Valentine's Day Q & A | Happily Married after 31 Years!

[@noragaal3055]

Powercouple,thanks Mr.Paul and Tracy for sharing.

[@lisa_blakely]

Lovely video! You complement each other so well. Thanks for taking the time to answer these questions. 🥰

[@thatgirlmadge]

I am single and have not been married for many many years, but this was so great, insightful, wise and powerful! It has helped me realize, there is hope in finding and creating a close, life lasting bond. Thank you both!! My parents were married for 62 years, it's a rare gift and a Bessing. ♡ Happy Valentines Day! ♡♡

[@vitakhan307]

🌺🌸🌹💐🥀

[@sophia-luciakwon2792]

I’m 29 years old, I’ve been wishing for a mature, respectful marriage for a while, this was such a great example, thank you Paul and Tracy

[@Awesomebeautyxo]

You two are so inspirational 😍 you definitely need to make this a valentine’s tradition

[@JessicaMillerNashville]

Excellent parenting skills and solid relationship! Love this!!! We need more marriages like this in the new aged world!

[@candy.yankovska]

I wish more people to experience a healthy marriage and family unit like Paul and Tracy’s. Enjoyed this video! My husband (55) and myself (48) were married when I was 20. So we are celebrating our 28 wedding anniversary in May. Im really grateful for that. I pray for every marriage and family unit today, for reconciliation, healing and resilience. Amen. Sidenote: My new fav word thanks to Tracy is: resilience! 😊

[@andreacannon1263]

I know is November now but I would like to say congratulations for your anniversary ! I join your prayer, we definitely need more happy families in this world that seems so chaotic. God bless you and your family

[@nervasarayne]

Tracy and Paul, I have been married 12 years and could relate to so many views the two of you shared. My husband and I too take great value in our family, time as a unit is so important to us both. Some people will frown on the idea of not taking multiple “couples trips” but it makes perfect sense to us. Raising solid humans who are taught how to succeed in adulthood takes time, dedication and sacrifice. I’m so blessed to have a husband who shares that desire and perspective. We are “in the thick” of raising our children and know one day it will be just us with plenty of time to do as we wish. Thank you for sharing your relationship with everyone! It’s refreshing to see traditional values. Bravo!

[@Cinnamon349]

This was great! Thank you for coming on Paul. You guys should write a marital book or have a podcast these days for us on the go! All about this I appreciated!

[@HannahGeorgina]

Wow, I cannot express how much I loved this video. I have learnt so much from you Tracy over the last few years and have carried that into my life as I have married and had my daughter. My husband and I are a team and we put each other first as I know that will lead to a strong and happy family unit. I do not naturally find communicating the easiest thing but over the last few years I have worked very hard on getting better at this for my relationship. A lot of the work I have done is inspired by you. Thank you. x Ps. I would love you guys to do a parenting specific video!

[@raquelhitchcock1709]

This is my favorite video from your channel! Wow, so interactive, informative and inspiring. Please do this again :)

[@kellihammond4956]

The last 10 minutes is absolute solid info for any dating couple! Gonna share with my 23 year old daughter!

[@ppia5700]

Probably one of my favorite youtube videos! I love hearing and seeing how you and your husband journey thru life together. Great example of strong family values and true love! ❤️

[@Dreaming0fSunshine]

Thank you guys so much for this wonderful video, I really enjoyed it ! so much great advice to take from you guys . Love how you guys talk about treating each other so respectfully - growing up my Mom always told me to NEVER ever talk negatively about my husband because women love to get together and talk about all the things that annoy them about their spouse and she said it’s easy to fall into that conversation and then it gets hard to quit that. instead, if there is something that bothers you, address that directly and privately . I’m so grateful to my mom and to my parents for showing me such a positive-respectful marriage , such as what you and Paul have . ❤❤

[@ladyjade9494]

I am so grateful that you built this channel and shared so much xxx

[@freeandfabulous4310]

You guys are so healthy and a wonderful model of family success and love! So blessed to get a sneak peak into how well you all have thrived over the years.

