Type 3 (The Achiever) Enneagram Type Description With Richard Rohr

Richard Rohr describes the enneagram type 3 and it's place in integration.
Watch the rest of the lecture here: • The Enneagram: The Dis...

[@jordanapodaca364]

Some things I learned from this about myself: 1. I realized that I am more impressive in a group than one on one. And this has been eating me up lately. 2. I really do, deep down, want to be ordinary. And yet, that is the scariest idea: to just let go of my ambition. 3. We all want to suppress shame by doing. 4. Integrating to 6: I need to recover a respect for tradition and ritual.

[@HxH2011DRA]

Good luck to ya sir

[@MachineGunBambi]

Jordan Apodaca I feel u

[@TotalRejectEllen]

The point about being more impressive in a group really hit home, but I can’t quite figure out why. I can stand on stage and be charismatic, so why do I come away from a one-on-one feeling like I didn’t give as much of myself, or give the other person what they wanted? Hopefully I’ll come to understand what that is..

[@erosyong8914]

I feel you. I now understand why I picked up the book Ordinary by Michael Horton. "By learning to embrace the ordinary, you will find contentment and a sustainable faith in the hidden and humble places."

[@angeldela7633]

What do you mean eating you up? So, you don’t want to be that way?

[@mylesnmore]

I think my biggest takeaway is that we want to "look" we have it all together over being together with our deeper self.

[@Flowergirl222]

All of this is so accurate and explains the tear in my heart that I have always felt. Right now I’m on a path of self reflection and healing. I don’t have a choice because I had my epic failure. Thank you for making this!

[@3einig753]

uz

[@mundanejane353]

Same with me. I have academic problems because I lack a social life so no matter how hard I work, I don't get anywhere

[@NightOwl_30]

Damn. This felt like a therapy session lol

[@9Steps2Ugly]

I’m a 9 and my husbands a 3. He could barely stand listening to 9 we made 4 minutes -‘arg I can’t listen to this , this is so frustrating’. Now listening to 3 ‘well this is pretty great right, I haven’t heard anything bad yet’ 😂

[@andreatilsley1946]

I think you'll get a lot out of this podcast - The Rise Podcast, EP 8 on 23 Aug 2018. Rachel is a 3 and her husband is a 9 and the guy explains so well the dynamics of a relationship like that

[@everydayblakli]

I’ve never had something describe me so perfectly! Even myself as a child! I’m blown away! Definitely buying your book!

[@angeldela7633]

Blakli Lawrence Vlogs why do you think you are this way?

[@megalaughs89]

I'm typ 3 and I feel exactly same. I was shocked. This is exactly me.

[@myfamily9393]

I'm type 3 and I've never understood by people around me and even myself better than now. I didnt even know about enneagrams.

[@audreylausterer9832]

This was the most fantastic lecture I have ever heard... i'm speechless

[@renatarocha8561]

just listened to 30 minutes of myself and i love it!

[@Jen18812]

I’m a Type 9 and this video highlights how I would thrive at my healthy 3 integration point. It’s so spot-on. I also learned a lot about a particular person in my life from watching this video. Thank you.

[@ManCrow360]

Hiya a 7w8 Here! You Three's are Incredible! And each and every one of you will leave a significant mark on this world! Goodluck to you all!

[@leebarbs7176]

Throughout my life I tested from 7w8, to 8w7, to finally 3w4 now that I've settled down quite a bit in older age so I can personally attest to a strong kinship among 7s/8s/& 3s lol lots and lots of overlap

[@SoFine163]

I always thought i was 7w8 but then i realized its just my personality because im an ENTP and not my true core/drive/fear which is type 3 i want to be the most social , charming, funny ä, energetic and adventorus because i want to be the best and admired not just because of my own wants its a need to impress. Its so importsnt to me that i matter to others.

[@josephfrg2035]

what the hell this is so accurate

[@InnerBeautyOut]

1000%

[@Therabrii]

Wow! I’m at a loss for words. This was so insightful.

[@MachineGunBambi]

TLDR WE DED INSIDE

[@AbbeyHowe]

LOL

[@cnc06]

* sad emoji * ;(( ;P

[@bazalbaz]

Cried about 5 times listening to this

[@PlutoniaFreeBandz]

Lol no bull 🥱

[@Kayaz48]

Noooo! We’re not!! When we are deeeply alone and with ourselves we know this, it’s a yearning heart.

[@JG-vj7lm]

I cried inside. I never wanted my mum to go to my track and field meets when I was in school even though she offered to because I was scared that she wouldn't love me anymore. Yep, just cried man. Fuck. That's hard to take in and stomach.

[@MeliMeli66]

He accurately predicted the US president from 2016-2020. All you have to do is to have a winner's face and to talk like a winner and that's our president---so accurate.

[@2804ccr]

This described me 100%. Very amazing

[@anastasiakalaitzakis4227]

LOVE YOU Fr Richard Rohr..... how can the virtue be integrity and the sin be deceit. If you have integrity you don't usually deceive people.

