“Don’t bind while exercising” Bold of you to assume I exercise
@artsyallen7564 жыл бұрын
Bailey Anne haha same
@danitaavalonedemas80004 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Mars-rv9um3 жыл бұрын
lmao sameee-
@Fio_Lynn3 жыл бұрын
XD
@jamiejamie3773 жыл бұрын
Lol,same
@nikhansen87756 жыл бұрын
A TIP: When you wear your binder out, especially for the first few times, BRING A BACK UP PLAN. The first time I put on a binder I was like, "What's everyone talking about? This is fine. Very comfortable." So I went out for a whole day and I will tell you after a couple hours I had REGRETS and nothing to change into. Don't be like me, bring a back up.
@kimhoft57596 жыл бұрын
I really agree! Mostly after a few hours in which I feel very comfy in my binder, my body shows when it's enough. And I've always a sports bra in my backpack.
@tawyxmix53026 жыл бұрын
I usually bring a sports bra with me in my backpack!
@paulabam58956 жыл бұрын
@Ash Wolf for most people that bind, it is a way of escaping body dysphoria. "Just" taking the binder off might make them super dysphoric so you still want to have a back up plan that helps your dysphoria such as a sports bra (Which usually also makes the chest appear flatter) to not fall into a deep dark dysphoric place once you have to take your proper binder off.
@user-rn3mq5tl8y4 жыл бұрын
I bind with layered sport bras (I know it's bad but I'm closeted and can't get a binder) so if I feel like it hurts or gets uncomfortable I just take all except one off and put them in my back pack and leave that one because I can't walk just walk around with no bra on
@Power-Experiment4 жыл бұрын
Thanks from a baby trans
@vampire71444 жыл бұрын
My family doesn’t approve of my gender identity or binding... during lockdown I won a giveaway and honestly it made me so happy.
@rand0m7583 жыл бұрын
That's amazing !!!
@lahair57512 жыл бұрын
Your family loves you more than some internet channel making money off of you ever, ever could. Trust your family.
@vampire71442 жыл бұрын
@@lahair5751 you'd be surprised. But I don't think gaslighting, narcissism, racism and LGBTQ phobia are reasons to trust someone.
@insert_rad_username_here2 жыл бұрын
@@lahair5751 not if your mom is transphobic
@amydarcy7395 Жыл бұрын
I think if your fam doesn’t approve u then just approve your self
@jacecrouch25956 жыл бұрын
Don't sleep with a binder on! Especially when you first start binding, raise ur arms above ur head and cough when you take it off in case any fluid settled in ur lungs
@speakofthedevil32166 жыл бұрын
@A M. It would be great if we could but for most trans guys who haven't had top surgery (like me) it's impossible and sometimes worse to take it off because while you're helping your physical condition, your mental condition is getting worse and it really just feels horrible
@laner.8455 жыл бұрын
@A M. I think you're missing the point. We all WANT double mastectomies! Removal/disappearance of the breasts fixes/mitigates the dysphoria, which is the exact treatment needed for that "mental health" you mention.Congrats to the select few individuals who have light enough dysphoria that they can just meditate it away. For the vast majority it doesn't work that way.
@AidensEscapades5 жыл бұрын
@A M. You are not understanding the struggle
@AidensEscapades5 жыл бұрын
@A M. the struggle is know what you look like inside and not seeing that in a mirror, having a creepy feeling when boobs touch, looking down and seeing a butt crack instead of a cleavage, feeling the weight of them each day in a way that self mutilation might cross the mind to feel normal, I'm not trying to argue about it I'm just trying to inform you that a double mastectomy is a waaaaay better option than self mutilation to feel normal in your own eye. Do you stand here as a transgender or is this your opinion? I'm curious about your thought process to lead to to thinking just therapy can help body dysphoria, this is a serious situation not just plastic surgery...
@elysianvoltaire5 жыл бұрын
^^^^^^^
@vesthedragon18856 жыл бұрын
TAKE IT OFF IF IT HURTS
@yemmemoosh63333 жыл бұрын
YESS!!!! LISTEN TO YOUR BODY IF YOU CANT BREATH OFF IT GOES
@chaotic.entertainer3 жыл бұрын
YES YOU CAN NEVER STRESS THIS ENOUGH
@RockslideTreeClan6 жыл бұрын
couple of tips i didnt see mentioned: 1. take "off days" if possible; its healthier to have one day in your week where you don't wear your binder at all. I usually have my off-day on the weekend + the same day I wash it because I usually don't go out on sunday + i can't really wear the binder when its wet and drying from a wash anyway! 2. DO NOT SLEEP IN YOUR BINDER; this is something that really got drilled at me when i first started looking into binding again you will ache like hell if you accidentally forget to take off your binder before bed or a nap, and it is not worth risking your breathing health like that. 3. when layering clothing, big baggy layers are not always the best option and sometimes will end up making you look smaller/younger rather than more "masculine"; so try to find clothes that fit you! 4. if you have siblings/roommates/etc who may borrow your clothes, its important to let them know about it (if you are able) so they don't accidentally borrow your binder without knowing what it does. same thing applies also if someone else you live with helps with laundry, make sure they know your binder shouldn't be machine washed. 5. sizing test tip, (especially if you are getting an old hand-me-down binder); when you are wearing it, you should be able to fit your whole hand down the back of the neck without discomfort. If you can't do that, then it is definitely too tight. The way it was described to me is that it should feel like a "hug" rather than clinging like extra tight spandex/cutting into your skin. 6. bring an extra undershirt/bra/sports bra with you when you go places in case you need to change into something less constricting; this is especially important for summer heat or jobs with lots of physical labor. i know there have been days where i was very glad i had a sports bra as back up and didnt have to just go around wearing nothing under my shirt. (and also if i needed to take a nap on campus on one of the library couches) 7. doing simple stretches before and after wearing your binder may alleviate some aching and stiffness. even if you dont know any yoga or warm up exercises or whatever, maybe google search some lower back and shoulder stretches/ i didn't even realize how much i'd been powering through until a friend showed me a few zen yoga twist poses and was like??????? this actually feels a lot better man.
