Van Life | Don’t be a D*ck when overnight parking!

I’ve been in situations where others haven’t been so considerate of me or others around them-and some have been, well, outright ‘jerks’. That made me think about what I can do to be a good guest which led me to do this video about how to basically not to be a jerk. I get it that it’s not always intentional, but I thought I’d share some thoughts on how to be a good guest when parking your van. Because, whether you're at a friend's driveway, a public parking lot, a campground, or public land, you want to be welcome and welcomed back. If you haven’t already, please LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE and hit the BELL to continue to receive content like this. Hope to see you next Saturday!
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00:00 Intro
01:31 Moochdocking
04:20 Public Parking Lots
07:10 Campgrounds
09:41 Public Land
11:40 Outro

[@chrisp7652]

There is no substitute for being the example. I was at a Walmart and the RV’ers threw their trash everywhere and left their carts all over the place. I grabbed a cart and garbage bag and picked up their messes and returned over thirty carts to the corals. The next morning carts were put away and there was no garbage. I am in a public park today. I picked up all of the garbage. People are watching. Be the example. It only takes a few minutes and you are there for hours! SnS’s!

[@LadyBugout]

I totally agree! It’s the easiest thing we can do with such a big impact!🙌🏼

[@user-mt1rx3sd7n]

Awesome!!! Ive found out the same on believe it or not store handicap buggies . I always plug mine back in and any that are not plugged in. most never do! not even the store workers ! But i also have never come in and not have one work...if people knew what they do comes back to them , they would be more gracious. You know ❤

[@chrisp7652]

@@user-mt1rx3sd7n There you go. Someone saw what you did and in the future, I like to believe, they will follow your lead. They say the golden rule is do unto others. I live by the platinum rule…see a need fill a need. Seems you do too. Good on you! Blessings!

[@joannedibben2352]

Well done to you I also pick up rubbish🌈

[@chrisp7652]

@@joannedibben2352 …and people like me and I am sure hundreds of others appreciate you! Not sure why there are people who believe their mama’s are going to come behind them and pick up after them. Could be a pattern.

[@ClairenParkerontheRoad]

Great video! My biggest pet peeve is when people start smoking around my vehicle. Usually it's just random people though but it's just so terrible.

[@LadyBugout]

And they may not even realize that it’s coming into your vehicle and smoking you out 😝 such a challenging thing to know how to navigate without offending them. Ugh.

[@Irishgrl59]

I'm in a sticks and bricks and I always know when the neighbor is outside smoking

[@jrraven3230]

I was at rest stop in my minivan, when someone pulled up close to me(which there was no need to) yell at me because smoke came out of my van. It was a spliffs, I was done driving for the day and I parked first. I wasnt having them smell my smoke on purpose 😔😎😇

[@carmenmartinez2882]

Well many non tobacco smokers do skunk weed, there’s a reason why they call it skunk but hey is legal and instead of saying anything I just move but that’s just me.

[@ClairenParkerontheRoad]

@carmenmartinez2882 I can't stand the smell of weed but actually prefer it to cigarette smoke

[@elizabeththompson6345]

Walking through others campsites just surprised me. I try to tell kids nicely not to do it, mostly because it does make the dogs bark. One father came over to tell me that it wasn’t my place to discipline his kid. I think it was one of the first things I learned as a kid that a campsite is almost like your backyard. You don’t go in unless you are invited.

[@LadyBugout]

Oh, I know. And it’s so hard to say anything without someone getting offended.

[@user-mt1rx3sd7n]

People love to be offended today ( some not all) they mistake attitude for power, when true power starts with self respect then others certainally not a big mouth ! Any two year old or teen can throw a fit 😂​@@LadyBugout

[@solovantravel]

You could at least say that you pirated this idea for the video from that Bob dude... You're welcome

[@simonagree4070]

It can't be repeated too many times, and it's universally needed. DON'T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. Nobody gets first credit for that.

[@carmenmartinez2882]

I have a pit bull, she doesn’t bark but growls with hairs sticking up. She’s in a tie out as per camping regulations but people learn really fast not to invade my space.

[@tomayaspirit1638]

In Mexico, there's an old saying my mom used to say "El muerto y el arrinadi, apostate despues de 3 dia". Translation "The dead (person) and the guest (unexpected) visitor stinks after 3 days".

[@LadyBugout]

Yep! 😆 same idea

[@Patrick_Ross]

So true. A similar quote by Ben Franklin: “Guests, like fish, begin to smell after three days”

[@carmenmartinez2882]

El muerto y el arrimado a los 3 días apesta.

[@teasdaleart1]

I am glad that you created a video about behavior. In the last year, while camping on BLM land in Utah, 4 groups have wanted to set up camp very close to me. I was able to ask them to look for a different spot and they did. Then a couple decided to park their large truck 30 feet away from my rig and when I asked them to park further away, they became angry, insulted me and didn't bulge. I went to the ranger's office near by and when I told a ranger, he was disheartened, he said that people started crowding other campers in the last few years and that they didn't know what to do about it. The BLM ethics about camping/hiking/climbing says that crowding campers is absolutely wrong. Respectful and ethical behavior is becoming a thing of the past, entitlement is replacing all that is good about wilderness camping. It is heart braking.