[@debrachambers1304]

A lot of these behaviors describe me but the core motivation of the affirmation of others is very unlike me.

[@RgWskate]

Lmao, at first I wanted to discredit this completely. I was instructed to take the official Enneagram full personality test by my job at the time. Decided I'd go back and REALLY look at my results. I tested as a type 3. After watching a few videos including this one, I completely dismissed the idea of a "type 3" solely because of all the comments on these videos saying "That's so me." or "Literally me." I think I was worried I was just falling into a rabbit hole of astrology-esque pseudoscience. Said all this to say, I think it's telling of my faults that I dismiss the idea entirely because I see others acknowledging their own type. Or in other words, I'm type 3 enough that I didn't even want to acknowledge it on the basis that I'm not unique or special. I'm competitively viewing my own personality type. Christ lol. Sorry to all you who have do deal with us. Yikes.

[@ashleynicoledickerson8844]

I'm officially convinced the worst thing for someone to make long-lasting personal connections is a 3 ENTJ Virgo

[@jillitina1]

Well, I aced that checklist. Shoot.

[@GwenceesH]

I am a 3 ENTJ Virgo...

[@lilitbroyan]

I am a 3 INTJ Virgo

[@elliejoy89]

3 ENFJ Virgo 😭

[@AliyehSeneca]

I am a 3 INFJ Virgo.

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

3 pleases systems, pleasing communities/playing the crowd.

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

As opposed to a personal connection

[@ErickaCorban]

This was so insightful and helpful! Thank you!!!

[@Venefica_me]

I'm both scared and amazed. I've never heard any professional casually describing my inner self so precisely 😂

[@spreadlove2628]

I'm a 5 trying to learn about 3, I feel bad that 3s think that they have to creat things for people to love them. But, other wise y'all sound like good people.

[@renatarocha8561]

THIS GUY KNOWS TOO MUCH

[@Lydia-pw1if]

I feel very called out rn

[@aodhanodonnell2148]

I really like this guy i dont know why

[@thefirsthero5266]

Wow. I cried inside, i wish i cried outside. <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="95">1:35</a> its like its seeing right through me.

[@gabysoto7663]

Wow, I feel so understood during this season of my life. I was a strong 2, about 6 years ago. I recently took the test again, and I am now a strong 3. It’s so crazy how much has happened since then.

[@bazalbaz]

Also made the transition clockwise. By the start of this year I thought I was a hardcore 1, but after working in retail for 6 months and being so social I've come out a 3! Love how we change and experience reveals things about us.

[@jackiem6728]

You might be a 3w2

[@DamyanTenev]

Im a 9 and i love my best friend who is esfp 3.Im somewhat jelous of his assertiveness and his ability to LIE people to get the desored result.What he don't see is that asserive behaviour can cause problems to others.He said that i don't make mistakes which is not true

[@JulietTheGirl]

Very, very accurate!!!!

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Self-esteem only comes from competence in the outer world.

[@nikoletacude8721]

Being 3w2 enfj is the worst combination... I swear everyone think I am fake but I don't think I am 🤔

[@ginniorth2830]

When you realize your "product" is relationships and that you sell yourself to give what you think other people want in your relationships... Or maybe just me 😆

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

1s are righteous. 3s are ambitious.

[@sharonstevenson5122]

Hmm sounds like a Scorpio. Really enjoyed this talk.

[@yallsfuturepresident]

I was thinking I might be a three, but I’m not terrified of being unloveable. This enneagram stuff is hard - but I’m too cheap to pay $12 for a test when I can buy something practical with that lol

[@megalaughs89]

oh my GOD, this is exactly me...

[@truthbound4323]

Dudes literally reading me like book

[@user-tr4pf8gn8m]

I've asked what the point of a gathering was, and was told that it was just to hang out with friends, and I was surprised. I might be a 3.

[@ilovemyself2028]

Omg I keep giving people and friends "products" I don't know how to just be a friend it's so weird. It's either the comedian or the teacher

[@holisticallyfitsquad8120]

3 here!

[@Cocobrown4374]

For those who say Donald Trump is an 8 not an 3. Most books say that 3 can sometimes look like an 8, but in there core their a 3. So the question you should ask yourself is from Donald Trump core what does he care about the most looking good or challenging people.

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Be apart from their role and image.

[@patricksbestie724]

why is this so true-

[@asdff7279]

And what’s your poiint

[@celesteburley4035]

Are Fr. Rohr's other videos on the Enneagram types available on KZbin? (They're not listed in the "More" details.) Thank you:-)

[@hkay1300]

This man has read me for filth.

[@sonne2351]

What kind of a Quacksalber is this?

[@megantucker9871]

mentions 3 need to go home and decompress, what if your spouse is also a 3?

[@milesofmxments]

You can be that for each other

[@bazalbaz]

You have a perfect understanding for each other then. Just hold hands and scream at the top of a cliff.

[@discipledesigned]

@@bazalbaz LOL

[@darrenjameslamban]

I dont think a 3 would marry a 3 as well😅

[@talmagerichardson5575]

as a 3, i listen to information about 3s to boost my ego? lol i take the good and forget the bad

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Making money will not satisfy the soul.

