminism or patriarchy telling men that feminism is to blame for certain things, like getting child custody?

[@Ken-fh4jc]

I’ve been to jail. Idk what anyone says everyone gets upset especially on the phone. That said this loser is the type that you hear crying in their cell at night the first week.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

@@frakismaximus3052 You have an issue with women having equality?

[@TheRaspberry82]

Unbelievable …… and really sad…. He is nothing but a badly damaged self absorbed abhorrent pimp who figured out how to make a buck…… and it is a very sad testament that any young or older man would think that this is “masculinity”…..😮😢. Let’s ask how many women think he is the “epitome of masculinity”. Another Great Analysis Doc !!!!! ❤😊❤

[@goddessvibes08]

Narcissists want Power and control only.

[@lilyjane1011]

Cannot agree more....

[@LeventeCzelnai]

sure, but the criticism that he wants women to not work and that it makes him some demon is fcking ridiculous.

[@goddessvibes08]

@@LeventeCzelnai he made his women into cam slaves. He is lying straight to your face!

[@TheRaspberry82]

@@LeventeCzelnai - I think the criticism that he wants women to not work - is that he is a piece of trash that wants women to be dependent on him so he can use them.

[@brotherjohnnyxXxX]

He'll cry some more once he finds out that he's going to live out the rest of his life in obscurity.

[@marketmagus]

Lmao

[@kimjohnson8471]

At least under US law, he has the right to remain silent. However, I'm not sure if he has the ability!😅

[@sheeliewoo]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@farkasmactavish]

Of course not! If he remains silent, he won't be able to tell you how great and important and special he is!

[@YTStoleMyUsername]

😂😂😂

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

US law is subjective. Ask Israel ever since 1948. Murder is a crime for everyone but them.

[@MJanovicable]

You couldn't have described Andrew Tate any better than this, Dr. Grande, thank you.

[@RyanFowlerSOS]

I don't know for sure if Tate is a sociopath, but he absolutely fits the profile. Megalomaniac sociopath.

[@LD86]

And a malignant narcissist.

[@RyanFowlerSOS]

@@LD86 I actually thought of putting that exact phrase in, but then I thought it redundant, as all sociopaths are narcissistic, although their motivations are somewhat different from NPD.

[@Aashka_The_Mystic]

"Tears are running down my face, but I'm not crying!" Talk about gaslighting lol yeesh

[@Ann-sj4pt]

Onion eater 😳

[@fecardona]

A psycho statement

[@benhartart9487]

Andrew realises young men need a voice, in this failed western society, they just don’t need his, but a more stoic, humble, intelligent, strong male role model.

[@MutantsInDisguise]

Sarcasm, right

[@MarabelleBlue]

Andrew Tate created a persona about himself which isn't real and convinced the world he is what he says. I like that he thinks of himself as a "very good looking man all women want", said no one ever 😂

[@LD86]

As a woman, I find Andrew repulsive. Not even remotely attractive…and his “personality” makes him even uglier.

[@hannahmacdonald9040]

Literally never seen any intelligent or women who aren't clout chasing express real interest in him, in fact he is universally disliked by women... Even the bimbos he ends up having connections with are there for the promise of money and fame not for him...delusional

[@puffchickpam1]

I wouldn’t touch him with a 10’ pole!

[@livinonacloud]

I don't personally know any women who find Tate attractive or compelling. Quite the opposite, really.

[@PaisleyMarie80]

I don't know who told him he was fine. He is far from that.

[@JJbIrd0608]

Andrew Tate is a 15 yr old teenage boy's mom's nightmare. I know that sentence doesn't make sense, it's my teenage boy mom brain on overload. The teen years are the Terrible Twos on steroids. With an appetite 😂. Thank you Dr. Grande. 😊

[@notyourordinarygran]

My son is 45 and I am fighting a losing battle with him over this guy. He claims he isn't misogynistic and I tell him that, as a woman, I disagree.

[@SadNThik]

Seriously. I got ahead of the curve and talked to my preteen boy about him. He hadn’t heard of Andrew Tate yet and he was like, “Yeah he sounds like a loser.” Hopefully that sticks.

[@pawpkitty]

Thank you for covering this as a doctor. Men like this are terrifying for women, and the rise of his popularity is even more so.

[@andrewpease3688]

Women swarm around men like Tate and Russel Brand

[@RebecaDogaru]

@@andrewpease3688 Some women do, a vulnerable minority. This is like saying "men swarm around prostitutes" because some women in this profession have lots of simps. Well-adjusted women will always prefer responsible adults over aggressively insecure man-children like Andrew Tate and his admirers.

