Visiting my biological dad in prison.

[@HopeNelson-qx5xz]

As a child who was separated from her birth parents because they didn't make wise choices and have been in and out of jail. this was pretty emotional for me. I'm pretty young and I live with my adopted parents, it hits hard when I hear other people's parents have been in jail I can relate. I know what ur dad did wasn't right, but im so glad ur giving him a chance to change and let him see u. I honestly still need to work on forgiving my birth parents. I'm thankful for people like u, u are an inspiration to me. thank u.

[@thehilariousashantijohnson416]

Yeah same I don’t know my birth dad or mom. I’m adopted with my 10 bio siblings

[@thehilariousashantijohnson416]

My birth parents also been in and out of Jail to

[@RKMWYO]

There is no ❤ judgement. There is no way that you, Lizzy and Cody are responsible for your father’s actions. He is your father and you all wouldn’t be here if it weren’t for him and your mom. Forgiveness is a blessing for you and your father. He made a terrible decision in what he did, what led up to it, and he is paying for that. It doesn’t change the situation, nothing can but I am proud of you for making the step to reconnect with him. You have to do what you feel is right, may your time with him continue to bring you all peace and happiness. It most certainly can’t have been easy. You all are amazing and you have become a beautiful young woman and mother!❤

[@thebestwillow]

I hope you girls aren't feeling guilty about what he goes through in prison. Whatever the circumstances of his unaliving someone incident, or anything else, you aren't responsible for anything in his life.

[@BetteDavis19]

exactly

[@TWR1988]

Absolutely; he is his own person. We all have our own choices, all of us make mistakes; some much bigger than others. Hopefully he gets himself sorted out (therapy/ anger management). No one really sets out to Unalive someone, it’s just scary how fragile life is. 😔 Unresolved anger is dangerous.

[@charlottestevens9352]

I no what he did is bad but accidents do happen he didn't wake up intending to become a killer they can care about him

[@karendotson2594]

Lacey you’re beautiful.

[@Sarah62071]

In my opinion Abby and Julie shouldn’t have been there in the first place.

[@dakota7314]

Lizzie is a GEM, thank you so much for being responsible and looking at the road. Too many YTers out there filming while driving and taking their eyes off the road way too long for my taste.

[@Dragonfly31133]

Lacey, people F-Up some worse than others. My son is in federal prison right now. So I understand all that you’re saying and even some of what you’re feeling. It’s scary to even share. I’m so proud of both of you for going and visiting him. I can’t thank you enough for sharing. Love you and Lizzy both💞 Never be ashamed of others mistakes. It’s not our job to judge others it’s Gods. I constantly have to remind myself of that💞

[@dsnorcalfan]

do u mind sharing what he did

[@tammycoppola270]

My son is on Federal prison o feel for you

[@nedaword1]

Mine is going also. I feel for you also.

[@larryralston1038]

You girls took a huge step with this one! Bless you both for accepting your bio dad and understanding who he is and where he is and why! I wish you guys only the best in the future!. Forgiveness is a huge part of life and understand, forgiving someone does not mean they are innocent or their past actions can be forgotten. You ladies can learn from this and you can build a bond with your bio dad. Again, forgiveness doesn't mean that you condone their actions, forgiveness is understanding their actions and the cause of their actions. God bless you both and prayers for a bright future!

[@sjack4056]

This shows such maturity Lacey. I am so glad for you!!

[@cinramirez8627]

I’m so glad that you ladies took the first step to have a relationship/visit your bio Dad. Prison is no place to be. I’m sure his heart was full to see you girls again.