@laner.8455 жыл бұрын
#3: Fit, fit, fit! I've had SO MUCH LESS dysphoria now that I wear properly fitted clothes. Wearing baggy stuff makes me look 50lbs heavier, 20yr younger (and NOBODY looked good in the 90s), and I feel like a slob. Wearing fitted chinos, a button down, and nice shoes makes me feel like a million bucks and look like I actually care about and take care of myself. Add a tight men's tank top or tee under that button up and I've got a mostly flat chest since boy's/men's button ups are made from material with little to no give. The button up can't stretch around my breasts and instead forces them even flatter to my chest. Instant androgeny at worst, and partially masculine at best.
@32shortcake5 жыл бұрын
idk if this is a thing, but this deserves to be on the underrated comments video
@Duskully4205 жыл бұрын
Not all librarys have couches but thx for the tips!
@music_addict_with_a_pen13974 жыл бұрын
thank you for this!!
@RockslideTreeClan3 жыл бұрын
@¿Meko? ¿Blade? yeah me too! i personally dont mind if i look a lot younger wearing baggy/oversized clothes if its more comfy! depending on ur job/lifestyle i could understand wanting to look 'mature' tho. plus there are a lot of styles these days with that in mind so in the right fit you wont always look like a teen boy in ur 20/30s lol
@James-ot2kf6 жыл бұрын
FOR WASHING/DRYING BINDERS SECRETLY: Washing: I sometimes will take a super quick shower and then get out of the shower but leave the shower on while I wash my binder in the sink. I usually take pretty long showers (30-45 mins) so it’s less suspicious for me to be “in the shower” for half an hour while I’m really washing my binder. Drying: I tend to put my binder on a hanger and hide it between clothes in my closet. If you share a closet, I recommend putting it on a hanger and then putting a light shirt over the binder. This way it’s hidden but can still dry fairly well. NOTE: make sure you take the shirt off of the binder as much as you can and check that it’s drying! This system of putting a shirt over it could cause mildew or mold to start growing. Be careful!
@graceperez87596 жыл бұрын
I do all the laundry in my house and my binder is pretty good with being machine washable so I just do that
@missjul86 жыл бұрын
Ok but you really shouldn't shower that long for a multitude of reasons.
@raccoontrashpanda14675 жыл бұрын
If you have a metal radiator in your bedroom you can hang the binder between the radiator and the wall with magnets to dry. It can't be seen unless you look directly down the back of the radiator while standing over it.
@Charles-qx6yz5 жыл бұрын
JustJ8 uh That’s how long I usually shower wtf
@KarutoZoaldyeck5 жыл бұрын
@@missjul8 Thats the usual time I shower
@yesouioo5 жыл бұрын
Jackson: *mentions how wearing multiple sport bras are bad* Me: *wearing* *three* *sports* *bras* Me: [Shocked Pikachu Face]
@cockadoodledoostudios27784 жыл бұрын
Your ribs are quietly crying
@scott-ry4cj3 жыл бұрын
i wore three sports bras yesterday but i took them off when it started hurting lol
@Bugsinmystomach3 жыл бұрын
I wear children's sports bras that are two or three sizes too small and my lungs say: "NO GOD HELP-" okay I'm just gonna ignore that for now uh-
@yesouioo3 жыл бұрын
Update! My mom bought me a binder! My ribs are... still crying but less now! :D
@scott-ry4cj3 жыл бұрын
@Fish Netted im so sorry for your ribs and lungs
@kitdaniel91866 жыл бұрын
On the topic of swim binders: Underworks do make a swim binder, i have no experience with this but it is something you could try. You can swim in GC2B binders (possibly because the method of binding they use is a flat panel rather than a stretchy one like underworks). Also, go a size up becuase they do get tighter and especially if you want to take it off when it's wet you'll have trouble. As for excersising, also go up a size-YOU NEED TO BREATHE-trust me. Also probably get a second one for excersising if you can cause you will get sweaty as heck. Of course, if you can excersise without binding that is obviously better. Hope this helps :)
@SunBeeSmoked6 жыл бұрын
You can actually swim in normal underworks binders as well because it's made out of the same stuff swimsuits are made of.