[@ikmor]

@@andrewpease3688 And still they are terrifying, for all of us.

[@pawpkitty]

@@andrewpease3688 Vulnerable women do. They don't know what they're getting into until it's too late.

[@24JJ821]

Being afraid of people like Tate is what gives him the power he loves. I see him as an immature, insecure, dim little man-boy who needs to constantly blow his own whistle to satisfy his ego. He is pathetic.

[@ChairmanTrump]

The king of all incels.

[@devadasn]

I don’t blame his fans, they are looking for someone that cares about them and he pretends to while taking their money. I feel bad for them actually

[@bababoeythehorsemen8462]

Bro just spitting fax 🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@bababoeythehorsemen8462]

@@devadasn but they are incel had you met them personally tbh honest andrew tate fans has weird opinion and weird characteristik thats my experience to meet them as ex incel my selft i rather say not all incel had sad background story mate remember that maybe incel you met it just smart kid who had anti social disorder who knows dude

[@HWG-wm8ld]

Same as Harley Davidson, people buy them to belong to a group and feel accepted, but the product and company are junk.

[@mikeh5150]

​@@devadasn I don't feel bad for them, like I don't feel bad for magas. They all make their own choices.​

[@andrewdunn49ers]

Beautifully articulated. It’s almost an embarrassment on society that certain folks get lured into his schemes and ways of life.

[@harryhanz1690]

It seems to be a feature, not a bug, of current society.

[@stephtimms1776]

It's a result of divorce and lack of enough decent fathering. No one has addressed this kind of scamming as well as this channel. I just subscribed.

[@potatolover5436]

Almost an embarrassment?

[@1DonFF]

Blame the single mothers.

[@DistinctiveBlend]

Isn't it funny that the taint fans show up to blame women, it's not their fault they listened and believed him.. oh no it has to be a woman's fault. -- top masculinity in action.

[@baileymoran8585]

I saw a clip of him talking about ‘stoicism’ where he 1.) looked very headed and angry, like he was about to punch a wall, and 2.) described the traits of a ‘psychopath,’ like ‘no emotion,’ and ‘doesn’t care about anyone but themselves.’ As an actual stoic, he missed the mark entirely. We try to regulate and express emotions in efficient and subtle way. We will feel them, say ‘I’m angry/sad/disgusted’ but it takes a lot for us to be visibly heated. It’s the same with positive emotions. I’m not going to squeal over getting a surprise discount, but I will express my gratitude by saying ‘oh thank you. That made my day’ in a calm way. But I still cried tears of joy on my wedding. I still cried tears of sadness when I lost a friend earlier this year. We still absolutely have emotions. We just reserve strong reactions for things that are a big deal because we communicate better if we don’t wear our heart on our sleeve and we don’t waste energy on the little things. I bring this up because Tate is one of the most emotionally unstable and immature public figures in the whole ‘self help’ universe. He always seems like he is going to get in a fight, and he makes a huge deal out of every little thing. He ranted about how he doesn’t like food because eating is too much work, or something. He rants about women not finding men like him desirable ‘anymore.’ He throws literal tantrums when people correct him and point out that he is not as competent as he pretends, and he would be broke if his family didn’t have money. But he somehow has a platform based around helping men ‘heal’ and ‘become stable and successful,’ so I truly question the emotional immaturity and lack of stability of his average fanboy.

[@Strangingness]

Yep, great point. The whole basis of Stoicism, is to seek self esteem from having morals working hard, and being a good person even when no one is watching for your own peace of mind and health. Rather than getting it from material things and social status. To be brave and strong, and to only be afraid of not having morals basically. Which is the complete opposite of Andrew Tate.

[@hymnodyhands]

You are an actual modern Stoic ... well met. It is refreshing to know there are people who use the term who actually understand the philosophy as a lived experience.

[@aidanm5578]

What you call stoicism I just call being an adult man.

[@mushroommagic1697]

Stoicism is tarnished and used by those self help clowns to make themselves seem as special and better and not like other people. It is an useful philosophy or set of beliefs, but with all those bs people reinterpreting things their way, one has to dive really deep through s*it to find the useful roots of it.

[@csc8697]

I think he's more on the narcissism side. He's emotionally dysregulated.

[@Mason-ci9tc]

For a brief time when I was at a low point, I looked up to Tate as someone to aspire to be. Since I’ve been improving (I still have bad moments) I realised just how manipulative he is. Whilst his points on being the best version of yourself (working out and being goal driven) are not bad, most of everything else he says is to brainwash people so they can feed his ego.