[@Gorangers999]

Lacey, I’m so glad you decided to share this. It’s so real and authentic and is clearly helping others ❤

[@tamaradargusch5413]

Hay Lacy, My father abandoned me when I was 12 and I have held on to a lot of hurt and anger for so many years. Even though I know my dad doesn’t want a relationship with me you have inspired me to try and let go of the hurt and try to forgive him. If you can forgive your dad with everything that has happened then I think I should be able to. Really appreciate that you shared this very private information. Sending love ❤️ your way

[@debbiespear7151]

I really hope you can get some peace from all the hurt and anger you have had to endure.. bless you xx

[@lindageorge6174]

Lizzie looks so grown up! 💞

[@susanreed9173]

Forgiveness is for ourselves. It releases us from so much. Sending peace and strength to you! 💜

[@tamaradargusch5413]

@@susanreed9173 thankyou ❤️

[@tamaradargusch5413]

@@debbiespear7151 thankyou

[@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname]

It’s nothing wrong with keeping things private from the internet sometimes it’s better for yourself. It’s about healing and growing and letting go and it’s your guys story your road. Sending hugs from Texas

[@SusieQ2389]

So mature of both of you for taking the necessary steps to find your dad and forgiving him. May you have many more visits with him in the coming years!

[@marlenemiller3285]

Lacey, I am so proud of you for sharing this. I, myself did prison time in California for the same crime as your dad. I got out 9 years ago. That was after serving 20 years. You are strong woman and will achieve everything you set your mind to. Forgiveness is a huge step. Continue on this wonderful journey. I love watching your posts and even though I'm 56 years old, I learn from you. ❤❤❤

[@kaseylongworth1505]

Do you mind sharing how the person died? No hard feelings

[@lucyrubin4301]

i don’t think that’s very appropriate to ask u don’t know this person

[@marlenemiller3285]

Thank you Lucy. That was pretty nosey of that person to ask.

[@kaseylongworth1505]

@@lucyrubin4301 you’re very rude

[@kaseylongworth1505]

@@marlenemiller3285 and you aren’t nice to bully me

[@MrsSherylWeaver]

You're doing great Lacey!! You and Lizzy have grow into such compassionate adult!!! G-D Bless You both!!❤❤❤❤

[@tiffo2022]

As someone who has visited family in prison, it does get easier for the checking and such! But it doesn’t get easier knowing you have to leave them even if you never had a great relationship. What he did, or didn’t do doesn’t need your forgiveness, it needs to be shared and talked through between the parties it happened with, that way you can choose to forget, or forgive and forget. What happened isn’t on you, and forgiving him is a good thing. And yes forgiveness does not mean that they have to be in their life! I’m glad you’ve shared this!!

[@brookejackson2663]

I think it’s really brave of you and Lizzie to visit your bio dad after all these years and start to have a relationship with him ❤

[@Kaysteele1]

I’m so proud of you, as a fellow foster child forgiveness is super hard. I’m working through my grief and letting go as well

[@kezrave2982]

You look so peaceful and self-assured in this video (the after the visit part). It warms my heart to see you and Lizzie on the healing road. Forgiveness is a huge thing, and it does not come easily, so you two are legends and you will be rewarded with more contentment in your life because of it. I really admire your strength ❤

[@jalaluddinahmadshaharudin1106]

You are beaming with light. You gave your dad the greatest gift, something worth living for.

[@marthaeakins2096]

It’s amazing to see your growth and maturity through all of the obstacles that have been put in your journey. Congratulations on being an awesome adult and mother and sister and daughter. You are a great influence for your younger siblings and your daughter.

[@MissyDcherrydaisypie25]

I’m so proud of the two of you having visited my sister who was incarcerated I know how it’s a whole process . Praying for both of you

[@sharongaymcleod3708]

I personally think that you n Lizzie have given him the best gift; having you two back in his life. Even though he may never get out, he has something positive to look at.

[@sandi.huskisson]

Thank you for giving us this insight, kudos to you Lacey and Lizzy, must have been special❤️🇿🇦❤️

[@kosipova01]

That’s so wonderful that you got to visit your dad and to reconnect with him ❤ thanks for sharing your story!

[@drworm7432]

So mature of you to not only develop a relationship with your dad but to wait and see how it goes, and share it with us! You deserve so much. Love the forgiveness and letting go.