[@LadyBugout]

Wow. That’s so interesting. That is very disheartening. Maybe the rangers will begin to get the message out about crowding being bad camping etiquette as well-and have it be part of leave no trace principles!!!

[@wanderingrenegade771]

Utah is overcrowded now,but locals still no places others don't and we keep it that way.

[@nomaderic]

​@@wanderingrenegade771everyone has Google maps lol

[@teasdaleart1]

@@LadyBugout I agree, the BLM will have to step in with laws to protect the privacy and safety of campers. Another thing happened 2 months ago, a man saw me from about 50 feet of where I was camping, I was on a lower ledge by a cliff, and drove his ATV to my campsite. I knew that he was going to attack me by his body language and his strange greeting. I took out my 50 pound labradoodle from the back of my Tacoma and his barking scared the man away. Yeah dogs!

[@anitasimmons3599]

Some Public lands are really crowded now, but it is best to be curtius and ask if you are in a situation where there are few options and you have to use a "fire ring " closer than 50' to the adjacent camp. If you have a reason you set up away from others and someone tries to crowd in, inform them that you set up camp away from others because... you are trying to train an unruly rescue dog.... have a colicky, or teething baby...you snore really loudly... or in my case I was self isolating because of recent flu exposure.

[@CLdriver1960]

We’ve hosted friends and family on our property. Never had any issues because they were mindful of their surroundings, especially of our neighbours. We never ask anything from them, but they always show their appreciation for the water and electricity we supply them with.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s awesome! 😎

[@Whydiss]

In Australia one of the most annoying issues when free camping is parking too close to your neighbours. If there is plenty of space, park away from the other campers. Once at a free camp, someone parked in the middle of the night between me and the lake front. They were practically parked on a side walk size stretch of land, not only blocking my view but also access to the water. They could have parked anywhere in an area the size of two football fields. Thankfully I was leaving that day, but it was a very confrontational act. Thanks Dee for reminding everyone to be respectful.

[@solovantravel]

I just left Australia 😂 and camped

[@LadyBugout]

That’s so crazy. It still surprises me when people do not just use common sense and respect others 😒 Glad you were leaving and didn’t have to necessarily confront the situation. I don’t know how would have reacted 😛

[@user-mo7wh1it1u]

Just left Australia and the beautiful camping life

[@TexCynRVLife]

I recently parked on a friends driveway. I helped with their dogs & cleaned the house a couple of times. I was so grateful for the time with them!

[@LadyBugout]

That is the perfect thank you to them!

[@designdoctor247]

you were a BLESSING! ❤

[@pattyk8594]

One time at a campground we made the mistake of leaving the outside speakers on our travel trailer, when we were inside watching a movie. When it was over I took the dogs out for a walk before bed and realized the TV was playing outside really loud - ugh! I was so embarrassed, I don’t want to be those annoyingly rude neighbors but it happened by accident and we never did that again 🙂

[@LadyBugout]

Oh no 😬 it’s the worst when you don’t even know you’re doing something like that😛

[@craftytraveler9238]

Thanks good advice. One thing that I have found recently is that fire wood shouldn't be transported into or out of an area. Recently I camped in the Siskiyou-Shasta NF and there was a large area that had Port Orford Red Ceder disease. The ranger said it came from Oregon through firwood.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s a good point. Yes, do not bring firewood from others areas into another. Thanks for the reminder 💪🏼

[@dross24MA]

How unfortunate, and how sad.😮

[@dross24MA]

A kind thing to do is leave left-over firewood for the next folks with a note saying they may enjoy it or leave it for the next folks.

[@DrewMilesAway207]

Love this because you covered so many bases... very useful. A nudge on our mental post-it notes never hurts.🐻

[@LadyBugout]

I’m glad if was helpful ☺️

[@johnniemontgomery6682]

I think we need to mention pets. I know people love their animals but the key word is YOUR ANIMAL. Leash them if needed, keep them at your location, pick up their waist, ask to share them if friendly. My biggest pet peeve is for clearly designated signs that say “ No pets allowed “ and not only is that rule broken but the pet is off leash. Living in Oregon hiking various trails I have been approached by various dogs unleashed no owner in sight. I have never been bitten but was extremely uncomfortable. I remember being at the Rhododendron park in Eugene. I was in an area photographing a flower in an area absolutely no dogs allowed. A huge pit bull approached me and sat down on my feet. His name was pork chop and he was friendly BUT I DIDNT KNOW THAT. He weighed 80 pounds his head was enormous. The owner gets to me and says he’s friendly I’m sorry. I told him he is an animal you just don’t know what his reaction will be to everyone. I was terrified and had to beat that fear way down so he would not sense anything uncomfortable in me. Also no pets were to be in this sanctuary for vulnerable plant life. He apologized but again people please note everyone is not a pet person. Be blessed all.

