Use These THREE Secrets to OUTSMART The Narcissist

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Rebecca Zung

Rebecca Zung

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@lovelybrown3217
@lovelybrown3217 Жыл бұрын
Dont take anything personal with them. It keeps emotional distance .
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
That is huge! Thank you for the reminder.
@bohochic2459
@bohochic2459 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for such an important reminder. This reminds me of the book "The Four Agreements" - such simple, yet profound reminders. One is not to take anything personally. I have been allowing myself to take things so personally again - it causes such great suffering. Thank you again! 🦋👼🕯🙏💙
@lucybraun8969
@lucybraun8969 Жыл бұрын
@@bohochic2459 I'm prone to doing that, too, but today, I got a little bit of financial reprieve, so I'm not going to let anything bust that apart. It's provision where I hadn't foreseen anything giving me a let up. Little by little, bit by bit, step by step, I'm finding my way through the morass.
@bohochic2459
@bohochic2459 Жыл бұрын
@Lucy Braun - I am glad to read that you have had some financial reprieve. Well deserved! Thank you for taking the time to share, along with important reminders. Life is far too precious to let the wrong people and things rent-free space in our minds. ❤️🕯❤️
@edwinhageman9377
@edwinhageman9377 Жыл бұрын
Narcissist = a SHARK Attack in Feeding Frenzy = They PRAY on the WEAK - if allowed to T00 = They have no empathy!
@andreeaciobanuc404
@andreeaciobanuc404 2 ай бұрын
After setting boundaries with a narc woman, a work colleague, she turned all the people against me. She manipulated everyone on her side. Sadly, all the people played into her hands, they seemed just pathetic how they flattered her, worshipped her, walked behind her as her servants or slaves, they highly looked up to her, admired her, were mesmerized by her fake charm and personality, while they treated my like crap, with group bullying, high disrespect, isolation, discrimination, they considered me as the biggest loser ever, a worthless fellow, while they regarded the narc woman as their queen, doing all the dirty works for her. I will never forget this and how I could not win, how I lost everyone's respect at my workplace and I hade to leave in humiliation. And it's highly unfair because all she did to me was due to jealousy and envy, since I was a better teacher than her, with higher success.
@edwinhageman9377
@edwinhageman9377 Жыл бұрын
I have found over the decades; they can't stand; if someone else gets a head = even a tiny bit! I like to see others gain in life! [ 1st comes Envy Jealousy Anger Hatred!] Sad!
@jeannenoe7717
@jeannenoe7717 Жыл бұрын
Edwin, you just summed up my brother-in-law so perfectly!! Jim has been an alcoholic for about 40 yrs now. He is also very jealous of his brother (my husband). My mother-in-law is very ill with heart disease. Currently, Jim, my husband and I are living with her to help with day to day things. Jim hates me because he hates his brother. He always has a chip on his shoulder!! Very sad!! I love these videos. Very helpful for my situation. 🙂
@lovewhitey2027
@lovewhitey2027 Жыл бұрын
Agreed X BF was jealous of my new home after decades and hers is twice as big ?! WTF they are toxic haters 👹🤬🚨
@brittanyhamrick40
@brittanyhamrick40 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for continuing to make these videos!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Keep SLAYing! You got this!!
@suejohnson535
@suejohnson535 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Rebecca for your Inspiration & wisdom to help me and to all of us here . Thank you Rebecca for you being here with all your videos & everyone comments here. I hoped you Rebecca & everyone here to have a beautiful wonderful blessed 🙏 day .
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
So glad you found them helpful! You can do this!
@johnsonjames702
@johnsonjames702 Жыл бұрын
I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that...
@yukio_saito
@yukio_saito Жыл бұрын
Slay! Don't take any bait!
@Jammiefoxyroxyberglund
@Jammiefoxyroxyberglund 6 ай бұрын
You're great... Thank you... I can't say that enough... God bless.
