Thank you for your video, Marina. I've been through similar cultural shocks living in Brazil (I'm from Argentina). Here small talks and people smiling all the time is the rule too. But it's interesting the way you approach the situation, instead of saying "they are false", you say "they want to establish a friendly environment", that's a nice way to see it.
@sihembouaoud82262 жыл бұрын
i liked the quality of small talk it's so sweet and make the client confortable i think it's so important especially in this stressful life
@kw77092 жыл бұрын
Hi Marina, as an American, it's so interesting to hear you talk about things that are so seemingly normal, being highlighted as a cultural phenomenon. Regarding parties, I agree with others who say that being late depends on the people and the region. It can be very rude to be late, especially if your invitation states that dinner will be served at a specific time. And never be late for work! Anyway, thanks for sharing your insights!
@Maya_CR-422 жыл бұрын
My gosh!!... Really agree with you ...I need small favour from you ..will you?
@yoda23972 жыл бұрын
as cultural phenomena*. Unless the change in plurality was intentional, in which case that's another grammatical error. "As an American.." interesting
@kw77092 жыл бұрын
@@yoda2397 I'm not a grammar expert, but I'm pretty sure that using the singular here is correct because "things" is a collective noun.
@DAILYNEWSWITHSUBTITLES2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@yoda23972 жыл бұрын
@@kw7709 Interesting, given that you correctly chose "are". These things aren't that complicated. Or, in your opinion, these things isn't that complicated. Embarrassing.
@sitbone32 жыл бұрын
Distance between people in line is not a Covid behavior. There is something called “personal space” that is different in European countries than in the U.S. In most European countries the personal space between people in public is closer than the personal space in the U.S. Whether in conversation or just standing and waiting. Europeans will stand very close and that makes Americans a little nervous and they’ll tend to back away and enlarged the personal space. (A study I had to do for my sociology degree.)
@Kelebek-jj2 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly this is not a covid behaviour. I'm from europe and when i moved here this was the first weird thing for me that people feel disturbed when you stand close to them. For them this is normal but for us this is so unfriendly and such a being cold person. I think the reason is; people feel in danger, because of the safety problems here.
@sitbone32 жыл бұрын
@@Kelebek-jj …not really anything to do with current safety problems. The American personal space comfort zone has been like this for at least 75 years. It has changed over time. When my grandparents came to the US from Italy and Lithuania around 1900, people stood much closer. Over the decades the distance has become enlarged.
@Kelebek-jj2 жыл бұрын
@@sitbone3 Yes maybe you are right. I am almost new in this country.I have been observing people and the culture since I came here.There are many things to discuss and the I wish I could explain correctly but I am not a native speaker and this topic is so deep😁 Maybe I can explain my thoughts better, another time in the future😊
@mrDingleberry442 жыл бұрын
@@Kelebek-jj No, not a safety issue. Regardless of my being in a good or bad neighborhood, Americans just tend to like space. We don't want to smell our neighbor or be able to tell what you had for lunch. I've been abroad a lot too. I'm not particularly afraid of European or Asians being really close. But I also look like maybe I have a screw loose, so most times I get my personal space even abroad. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jessicafregoso68942 жыл бұрын
But still we can get sick 😷 we are not going to die but getting sick sucks 🤪
@deplorablenation111 Жыл бұрын
You were spot on with everything. It's a rarity to see an individual get it so correctly.
@khuba25002 жыл бұрын
Being late is not chill, it's simply disrespectful
@Viallanelle-Martinez2 жыл бұрын
In your page, we don't just learn language, we also learn culture and other things 💗🙂
@sitbone32 жыл бұрын
Wait until you go to Mexico. If you make plans to meet locals at a restaurant at 7pm, they will arrive at 10pm. If you plan with locals to meet for breakfast at 9am, they will arrive at noon. It’s a Mexican thing. Then when you ask them why they came so late they will answer, “well, here we are”.
@fatimahira95782 жыл бұрын
That's kindof annoying isn't it?
