Change!! Retirement.... i went straight into horrible depression! Family friends neighbors don't understand...... why im not happy, i should be, and enjoying!! I only want to go back to my seniority archived position @ work. My co worker friends, my self confidence and security i had. I no longer want to do absolutely anything, not even things, place, activities i used to. I've tried walking, excersize, working on my VW bug,... nothing. Ive considered taking my life. I don't want to live anymore... I've told my family i would never,.... but. Im searching all these ' depression helps video '... 1 more factor: i HAD a chance!! to actually Stop myself from retiring!!, and i blew it!! I ruminate THAT 24/7.. i did this to myself!! Which makes this unbearable. ... is There anything? Anyone? ... that can help?... pls pls help me 🙏
@carrie-joylloyd57853 жыл бұрын
Being old and anxious is terrifying!
@YUYU-qv9th4 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video. It’s exactly what I want to know as a young person at 20s where the past and future seem equally depressing and overwhelming. It’s good to know the risk is always there. Thank your for making this video.
@DRG3423 жыл бұрын
I agree. I've always been prone to this empty hopeless feeling
@DRG3423 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy this guy's videos. I've been watching them when I'm down and they do help a little. He breaks things down very well for anyone to digest. He has a calm and pleasant manner...plus he's British. Thank you, Sir ...and cheers!
@Mrblahx4 жыл бұрын
Your videos really worth listening..thankyou..and yes relationships matter.
@amansiddiqi14 жыл бұрын
I learn way more from this channel than my doctoral program
@thebrowniesaur223 жыл бұрын
It's amazing what learning from actual knowledgeable people can teach you instead of people who get to high positions based on the number of publications
@tg23143 жыл бұрын
"Learn to feel the Joy of a Soul Happy and Confident, lifted above every circumstance " Seneca (Excellent and Helpful Talk by Mark)
@garyanfimau72034 жыл бұрын
Wow, so much to think about. I really appreciate you recording this video!
@paintingzoneart40264 жыл бұрын
An incredibly useful, thoughtfully presented, detailed Zoomed Out perspective on human life, thanks so much for sharing this Mark. I really value your wise, educated and experienced overview, which is already helping me make better sense of my own and others’ lives.
@dv123abc2 жыл бұрын
Mark, your work is priceless 🙏🏻
@LuxMeow3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos, very insightful and well articulated.
@Terez043 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you.
@fionahenderson33523 ай бұрын
Very insightful thanks
@Onestrangebrain4 жыл бұрын
The question should not be "why are some people depressed" but "why are some people NOT depressed"?
@larrypryor2304 жыл бұрын
I am 65 and still have all of the above!
@LuxMeow3 жыл бұрын
Self delusion, people with depression are more realistic.
@mirovinac3968 Жыл бұрын
It's not what you experiencing but HOW you experiencing. It is all in your head. Life is what you make of it. And depression is not "more realistic" because your mind is talking all of that stories to you. CHOOSE: You can be your worst enemy or your best friend. Don't torture yourself but also do not pity yourself.
@Onestrangebrain4 жыл бұрын
Extremely enlightening. Thank you!
@searchthetruth19813 жыл бұрын
I got vacation but i now experience days i just wanna cry all along...
@dv123abc2 жыл бұрын
The immense passage of time is sometimes too much to bear. Thinking back decades and remembering ancient history is extremely depressing, mainly due to the realization that life will end relatively soon. Any suggestions on how to reframe this to something more tolerable, and turn 40 in peace?
@mirovinac3968 Жыл бұрын
Life is really a gift, true miracle. It's an unique opportunity to feel and to do, to experience all that sensations, feelings, emotions, thoughts, flavors, scents, all that ugly and beautiful... that's truely fantastic. And thank God for that.
@Silverstar2573 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the informative video!
@tatianahawaii133 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mark
@aliciaramosfitkick23074 жыл бұрын
Very powerful! Thank you so much for sharing.
@MB-wk5lc4 жыл бұрын
what a fantastic video
@isanarditama4 жыл бұрын
I got depression because of fail in university
@lucjo7894 жыл бұрын
I got depression loosing my grandparents at 14 and other people close to me that I haven’t grieved and loosing the job I loved
@Invisibility3972 жыл бұрын
Depression = "The Abyss" I have been so deep there was only new descriptive words for the new experiences. I got to the Nothingness and I felt my positive energy spray from my heart like a valve on an air compressor for a fraction of a second. I believe that in this area is the end of time event my soul would not exist anymore. So there is a death far greater than the reset of the physical plane death.
@jamesstevenson60864 жыл бұрын
I had all these issues growing up. I turned to God and put my trust in Jesus Christ to save me. He gave me great peace. No one else was able to help me with depression or anxiety. Why don't you turn to him for help. He loves you and cares about you a lot. The bible says in Philippians ch 4:7-9 And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Only trying to help folks. May God bless you and help you in your struggles. I know it's hard, I've been there. 🙏
@DRG3423 жыл бұрын
My mom tells me this and I do try to go to the chapel and pray. It helps me temporarily however
@margrose53 жыл бұрын
My faith in and relationship with Jesus is my only hope in this life.
@j.m.b54413 жыл бұрын
I tried but I just couldn't deceive myself into believing, common sense prevailed, I realised a childish fantasy is not a solution for a mature person.
@mirovinac3968 Жыл бұрын
@@j.m.b5441 Many people healed themselves through beleiveing. It's not childish fantasy, it's actually totally opposite. Faith is wisdom. Wisdom of your heart, soul and mind.
@alejandramori679 Жыл бұрын
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@Invisibility3972 жыл бұрын
Solitude content and celibate because I can 25 out of 41 years so far. Can't miss something that you have never even experienced. So whatever enjoy your journey