The Beestons on getting robbed, falling off a cliff & children on social media | Ep. 5

Our first guests!! We sat down and chatted with our friends ‪@SarahAndDerik‬ who we were visiting in Hawaii.
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[@Reagan_Sanders]

Abby and Matt going crazy over the tea surrounding Derik and Sarah’s love story was so funny 😂💙

[@bkessinger94]

Their faces were priceless

[@swiftie_1394l]

*cough cough* Matt and Abby 😂💀

[@shanayaisha400]

my parents got married after a week of knowing eachother and they are still together now almost 21 years 😊😍

[@10113sarah]

They are so dang wholesome

[@lindsaykate8067]

Literally laughed out loud when Matt said, “maybe she saved your life, gave you a reason to live” ☠️☠️☠️ you guys crack me up

[@NoraBora25]

Frfr

[@bri2146]

I was so confused bc I saw this comment before I watched the video and that sounded like a genuine thing to say (thinking he was talking about Sarah) but that’s funny asfff especially the way he said it 🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

[@laurahandley9238]

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[@idontreallypostlol]

@Repent and believe in Jesus Christ amen

[@Amrutht1]

😂😂

[@KristianaTu]

Seeing Christian couples actually talk about sex and waiting for marriage and pleasure is so refreshing. Like yes, this is a beautiful part of life designed by God, and other than this podcast, I really haven't heard anyone else actually just casually talk about marriage sex. It's great.

[@mercyihebuzor7220]

They are Christians?

[@sailorarwen6101]

@@mercyihebuzor7220 think they’re Mormon….calling Mormon Christian is debatable. Edit: One thing, of several, Mormons believe that is incorrect is that they believe you get to Heaven by good works. Which is why they’re such friendly people. Bible clearly says “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.” Ephesians 2:8-9.

[@Mauler45]

@@sailorarwen6101 they also don’t believe that Jesus was the Son of God. They believe he was just a prophet, just a normal guy.

[@tiffanyharmon4438]

@@Mauler45 hey we do actually believe he was the son of god and we are considered Christians because we believe in Christ the savior.

[@mercyihebuzor7220]

@@sailorarwen6101 oh i get it now.. thanks for the explanation 😁

[@daniellewilliams3959]

I appreciate the Beestons being so honest about their first fight surrounding love-making! It's hard to be vulnerable about!

[@pascalswager9100]

They're so cute, they didn't realize they are definitely not alone. It's probably up there with money.

[@chrisgilbert868]

More of this, please. It’s so refreshing. Feel bad for Derek & Sarah with all the theft they’ve had to deal with.

[@shielapetty1334]

It is so sad cause they love Hawaii so much and now leaving a bad taste in there mouth because people cant just leave them alone. The sad downside to being famous on social media or other platforms.. 😢❤

[@pascalswager9100]

No one better steal anything from them while they're in Australia, I'll have their guts for garters!

[@Mia-bh4ci]

NOTHING MAKE ME HAPPIER THAN WHEN YALL GET TOGETHER. I WATCH BOTH COUPLES ALLLLL THE TIME SO THIS GIVES ME SO MUCH HAPPINESS

[@mikaylalew56]

Same! Love both couples!

[@rrr441]

If nothing makes you happier, you need to make changes in your life...

[@tanyaclark6479]

Q

[@trustinJesus_only-_]

Ikr. Wholesome couples

[@ShayNayNay23]

Been happily married 11.5 years and dated for 3.5 before. The best advice I can share with any couple through learned experience is that when you get upset and are about to fight, you CAN control your reaction. When you realize and understand that actions/reactions are choices, not reflexes, you then have two options. You can choose to add fuel to the fire, or you can choose to throw water on it and try to extinguish the fire. If both of you are aware of this and genuinely work to start doing this, it will absolutely change your relationship. That, and honest (but not brutal) communication. Grace goes a long way!

[@khae_g]

♥️

[@fantasea114]

This is actually really good advice that I will heed, thank you! ❤

[@c333-y]

Great advice! ❤

[@heidigraber3725]

I am as well so passionate about that subject regarding child exploitation. This whole topic has really shifted my mindset and it made me realize that maybe it was wrong of me to talk about my child’s issues online. My daughter went to a friends house with my husband a while back and when she came home she told me that there was someone there who knew so much about her and said that they have watched her grow up on facebook and she had no clue who this person is. She said she thinks that’s weird how other people know so much about her and we didn’t ask her if it was ok. Ever since then I have privatized all of her pics and I will only discuss my own stuff and nothing about my kids. I will leave it up to them to discuss their business when they are older.