@essammortada49032 жыл бұрын
Same in egypt
@essammortada49032 жыл бұрын
@TONIK This is our culture in Egypt
@silas48192 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your daily effort for us to improve our English significantly! KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK
@dangelusarussianchannel2 жыл бұрын
Always getting some great ideas from you! Thank you
@naniski73882 жыл бұрын
i am following you from algeria huge respect for your effort to help us to improve our english language
@anthropomorphicrabbit8662 жыл бұрын
I think the punctuality thing depends on what region of America you’re in. In the northern south (that’s what I like to call it), my dad always taught me that to be early is to be on time and to be on time is to be late. If you arrive early to a social gathering, as long as you’re not putting pressure on the host, you can always help set up. California is definitely bizarre if the next guest at that party didn’t show up until an hour after the agreed upon time.
@hmm74202 жыл бұрын
Different cultures in the USA have different values about time. In my family, there is a saying, "If you are not 10 minutes early, you are late." A few of my extended family change it to 15 or more minutes early. I went to a family dinner, arrived 15 minutes early, and the rest of the family was eating dessert. They told me, "We tried to wait for you, but when you were so late, we gave up and ate without you." My parents went to a party hosted by a Costa Rican family one time. They were warned about arriving on time by another American friend. So they arrived an hour late, and the hostess was still in her housecoat. She was shocked that they were so early.
@EmpressMermaid2 жыл бұрын
I live in an area with a large Latin-American population. They actually have different time concepts for different situations. It's a bit of a joke. If you say 6 o'clock "hora Americana" you mean really 6 o'clock. They also have the idea of "work time", as times regarding work or business have to be on time.
@arturom79032 жыл бұрын
Everytime that you realease a video I learn so much new topics. Thanks so much, Marina. 🙂
@thefulchman2 жыл бұрын
That "ramp" on the side of the road is called the "shoulder." And it would require an extreme emergency to allow you to drive on it. It's definitely not there for people to get around a traffic jam. That will piss a lot of people off.
@yonaokami34472 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video😍🤩
@juju338792 жыл бұрын
Живу во Франции 20 лет, в общем, почти все похоже. Кроме того, что приходить намного позже назначенного времени - это ну чудовищный моветон )) Таких людей потом больше просто не пригласят )) Есть регионы ( юго-восток ), где это более-менее нормально, но в основном люди очень пунктуальны. Спасибо, люблю твои видео! ;)
@elenaegikova24772 жыл бұрын
Ой, а я думала, что французы тоже расслабленные относительно времени)
@juju338792 жыл бұрын
@@elenaegikova2477 Смотря в каком регионе :) На юго-востоке очень расслабленные, на юго-западе или ближе к Германии, например - очень пунктуальные.
@vladarskopin33142 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. I had no idea they have so many unspoken rules in the US, that's pretty interesting
@romancherevatenko56582 жыл бұрын
Interesting! Marina, thank you! I hope to see more stories about unwritten rules in the US.
@thefairycupid0982 жыл бұрын
Hello Marina Thanks for your daily picks and healthy content
@astrojello68822 жыл бұрын
I think you gotta know the U.S. varies a ton state by state. In a lot of places 4pm means 4pm.
@KatieG9862 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@HA-zd5gx2 жыл бұрын
I like 4 pms that are actualy 5pm!
@leslievalenciano-lopez88872 жыл бұрын
I agree. Personally I think it’s rude to be late and if the event starts at 4, people should be there at 4!❤️
@KatieG9862 жыл бұрын
@@leslievalenciano-lopez8887 is true.
@leslievalenciano-lopez88872 жыл бұрын
@Eccentric Queen I agree
@alenabazhukova2 жыл бұрын
Когда была в Японии, меня поразило то, как люди поднимаются и спускаются по лестнице, идут по тротуарам... Это просто как будто врожденный инстинкт, люди идут по правой стороне. Если это эскалатор, то люди все равно стоят справа, давая возможность пройти тем, кому не терпится спуститься... Если это туалет, то люди спокойно стоят в очереди. Если очередь в магазине - то оставляют большое расстояние между друг другом. Просто уважение к окружающим, как же мне его не хватает в России. Везде тебя пихают, толкают, фу
@real.siberian2 жыл бұрын
А ещё, никто не может нормально с позитивом или нейтрально высказать что-то, что не нравится. Обязательно начнут хамить
@irina-s2 жыл бұрын
Ну не надо обобщать, в России достаточно вежливых людей. Страна большая и люди разные, я уже не говорю, что у нас много национальностей со своей культурой.