[@karentillotson9772]

Love that you have shared this video. So proud of you on many levels. Prayers for continued healing and positivity in your life. ❤

[@DocnMrsMichalowicz]

Great video Lacey. I am so happy that you were able to reconnect with your bio dad. And of course that you are letting go of negativity and grudges. You know, the human heart is like the ocean. It has an endless capacity to love. The more you let go, the bigger your ability to love will be. And ….hey, the more the merrier!

[@oneearedmusician]

I remember visiting my dad when he was in prison for a serious crime. I won't say what,but he's been out now and my mother accepted him over my sister and I. It took me over 20 years to forgive my parents. And I'm still going through it. But yes ,forgiving someone is such a great part of healing. I don't have much contact with my dad and I talk to my mother on the phone. My sister passed away last year at 46. She always wanted our family to have some sort of communication. There is a light at the end of this tunnel. But remember, itsokay to be angry and have all of those feelings. It does help with the healing process too. Thank you for sharing your story! ❤

[@cr8114]

for wht crime he went to prison

[@anarhlia]

That’s really rough. I’m sure it’s something that takes a life time to heal from ❤❤❤❤

[@RealLifeCrimeCases]

I don't know why people feel the need to ask what someone did. I get being curious but I feel its stepping over the line and just rude to ask. if they wanted us to know they would say it in their comment.

[@girlfromsouth214]

You and Lizzie have great compassion and strength. I am proud of you. This decision was yours alone to make. I hope the experience of visiting your dad together makes the sweet bond you two share even deeper. And, I hope visiting him provided you both with a sense of peace. And, on a total aside, you both look beautiful in this video.... glowing. It is the beauty that comes from strength and wisdom.

[@bonnies3882]

I’m really proud of you. Because this isn’t easy. Forgive someone for yourself and not for anyone else or that person.

[@MrsSammieV]

I am glad you were able to forgive and even visit your bio Dad. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@Lunar-Sama]

Forgiveness goes a long way in a lot of ways I'm 47 years old and I still have a lot of forgiveness to hand out your a very blessed young lady

[@gracebleekman2557]

I’m so sorry that you have to go through this Lacey. But you got this.

[@cindyswizz57]

I’m so proud of you two. Do what is best for you and take things at the pace you need to. Healing will come - one step at a time ❤️

[@annamitchell9229]

Hey, I'm so pleased for you and Lizzie. In awe of your emotional maturity and its so great to see you putting your happiness first.

[@Djscartoonuniverse]

Hey Lacey I’m happy that you felt comfortable sharing this with us because it is very personal and we as your audience aren’t in way entitled to everything we have to know that you have your limits and I know myself putting something out there can be very hard because you never know what people will think and that is scary because it’s a part of you that you don’t know if people will accept.

[@tayfotos]

So proud of you both going to see your dad! Must’ve been a huge hard step for you both. ❤

[@lauraksiazek9796]

Thanks for sharing something so personal and painful for you to go through. You are a strong woman. ❤

[@BBaby1111]

No judgement almost everyone watching either knows or has done something in their life that they aren’t proud of. Love and prayers for this journey, you girls are so strong. Thank you for sharing and being real.

[@nancyvitkovich1189]

I’m so proud of you and Lizzie for stepping up and wanting to form a new relationship with your past! Blessings….

[@amywaterson5626]

Wow Lacey I’m so proud of you for sharing this story. It really has made me think that I should start forgiving people in my life. So thank you and well done.

[@HBSTACY]

That’s a lot Lacey and Lizzy! I’m so happy that you got to visit with your Dad. Lots of love!💕

[@lesliesheppard6112]

I remember you talking about him once a long time ago on your moms channel. I’m glad you’re feeling better about the situation and I hope you find all the hope, happiness and healing you are looking for.

[@laycee.7]

This was so mature of you to open up about this, don’t worry about judgment, you should be proud of yourself!