[@AC-iw5mv]

So glad you learnt from that experience!!!! Too many parents exploit their children

[@heidigraber3725]

@@AC-iw5mv Thank you. I can’t undo what i’ve already done but I can change things from here on out. I think this conversation needs to come up more.

[@JulieAnnPowell]

THIS! I wish more of these vloggers would have this realization. It's so sad to see these kids being filmed all the time and all of their personal and special moments being public, but the safety risk is not talked about enough. So many hidden dangers that they don't address

[@AW-1811]

Yes! I can't believe they're sitting here trying to explain away the exploitation when its clearly how they make they're money.

[@charlesbrooks5003]

Yeah especially with all the crime happening around them/to them lately. It would be so easy to lure Jack away since everyone knows everything about him

[@katieeee.13]

“Collecting sticks” such a unique and cute way to fall in love!❤

[@ashtyngarner5525]

Knowing that there are still men who will wait till marriage is so comforting to me

[@elgea4493]

Love how you guys were so transparent! Thank you all for being willing to share so much of your lives with us! 🥰

[@annawelk7742]

I absolutely love the honesty and vulnerability in this podcast episode.

[@missindependent5348]

Dearest Matt and Abby, Derik and Sarah, Tanner and Lo, you guys don't know how much impact you have on us, we feel inspired, entertained and most of all, we experience healing❤️

[@daniellelaneyfenenga2978]

Two fantastic couples!😊 I love that you guys are not afraid to talk about uncomfortable topics, like having difficulties with sex for example. Society only talks about the amazing, magical sides to it, but in reality, it’s not always that way right away, and that is ok!

[@sallymckee5264]

I love these young people so much! The Beestons( all of them), Mabbie😂 and Connor and Liana! They give an old lady hope!

[@cw9108]

Same I like Connor and Liana too. Totally different worlds from eachother but still similarities

[@aimeewhite2916]

Omg I couldn't agree more!

[@tjhudson9678]

I love them all

[@MamaRobynR]

Same! So impressed by these couple and how mature and healthy their relationships are and they are so young!

[@alana.g12]

same! I totally agree, just in a different way for me, they’re more like role models for me since I’m younger :)

[@KaaramVedhava]

seeing them blown away by another young couple is wild

[@lilyharp3771]

they think they are so special and unique, only to find out that they aren’t the only ones who got married young. 😮

[@melannydayrethratliff1309]

​@@lilyharp3771 I think they know, maybe is the family, for example my dad always make me feel like I watched a ton of Horror movies, when is actually my least favorite. But because he expect me to be afraid, so when I know someone else that is more into it than me I get shook. No because I personally think am the biggest fan of, but because how people make me feel.

[@zoeygroat1560]

I love Derik & Sarah. This was a fun episode:)

[@lisaferguson7133]

Best pod cast ever. It didnt feel like a pod cast it felt more like a conversation between friends. It flowed so easily. I hope you have the Beeston's back sooner than later.

[@jessicahebert1688]

I LOVED this format of the podcast! Especially talking on marraige and raising children. This is all real life and life is messy. I wish more people had discussions on these topics. Too many people give up on marraige these days because things are not perfect. Its good to hear other couples talk about struggles and overcoming them. I hope to see more of these. Great show!

[@BoujeeBantams]

“Didn’t perform well” ☠️ 😂 I love y’all and how transparent y’all are. Thank you for being real 😂

[@RR-rz3kn]

You 4 are the sweetest. I’m 62 now and raised my children alone and there is no manual when they are born to guide you and every child is different! There will ALWAYS be those who question everything! I have many regrets but at the time I did the best I could do. They turned out good! Don’t sweat it.

[@sallymckee5264]

You and I are sisters from another mister ❤️❤️

[@imolaa11]

About the filming of children topic, i just want to say that I think it's important to consider what kind of content are you putting on the internet. Would your child be ok with that in 10-15-20 years? Would they be embarrassed? Would they be ok to see that their parents showed the entire world some really hard moments they had (like some tantrums)? Because I'm pretty sure at 2 years of age they can't really decide whether it's fine with them or not. And it's not about them not wanting to be filmed right now, but more on the impact those videos may have on them once they realize how exposed they were once.

