Understanding the Unhealed Empath

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Candace van Dell

Candace van Dell

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@louisehogan8192
@louisehogan8192 3 жыл бұрын
My sister used to send me a quote “when you were born into world that you don’t fit in, it’s because you are here to change it”
@underdoggys5415
@underdoggys5415 2 жыл бұрын
Love that thought💛
@Sionapink48
@Sionapink48 4 жыл бұрын
Healing is a beautiful journey yet painful, I think pain is apart of growth. I was born an empath along with other gifts, I am worthy of love and prosperity.
@mariacraft249
@mariacraft249 4 жыл бұрын
Often have Narc family members.
@moshiachhasawakened6781
@moshiachhasawakened6781 4 жыл бұрын
They train you to become emotional solid. They are an expression of your insecurities to fully step into your very own responsibility and not not care anymore about getting blamed for mistakes. Mistakes are the soil for learning. That's why narcissists don't learn. They fear to get blamed for mistakes so much that they not only try to avoid them at all costs but also blame others for mistakes before others can blame them. And for the case they get blamed they memorize mistakes of others to have plenty of ammonitions to shoot back all they can.
@kevinseraphimday6373
@kevinseraphimday6373 4 жыл бұрын
That's me
@amyzielinski6239
@amyzielinski6239 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. Just recently pulled away from narcissistic mother, brother, aunt and sister in law. Not to mention the separation from my narcissistic husband over a year ago.
@jc8258
@jc8258 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed
@naama3636
@naama3636 4 жыл бұрын
Ohh... I know what you mean! I'm a HSP and I can sense even the smallest energy changes of the people in my life, I also consider myself emotionally intelligent, but I have a wound. I have a hard time dealing with other's passive-aggressive behaviors (especially with my parents and my boss, authority issues? IDK... lol). Ever since I was a child until now (and I'm a grown a** woman) I have this naive expectation that everyone I know will sincerely smile at me when they see me, and keep the same level of energy between us, and when they don't I take it so personally. And while I get that people can go through so many sh** in life that has nothing to do with me, I keep on failing in the same stupid "test" of validation... It's like no smile/good energy=no love...
@naama3636
@naama3636 4 жыл бұрын
​@Gehn Saavedro You're right, I know I deserve to be loved the way I need and want... but I've been slowly teaching myself to settel for less, just so it won't hurt as much. And also because as a crystal adult I have a responsibility to be aware of what I reflect... for everyone's sake ;-)
@naama3636
@naama3636 4 жыл бұрын
@@lewislister7720 I appreciate the advice, but you know what.. I don't really need to behave like that to understand. I think I'll just keep on doing what "I know"... try to be a source of light and love to others and hope they'll find some comfort in it :-) BTW, I strongly recommend meditation over any medication ;-) Much love to you ❤️
@naama3636
@naama3636 4 жыл бұрын
@@robertcullen7042 ​Yes! It can be overwhelming and exhausting. As HSP we're experiencing the world with our six senses at much higher intensity than others, especially our intuition and emotions... it's so tiring I know. But, I also feel it's a blessing. I want to believe it's our destiny, our mission here on earth- to be like a sponge that absorbs all kinds of bad energies (fear, anger, sadness...) and somehow "stop it from spreading". Just by being here with our high frequency of love we have the power to help other raise their vibrations and help them become more aware. So yeah... even though it may not seem to be in our "personal favor" right now, little by little we'll see the collective consciousness raising and this is something I find a lot of comfort in because we are all one.
@notavailable708
@notavailable708 3 жыл бұрын
@@naama3636 hey u not alone. Same here
@Freespiritedqueen
@Freespiritedqueen 3 жыл бұрын
I think it has to do with where we belong so much so and the those that belong with us🙂. We may be living in the wrong system, state, city, country, or culture that is oppressive. Can't heal in the place of oppression or lack of opportunity, if that helps anyone. I love this lady because she so far is talking about those that aren't healed and may never heal. Others talk about healing but the flip side?