[@amiebaker7484]

Thank you Lacey for sharing this it took alot of courage to share this with the world! ❤

[@SuperDukesMom]

So proud of you for processing your forgiveness! It's a HUGE part of moving forward and living a full happy life!!!! So proud of both of you!!!! ❤

[@brittneymiller554]

all these feelings are very valid and this is such a vulnerable thing to share with us. forgiveness can be hard but when it happens it takes a big weight off. i’m proud of you both for taking this step and finding the ability to forgive. ❤

[@carlimoncher8043]

Lacey, this video made me tear up at several points. I spent one month in prison several years ago. Because of how long by the intake process was, I wasn’t able to have any visitors or phone calls during that time. Also no commissary (no snacks or toiletries and no stamps to send letters). It was so incredibly hard not having any contact with any of my family. I can only try to imagine how much your forgiveness and newfound relationships have meant to your bio father. Thank you so much for sharing this!

[@christinem9280]

I am so proud of you and Lizzy for being so brave to go see your dad! Its really hard sometimes to know what they've done and go see them but glad it went well!!

[@jjellybelmo4]

It's good to connect to your roots. I'm sure if he's been there a long time, your visits and calls mean a lot more to him than you think. No matter what though, do what feels ok to you.

[@Camilla.x]

Thank you SO much for sharing this big moment with us❤️ I am so happy that you went to visit your dad! ❤️❤️

[@klmn14658]

I'm so proud of you & Lizzy! I know it had to be an emotional struggle. Keep that feeling of peace & joy & remember how happy you made your dad feel. You girls are amazing & stronger than you'll ever know. Major love & smiles xoxo

[@linnyloo256]

I admire you and Lizzie so much for making this video. You really have become such mature loving responsible person .I wish you and Bexley nothing but the best .

[@kimwright6248]

Lacey and Lizzy that was a huge step you both took! It had to be the hardest decision to make the trip to the prison to see your bio dad! Forgiveness is a hard thing to do.! ❤❤❤

[@lynnmorones7428]

You are so wise for such a young age. Proud of you. You do what's best for you and don't worry about what anyone else thinks. ❤

[@renanims6630]

What a fantastic video, Lacey!!! Thank you for sharing part of your story! Is Cody ready to see your bio dad, or not? I’m a firm believer once someone has served their time, completed parole, etc. their conviction records need to be expunged & not discriminated against re: housing or employment. Big hugs!!!🥰

[@nanaofsix31]

You are amazing! Your parents mistakes are not yours. You are your own person. And you have the knowledge of the bad in life and the good thru your experiences. You choose your way. So happy for you and Liz to get the questions answered that have been floating around your mind. I sure he is now proud of the beautiful young ladies you both have become. And you have the best understanding parents you could ever ask for.

[@liannmayorga1294]

Chills. The way she’s had a crazy life journey and faced a really important part of her life, the ending conclusion of the video was so beautiful and inspiring ❤

[@nancyconca9892]

Lacey and Lizzie it is so mature of you 2 to try to reconnect and develop a relationship with your dad after so many years 👏🏻 Forgiving someone for previous bad behavior is not forgetting that they did it‼️ If you can learn to forgive it will hopefully help you both to release pent up anger, pain, and negative feelings that you have been holding in. I hope that this experience will have been freeing and a relief for both of you ❤❤❤

[@annbarber9896]

Lacy AND Lizzie it’s so great to see both of you growing and healing ! ❤

[@tammyrosander9138]

YOU LOOK AMAZING. I feel that the stress anger has lifted. I really visually see a difference. . God Bless you both. Did he see pictures of his granddaughter? I bet that was amazing for him to see. My prayers are with you both! Love from Iowa!🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@prettygeorgialady1249]

That took courage to share your story. Thank you for having the heart to see your father despite his poor decisions. We all make mistakes. You are beautiful young ladies. Thank you for sharing kindness.