[@AW-1811]

Yes exactly, how can they say their kids get to decide when they're literal babies...

[@afullchalicevlogs7979]

They can’t ever consent. Even as they get older- their entire lives- mommy and daddy are “so happy” when they decide to film. What kid is going to say “no” when that is their “normal”? They have no ability to predict the outcome, to understand how it will effect their peer group, or know that the internet is literally forever. If my parents did this to me- I would have nothing to do with them. I don’t care how much money they made off me- I would sue them for it as an adult, write them off, and then share every private and personal detail that I could about them. Return the favor, ya know?

[@AW-1811]

@@afullchalicevlogs7979 Your'e exactly right, they don't know the future consequences of millions of people knowing their face and names and personal information.

[@imolaa11]

@@afullchalicevlogs7979 i think these (influencer) parents kinda assume that their kid will follow the same path as them. And since the kid grew up only knowing what online exposure means, they won't really have a problem with that as adults. Which is obviously a very wrong and selfish way of thinking

[@shaelyngoode8408]

@@afullchalicevlogs7979 Or you know the kids could love it have no problem with it and be perfectly fine having their parents recording because they grew up with it and if they ever have a day where they just don’t want to film they could just say so and take a break for a day and not sue their parent when they grow up for literally nothing and just deciding to make a KZbin channel

[@liliphdr]

This is absolutely no hate towards any of you, because I like your podcast, both of you have really cute families. It's just my own opinion about children on the internet. You mentioned that when your child says "no, I don't want to be filmed", you'd turn off your camera. And that is awesome and more people should do that, but I don't think a 2 year old, let's say Jack as an example, is aware of what the internet is. And you might post something about him that he says yes to and then 10 years later he regrets that video is on the internet forever. And it's not even just about little kids, because you can't give informed consent until you are 18. Another thing is the memories, I get that, but you don't have to upload those memories to millions of strangers, because they are for you! I also understand how it makes you feel good when people message you and say lovely things about your family and kids, but I could not not think about those people who don't have good intentions towards my family.

[@AW-1811]

Thank you for this, I really hope they read comments like this and change. Neither one of these families children are old enough to understand ANYTHING about the internet...

[@livm99]

They (the kids) don't understand the impact of it all... and I strongly believe they have no idea what those videos mean - in terms of how they're on the internet for everyone to see and that's infinite once something's out there. There are many celebrities who do that (protecting their kids) and one thing they always say is that they themselves chose this life but their children haven't and so I feel like in order to want the best for your child you shouldn't show them unless they can rightfully consent. I'm sure they all know how lucrative it is to show the kids... not saying they're exploiting it, just saying they're definitely aware... especially considering the recent content I've been seeing about their daughter (Beeston's).

[@-neleh-]

@@AW-1811 I believe that they do understand things about the internet. They have social media accounts, they vlog, the spent half the podcast talking about it. They understand enough to make their own choices on the topic and it's kinda rude to say they don't understand anything about what they work in. Maybe they shouldn't show their kid as much as they do but it's not your job to criticize them for it and it's not your choice what they do. They specifically say they know what you're talking about so maybe watch the podcast and learn more about who you're criticizing. They started tearing up about the topic so don't say they don't care about it.

[@ananastea]

yes, it’s important to consider this but i also have this in mind: do 10-year-olds fully realize what they’d consent to and what “the internet is forever” means? yet they can do and say so many more “controversial” things than a 2-year-old.

[@liliphdr]

@-Goose- if you really actually care about your children and you even mention the dangers of the internet so you are aware then why are you not protecting them? When Sarah said "we know there are creeps out there but at the same time our followers send us messages like I love your kids they are so cute" I could not believe what she just said. I get it that it makes you feel loved that other people love your kids but those people are strangers and even though they are nice how do you that that message wasn't sent by a creep? Just because it was a nice comment it means it wasn't one?

[@charladailey7244]

Very proud of both couples. My husband and I met and got married within 6 months after meeting. We have been married 27 years. You will go through challenges but keep working through it. Your relationship is worth it.

[@karabradbury6731]

I'm so excited about this episode!! You guys are the best duo!

[@kpoplover4984]

Heyyyyy😭 I just started the vid too and I absolutely love this duo so so much❤️❤️❤️

[@katieeek948]

The best!!!