@marinabakay99322 жыл бұрын
It's SOOO untrue on East Coast! 4pm means 4pm! Don't say US, specify your state.
@journeytoamericanenglish49522 жыл бұрын
Hi marina I am from Pakistan🇵🇰 I like your lecture but you are looking so much real American.
@rajkeplerhume50022 жыл бұрын
What the hell is that supposed to mean?
@Shekhar_pro2 жыл бұрын
Although, she is Russian 😅😅
@rajkeplerhume50022 жыл бұрын
@@Shekhar_pro I don't even know what he wanted to say. Is it a crime if someone "looks" a bit American? 😂
@journeytoamericanenglish49522 жыл бұрын
No it is not a crime.
@rajkeplerhume50022 жыл бұрын
@@journeytoamericanenglish4952 then you shouldn't have said that. It's not polite.
@tharii3142 жыл бұрын
Love you!
@analuizamp2 жыл бұрын
Marina, here in Brazil when we say a party start at 7:00 p.m. people usually arrives at 9:00 p.m.. For foreigners this maybe can stress a little bit, until get used to it.
@angel_14082 жыл бұрын
Hi ! Marina,I like your channel so much!✨ Because your channel is so interesting and healthy!💫
@БарановськаАнастасія2 жыл бұрын
Як завжди ДУЖЕ цікаве та корисне відео. Дякую за ваші старання 🥰
@nesoo78682 жыл бұрын
Very helpful channel & Marina is Best English teacher. Your pronusation is so clear. Anyone can easily understand what you teach. Thank uuu😘
@WhatashameMaryJane2 жыл бұрын
I am European (Italian) living in USA (New York) and to me arriving at least 15-30 minutes after the time is considered common practice. In New York instead I had to learn to be exactly on time because it's rude to arrive "late" to a party. So the exact opposite as what you perceive as "European" or "American" 🤷♀😊
@volodymyrostrovskyi5332 жыл бұрын
Regarding righ-side walking, I'm not sure it's alway an unwritten rule. For example, in Ukraine, it's written in Traffic Rulles that not only drivers, but also pedestrians must use the right side. Maybe it's in also in Traffic rules of other Europenian countries
@lifeinamerica.veronika33412 жыл бұрын
Марина , спасибо за Ваше видео 😊У меня в Америке немного другой эксперимент со временем на ужин-вечеринку . Если пригласили быть в 5 то необходимо быть вовремя . А , в остальном всё похоже на Ваши описания 🌹🌹🌹
@dariarova97242 жыл бұрын
Качество видео на высоте. Я не только содержании. Реально отличная камера 👍
@taniavoltios91672 жыл бұрын
I am a Bolivian and moved to LA in 2020. I find it interesting that you say people in the U.S. don't arrive on time to gatherings, cause actually I feel it's the opposite (specially compared to my country in which it is common to arrive 1 or 2 hours after the time of the invitation). Nice video!
@MA-gn5nl2 жыл бұрын
Every “American” thing really depends on where in the US you live and your cultural background. America is so diverse there’s really no way that one “American” thing applies to all Americans. Here in Hawaii it’s normal to be super late to gatherings and meet ups that we even have a term coined for it which is “Hawaii time.” My family always say “eh I not late, I’m on Hawaii time” lol Interestingly in Okinawa, they also have the term “Okinawa time” which means the same thing. It was very interesting because Japan’s known for being super on time. Comes to show that Okinawans are not the same as the Japanese
@MrMojeju2 жыл бұрын
Same in Habesha culture (Ethiopian)they arrive 3hr late.
@DAILYNEWSWITHSUBTITLES2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@ygabriella89912 жыл бұрын
Same, I'm from México
@angelicaelias1822 жыл бұрын
Tal vez es algo muy latino nuestro, a mi también me llamó la atención esa parte. En México decimos “llegaste a barrer” si lo hiciste antes de la hora acordada o bien se vuelve incómodo jaja.