[@sechale]

Holy cow ... the 3 pleases systems. AIN’T THAT THE TRUTH lolol

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

Is your life your own?

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

3s must suffer a great defeat for the sake of their soul.

[@KS-op5hb]

Chelsea Handlers book brought me here

[@ellcally508]

Gasp

[@oooo1743]

As a 9 i really like 3s

[@HM_00702]

INTP 3 idk how I exist because I can't do well in groups.

[@lailaflorane]

Which Pope was he referring to? Pope John Paul II of Pope Francis I?

[@andreapring3761]

JP 2 I think. Fits with the martha stewart timeline.

[@DryNox]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="900">15:00</a>

[@evecrabapple8413]

I feel attacked.

[@WeAreYouthCulture]

Who was the pope at the time of this recording

[@madeleine1767]

It looks like this DVD was recorded in 2004, so the Pope would have been John Paul II (in office 1978 to 2005).

[@mpiazza000]

Richar rohr i agree alot of what you have to say but u r getting a lot of typing wrong. Martha stewart is a 1 not 3

[@CareFreeCommuting]

mpiazza000 agreed

[@CareFreeCommuting]

And Rob Bell is a 3 not a 7 (otherwise I’m a 7 not a 3 lol)...but they get that one wrong a lot as well.

[@francoispicard1503]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="585">9:45</a>

[@studytap9538]

I took the test. I am a 3 apparently but I don’t feel like I am a 3. Is this normal?

[@MirthCap]

I mean, i guess so. 3's are one of the 'out of touch' triad, I'm a 6 and some doesn't feel resonate with until I'm fully aware of my doings.

[@eliallorca5096]

Don’t trust tests do your own researchs

[@jelmerskalleberg6987]

Maybe sp 3 or sexual 3 Look up the subtypes from Beatrice chestnut you get your answer there

[@bjspencer3080]

As a President Trump was in my opinion the healthiest three ...if hes is that ive ever seen.

[@makeupbyshelbidavis]

3w2

[@maryam-rl5ol]

Shelbi Bay Davis same

[@johndowns4161]

same

[@chacema5449]

This me

[@stephaniewarner7695]

Ummm hello- Yes

[@sechale]

Oh man min 15 another one ... the role reassures them that they have worth. Eh ... yeah. Basically yeah

[@artbymesoma]

Is it weird that I’m good one to one than in groups ?😂 I’m sx/so

[@jelmerskalleberg6987]

Same here ! Sexual 3 don’t like to promote themselves but they promote others. More shy and sweet. It’s the pleasing that is the goal.

[@Sknyloc]

Damn am I a 3

[@HxH2011DRA]

Puritan energy

[@angelienespeedometer424]

😭😭😭😭

[@answerback-films655]

man I just watched this guy completely destroy the 6...and looking at his other stuff he is ignoring the deterioration points and dwells on the good things on every single type but the six which he see's as postal shooters...cant trust a guy with such imbalanced repoorting...anyway heres what Don Riso who knew Gurdjev said about deteriorated 3's Become vindictive, attempting to ruin others' happiness. Relentless, obsessive about destroying whatever reminds them of their own shortcomings and failures. Psychopathic behavior. Generally corresponds to the Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

[@goatphilososphy]

The achiever is the the Jew

[@barbarasfdavis]

Did not like the flippant reference to the Pope. He's the finest in generations. This remark, meant to ask you to be more conscious, comes from a Buddhist.

[@mpiazza000]

He said donald trump is a 3. What?! How can he be so wrong

[@OsakaSyndrome]

he's an 8

[@gamleskalle1]

8

[@gamleskalle1]

A 3 wouldn't have that hair! Lol

[@KS-op5hb]

I read he is an 8

[@brokendoll4116]

President Trump is definitely an 8 ! Everyone's wrong sometimes, regardless of how good they are.

[@stefs1155]

No doubt Trump is an 8 though

[@OsakaSyndrome]

It's true

[@nataliehale2312]

this is not spiritual truth... Mans perception of man..... God's not a an intelligent, nor a philosopher... hes a Spirit he takes the foolish things of the world to confound the wise....

[@johndee3301]

The darkside is strong with this one. Impressive media control from this group! Almost total suppression of any kind of review, or criticism of this "enneagram". Good SEO control. Totally evil, but effective. Looks like a cult.

[@isaacd.9986]

?

[@robertguard3923]

Lol, it's a lecture dude

[@j.hernandez983]

@@robertguard3923 no bro it's deeper we're a cult 😆 this guy.

[@ep8477]

And now Donald Trump (a 3) is president!!!

[@Cocobrown4374]

For those who say Donald Trump is an 8 not an 3. Most books say that 3 can sometimes look like an 8, but in there core their a 3. So the question you should ask yourself is from Donald Trump core what does he care about the most looking good or challenging people

[@Cocobrown4374]

@@rentetier yes that's true

[@lieselsmal1552]

This video is from 2004

[@francoispicard1503]

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