[@LadyBugout]

Oh dear! Yes, I plan to mention pets in an upcoming video.☺️

[@emartin851]

Sounds like a mastiff or a mix, pitbulls are no more than 60 pounds. I get nervous with any stray dog, I've been charged at by so many, especially little dogs. One of my peeves is loose dogs.

[@Patrick_Ross]

I lived in Alaska for 25 years and everyone I knew had friends and family coming up from the Lower 48 to visit. When a coworker would say they had someone staying with them, we’d half jokingly say “let us know if you need them gone and we’ll send in an extraction team!”.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s funny, but such a common thing. People who live in beautiful places especially need extraction teams 😜

[@user-mt1rx3sd7n]

Haha you reminded me of another quote ( of my own) " never let anyone borrow anything you expect to get back " we have to learn to put our foot down dont we , who we can lend too or not help or not. Etc tec 👍

[@simonagree4070]

That's my philosophy of book lending, after hard experience.

[@designdoctor247]

😂😅l😂 LOVE THIS!!!

[@naytawalker9705]

very good advice for harmonious coexistence in any environment. Sometimes we don't notice details like the volume of our laughter and how we talk, or if we have the music too loud and things like that. And being respectful and collaborative when friends give us lodgings, or in the case of camper-friendly parking lots, is super necessary, since it depends on whether those places continue to be friendly. greetings friend🙋🏾‍♀️🙂🙌

[@LadyBugout]

Absolutely! And we want those places to continue to welcome us back 🙏🏼

[@nhbomar]

Reminders to be considerate of others is always a good thing!

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, a good thing we all need to be reminded of now and then 😛

[@MOTrav]

R E S P E C T ! All types of camping need consideration of your surroundings. You covered it well. 🤙

[@LadyBugout]

Yes!!!! Thank you 💃🏻🙌🏼💪🏼

[@nomaderic]

Ive been on the road for years now. One of the number one rules of this is DONT LIVE WHERE YOU SLEEP. Sleeping spots are for sleeping, and everything else go do somewhere else (unless you're at a campground). So many ppl will park somewhere like a walmart and then not end up moving for days. To make it worse they will put out awnings and chairs out like they live there. Im the type that minds my business, but these ppl ruin spots for everyone. Its getting so hard to be alone because as soon as someone sees you somewhere, others will flock to be right on top of you. They dont want the next campsite they want YOUR campsite.

[@LadyBugout]

I like that motto! Yes, it is sad that people crowd spaces and overstay when there is so much beauty to go around.

[@scottdurkee9162]

“Guest smell like fish” 😂🤣😂 I bet your good people. Your too funny 👍👍

[@LadyBugout]

😁 thank you

[@millinutz]

and all this about how you behave, being on somebody's driveway, depends on who it is... if it's an accquaintance, good friends or family. Another good topic and well thought thru. Thanks.

[@LadyBugout]

Absolutely!😊

[@Fab50VanLife]

So True… 🥰 Excellent Information…. I’m hearing from other VanLifers that the Casinos (Las Vegas Area) are No Longer allowing Parking (Evan few hours) if Pet(s) are inside Vehicles. Security tells them to Leave.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s too bad. Casinos are great places to stay.☺️

[@Fab50VanLife]

@@LadyBugout I agree

[@kensmith2839]

Thanks for another excellent video. I definitely follow the 3 day rule

[@LadyBugout]

Yes!!! Don’t wanna smell 😆

[@kimsargeant8126]

It’s never a bad thing for any of us to hear these again. I always leave a spot better than I found it. I found where it was needed most was Cracker Barrels in larger cities. I might pick up a full large trash bag there. If their dumpsters were locked up, I would inform a staff member that I’d cleaned up all around where I was packed and left the bag near the dumpster surround so that it would get taken care of and not left out for critters to make a mess. I also always made it a point to buy something when parked in a business parking lot.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s such an awesome thing to do! Yes, making a purchase is a great suggestion too.

[@nmr6988]

This Monday I'll be overnighting in my van for the first time ever. The Walmart in Laramie Wyoming allows one night only, but that's fine. We'll see how it goes. Hope my little dog doesn't need to go tinkle during the night.

[@LadyBugout]

I hope it goes well too! I’m sure your little pup going pee won’t bother anyone 😆

[@nmr6988]

@@LadyBugout I just don't want to have to get out of my van after I'm safely tucked in for the night. He's a very small dog so I'll try to buy a cat litter box for him to use.

[@JonTanOsb]

@@nmr6988 Litter boxes with clay litter are very dusty. Puppy pads, that you just put in the garbage might be the way to go. Or use pine pellets in the litter box. Jon in rural BC, Canada

[@Inglewood_Addition]

I REALLY wish that more people could see this video because even though it should be common sense… a lot of people REALLY need to learn this. I have been a vehicle dweller since 2020 and nothing annoys me more than when people are careless about their whereabouts and purposely do weird sh!t that would mess things up for everyone else. I was boondocking at a park in Long Beach, California for a few nights and another vehicle dweller pulled up in the same location and started dumping all of her trash and household appliances that she didn’t want… near a tree at the park. When confronted about it, she acted as if I was wrong for calling her out. She could have easily found a place to donate that crap and/or found a dumpster to get rid of everything instead of being careless and lazy.