@musicalily_16956 жыл бұрын
Just- *takes a screenshot* There we go-
@jordo47076 жыл бұрын
Can you use swim binder as a normal binder I really like swimming but I don’t want to spend money on something I will only use in the summer
@ajrychel36585 жыл бұрын
I have gc2b binder and it come with a card that says it's safe to swim in but to go a size up.
@mjpeng65164 жыл бұрын
I think you can also swim in flavnt binders
@andrineslife6 жыл бұрын
The media in my area has been airing a lot hate and I just spent an hour looking at my ceiling, crying and feeling all the body feels. Thank you for being here.
@bluesforeveryone6 жыл бұрын
andrineslife sending you love and hope and hugs if you like them ❤️❤️❤️
@drawswithayda46566 жыл бұрын
Pease I pray please I pray
@curiousnerdkitteh6 жыл бұрын
Sending love. 💙
@lightningwaffle95286 жыл бұрын
I send you my love! We can all get through this, together. We will live past the bad people in power and create a new and better tomorrow. WE ARE THE FUTURE. And we can change the course of history, if we stay determined.
@xanthippe_boyhell5 жыл бұрын
I’m here for hugs.
@ace_case72516 жыл бұрын
It will be in the closet... Just like me.
@danny63566 жыл бұрын
I have never related more.
@Trendthetide3 жыл бұрын
Its just me and my binder in the closet
@firesoup97556 жыл бұрын
I was told that using sports bras were okay because they weren't as constricting. I guess I'm glad to have that cleared up now though, thanks
@agnesdunne26286 жыл бұрын
Startled Starfish I believe wearing one that fits you well is okay but some are designed for short term use only.
@user-yq1kq9bw4q6 жыл бұрын
The bra itself might not be constricting but the band is. If you put more than two sports bras on it starts getting really uncomfortable and you can feel them digging into your ribs
@firesoup97556 жыл бұрын
Ah okay, thank you
@laner.8455 жыл бұрын
Definitely designed for short-term use. That band is killer on ribs. If you size up, you should be able to wear it all day, though. It won't flatten as well, but some flattening is better than none, and far superior to permanent damage to your body.
@pjaypender10095 жыл бұрын
One sports bra is fine, but some people layer several on top of each other to get more constriction. That's unsafe.
@user-kt9mu2fo7f6 жыл бұрын
I want a binder so bad;; my dysphoria has been awful, This was super helpful tho
@fairyneveth60715 жыл бұрын
Same man, same, I've gotten to the point where if I get called she or I look in the mirror amd see my feminine features I feel physical pain. :(
@caillou94225 жыл бұрын
Same here :'/
@bean_soups64075 жыл бұрын
Yeah same man
@KayKay04954 жыл бұрын
Same ;-; yet I’m scared to come out
@chibilhoto34884 жыл бұрын
Same but my mom would never let me buy it so...
@ya_fbr6 жыл бұрын
idk if this is obvious or not , but never sleep in your binder either . like , idk if you wanna take a nap or something , but if you do - definitely take your binder off before doing it . if you sleep in a binder , you can really damage yourself and it will be very hard to breathe after you wake up .
@sekainaishe24373 жыл бұрын
i love the "if youre white" at 6:55- as an african american i could not stop laughing at this- my grandma took me bra shopping a few years back and i had to argue with her that "a white bra is way more see-through in white shirts than black one" and it took her a *very* long time to realize why.
@JimmyJimJim422 жыл бұрын
"When I was in the depths of dysphoria, I would find any excuse not to move forward with things that were ultimately going to make my happier and healthier." WOW, that was like the lightning-bolt call-out I needed to hear, thank you.
@frogspawn43026 жыл бұрын
Whenever I try to buy boys clothes my mum wont let me and when I tried to get my hair cut like yours she said its too much like a boy . Not really are what to do but I don't want to come out yet. Wish could take part in the binder giveaway :/ . But I'm still happy that you made this video so I can learn more about it . so thanks ❤
@l.canders69636 жыл бұрын
Hi, some advice on the haircut situation. What a friend of mine did was get his hair cut into a bob (pretty stereotypically feminine) and then slowly cut it shorter each time he went back
@frogspawn43026 жыл бұрын
Blue Anders I already have short hair which is similar to jacksons but my mum has more of a problem with me getting it shaved at the sides and back. But that's good still good advice so thanks ❤
@frogspawn43026 жыл бұрын
6 ! Thanks I didn't think of that ❤
@eliontheinternet32986 жыл бұрын
Try to find non-gendered brands where you live OR find clothes that simply don’t say “man” or “woman” on them and buy them without your mom if possible. For binding, use a sports bra. Or, use a tank top: fold the bottom up so the hem touches the collar. It should be right sides out. It won’t do much to compress your chest, but it will give it a slightly flatter, broader appearance instead of two separate lumps, making it look more like pecs. I use the tank top method if I’m dysphoric while trying to sleep because you should never sleep in a binder.