[@michellebrooks424]

Hello Lacey thank you for taking the time to share your life it is always so nice to see you and Lizzy together I appreciate you sharing your lives thank you again

[@Little1Nz72]

Lacey, I want to say a huge thank you, not only for being so valuable on social media but to thank you for helping me let go from alot of anger towards my mother. We haven't spoken in a very long time, and I have kept alot of anger of the mother I never had in my life. I'm hurt at what she said and did to my sisters and my neice and her trying to take the death of our father to her advantage. I will never have a relationship with my mother, you have such a close bond with your mum that I envy. But thank you for doing this vlog about your dad, you and lizzy are awesome women and love you guys so much ❤

[@cherylbrunner9404]

Proud of u both.Ive visited my stepson and everyone needs hope.

[@chrissy4282]

First of all, this may sound like a backhanded compliment at first, but read it in the purest of intention... you have matured soooooooooo much, and I just love who you are as an adult. I'm sure motherhood has contributed to that, but I am seriously so impressed with the maturity displayed in this raw, real life, personal video. I won't pretend to understand, but love the grace and forgiveness that you and Lizzy are extending in this journey. Thanks for sharing. ❤

[@krystalmiller6638]

❤❤ so proud of you girl!! You are such a wonderful role model for your daughter, and we have watched you grow so much. . All the love to you!! ❤

[@thebestwillow]

You should be super proud of yourselves for visiting him, because it's super brave. It sounds like you've had a very healing year. It was really wise to go together that first time, and to be watching out for him potentially using you for money, as much as it sucks that it's prudent to do that, it is prudent. I'm glad so far things are going well.

[@Bippity_Boppity_Boo]

It takes a lot to open up about your past and I’m so proud of you both you and Lizzie for being so open about your situation. I’m a lot older than you and I can admit that I still am so angry about my situation and what I have not done to try and repair some off those inner demons. Instead I just push it to the side until it’s too late. You can stand with your head held high as you have push through that pain. Sending love and hope

[@Banyo__]

I absolutely love that you have been this real and honest. This wouldn't be an easy situation for anyone to deal with, let alone to share publicly on the internet. I'm so glad you waited to see how things would go as well because you just really never know. We can't chose our parents, we can't make them be the parents we wish they would, but you can control how you feel and act and move forward with your life. I hope that your dad is able to see what wonderful mature young women you two have become, and I wish you all the best. Thank you for sharing.

[@uniqueartbylaura]

Your speech at the end got me cry. Very mature. 👏😊

[@mallorym.]

Jared and Shelly raised you so well. Your family is very special! 🩵

[@marievazquez8728]

I’m struggling right now with forgiving someone and you are helping me now, thank you!

[@savannahhuff8773]

Forgiveness is such a powerful thing. You are so smart and wise Lacey. I am so proud of you. Thank you for sharing. ♥️

[@lindacurtis1872]

WOW Lacey this video was absolutely awesome. If this video helps one person you have done a good job. Great job on healing

[@michellebarron8961]

thanks for sharing your story Lacey .... love how you forgive your dad ❤

[@michelehumann811]

Thank you for sharing Lacey, I'm so proud of you

[@dakota7314]

Lacey THANK YOU ❤ for sharing your stories. You are such a strong person.

[@alisonchristian6351]

Absolutely no judgement, my sister was unalived by someone she loved and trusted he left her in the cold and dark to rot with the elements, we have never had justice for what happened to her, our local police screwed up her case the local hospital (she had mental health issues) contributed to her death, but I'm slowly learning to move on. You are a strong brave person and to be able to forgive someone for their mistakes and the things they did to hurt you in any way shape or form is the most loving and godly thing you can ever do. It frees your heart and shows what a good person you are. Your amazing don't ever change. ❤ all the way from Ireland

[@michellebrooks424]

Lacey I appreciate you and your videos I wish I had a friend like you your amazing thank you again for sharing your life ❤❤❤❤

[@eddiewright6078]

Wow Lacey, I’m so proud of the both of you . Forgiveness isn’t always easy as in your case and it takes time to remove the hurt. But I believe you’re on the right track . So good to see you and Lizzy together I pray this works out for you ladies and thank you for sharing this part of your lives I know it must be difficult. I pray for guidance and strength for the both of you .