[@LadyBugout]

Yikes! Yes, it is so strange that common sense is not so common any more. 😒

[@vickifisher8933]

Dear Dee How gracious you are and great reminders for everyone! Have great weekend and as always be safe and careful!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! You too, Vicki!☺️

[@TGIFunday]

I love when the inlaws come to visit for 2 ½ weeks 3 times a year. . 🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I sound sooo rude. Deleting after you heart! 🥰👋🤗

[@Patrick_Ross]

2 1/2 weeks?! Horrific! You’re not being rude whatsoever!

[@TGIFunday]

@@Patrick_Ross 🤣🤣 thank you.. 😁

[@LadyBugout]

😂 not at all!

[@simonagree4070]

That's all good advice to everyone, regardless of their personal circumstances (down-on-their-luck, etc) -- I wish I had thought more about it when I was younger. A good guest is usually welcome, since people are evolved to be social animals. Unfortunately, some people are stuck in early adolescent stage long past its expiration date, so we do have a lot of bad examples. But a wanderer who lived by these "rules" would be welcome to talk with me about "visiting" overnight in the block-long parking area where I live. Just look for the cars covered in undisturbed pine needles, with no bags of trash left outside, no awnings unfurled.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, I know I definitely overstayed my visit on various occasions. I guess it depends on the agreement😜 As adults, we should know better😎

[@aliceturney]

If possible, always bring a gift (inexpensive is okay but nice like note cards, a book, a journal all of which can be bought for a very small price) and leave a thank you note in a private place in their house, such as on their pillow, in the kitchen, on the hall table.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s an excellent suggestion. Thank you 😊

[@EfficientRVer]

Most people with an ounce of competence and an ounce of pride, can accomplish their mission within the restrictions of all laws, rules, customs, and etiquette. I wish more of them would do so, but I also recognize that some people are pigs, some are incompetent, some have no sense of pride, and some simply will follow only their own rules unless you have the power to take away their money or put them behind bars. Some are also in much more marginal circumstances, and actually lack the abilities and resources to do things which we might assumem are easy for everyone. The fact that I can take the high road and still pull off my desired result, doesn't mean that everyone can. Moving my camp 30 miles costs me 1/2 gallon of gas and an enjoyable ride, while for someone else, it might risk breaking a rig that is barely if at all roadworthy, and would send a week of their food money through the gas pump nozzle. Some rules are stupid and unnecessary, especially if the people breaking them are otherwise doing things well. This leads to many reasonable people habitually breaking certain rules. A prime example of this is that there are certain places where the 14-day rule is openly broken by extremely large numbers of people, as if where they are camping is a version of an LTVA which is just free of charge. This spring, I stayed in one such place for 3 nights in the off season, not knowing whether I'd find it trashed after a winter of abuse. In fact, it was spotless, except for rock-art decorations and other minor site improvements. Would the world actually be a better place if heavy-handed enforcement made 50,000 people in each of 3 such places swap locations in a rotating pattern every 14 days? Or would it just create the environmental damage of 150,000 unnecessary moves of over 25 miles each, every 14 days or less? Personally, I've never broken the 14-day rule, but I also would never report someone who does so in a responsible manner, where following the rules would make the world a worse place than by responsibly breaking the rules.. I'm not making excuses for lazy pigs, or someone who hogs a prime camping spot far beyond the limits of the rules. But I'm happy to look the other way, when the "unofficial rules" in specific places, make more sense than the official rules. I consider the days where it was reasonable to spend a night in a store parking lot, even a particular Wal-Mart which allows it, to be over. Each night spent there by anyone, hastens the day when nobody can stay there, and I neither want to be part of causing that, nor do I need to. If I can't make it to public lands, a rest area, a truck stop with overnight car parking, or some similar place, the fault for that lies on me. I then would rather stealth park anywhere BUT the sorts of places which are causing cities and towns to clamp down on stores who lean toward turning their parking lots into campgrounds when not zoned for that. But a casino parking lot which allows it, especially if on the land of a tribal nation, now I'm all over that. Count me in for a breakfast buffet there, if they don't give me the knock overnight!

[@LadyBugout]

I agree. It’s more a matter of respect and allowing others to continue to enjoy an area too. I have seen others, though, crowd others out or overstay so as others can’t enjoy a place. I guess that is why the rules are there to begin with. But, I agree if nobody else if wanting to camp in an area, I’d just ask a ranger to double check-I think most would say it’s ok in that case.

[@MHM-Nautilus]

All great points Dee. Thank you for all you do for us. Blessings.

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome☺️

[@martykong3592]

: ) GO Dee ! ! WELL DONE and shared for ALL of us ! ALL the BEST and Cheers : )

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Marty!😊

[@cataestacio]

Thank you for another great video! Most people I met while camping are respectful, but I don't like when other campers arrive in the middle of the night and make a huge mess, use strong lights and are very loud setting up their camp! Ps: the meal you are preparing at 3.27 looks delish and healthy! Would love a video with top easy one pot recipes in the van!