[@elizabeths9852]

Wow! LOVED this video. Please do more!! Loved Paul's words, "is this getting you to your goal?" I'm writing that in my planner to remind me daily. This was so beautiful. Thank you, for sharing your marriage with us. We need more!!

[@jenny9bradford579]

Loved Paul's statement " is it getting you closer to your goals" ! Brilliant

[@rasikaamerasinghe1481]

Wow Tracy and Paul! Powerful video! 😃❤ Your marriage is hugely inspiring, it's wonderful to see how close you are and how much of a team you both are. Congratulations on 31 years (wow!) and thank you both for sharing your thoughts and experiences of a very successful marriage 😃❤

[@MsReegee]

Going by how reserved you are, I am very surprised at how thorough you both are in this video about the aspects of your marriage (in a great way!)

[@lauraneaves6912]

Aw so great to see Paul in this video and thank you for sharing all your insights 💜 you've built a beautiful marriage and life together. Yes I often see couples who are not on the same page, resenting and nit picking when they could choose otherwise. I've been married 7 years and the biggest thing I've learned about marriage is that it's a GIFT. God uses it to help eachother through life and have fun. Your marriage is a testimony to that as well. Blessings and appreciate you sharing with us! 💜👫 happy Valentines Day 💝

[@wendybeltran8510]

#blessed beyond measure. Your daughters are so fortunate to have a dad like Paul. Your marriage gives me hope that true love can exist. Thank you for sharing your story and life.

[@rachriri]

Were 3 years into our marriage, im 27 and he is 32. I value alot of your relationship & life advice❤

[@amyhilger2919]

Wonderful video, Tracy; thank you to you & Paul for sharing so much wisdom! Your marriage & family life are both a beautiful example & I hope you realize how much value you add to so many lives. You are truly a blessing & I appreciate everything you do to help others live optimally for themselves & their relationships. Thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@katarinavannimwegen7516]

Thank you both for sharing I feel like I have learned so much - only too late but will take it into my future . Tracy please don’t retire ever!!!! Your nuggets are so powerful and needed. 🇦🇺😘

[@ArtistBarbaraAnnKenney]

Love this video. You are an encouraging Christian example to so many. God bless.

[@lilyg4925]

Thank you Tracy to you and to your husband for sharing the special moments that made you who you are. These are amazing life lessons. If we had more cuplés like you we would be living in a very different and much better world💓

[@people60plus]

Congrats to both. You really understand the foundations to build a family. Thanks for sharing all those tips.

[@givenchy2777]

Thanks to both of you for taking time out of Valentine’s Day to spend with us❤🌺.

[@MT-tk1ut]

I’ve watched every one of your videos for a few years and follow your IG stories, and I will say this one was one of THE best.

[@carriehebbelinck8188]

Paul is very “ hands on” as is my husband… You pointed out my mistake in one of your previous videos and now I’m trying hard to correct myself. You said “ Don’t criticize him , be glad for the help .. I have since given up all of that control , and have realized that I am lucky for the help no matter “ how “ he’s doing it 🤩

[@daniellepaul8530]

Thank you both for this incredible message! It really touch's my heart. Have a beautiful Valentine's day together❣

[@fancyplants2045]

Tracy, if you and/or Paul are willing to continue the conversation about drinking in a marriage, that would be so helpful.

[@TracyHensel]

Paul and I are comfortable talking about unmanaged drinking and its repercussions on marriage and family. The subject requires a whole video and is one we are eager to speak on soon in the hopes of helping and saving other relationships worthy of saving.