@garyrobinson8665
@garyrobinson8665 Жыл бұрын
Hi Rebecca I had no idea my girlfriend was a narcissist until she ghosted me. I told her over the phone i wouldnt buy her anymore gifts. She's vanished. Looking back I can now see she had some strange behaviour. She lacked empathy and affection. I thought that wasnt narcissism. I'm done with her. I'm now awake. Im angry with myself for falling for it. She won't hear from me again.
@chelvanavernon1834
@chelvanavernon1834 Жыл бұрын
They are very intentional with everything they do! They bait in different ways
@everardoaguilar9693
@everardoaguilar9693 Жыл бұрын
SLAY.
@flybrand
@flybrand Жыл бұрын
SLAY is great.
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Do you want to know more secrets to help you outsmart a narcissist? Join me in my free webinar where I offer tips and tricks. Reserve your seat here. icanslay.com
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
I'll see you all there!
@ariat8202
@ariat8202 Жыл бұрын
Let’s go RZ!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Let's go!!! What is something you're struggling with?
@sonyamarie9219
@sonyamarie9219 Жыл бұрын
SLAY SLAY SLAY!!!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
NAMAslay!! 💯
@sherryjohnson3583
@sherryjohnson3583 Жыл бұрын
I let go of my daughter after 30 years of hell. She’s a narcissist and has abandoned her children and husband
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@CLHS1944
@CLHS1944 Жыл бұрын
Time to out smart!
@deepmaven8773
@deepmaven8773 Жыл бұрын
I seem to have amnesia. Can't remember anything since the pandemic began. I create new, fantastic moments now.
@markr1721
@markr1721 2 ай бұрын
The workplace narsasist is the hardest to deal with. You cant get away from them and worse, they are grand masters of getting others to do their work for them (flying monkey's). They do massive damage and sadly most leaders dont see it, they think narsasists are go getters and you become the problem.
@sothere8758
@sothere8758 Жыл бұрын
Thank You !
@adamroth719
@adamroth719 Жыл бұрын
Greet information. The only problem is I’m not good at responding to them “in the moment” because I’m still in shock as to why they are speaking to me in a judgmental/criticizing/baiting manner. The coverts are the worst. I’m still trauma bonded from her final discard 5 months ago. It literally feels like my soul and heart are stuck in a maximum security prison.
@steadypace1262
@steadypace1262 Жыл бұрын
Yes the narcissist gives you these little shocks and sometimes big ones on a regular basis. It can give some people a bit of a delayed reaction to unpleasant events in their life. I think that's the reason some victims of narcissist's develop PTSD like symptoms similar to people who have experienced war and suffered shell-shock from that. Keep working on not emotionally reacting to any narcissist, walk away they are not safe to be around.🕊
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - icanslay.com
@benverasso4836
@benverasso4836 7 ай бұрын
slay thank *U* n god bles
@reuvensg
@reuvensg Жыл бұрын
RZ you move mountains.
@kathleenwardsinger
@kathleenwardsinger Жыл бұрын
SLAY!!!
@re-ridersuzanne
@re-ridersuzanne Жыл бұрын
Please elaborate on those different types of supply. Diamond through coal? That would be a good video.
@forensicbadassprofiling
@forensicbadassprofiling Жыл бұрын
It would be really cool to hear some of your attorney case studies and how to help a victim navigate through the legal system. We already have all of this information about narcissists behavior and how to utilize the recovery process. We need to know the legal side of it most importantly. Can you please consider talking more about the legal aspects please? No one offers that. Unless we hire an attorney ourselves, and learn some really terrible lessons because none of us have been taught. Everybody negates talkin about the legal aspects. Come on girl you're an attorney. We know the abuse stuff. We don't know the legal system. You do. Thanks for your consideration.