@Godisgreat-777
@Godisgreat-777 4 жыл бұрын
Our mental health system is failing many MANY people by immediately medicating people... which is causing even more suffering and I personally know several people dead to those poisons. We all simply need healthy coping mechanism. My higher power has been the most vital part of my healing.
@cat5985
@cat5985 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly what happened to me
@johncorson6599
@johncorson6599 4 жыл бұрын
M Mm so very true
@markflierl1624
@markflierl1624 4 жыл бұрын
In this world, almost everything is the opposite of the way things should be. Most of our mental health professionals are crazy. If you do the opposite of what you are told, you will probably be on the right path.
@louisehogan8192
@louisehogan8192 3 жыл бұрын
@@markflierl1624 I think empathy have all had that realization at some point. This world; everything is flipped opposite and done the opposite way than the realm we come from and are connected to. For us it’s obvious how things should be done and we see so deeply through the bs but most others don’t do we are here to help them raise their consciousness
@TeraMangala
@TeraMangala 4 жыл бұрын
Since most of us are secretly oppressed by our lack of freedom, we are drawn to those who are more fluid and flaunt their difference.
@danielriccardi1706
@danielriccardi1706 3 жыл бұрын
for many many years!? You don't look a day over 25! Love your clips Candace
@KS-ne5mq
@KS-ne5mq 3 жыл бұрын
It breaks me down more being told about my sensitivities practically everyday how it impacts their life.
@Angell_Lee
@Angell_Lee 3 жыл бұрын
Candace, I love you. You are saving lives!!
@aquariandragonhare8953
@aquariandragonhare8953 4 жыл бұрын
You knocked it out of the park. You are so right. Thank you.
@cocohitchman3209
@cocohitchman3209 4 жыл бұрын
You should watch “Birds of Prey” it’s quite a good example of mental illness/Co dependency on a woman falling in love with a psychopath were in the end she understands her madness! Helped me a bit 😄
@GullerudGallery
@GullerudGallery 4 жыл бұрын
Too often American society seems unable to appreciate empathic ways and journeys. So yes, we need to find the validation from within.
@kdorsey8881
@kdorsey8881 3 жыл бұрын
I love this... and I love your jacket! Also your so beautiful💕
@carlypastore
@carlypastore 4 жыл бұрын
“Our SYSTEM has created structures based on ONE way of thinking that’s REALLY outdated” Outstanding Candace 🙏😇Thank you for creating a community that so many people can truly resonate with. Highly sensitive or not, your content is always so relevant to every soul 💕
@luminate4419
@luminate4419 4 жыл бұрын
its not just outdated it just didnt work.
@terryrustad1800
@terryrustad1800 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! .... So True.... Relationship dynamics, patterns, emotional invalidation. A wealth of great information in a concise video! Thank You Candace van Dell! Love & Gratitude! : )
@taz5687
@taz5687 3 жыл бұрын
I've been medicated and locked in mental homes since I was 14. I always new I had gifts but after years of being told I'm nuts and locked away I just stayed away from everyone and kept myself to myself now my family are starting to realise everything I was warning the about came true now they don't want me on meds but I feel the damiged has already been done.
@alwaysbroken9283
@alwaysbroken9283 3 жыл бұрын
😢 I’m sorry 💔
@taz5687
@taz5687 3 жыл бұрын
@@alwaysbroken9283 thanks but it's ok now I guess I just spend my time helping animals these days as it keeps me going.
@alwaysbroken9283
@alwaysbroken9283 3 жыл бұрын
@@taz5687 I feel like I am cursed, I never knew why my emotions were so strong, but reading all of this, I now know for certain that this is a curse for not standing up for myself when I was a child
@taz5687
@taz5687 3 жыл бұрын
@@alwaysbroken9283 your not cursed at all . It may feel like it but your not .
@aNnAkt1qw
@aNnAkt1qw 3 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@oldschoolman1444
@oldschoolman1444 4 жыл бұрын
Expectations of other is resentments in the waiting. Unhealed = mental case = overly sensitive.