[@evgeniazhukova7357]

Beautiful and powerful video❤️

[@kimmicannon5629]

Loved it! Great parents, lovely couple. Thanks Paul for sharing Tracy with us. She’s the best and we need her!! 😊 Nothing like being in love. Someone once told me, when a couple is together, and you see them laugh and smile, and give eye contact to one another constantly, …..that’s love! ❤❤❤

[@Angieski0511]

It’s nice to see this side of you Tracy 😊

[@krisguerini]

I just love y’all so much! I’ve been listening and watching you on YT for five years now! ❤

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you for your loyal viewing.

[@l.m.3699]

Tracy and Paul, you are such a sweet couple and thank you for sharing your insights and experience with us! Happy Valentine’s ❤to you both!

[@lukrecia3003]

Thank you Tracy and Paul for amazing video, I could listen to you talk for hours ,great advice in so many aspects of life. ❤

[@cathyb6358]

Love and respect, shared values, valuing the marriage covenant and the family were personified in this video. I listened to the video and watched it later. It was very heartwarming.

[@vitakhan307]

Thank you, Tracy and Paul, for such a beautiful and warm video! You are both wise and that’s why you have five daughters and look at each other with love and respect. ❤❤❤ I wish you to live double more years together in harmony and love and to see many great grandchildren ❤❤❤

[@roni-co5ng]

You and Paul are a great team and inspiring to listen to and learn from. I shared two of your videos, including this one, to my sister-in-law.

[@sophianachtigall3598]

Happy marriage is “boring”, no extreme happenings and I am here for it.

[@eldachaparro9809]

Do you really need to have a private life. What is this everyone thinks to ventilate personal life. Ru a counselor on family.

[@carolinasusini2601]

Excellent video!!! Wonderful advice!!! One can see that you are both on the same page and have the same values and ideas, which is so important. You are kind and loving with each other and that transcend the screen. Hope you had a great Valentine´s day yesterday.

[@sylviae6259]

Tracy you and Paul make an adorable couple, you compliment each other perfectly. You know you would miss those coffee drippings

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you, Sylvia. Yes, I do know that, which is exactly why I've never brought it up. Last week a whole cup made it to our carpeted bedroom floor at 4:45 a.m. - Poor guy! lol I was in the basement doing my workout. I could literally hear scrubbing upstairs. I knew - it was coffee! lol

[@diannedugan346]

So enjoyed this video! Wow! You both obviously walk the talk and the teamwork shines through. And Tracy your closing comments were very powerful, just ad Paul described. You both have so much to be grateful for, especially in that beautiful family!! Be proud- your hard work has paid off and it shows. It didn’t happen by accident, that’s for sure! I look forward to a part 2 if you can.

[@LL-be5fz]

Great advice! You both are a great example of a sucessful marriage! Happy Valentine's and many more!! It's so important to share the same values and goals and to respect each other. Sadly many don't understand therefore the high divorce rates and murder tragedies.

[@sonyasylvester100]

This video was just wonderful..I do enjoyed watching you both..a wonderful example of a happy loving couple.

[@freeandfabulous4310]

Would love a more detailed video on selecting a husband/ what to look for/ dating etc. would love to show that to my late teen girls!

[@crystalriver7772]

Loved your sharing with us and so happy for you and your husband and the wonderful marriage that you have! God bless!😊❤️

[@lolajacomino6574]

Beautiful 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I laughed when you said don’t nick pick about the small things and tell your husband about how he parks is my problem. So many important advices for couples 👍🏼 thank you for all your perfect work, again ❤

[@JulieSimardSurprenant-nl6bd]

Great couple. Great video. Your husband looks a very nice man. You are respectful to each other. Thank you for sharing 🥂. My husband Martin and I are married since 24 years. Thank you for your tips. 🫶

[@ericanorris3101]

Such a perfect video you two! Thanks for making it….I listened while I cooked dinner and could have kept listening for hours!

[@Mmmmkaaay]

Now we REALLY want to hear about what went south on that first date! 🤣 Yes,I'm a nubby nose.

