MEN. Stop Doing This. (EP 159)

[@UnderTheInfluenceShow]

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[@jamiahshayyy1280]

esther is such a my man my man girly and i love that for her 😂😂😂

[@Kanyewesther]

Cuz that’s my man 🫣🥰

[@liyinchong4493]

But sometimes we should be more tactful to our guests or friends that are still single. 😊 Should always put ourselves in their situations.

[@karlaguti3553]

Girl Stfu lmao they are all so happy for her like what r u on? Jeesh

[@raulromero2948]

​@@liyinchong4493 What about the other way around though if they weren't friends with Jeremy it probably wouldn't be the same

[@maxj3882]

Esther annoying asf and so mid if I’m being generous.

[@anais3398]

im so here for maru n cynthia

[@externallybeauty2900]

I’m here for everyone there talks are so real

[@manahil8746]

@@externallybeauty2900 fr fr love the girl talks

[@julianaypll]

Im pretty sure nick tries to be respectful when she cuts the girls off, he’s like “ so what were you saying “ I’ve seen it so many times.

[@rainecare]

AN ALL GIRL EPISODE!!? I AM SO EXCITED!! We love UTI!!

[@rainecare]

5 minutes into the episode and I keep having to remember that this is still a UTI episode cuz I keep waiting for screams or loud voices 🤣

[@danarose1920]

The way I immediately clicked on the vid when I saw the cover photo 💅🏼

[@externallybeauty2900]

Same

[@Wkkiioe]

LOL ME 222

[@Uhohkya]

Definitely don’t like how some of these comments are hating on the girls!! They’re all here just to talk, be themselves and have fun fr. I love this EP!🤍

[@kaylalopes8141]

Im a simple girl I see maru and Cynthia, I click

[@perlitaa2.0]

Cynthia is so real for saying she loves Pedro Pascal

[@moonobsessed]

I see Cynthia n maru on thumbnail, I click.

[@rachel.guillermo0214]

I LOVE this All Girl episode!! I hope we get more!! Thanks so much ladies✌🏼🫶🏻

[@clarSVTV]

Can yall change the wall colors? I rlly think they take down the quality

[@peepeepoopoo8498]

What color

[@elianknee]

Darker wall colors would make the UTI sign and the stuff on the walls pop out more

[@clarSVTV]

@@elianknee I agree! I really liked how the 1st set up looked. This one just looks so cheap.

[@aik0sm0m_]

EVERYONE IS SO PRETTYYY 😓💓

[@Duweeadyale]

Thank you!

[@chelseaseo6866]

LOVE ESTHERRRR and her girl talks

[@LamasajorJalloh]

Omg!!!! Yes, I love the all girl podcast the vibe is just there and TRUST I am here for it!!!! I love y’all, Mwah 💋🤍🫶🏽!!!

[@geniuspeng]

Love this !! Y’all should do more All Girl episodes in the future 🤍

[@heycanitellyousomething]

Honestly not wrong

[@nubiavergara19]

Maru is my favorite hahahaha such a sweetheart but eff their ego what about hers!? 😂😂 she’s so straight up lmao 🫶🏻

[@SamIsInHereSomewhere]

FINALLY A PODDY FOR THE GIRLLSSSS 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@alyssasanchez5858]

omg an all girls episode?? bring them more often ❤

[@zoepark3163]

love seeing esther take the lead

[@dearmona376]

This is literally my favorite episode also everyone is just gorgeous 😍😍😍

[@paloma1308]

THIS IS THE EPISODE THAT WAS NEEDED!

[@jxxxvii]

Esther’s so funny she said she likes scaring the whole family lmfao wth 😂😂

[@user-ku5up2yv7y]

OMG JACKIE LOOKS EXTRA PRETTY TODAY🥰🥰

[@francescaestelle2886]

I asked my what should happen on 1st dates & she said, the man pays for the 1st 2 dates. After that, you can split, he pays, you pay. But she made sure that I KNOW ALWAYS KEEP MONEY ON YOU OR HAVE A WAY OUT JUST IN CASE!!!!