[@Soprano1638]

I don't blame you at all. This is one of the techniques that narcissists like AT use, stating the obvious (his advice on focusing on your goals) but sprinkling this with demagogury. It is a gaslighting technique to confuse men who are in need of support. He speaks to the insecure part of people (especially specific to men) that feels let down by society, he is like a devil telling you to embrace your dark side and exploit others (especially women) to feel whole. However, at the heart or it, as he has a severe personality disorder, he does not care one bit about his followers, only what he needs to say next to fill the cup of his crippled narcissist personality disorder ego.. One day he's a Muslim, the next hes a porn peddler, Andrew is whatever you want him to be so long as you help him give him a compliment 😂

[@Soprano1638]

P. S. You will grow, become stronger and achieve your goals. You're a worthy human being who has as much value as everyone else. You will be a success and happy, because you deserve it. All the best to you

[@alexmousley7213]

I'm glad you came out the other side, if you've not read it yet, then Mark Manson's "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F-ck" is a good read- it has a lot more depth and maturity than the title suggests, it's also clear that Mark has gone through the alpha male/ pick up artist thing and seen through it and become a happier and more mature, well rounded man.

[@spageddie3266]

​@@alexmousley7213agree with you on Mark Manson's work 🤗

[@TofuTeo]

@@Soprano1638 so true!!! " It is a gaslighting technique to confuse men who are in need of support. He speaks to the insecure part of people (especially specific to men) that feels let down by society, he is like a devil telling you to embrace your dark side and exploit others (especially women) to feel whole."

[@erikhesjedal3569]

Remember that 15% of population has an IQ lower than 85

[@HWG-wm8ld]

15%, that’s way off, closer to 50%. The amount of people that don’t understand credit cards, being courteous and thinking of others before themselves and thousands of other values is where I get my number.

[@garyhost1830]

And that african Americans make up 12% of the american population, oddly simular 😂

[@roringusanda2837]

​@@garyhost1830you can stir in the obviously blk "Hispanic/Latino" dem. who claim to be only Hispanic or Latino, a way to fudge the numbers. That would up it to about 15...

[@Bearwithme560]

@@garyhost1830 What grade level did you attain to not only make such a spurious connection, but also so poorly written? "Simular" means...?

[@garyhost1830]

@Bearwithme560 I have a bachelor degree in finance. But that was a long time ago. What about you ? What qualifications do you hold ?

[@Happycat8385]

There's nothing wrong with being single while you wait for your person to come along, if you're shy you just start by talking to a girl normal like a friend. Before I was married and before I became self employed, I worked as a cook for years and have dated many waitresses ( how I met my wife) and it's really as simple as just talking normal like you would anyone else if your shy let them talk more everyone likes a good listener and contrary to what Andrew spews you will always get better results being respectful and nice. You don't have to be a pushover or pathetic to be a nice guy trust me

[@LaciRae]

i prefer shy/introverted guys. they tend to be more thoughtful, interesting, & intelligent.

[@murineesc]

It’s almost as if women are also human beings 😂

[@eveapple4928]

It’s just simple social skills. I worry that increasing numbers of young men are improperly socialised, for whatever reasons - I don’t think they get the best role modelling, and major male cultural icons tend to be absolute bellends to be honest, who exemplify the worst aspects of toxic masculinity. We need to get back to an ideal of healthy masculinity that promotes self esteem, acceptance of difference and allows boys to become they men they actually are rather than forcing them to conform to a very narrow definition of what a man should be. In that way, boys who don’t live up to the current unrealistic Chad ideal won’t feel quite so bitter and unfulfilled.

[@LaciRae]

@@eveapple4928 very well said,

[@ReformedWhiteKnight]

@@eveapple4928 what exactly constitutes that illusive male toxicity you are talking about? And also were would that come from and why?

[@roxannespahr2804]

Andrew Tate doesnt even believe he did anything wrong. He is so intellectually dumb I dont think he has any insight to even see what he does as wrong. Its almost comical to see him do interviews. Perfect analysis of him, Dr. Grande.❤

[@stupidhat1779]

About what I expected and all I hoped for. Dr Grande never disappoints. I knew long before Andrew Tate was arrested that he shoild never be left unattended around women.

[@manewland1]

My teenage son's friend is a fan of Andrew Tate and often wants to talk about him; videos like this one (and your others on Tate) are a great help (as they save me a lot of time I'd otherwise spend researching him). Thanks, as always, Dr. Grande.

[@It-is-me...Melsie]

You should point out to him that Tate is actually a loser and should not be someone to emulate. There are good and successful men to look up to who are not at all familiar with the inside of a prison and who don't have the vast majority of woman having nothing but disdain for them, unlike the loser Tate.

[@nicalb6929]

Don't let him poison your son!