[@kellyroy7248]

Loved this video! You and Paul are a lovely couple with so much wisdom to share. ❤

[@ModernSouthernBelle]

Thank y’all for this. You’re doing the Lord’s work. ❤️🙏

[@xMichelex]

Tracy, the cordless Mantar lamps finally arrived today, I love them! There was a bit of a delay because of Chinese new year apparently, but now they're here! They will look beautiful on our patio table for dinner get togethers. I ordered them from your Valentine's decor video a few weeks ago. We are celebrating our 30th wedding anniversary in a couple of weeks. Thanks for the video!

[@stefd5022]

One of my favorite videos of yours!

[@kandidetro2882]

How sweet, thank you and Paul for sharing. This is special ♥

[@sylviapodniesinski3893]

So much wisdom. I am very blessed to have found this channel. Thank you!

[@AJ.943]

Took down my long winded comment…..(I tend to get “wordy” lol)…and just simply wanted to say….that this was such a beautiful video. ♥️ It brought a smile to my face the entire way through. By far one of my favorites. We share so much of the same values, and so many of Paul and your responses really touched my heart. Such great messages in this one for all. God bless you both. Happy Valentines Day♥️

[@lydiahandzova]

Thank you for sharing so many insights. I didn’t grow up in a functioning family and it’s such gifts to see how it can work. Glad you put so much work into getting this video out there.

[@marciastamm9643]

I loved your films with Paul. It made me see you in a whole new light and learn different things about you. You are more down to earth then I realized.

[@alikruger6030]

We got married in August of 1991 . Still loving him and appreciate him. and working on the fun times!, this video was excellent. We share a lot of your values, it was great to see Paul and hear his insights, love all your content.. this was a true gift ...TY

[@lovealwaysjasmine]

What a powerful video! Thank you both for taking the time to share this wealth of information. Happy Valentine’s Day to you both 💕

[@loislaudin]

What a beautiful couple you both make. My ex-husband never understood what happens outside the bedroom affects inside the bedroom. I am with someone now and I’m glad to say we both respect each other. Many more beautiful years together.I must’ve say I love my children so much and have a great relationship. ❤Thanks for this video. Very inspiring .

[@lyubovrussell9469]

Great video! Even for someone whose relationship fell apart, this video serves the purpose of reflecting on what went wrong and plan to learn for the possible future relationship.

[@teenawiggins2118]

Thank you. Great advice. The 2 of you are inspiring.

[@homemakingwithmarissa]

One team one dream! Loved the message today.

[@trinichandy3049]

You guys are a beautiful couple. Love this video. God bless you both and your children.

[@bellemyjade686]

When I was pregnant with my first, I wanted a girl, but I knew I was having a boy (hubby comes a large male family). When I got pregnant again, I knew again I was having a boy. People ask me if I want to try for a girl, but I truly cannot see myself being anything else other than a boy mom. My house stinks, and I frequent the urgent care for injuries, but they are fiercely loyal and affectionate. I am truly the queen of my home and I love it!

[@ggigi3453]

wow...Paul and Tracy are literally 1st flawless couple I have ever seen. Happy Valentine's Day ❤

[@TracyHensel]

Happy Valentine's Day to you. Nothing is flawless. Nor should it be.

[@Todd4America]

One heart and one soul in the heart of Jesus ❤ Happy Valentines Day and congratulations on 31 years of Love

[@ANGELBABY_57]

WOW!!! I love this so much My Husband and I are going into our ll th year in September 2023 and I can actually say yes you both are so right thank you for sharing this with us I learned a lot and will be practicing what You guys have taught us. We love you guys bunches take care and God bless y'all!!!!

[@kandidetro2882]

I just finished your Channel post. I love it, you and Paul are the cutest. God bless you and your family. Hello from Ohio.

[@njcruickshank6974]

Thanks for sharing, great to hear your story xx

[@lorettaalexander4056]

GOD bless you both and your families, continue enjoying one another!