[@itsshirleyyy]

This is such a power group I loveeee it

[@dearmona376]

Omg the second girl to the left of the room is soo pretty😍😍

[@Jo-bu3fr]

THIS is the content we need 👏 👏 👏

[@itznotz]

this was such a good podcast really enjoyed, especially the end with all the tips!!

[@egodrunk]

That segment about how pron is damaging.. yall don't even know--one of the hardest addictions to break. Jeremy is a smart man.

[@Sarai888]

I’m sorry but is it me or not caring that a man didn’t go to college and doesn’t have a car is crazy????? lmaooo maybe bc they are Young but that crazy to me

[@ken9922]

i also think it’s cause their influencers and they themselves haven’t been to college! but same like to me that’s such a huge thing i would need in a man because i have both!

[@alexare6655]

Esther isnt young.

[@beingmaiily4064]

How old are you?

[@Sarai888]

@@alexare6655 she’s not old , but I was talking about the the other girls I know they are in their early 20’s

[@kikialeaki1850]

College and cars are not the issues. If you carry yourself well and have a stable enough income (or handle your chaotic income well) and can get from point A to point B with minimal hassle, you’re good.

[@peacelife]

Good chat!!! Nice to hear more from you guys. I learn more as a woman 😅 and def share similar opinions ❤

[@hhgxmiing9247]

A lil feedback here: The 2 chapters in the timeline "Is Bad Fashion an Ick?" and "Hottest Thing A Man Can Do", within these segments, yall talked about more topics & they "should" be mentioned on the timeline as well. Cuz they are good topics. May help keep viewers on the video, who are interested in these topics.

[@HelloJoanne1994]

Love the vibe of this episode❤ plz have a podcast

[@Sagacypher]

Seeing Esther talk about how she’s “horrible” for talking to her guy best friend a lot because he had a girlfriend made me so sad. That’s not horrible at all. Straight people have such a crazy view about this kinda stuff they don’t realize it’s unnatural to abide by strict and toxic rules around human bonding.

[@Sagacypher]

Also, it’s been said before on the suburb talks comments, but I do wonder how they’d respond if bisexuals were brought up. Then the bestie argument just goes null

[@elconejomalo787]

Right it’s so foreign to me hearing them talk about those rules

[@raulromero2948]

I don't see much wrong I think it's just preference my male friend had a lesbian roommate that would talk about all their girl problems and he would treat her like a guy and she took it well most of the time

[@xdinarymichelle]

@@Sagacypheri think abt this all the time. i saw this comment one time saying if their bi

[@chloetheedoll494]

MARU AND CYNTHIA LOOK SO GOOD OMG😍😍🎀

[@methusharavi5136]

need more all girls episodes like thissss

[@jacobmorres9817]

Not splitting the bill is based in old gender norms where the man is the provider. It sets an expectation onto men to fill a certain role and they in many cases feel obliged to do so If both people are cool with it - the man providing and the girl having her bill paid then it is positive The problem is when you expect men to do this as something men "should do". Just like when you expect a woman to stay at home, cook and clean, be subservient etc. We should really be moving forward with these traditional ideals and let people choose

[@peepeepoopoo8498]

At the end of the day all that matters is that ur with someone who matches your ideals. Whether that’s 50/50 or the man is the financial provider or a little bit of both.