[@kennyg1358]

Your son is too you just don't know it.

[@blazefairchild465]

Ask him who takes macho lessons from a scrawny bald headed man who wears sunglasses indoors ? His whole persona screams , I can only get women to notice me by lying. I am sure he picks the nicest models to appear with him in his ads & then stiffs them money for their gig. I am looking forward to him ,walking his skinny behind into prison . I hope he enjoys it as much as ,he says he is not afraid to go. He’s so macho,he should ask for 6 months extra ,just for more time pumping iron in the gym. 😂

[@floridagirl386]

It sounds like you just want to poison him with your own beliefs. Why don't we just let people believe what they want to anymore?

[@Mikkibriteside]

I wish the world could recognize narcissists right away and realize how toxic they are. They won't ever get healthy.

[@carlos4087]

Watch that language. It's dehumanizing

[@Andy-xx3tt]

People often don’t recognize narcissism when the rhetoric someone is pushing appeals to them personally. The type of men that the manosphere attracts already have an ax to grind with women and even other men who don’t share their struggles. Like a cult leader, Tate knows his audience’s vulnerabilities and he exploits them for his own personal gain. But his followers don’t even realize it because they’re just happy to have someone validate their views and make them feel “seen”.

[@PraiseworthyNobleman]

The problem is narcissists is not common and rare so people don't really know what this people like

[@axs-xq7cq]

Alot of times the people accusing others of being narcissists are really the narcissists themselves.

[@whereisCarmenSandiego]

5:00-5:20 Dr. Grande’s ability to keep a straight face while tearing this clown apart is truly the stuff of legend 😂

[@humansvd3269]

Lost interst listening to this weak man.

[@KennyJordana]

😂

[@Notthecobracommander]

His personality seems very in tune with the high school playground hierarchy. The toughest coolest guy who can say the most stupid things is apparently the most popular.

[@audralynn7454]

I usually wait until after work to relax with a Dr Grande video, but I had to check this one out as soon as I saw it! I appreciate your calm and reasonable analysis of someone like Andrew Tate and hope that you inspire more men to WANT to be reasonable, mentally healthy, and successful without hating on women.

[@ReformedWhiteKnight]

He died recharge women though and women are attracted to him and his brother. Watch the videos in his house were the girls film themselves partying mostly without the guys even being present. It’s amazing to see how people come to conclusions without even watching more than shorts and clips…

[@eaglestown4609]

@@ReformedWhiteKnight You mean the paid girls that surround him? Yeah sure... Everyday women would crap themselves being in the same room as him

[@ReformedWhiteKnight]

@@eaglestown4609 the problem is that you follow your feelings about this, not what actually happens. Go and check, they had girls fro all over the world coming there. One of the accusers was spotted by her boyfriends brother and he asked her what she was doing partying in Romania with the Tates… your information flow is too one sided. You don’t want to admit that wealth, fame and status attracts girls. They didn’t need to be paid for. Go and search for videos and see for yourself…

[@celeca7]

@@eaglestown4609 why would everyday women crap themselves around him? He's not that good-looking

[@eaglestown4609]

@@celeca7 A type with multiple allegations of violence and one of trafficking against him would scare me to death don't know about you lol

[@Greenpeppersandeggs]

If you go to a fresh or private view of KZbin (with no algorithm yet), he is often recommended by the platform. It’s quite disturbing how much YT pushes his narrative…thank goodness for our own algorithms, where Dr. Grande is the calm voice of reason and sanity. I’m appreciative of your sarcasm always, especially in this title! Thanks Dr. Grande!

[@cleardrop4531]

Thank you for pointing out the insecurities in these dudes and how they literally want a frog chin man as their epitome of manliness.attributes that bring the power and respect from others they want it from come from things like tact, humility, saying what needs to be heard instead of what reinforces people’s insecurities, owning up to your mistakes and not repeating them. Andrew is the opposite of that in so many ways and, like certain politicians and media figures, has figured out how to use the internet to tap others’ insecurities and hatred to develop an insular cult based outside reality.

[@cremdilly7176]

Frog chin man? Who's the insecure one again?

[@johndonahue4777]

Frog chin is good. Frog chin is funni. Thank you.

[@travisnunya7960]

That was funny I will remember frog chin man...right up there with butthole eyes (pete davidson)

[@lmusima3275]

These manosphere incels are simply bitter men, bitter jaded and rejected 🙅 coming together looking for something other than professional help to assist them

[@Robin-xt7yo]

​@@travisnunya7960🐸🐸🐸

[@lovelettertothewest]

Andrew Tate is the best unintentional comedian I know. God bless his simplicity...