@Aceldama013
@Aceldama013 4 жыл бұрын
Haven’t read the comments yet but theres alot of us love to all empath s an strong empath!! Is our homework!!! ✨✨ love an golden light beautiful soul s
@yooperviking2515
@yooperviking2515 3 жыл бұрын
INFJ Empath in a listening and observe rest. It’s amazing.
@Sarah-KateH
@Sarah-KateH 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you…healing atm.
@williambuchanan77
@williambuchanan77 4 жыл бұрын
Empaths living in a society that is run by the opposite end of the conscious spectrum are most likely to experience trauma that leaves them wounded emotionally, family members who are also the opposite end of the conscious spectrum usually control that family making empaths quite vulnerable emotionally.
@dariv5615
@dariv5615 4 жыл бұрын
I only get sad when I forget my natural position in life which has happened a few times. It hurts enough and long enough that I bounce out of that dark place and get on with stuff and let people you liked/loved go ahead and chase things that never seem to make them happy. I should have cut out negative people and chosen my friends more carefully and focused on myself.
@williambuchanan77
@williambuchanan77 4 жыл бұрын
Basically you've been under attack from childhood and all through your life just like me. We live in a society where lies are commonly asserted on society, those who dare to challenge these lies often come under attack. Not all wars are fought by the use of weapons as we know them, a war on consciousness is basically a battle between those who have dark intentions and those who just want a better world free of darkness.
@dariv5615
@dariv5615 4 жыл бұрын
@@williambuchanan77 Right. I've seen unjust behavior rewarded, been abused by people who shouldn't do that to you and ignored in love. I do not hate but try to understand and be kind anyhow.
@williambuchanan77
@williambuchanan77 4 жыл бұрын
If it's in your nature to be kind the opposite end of the conscious spectrum seem to target you, maybe it's because they see it as a threat to their power. They mimic friendly and approachable but they're the exact opposite. There is ways of dealing with them without stopping to their level but that takes experience research and a high level of mental skill, basically you have to learn skills every cop should have.
@williambuchanan77
@williambuchanan77 4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about a detective collective a while ago, a group of people who strive to learn how to investigate, cut through the bullshit and find the truth. What is investigated is not important, it's a process of constantly sharpening those skills. Intuition research solving riddles puzzle and things like that. The first time I investigated anything was to find out exactly what was up with this UFO thing, my findings uncovered the against side was full of lies and threats, the other side pointed towards a long history of alien activity on earth and their influences on most aspects of our current society.
@CryptoProphet
@CryptoProphet 4 жыл бұрын
That was fantastic, so spot on and straight to the point. This is exactly how I have been healing on the deepest levels over the past few months. You just put words on it.
@Neakez
@Neakez 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, love your calm talking style and way of explaining. It is very clear. Super!
@eessa1727
@eessa1727 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your book❤. I am currently healing and it has given me so much insight. It took a flip after a life changing incident, now it's mostly me in my world and careful of who I bring in to it.🙏🙏
@TheDiveWatcher
@TheDiveWatcher 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my, I have so much more than a book I want to say from the early unknowingly struggles and a generalized confusion, then to hiding behind the almost went pro in baseball and being exceptional in tennis and basketball up until 36. I suppose lastly in school being popular but I was often mistaken by a some as thinking I was better because I interacted with very few unless I was playing my passion out or carrying my if you will creativity out through sports. I never enjoyed having to be outgoing and dynamic although when there was a need, I did and I still do very well. People whom I didn't know at the time that I was there for and making sure I uplifted them or ensuring them that they weren't alone that I was right there and some would be people I hardly knew. Bottom line as I said back then and I still do to this day. I care. I wished I didn't at times and often times these days but no matter how frustrated, how exhausted or fed up, dammit I simply care. My loyalty had been my kryptonite and my expectations of others not to do anything for me in return other than respect me or be whom you say you are which is to say when I allow myself to interact, I'm repeatedly let down because I see all people I meet I cross paths with for whom I hope they are and it's not until I'm shafted a couple times that I finally see them as whom they truly are. Wanted to say your work your ideals and your projection is awesome girl. I am going to catch some more of your vlogs and I'm sure, join. I have a TON I'd like or want to contribute. Keep up the awesome and positive energy and I enjoyed the your vlog divinely. Kashton
@ramsechavez
@ramsechavez 3 жыл бұрын
Don't know what I am. I just know I have intensely felt emotions since I was very young. Like I questioned oh I was at 4 like I felt like I was someone else in a different body. Drugs self worship of darkness hate and 20 yrs later.. Sober, taking care of my mom and I feel love finally. Love has changed my life. I lead with love now instead of hate. Hate is lack love is true. Ego was destroying my life, no more. Love you all.