[@littlelorib7980]

I'm so proud of you girls ,this is probably gonna be the best thing that's happened to your dad 😊,it's a big step forward ❤ im much older then you but my sister killed my dad in 2001 ,i never thought id talk to her again but when she got out of prison,i had no choice as she was sick an dying of her drug use ,an needed me to watch her as her son went to work ,but it got easier.my story thought id share

[@lauradauer2024]

There is no judgment! You are one strong woman. You are so right letting go, forgiving really does help you to be happy. You will have negative comments delete them and don't read em. Your face is glowing (healthy), you truly have worked on yourself this past year. You are amazing, strong and confident! Love you❤

[@LindaBrown-ns8om]

You girls are awesome, even if you don't pursue this relationship at further, I'm happy for you to have wanted at least one visit. It's hard to visit anyone in prison let alone a person you really don't even know. It's natural to feel all the emotions you may experience. Just remember to do any visits for yourselves and your own emotional being. Love yas.

[@marlenelehano4996]

I am so happy that u, Lacey n ur sister, Lizzie got the chance to visit ur dad. No one is perfect n many people make poor choices every now n then. But, for those who are in prison ( n isn’t in prison for something very, extremely dangerous ) does deserve to receive letters/visitations. I just pray 🙏 in ur dad’s case n many others case, that they’ll realize wat they have done wrong while being incarcerated n if they ever get a second or third chance in life to make things right, they will come out to society n focus on staying strong n positive individuals. Blessings to all… Aloha from Hawaii 💙💜

[@oliviadavey5128]

Hi Lacey, I feel like this video came at just the right time for me. I’m about to go visit my boyfriend who is in jail right now. I totally understand what you’re feeling. ❤️ keep your head up.

[@juliereeves9950]

This is such a huge thing to do. You and Lizzy have made such an amazing step toward healing and growing. I am so happy for you both. I hope you share more as you are able to visit and get to know him. I am sending hugs through the universe. ❤❤❤

[@deborahmarrone763]

I love this video Lacy and love your example and strength. Thank you for being so brave!

[@Sneg404]

The ending of this video made me cry. Lacey, you are such a beautiful person and thank you so much for sharing such a personal part of your life with us. I am so happy to hear you are doing better with all you describe and this is so relatable. There are definitely people who need to hear your message about forgiveness and happiness and I am one of them. Thank you!

[@beverlyfasig155]

You sound grounded and understanding. Such a good step forward!

[@lynnkoontz7840]

You guys turned into such wonderful, mature and caring adults. I'm proud of you both (even though I only know you from your videos). God bless you and your family

[@hopemags9642]

No judgement Lacey, follow your heart and intuition ❤ Congratulations on your upcoming move

[@jamiecountway7576]

I am so proud of you for forgiving him. And getting to know him before going and visiting him. I am so happy for you guys that the visit went good.

[@momsierose_ng_bayan]

I applaud you from sharing something too personal. It's never easy. This would be good thing to do to start the process of healing. Thanks for sharing. Much love from the Philippines. 😊🇵🇭🫶❤️🙏

[@tats4ever]

You two are amazing! Everyone needs to know someone cares about them. People make mistakes. Forgiveness is difficult but will help everyone.

[@maceykintigh8601]

I am very proud of you and Lizzy for sharing this, keep moving forward with your forgivness. Be careful.

[@nan25girls]

A lot of good advice shared here!! God bless you and Lizzy both!!

[@charlotte9631]

Lacy, i got teary eyed. I can feel what you are going thru the love and hate mixed feeling. Yes, time heal all wounds. Take Care. Be strong. by now he maybe has been remorseful of what he had done.

[@Mariana10190]

Thank you for being open and sharing I totally agree i think you have to let go of the grudges and things that make you angry in order to be happy♥️

[@Pj-bh3fy]

Thank you for sharing. That’s a huge thing to go through and I think everyone has a right to share their side of the story.