@frogspawn43026 жыл бұрын
Eli on the Internet the sports bra is something I'm definetly gonna do i just feel stupid buying one. Il try and see if there's any non genderbrands about as well . thanks
@sageiwashyna35256 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video, it's really important because there is a lot of misinformation out there about binding that can ruin trans peoples' lives. Also @ anyone with a gc2b binder: you can swim in a gc2b! They strongly recommend going a size up, and definitely wash it right after, but all gc2b binders will withstand water (I've worn mine in a pool, lake, and hot tub multiple times and it's still kicking).
@jimbomyboy96793 жыл бұрын
Yo! I'm waiting for mine while it's shipping so that's really cool to know :) You probably won't se this bc your comment is like 2 years old (as of July 2021) but this is still useful information
@kiiokotoriikitscrazyhesony82425 жыл бұрын
A TIP FROM SOMEONE WITH BAD DYSPHORIA: If you're like me and you have really indecisive dysphoria and the types of dysphoria switch every like five seconds, it's good to keep both a binder and a regular bra on you at all times just in case it hits really suddenly.
@teodove88596 жыл бұрын
For U.K. peeps Spectrum Outfitters are pretty good and safe binders, little more expensive than GC2B but you aren’t paying for international shipping or risking the £13 customs charge so it works out about the same! And it’s a trans owned and run business too :-) Also you can look up MORPH binder scheme in the U.K. and ask for their catalogue, they collect and rehome used or old binders and only ask that you pay postage generally. Otherwise you might find some being sold for slightly less than retail price in trans masc Facebook groups or free at trans and queer clothes swaps and the like so that might be an option
@TheOmnipotentPenguin6 жыл бұрын
Another tip: If you're starting T or to work out or both don't assume your binder size will stay the same. Some people have more fat than tissue in their chest, and if you're working out to gain muscle anywhere under a binder your physical measurements will change and especially if you're on the cusp between sizes it might bump you up or down a safe/effective size.
@elgatoamarillo6 жыл бұрын
If you want to be really discreet then I recommend underwork’s binding sports bra. It binds, it looks like a bra, you can exercise in it and you can probably convince your parents to buy you a bra.
@e.s.lavall92196 жыл бұрын
Several brands make "compression sports bras" and they work great for smaller chests.
@aurorakeenan87794 жыл бұрын
Ooh that might be useful for mee! Good thing I have sort of a small chest
@nemmy-editz86534 жыл бұрын
My mum literally said to me today “clothes shouldnt be gendered” and she bought me a playstation hoodie from the “boys” section and i almost cried when i got it :’)
@milesworld4263 жыл бұрын
yo thats so swaggy!! (i think at least)
@nemmy-editz86533 жыл бұрын
@@milesworld426 it is swaggy!! :D
@junkoenoshima27563 жыл бұрын
Your mum is awsome
@Heezbungus3 жыл бұрын
WOW-
@cheeseycheezy3 жыл бұрын
yay thats so great :D
@radioactivezombii55124 жыл бұрын
Binder tips that I use bc my dysphoria is so freaking bad: *Washing:* I usually start to run some lukewarm water in the sink and stick my binder in. I then get something like laundry detergent or even regular soap and rub the soap into parts of my binder like the armpit (especially inside out) and just keep lathering it in to places that have been discolored due to being dirty and worn often. I then rinse with slightly colder water and squeeze it out. Then repeat the process until clean. Then soak in fabric detergent and water for a little and squeeze and rinse a little. I then hang the binder in front of a fan and leave it on overnight. *Dysphoria while bathing:* When bathing, I like to wear swimming trunks and a t-shirt. If I can, I will also wear the binder for as long as I can in the bath/shower without getting it wet. And when I have to wash my torso, I close my eyes, take off the binder and try not to move very much, then put a shirt on and wash up. That’s all I have atm but I might update at some point. Hope this was helpful!
@robertgaymer81476 жыл бұрын
Hello Jake Peralta reference at the beginning, I wasn't expecting to see you here.
@bonnie50766 жыл бұрын
No doubt no doubt no doubt
@aryluxx55716 жыл бұрын
I dont own a binder, and I dont really know how my parents would react if I asked for one, I'm still trying to plan out how to talk to them about being called a different name and pronouns and stuff like that... I honestly dont know what to do ;~; and is 13 too young to start binding? Edit: my first binder just arrived! Thx for the tips, they were very much needed.
@nikhansen87756 жыл бұрын
There's a lot of growth that happens in your ribcage and stuff in adolescence before your growth plates fuse. Definitely talk to a doctor about it if you can. Best of luck talking to your parents! Maybe having a list of resources available for them would help? Also remember don't be completely discouraged if you don't get the response you want right away, sometimes it takes a while for people to come around.