@LaybackDre
@LaybackDre 4 жыл бұрын
For some reason for the last couple months I’ve been feeling dull. It’s like I can’t sense anything anymore, I was once an empath and now I can’t sense anyone anymore I don’t know why but I want it back.
@cosmicbooger2655
@cosmicbooger2655 4 жыл бұрын
I've been feeling this for the past 2-3 years as well. I went crazy because feeling deeply is what made me who I am. Even though being an empath is both a blessing and a curse, I would take it over anything because that's my true power. That's all of the empaths true power. I searched for answers relentlessly. I came across compassion fatigue, shutting down/ disassociation or soul loss because of trauma, and so on. Just yesterday I made some more developments in why I've turned so apathetic and numb, and it had to do with the fact that at one point, there was an overload in emotions, and a person's passive-aggressive and aggressive behaviors were the final straw in me shutting everything off. I unconsciously did it. Sometimes the emotions that come storming in can really overcome everything and it becomes overbearing. It can already be overbearing when you feel someone's discomfort, embarrassment, negativity, egoism, or hurt. So traumatic experiences where people are relentless in hurting you can really do it to an extreme. Now I'm at a different place where I am free from negative/toxic/abusive people, and I'm starting to let myself listen to my feelings throughout the day or after conversations. Where-as in the last 2-3 years I've ignored my feelings and thoughts for the benefit of others and not to invoke upheaval in anyone. I take it very very slowly.
@vectorequilibrium4493
@vectorequilibrium4493 4 жыл бұрын
2020 is the year of self! Work on yourself and take a step back, maybe. Your not the messiah. ☮️❤️🕉😁 I know I am!? Creating my reality.
@fmjwest8296
@fmjwest8296 4 жыл бұрын
LaybackDre It’s the overload of narcissism and cruelty, greed and a total lack of empathy as the world degrades. Empaths can only take so much because we must for our survival sake switch off.
@vectorequilibrium4493
@vectorequilibrium4493 4 жыл бұрын
FMJ West Sometimes, yes. But things are changing fast. A good paradigm shift is coming soon. I can feel it. Know thyself ☮️❤️🕉
@jenster29
@jenster29 4 жыл бұрын
@@vectorequilibrium4493 feeling that too lately. I am very positive about the future and I haven't felt that in quite some time., ❤️
@indigoartist1898
@indigoartist1898 2 жыл бұрын
I've watch all your videos and it's helped me understand myself more clear. I know there is no way at this point for me to join any master classes, but I hope to do it in the future. Everything that is mentioned is Everything I go though or feel. On point!
@simonthomas3740
@simonthomas3740 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! I'm a therapist and have it that I should know and I can handle myself. I got into a really shameful dialogue with a family member that's left me questioning. Your video really clarifies some of what happened. Thank you :)
@cchristinax7284
@cchristinax7284 4 жыл бұрын
I love you, angel 💕 thank you for doing this work it is VERY much needed.