@ana_maria99462 жыл бұрын
thank u for all marina! I adore the quality of your videos
@futreporto7422 жыл бұрын
Thank you Marina!
@hajaramiri87482 жыл бұрын
Way too useful..thx
@arinstars2542 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed in this vid and I like their culture.
@HealerSoul442 жыл бұрын
I have loved this video ! Thanks for the tip !
@jamshid_66822 жыл бұрын
Hi! Marina Thank you for the video
@pastorammo2 жыл бұрын
I think the “showing up whenever” thing is local to you. That’s not normal American culture.
@rmh89402 жыл бұрын
It's pretty common
@mariorosas77792 жыл бұрын
Because she lives in socal
@joshuagenes2 жыл бұрын
I tend to show up on time if not earlier in order to help out if needed. Often you show up and people aren't ready on time if you come a little later then you know you are showing up when there are going to be other people. Americans tend to leave at 8 or 9 pm and that is when the Latinoes show up and they leave at 2 or 3 am when you have a party.
@Ankita17072 жыл бұрын
I like your videos you are so amazing
@JohnSmith-xh7gb2 жыл бұрын
You're always fanatic.
@thecoachwhocares2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video.😊 I hope I’ll visit the States one day.🤞
@bethanykennedy8122 жыл бұрын
In these types of videos, people say in the U.S. and proceed to say things that are not true about the entire U.S. I think that there's an assumption that because we are one country, we are one culture. And while there are things that are universal to the whole country, most things vary by state, region, county, or town. And then of course you have subcultures with their own rules based on the origin country of their ancestors, or some other factor common in the group but not common in the country.
@boomboombaby91402 жыл бұрын
Yeah the US have 4 different time zone , entertaining another state sometimes is like going to another country
@esharahman77022 жыл бұрын
Hi I followed you from Bangladesh which is a small country of south Asia.Lots of love... for your future upcoming videos.💗💗
@beingkidslibrarytoysgamesb96462 жыл бұрын
I realized this really long ago that I was born in India by some geographical error. .. the queue , the distance when in queue, keeping on right, arriving late for parties (but I cook really before time), no pics with random people esp of kids, less post on insta post n other social sites...quick small talk etc!
@heddadchrifa76252 жыл бұрын
Every day I watch your videos. Yo're so amazing and I adore especially the way you talk and your mouvements. Whenever I listen to you. I feel more self confident and able to use my feedback that is held in my mind. I HOPE YOU ALL THE BEST. ❤️❤️
@pamela817912 жыл бұрын
I live in California, always start party on time, they have the time on the invitación card 3-6 , 4-7,. I learn you need to text everyone one week before the party, make sure how much people the come, I didn’t know until I have my daughter party and only 2 kids show up,it was very disappointed but I learn on the hard way
@silent..60442 жыл бұрын
Ну конечно просто отлично:) 💫🧡 каждый раз смотрю и говорю просто идти вперёд к своей цели, вот это клаcно:) Thank you✍
@jelenadakovic76292 жыл бұрын
In Europe, yes is different but it depends from which country. In the North people are more punctual instead the people from the south of Europe are more likely to be late.
@farhanmobin5182 жыл бұрын
Hey Marina, that was really informative! Thanks. :)
@shahodatjumaniyozova55402 жыл бұрын
Super understandable
@chuchu59232 жыл бұрын
In my country I often come to home hangouts with friends only 10-30 minutes late, but they tell me that I am constantly late
@millionaire63412 жыл бұрын
I love you and I love your lessons 😻 from Yemen
@nethmafernando89862 жыл бұрын
Interesting 😁pretty cool. I'm from Sri Lanka😀. I knew lot of new things about US 🙃. Love to visit some day 😋. Thank you Marina🤩
@youdeservethis2 жыл бұрын
Show up whenever for a party, but for a dinner party show up on time.
@safraneloq85242 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, it is super cool that you have noticed about maintaining physical distance. I will subscribe to your channel!