[@meraki4324]

The way sarah reacted says it all. She is an amazing mother and wife. She is truly someone that young girls can look up too. Love you Sarah ! Keep killin it ❤ you and your babies know the truth, that’s all that matters

[@afullchalicevlogs7979]

No, an amazing mother would react by feeling how she feels and then removing her children from online. She clearly knows it is wrong.

[@bob4135]

@@afullchalicevlogs7979 well said. Crying about it and cashing the checks isnt adding up. Ask s&d if their videos didnt net them hundreds of thousands a month, would they still post? or start storing your family memories on a hard drive instead. Look at the $, hundreds of thousands in a month. Who cares about 2 e-bikes being stolen when you can post another video to recoup your losses.

[@jayannakelley9051]

I’ve always just been curious how much it pays! Building a new home, cruises,all other trips. Have talked about their nanny & babysitter..Wow! They are making excellent money for their age..

[@karenmar1529]

Derik and Sarah are amazing parents and the videos they create with their children are done with such care they should really be proud of them. They will be such great memories for them to reflect on with their kids as they get older.

[@lecavalier32]

Love the honesty about each couples' fights. Your authenticity is surely appreciated by your subscribers and makes us love following y'all ❤

[@shani3861]

I just love and admire deriks honesty and sarah giving and adding cause its sooo important and eye-opening to hear someone speaking about hard stuff we go through and scared to speak up

[@fngee]

@48:34 Completely agree with Matt! I been watching a lot of their videos & Abby is always complaining about Matt in someway. Yet I never hear him say anything negative about her. Or at least not very often. I too would get bothered if someone was constantly annoyed by me.

[@c333-y]

Exactly.. Plus Matt always compliments abby , such guys are rare! She needs to be grateful

[@RensinkRamblings]

My husband and I got married less than a year after we started dating…same thing. We have been married for 25 years. Had our first child ten 1/2 months after we got married . 4 children total. It’s been an amazing time. Just gets better❤❤❤

[@brokengirl_3636]

Matt freaking out about being engaged for 13 months, meanwhile me and my husband got engaged 4 months after our first date and were engaged for 2 and a half years. 😂 God bless them they’re all so sweet❤️ My husband and I met January 2020 and got married November 2022. I wouldn’t change it for the world, he’s my rock🥰 We love the new podcast Matt & Abby. Sending love and happiness from Texas!

[@l.s7577]

I love Sarah so much! Her and her family seriously are such rays of light in the chaos that can be social media! I am glad they share their life with us and hope they learn to ignore the haters!!!

[@SamandEm]

I really love Derek and Sarah. Thanks for having to them on Matt and Abby 🤍

[@beckyklepper315]

This was the easiest going conversation I have ever been a fly on the wall for!! Love this!! Can we get Matt and Abby to move to Utah with the Beeston families please?!

[@sannehol6942]

Matt and abby already live in Utah right?

[@beckyklepper315]

@@sannehol6942 No. Arizona

[@a.r.m.8522]

They both have lived in Utah. Now Hawaii and AZ and I think Utah again for the Beestons could be wrong set if Beestons tho... I was a fly on the wall as well.

[@elizabetheddy1073]

I just love all of you! ❤️You guys are such a breath of fresh air! You guys make us laugh, feel good inside, sometimes feel sad, but overall, you guys are showing the world that there are wonderful people out there who love their children and their lives, and respect the world! You bring so much JOY to all of us! Thank you, thank you, thank you!! Don’t listen to what all of the haters are saying, they are just jealous that you are happy! I started crying when I saw Sarah crying! There’s no need to make comments that are negative! So if people make them, don’t even read them! WE LOVE YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!!!😀❤️😍😘🤗❤️🥰

[@jpishot22]

Sarah laughing when she remembered what their first fight was about 😂 I should not drink coffee while watching this, it was too funny. Love you all

[@Oak23722]

I LOVE the beestons! Sarah is such an inspiration to me and Derik is such an incredible dad🤍

[@sngray11]

Sarah and Derik are incredible parents and a wonderful couple. Thank you for having them on your podcast. 💗

[@jel0918]

Loving this podcast! Need a part 2 with Sarah and Derik, could have listened to you for a couple of hours. Honest wholesome conversation

[@Hollyhollylu]

While I'm pretty against parents being forced to raise their kids one way or another, it's pretty scary when you hear what kinds of things influencers know behind the scenes about how their children's content is being exploited by creeps. That would make me nope out immediately.