@fidelitycreate
@fidelitycreate 4 жыл бұрын
The first half of this video really resonated with me I'm not sure what you mean by "the thing that reflects your unworthiness". My parents reflect my inadequacies. I think I am worthy of my Twin Flame but I don't know without knowing what she thinks. I know she is my twin flame because I know her as I know myself. She is exactly what I have been waiting for my whole life. I am going to tell her how I feel. Where we go from there is up to her...I am hoping for a maybe. Whatever she says, I will dedicate my life to helping the children of the world starting with making games, possibly TV & movies. After that I will write books that will be for the benifit of all humankind including a new form of education system. I would prefer to do this with her as being in a committed loving relationship is a wonderful teacher and she would greatly effect my writing, giving it more heart and a feminine focus as we are both feminists thanks to her input. 💜
@fidelitycreate
@fidelitycreate 4 жыл бұрын
Though it is pretty devestating, the thought of not having children. It is a sacrifice I will have to make. I may consider being a donar but I would be very fussy how that child is raised. I wouldn't trust people without a guide and understanding for the sensativity of the child they are about to receive. If I ever heard that child was neglected or abused I would be devestated
@jenster29
@jenster29 4 жыл бұрын
@@fidelitycreate why are you sacrificing not having children?
@fidelitycreate
@fidelitycreate 4 жыл бұрын
@@jenster29 Because I believe being truely in love creates the best environment for the child. When you are in love everything comes easy and flows like water.
@jenster29
@jenster29 4 жыл бұрын
@@fidelitycreate I agree... But don't assume that won't happen for you. We're all worthy of it. But no not everything comes easy 😂😂😂. Easier though haha
@dariv5615
@dariv5615 4 жыл бұрын
I've never thought I was good enough to have a girlfriend. My homelife was full of strife and I somehow wasn't good enough as a person, and now I'm 50.
@Angel_Acres
@Angel_Acres 4 жыл бұрын
The work you are doing is so very much needed in the world! 💗🙏🏻🌞
@kelseyrayne5168
@kelseyrayne5168 4 жыл бұрын
Yes Queen!!
@davidschoenoff4262
@davidschoenoff4262 3 жыл бұрын
thank you
@magzmaedavis5990
@magzmaedavis5990 4 жыл бұрын
I wish your programs were more affordable ☀️
@CandacevanDell
@CandacevanDell 4 жыл бұрын
Maggie Davis o have programs at every price point from $97- $1111. I also have discounts alllll the time. Right now I have the valentines bundle. Buy one course get the other free. Check my website x
@jillyoung1282
@jillyoung1282 4 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna try! Real hard! Thank you Candace. 🙏🏻💞
@amunre12
@amunre12 4 жыл бұрын
You are Yoda!!! All truth!
@livlight9762
@livlight9762 4 жыл бұрын
I love your content so much!!!! Thank you!
@mav9898
@mav9898 4 жыл бұрын
All of this makes way more sense to me than all the years of stupid therapy that got me nowhere. I wish i could of found this info 20 years ago. Thanks god for KZbin and people like you!
@bmd4424
@bmd4424 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. Wish I'd found it sooner also. Years if therapy & meds. Got of the meds and feel so much better. Was able to feel the emotion and work through it!
@KryptoniteStuff
@KryptoniteStuff 4 жыл бұрын
What an amazing content. Thank you!
@Zcllgsloei187slkfks
@Zcllgsloei187slkfks 4 жыл бұрын
„To usher a new way of feeling ,a new way of Intelligence.. becoming emotionally musterful..“
@ciosnoky.security
@ciosnoky.security 3 жыл бұрын
I think what actually heals an empath is when they heal someone else. Kinda counter-intuitive but sensitive empaths are a particular bunch to say the least :) But that sensitivity only expands the emotions from other people which is why it hurts so much sometimes...but it can lead to a resolution of the same. So if a person is feeling a 1 the empath can expand that into a 2 so the first person can take that onto a 3, if the 2 is somehow troublesome for a person, a sensitive person can be a bridge. That system which invalidates the existance of bridges is nothing else than identifications with instilled preferences about life and what not. Like success for instance. Not a bad thing by any extent it's just an example of an expectation -.-' ...because identifications are necessary for functioning in this world but they are not the core identity of a person which i think is abstract. Identifications in the form of behavior expectations only clash with empathy as an internal process which validaties and creates a system of invalidation and friction of the overall emotional experience of any person not just someone sensible enough or an empath (i don't know if that's divisible though). The opposite of it, being a an emotional bridge for someone is an identification process too but of a healthy kind, because of that abstraction of identity + healthy identification = can lead to anywhere one can imagine, and push towards boundlessness. Which is freedom. Why it's healthy because such an identification derived from empathy is neutral in the sense that it does not have a term like "i like this - i don't like this" which invaribaly lead to other kinds of indentifications which are in essence boundaries...phew, what a rollercoaster...