@awgustbaird2 жыл бұрын
Born and raised in California 😊 generally speaking arriving to a party at someone's home, between 15 to 30 minutes late is considered normal. Guests usually arriving before dinner would begin to mingle, enjoy drinks, appetizers, and casually chat. This allows for most people to show up, and the host to begin/wrap-up cooking. Often a host will state time dinner to be served so everyone is sure to arrive on time. If you arrive early, just ask how you can help 😊 With that said, I have been at parties where cooking started very late... guests were not happy. Kids were hungry and adults were annoyed 😒 My daughter said to mention, no one wants to be the first person to arrive. Not really sure why that is... but there is truth in that. Don't want to look too eager I guess 🤣 So showing up a "little" late prevents that from occurring 🤷🏼♀️ but still, less than an hour 😊 Now being late to any type of meeting... 😏 even if it's just coffee with a friend, always be on time. You mentioned Los Altos California. This is a more affluent area, as you know, and maybe culturally their time is more fluid, or flexible... also going back to it "looking" cool to be fashionably late, may be more a thing in casual parties there 🤔
@lisasmartway2 жыл бұрын
It's so interesting that some things that are super polite in the US may be the opposite in some other countries 😉
@barrysteven59642 жыл бұрын
You asked if we walk on the left in the UK. I'm not a hundred percent sure. I'm not sure there is a hard and fast rule but in schools children are often told to walk on the left in the corridor. On the London underground there is a rule on the escalators both going up and down. Stand on the right! Leave the left clear for people who want to walk (or run) past everyone if they are in a rush.
@VALaker1002 жыл бұрын
It's only common in certain parts of the country, usually big cities. If you are throwing a party in the countryside, expect people arrive 10 minutes earlier! Trust me!
@jamesconnolly5164 Жыл бұрын
Walking on the right to make foot traffic go smoothly seems like just common sense. I guess it doesn't matter if it's the left or right as long as everyone agrees which side they're using.
@amandeepsharma66112 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mam for making this informative video about USA 🇺🇸
@emadalsalih29442 жыл бұрын
I love you 😘 thank you for everything 💝
@hkharis072 жыл бұрын
Well in my experience Americans are always on time, they will ask the full plan and if you say we want you to be there at 7pm they will be there right at that time. Thanks for sharing informative social observation
@essammortada49032 жыл бұрын
We in Egypt are the exact opposite If you agreed with someone to meet at 2 and you called him, he will tell you I am coming while he is still wearing
@-.a99422 жыл бұрын
Yeah it may depend on the area. Here in northeast America people are always on time.
@gudetamaminiso5132 жыл бұрын
Interesting. Except social media+small talk+smile, as a french I find myself exactly like the americans !
@alexalex-r8o2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I don't live in California 😅 great tips, though. I've lived in the US for over 5 years and I've noticed the same cultural differences too.
@amitshah94962 жыл бұрын
What is the best time to watch Marina's videos, Because then I just keep watching her videos and forget about my studies.
@amitshah94962 жыл бұрын
??any suggestions
@xyz0_oZYX2 жыл бұрын
Hi marina, thanks for providing this.I love your videos. They are very interesting
@dayashanker34812 жыл бұрын
Army??
@xyz0_oZYX2 жыл бұрын
@@dayashanker3481 yup bts army
@rasoiiplanet26462 жыл бұрын
Watching you is a healthy treat for me!!!😍😍
@denise10192 жыл бұрын
I'm from Germany but I visited the US for some holiday trips. The thing with the small talk is totally weird for me. I don't want to talk with the cashier about trivialities... Moreover, I find that Americans are not only constantly smiling, but also loud and over-excited. 🤪Sorry guys, but you have a beautiful country.
@tinosnoemi162 жыл бұрын
Been following you Marina from Philippines. ❤️ I learned several ideas in terms of communication.
@YouTubeLife1902 жыл бұрын
Thank for your facts talk
@jennyhammond92612 жыл бұрын
Where in the US are/were you?? I'm American and it seems very rude to come to dinner more than a few minutes late. Only if something says "open house" do you kinda come and go as you please within the time frame.
@jennyhammond92612 жыл бұрын
Oh, you said later..CA
@flower53962 жыл бұрын
Nice video. 👍
@roxxxydubois2 жыл бұрын
Never really heard the never be on time thing, but the rest are spot on though, maybe the on time thing is a california thing.