[@ileanamuntean7338]

God curse his everything.

[@Lilboozibert]

Better than Steven Seagal? That's a hard one to top!

[@lovelettertothewest]

@@Lilboozibert 😄😄😄I don't know Seagal's comedic work, but I hope that his lack of success in life (despite honest work) would lead to merciful criticism.

[@anista1390]

😂😂😂

[@SerMattzio]

I find it disturbing that Tate openly admits he made his money being a drug dealer and enslaver of vulnerable women...yet people still see him as some kind of role model. He's a sociopath.

[@paolacastillootoya8904]

Dr Grande is a beacon of positive masculinity.

[@floridagirl386]

Or so he wants you to believe

[@snuffmeister6720]

@@floridagirl386 you are replying to every comment, go touch grass

[@floridagirl386]

@@snuffmeister6720 just the first 5 lol

[@floridagirl386]

@@snuffmeister6720 anyways how would you know? Go touch grass LOL

[@snuffmeister6720]

@@floridagirl386 because i can read you mong, shut up and log off

[@alexpd308]

I think the problem goes far deeper than Tate. Why are so many young men drawn to his message? They’re clearly lost or lacking something in life. Andrew Tates popularity is a symptom of something very problematic in society .

[@derkeheath5172]

The American Dream is quite obviously dead, and the hopelessness that causes leads to crippling fear and hate.

[@carstarsarstenstesenn]

lacking real male role models or just role models in general

[@nmc1859]

​​@derkeheath5172 it is. 2 person income households now. Thanks to ww 2 and the insistence that women work in factories to keep it up. It never stopped. The rich got richer while the middle class slipped away.

[@pri.sci.lla.]

They have absentee parents who are allowing their kids to be raised online.

[@ajnasreddin]

I'd venture to say that, in the West, feminism has redefined women, but many men have not caught on. I'd even say that many women don't know what they're looking for in a man. Tate is a gross throwback to the time when cave women were looking for cave men.

[@s0064019]

A healthy male + a healthy female mentally and physically, will always generate a healthy family where the most powerful energy is generated - Period! AT stops his development mentally at the age of teenage - this is why he attracts young teenagers the most.

[@hughjainisis1683]

It’s interesting that in this “information” age the snake oil salesman figure it more common than ever

[@HWG-wm8ld]

This is because most are insecure and want to feel accepted. Also being uneducated is very popular.

[@FictionHubZA]

"Eat as many facts as you want, but it is how you digest them that matters." - Exurb1a

[@CountrysideCutie]

I alway love how Dr. Grande references "Tick..Tock." 😂😂

[@michaeldoherty5415]

There are a million ways to be masculine. Telling people how masculine you are every 5 seconds is definitely not one of them.

[@sburns2421]

I always find it funny how Dr. G slowly says T-I-K T-O-K like it was the first time he ever saw the name.

[@eyesofdisarray9967]

Yes! Like he doesn’t understand the fascination of it…like the rest of us!😂😂😂

[@user-rr9xw7hp8p]

He has children but he's not fit to be a parent. I saw a video where he even accuses his toddler daughter of lying, because he thinks all women lie.

[@michellewitt2071]

Uuuuuuuhhhhhhhhh and he published that? Like he was proud of himself?

[@TheBOG3]

Chris Rock said men lie more than women but women tell the biggest lies.

[@DistinctiveBlend]

@@michellewitt2071 It's Andrew, he's always proud of himself.

[@drakedrones]

Omg! What a loser

[@jwoolman5]

His children will be very lucky if he gets a long sentence.

[@SadNThik]

I just found your channel and I have to say I’ve never heard such classy and eloquent shade. I love it.

[@HWG-wm8ld]

When this guy talked about conservative ideals, everyone claimed he was awesome. Just because someone has conservative values, doesn’t make them a good person.

[@esteemedmortal5917]

Pretty sure human trafficking isn’t in anyone but garbage people’s value set. Even if he espoused liberal beliefs, he can f*** right off

[@roringusanda2837]

You mean "just because someone TALKS about having conservative ideals" because he has never been a conservative, done anything conservative, never conducted his life according to conservative principles and values. Nothing about him is real, especially any claim to conservative ideals.

[@FictionHubZA]

The American right wing is so starved of mainstream representation that they will take whatever they can get. They even took Kanye ffs.

[@usagiroxie]

Narcissists live in a fantasy world.

[@puffchickpam1]

@@roringusanda2837l you’ve got a point

[@10191927]

Sadly I had coworkers who were defending Andrew Tait, they said he was being condemned for talking about the Matrix, so they were putting him in prison. 🙄 Yeah….they’re morons.