@DannyRexouium6 жыл бұрын
@@nikhansen8775 especially if they're old fashioned
@alexso8205 жыл бұрын
Aarixtre don’t your breast might become flaps
@evann26285 жыл бұрын
How long did it take for you to get your binder?
@roscurro4 жыл бұрын
@carlhumanbcrab6 жыл бұрын
I have never used either but I like learning so this is only what ive heard but with kt tape im pretty sure it can damage your ribs by not allowing your chest to expand properly. It is also supposed to stay on for days - weeks at a time so taking it off early can cause scarring where you take the skin off with it which can make top surgery more complicated. However leaving it on until it peals off increases rib cage damages ESPECIALLY FOR YOUNGER PEOPLE WHOSE BONES AND CHEST ARE STILL GROWING. Trans tape i think is less sticky in comparison and stretchier making it safer to use but i still wouldnt call it safe - no method of binding is completely safe, not even binders.
@rezpickett71226 жыл бұрын
carlandthehumancrab I used to bind with KT Tape (I have an official binder now from GC2B, it works great), and KT even wrote an email about binding with it and the risks and pros. It's completely safe, unless you pull it too tight. In the case of removing it, they suggest removing it in the shower with water, or using baby oil. They also suggest using lotion before sticking it on.
@elliso.90786 жыл бұрын
Thank you for all the good information in this video. Also, another tip for those who can't have a binder shipped to their home: Underworks sells their binders through Amazon. This means that if there is an Amazon Locker in your area and you're able to get there, you can order a binder from Amazon, have it shipped to the locker, then pick it up there.
@mmtruooao83776 жыл бұрын
I haven't tried it, but I've heard that dance tops are a great alternative to a binder or sports bra because they compress more comfortably and it's meant for exercise
@toasty_tonsty2 жыл бұрын
Really?? Where can they be sold and how much do they cost
@eldritchbf82236 жыл бұрын
i wash my binder in the shower and hang it up on a coat hanger hooked under my desk to dry. i have two binders so i alternate washing them and it works pretty well!!
@ajaxbird23486 жыл бұрын
I found my new favorite label! Trans-masculine-ish.
@luke_the_cat66523 жыл бұрын
Great!
@sodig3256 жыл бұрын
Bruh I’ve been watching your videos for over a month and I just realized I wasn't subscribed I am disappointed in myself
@emsulanico6 жыл бұрын
Haha xD
@tylergriffin60626 жыл бұрын
Before and after I bind I do certain breathing patterns so once I get into it i can deal with the compression a bit better and this really helped when I first started binding but everyone has different experiences with it, and if yoy do have problems with it I usually try breathing with my diaphram so my chest won't get pushed out and hurt too much
@jackisnotabird6 жыл бұрын
I've also heard doing a few solid coughs after taking it off is helpful. Not sure on the science there so I didn't put it in the video, but it probably can't hurt, right?
@tylergriffin60626 жыл бұрын
I'll try it, it couldn't do any harm (:
@srthr69846 жыл бұрын
I was just looking for giveaways or ways to obtain a binder with no ways to get one yourself. This is perfect timing. Thank you so much for this opportunity and you're an actual saint. I've always loved you and your channel; I wish the absolute best for you and everything you have coming up. Thank you for all the tips and tricks. 💖💖💖
@toothdecay20016 жыл бұрын
lmao what a coincidence, my gc2b binder just came in today!!!! i love it so much! it flattens really well and is really breathable!!! if you can, i would definitely recommend you getting a gc2b binder!!! :-))
@dexsherman79624 жыл бұрын
how are you now? (2 years later)
@daxmarshel6 жыл бұрын
As my doc said today about heat and binding...it's almost Winter! I have to take mine off more frequently because of a scar and asthma. Be kind to yourself...you only get one body!👍
@gamerash86725 жыл бұрын
My friend is a saint...she said that for my Christmas/Birthday present she would get me a binder...my parents don't approve and her mom does! Her mom is like my other mom not joking!! I love her so much omgggggg i'm literally in tears right now. 0.0
@commandermickey5 жыл бұрын
Omg congrats!
@gamerash86725 жыл бұрын
@@commandermickey thank youuuu! I cry every time i read my comment XD
@commandermickey5 жыл бұрын
@@gamerash8672 XD Well im very happy for ya =>
@gamerash86725 жыл бұрын
@@commandermickey again thank you! ^^ 💕
@commandermickey5 жыл бұрын
@@gamerash8672 np! ^^
@carlhumanbcrab6 жыл бұрын
with binding companies - for british/ European people there is a company just starting out called spectrum outfitters. Ive heard that they are basically as good as gc2b with binding and comfort so it is worth researching them a bit as the shipping is cheaper and UK people wont have to pay the hidded custom charge that gc2b basically cheat with
@jasonxavier37446 жыл бұрын
You're a saint
@andrineslife6 жыл бұрын
And what a wonderful saint!