@eyasdjunaidi2 жыл бұрын
Very nice .. thank you for the information… I am from Jordan in the Middle East… I travel to USA all the time … all what you said makes sense to me now … different cultures
@essammortada49032 жыл бұрын
لو سمحت كيف اصبحت تتكلم بطلاقه اخوك من مصر
@ellen61592 жыл бұрын
You are amazing 🤩
@sandeeppanwarsingh2 жыл бұрын
Mam you make every video very thoughtfully, if you do not like it, then obviously no one will like it, believe in you, what you know is the best for us... Thanks mam🙏
@StarOnTheWater2 жыл бұрын
I live in Germany which is considered one of the most punctual places on earth. But when we say "The party starts at 6" it still means "come whenever the **** you want".
@lorrainevitoria21312 жыл бұрын
In Brazil we always like always guys ask the children mother if we can give a candy for example kids always cry when something happens so to make a kid to stop crying we offer a candy
@NifaAisya212 жыл бұрын
I completly like your videos ma'am🥰
@alessiafaggian9992 жыл бұрын
If a friend of mine, 2h after the invitation is still not showing up.... I will start thinking to call the hospital looking for him\her
@arutkural2 жыл бұрын
I have a couple of doubts in reported speech. How to report the following sentences: 1. While I was reading newspaper, my wife was preparing breakfast. 2. While my wife was preparing breakfast, someone knocked at the door. Second doubt: Do the following sentences mean the same? A. While my wife was preparing breakfast, someone knocked at the door. B. My wife was preparing breakfast when someone knocked at the door. Requesting you to help me, solving these.
@ozodbekhakimov65972 жыл бұрын
Congratulation😇😁
@jaeminyy2 жыл бұрын
at 2:18, how did you know that the person was a tourist? did you ask the person to delete the photo? or tell the person that you should not do that in the US? // In which country people let others to use the ramp to get head of the traffic? // Small talk: do you know which country, small talk is not very common?
@olkodolko2 жыл бұрын
Is there self counter or like Amazon store. No small talk there right?
@ritastein9173 Жыл бұрын
The first is really surprising because as a Brazilian I always knew americans were super on time, always, and made fun of Brazilians for being always late.
@fatimataia2 жыл бұрын
Thnks u r the best
@Leo-nt2kj2 жыл бұрын
Hello Marina, I have something to ask you. Is it ok to say American accent in England?
@imfirstatachaijr.johnner42402 жыл бұрын
What does it mean when people say “ I will be riding shotgun “ I have no idea at all.
@johnhaller58512 жыл бұрын
It's the front passenger seat. If you were ever chasing a criminal, the person with the shotgun sits there, not that one would ever see that in real life. But, if more than two people are getting in a car, sometimes someone will say shotgun to establish their position in the front seat, so they don't have to sit in the back.
@imfirstatachaijr.johnner42402 жыл бұрын
@@johnhaller5851 Oh !! Make sense! Thank you for your answer Sir. Appreciated it. I’m not quite good at ENG. thanks again 👏🏻👍🏼
@sujalnakwalarts2 жыл бұрын
Part 2, Please 😄😄😄
@saccavlogs20242 жыл бұрын
Hi teacher marina Iam from Kenya 🇰🇪 and I like your explanation please continue and I got many english lesson from your channel thank you
@mr.donatello2 жыл бұрын
Showing up late to parties is mostly a West Coast/California thing. East Coast/New York is more punctual.
@RZOE9382 жыл бұрын
This is so useful thank you 💗💗
@spetz9112 жыл бұрын
В очередях постоянно народ наступает на пятки, так что когда я поднимаю рюкзак или делаю шаг назад - постоянно попадаю им по лицу или по ноге. Ужасно раздражает…
@adanguevara51572 жыл бұрын
Your voice and accent remember me to Michelle from American Pie
@mummy_kitchen_0152 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for wonderful knowledge ❤️❤️❤️
@gulyoraabdumutalova67022 жыл бұрын
I adore you Marina 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 thanks for all your information