[@keondrebrelle7522]

Watching Matt and Abby respond to how the beestons met and how long they dated before getting married made me laugh because living in utah I was just like yep that sounds completely normal 😂

[@youtube.com_sarahevans]

that is soooo fr and ive only lived here for about 3 years

[@bonnietrottier3187]

It’s a Mormon thing

[@jennesamarie1297]

Right!? 😂 its not just a Mormon thing, it's actually cultural too in Utah! Especially Utah County culture. People who aren't LDS often get married really quickly too. It's just more normal 😂

[@emmshelley]

Something about the unconditional love & support can really help you come out of your shell ❤ so relatable

[@emaraupyte]

I love Sarah,Sunny,Jack,Derik! Love you Matt and Abby, Griffin too!

[@MalloryW-x5k]

Weird

[@estherlouise924]

Why don't you guys have a million subscribers yet? This is the BEST podcast with the BEST KZbinrs on the internet!! I love it how you guys keep it real with us, You guys are awesome, I absolutely LOVE your content! 500/5 stars!!

[@lifeviz28568]

Right. I'd literally watch their videos and I get sad everytime it's over.

[@klarabarunovic9841]

Because podcasts rarely hit 1 mill subs + they made this channel like 2 months ago..

[@estherlouise924]

@@klarabarunovic9841 I just mean that it's amazing, and they should have more subscribers than they do!

[@mjt333]

SARAH LISTEN TO YOUR CONSCIENCE AND PROTECT YOUR KIDS!

[@Stargazer95485]

TAKE YOUR CHILDREN OFF ALL YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. IT'S NOT TOO LATE TO DO THE RIGHT THING. *Same for Matt and Abby!*

[@rrr441]

What conscience? They only see money and no work.

[@tu4068]

She does protect them and they are her priority. You do you and she does hers

[@afullchalicevlogs7979]

@@tu4068she protects them by displaying them for pedos to view and sharing their private information online without their consent? Interesting take. I wouldn’t call that “protecting” them.

[@Elizabeth-lj1vm]

💯💯💯

[@PaganPunk]

Love the way Sarah & Derek look at each other ❤️

[@kaylaaranda1029]

I’m 10 minutes in and I am so lost yet could listen for hours, love the podcasts and your awesome guests!!

[@breelynhale5654]

Love love love you guys! Idk if Abby remembers, but I had an acting class with her freshman year of MSU with the one and only Ms. Lisa Brescia and I always remember Matt picking her up EVERY CLASS and pulling her on his skateboard. Have loved watching you grow over the years and pray for amazing blessings in ya’ll life! Keep being you and shining your light!

[@KelseyMc6]

I know this is old but I am just now seeing it. I haven’t seen much of the beestons, I just love hearing you guys talk to them! When Sarah started to cry it really hit my heart. It’s so sad that people can be so mean to people they don’t even know. You guys are doing a great job, and you seem so very kind. Can’t wait to see what He has in store for you all.

[@user-ne4fp2ts3n]

Much respect to all of you for having a real conversation. This was a great listen

[@darsh1629]

Matt definitely lightens the mood 😂😂

[@Vrsenese1095]

Preach Matt! The best phrase if you have nothing nice to say then keep it to yourself. Talking bad about your spouse at anytime is no bueno. Lift them up and support them !

[@Stargazer95485]

I'm guessing she is tired of being belittled and embarrassed by him, especially on camera, and this is her immature and passive-aggressive way of striking back.

[@alexas34]

@@Stargazer95485 if that’s the case, they sure do a wonderful job at communicating! 😉 She’s rude to him and doesn’t expect it to hurt his feelings…like what?! either Matt acts like the comments don’t really bother him, or abby doesn’t care about his feelings and/or is totally un-attentive to him. Either way, it shows that they both have some work to do if they want to be happy together. Such a wonderful couple 🥰. All that aside, I do enjoy the honesty.

[@clairegresswell]

I quite agree Matt, that was hurtful - "a gazillion things"???

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

I honestly love that y’all are both young, good looking couples, who waited until marriage to be intimate together. You don’t see that very often these days (I had a terrible experience losing mine forcefully at 14, loads of self esteem issues, only doing better now at 30). That’s really awesome.