[@dawn1913]

i think he picks buzz words and topics to make himself feel relevant. unfortunately these young men fall for this blinded by his persona.

[@10191927]

⁠@@dawn1913- Agreed, I see him for what he is, a criminal engaging in criminal behavior and human trafficking, but to people I work with who are young men are totally absorbed into his persona and they genuinely believe he’s being condemned by phantom forces of evil from the shadows. It’s really sad.

[@uhavenosushi]

That whole “matrix” thing always baffles me. If the movie the matrix was never made, they wouldn’t even have this idea to go off of. Such a strange disassociation with reality. Paradoxically, they might as well be in the matrix when you start down that path.

[@LD86]

The Matrix…. 😂 Is Morpheus going to appear and offer the red or blue pill? What utter bullocks.

[@michellewitt2071]

Hahahahahahaha

[@TF-vb9us]

I am a stone cold lesbian and I really don’t think about men all that much so my opinion is definitely an outsider looking in perspective. But these kinds of men always seem like the least manly, least masculine, and most clownishly goofy kinda guys.

[@Greywolf1066]

You speak the truth.

[@JennRazo]

You rock. This is one of your best videos by far. I am disturbed by how may Conservative outlets are giving this man a legitimate platform for him to justify and redeem himself, when he is as unrepentent as one can be.

[@amantedelcane420]

What? It's a bunch of pandering nonsense. The doc is slipping.

[@precisionleadthrowing4628]

if there was more man like andrew tate there would be less dumb women like you (speaking sna sputing BS ) - I bet you voted for Schmoe Bidet and took all the boosters

[@glennthompson1971]

well they do that with Trump and many others too

[@wkjeom]

I'm a conservative, and I agree with you 100%. Part of my personal analysis is that Tate brags about controlling women and men as he takes their dignity and money. He is a totally evil narcissist, and a blight on society. Prison suits him well.

[@celeca7]

Yeah we should DEF delete free speech from the constitution. We only need one voice and one opinion. Dissenters should be prosecuted! 🙄

[@theJACK__]

he's seems "alpha" only to incels.

[@ParentingIsPlanning]

Great video, Dr. Grande. Mr. Tate also converted to Islam and has garnered a huge following among Muslim men because his misogynistic views are sometimes in line with some unique cultural misogynistic attitudes. Many Muslims have also addressed his online classes geared towards exploiting womens’ bodies while objectifying and abusing them. I am in my 60s and in my opinion, masculine men are strong-silently.

[@GirlStrong-op9bg]

I am muslim woman and i say islam is the best and it’s the truth

[@CompleteProducer84]

“His father was a chess master and his mother was a caterer’s assistant”. Suddenly it all makes sense

[@derkeheath5172]

I've also heard from a reliable French source that his mother was a hamster and his father smelt of elderberries.

[@colleenharding8665]

His sister won’t speak to him and is a very accomplished lawyer. It seems to me that this plays some role in his feelings of inadequacy, since siblings always struggle with a sense of competition no matter how subconscious. It’s extremely common, almost universal for us to compare ourselves to others, and this can lead to feeling envious or shameful if you’re not as academic, beautiful , tall, etc etc as whomever. It’s especially present in families, where we all would like to please our parents.

[@puffchickpam1]

@@colleenharding8665ah!! Now the cat is outta the bag!😂

[@colleenharding8665]

@@puffchickpam1 I was hoping Doc would have mentioned this juicy tidbit. Having a sibling go on to become a doctor or lawyer would grind any of our gears at thanksgiving if we were all honest with ourselves. It would be natural to feel inferior and you could see the tendency to overcompensate

[@tomsdottir]

@@derkeheath5172 Is there someone else up there we could talk to?

[@RHCPpleasestandup]

god I can't imagine what it must be like to be a 16 year old boy in the year of our lord 2023

[@justacatwhocantype]

Ironically, as a woman, I find that Andrew Tate is one of the least masculine men that I can think of. As a matter of fact, I cannot, for the life of me, imagine him in bed with a woman. I just can't, it is impossible. Everytime I see a video of Andrew Tate speaking, with his dumb accent, I think "OMG, this is Freddy Mercury's poorly adjusted, antisocial half-brother."

[@EarthenEternal]

I love this. Thank you 😂

[@bencutterstein87]

Its because he looks like goblin, no gym for your face lmao

[@TofuTeo]

frrr he's like a loud brash man child

[@pamelapamper]

@@bencutterstein87 why doesn't he grow a beard??

[@humansvd3269]

And yet, he's been laid many times over. Women want these kind of guys.