@heather195156 жыл бұрын
I hope not! You can’t be sainted until you’re dead
@artifedex6 жыл бұрын
To add with the hiding your chest while stealth- use patterns! I find when I’m out without a binder on, my plaid button ups are the best shirts to camouflage my chest even when not binding. Preferred not vertical stripes, and make sure the shirt is a size bigger, it tends to help mask the chest! (But also I have a smaller chest, like a A/B? Idk what the size actually is.... So take from this what you will)
@kbartlett27766 жыл бұрын
Not a tip, more of a relatable comment. There's always that moment when its like your first time trying to take off a binder You're alone in your room You do a little wiggle and flail You realize your face is stuck You accept your death The moment you give up it pops off with no effort
@rekimeki80703 жыл бұрын
SEA HAWK
@lime_zest2 жыл бұрын
T^T that's me
@sayopun6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the English subtitles! I'm not a native English speaker so they're so helpful
@burpingcricket6 жыл бұрын
I just get more dysphoric from binding. I’ve never found one that actually flattens my chest that much more than a sports bra and while wearing a binder I can feel my breast so much more as they are pressed against me, preventing me from breathing. While writing this I’m realizing how uncomfortable I am with everything concerning my chest. I hate sports braw straps weighing on my shoulders. I hate being without support and feeling the breasts bumping around. I’m suddenly much surer that surgery is the way to go... thanks. ^^
@PenguinGeri6 жыл бұрын
"I'm getting really hot" were you not already?
@jakenhite5 жыл бұрын
I wear binders from Underworks, and I love them! Recently bought one of their swimming binders and I like it, but it is difficult to get off when damp, I usually take it off when showering after swimming as it seems easier to take off when wet as opposed to damp. A lot of people have commented not to wear a binder when sleeping and I agree. I would add (seems obvious but adding it anyway) don't wear a binder when sick, especially if you have a cough. It's possible to injure yourself this way!
@heck28735 жыл бұрын
I’d watched this video multiple times already for hope and stuff when i was feeling down even though i didn’t have a binder, but i just got my first binder at models of pride yesterday. Thank you so much for all the information especially now that i can actually use it!
@Danny-wn1gn4 жыл бұрын
"Don't use ductape" * Looks down at ductaped chest* Oops
@carlossynnve21404 жыл бұрын
Bro noooooo
@noahdeluca96024 жыл бұрын
Ouchie
@Oops20074 жыл бұрын
aww shit dude u got a binder?
@eira723 жыл бұрын
Bro, get a binder
@Danny-wn1gn3 жыл бұрын
@@Oops2007 nope still dont
@msteresa6535 жыл бұрын
then i switched to a black binder... BECAUSE I'M GOTH
@shadowofthedarkness73213 жыл бұрын
Im emo trans guy fjdgsfsfsds
@emilyseale50044 жыл бұрын
One thing that has helped me while working out is just going in the early morning or late at night, it make me feel better because there are less people at those times. Good Luck!!!
@milesworld4263 жыл бұрын
my binder is sposed to b here tomorrow, in hella excited
@Kris-jr9yw4 жыл бұрын
I'm way too young to afford and discreetly get a binder so what I did was get one of my sports bras and take out the cups. I put it on but it did nothing so I flipped it over and folded the back and sewed it to make it a little bit tighter and it worked pretty well! Definetly not completely flat but it's a great start! Also to clean it, that shower idea was genius!I'll definitely be doing that!
@uhoh81505 жыл бұрын
yo i just gotta say, i love your attitude so much. you seem like such a nice and good person to be around
@periwinkle_hat6 жыл бұрын
Chase Ross does monthly binder giveaways as well! Thanks for the thorough video Jack!
@TheOmnipotentPenguin6 жыл бұрын
Outplay also makes swim tops that are essentially swim binders.
@eliontheinternet32986 жыл бұрын
Hey Jack! I met you at GeekyCon a couple of years ago but unfortunately wasn’t out and couldn’t tell you in person how much your videos mean to me. You inspire and encourage me to be myself, give me confidence in my body and identity, and gave me representation of myself before I even realized it was missing. I just want to say thanks for being you and more specifically for being willing to share yourself online with us. It really, truly helps. Thank you.
@reyskywalker99185 жыл бұрын
How the frick am I supposed to do this in PE? I HAVE TO CHANGE IN FRONT OF THE MEAN CATHOLICS!?
@caleshe92466 жыл бұрын
Haha. Getting my first binder, I used a piece of string to measure my chest and then approximated it against a notebook which I knew the measurement of. My first binder was also bought from a Visa giftcard.
@Avery_373 жыл бұрын
I like this guy's energy
@eurusgeesusway48136 жыл бұрын
Also, Jackson, thanks to you I've figured out my binder size!! I had to MacGyver it a little bit, but I figured out my size. Now hopefully I can actually get one somehow heh
@kaialexander59176 жыл бұрын
I don’t think KT Tape is super unsafe if you know what you’re doing, but if you’re going to try it don’t be like me and just wing it. One, it didn’t really work for my chest size (I’m about a c cup, or a small in gc2b binders). Two, I took it off the same day I put it on in the shower and it took a bit of my skin off with it, and now I have a lovely scar that I had to somehow explain to my parents. If you’re going to try KT Tape please please please do your research!! I don’t want to discourage more diy methods because I know that’s really all some people can manage, but please just be careful!