[@Itsallsotiresome]

It's a bit of a minefield subject. If the guy is rich and gets off on providing and pays for the whole bill each time, that's on that guy. Or heck, even if it's the opposite and the woman is wealthy and wants to do that, that's on her. And of course the other person should be grateful for it. But for us everyday working class guys, it can turn into a situation. If I go out on a date with a woman I just started dating and if she gets some expensive food when I do, that can be understandable to an extent, but if I get something reasonably cheap for myself and she gets something expensive, now there's an issue. Now we have an imbalance. I might feel some kind of way about it. It can lead to spite if she doesn't realize the issue because she just expects me to pay for it all regardless. And I'm not gonna play that stuff of her trying to make me the bad guy for not wanting to pay for her expensive meal. Nope. Money situations can sour a relationship really quick. That's why it's just simpler, easier, and hassle free for both involved to not even make it 50/50, but just each pays for their own tab. You can otherwise have a great relationship with someone where you click in so many ways, but if there's a financial responsibility imbalance it can still kill the relationship. Adults are supposed to be responsible for our own decisions. There's too many social contractual obligations that tries to makes things some kind of way and people say, "it's just always been done that way" or "a real man does x and y", but are just not logical or prudent.

[@Kopfkino321]

Esther is one of the boys fr. Love her for that!

[@whateverstzha8085]

i think as girls, we watch the girls during prn because lowk know how they be feeling and put ourselves in that scenario

[@liyinchong4493]

Please ask these gorgeous girls come to the podcast again ❤❤❤

[@tofusouplover]

more episodes w the girlies pls😼

[@ppddppt4012]

wootak, jeremy and viet looking different today 🤨

[@NailzbyKaren]

and can I just say you’re all so beautiful oh my godddd🥰❤️

[@toesthattwinkle]

One of my fav episodes

[@litrealhli]

YASSSSSSS🎉🎉🎉 IM HERE FOR IT

[@hectorherrera8871]

I’m A Guy, I Enjoyed Being Here. ✨⚡️

[@sandyluevano9787]

We need more episodes like these 🔥

[@2PMalwaysforever]

Yay finally an all girls ep 😭😭😭

[@mario3cperez]

Whole 2 hours and I still didn't catch the part of where to find the Gspot!!!!

[@NailzbyKaren]

OOH MYYYY ALL GIRLLLL YESSSS

[@viv2kool]

WE NEED ANOTHER EPISODE!!!!!

[@Justsomeavergedits]

Here for this episode!!

[@ken9922]

LOVEEEE BEST EPPP EVER

[@purrprika]

Imagine taking a shot every time you hear the word "like"

[@KingDavid00]

Yo Cynthia gets cool points for the Pedro shoutout!!!!

[@rohanphillips2558]

Is the boys gunna b back meaning wootak coming back?

[@amygreen175]

I thought that too

[@hellocarmy]

Love an all gals ep!

[@ayeare101]

Jaccie is my type of girl 😉

[@Someonedb43]

they can say all they want but I think I have watched enough of the podcast and edits to create a decent ship for Maru + Sean and Nick + Cynthia. They even exposed themselves (Maru and Sean they use to have a crush on each other, Maru had a s** dream about Sean, when they talk to each other their voice changes...) However I would say that a ship is more of an expectation/hope. As someone older (who wonders how I found this side of the internet) I think long game a good relationship requires friendship or some level of sync-ness and sense of security and I think Maru + Sean and Nick + Cynthia end game makes sense to me, in my opinion.

[@elizabethfrausto2297]

Maru looking too good 😍

[@ariduishon8618]

Loving it💕💕💕💕💕

[@lazzi2462]

Since you girls are talking about if your BF had a girl best friend, what if you're a guy, & your GF has a lesbian tomboy friend? One of our guys, his GF has a lesbian tomboy friend. She dresses like a guy, short haired like a guy, & is into girls, obviously. So whenever we hang out, that lesbian friend is always trying to flirty with our guy's GF, & she's like very hands-on flirty too, & she isn't shy about doing this in front of everyone. Our guy doesn't say anything about it, the GF doesn't say anything about it or she doesn't tell the lesbian to stop. Me & my friends have discussed this whenever our guy isn't around. We're all like, man, that lesbian is basically a dude, it's so wrong. Some of us have asked our guy how he feels about it too, & he said he doesn't care, because the lesbian is still a girl. I guess it generally is socially acceptable when girls are bi-curious with each other. But like we've been saying, she's a girl that likes girls, she acts & looks like a dude. I feel like it's wrong, I would not let a lesbian girl flirt & feel all up on my girl, it's basically like letting a guy do it. It's sexual harassment too, unless maybe the GF likes it or allows it. That's an ick for me. I also used to know a girl who is bi, we'll call her Bi. A while back, she was talking to another girl, we'll call her Les. They weren't dating but she liked Bi & they were kind of in a little situationship. Bi also happens to have a gay guy best friend. One time at the club, I guess Les thought the best friend was being too touchy with Bi, or she was just jealous of their friendship or something. So Les & her friends ended up jumping him. Man, all this drama. Lol