[@user-cs9kr2wl6n]

I'm sorry you had to experience that😪 nothing that happens to you against your will is your fault. You should never feel guilty for that. Choices that aren't yours to make don't deserve to weigh so heavy on your heart❤️

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

@@user-cs9kr2wl6n thank you so much. Truly. Your words mean a lot. I’ve had awhile to cope and deal with it, so in a much better place now. Some people don’t understand, or even care, how their selfish actions can affect others. He was one of the popular guys in the grade above me, and I really thought he liked/cared about me. Destroyed my self esteem but my fiancé has helped me build that back up. ❤️ Have a great one. Remember to take care of yourself. Never be afraid to use your voice.

[@mustangrose]

I just found both of the couples in the last month or two and have been binge watching them so this made me very happy

[@myrialynn]

I love this. I love ya'll together. It's nice seeing young couples have such outstanding family values and show young families in such a positive light. I can't stress enough how important it is for kids to see that these traits hold such a high value and esteem. Thank you all ❤️🤗

[@uniplayz328]

We need another Matt, Abby, Sarah, and Derik podcast I laughed so hard! 😂

[@seaya30324]

Yessssss

[@lovevivaldi]

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[@breahnaguidry9301]

The part with them talking about their icks about each other is the closest I've ever seen Matt and Abby almost start fighting on camera lol😂

[@csaltamachify]

When if comes to filming the kids, remember you don't have to post the videos, but you still will want the memory. ❤

[@bonniepaora8664]

Definitely! I vlog too and it took me a long time to figure out a balance between filming for content, filming for memories and being present in the moment. I now usually film things i think are important in depth but dont necessarily pay too much attention to the screen, so the angles might be a bit off sometimes, but I've captured the moment AND experienced it. Things that i find beautiful eg on a nature walk, I'll stop to film a quick clip, take a few pics and spend the rest of the time gazing in awe

[@ttstephanie0629]

I did think that. You can video everything. You don't have to post it

[@ILUVHINGHAM]

I never watch or listen to podcast but this one, THIS, just truly hit different it was so easy to watch I love how you guys are friends and the convo can just flow so easy💚

[@elenevanrooyen205]

Love you guys so much Congrats on being pregnant again Thanks for all the hard work you put into these videos I just want to say that I appreciate you all☺️

[@llw04939]

I feel like Abby was being so rude about the icks. Like, I totally agree with Matt that his ick is her being annoyed about everything.

[@HeatherBDentureDiVa]

100% agree and all these comments agree with that. Idk I've watched them for a super long time like during covid but Abby comes across rude and mean and Matt does whatever she feels so he don't get bullied. I actually stopped following them bc of Abby and how she treats him sometimes

[@erinharney5460]

I love both families. It’s nice to see two social media influencers get together and have raw conversations. Thanks for this!

[@mamatae1113]

I love the four of you together ❤️ Your’e all such humble, wholesome people and AMAZING parents!! This was a great podcast! Sending you all so much love!

[@nrsjeni2351]

My daughter was T~boned at “highway” speed into her driver’s door. The state trooper that was first on scene told me he thought she had passed, but my girl ended up needing 6 units of blood and 12 weeks in a rehab. Now she has stage 4 Hodgkin disease. Be thankful for where you are. Money doesn’t matter, it’s about your family, your legacy.

[@haleyhopes5774]

I love both of these couples, BUT, you simply CANNOT say that your child’s safety is your #1 priority while you are allowing predators to have free access to them online! The BEST thing you can do to protect children today is to not share them on the internet. Also, I don’t think your child should EVER be a revenue source that you depend on at ALL. IF you’re going to choose to allow your child to “work” then every penny that is earned with their content should be put back for them. I don’t think parents that share their kids are horrible people, but you do have to be honest about things AND do things as responsibly as you can.

[@vikavolkova6161]

As a person who never ever listens to podcasts cause I get distracted too easily, this has been the only one that has actually caught my attention! I`ve been your main channel`s subscriber for a while now and the news about you guys starting your own podcast made me feel so hyped since I already knew it`d be a banger! Also I`m following the Beestons and enjoy watching their videos as well so it was really exciting to see them featured here! Sending both of you, Matt&Abby, loads of love and looking forward to see more episodes!!💕

[@sjoy8765]

I’m convinced Matt is the most wholesome human on the planet. I was so sad when he said Abby’s icks about him hurt his feelings 🥺🥺

[@mb4342]

Same! She can be so harsh towards him…it’s annoying.

[@fngee]

​@M B It's so annoying! She seemed so bothered when he called her out too ... which makes zero sense.

[@Thegbwest]

It makes sense , I think it’s natural for someone to be embarrassed after their husband calls them out, especially, in front of friends.