[@LadyBugout]

Yep, I’ve found that as well. That’s a great idea about sharing one pot recipes!!!

[@doubled5037]

Thanks Dee great reminder of what not to do. Lucky me Im usually dispersed camping. Thanks as always!!

[@LadyBugout]

You’re welcome! Yep, you and me both. These days it’s much easier to be dispersed camping!

[@alexanderweaver7066]

Well done, Dee! I vote you to become the "Ambassador" to disseminate van life how-to's and don't. You're a wonderful example on how to live the nomad life with dignity and respect for others and our country. Your video is a great reminder to all of us to retain the freedoms and privileges given to us.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s nice of you to say! It’s a good reminder to all of us.☺️

[@coralieofjumpwithnofear]

Another great video, and presented in a way that everyone can learn from it. 🥰

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Coralie 🥰

[@michelle10261]

Hi this is Michelle Vanlife in Australia. Well in Australia there are free campsites but these days there are a lot of homeless living there in tents caravans so it makes it very difficult to go to these places with out any safety because they are feral. I love your video so much, thank you so much for giving us a great video this time.

[@LadyBugout]

Sorry to hear that. It happens here too-that’s why they try to set some restrictions. But it’s not always followed here either.

[@simonblooddevay]

Of course there are worse crimes; but, littering is the small offense that enrages me the most! It's so avoidable. When people get a drive through meal and chuck all the packaging out, sometimes on the move, I'm the guy that will pick it up, catch them at the next junction and post it back through their window with a cheery "I think you dropped something." If there's room in your car when you want to buy and eat it, there's room afterwards for the packaging, You can even use the bag it came in as a temporary rubbish-bag and get rid of it properly later. The worst is when people drop it in a car park, service area, camp ground or similar, yet you can see actual litter-bins not 20-yards away! In summary, like your good self, one would like to think videos like these aren't/shouldn't be necessary; but, we all know of people that should be forced to watch them... Yet another great YT, thank you.

[@LadyBugout]

That chucking out the car window is something that is so avoidable. As for the bins-the only thing I can think of is that maybe sometimes animals rummaging through them may be to blame for the garbage around obvious bins-but we can never be sure 😛

[@mariamary65]

Very good advice. Respect does go a long way. As a rule, wherever I am, I try to pick up 10 pieces of rubbish when walking. Doesn't sound like much, but imagine if everyone did this. Feeding wildlife is a big one. People just don't realise the harm they are doing. Particularly feeding them human food such a bread. Here in South Australia you will often have kangaroos, wallabies and potaroos come near your camp and the temptation to interact with them is big, but it is best to leave them alone and not encourage them to come near your site.

[@LadyBugout]

Picking up rubbish is an awesome thing to do. And yes, I agree about not feeding wildlife. ☺️

[@lynnedolan7905]

Your hair looks great! A nice bottle of wine or a bunch of flowers seem to be appreciated when mooch docking. Extinguish fires. We had a recent one due to negligence. Happy trails ! 😊

[@LadyBugout]

Great idea! Extinguishing fires is a big one too🙌🏼

[@jasonjones5213]

I usually offer to mow the grass, Almost everyone agrees to that.I think you covered everything.Great video.

[@user-mt1rx3sd7n]

Great idea 👍

[@LadyBugout]

That’s an awesome idea!

[@cathieperezreyes]

Yes, everything you said!!!! Take care my friend ❤

[@LadyBugout]

You know it girl! 💃🏻 Hoping all is well my friend.

[@catc6188]

Another great tips/reminder video. It’s exactly what we do when camping or mooch docking in front of a relative or friends home.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s awesome! 😎

[@Lenneeful]

In camping grounds, I had to tell someone to extinguish her fire because it was 11 pm. She said she didn't know there was a rule. The smoke was also coming in my camper. I saw some kids run around on my camp space, parents did nothing. I told someone to keep his music down, he started yelling at me. I had two guys talk well into the night 10 feet from my camp spot keeping me awake. Some people have no awareness of other people.

[@LadyBugout]

Yep… I’ve had all those things happen as well! It’s more common than not which is so bizarre to me😝

[@carmenmartinez2882]

Well at least in every single campground I’ve been in my 40+ years of camping you can keep your fire going and talking just not loud almost whispering even after 10 pm until you desire to hunker down. Sorry to say but maybe you’re too over sensitive, others have rights too and legal campfires are part of the camping experience, is also rude to expect others to obey by your personal rules is called coexisting.

[@maarten_notjustagrip]

I was waiting to say the word , but you said it first. The word is MINDFULNESS. Seems they don't teach that anymore. Nice informative video, thanks. Things that should be common sense, huh?!

[@LadyBugout]

I know, right. I do wish common sense were more-common 😝

[@markrenfrow9873]

Hey Ms. Dee! Short, sweet and to the point. I think your thumbnail to this video said it well.

[@LadyBugout]

Hahahah yes, thank you, Mark 😛

[@simonagree4070]

Forgot to say, I went out to watch the Fourth of July parade from the end of the parking lot, and a half hour after I came back inside, I felt something on my arm; it was a yellow lady bug. Brave soul.