@DieezahArts3 жыл бұрын
My teenage daughter sent me a link to this video... I personally think she's really too young to do anything of the kind without taking unnecessary risks in terms of health, not to mention the fact that she might end-up having regrets... But I'm happy she found someone other than me to highlight the pros and cons of binding. When warnings come from a parent, one is often tempted to think it's just that parent trying to control their lives... At least, now I know a little bit more about binding compared to what I knew before and should my kid still think it a necessity in a year, I'll be better equipped to help her with getting what she needs. Thanks for the information!
@junkoenoshima27563 жыл бұрын
If they are binding they probably don't identify as a girl because they experience dysphoria just saying
@marceloconnor60915 жыл бұрын
I actually got my binder from a friend, he had an extra binder and let me use it. I’m extremely grateful
@Sneaky_Snail_Pie_023 жыл бұрын
Happy to have found a video guide about anything related to binding. I'm non-binary trans, buying my first binder from GC2B hopefully today. I've been using ace wraps in the past year and a half or so, which I know isn't safe just like you mentioned. I've even tried to one or 2 sizes to small bra/tank top method. That one works a bit better, especially with how active of a person I am. But I really do want an actual binder since they're safer. Edit: I'm really anxious about getting it in the mail, tbh. Been in the closet as LGBTQIA+ since I was 13, so 5 years now. Living with my conservative family still makes the fact I'm ordering one a little nerve-wracking, as happy as I am about it.
@robingoblin.5 жыл бұрын
im 13 and have been in need of tips for binding so this really helped, thank you!
@thepossibles21493 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much! I have DID and some of us aren't girls, so I am thinking about binding for some time. These tips are awsome! It's hard to find tips. I know, you made this for trans people, but because the guys have lots of disphoria, they simply Do not front and this is bad, because they have been in my life forever and to work out life without them is simply ... impossible.
@marq69293 жыл бұрын
I used to use an ace bandage too; over an undershirt to keep it in place. It didn't slip down, but there were times I definitely ended the day with sore ribs, so would not recommend xP I'm so grateful to have a real binder now.
@halbaer78715 жыл бұрын
I wore my new binder the first time today, struggled to get it on, but getting it off, it was HELL. I was panicking that I couldn't get it off, turns out that my technique should be different (I found that pushing it up to the top of my chest and pulling it over my back and shoulders from the back of it and then getting it off was the only thing that worked)
@unicornuncorn77234 жыл бұрын
does t make you confident because he definetly is one of the most confident men ive seen
@turdl386 жыл бұрын
off topic, but what's your bracelet, Jack? I think watch, but I'd love to see it in detail
@cosmowells64716 жыл бұрын
Sorry I have to submit twice cos I got something wrong hope ok really need and would love the binder x
@jackisnotabird6 жыл бұрын
You're good! I just won't count you twice when I randomly generate a winner.
@cosmowells64716 жыл бұрын
Jackson Bird thanks you vids are helping me so much as coming out trans man
@jesseberry75214 жыл бұрын
So glad i saw this vid i have a friend thats trying to bind with ace bandages also i need to know with the measuring Tape thing is it the number thats on the end of the gold part or before the gold part i severely suck at measuring
@chronohellraiser6 жыл бұрын
This is a really helpful video since I'm looking for a binder right now (and I've been trying to exercise more recently). so it's good to know what options are available and recommended. 😊
@winurpop5 жыл бұрын
Omg you probably just saved my life I recently started really stressing out because (yes I have a flat chest so I thought no one could it it.) someone at the store said "would you like that plastic or paper, MA'AM" and I started using duct-tape to bind. Thank you for informing me that that is not safe.
@dellpaney17854 жыл бұрын
Dang! This came out 2 years ago. I was going to apply for the binder give away. Well, I will just have to wait till I am older. Thank you for the tips, too! (:
@bronsonmcdonald54732 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jackson! Lots of great tips. Someone may have mentioned this already ( as this comment is years later) , but putting baby powder on before putting binder on can help.
@N0b0dykn0wsanym0r35 жыл бұрын
I haven't used a binder yet. I use sports bra instead, of course I'm a small enough chest size. At school, I wear a jacket that's about twice my size over a larger shirt. It helps me to not feel dysphoric. And yes, wearing anything that binds your chest hurts you when you work out. I have gym class everyday I'm school and I now change in the bathroom so I don't wear my tighter sports bras during the period I'm working out in. My teachers were super accepting when I explain that I wear things I have to take off before working out.
@kaiwatson11835 жыл бұрын
just bought a binder and it's arriving in a few days! I'm so excited!!!
@francisluke47396 жыл бұрын
I use an old swimming costume cut and folded (it doesn't bind as well but is safer to exercise in as the material ext is meant to be used when exercising) for PE and stuff
@maboimarki6 жыл бұрын
You can wear GC2B binders in water. They are made of swim safe material. As well as spectrum outfitters binder.