[@sherulh4587]

I love the beestons! All of them lol but this seems to me the funnest and realest I’ve seen and to open up about early marriage problems when you seem perfect is awesome! Love Matt and Abby as well! I’ll continue watching!

[@dianahall9631]

Sara - you don’t have to apologize for tears.

[@annapeterson2242]

Gotta say Matt’s Ick is so valid! Nothing worse than someone calling out flaws all the time. But loved this vid! Sarah and Derik are so fun!

[@Elizabeth-lj1vm]

As pertaining to filming kids, I think it’s ridiculous when creators say, “These videos will be our home videos.” The same was said by Kate Gosselin about the Gosselin kids and look at the way that turned out!! I think creators have to be very careful because they know if they don’t have their kids in their videos, their videos won’t be as popular.

[@lambchop29]

Yeah and they can just store ‘home videos’ on their phone/post to a more private account, there’s no need for randos to see it

[@janviaggarwal6216]

Congratulations youuu guyz... I'm soooo sooo freakin happyyyy for youu dudess... congratulations on this pregnancy matt and abby❤️❤️❤️❤️ I just remember how young and little you guyz looked and were when you started your KZbin channel and seeing your growth , your life , your journey has been such an emotional and empowering phaseee...you guys soo motivate hella out of the youngsters who want to settle down young together ✨✨😍😍😍 you guysss are just soo kind , soo sweet and lovely!!! And abby you are an amazing human. I love how you're taking care of Griffin as well as new baby❤️ That's so special..still breastfeeding while being pregnant with second❤️❤️ I wish you four lifetime of happiness and joy and may the second and third trimester go easy for you and soon you welcome your eye's apple, your heart's joy into your arms ❤️✨ and how greatt matt is to support you through thick and thin and to appreciate you always.. cleaning vomit , doing those small small things which many won't doo❤️❤️❤️❤️ soo kudos to youu guyz 😍😍😍 you're doing a great job❤️❤️❤️❤️and we love youuu😍😍😍😍😍

[@issycdavies]

It’s truly wild that you’ve said all these things and happily put it online for us all to see. So we know you know the risks of putting your children online, but you’ve justified it to yourselves so you don’t care 🙃 you should all be seriously embarrassed. Sarah literally says, “I know there’s creepers, I know there’s scary things out there… but at the same time…” you make so much money from it that it’s worth it?

[@lilyharp3771]

people are greedy, this is what happens when narcissists get a large following. they care more about money than their own children.

[@ttstephanie0629]

That's so wrong!!! Don't judge them!!! Who are you to judge? Do you put your kids in sports? Public school? They're dangers everywhere in this world. These family's go to extreme to ensure their kids safety. They're completely moving because dangers were touching their lives. If you don't want to that's fine but don't judge others.

[@fearinghashem]

My husband and I met, got engaged and married in just under 6 months. We were 20. And just had our 11th anniversary and our 6th child ♥️ I remember the looks people had when we wanted to get married. My husband wanted to elope by week 2 but we decided to wait for our family. My dad asked us to give it 6 months. But we really wish we just eloped ♥️♥️

[@carleeohala7910]

I’m so glad you guys started these! I listen to them on my way to work and I feel like I can relate so much to you guys, being married young (21) and first time parents.

[@MarineWife0707]

I absolutely LOVED this podcast! My 2 favorite families in one podcast! Thank you so much! I enjoy watching you two and your families. I don't care what anyone else says, you both are wonderful parents and super people! Thank you so much for sharing your lives with us. You've both helped me through some rough times. Thank you.

[@amyjenniferr]

Hearing them talking about “creeps” and knowing that there are people who seek out videos of children on KZbin but also say they want to protect their children from this is confusing

[@CdnCwby09]

I have watched a few Derik and Sarah's Videos with little Jack and Derik's Reaction to little Jack dressing like him, or jack on skateboard are so adorable to watch, that is Derik being a great dad interacting with his son

[@Essouza81]

It's all about planning, just like any other job. If you don't want your kids in social media, restrict the brands you take on. Everyone has to find a balance between work and home life, even if you work together.

[@AlisonMulvale]

loved listening to you talk about the realities of parenting and how it throws planning out the window. From when our daughter was about 6 months old I realized if it's really important I could plan it 2-3 months ahead for things like gifts and have it go 'to plan' and otherwise it's probably not gonna happen or happen late. Kiddos just need so much and the curveballs that come with them make life so erratic.