[@LadyBugout]

Awww that’s awesome!

[@terrigibbs8337]

Learned a lot. Thank you 😊

[@LadyBugout]

So glad it was helpful 😊

[@sandrasomewhere]

First of all, I love the title of this video. 🤣 Second, one thing I've always admired about you is your ethics and integrity. Thanks for this video. ❤

[@LadyBugout]

Glad it didn’t offend 😜 Thank you for the encouragement!

[@teresap.5991]

For me these things are just common sense but...a lot of people just don't have it anymore or were not taught growing up. You are a great example And I hope others will follow your lead. ❤

[@LadyBugout]

Yep, common sense is not so common any more 😛

[@designdoctor247]

good tips and i agree kindness and thoughtful matters 😊 ... next time u post one of these ...and i hope u do another one... espically hope u add the tips from the comments... Do NOT be a *ICK might be a fun title for the next one.

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks 😊

[@jlscielo]

Excellent rundown of rules and ideas for camping. Thank you!🎉❤😊

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome!☺️

[@janeriksrensen3662]

Thanks for sharing

[@LadyBugout]

You’re welcome ☺️

[@cindyjohnston3134]

when people do not do the "leave no trace"...they are making it hard for future folks who want to be nomads and campers. if it keeps up there will be no place to camp or stay overnite for anyone!!!!....PLEASE Leave No Trace!!!!!!!

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, please 🙏🏼

[@tanyajohnston8262]

My mother always said to leave the place better than when you came so I had always cleaned the home, if possible, before leaving. I make my bed, tidy after myself and help with meals, etc. if I’ve been for a few nights, I will purchase a small Thankyou gift. This is of course friends or family where I have not paid for my stay.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s is awesome. I was taught that way too. I love the gift idea💃🏻

[@emartin851]

Very good info, thanks for sharing!

[@LadyBugout]

You’re welcome ☺️

[@susanharber6488]

Very well said. Thank you!! ❤

[@LadyBugout]

You’re welcome! ☺️

[@sirenkristoffersen4527]

Thank you SO much for your wisdom ❤

[@LadyBugout]

You are very welcome! ☺️

[@Go4Corvette]

The only time others are near me is when I am camping in Quartzsite Arizona for the RTR and tent show. I no longer camp at friends' places anymore, most are living in apartments or retirement homes now. Have fun.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, Quartzsite is very crowded these days!

[@lexchaotica190]

Please consider leaving some of your recipes-they look amazing.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, I will!

[@frankbooth1129]

Lots of good advice. As for the noise factor, I have not had too many problems, but I usually use earplugs when I sleep if I am close to other campers. I am in Cumberland Maryland right now. I just bought a new Jeep and was in a hurry to try it on a road trip. I have been gone from MI for about a week but have not camped yet-too much extreme heat and too many mosquitos for SUV camping even when using screens and usb fans. Nevertheless, I always enjoy being on the road, and I hope you are at someplace where you can stay cool. I will be mindful of your advice and try not to be a Dick.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Frank. Yes, seeking cool weather is the name of the game right now!

[@lorrilj7289]

Thank you for sharing all of this! ❤

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome!

[@thinkingkingdomthoughts]

Ive heard the three day saying too. I had a friend come every year to visit. She would not stay more than three days. I had another dear friend who stayed two weeks. We got on each others nerves so bad, we almost lost our friendship. Makes me very sad.

[@LadyBugout]

Aw yeah, it’s a very interesting thing that can easily happen.

[@BunnyPlaysHere]

Great reminders!!!!!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you my friend ☺️

[@CanadianChick1000]

A few other points - keep your animals leashed and controlled - harassing other campers and wildlife is uncool. Pick up after them too! Bears may poop in the woods, but your dog shouldn’t. Keep music off by preference, but keep it quiet if you must have The Byrds and not the birds. And do NOT take it hiking or really, anywhere other than your campsite.

[@CanadianChick1000]

And yes to the not walking through campsites. I was “SUV RVing” so no tent. I’m sitting in a camp chair, next to my SUV, so obviously using the site and people were just wandering through like it was a shortcut and being sooooo indignant at being asked to not walk through my clearly in-use site.

[@LadyBugout]

Good points. I will be addressing animals in another video😊

[@carmenmartinez2882]

Right on, also barking dogs.

[@ShaaRee]

Love your videos, the title coming from you was a pleasant surprise 🎉😂

[@LadyBugout]

Hahaha glad it didn’t offend 😝

[@JonTanOsb]