@mod8054
@mod8054 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Going through it
@redhotteagle777harris4
@redhotteagle777harris4 4 жыл бұрын
PEACE.LOVE.LIGHT
@SparklyGirl9911
@SparklyGirl9911 4 жыл бұрын
Heal our ❤️Deficit. Powerful.
@lindahawkins5205
@lindahawkins5205 4 жыл бұрын
This so true and so very powerful. Thank you. 🙏
@aidaju9789
@aidaju9789 4 жыл бұрын
You changed my life, became my role model. thank you Candace~
@jessxxy
@jessxxy 4 жыл бұрын
You should be your own role model and believe in yourself...
@aidaju9789
@aidaju9789 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, both of you for your replies.. means alot to me~
@momione11
@momione11 Жыл бұрын
Dito.❤
@goddessphumi
@goddessphumi 4 жыл бұрын
SPOT ON! love your work
@amyfitzpatrick9958
@amyfitzpatrick9958 4 жыл бұрын
I love all your videos so much Candace❤️
@jamieranney9545
@jamieranney9545 4 жыл бұрын
And . . . she nails it again. Boom.
@MrRyanlipp1980
@MrRyanlipp1980 3 жыл бұрын
So to summarize. Stop listening to the lies in your head. Get out there and put a smile on
@tweekaleek
@tweekaleek 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing video! Thank you Candace! Thongs that reflect unworthiness dont speak to me anymore!!
@shelleyloya6703
@shelleyloya6703 4 жыл бұрын
Ty, this is me. Namaste
@innervision97
@innervision97 3 жыл бұрын
Candice, I want to take your courses so bad. i can’t wait to be able to afford them.
@ashleighf2049
@ashleighf2049 4 жыл бұрын
Come on!!! So good!
@bobhunley8794
@bobhunley8794 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Candace. Your vids hit home.
@stardripni9e785
@stardripni9e785 4 жыл бұрын
Needed this
@Maya-444-
@Maya-444- 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 💜💫
@leigholding1397
@leigholding1397 3 жыл бұрын
Damn , that Paris Hilton accent though 😅 trendy
@timohaikarainen3957
@timohaikarainen3957 3 жыл бұрын
i am enough but the world is not enough for me, soooo what does that make me? picky perhaps?
@dadmadforgot4050
@dadmadforgot4050 4 жыл бұрын
My ‘emotional pain’ is the fact I have incurable cancer at 38. But the worst thing is I haven’t been able to shine and I have been emotionally invalidated
@soleknight3212
@soleknight3212 4 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to send you love my friend. Felt compelled to. God bless
@MrBojangles788
@MrBojangles788 4 жыл бұрын
I heard no cancer is incurable. I recomend the book The Grape Cure by joanna brandt. Also Dr Morse channel on holistic health.
@pl6035
@pl6035 4 жыл бұрын
Jon Willis omg... please learn the truth..cancer is very easily healed. 1. youtube "700 club keto cancer cure" . A Dr. had incurable cancer and healed himself. 2. lookup www.chrisbeatcancer.com 26 yr old healed his stage 3 cancer with nutrition overdose only. read the profiles of the hundreds of people on his site that have done the same!!! do not believe what the med system sells..is inaccurate...to say the least. remember it is a 50 billion dollar industry.