[@JesssicaMessica]

I love this !!! Can you do more podcasts together?? My husband and i have a young child just like you guys and we aren’t content creators but so many things youve said, i relate to on so many level! You guys are doing amazing and everyone knows you are all amazing parents!! I was heartbroken seeing Sarah when she was talking about people and their rude comments about her “exploiting” your child. You’re all fantastic parents !

[@PRaeFox]

Love both these young families. Watch them all the time. Podcast was interesting, informative and funny as well!

[@abbyblanchet2346]

I look forward to this podcast every week! So much fun seeing you all in this format- feels like we are hanging out. Keep it up Abby and Matt 🤭

[@morkmeinyourheart]

i love the beeston so much omg they’re genuine people you just know

[@chelseaputnam4456]

The way that Sarah and Derick got together is really not that big of a deal. It’s life, everyone meets everyone differently and it all played out the way it was supposed to❤

[@chelseaputnam4456]

I meant this in a nice way not in a rude demeanor ❤️ all love

[@cheyennelambert6389]

Omit the first sentence and the "rude demeanor" comment wouldn't be necessary 😘 #thinkbeforeyouspeak #etiquette

[@chelseaputnam4456]

Thank you for that bit of information. I typed and deleted multiple ways of saying the sentence because I didn’t want it to come across rude. I am not trying to hurt anyone’s feelings. The only real reason I replied was the repetition of how shocked their reactions were to how Derick&Sarah met one another❤️

[@carolynturk-hu7je]

Matt & Abby two words with all due respect: couple's therapy! Fighting is not conflict resolution! Low blow hits verbally not conflict resolution!

[@gertaze1781]

They have said many times that they go to couple's therapy 😊

[@carolynturk-hu7je]

@@gertaze1781 On this podcast Matt said he wants to go to therapy but hasn't yet. ?????

[@gertaze1781]

@@carolynturk-hu7je oh Sorry i didn't mean on the podcast, they have said on youtube actually, in many videos i just don't remember which 😊 my comment was not intended like THEY SAID IT, it was intended as an fyi 😅 maybe i didn't write the right way. He probably meant therapy for himself and his anxiety

[@rachermione]

​@@carolynturk-hu7je I think that meant individual therapy not couples therapy

[@carolynturk7368]

@@rachermione Do you recall which content it was?

[@Spirits2000]

Have a Day it’s a No Film Day or Week.We will Survive.Take Care of you and your Family ✨♥️✨When you Age you learn to let little things that bug you Go.♥️

[@amandaganzer29ganzer12]

I love how you guys are opening up and setting examples and giving advice. You guys are awesome ❤

[@bonniepaora8664]

Gotta get Sarah and Derick back on again for sure! Loved this episode ❤️

[@matteodicorato7748]

You guys are all absolutely killing it - I’m so happy for you & the progress you’ve made since starting KZbin!! Never give up, don’t stop being you & keep doing what makes you happy ❤ Each week I look forward to watching either the Vlogs or the Podcasts. Lots of love & support from Canada 🇨🇦

[@elden5052]

I‘d be so pissed, if my parents had exposed me to the entire world on YT, being the very private person that I am.

[@rrr441]

Exactly...

[@Flowers4Everyone]

Really enjoy all four of you and your evolutions into relationships, kids, work. You're doing a great job and the honesty comes across🙂You do what works for you and be happy!

[@beverlyt.5526]

I love Derek and Sarah and have been watching them since just before Jack was born. Sweet Couple 💕. I also follow his brother and sister in law. Seems like all of you have great friendships which is realy cool ✨. All of your parents must be very proud. Great family values all around!!!!! New York here

[@avaaldridge8713]

Matt and Abby- You guys moved so fast in your relationship! My mom and dad- met, got engaged, and married in the same year.

[@morkmeinyourheart]

it’s unfair how the two couples theyre all so attractive and kind people!!!!

[@appalachianfamilyrecipes4647]

Omg the amount I’ve laughed while watching these interviews has been amazing. This is your niche!

[@salleigh]

I feel like Matt and Abby are friends with the best people. The Beestons and then the Cordle family 😢❤ best group of people!

[@laracolanino7541]

I love you guys so much. I love Abby of course how can u not !? 🥹 But Matt is literally so freakin sweet… like woah what a sweetie 🤍🖤🤍🖤🫶🏻🫶🏻✨