It's a shame that common sense isn't so common anymore. I took Monty out on my first adventure today, packed with most of my camping gear. I didn't really need it all for a day trip, but I wanted to see what fit. I went to see The Historic Alexandra Lodge fundraiser for restoration, which had a tour, an old car show, local crafts and, the big draw for me, oddities collected by a local paranormal group. I did a psychometric reading on a WWII helmet and will be joining them on a ghost hunt at the lodge in November. Halfway there, I pulled over in a big area on the side of the highway to use my Luggable Loo. I could actually sit without hitting my head. But 10 cars passed in a bunch, and I don't have window covers, so I couldn't go. As interesting as it was to see the lodge, it was scorching hot, 35 C (95 F), so I was happy to get back into the air conditioning in my Pontiac Montana and back home to my little air conditioned house. There have been multiple wildfires in my area, so I didn't want to leave my cats alone. I was so tired, I stopped at a rest stop for awhile and parked under a tree. When I got home, I stripped down to my underwear and went to bed. If I didn't have pets, I would've just found a cool place and slept in Monty, but it was just too hot. You are an inspiration. Keep up the good work. Jon in rural BC, Canada

[@LadyBugout]

Sounds like quite the adventure! Yes, it’s easier without pets. I can usually find a way to stay comfortable or can easily gauge when I’m not. 💪🏼

[@wallyvandenberg9899]

Yep !! You're welcome to park up in my driveway if you are ever downunder.

[@LadyBugout]

Nice!!! 😊

[@judithwilliamshudson1744]

Well said

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! 😊

[@atergfox]

Another good video 😊

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you ☺️

[@Jackietreehorn-z5e]

I always hide a gift and leave the place cleaner than when I left it. Do something anonymous. Dee, your hair is beautiful! Enjoy the vids.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s an awesome suggestion! Love it 😊

[@Freddie-pe9nz]

Thank you for the reminders for they help

[@LadyBugout]

I’m glad you find they are helpful! ☺️

[@Freddie-pe9nz]

@@LadyBugout absolutely

[@vanlifewithGinaPayne]

Hey lady good to see ya❤️😎

[@LadyBugout]

Hey friend! Hope you are well too 🥰

[@Ms.Frankenbuilder]

Sad to think people just don't get it or don't care.

[@LadyBugout]

I know, it’s strange to me when I see it 🥲!

[@GEAUXFRUGAL]

When I'm at my brother's house I do something to give them value to my visit. No details but they had appreciated my contribution.

[@GEAUXFRUGAL]

I also got out most of my time. I was all over the map there. I even got shower at the gym. Every time I leave I ask if there's anything I can do today. Before I return I ask specifically about anything else at the grocery store they would like.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s a great idea to ask if they need you to pick something up at the grocery store. Such a small gesture that goes a long way!

[@cotter9751]

This was very helpful to me. My time in wilderness has all occurred in the last few years - I'm learning. So if you're in dispersed camping and an area has some campers, how close is too close? I saw someone comment 30 feet as close - but I've seen some campsites where each numbered site is less than 30' wide. Is there a standard, a rule of thumb if I arrive somewhere and see campers scattered around?

[@nmr6988]

@@cotter9751 if someone was closer to me than 50 feet, I would be very offended by their encroachment. There's plenty of space, so spread out. If there's not enough space, find another place.

[@LadyBugout]

Technically, there isn’t a measurement, but I agree with @nmr6988 that anything less than 50 ft would be uncomfortably close for a camper you didn’t know or caravan with.

[@marilynbubb-yh5yk]

I have one , I was watching a vid the other day. She was boondocks in forest no one around when went to sleep, next morn was having coffee in van with door slightly open, heard foot steps then knock, she said yes, they said are you leaving shortly, surprised she Said no, looked out window it was a van moving away. But what surprised. Me was she stayed..

[@LadyBugout]

Hmmm maybe they were wondering if she was leaving so they could stay-it was nice of them to ask and move on when she said no (assuming she had not overstayed her 14 limit) 😛

[@angiedee8749]

Heya, thanks for yet another great video. Also, wonder if you have the order details for the table outside under the awning, which you show toward the beginning. Many thanks!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. Yes, it is in description Aootek bamboo table!

[@coolsuperawesome2871]

LOVE IT

[@LadyBugout]

Thaaaank you🥰

[@solovantravel]

These ooollld people from Alaska who should know better had the effing audacity to pull in at 10pm and start a generator. I told them there was a rule and turn it off. I also told them I booked that spot they pulled into. Depending on the campground, I will book tte spot beside me

[@LadyBugout]

That’s too bad. I hope they only had it on for a little while. Good idea to rent a spot next to you as well!

[@kathyhurrle2966]

Love that you brought this up. It’s all about using common sense and practicing common courtesy. Btw, loving your hair. It seems like it’s getting lighter every video. Are you still planning to go gray?

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you!! 😊 Yes, little by little greyer I go!!!

[@kathyhurrle2966]

You’ll love it!

[@tanyajohnston8262]

Great video but I’m sure you are talking to the choir as they say, those that don’t already leave no trace are probably not watching. 😢

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, I thought about that too. I know most on my channel get it already. But you never know-if it reached just one person who didn’t think of it before, I’ll be glad 😃

[@elicore.biz81]

This is a great video, you highlighted on so many good points. This topic made me think of modern day awareness of simple and basic manners.....its almost non existent. Something that I noticed in the past several years is that alot of younger individuals do not respect adults or the elderly and also some faamily members do not respect other family members time. Showing up unannounced or announcing that you are coming over in two seconds is not always appropriate. Even doing certain things in the home without first asking is rude...even if you are family. Im not sure if anyone else who reads this will happen to be a person who is a step-parent and can sort of relate. But, please know that you matter and deserve to be treated with respect. So many times I have to assert myself in way to drive this point home. Do not allow anyone to treat you like a door mat just because you are the step-parent and bring a different dynamic to the family structure.