@musicplay664
@musicplay664 Жыл бұрын
Slay ❤
@Sam-pl3yd
@Sam-pl3yd 7 ай бұрын
Slay heal 🙏
@nette19951
@nette19951 6 ай бұрын
SLAY
@texaninhawaii7845
@texaninhawaii7845 Жыл бұрын
SLAY 👍🏼
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
this might help you better as well slay.rebeccazung.com/home
@dustinmineheine6837
@dustinmineheine6837 Жыл бұрын
Slaye
@christopherthorp4229
@christopherthorp4229 Жыл бұрын
SLAY !!!!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - icanslay.com
@danbride7221
@danbride7221 Жыл бұрын
Slay
@damienwelch9067
@damienwelch9067 Жыл бұрын
True 👍
@jamespimentel1794
@jamespimentel1794 Жыл бұрын
Rebecca that space was stolen from me by trauma a long time ago
@jamespimentel1794
@jamespimentel1794 Жыл бұрын
I can never be the human that society wants me to be because although I'm an expert in narcissist I am a victim dont ask me to be optimistic
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@Wau12345
@Wau12345 Жыл бұрын
Hi, Rebecca, I like your videos 😅😅
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? Hope you're feeling well and getting your power back! 💪 This might help - slay.rebeccazung.com/
@Jammiefoxyroxyberglund
@Jammiefoxyroxyberglund 6 ай бұрын
Energy vampire is correct. Grey rocking is hard on your own kid
@Drogonmoon
@Drogonmoon Ай бұрын
How strong is the bond between the the female narc and the discarded target 🎯?
@CanadianBear47
@CanadianBear47 Жыл бұрын
I dont take passive or open agression anymore hard to bait me when i keep repeating it and in front of flunkies crumbles. I am not afraid of u. Here are the consequences lets read them out together.
@ronitgilboa8315
@ronitgilboa8315 Жыл бұрын
Not easy when u have kids and years together
@fabstouchcosmetics3191
@fabstouchcosmetics3191 Жыл бұрын
Be courageous. Yeah its difficult if you have kids😢❤❤❤
@suzannefoglesong3278
@suzannefoglesong3278 6 ай бұрын
SLAY. He has moved on after ten years. I need money from him. Since he has a new supply, how can I manipulate him to gain the financial support I need? We are not legally married. I live in Florida.
@karenpeatey6226
@karenpeatey6226 Жыл бұрын
Just wondering how you stop the incessant back seat driving - dads wife is a narc and I have to put up with her to ish - but that one thing I find dangerous and sooooooo gets under my skin Good advice It’s called. The grey rock technique
@spirituallyawakened3939
@spirituallyawakened3939 Жыл бұрын
Slay😊
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
So how can you starting slaying?
@nessablanch3053
@nessablanch3053 Жыл бұрын
How do you get them to work more hours to get their own place or move in with a roommate
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
Stay strong! ❤ Join me in my free webinar - icanslay.com
@verminwatch_out1283
@verminwatch_out1283 3 ай бұрын
What’s a "narcissist negotiation expert"?
@basementcattiger6231
@basementcattiger6231 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Rebecca! Do we really need to outsmart narcs? Maybe would be better say - don't get into a narc trap.
@robertgaida923
@robertgaida923 Жыл бұрын
slay
@verminwatch_out1283
@verminwatch_out1283 3 ай бұрын
I know an even easier way to "outsmart" a narcissist...just laugh at everything they do or say as bait, let them know you’re just a lunatic...they will leave you alone and look for more gullible targets fast
@CanadianBear47
@CanadianBear47 Жыл бұрын
Hungry ghost. Budha will help me to be stable. I will crush them like fungi fractures rock
@johnsonjames702
@johnsonjames702 Жыл бұрын
I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that...
@rodneyakima1450
@rodneyakima1450 Жыл бұрын
Im so confused or maybe I just don’t want to face reality. My wife she shows Some signs of being one my family loves her but she has thrown me under the bus 2x and ran away from me 3x I don’t get it with her I’m so confused yet she says things love growing old together sigh
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear what you're going through Lucy. Please check this out for extra support - icanslay.com/
@rodneyakima1450
@rodneyakima1450 Жыл бұрын
@@RebeccaZungEsq thank you Ricky stay safe thanks for the link
@peterwargacki6899
@peterwargacki6899 Жыл бұрын
What should I do when my narcissist soon to be EX is trying to paint me as a narcissist?