@bankheadpolo
@bankheadpolo 4 жыл бұрын
New subscriber Keep up great videos I'm tune in and also follow the Instagram
@TheLoneRanger745
@TheLoneRanger745 4 жыл бұрын
You said that right ,. I. Just started going back to coda. I. Don't like it.
@frederickogang6833
@frederickogang6833 4 жыл бұрын
What do you thing about reality vs reality concept ? I mean when a narcissist things that everybody exist in his or her own parallel reality and than he ist trying to lift hist persepcual reality up on somebody alse's persp. reality.
@alexcoli
@alexcoli 4 жыл бұрын
is cuz of the email i sent you?? sry was having a bad faze i do need help especially emotional but the thing is so many people do alot more so i guess i better get mi stuff toghether help me and then help out
@sarinabiles4178
@sarinabiles4178 Жыл бұрын
I've dated narssists and sociopaths
@sarinabiles4178
@sarinabiles4178 Жыл бұрын
I've felt like that all my life and adults have always came to me with their problems strangers cry to me hug me I dreamt my fatherd murder for a whole month before it happened like my mom is a narc
@g_aware_nerd
@g_aware_nerd 4 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@GoldbergandPartners
@GoldbergandPartners 4 жыл бұрын
Great video. Check out Joseph Alai s work
@notavailable708
@notavailable708 4 жыл бұрын
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@wendynewbrook7360
@wendynewbrook7360 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Candace I can’t see the link for your 12 week online course can you send me the link please? I really need this to move my life forward and get out of what’s familiar as I know I deserve a better life from abuse 💔
@CandacevanDell
@CandacevanDell 4 жыл бұрын
Wendy Newbrook emotionalrehab.candacevandell.com
@amariahdiamse3666
@amariahdiamse3666 4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos ❤️ but I would kindly suggest a better video setup like lighting, audio, and at the very least, a better camera. Would make a world of difference if it were just the camera. But much love and support 😊.
@CandacevanDell
@CandacevanDell 4 жыл бұрын
Amariah Diamse agreed! If I could get someone to help me set it all up I would be golden. I have it all already just don’t know how to use it lol.
@deplorabledixie2834
@deplorabledixie2834 4 жыл бұрын
@@CandacevanDell Just another perspective here: I just clicked your video and while watching for the 1st time I thought, wow this is so nice that she uses a more subdued camera so it's not so stark that we practically see every pore on the person's face. The super sharp cameras ppl use..it is not relaxing at all and I have gotten grossed out and distracted when the camera even shows their tonsils and whole tongue,close up while they're talking or laughing. One popular luxury goods guru..every time she laughs she has this extremely white coated tongue and I have to continually look away...we really do not need to see every detail of a person's face to get the message of their video.
@MH-cv5ye
@MH-cv5ye 4 жыл бұрын
I'm only here for the message. Nothing else matters.
@wendynewbrook7360
@wendynewbrook7360 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t see the lin
@David_Goman
@David_Goman 3 жыл бұрын
Christ
@jessxxy
@jessxxy 4 жыл бұрын
I do think that you are lovely by the way.. It was by no means an insult. I Enjoyed this video.. 🙂 Me all over... Being xxy... Ha! Have a nice day 💋
@jessxxy
@jessxxy 4 жыл бұрын
Why do American women insist on being so skinny? Yes, look great but aren't you hungry?