[@kara5958]

What a lovely couple, congrats on your lifetime successful marriage ❤ happy Valentine’s Day

[@ariellearmessen2703]

Hi Tracy, thank you for this great video! Paul spoke several times about your relationship as teamwork. I would be super interested in his and your vision/ experience with teamwork at work or with friends, family. Such a great concept to tackle!

[@monikabalda]

Wonderful video with so much valuable advice and information. Please do more. I could listen to you both for hours. If you don’t mind sharing I would like to know what went wrong on that first date and why you decided to give it another try. As far as ideas on future videos I would love one about taking care of yourself and not letting yourself go when you feel tired and overwhelmed.

[@pamelagreen1291]

What a beautiful marriage

[@dianelim1655]

Beautiful story ❤

[@opchick0597]

Loved the video. When my hubby and I met, we each were divorced and each had custody of a son. Ours sons were 1 and 2. So we came into our marriage with lil ones living with us full time. One of the things I noticed very early on, was what kind of father my "boyfriend" was. Since I was divorced at 19, I knew I was not only looking for a good husband but also a good father. He fit the bill and was and still is, even after 40 years of marriage, the perfect fit for me. We got married exactly 1 year from our first date. Its so important to be on the same page when choosing a life partner.

[@TracyHensel]

Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@Sophiakosmatos]

Your one incredible couple, God bless you both❤️ and thank you for teaching so many beautiful things.

[@lam9217]

You got a gem of a guy/gal! Lucky couple. Ty

[@Eduardo_Music8560]

Hello Tracy Hensel, good afternoon! How nice this video! Congratulations for the 31 anniversary of your marriage 💕💐. Lots of blessings and love for you and your husband. Happy Day of Saint Valentine, from Sonora, México 🇲🇽🥰

[@deannalynnkennedy754]

Lovely. Happy Valentine’s Day!

[@debbietalish2968]

Loved this Tracy! You and Paul are the best! My husband and I are also married 31 years with two married sons and 3 grand babies. We are also a team and get along great. Funny about the vow renewal question. We both feel no reason to do it. My husband says the vows don’t expire! Lol ❤

[@TracyHensel]

Thank you, Debbie. Love your husband's thoughts about a vow renewal.

[@tirtunemdouq]

Amazing video

[@angelicag6764]

Thank you so much for this video! So many great answers and so much TRUTH! I’m 41 going on 23 years with my husband and a lot of this resonates with me. I also wish I had seen this video years ago! Lol

[@marysmith861]

I came across your channel looking at what are the best colors to wear for my complexion. Then I decided to watch this video and I'm glad I did. I have always wondered what it took to have a happy marriage. I was married young... to the wrong person. I was pregnant. My mother wanted me married because we went to church and I would have been an embarrassment. (There is more to it but it's lengthy). In my mind there was no alternative. I stayed in the marriage for 18 years (far too long). It was a very volitale. I never discussed my problems with anyone because again... I felt I was stuck and tried to make the best of it. My husband came from a family where there was a lot of conflict. Young women take note. Why try to spend your life trying to overcome all this from the beginning? It's pure misery. Anyway... I think this video talks about some very practical subjects that occur within marrages. And truly while opposites attract... It really is the ones that are similar that make good marriages.

[@cathysamuels4638]

What beautiful content!

[@lafem2122]

Hi Tracy and Paul, great advice! My husband and I and our young adult children are "Savers", however hubby and I never learned to invest. (Luckily we have good retirements) Would love to hear how you started and some basics to pass to our children while they are young enough to benefit. Thanks!

[@charlienabucket1727]

I really enjoyed this video, thanks guys

[@kristinel6572]

Powerful video. Thank you very much.

[@racheleschmidt]

Wow! An hour! This is going to be a good one!! 🙌🏽

[@themshann]

Happy Valentine's Day!

[@carolinekatana9897]

Happy Valentine's to you😍🌹🌹🌹

[@annakaralis9284]

Happy Valentines ❤Day to you both!

[@nelsonquinney2316]

Happy Valentine's Day Everyone 💕