[@kasper2917]

oh hell no thats not happening🖐

[@lazzi2462]

@@kasper2917 Agreed, I would not let a lesbian touch all up on my Gf.

[@CapsLock33]

We need more of the girl episodes!!I hope to see more soon!

[@user-to4dq3ft1i]

what highlight is cynthia wearing 😩

[@jazidiaz9825]

Love the all girls episode 💕

[@ken9922]

jackie and sydney 💓

[@maipatas]

Cute girls take over, but a better intro would be nice... Also bring the wigs back!! 😊

[@nasorato]

i loveeeees thi episode

[@rhyskaiwai455]

Yoo I can't find Esther on any platform

[@samiyi4896]

*Theyre all fine* ❤

[@demimorales6659]

Esther is the funniest

[@rohanphillips2558]

This cought me mad off guard this was a great idea but holy shit

[@ashantithompson5119]

UTI needed an all girls episode🙌🏽🩷

[@ashly.8]

Pt2

[@user-pi7xk6pj8k]

Those girls around Maru, Jackie & Sydney were so annoying towards her trying to point out things about her trying to embarrass her

[@saiyah3371]

i feel soo bad because im a bit of a picky eater but i don't really like Mexican and i broke my besties heart(she's Mexican) im down to eat the desserts, meat, and breads but tacos burritos anything with onions hard pass and it makes me feel so bad

[@WINGRIOT]

Advise?

[@itznotz]

YOU GIRLS SHOULD MAKE A SIDE PODCAST !!!!!!!!!!

[@Hubazuba]

I’m in deep enemy territory boys 😔

[@user-pi7xk6pj8k]

maru ❤

[@Wkkiioe]

I wish Nina was in here 😔

[@Calzonelly]

This is a special one

[@4runr]

Where's the time stamps

[@4runr]

a Women episode probably why its missing

[@alittageorge5397]

@@4runr ur so funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

[@4runr]

@@alittageorge5397 Women

[@victorcanela3012]

U don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish u ask a fisherman (Jk)

[@yasmeennassar704]

Hi 👋🏻

[@marioyanez-yn9fo]

Guys have to understand this humor, if you think there just yapping…. It’s on your baby buddy

[@maryalvarez1672]

Why does everyone laugh at Maru?

[@loverboywooski929]

Wootak knew this show would fall apart

[@LoLcrIn]

They are getting basically the same numbers when he was there and when he wasn’t.

[@swagvdaddy69]

he left?????

[@Utoobp24]

Yo

[@BOKUWADOCTAAAA]

Where tf is my baby girls @ Jertak 😤

[@anaismontoya7]

Omg yasssss

[@batoul7700]

Okay this is nice yehhh but I really am missing the boys and their jokes

[@PaperFc]

I miss Wootak

[@ericgalvan3589]

i made it to 1 minute 15 seconds before i bounced

[@irisheinzmann8460]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Myhalamanz]

The ick discussion is so boring. Feels immature to me

[@alejandrafimbres2473]

❤

[@Vglock18]

baddies cause im a girls girl only soap and water down there no SUMMERS EVE its jst chemicals ✝️✝️🤍GOD BLESS YOU JESUS LOVES YOU ✝️💝💓😇 AMEN