@CandacevanDell
@CandacevanDell 4 жыл бұрын
jessxxy hahaha I eat more than you! My husband is perplexed so I think it’s more about YOU accepting that some people truly ARE born this way. ✨
@jessxxy
@jessxxy 4 жыл бұрын
@@CandacevanDell -,, Hello Candice, nice to hear back from you 😉.... As an English Male myself I have always admired how most American females take such a great sense of pride in their appearance, as a personal trainer I have though often wondered at what cost some women will go to in order to look so good so asked about, especially using KZbin as the platform to do this, the response I got back went from impressive to shocking... Unlike our own women that mostly drink like a fish, eat all the wrong foods whilst smoking like a chimney ect. Ect... (cocaine being another gross misfortune) I came to realise that American women do mostly take a far higher risk factor in simply not eating enough, opposed to what most women get upto over here... I did in fact a 3yr test study. Why? Because as with most straight males I search for the best that can be found.... 👌🙂
@MH-cv5ye
@MH-cv5ye 4 жыл бұрын
I can eat whatever I like, and never get fat. Some people excersise and burn it off, whereas others eat crap and sit around. It's insulting to claim a healthy human being is ill. Sounds more like reverse psychology. Displacement, and a shame/guilt attempt. Do some introspection.
@theservant2646
@theservant2646 4 жыл бұрын
New Age. seek Jesus Christ.
@luminate4419
@luminate4419 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a Christian empath or hsp. I am attending bible college and I gotta lay it out to ya. I cant stand fakes people in general, and I also absolutely can't stand fake Christians. Empath or Hsp are more closer related to christ than those so called Christian in churches.
@theservant2646
@theservant2646 4 жыл бұрын
​@@luminate4419 You are right, Most churches do not follow what the bible teach, dont let them plant bad seeds in your mind. But also do not fall for the New Age, if it does not preach Christ and the teachings from the bible, then you know it is from the adversary, there are many lies but only one truth. Bless you.
@luminate4419
@luminate4419 4 жыл бұрын
@@theservant2646 you're preaching to the choir, and you're missing the point. This video isnt remotely new age. This woman just helping people like me who are actually true prophets of God, not those so called Christian who assume that they are prophets, but actually liars and deceivers their father is satan. People like us suffer greatly from the children of satan in this world with their evil fake deceptive hearts that also affect people like us in levels you probably couldnt comprehend because you're not born or called to be prophets. Another thing I want to point out, empath or Hsp, is just another name for gift of discernment, and gift wisdom as stated by Paul in the first letter of Corinthian.
@theservant2646
@theservant2646 4 жыл бұрын
@@luminate4419 Nope, this is a channel about New Age beliefs and a deception away from the truth Jesus Christ.
@luminate4419
@luminate4419 4 жыл бұрын
@@theservant2646 problem with Christianity nowadays is that it is represented from a white washing western cultural point of view which is false. In actuality it is more closely, and in line with the eastern cultural point of views. Sorry to break to ya, but if you read the bible, and you view your faith base on white washing western cultural point of view, well you're wrong!.
@djdonohue
@djdonohue 4 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as an empath. There are people who are hypersensitive & need to feel more special than their actual lives justify, but no person -Ever- has demonstrated the supernatural power of being able to detect a human being (or lack of human being) behind a blind,... much less what a person other than themself is feeling. If you believe that you are an empath and can detect other people's feelings, your demonstration of this supernatural power would turn science on it's head and change the world that we live in. I urge you to get tested right away, and if you are an empath, please contact me, because I want my name attached to the Nobel prize(s) which will inevitably awarded. And if you are not an empath, please don't let people exploit your feelings for book sales, and course fees.
@deanmoulton8994
@deanmoulton8994 4 жыл бұрын
Hi David I'm not an empath, but you should relax a little.
@djdonohue
@djdonohue 4 жыл бұрын
@@deanmoulton8994 - When people stop exploiting the vulnerable in our society, selling them courses and books to help them, based on complete nonsense, I'll stop pointing it out.
@deanmoulton8994
@deanmoulton8994 4 жыл бұрын
@@djdonohue Good luck saving the world.
@djdonohue
@djdonohue 4 жыл бұрын
@@deanmoulton8994 - well if everyone does their part... we'll all be better off in the long run. Doing nothing helps no one, and I prefer not to have my family & friends exploited by scammers and charlatans.
@johncorson6599
@johncorson6599 4 жыл бұрын
David Donohue I put your name in to the Nobel prize committee .. thanks for sharing your wisdom
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