[@lmusima3275]

It’s strange how so many guys, even older ones are following his logic. To the incel/ manosphere world he’s seen as a hero. My friend is complaining how dating is even more challenging as she’s meeting a lot of men who follow this clown 🤡

[@LD86]

I feel for your friend. I’m thankfully happily married to my high school sweetheart….who I would readily divorce if he came to idol worship Andrew Tate even for a second. Ain’t got no time for abusive and toxic mindsets.

[@Princessbubblegum567]

Actually it might be beneficial to women when it comes to dating because the losers who worship this clown always filter themselves out by acting like a clown. We don't have to waste energy and time vetting them out because they'll do a fine job weeding themselves out of the dating market all on their own 😂 I mean is it a coincidence that the number of single and lonely men are on the rise which happens to coincidence with popularity of this tomfoolery?

[@RepentImmediately]

The manosphere is pretty much ensuring their followers are undatable which seems to be many men's greatest fear

[@terriwilliams4628]

I really enjoyed his video. Andrew's uneven interpretations are very disturbing to hear. Thanks for the concise and insightful analysis.

[@secondchance6603]

I'm curious to know what the female equivalent of an, 'incel' is.

[@cherrylane79]

I think he is either a narcissist or sosiopath / psychopath. Being a misogynist is not masculine, it's abusive.

[@user-gu7rm3rf8c]

If he doesn’t like women work, why did he employee make for money.. Doesn’t have any logic

[@gatorrade1680]

The biggest problem with Tate is that he doesn't know or doesn't want to accept that I'm the only true Alpha Male!

[@AnnaAnnieAnneofGreenGables]

😂

[@FictionHubZA]

Gatorade is pretty powerful.

[@itsmeagain7825]

Sorry but Andrew is the only alpha, he's said so himself many many times.

[@artawhirler]

All hail gatorrade1680!!

[@LD86]

@@itsmeagain7825😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@johnharrisonschulz]

Oh my gosh. I looked at the title of today's question and just started laughing out loud. Tate is so delusional that when tears are running down his face, it's not crying. The only person on earth that can have tears running down his face and not be crying is Chuck Norris. Because Chuck Norris doesn't cry, his eyes sweat.

[@oldrandon]

🤣

[@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564]

Chuck Norris facts are old, just like Chuck Norris. Give it a rest.

[@justincredible666]

He's such brave man, he dare not even walk the streets without bodyguards

[@humansvd3269]

Well considering you can be shot and stabbed and he's had his life threatened, yes.

[@Js-kh7it]

Halleluja! Finally! Thank you for calling him out the clown he is and has been all the time. Above human Trafficking and rape and beeing a criminal all the time...

[@YochevedDesigns]

I love how you can speak straight facts, and deliver sick burns - all while keeping the exact same tone of voice.

[@lynnsears654]

I watched this interview with Tate and Morgan, Thank you Dr. Grande for your insight I appreciate it !! I have been in mental health for many years.... I never could figure out why so many young men liked this man. All their fears/insecurities connect them.

[@nigelsenchez]

I believe they think that being strong, macho, wealthy, owing fast cars will make them happy. Its like hes selling a false dream and his fan boys are buying it up

[@Max-oi9es]

I've resorted to the notion that no matter how i see things, other men are more comfortable being followers. There isn't a damn thing you can say to them to get their attention off the person they choose to follow. Rather it be another man or woman. Just be glad you aren't them.

[@brianmatthewsj5851]

A friend asked me one time what I thought of Andrew Tate and I had a difficult time characterizing him so thank you for hitting the nail right on the head 👍 I wish you could do something people like Candence Owen and Charles Kirk and a few others

[@DavidDeeble]

You'd think that with all the pushups Tate claims to be doing he risks being deemed a Chad by the incels.

[@hsk2909]

[@EN-kr3xt]

Andrew Tate is the best example of what's wrong with humanity since the beginning of human existence.

[@secondchance6603]

LMAO!!!

[@Xxrocknrollgod]

Incels do NOT believe in self improvement and believe that looks are EVERYTHING. That is the OPPOSITE of what Tate teaches. Bad faith imbeciles.

[@icin4d]

"best example of what's wrong with humanity since the beginning of the internet."

[@xwarx1000]

😂😂

[@JebidiahKrackedyetagain-xv9hc]

REALLY???? "Since the beginning of human existence"?!?!😳🙄🙄

[@redmaple1982]

I would say that Andrew taps more into entitlement than he does into pain. Most men who long for romance desire it with a willing partner and not with a hostage.

[@user-iu4wh1zs6t]

The interview of Andrew Tate... I'd be interested to hear an analysis of how his grandiosity developed. I heard it came from the relationship he had with his parents, and economic pressure. I doubt it's that simple.