@Susan-io8jr
@Susan-io8jr Жыл бұрын
Hi Peter, I'm in the same boat and the answer is to do nothing. If they believe your Ex, they won't believe you. Let it go. Save your breath to cool your porridge. It's hard to do. You will never convince or turn a flying monkey. Drop the flying monkeys. Go no contact. By the time You realize there is a smear campaign, it is all over for You. Your Ex has been trashing you for a long time, even years. You will find out who your true friends are. Just keep focused on you and move forward. Good luck and may God bless you during this terrible time.
@danbride7221
@danbride7221 Жыл бұрын
Is it constructive criticism
@johnsonjames702
@johnsonjames702 Жыл бұрын
I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that...
@markwolfe9236
@markwolfe9236 Ай бұрын
Hello. I enjoy your content you are verry knowledgeable and easy to understand but please stop pushing your credibility in every video. Your opening clip is enough, your content will keep ppl engaged and coming back.
@annalauryn966
@annalauryn966 3 ай бұрын
Its too general and the examples are always the same. These videos are more like ads for her professional services than actual information
@peterhagen7793
@peterhagen7793 Жыл бұрын
🤔 Do you hav a boy friend ? ...i might be your man...yours senserly eany ways 🥳🥳🥳🥳
@damienwelch9067
@damienwelch9067 Жыл бұрын
The way you speaking ain't working
@karentatum8798
@karentatum8798 5 ай бұрын
You have both lost all credibility in my book. I"m an empath and have multiple narcissist in my life. I agree with something traumatic in childhood. But they know exactly what they are doing. They may not be able to stop it but they know what they are doing. Listen to what you are saying>if they were unaware what they are doing, "Why would they lie, Why would the gaslight? Why would the love bomb?" That is NOT done without them knowing about it. Go back to law. Mel I sorely disappointed with you! You cannot afford to have sympathy for a narcissist. Get away. Have absolutely no contact! The next step beyond true narcisissm is psychopath and I have experienced it first hand.
@matthewwozniak9138
@matthewwozniak9138 6 ай бұрын
Rumplestlkin.
@wolfgang7812
@wolfgang7812 Жыл бұрын
SLAY !!!
@AbbyGeorges-jf2xc
@AbbyGeorges-jf2xc 6 ай бұрын
SLAY
@christianbrigman4612
@christianbrigman4612 Жыл бұрын
Slay
@elliemessina8491
@elliemessina8491 Жыл бұрын
slay
@johnsonjames702
@johnsonjames702 Жыл бұрын
I want to appreciate those that recommended *Dr Sabo love* the on this channel, he's very good when it comes to spell casting, I can testify that...
@pe2914
@pe2914 Жыл бұрын
SLAY!!!
@Michelle-ld9vj
@Michelle-ld9vj Жыл бұрын
SLAY!!!
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
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@gj5689
@gj5689 Жыл бұрын
SLAY
@Gquad
@Gquad Жыл бұрын
SLAY
@sockmonkeyjoy1001
@sockmonkeyjoy1001 Жыл бұрын
SLAY
@chelvanavernon1834
@chelvanavernon1834 Жыл бұрын
Slay
@gingergast4273
@gingergast4273 2 ай бұрын
Slay
@shirleyarnold1428
@shirleyarnold1428 Жыл бұрын
Slay
@user-xp3gv1tf1d
@user-xp3gv1tf1d 3 ай бұрын
Slay
@MariaNowicki-gi6pz
@MariaNowicki-gi6pz 4 ай бұрын
Slay
@90jagadish
@90jagadish Жыл бұрын
SLAY
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
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@lisaruben6217
@lisaruben6217 Жыл бұрын
Slay
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
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@therapistsandnarcissism
@therapistsandnarcissism Жыл бұрын
SLAY
@RebeccaZungEsq
@RebeccaZungEsq 11 ай бұрын
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@joanwhite3749 Жыл бұрын
Slay
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@truesightlife
@truesightlife Жыл бұрын
Slay
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@paulgood8805 Жыл бұрын
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