@starman_max4 жыл бұрын
I don't has binder, so I just stack a bunch of undershirts on top of each other, but before that I was going to use bandages until I saw this video! Thanks for the warning! :)
@rhiankidd28766 жыл бұрын
That is so awesome It's so great so many trans youtubers are doing giveaways!
@beeperscreepers42634 жыл бұрын
What's the safest way to bind if you don't have a binder? I've been doing the sports bra method and even doing the Camisol method.
@mister65994 жыл бұрын
What's the Camisol method?
@midorishiwa6 жыл бұрын
If you are in France on the 24th of September there is a binder try on + sale at the lesbian bar La Mutinerie, if you are French you know shipping costs are ridiculous so it's a nice way to find the right size for you and avoid prohibitive shipping
@katiemundine78305 жыл бұрын
My friend bought me one thank god She knew I wanted won but I couldn't buy one on line cuz my mom would see it so thank you jamilyn
@alteredalex4 жыл бұрын
Whew- I'm transitioning and real glad I took the time to look it up.
@sadiaholt83864 жыл бұрын
I know this is an older video, but I just ordered my first binder and I'm so excited about it😍
@kimhoft57596 жыл бұрын
Question: you mentioned GC2B and Underworks (these two I know). Which is the third company you mentioned?
@nikolasslead65825 жыл бұрын
so my first binder was a really cheap one off ebay that didnt do shit but the next one i got was one from GC2B which was better and i was on the edge between XS and S so i got the larger one which turned out to be a really good decision because im really prone to panic attacks and i tend to run everywhere so if you are between two sizes and you are debating which one to get, purchase the larger size, your body will thank you (and getting the binder on is easier) its especially good if you are like me and you're out of the house from early in the morning (for school especially, you gotta put that shit on at like 6 am or be late) and you have practice and rehersals until 8 or 9 (or later if you stay out with friends and stuff)
@Tinivee6 жыл бұрын
I've never seen anyone on youtube talk about them but Shapeshifters is another binder company that's really great! You can get any kind of pattern you can imagine, and they're tailored to your measurements, in addition to doing some things for free, like wider or thiner straps, flaring out the bottom so it doesn't roll up as much, etc. They cost a bit more and take longer (I believe they're down to 3 week turn around time) because of the varied patterns and the custom make, but if you get from their normal stock they're not that much more expensive than GC2B. They also do monthly giveaways usually only one or two, in addition to having a fund people can donate to for extra giveaways.
@idontknow50343 жыл бұрын
I just got my first binder I'm really happy :)
@reginahahan0bye8516 жыл бұрын
This is such a great video. Just got my first binder and was a little confused. This helps so much! Thank you.
@GeeklyGraceGeeksOfTheWorld6 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, I really needed the guilt trip so maybe I'll be more safe now with my binding.
@maddoxorndorff51696 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much for putting the links ive been using ace bandage for a while because someone cut up my binder in gym class so again thank u for putting the links in the description 😊
@day-jay16306 жыл бұрын
Someone cut up yr binder in gym class?! How, why?! What the heck
@maddoxorndorff51696 жыл бұрын
Spunky Foxka we have to change in gym class and when i walked into the locker room it was all cut up
@sadnerd9366 жыл бұрын
your energy in this video made me super happy
@roboboyjinx3096 жыл бұрын
I literally just got my first(correct fitting) binder from a give away today!!! I feel so much better in this one and can breathe and move without pain. I wanna say that like the Visa card idea, gc2b does amazon pay!(I know amazon sucks but if it’s all you have, it’s a really good idea!) So if you have an amazon card from a holiday or anything like that, you can buy it from there!!!
@FruitySalad1185 жыл бұрын
I would also recommend shapeshifters binders because they do custom sizing and have a crap ton of different colors and patterns
@firesoup97556 жыл бұрын
Gosh I wish I could enter the giveaway, I'm not very sure that my family is okay with me being trans though
@nikhansen87756 жыл бұрын
Is it possible for you to get it sent to a supportive friend? That way you at least don't have to worry about your family seeing it in the mail.
@firesoup97556 жыл бұрын
Sadly no, most of my friend's parents aren't very accepting of trans people.
@nikhansen87756 жыл бұрын
:( That is the worst
@evann26285 жыл бұрын
Yea same, but I entered it anyways and hopefully my parents won’t notice nor question it
@lgbtqtiktoks12313 жыл бұрын
Are there any binders that you can wear when working out abs stuff?
@15TrueLou6 жыл бұрын
I accidentally got a size too large for my first one and it worked really well for me to begin with. It was more comfortable and still constricted a lot but was easier to get in to.
@fasai3656 жыл бұрын
I’ve used bandages before and it was really painful. It got so bad one time where I almost passed out and was struggling to get it off. Luckily I’m still here, alive, and my trans friend gave me one of his old binder so I’m really grateful. I’ve also tried multiple sports bras and couldn’t breath....