[@daniela_k]

In my eyes as a woman, Andrew Tate comes across as a feminine man. There is nothing wrong with having feminine traits as a man; it does not make him less masculine. The problem with him is that he wants to be perceived by the outside world as something he is not. A lone and strong warrior. Warrior for whom? I don't know what role models he has adopted but it is not his father who was an abusive man towards him when he was a little boy something that Adrew claims to appreciate as an adult. Sad.

[@dredubz5825]

Yes! I agree! To me he just seems so overly insecure and like he is trying to overcompensate for it.

[@Xxrocknrollgod]

Moronic take. This todd guy is a literal beta cuck

[@notandyvee]

This man lives rent free in your minds 😂😂😂😂

[@georgepatton93]

what's interesting about his message is that Tate took a lot of philosophies from other religions like Buddhism and Hinduism, twisted the context and wording of the teachings, and pass it off as his own Example: suffering, Tate constantly state men must suffer in order to gain resistance and become "alpha males" and dominate others One of the original context of this teaching comes from Buddhism concept of suffering, it talks about living is suffering, and one can get used to it and be a better person from there problem is that the original teaching says nothing about dominating others, it emphasizes on simply coming to term with the world and achieve internal peace

[@skycloud4802]

Exposure is also something that many psychologisys agree on, "do something everyday that scares you". Avoiding the "dog in a cage", or learned helplessness etc. That particular teaching is indeed valid, but Tate warped it to fit his view.

[@Ken-fh4jc]

If Andrew Tate is your hero I really feel sorry for you. Similar to Donald Trump, this guy actually despises his base and considers them “suckers and losers.”

[@LittleIggy2010]

Sleepy Joe King of the lefty Pedos

[@MutantsInDisguise]

It's incredible both men's followers are just so blind to admit they're being used.

[@sharfalor4244]

I spend time with women of all ages and incomes/backgrounds. I have never yet spoken to a single one who fancies Andrew Tate. 😂

[@StaceyQTPie]

I am always here as soon as Dr Grande drops new content! Love it!

[@laurenf.7922]

The biggest irony is we know he is going to be a bottom over there.

[@Tingley19]

Yeah right, with money and his ability to fight there's not a thing he'll worry about behind bars, besides being behind bars. He's a renowned kickboxing champion. You can look up his fights.

[@RepentImmediately]

​@@Tingley19street fighting is a different thing. Not to mention, unless he's gonna sleep with one eye open, he's going to be aware of his surroundings 24/7.

[@sedatedcoho]

Good analysis. Tate is an absurd character. One thing that discredits him the most but isn't emphasised enough is being misinformed and objectively wrong on a host of topics. He says he doesn't read, well that I certainly believe.

[@thelocalmaladroit8873]

You did a fantastic job with this one Dr Grande. You nailed it! It’s almost like Tate is a comic book character which is how he comes across. Maybe he should have pursued that venue.

[@Meowch3]

My armchair psychological analysis, just for fun: Tate grew up in a stressed dysfunctional family that culminated in a divorce. As a result, he did not receive the plethora of emotional attention and care a developing child needs to mature into an individuated self-regulating adult. Feeling the intense pain of abandonment, he put up walls early on to protect himself from ever feeling hurt again. Anger and sadness remained frozen inside of him. When emotions remain unprocessed, they sit inside you longing for release and become acted out. Tate took up boxing as a way to act out his anger. He also developed a hatred for women and made them a prime target of his acting out, perhaps because he felt particularly betrayed by his mother's emotional unavailability -- maybe in his youth he was more attached to her than his father. No longer able to feel deeply and vulnerably because of the armor he perpetually wears, he has no way of processing the pain and anger trapped in his body. His "cry-free" tears represent how the pain inside of him can find no real release. He instead copes by doing push-ups and being "strong." I predict this emotional constipation will one day kill him in the form of disease.

[@josmclove4426]

Well said!🤟🏽

[@humansvd3269]

Oh no! Using fitness to cope with life? The horror?

[@Meowch3]

​@@humansvd3269 This is a specific case of someone using fitness to act out their repressed rage (or so I'm theorizing). I consider that an unhealthy way to cope.

[@42words]

I once had a very young, _very_ (ahem) "naive" coworker come in all excited about this _"lifestyle coach"_ Andrew Tate he'd just learned about on reddit. A month later he was talking about how Eliot Roger was misunderstood. It took a _MONTH._

[@kidslovesatan34]

Good one, Doc. I loved the snark and analysis.

[@KayosHybrid]

The uptick in domestic abuse being normalised in the eyes in young people because of him and his ilk is very, very concerning