[@LadyBugout]

That is a good reminder. I like the point about asking before you do something for someone (because what one person sees as helpful may actually seem unintentionally imposing or rude to another).

[@agr8h2o]

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[@LadyBugout]

🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞

[@WhiteThunder78]

Your video has a green screen. I have audio but no video nevermind is it fixed??

[@LadyBugout]

Glad it’s fixed! 😊

[@tamarasmith1023]

Thanks for sharing your video. Love your boots! What kind are they?

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks. The boots are from www.blundstone.com/ They’re expensive because they last forever. I’ve had these for more than 5 years now, real leather (suede), made in Tasmania!

[@tamarasmith1023]

@@LadyBugout Thanks for the response! Love them and your videos!

[@tamarasmith1023]

@@LadyBugout Do you know the style?

[@LadyBugout]

@@tamarasmith1023 Chelsea, Rustic brown

[@justzayfugitcampertrucktra6168]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@LadyBugout]

🐞🐞🐞🐞🐞

[@aboutdawntoday]

I once bought a usb magnetic round ball light on your suggestion and I think it rolled out of the van .... anyway...Walmart allows overnight parking where they can because it financially benefits them to do so. They are not being nice, it's a corporate decision. * also In making this video don't you feel a bit like you are preaching to the choir cause the sinners are out sinning not watching. lol good luck with that. Happy trails.

[@LadyBugout]

Yep, definitely preaching the choir. But if one person that needs to hear this tunes in for some reason, it’ll be worth it😊

[@naturelover1284]

Twice I had the female host approach my car while I was in it and it was startling. I had my tent up. It was just cold or I was changing. Do they have trail cams on you? They use an excuse of do you need a visitor guide, Ha! I complained. I think it is harassment on single people. I truines any sense of privacy or peace.

[@LadyBugout]

Hmmm, yeah that does not seem appropriate. And I would think they would have to post if they’re using trail cams on public land. I’ll have to check into that, I’ve never even thought about trail cams before now 😛

[@naturelover1284]

Ya my camp is clean and I am gone birding etc,,, just need a safe sleep spot...they could yell from the road hey camp?!! or maybe ask to sign in. I am thinking of introducing myself but why, does anyone else have to explain why they are there? I have a home

[@estrellanoche214]

I try to live by the rule dont do to others you would'nt , like if its done to you

[@LadyBugout]

Yes! 🙌🏼 perfect

[@conniewaite1371]

Crouds are getting worse,personal space is getting smaller. More thoughtless people in the world. Its hard to live with. I think campgrounds need to organize their grounds better.have a noisy section for kids and dogs,another for generators and party people and on the far side,people who want peace and quiet.

[@LadyBugout]

That’s actually an interesting idea. I like it!!!

[@leerod]

If i had a driveway ,you could park there anytime ❤Lol

[@LadyBugout]

Very kind of you 💪🏼🙌🏼💃🏻

[@jonanaimo]

If you're docking with friends, offer to take them out for their favourite email.

[@LadyBugout]

Perfect!!! 🤩

[@johnniemontgomery6682]

Just address the fur babies. I know people love their pets but just remember they are your pets. Leash them and keep them with

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, I will be addressing that in another video☺️

[@jbusley]

I think folks would be shocked at the conversations I’ve heard while in my van. People don’t always realize you are there. I reported one conversation to the police. Nothing more annoying than sleeping and a huge RV parks close and 2am and runs their generator. The worst. Please be quiet

[@LadyBugout]

Yep, agreed!!! 💪🏼

[@dagnolia6004]

let us leave everywhere Better/Cleaner than when we found it.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes!🙌🏼

[@andrewstygles75]

If I can't be a Duck, can I be a swan?

[@LadyBugout]

Lol 😂 of course!!!

[@prestonwestlake2744]

You are so beautiful! 😍

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you 😊

[@MikeJustice-en1nh]

How do you make money 💰 🤑

[@LadyBugout]

I’m a consultant so I can work from anywhere!

[@journeyhome98]

You could have just said, “Don’t be a jerk” in your title…. just sayin….

[@LadyBugout]

I know. But sometimes I have to live on the wild side 😜 plus I wanted to make a point and ‘jerk’ didn’t quite cut it for the thumbnail title 😝

[@livefreevinnie]

I’m allergic to lady bug bites. 🥹 Some Walmart securities will allow local vanlifers but not with out of state plates.

[@LadyBugout]

Good to know!

[@Patrick_Ross]

Very odd. It’s the locals who cause all the issues in Walmart and other parking lots. Out of staters are just passing through. And didn’t know ladybugs bite. I learn something new every day!😁

[@nmr6988]

@@livefreevinnie out of state plates not allowed? That's ridiculous.

[@user-mo7wh1it1u]

Exactly ​@@Patrick_Ross